关于爱情的精彩格言
1. 爱情不是寻找共同点，而是学会尊重差异。 Love is not about finding similarities, but learning to respect differences. 2. 真正的爱情不仅仅是心动，更是心定。 True love is not just about being infatuated, but also about having peace of mind. 3. 爱情是一场旅行，即使路途坎坷，也要携手同行。 Love is a journey, and even if the road is rough, we should walk hand in hand. 4. 爱是生命的火焰，没有它，一切都将变得寒冷。 Love is the flame of life, without it, everything becomes cold. 5. 爱情不是占有，而是欣赏对方的美好。 Love is not about possession, but about appreciating the beauty of the other person. 6. 爱情是一场战斗，需要勇气、智慧和耐心。 Love is a battle, requiring courage, wisdom, and patience. 7. 爱情是一种力量，它能让我们超越自己，成为更好的人。 Love is a power that allows us to surpass ourselves and become better people. 8. 爱是相互理解，相互支持，共同成长。 Love is mutual understanding, support, and growth. 9. 爱情是一场梦，但我们需要努力让它成为现实。 Love is a dream, but we need to work hard to make it a reality. 10. 爱是无私的奉献，它不求回报，只求给予。 Love is selfless dedication, it asks for no return, only to give.
初恋都让人难忘，觉得美好。为什么？不是因为他（她）很漂亮或很帅，也不是因为得不到的就是好的，而是因为人初涉爱河时心里异常纯真，绝无私心杂念，只知道倾己所有去爱对方。而以后的爱情都没有这么纯洁无瑕了。纯真是人世间最为可贵的东西。我们渴求的就是她。
1. First love is unforgettable and beautiful. It’s not because he/she is pretty or handsome, nor because what we can’t get is always the best, but because when people first fall in love, their hearts are exceptionally pure, with no ulterior motives, only knowing how to give everything they have to love the other person. In later love, there is no such purity and flawlessness. Innocence is the most precious thing in the world, and that’s what we long for.

初恋的人大多都不懂爱，所以初恋失败的多。成功的少。结婚应该找个未婚的，因为谁都喜欢原装。而恋爱，还是找个恋爱过的人才好。因为经历过恋爱的人才知道什么是爱，怎么去爱。
2. Most people who experience first love don’t know about love, so there are more failures and fewer successes in first love. It’s better to marry someone who has never been married, because everyone likes the original. However, it’s better to date someone who has been in love before, because only those who have experienced love know what love is and how to love.

男人有钱就变坏，是的，很多男人这样，不过，一有钱就变坏的男人就算没钱，也好不到哪里去。
3. Men become bad when they have money, yes, many men do, but those who become bad when they have money wouldn’t be much better even without money.

你爱他吗？爱就告诉他，何必把思念之苦藏在心底深处。怕样子，地位，身份不相配？别怕，爱一个人是美好的。
4. Do you love him? If you do, tell him, why hide the pain of longing deep in your heart? Are you afraid that appearances, status, and identity don’t match? Don’t be afraid, loving someone is beautiful.

老婆和老妈掉进了河里，我先救老妈，因为是老妈给了我生命，我找不到任何理由丢下她不管。老婆如果没救上来，我可以再给她陪葬，在墓里继续我们的爱情。
5. If my wife and mother fell into the river, I would save my mother first, because she gave me life, and I can’t find any reason to leave her behind. If my wife couldn’t be saved, I could be buried with her and continue our love in the tomb.

草率地结了婚已经是错了，再也不要草率地去离婚。先试试看，真的不行再离也不迟。
6. Marrying hastily is already a mistake, so don’t divorce hastily again. Try it first, and if it really doesn’t work, then divorce is not too late.

经常听说男人味女人味，你知道男人味是一种什么味道，女人味又是一种什么味道吗？男人味就是豁达勇敢，女人味就是温柔体贴。
7. I often hear about masculinity and femininity. Do you know what kind of smell masculinity is, and what kind of smell femininity is? Masculinity is open-minded and brave, while femininity is gentle and considerate.

魅力是什么？魅力不是漂亮，漂亮的女人不一定能吸引我，端庄幽雅的女人我才喜欢。所以你不用担心自己不够漂亮。
8. What is charm? Charm is not about being beautiful. Beautiful women may not necessarily attract me; I prefer women who are dignified and elegant. So you don’t have to worry about not being beautiful enough.

