1.最好的感觉是,当我看你的时候,你已经在凝视着我。
1. The best feeling is when I look at you and find that you have already been gazing at me.
2.爱情,说不出口,就是—个人的事,冷暖自知。
2. Love, when left unspoken, becomes a personal matter, with its ups and downs known only to oneself.
3.爱情本是个不等式,没有谁可以预见感情天平的哪一端会重些,哪一端又会轻些。但是爱情就是这样,如果你没有勇气去尝试,那就注定只有陪伴自己孤寂的灵魂。
3. Love is inherently an inequality; no one can predict which side of the emotional scale will be heavier and which lighter. But that’s how love is – if you don’t have the courage to try, then you are destined to be accompanied only by your own lonely soul.
4.安慰别人头头是道,却在深夜独自抱枕哭泣。人都这样,道理总是说服别人,却说服不了自己。
4. We can offer comfort to others with great insight, yet we may find ourselves crying alone in bed at night. People are like this: we can always persuade others with reason, but we can’t seem to persuade ourselves.
5.把别人看得太重,结果却被别人看成什么都不是。
5. By placing too much importance on others, we end up being considered as nothing by them.
6.把你害怕的、迷茫的、烦恼的、困惑的事一一列举,再一一制定如何面对的计划。心中的焦虑和不安就会被缓解,无法前进的事情也会慢慢出现转机。
6. List all the things that scare you, confuse you, and trouble you, and then create a plan to face each of them. The anxiety and unease in your heart will be eased, and things that seemed impossible to move forward will gradually show signs of change.
7.百度是个大骗子,我抄了十几年的满分作文却从未得过满分。
7. Baidu is a big liar; I have copied perfect essays for more than a decade but have never scored full marks.
8.保留再多,也是一种缺失;播撒多了,才会拥有。有舍才有得,与其有所保留,不如大方给予,浇灌万物的同时,也浇灌了自己。早安!
8. No matter how much you keep, it is still a kind of loss; only by giving more can you truly possess. There is gain in letting go. Instead of holding back, it’s better to give generously, watering everything around you and also nourishing yourself. Good morning!
9.别对我说天冷了照顾好自己穿多点衣服之类的话,要么就照顾我,要么就拿钱给我买衣服,要么别来烦我。
9. Don’t tell me to take care of myself and wear more clothes when it’s cold, or else take care of me yourself, or give me money to buy clothes, or just don’t bother me.
10.别去打扰那些很久不回你信息的人。
10. Don’t disturb those who haven’t replied to your messages for a long time.
11.别去打扰一个不愿意理你的人,因为他心里那个最重要的人不是你。
11. Don’t bother someone who doesn’t want to engage with you, because the most important person in their heart is not you.
12.别妄想着倒带,这是生活,不是电影。
12. Don’t fantasize about rewinding time; this is life, not a movie.
13.不怕千人万人阻挡就怕自己投降,那些一开始就选择放弃的人没有资格失败,因为从一开始他就失败了!
13. Don’t be afraid of thousands or millions of obstacles, but be afraid of surrendering to yourself. Those who choose to give up from the start have no right to fail, because they have already failed from the beginning!
14.不要给我压力,那将是我成为你上司的动力。
14. Don’t give me pressure; it will only motivate me to become your boss.
15.不要害怕做错什么,即使错了,也不必懊恼,人生就是对对错错。何况有许多事,回头看来,对错已经无所谓了。
15. Don’t be afraid of making mistakes; even if you do, there’s no need to regret it. Life is all about making right and wrong decisions. Moreover, there are many things that, when looked back upon, no longer matter whether they were right or wrong.
16.不要那么敏感,也不要那么心软,太敏感和太心软的人,肯定过得不快乐,别人随便的一句话,你都要胡思乱想一整天。
16. Don’t be too sensitive or too soft-hearted; people who are too sensitive and soft-hearted will definitely be unhappy. A casual word from others can make you ponder and worry all day long.
