1、许多人活在回忆里，害怕往前走。人生就是一直往前，时间带给我们最好的事情，就是把那些不值得的人都删除，将那些珍爱你的人都保留下来。
1. Many people live in memories, afraid to move forward. Life is all about moving forward, and the best thing that time brings us is to delete those who are not worth it and keep those who truly care about you.

2、曾经多情如斯，伤痕累累，才终于学会无情。有一天，没那么年轻了，爱着的依然是你，但是，我总是跟自己说：我也可以过自己的日子。惟其如此，失望和孤单的时候，我才可以不掉眼泪，不起波动，微笑告诉自己，不是你对我不好，而是爱情本来就是虚妄的，它曾经有多热烈，也就有多寂寞。
2. Once full of affection, scarred and bruised, I finally learned to be ruthless. One day, when I’m no longer young, the one I love is still you, but I always tell myself: I can live my own life. Only in this way, when I’m disappointed and lonely, can I keep from shedding tears, remain calm, and smile, telling myself that it’s not that you treat me badly, but that love itself is an illusion. It was once so passionate, and now it is just as lonely.

3、只有在你落魄时，才会知道谁是为你担心的笨蛋，谁是形同陌路的混蛋。无论生活怎样，无论现实有多难，无论绽放有多远。不要忘了你曾经对自己许下的诺言。挫折会来也会过去。热泪会流下也会收起。没有什么可以让我气馁。
3. Only when you’re down and out can you see who truly cares about you and who is a stranger. No matter how life is, no matter how difficult reality is, no matter how far away the blooming is. Don’t forget the promises you made to yourself. Setbacks will come and pass. Tears will fall and be wiped away. Nothing can bring me down.

4、每一个人都拥有生命，但并非每个人都懂得生命，乃至于珍惜生命。不了解生命的人，生命对他来说，是一种惩罚。
4. Everyone has life, but not everyone understands it, let alone cherishes it. For those who don’t understand life, it is a punishment.

5、想一件事就要立刻去做，不要想后果，也不要看结果，只体会其中做事的感觉，相信自己的感觉，不会错，每天在生活，工作中，体会每天的充实，那样的人生才叫完美，才能体现人生的价值，一生才能无憾。
5. If you want to do something, do it immediately. Don’t think about the consequences or the results, just experience the feeling of doing it. Trust your instincts, and you won’t be wrong. Live and work every day, experiencing the fulfillment, and that’s the perfect life, reflecting the value of life, and living a life without regrets.

6、任何事物，只要让你心情沉重、让你对自己有不好的感觉、阻碍你前行的，把它丢掉。任何事物，如果只是占有空间，对你的人生毫无正面贡献，把它丢掉。任何事物，要丢还是要留，你得花很长的时间权衡利弊，或是烦恼不知所错的，那把它丢掉。
6. Anything that makes you feel heavy-hearted, gives you a bad feeling about yourself, or holds you back, get rid of it. Anything that only takes up space and contributes nothing positive to your life, get rid of it. If you have to spend a long time weighing the pros and cons, or if you’re troubled and unsure about whether to keep or discard something, then discard it.

7、喜欢一个人，不是意味着独占，而是宽容。宽容他的过去，享受他的现在，期待他的未来。你若要爱我，就爱每一个阶段的我。
7. Liking someone doesn’t mean possessing them; it means being tolerant. Be tolerant of their past, enjoy their present, and look forward to their future. If you want to love me, love every stage of me.

8、根本不必回头去看咒骂你的人是谁？如果有一条疯狗咬你一口，难道你也要趴下去反咬他一口吗？
8. There’s no need to look back and see who’s cursing you. If a mad dog bites you, do you have to趴 down and bite him back?

9、当我向你倾诉我的烦恼，那不是抱怨，那是我对你的信任。
9. When I share my troubles with you, it’s not complaining; it’s my trust in you.

10、一个人需要爱某个人，并且被某个人爱，通过这些来学习爱自己的方法。你明白我的意思吗？不会爱别人的人，不可能正确地爱自己。
10. A person needs to love someone and be loved by someone, through which to learn how to love oneself. Do you understand what I mean? Those who can’t love others can’t love themselves correctly.