都说婚姻是爱情的坟墓，那是因为婚前已经往去坟墓的路上走着。就算不结婚也会在坟墓前分手。为什么不先分手就一头钻进坟墓呢？
9. It is said that marriage is the grave of love, and that’s because before marriage, we are already on the way to the grave. Even if we don’t get married, we would break up in front of the grave. Why not break up first and then dive into the grave?

女人要学会扮靓自己，不要拿朴素来做挡箭牌，不要拿家务做借口，不懂时尚，你就不是一个完整的女人。
10. Women should learn to dress up, don’t use simplicity as an excuse, and don’t use housework as an excuse. If you don’t understand fashion, you are not a complete woman.

恋爱的时间能长尽量长。这最少有两点好处：一，充分，尽可能长的享受恋爱的愉悦，婚姻和恋爱的感觉是很不同的。二，两人相处时间越长，越能检验彼此是否真心，越能看出两人性格是否合得来。这样婚后的感情就会牢固得多。
11. The longer the time of love, the better. This has at least two benefits: First, enjoy the pleasure of love for as long as possible, as the feelings of marriage and love are very different. Second, the longer the two people get along, the more they can test each other’s sincerity and whether their personalities are compatible. In this way, the emotional relationship after marriage will be much more solid.

男人不坏，女人不爱，这坏不是指心肠狠毒，自私无情什么的。而是指油嘴滑舌，花言巧语。一般的好男人以为说情话是油嘴滑舌，轻浮肉麻的表现，所以不愿去做。对别人这样说是不对，可是对自己老婆，就要油嘴滑舌一点。为什么不能做个心好嘴滑的男人呢？
12. Men are not bad, women don’t love. This “bad” doesn’t mean having a cruel heart or being selfish and heartless. It refers to being glib and flattering. Ordinary good men think that saying love words is a glib and frivolous expression, so they are unwilling to do it. It’s wrong to say this to others, but for your own wife, you should be glib and flattering. Why not be a good-hearted and glib man?

只会读书的女人是一本字典，再好人们也只会在需要的时候去翻看一下，只会扮靓的女人只是一具花瓶，看久了也就那样。服饰美容是做好一个女人的必要条件，不是充要条件。你还需要多看书。这样你会发现生活更加美好。
13. A woman who only knows how to read is like a dictionary; even if it’s good, people will only flip through it when they need to. A woman who only knows how to dress up is just a flower vase; after looking at it for a long time, it’s just like that. Clothing and beauty are necessary conditions for being a good woman, but not sufficient conditions. You also need to read more books. In this way, you will find life more beautiful.

平平淡淡才是真，没错，可那应该是激情过后的平淡，然后再起激情，再有平淡。激情平淡应呈波浪形交替出现。光有平淡无激情的生活有什么意思？只要你真心爱他，到死你也会有激情的。
1. Plain is true, yes, but that should be the plain after passion, and then passion arises again, followed by plain. Passion and plain should alternate in a wave-like pattern. What’s the point of a life with only plain and no passion? As long as you truly love him, you will have passion until death.

真爱一个人，就要尽量让他开心，他开心了你就会开心，那么双方就有激情了。
2. To truly love someone, try your best to make him happy. If he is happy, you will be happy, and then both of you will have passion.

不要因为自己长相不如对方而放弃追求的打算，长相只是一时的印象，真正决定能否结合主要取决于双方的性格。我见过的帅哥配丑女，丑女配帅哥的太多了。
3. Don’t give up on pursuing someone just because you think your looks don’t match up. Appearances are only a first impression; compatibility in character is what truly determines whether two people can be together. I’ve seen too many handsome men with unattractive women and vice versa.
智慧洒脱的爱情格言
4. A wise and carefree love motto:
追求和渴望，才有快乐，也有沮丧和失望。经过了沮丧和失望，我们才学会珍惜。你曾经不被人所爱，你才会珍惜将来那个爱你的人。
5. Pursuit and longing bring happiness, as well as depression and disappointment. It is through experiencing depression and disappointment that we learn to cherish. If you have not been loved by someone before, you will cherish the one who loves you in the future.

如果情感和岁月也能轻轻撕碎，扔到海中，那么，我愿意从此就在海底沉默。你的言语，我爱听，却不懂得，我的沉默，你愿见，却不明白。
6. If emotions and years could be torn apart and thrown into the sea, I would be willing to be silent at the bottom of the ocean from now on. I love listening to your words but don’t understand; you may see my silence but don’t comprehend.