17.不要轻易被影响,也别太过理智。人不能活得太明白,心里知道就好。有些人的一生,是直达车。有些人却是慢车,中间总要经过许多站,经历许多人。
17. Don’t be too easily influenced, nor overly rational. One shouldn’t live life too clearly; just keep it in your heart. Some people’s lives are like direct trains, while others are like slow trains, passing through many stations and encountering many people along the way.
18.不要去等明天,不要去相信永远,你所能做的,就是眼前。你所爱,为尔所为。没有人会等你,在这风雨飘摇的人生路上。你所能做的,就是让自己更快、更强。
18. Don’t wait for tomorrow, and don’t believe in forever. All you can do is focus on the present. Do what you love and act for it. No one will wait for you on this uncertain journey of life. All you can do is make yourself faster and stronger.
19.曾经满目星辰都是你,如今新城大海都不可及。
19. Once, the stars were all about you; now, even the new cities and seas are out of reach.
20.曾经我不忍或羞于谈论理想,因为他太荒诞虚无,只能藏在心里以硬壳包裹。现在渐渐觉得如果不脚踏实地,就没有资格谈论理想。理想从来不应该被束之高阁或藏藏掖掖,他应该是你时时可以触碰的。
20. I used to be reluctant or ashamed to talk about my ideals because they were too absurd and intangible, so I kept them hidden deep inside. Now I gradually realize that if I don’t take practical actions, I don’t have the right to talk about ideals. Ideals should never be locked away or hidden; they should always be within reach.
21.成功的花儿,人们只惊羡它现实的美丽,当初它的芽渗透了奋斗的泪水,洒遍了牺牲的细雨。
21. The successful flower, people only admire its present beauty, but its bud was soaked with the tears of struggle and the rain of sacrifice.
22.成功没有快车道,幸福没有高速路,所有的成功都来自不倦的努力和奔跑,所有幸福都来自平凡的奋斗和坚持!
22. There is no fast lane for success, no highway for happiness; all success comes from tireless efforts and running, and all happiness comes from ordinary struggles and persistence!
23.成熟的样子不是变成奇奇怪怪的大人。
23. Maturity is not about becoming a strange adult.
24.成熟就是,以前屁大点事就多愁善感,现在即便千山万水,单枪匹马也可以应付得来。有的路,你必须一个人走,这不是孤独,而是选择。
24. Maturity is when you used to be sentimental over trivial matters, but now you can handle even the most challenging situations alone. Some paths, you must walk alone; this is not loneliness, but a choice.
25.成熟就是容得下生命的不完美,也经得起世事的颠簸。
25. Maturity is about embracing life’s imperfections and withstanding the ups and downs of the world.
26.除非我不想赢,否则没有人能让我输!
26. Unless I don’t want to win, no one can make me lose!
27.床你放开我,我是一个有作业的人。
27. Bed, let me go; I am a person with homework.
28.打个小麻将,吃个麻辣烫。找个小对象,生活就这样。
28. Play a little mahjong, eat some spicy hot pot. Find a small partner, and that’s life.
29.淡然于心,从容于表,优雅自在地生活。追求,就会有失望;活着,就会有烦恼。不要把什么都看得那么真、那么重。人生最怕什么都计较,最后都是两手空空如也。
29. Be indifferent in your heart, composed in your demeanor, and live gracefully. Pursue, and there will be disappointment; live, and there will be worries. Don’t take everything so seriously or so important. The worst thing in life is to keep calculating everything, and in the end, you’ll end up with nothing.
30.当有一天我站在红路灯下无人认领,你会不会穿过人群,手拿一款我最喜欢的冰淇淋来诱哄我。
30. When one day I stand at a traffic light, unclaimed by anyone, will you push through the crowd, holding my favorite ice cream to coax me?
31.得了一种聊天不配个表情就害怕思想表达不到位的毛病。
31. I’ve developed a habit of not being able to chat without an emoji, fearing that my thoughts won’t be expressed properly.
32.等我有钱了就带我最讨厌的人去最好的神经病医院。
32. When I have money, I will take the person I hate the most to the best mental hospital.
33.盯着某个简单的字,看久一点,就发现不认识这个字了,越看越不懂。
33. Stare at a simple character for a while, and you’ll find that you no longer recognize it; the more you look at it, the less you understand.