就不会思念你，我就不会妒忌你身边的异性，我也不会失去自信心和斗志，我更不会痛苦。如果我能够不爱你，那该多好。
7. If I didn’t love you, I wouldn’t miss you, be jealous of the opposite sex around you, lose my confidence and fighting spirit, or suffer. How great it would be if I could stop loving you.

爱火，还是不应该重燃的，重燃了，从前那些美丽的回忆，也会化为乌有。如果我们没有重聚，也许我僣带着他深深的思念洽着，直到肉体衰朽；可是，这一刻，我却恨他。所有的美好日子，已经远远一去不回了。
8. The love flame should not be rekindled, for if it is, those beautiful memories from the past will vanish. If we hadn’t reunited, perhaps I would have lived with his deep longing until my body withered away; but at this moment, I hate him. All the beautiful days are gone forever.

爱情本来并不复杂，来来去去不过三个字，不是我爱你，我恨你，便是算了吧。你好吗？对不起。我把花贴满了整个房间，却只有朵，于是将自己的心雕成最后一朵。上帝问我：苦命的孩子，你要用生命换取什么？我说：我要我爱的人永远幸福。
9. Love is not complicated; it comes and goes in just three words: “I love you,” “I hate you,” or “forget it.” “How are you?” “I’m sorry.” I covered the entire room with flowers, but there was only one left, so I carved my heart into the last one. God asked me: “Poor child, what would you trade your life for?” I said: “I want the person I love to be forever happy.”

爱情使人忘记时间，时间也使人忘记爱情。
10. Love makes us forget time, and time also makes us forget love.

孤单不是与生俱来，而是由你爱上一个人的那一刻开始。
11. Loneliness is not innate; it begins the moment you fall in love with someone.

纵然伤心，也不要愁眉不展，因为你不知是谁会爱上你的笑容。
12. Even if you’re sad, don’t frown, because you never know who might fall in love with your smile.

放爱一条生路吧！爱，一半是付出，一半是成全。
13. Let love go! Love is half giving, half fulfilling.

真爱，深入骨髓！不用山盟海誓，无需浪漫鲜花，默默无语，它已驻进你我的灵魂。王子公主的爱情不够现实，金钱名利的爱情不会持久，唯有心灵深处的关爱，才是平凡人的爱情——一个眼神，一个微笑，一个吻。
14. True love penetrates to the marrow! No need for grand promises or romantic flowers; silently, it has already taken root in our souls. The love of princes and princesses is not realistic; the love of money and fame won’t last. Only the care from the depths of our hearts is the love of ordinary people – a glance, a smile, a kiss.

有人说过，当你想念一个人的时候，抬头看看月亮，如果月亮变成了兰色，那代表你想念的那个人也在想你。每天我都能盼月亮变成兰色。
15. Someone once said that when you miss someone, look up at the moon; if it turns blue, it means the person you miss is also thinking of you. Every day, I hope the moon turns blue.

世上本无沙，我想你一次天上就落下一颗沙，最后就有了撒哈拉。
16. There was no sand in the world originally; every time I think of you, a grain of sand falls from the sky, and eventually, there is the Sahara.

有句话说，喜欢一个人并不是要拥有他/她，可是我并不是这么想的，喜欢一个人不能拥有他我宁愿不要喜欢他，会花时间去忘他。
17. There is a saying that liking someone doesn’t mean you have to possess them, but I don’t agree. If I can’t have the person I like, I’d rather not like them at all and spend time forgetting them.

星星就是我凝望你的眼睛；微风就是我轻抚你的双手；牵挂的眼泪比星星明亮，相思的心情比微风轻柔！
18. The stars are my eyes gazing at you; the breeze is my hands gently touching you; my longing tears are brighter than the stars, and my yearning heart is softer than the breeze!

亲爱的，没有和我在一起的年过得好吗？你有没有抬头看看天空？那可爱的月亮有没有变成兰色？
Dear, did you have a good year without being with me? Did you look up at the sky? Has the lovely moon turned blue?

喜欢一个人，是不会有痛苦的。爱一个人，也许有绵长的痛苦，但他给我的快乐，也是世上最大的快乐。
1. Liking someone brings no pain, but loving someone may have enduring pain, yet the happiness they bring me is the greatest happiness in the world.

两个人一起是为了快乐，分手是为了减轻痛苦，你无法再令我快乐，我也唯有离开，我离开的时候，也很痛苦，只是，你肯定比我痛苦，因为我首先说再见，首先追求快乐的是我。
Being together is for happiness, and breaking up is to alleviate pain. You can no longer make me happy, so I have to leave. When I leave, it’s painful, but you must be more painful than me, because I say goodbye first and pursue happiness first.

对世界而言,你是一个人!对我而言,你是一个世界！
2. To the world, you are just one person. To me, you are a whole world!

爱情使人忘记时间，时间也使人忘记爱情。
Love makes people forget time, and time also makes people forget love.

孤单不是与生俱来，而是由你爱上一个人的那一刻开始。
3. Loneliness is not innate but starts from the moment you fall in love with someone.

纵然伤心，也不要愁眉不展，因为你不知是谁会爱上你的笑容。
Even if you are sad, don’t frown, because you never know who might fall in love with your smile.

爱，是牵挂着的辛苦；爱，是思念着的孤独；爱，是团聚时的欢乐；爱，是相拥着的幸福；爱，是彼此间默默的祝福；爱，是天长地久的守护。
4. Love is the hard work of caring; love is the loneliness of missing; love is the joy of reuniting; love is the happiness of embracing; love is the silent blessings between each other; love is the eternal protection.

随着时间渐渐淡去的，只是一些记忆。重温昨日的你我，感动依旧。或许忙碌的我们易受凡尘琐事的羁绊，别忘了闲暇时，用心数数那散落了一地的感动。陪你走一程，走过风风雨雨，走过春夏秋冬。在我的生命中，你已不是过客，因为，路有尽头，但爱无绝期。
As time passes, only some memories fade away. Revisiting our yesterdays, the emotions remain. Perhaps we are busy and easily entangled in trivial matters, but don’t forget to take the time to count the scattered moments of touching experiences. I accompany you on this journey, through all kinds of weather, through all seasons. In my life, you are no longer a passerby, because there is an end to the road, but love never ends.

深情是我担不起的重担，情话只是偶然兑现的谎言。
5. Deep affection is a heavy burden I cannot bear, and sweet words are just occasionally fulfilled lies.

失望，有时候也是一种幸福，因为有所期待所以才会失望。因为有爱，才会有期待，所以纵使失望，也是一种幸福，虽然这种幸福有点痛。世上最凄绝的距离是两个人本来距离很远，互不相识，忽然有一天，他们相识，相爱，距离变得很近。然后有一天,不再相爱了，本来很近的两个人，变得很远，甚至比以前更远。
Sometimes disappointment is also a kind of happiness, because there is expectation, so there is disappointment. Because there is love, there is expectation, so even if disappointed, it is a kind of happiness, although this happiness is a bit painful. The most desperate distance in the world is when two people are far apart, not knowing each other, and then one day they meet, fall in love, and become very close. Then one day, they no longer love each other, and the once close people become far apart, even farther than before.

凡事皆有代价，快乐的代价便是痛苦。
6. Everything has a price, and the price of happiness is pain.

开始的时侯，我们就知道，总会有终结。爱情还没有来到，日子是无忧无虑的；最痛苦的，也不过是测验和考试。当时觉得很大压力，后来回望，不过是多么的微小。
At the beginning, we knew there would be an end. Before love came, life was carefree; the most painful thing was just tests and exams. At that time, it felt like a great pressure, but looking back, it was so trivial.

有些人注定是等待别人的，有些人是注定被人等的。
7. Some people are destined to wait for others, and some people are destined to be waited for.

缘起缘灭，缘浓缘淡，不是我们能够控制的。我们能做到的，是在因缘际会的时侯好好的珍惜那短暂的时光。
Fate comes and goes, with varying intensity, beyond our control. What we can do is to cherish the brief moments when fate brings us together.

曾经相遇，总胜过从未碰头。
8. It’s better to have met than never to have met at all.

为什么要那么痛苦地忘记一个人，时间自然会使你忘记。如果时间不可以让你忘记不应该记住的人，我们失去的岁月又有甚么意义？
There’s no need to painfully forget someone; time will naturally make you forget. If time cannot help you forget those who should not be remembered, what meaning do our lost years have?

我以为爱情可以克服一切，谁知道她有时毫无力量。我以为爱情可以填满人生的遗憾，然而，制造更多遗憾的，却偏偏是爱情。阴晴圆缺，在一段爱情中不断重演。换一个人，都不会天色常蓝。爱情要完结的时候自会完结，到时候，你不想画上句号也不行。
9. I thought love could overcome everything, but sometimes it has no power at all. I thought love could fill the regrets of life, but it turns out that love creates more regrets. The ups and downs continue to replay in a relationship. Even if you change partners, the sky won’t always be blue. When love is meant to end, it will end, and you won’t be able to avoid putting a period at the end.