34.对于你,我所有的原则都可以不复存在。
34. For you, all my principles can cease to exist.
35.多和优秀的人在一起,他们就像一团光芒,呆久了,就再也不想走回黑暗了。
35. Spend more time with outstanding people; they are like a ray of light. After being around them for a while, you won’t want to return to the darkness.
36.多年后,生命里来来去去的人多得我都记不清楚名字和面孔了,我才明白一件事,其实很多时候我们以为的伤心,只是自尊受到了打击和挫折,真正能够伤到我们的心的人,这一辈子也只有那么几个。——独木舟《我亦飘零久》
36. Years later, there have been so many people coming and going in my life that I can’t remember their names and faces. I finally understand that, in fact, much of what we think is heartache is just a blow to our self-esteem and frustration. The people who can truly hurt our hearts are only a few in a lifetime. - Du Mu Zhou, “I Have Been Drifting for a Long Time”
37.风筝,有线,才飞得高远;浮萍,无根,只能漂泊不定。
37. Kites fly high and far with a string; duckweed can only drift aimlessly without roots.
38.光阴只方寸,却演绎着各种离奇的故事。人生就如沙漏,撒完了都回去不了。哭也好,乐也好,过去的不在重提,追忆过去,只能徒增伤悲,当你掩面叹息的时候,时光已逝,幸福也从你的指缝悄悄地溜走。
38. Time is but an inch, yet it plays out all kinds of bizarre stories. Life is like an hourglass; once the sand has poured out, it cannot go back. Whether you cry or laugh, the past is not worth mentioning. Remembering the past only adds to the sadness. When you sigh and cover your face, time has passed, and happiness has slipped away through your fingers.
39.过于悲痛的一切,只是有时候会非常怀念。
39. All that is too sorrowful, sometimes just makes us miss it dearly.
40.喝醉,从来就不是酒精的罪过,而是感情的度数太高。
40. Getting drunk is never the fault of alcohol, but rather the high degree of emotions involved.
41.和善良对峙的,不一定只是邪恶。可能也是残酷。和理想对峙的,不一定只是世俗。可能也是天真。
41. What confronts kindness is not necessarily evil, but possibly cruelty. What confronts ideals is not necessarily the secular, but possibly naivety.
42.很多年后,也许我们才会明白,年少的时候,并不是相遇的时光不美,而是,我们在回头的时候,恰好错过了,对方最美好的样子。——郭敬明《夏至未至》
42. Many years later, perhaps we will understand that in our youth, it was not that the time of meeting was not beautiful, but rather, when we looked back, we happened to miss the most beautiful appearance of the other person. - Guo Jingming, “The Summer Solstice Has Not Yet Arrived”
43.很多事,面对了才能长大。
43. Many things can only make us grow when faced.
44.花开花败 物是人非 我简单的过着我的生活。
44. Flowers bloom and wither, things remain the same but people change, I simply live my life.
45.婚姻的难处在于我们是和对方的优点谈恋爱,却和她的缺点生活在一起。
45. The difficulty of marriage lies in the fact that we fall in love with the other person’s strengths, but live with their weaknesses.
46.活在这珍贵的人间,太阳强烈,水波温柔。
46. Living in this precious world, the sun is intense, and the water waves are gentle.
47.假如,我说假如,我走了,你会流泪会伤心,不顾一切的寻找我吗?
47. Suppose, I say suppose, if I left, would you cry, be heartbroken, and search for me desperately?
48.坚持做你自己,而不是被别人修改的面目全非。
48. Stick to being yourself, instead of being modified beyond recognition by others.
49.就算再难过,也必须微笑着说你大爷的。
49. Even if it’s very sad, you must smile and say “your grandpa’s”.
50.就算这世界荒芜,总有一个人会是你的信徒。
50. Even if the world becomes desolate, there will always be someone who is your believer.
51.来不及叹息,已纷纷散落在旧苑荒台上,斑驳了久藏的春梦,在春暖花开时,惊扰那隔世的孤影。
51. No time to sigh, already scattered on the old garden platform, mottled the long-hidden spring dream, in the warm spring, disturbing the lonely shadow of the past.