同一个人，是没法给你相同的痛苦的。当他重复地伤害你，那个伤口已经习惯了，感觉已经麻木了，无论在给他伤害多少次，也远远不如第一次受的伤那么痛了。
The same person cannot give you the same pain. When he repeatedly hurts you, the wound has already become accustomed to it, and the feeling has become numb. No matter how many more times he hurts you, it is far from being as painful as the first time. 1. The same person 2. cannot give you 3. the same pain. 4. When he repeatedly 5. hurts you, 6. the wound has already 7. become accustomed to it, 8. and the feeling 9. has become numb. 10. No matter how many more times 11. he hurts you, 12. it is far from being 13. as painful as 14. the first time.

爱情，原来是含笑饮毒酒。
Love, originally, is drinking poison with a smile. Please translate the above paragraph (original text) into corresponding English lines (i.e., translation), the translation should conform to English habits, and the translation should maintain the original sequence numbers, punctuation, and tags. Check: After translating the translation back into the original language, it should have the same meaning as the original text. If not, please re-translate without adding any additional explanations or descriptions, and only return the complete translation.
哲人大师的爱情名言
1. 爱情不是关于找到一个完美的人，而是学会以完美的眼光欣赏一个不完美的人。 Love is not about finding a perfect person, but learning to appreciate an imperfect person with a perfect perspective. 2. 真正的爱情是相互理解，相互尊重，相互支持，而不是试图改变对方。 True love is about mutual understanding, respect, and support, rather than trying to change each other. 3. 爱情就像一杯茶，需要慢慢品味，而不是急于一口气喝完。 Love is like a cup of tea, it needs to be savored slowly, rather than being gulped down in one breath. 4. 爱情是一场旅行，而不是一个目的地。我们要一起享受旅途中的风景，而不是仅仅关注终点。 Love is a journey, not a destination. We should enjoy the scenery along the way together, rather than just focusing on the end point. 5. 爱情需要信任、忠诚和诚实。没有这些基础，爱情就像一座建立在沙土上的城堡，随时可能崩塌。 Love requires trust, loyalty, and honesty. Without these foundations, love is like a castle built on sand, which can collapse at any time. 6. 爱情是两个人共同成长的过程，我们需要学会倾听、理解和包容，才能让爱情茁壮成长。 Love is a process of mutual growth, and we need to learn to listen, understand, and tolerate each other in order to let love thrive. 7. 爱情不是占有，而是欣赏。当你真正爱一个人时，你会为他们的幸福和成功感到高兴，而不是试图控制他们。 Love is not about possession, but appreciation. When you truly love someone, you will be happy for their happiness and success, rather than trying to control them. 8. 爱情是一场心灵的交流，只有当我们敞开心扉，才能感受到对方的温暖和关爱。 Love is a spiritual communication, and only when we open our hearts can we feel the warmth and care from the other person. 9. 爱情需要时间和耐心，不要期望一夜之间就能拥有完美的爱情。真正的爱情需要双方共同努力和经营。 Love requires time and patience, do not expect to have perfect love overnight. True love needs the joint efforts and management of both parties. 10. 爱情是一种力量，它能让我们在困难和挑战面前变得更加坚强。只要我们心中有爱，就没有什么是不可能的。 Love is a force that makes us stronger in the face of difficulties and challenges. As long as we have love in our hearts, nothing is impossible.
爱情是真实的，是持久的，是我们所知道的最甜也是最苦的东西。——夏洛蒂·勃朗特
1. Love is real, love is lasting, and it is the sweetest and bitterest thing we know. - Charlotte Bronte

爱情只在深刻的、神秘的直观世界中才能产生，才能存在。生儿育女不是爱情本身的事。——索洛维约夫
2. Love can only arise and exist in the profound, mysterious world of intuition. Procreation is not the business of love itself. - Soloviev

关于爱情，人们有许多定义：爱情是生活中的诗歌和太阳。——别林斯基
3. There are many definitions of love: Love is the poetry and the sun in life. - Belinsky

爱情是不按逻辑发展的，所以必须时时注意它的变化。爱情更不是永恒的，所以必须不断地追求。——柏杨
4. Love does not develop according to logic, so one must always pay attention to its changes. Love is not eternal, so one must constantly pursue it. - Bai Yang

当你真爱一个人的时候，你是会忘记自己的苦乐得失，而只是关心对方的苦乐得失的。——罗兰
5. When you truly love someone, you will forget your own joys and sorrows, gains and losses, and only care about the other person’s joys and sorrows, gains and losses. - Romain Rolland

爱情有如佛家的禅——不可说，不可说，一说就是错。——三毛
6. Love is like Zen in Buddhism - unspeakable, unspeakable, and once spoken, it is wrong. - San Mao

青年男子谁个不善钟情？妙龄女人谁个不善怀春？这是我们人性中的至神至圣。——歌德
7. Who among young men is not good at falling in love? Who among young women is not good at harboring spring? This is the most divine and sacred in our human nature. - Goethe

爱情确实有一种高尚的品质，因为它不只停留在性欲上，而且显出一种本身丰富的高尚优秀的心灵，要求以生动活泼，勇敢和牺牲的精神和另一个人达到统一。——黑格尔
8. Love indeed has a noble quality because it does not only停留在性欲上 (stop at sexual desire), but also shows a rich, noble, and excellent soul, demanding unity with another person in a lively, brave, and sacrificial spirit. - Hegel

爱本质上是给予而非获取。——弗洛姆
9. Love is essentially giving rather than receiving. - Fromm

真正的爱情能够鼓舞人，唤醒他内心沉睡着的力量和潜藏着的才能。——薄伽丘
10. True love can inspire people and awaken the dormant power and hidden talents within their hearts. - Boccaccio

爱情，你的话是我的食粮，你的气息是我的醇酒。——歌德
11. Love, your words are my food, your breath is my wine. - Goethe

爱情使人心的憧憬升华到至善之境。——但丁
12. Love sublimates the aspirations of the heart to the highest realm of goodness. - Dante

人只应当忘记自己而爱别人，这样才能安静、幸福和高尚。——列夫·托尔斯泰
13. One should only forget oneself and love others, so as to be peaceful, happy, and noble. - Leo Tolstoy

爱情里要是掺杂了和它本身无关的算计，那就不是真的爱情。——莎士比亚
14. If love is mixed with calculations unrelated to itself, then it is not true love. - Shakespeare

爱情是理解和体贴的别名。——泰戈尔
15. Love is synonymous with understanding and consideration. - Tagore

真正的爱，在放弃个人的幸福之后才能产生。——列夫·托尔斯泰
16. True love can only be produced after giving up one’s own happiness. - Leo Tolstoy

爱情是一位伟大的导师，她教我们重新做人。——莫里哀
17. Love is a great teacher; she teaches us to be reborn. - Moliere

真正的爱情像美丽的花朵，它开放的地面越是贫瘠，看来越格外的悦眼。——巴尔扎克
18. True love is like a beautiful flower, and the more barren the ground on which it blooms, the more delightful it appears. - Balzac

说到底，爱情就是一个人的自我价值在别人身上的反映。——爱默生
19. After all, love is the reflection of one’s self-worth in another person. - Emerson

了解爱情的人往往会因为爱情的升华而坚定他们向上的意志和进取精神。——培根
20. Those who understand love will often be strengthened in their upward will and enterprising spirit due to the sublimation of love. - Bacon

相信爱情，即使它给你带来悲哀也要相信爱情。——泰戈尔
Believe in love, even if it brings you sorrow. - Tagore

爱除自身外无施与，除自身外无接受。——纪伯伦
Love gives nothing but itself and takes nothing but itself. - Gibran

爱一个人意味着什么呢？这意味着为他的幸福而高兴，为使他能够更幸福而去做需要做的一切，并从这当中得到快乐。——车尔尼雪夫斯基
What does it mean to love someone? It means being happy for their happiness, doing everything needed to make them happier, and finding joy in it. - Chernyshevsky

当爱情轻敲肩膀时，连平日对诗情画意都不屑一顾的男人，都会变成诗人。——柏拉图
When love taps on the shoulder, even men who usually disdain poetry become poets. - Plato

婚姻的爱，使人类延续不绝；朋友的爱，使人类达到更完美的境界；淫邪的爱，则使人类败坏堕落。——爱默生
The love of marriage ensures the continuation of humanity; the love of friends leads humanity to a more perfect state; the love of lust leads humanity to corruption and decay. - Emerson

爱一个人就是指帮助他回到自己，使他更是他自己。——梅尔勒·塞恩
To love someone means helping them return to themselves, making them more of who they are. - Meller Sain

爱并不是谁为谁牺牲，谁为谁做什么，一旦爱变成这样，这就不是爱。——梅尔勒·塞恩
Love is not about sacrificing for someone or doing things for them; once love becomes like that, it is no longer love. - Meller Sain

爱是自然流溢出来的奉献。——今道友信
Love is a natural outpouring of devotion. - Nishida Amane
男人和女人之间的哲理
The philosophy between men and women
男人有钱就会变坏，是的，很多男人都那样，不过，一有钱变坏男人就算没钱有好不到哪里去。
Men become bad when they have money, yes, many men do, but those who become bad with money wouldn’t be much better without it.