52.没有结局的故事,倒不如给它一个落幕。
52. A story without an ending is better given a finale.
53.没有人能影响你的情绪,只有你自己不放过自己。
53. No one can affect your emotions, only you can’t let go of yourself.
54.没有人瞧不起你,因为别人根本就没有瞧你,大家都很忙的。
54. No one looks down on you, because others simply don’t look at you, everyone is busy.
55.没有人喜欢孤独,只是不愿失望。
55. No one likes loneliness, just not willing to be disappointed.
56.每次想找个人陪的时候,就发现有的人不能找,有的人不该找,还有的人找不到。
56. Every time I want to find someone to accompany me, I find that some people can’t be sought, some shouldn’t be sought, and some can’t be found.
57.每个人都是一个小宇宙,外面的世界对我们这个小宇宙是什么不重要,关键在想法,你想那个世界是什么样的就是什么样。你的内心除非自己打开,别人是不能进入的。所有的感觉都由心生。
57. Everyone is a small universe, what the outside world is to our small universe is not important, the key lies in thoughts, the world you think it is, is what it is. Your heart can only be opened by yourself, others cannot enter. All feelings come from the heart.
58.每个人都是自私的,不要奢望别人无缘无故的对你好。
58. Everyone is selfish, don’t expect others to be good to you for no reason.
59.命运是一双大手,将你的人生反复拨弄,即便你被困其中,也无人能伸出援手,唯有自己从中走出来,像重生的燕尾蝶般决绝。
59. Fate is a pair of big hands, playing with your life repeatedly, even if you are trapped, no one can lend a helping hand, only you can walk out of it, like a reborn swallowtail butterfly, determined.
60.哪里会有人喜欢孤独,不过是不喜欢失望罢了。
60. Where would anyone like loneliness, it’s just not liking disappointment.
61.那段拼命努力,却看不到阳光的日子,终会过去。
61. Those days of desperately working hard without seeing the sunlight will eventually pass.
62.那个说永远不会离开我的人,早已离开了,那个说爱我的人,牵着的却是别人的手,那个说会等我的人,却跟另一个人走了。还有什么可以相信呢。
62. The person who said they would never leave me is long gone, the one who said they loved me is now holding someone else’s hand, and the one who said they would wait for me has left with another person. What else can I believe in?
63.你的过去并不决定你的未来。只有你的现在才能支配你。
63. Your past does not determine your future. Only your present can control you.
64.你看,城南的花都开了,该你熬的也熬过来了,所以别不高兴了。
64. Look, the flowers in the southern part of the city have bloomed, and you’ve made it through what you had to endure, so don’t be unhappy anymore.
65.你可以闭嘴站在我的圈子外,看我一边挣扎一边失败。
65. You can keep quiet and stand outside my circle, watching me struggle and fail.
66.你若耕耘,就储存了一次丰收;你若努力,就储存了一个希望;你若微笑,就储存了一份快乐。你能支取什么,取决于你储蓄了什么。想有取之不尽的幸福,就要从今天开始努力,带着微笑开始新的一天,为了更好的自己!
66. If you cultivate, you store a harvest; if you work hard, you store hope; if you smile, you store happiness. What you can withdraw depends on what you have saved. To have endless happiness, start working hard today, begin a new day with a smile, and strive for a better self!
67.你是我眼波的温柔,你是我心中的不朽,你是我热爱这个世界近乎全部的理由 。
67. You are the tenderness in my eyes, the immortality in my heart, and almost the entire reason why I love this world.
68.你帅,你拽,你照样在我的黑名单里摇摆。
68. You’re handsome, you’re cool, but you’re still swaying in my blacklist.
69.你要努力成为对的人,而不是等着遇见对的人。
69. You should strive to become the right person, not just wait to meet the right person.
70.你应该多去晒晒太阳,再黑一点,省得别人说你白痴。
70. You should go out and bask in the sun more, get a little darker, so people won’t call you an idiot.
71.你终于相信,生命中会出现这样一个人。就算不顾一切,就算倾其所有,就算万死不辞,你也无法和他走到最后。
71. You finally believe that there will be someone in life. Even if you give everything, even if you risk everything, even if you’re not afraid of death, you still can’t make it to the end with them.