天长地久有没有？当然有，为什么大多数人不相信有？因为他们没有找到人生旅途中最适合自己的那一个，也就是在冥冥中注定的那一个。为什么找不到？茫茫人海，人生如露。要找到那个最适合自己的谈何容易，或许你到了40岁时才找到上天注定的那一个，可是你能等到40岁吗？在20多岁时找不到，却不得不结婚，到三四十岁找到却不得不放弃。这就是人生的悲哀。
Does everlasting love exist? Of course, it does. Why don’t most people believe in it? Because they haven’t found the most suitable person for themselves in their life’s journey, the one destined for them. Why can’t they find it? The vast sea of people, a life as fleeting as dew. How easy is it to find the most suitable one? Perhaps you find the one destined by God at 40, but can you wait until 40? If you can’t find them in your 20s but have to get married, and find them in your 30s or 40s but have to give up, that is the sorrow of life.

学会理解欣赏的眼光去看对方，而不是以自以为是的关心去管对方。
Learn to look at each other with understanding and appreciation, instead of controlling them with self-righteous concern.

幼稚的人和幼稚的人在一起没什么问题，成熟的人和成熟的人在一起也没什么问题，成熟的人和幼稚的人在一起问题就多了。
There is no problem when immature people are together or mature people are together, but there are many problems when mature people and immature people are together.

有的女人恋爱时让男人宠着自己，结婚后仍然要老公百般宠着自己，却忘记做为一个女人应该做的份内之事。这样的女人不懂得爱情。
Some women let men pamper them when they are in love, and after marriage, they still want their husbands to pamper them in every way, forgetting the duties they should perform as a woman. Such women do not understand love.

成熟的人不问过去，聪明的人不问现在，豁达的人不问未来.不要因为寂寞去恋爱，时间是个魔鬼，天长日久，如果你是个多情的人，即使不爱对方，到时候也会产生感情，到最后你怎么办？
Mature people don’t ask about the past, smart people don’t ask about the present, and open-minded people don’t ask about the future. Don’t fall in love just because of loneliness; time is a demon. Over time, if you are an affectionate person, even if you don’t love the other person, you will eventually develop feelings for them. What will you do then?

不管多大多老，不管家人朋友怎么催，都不要随便对待婚姻，婚姻不是打牌，洗牌是要付出巨大代价的。
No matter how old you are or how much your family and friends urge you, don’t treat marriage casually. Marriage is not a card game; reshuffling comes at a great cost.

离婚率高至少反映了好坏不同的两点：好的一点是人们的观念已经趁向人性化，不在封建思想而禁捆自己，坏的一点是对与婚姻的轻率，没想好结什么婚？
A high divorce rate at least reflects two different points: the good point is that people’s concepts have become more humanized, no longer bound by feudal thoughts; the bad point is the recklessness towards marriage, not thinking carefully about why they get married.

只会读书的女人是一本字典，再好人们也只会在需要时去翻看一下，只会扮靓的女人是一具花瓶，看久了也就那样。服饰美容是做好一个女人的必要条件，不是充要条件。你还需要多看书，这样你会发现生活更加美好。
A woman who only knows how to read is like a dictionary; even if she is great, people will only flip through her when needed. A woman who only knows how to dress up is like a vase; after looking for a while, she becomes just like any other. Clothing and beauty are necessary conditions for being a good woman, not sufficient conditions. You also need to read more books, and then you will find life more beautiful.

草率的结了婚已经是个错了，再也不要草率地去离婚。先试试看，真的不行在离也不迟。
Marrying hastily is already a mistake; don’t hastily get a divorce. Try first, and if it really doesn’t work out, then leave.

经常听说男人味女人味，你知道男人味是什么味道，女人味又是一种什么味道吗？男人味就是豁达勇敢，女人味就是体贴温柔。
1. Men’s flavor is open-minded and brave, while women’s flavor is considerate and gentle.

魅力是什么？魅力不是漂亮，漂亮的女人不一定能吸引人，端庄幽雅的女人有人才喜欢。所以你不用担心自己不够漂亮。
2. Charm is not about being beautiful. A beautiful woman may not necessarily be attractive. People are more likely to like a woman who is dignified and elegant. So don’t worry if you’re not pretty enough.

在要求对方是不是处女的时候，想想自己是不是处男，如果是，你可以，如果不是，你凭什么？
3. When asking if the other party is a virgin, think about whether you are a virgin too. If yes, you can; if not, why should you?

不要因为自己的长相不如对方而放弃追求的打算，长相只是一时的印象，真正决定能否结合主要取决与双放的性格，我见过帅哥配丑女，美女配丑男的太多了。
4. Don’t give up on pursuing someone just because you think your appearance is not as good as theirs. Appearance is just a first impression. What truly determines whether two people can be together mainly depends on their personalities. I’ve seen too many cases of handsome men with unattractive women and beautiful women with unattractive men.

和一个生活习惯有很多差异的人恋爱不要紧，结婚要慎重，想想你是否可以长久忍受彼此的不同。
5. It’s okay to date someone with different living habits, but be cautious about marrying them. Think about whether you can tolerate each other’s differences in the long run.

初恋是让人难忘，觉得美好。为什么？不是因为他/她很漂亮或很帅，也不是因为得不到就是好的，而是因为人初涉爱河时心理异常纯真，绝无私心杂念，只知道倾己所有去爱对方，而以后的爱情就没有这么纯洁无暇了。纯真是人世间最可贵的东西，我们可求的就是它。
6. First love is unforgettable and beautiful. Why? Not because he/she is very handsome or pretty, nor because what you can’t get is the best, but because people’s hearts are exceptionally pure when they first experience love, with no selfish thoughts or distractions, only knowing how to give their all to love the other person. In later love, there is no such purity. Purity is the most precious thing in the world, and that’s what we should seek.

初恋的人大多不懂爱，所以初恋失败的多，成功的少。
7. Most people who experience first love don’t understand love, so there are more failures and fewer successes in first love.
很有借鉴意义的爱情格言
8. Love proverbs with great reference value.
如果钱财是新娘，爱情很难持久。
9. If wealth is the bride, love is hard to last.

爱情是不能买卖的。
10. Love cannot be bought or sold.

乌云过后阳光更欢，不和之后爱情愈甜。
11. After dark clouds, the sun is happier; after disagreements, love is sweeter.

爱情能化陋室为宫殿。
12. Love can turn a shabby house into a palace.

爱情为钱，万恶之源。
13. Love for money is the source of all evil.

标了价的爱情是虚假的。
14. Love with a price tag is fake.

爱情是一首美好的歌，但它不容易谱写成功。
15. Love is a beautiful song, but it is not easy to compose successfully.

在爱情的问题上，往往没有谁对谁错，爱情只是一种缘分。缘至则聚，缘尽则散。能够结为夫妻并相伴到地老天荒，那是珍贵的不尽缘。
16. In matters of love, there is often no right or wrong. Love is just a kind of fate. When fate comes, people gather; when it ends, they part. To become husband and wife and stay together until the end of time is a precious, inexhaustible fate.

爱不需要解释，却又可以解释一切。虽然爱情只是众多情感中的一类，但它远比其它来得深刻，来得无奈。
17. Love needs no explanation, yet it can explain everything. Although love is just one of many emotions, it is far deeper and more helpless than others.

如果你真的深爱一个人，那么就算换了时空，变了容颜，你也能从千百万人中认出那个熟悉的灵魂，然后再次地爱上他。
18. If you truly love someone, even if you change time and space, and change appearances, you can still recognize that familiar soul among millions of people and fall in love with him/her again.

为了爱情，无钱结婚，夜来欢娱，白天悔恨。
19. For the sake of love, marry without money, enjoy at night, and regret during the day.

缺少食物和酒，爱情是冷的。
20. Without food and wine, love is cold.

爱情进入，友情完结。
1. Love enters, friendship ends.

相思树底说相思，思郎恨郎郎不知。
2. Under the acacia tree, we talk about yearning, missing the man and hating the man, but he doesn’t know.

爱情不仅是鲜花、微笑、亲吻和春风。它也是严寒。
3. Love is not only about flowers, smiles, kisses, and spring breeze. It is also about the cold.