72.你总觉得,世界那么大,总该有人懂得你的感觉。若是遇到那样的朋友,你们或许只需要交换一个会意的眼神,微笑颔首,无需言语,一切便已足够。
72. You always feel that the world is so big, there should be someone who understands your feelings. If you meet such a friend, you may only need to exchange a meaningful glance and a smile, no words needed, everything is enough.
73.你做得再好,也还是有人指指点点;你即便一塌糊涂,也还是有人唱赞歌。所以不必掉进他人的眼神,你需要讨好的,仅仅是你自己。
73. No matter how well you do, there will always be people pointing fingers; even if you’re a mess, there will still be people singing your praises. So don’t fall into the eyes of others, the only one you need to please is yourself.
74.年轻时我们总是在开始时毫无所谓,在结束时痛彻心扉。而长大后成熟的我们可能避免了幼稚的伤害,却也错过了开始的勇气。
74. When we were young, we didn’t care at the beginning, but we were heartbroken at the end. As we grow up and mature, we may avoid naive injuries, but we also miss the courage to start.
75.女孩子晚上千万不要一个人出门,真的很危险,满大街的烧烤夜宵甜点,没人劝阻忍不住随便进一家,就要长好几斤。
75. Girls should never go out alone at night, it’s really dangerous. There are so many barbecues, late-night snacks, and desserts on the streets, and no one to stop you from entering a random shop, which means gaining several pounds.
76.朋友就像是水中的鱼,深水层和浅水层的鱼永远也不会走在一起;穷和富,官和民,草根和显贵都不可能成为真正的朋友,因为各自对人生的感悟不同,最关键是他们对待世界和自然的心不同。
76. Friends are like fish in the water; fish from the deep and shallow layers will never be together. The poor and the rich, officials and civilians, grassroots and nobility cannot become true friends, because they have different perceptions of life, and most importantly, their attitudes towards the world and nature are different.
77.平静是最好的状态,无论是平静的拼尽全力,还是平静的等待结果。
77. Calmness is the best state, whether it’s calmness in giving your all or calmness in waiting for results.
78.期许一场花开的绚烂,静赏一场花落的淡然。
78. Look forward to the splendor of a blooming flower, and quietly appreciate the indifference of a falling flower.
79.其实很多事我都介意,只是习惯笑着说没关系。
79. In fact, I mind many things, but I’m used to saying it’s okay with a smile.
80.其实后来的我们,都没有再联系,我不知道你过得怎样,就算偶尔想起也只是用以前的记忆填补,我能做的是再怎么想念都不去打扰。因为你只是过去,并不是唯一。
80. In the end, we didn’t contact each other anymore. I don’t know how you’re doing, and even if I occasionally think of you, I only fill in the gaps with memories from the past. What I can do is not to disturb you no matter how much I miss you. Because you are just the past, not the only one.
81.其实你不知道,我一直都在你身边,一直,一直都是。
81. Actually, you don’t know, I have always been by your side, always, always, always.
82.青春就是放肆,但穷就会克制。
82. Youth is about being unrestrained, but poverty brings restraint.
83.情殇,落寞了谁的年华。那年的你,在我的心中。此时的你,在我的梦里。时光荏苒,一季又一季,淡然度过。
83. The sorrow of love, who has been left desolate by the passing years. You from that year, in my heart; you now, in my dreams. Time flies, season after season, passing by indifferently.
84.秋意正浓,如果没有温暖的怀抱,那就记得多穿件外套。
84. Autumn is in full swing; if there’s no warm embrace, remember to wear an extra layer.
85.人,到了一定年龄,都是带着点心事,带着点难言的痛,每天笑嘻嘻地生活下去的。
85. People, once they reach a certain age, all live with some worries and unspeakable pain, continuing to live with a smile every day.
86.人不要太任性,因为你是活给未来的你,不要让未来的你讨厌现在的你。
86. Don’t be too willful, because you live for your future self; don’t let your future self dislike your current self.
87.人都会虚伪善变,这一秒已不再是这一秒,我们都要学着习惯现实。
87. People can be hypocritical and fickle; this second is no longer the same as the last. We all need to learn to adapt to reality.
88.人间四季,今日茶饭事。
88. The four seasons of human life, today’s tea and meal matters.
89.人人都会说好话,讨人家的欢喜,但作为真正的朋友,反而说的都是难听的。朋友绝不会顾忌你的感受而天天拍马逢迎,如果他是真正的好朋友,必定这样直言不讳,因为他知道这样做完全是为了你好。
89. Everyone can speak sweet words to please others, but as a true friend, they often say harsh things. A real friend will not spare your feelings and flatter you every day; if they are a true friend, they will speak frankly, knowing it’s for your own good.
90.人生不能太过圆满,求而不得未必是遗憾。
90. Life should not be too perfect; not getting what you want may not be a regret.
91.人生经历,磨砺着痛惜;人生不易,懂得放过自己。若,流年有爱,就心随花开;若,人走情凉,就守心自暖。情不弃,时光温暖;爱不离,岁月不寒;心无澜,碧海青天。
91. Life experiences, honing the pain; life is not easy, learn to let go of yourself. If there is love in the fleeting years, let your heart follow the blooming flowers; if people leave and emotions cool, keep your heart warm. Unabandoned love, warm times; undivided love, uncold years; a calm heart, azure sea and blue sky.
92.人生就像四季,有春的希望,有夏的浪漫,有秋的成熟,有冬的安享。
92. Life is like the four seasons, with the hope of spring, the romance of summer, the maturity of autumn, and the enjoyment of winter.
93.人生遇到的每个人,出场顺序真的很重要,很多人如果换一个时间认识,就会有不同的结局。
93. The order in which you meet people in life is really important; many people would have different outcomes if they had met at a different time.
94.人生最遗憾的,莫过于,轻易地放弃了不该放弃的,固执地坚持了不该坚持的。
94. The most regrettable thing in life is to easily give up what you shouldn’t, and stubbornly persist in what you shouldn’t.
95.人有两个自己,一个病态的自我,一个健康的自我。前者懒惰逃避,后者积极向上。一个人心智越成熟,越能察觉到自己的懒惰,越是能自我反省,越是能找到懒惰的痕迹。有时一个人自认不完整,只是他还年轻。
95. There are two selves in a person, a sick self and a healthy self. The former is lazy and evasive, while the latter is positive and upward. The more mature a person’s mind is, the more they can detect their own laziness, the more they can reflect on themselves, and the more they can find traces of laziness. Sometimes a person feels incomplete, but it’s just because they are still young.
96.人与人之间,除了亲人的关系,其它温暖的关系都是上帝给你额外的宠爱!一定要珍惜和感恩!
96. Among people, apart from the relationship with relatives, other warm relationships are extra blessings from God! Be sure to cherish and be grateful!
97.人真正的魅力:不是你给对方留下了美好的第一印象;而是对方认识你多年后,仍喜欢和你在一起。在历尽沧桑后,能由衷的说,能认识你真好。
97. A person’s true charm: it’s not about leaving a good first impression on the other person; it’s about them still enjoying being with you after knowing you for years. After going through many vicissitudes, they can sincerely say, “It’s great to know you.”
98.任何外在力量的辅助终究只是暂时的,真正掌握在自己手里的东西才会成为你强大的依靠和资本,愿你的每一天都在成长。
98. Any external assistance is ultimately only temporary; the things that truly belong to you will become your strong support and capital. May you grow every day.
99.如果没有悲伤, 幸福这个词就没有任何意义。
99. Without sadness, the word happiness would have no meaning.
100.如果你不能失败,你会怎么做?只要回答这个问题,也就表明了如果克服了失败的恐惧,你可以着手做哪些事。
100. If you cannot fail, what would you do? Just answer this question, and it shows what you can do if you overcome the fear of failure.