11、眼泪，是为了洗净眼睛，让我们看清事实。
11. Tears are for washing our eyes, allowing us to see the truth.

12、有人说，时光是柔软的，它可以把生硬的世俗，变的婉转轻盈，又有人说，时间是充满风情的，它可以让平淡的生活变得明媚鲜艳。而，时间，也是可以疗伤的，它会抚平过往的斑驳与痕迹。
12. Some say that time is soft, capable of making the rigid世俗 world gentle and light. Others say that time is full of charm, making ordinary life bright and colorful. Time can also heal, smoothing away the past’s mottled traces.

13、旅行的意义，不是逃避，不是艳遇，不是放松心情，更不是炫耀，而是为了洗一洗身体和灵魂，给自己换一种新的眼光，甚至一种生活方式，给生命增加多一种可能性的叉枝。
13. The meaning of travel is not to escape, seek romance, relax, or show off, but to cleanse the body and soul, give oneself a new perspective, or even a new way of life, adding more possibilities to life.

14、嘴上不饶人的，心肠一般都很软。心里不饶人的，嘴上才会说好听话。所以好人心善，坏人嘴善。
14. Those who don’t spare others with their words usually have soft hearts. Those who don’t forgive others in their hearts are the ones who speak sweetly. So good people have kind hearts, and bad people have sweet mouths.

15、不要浪费你的生命在你一定会后悔的事情上。
15. Don’t waste your life on things you’ll regret.

16、这世界是圆的，所以没有真正意义的弯路，因为没有真正意义的直路。不管你想了多少，询问多少，研究多少，只有走才能产生距离。所以，做个行动派，当然不要死走，走走看看吧。幸福并不是出生在富贵家庭，什么东西都唾手可得。太过轻易得到的东西，很难去珍惜，幸福值也会低很多。
16. The world is round, so there is no such thing as a truly meaningful detour or a straight path. No matter how much you think, ask, or research, only by taking action can you create distance. Therefore, be a person of action, but don’t just keep going; walk and observe. Happiness is not born in a wealthy family where everything is within reach. Things that come too easily are hard to cherish, and their value of happiness is much lower.

17、有才而性缓，定属大才。有智而气和，斯为大智。
17. One with talent but a calm nature is truly talented. One with wisdom but a gentle temperament is truly wise.

18、想念的时候，只想看上一眼，感觉很暖。牵挂的时候，只想问候一声，感觉心里踏实孤单的时候，只想聊上一会，非常眷恋。世界上最贵的，不是金钱，而是时间；人生中最美的，不是风景，而是感情。生活最难的，不是相守，而是彼此的相知。认识不在于时间的长短，而在于彼此的懂得。
18. When you miss someone, you just want to see them for a moment, which feels warm. When you care, you just want to say hello, which makes your heart feel at ease. When you feel lonely, you just want to chat for a while, cherishing the connection. The most expensive thing in the world is not money, but time; the most beautiful thing in life is not the scenery, but the emotions. The most difficult thing in life is not being together, but understanding each other. Knowing someone is not about the length of time, but about mutual understanding.

19、不是山，却是需要攀登的是人生；不是渊，却是需要跨越的是自己。在改变生活的过程中，什么事都成熟了，就没必要你去做了。什么好处都得了，就没朋友与你合作了。什么困难都抱怨，就没人敢支持你了。什么责任都推给别人，就没人会信任你了。什么激情都没了，就没必要期望什么了。
19. It’s not a mountain, but life that needs to be climbed; it’s not an abyss, but oneself that needs to be crossed. In the process of changing life, if everything is mature, there’s no need for you to do it. If all the benefits are gained, there will be no friends to cooperate with you. If you complain about every difficulty, no one will dare to support you. If you shift all responsibilities to others, no one will trust you. If you lose all passion, there’s no need to expect anything.

20、我们只有一个今生，一颗可以搏动的心，把生命维护好，把灵魂安顿好，也就算是圆满了，不要总盯着别人的脚步，迷失了自己的节奏。在一条路上走得久了，总有孤独与寂寞，无论如何，都别放下当初的激情与梦想，别忘记曾经的那份执着，只有伤过了，痛过了，才会慢慢清醒与回归，才会发现，头顶还有那片天。
20. We only have one life, one beating heart. Taking good care of life and finding peace for the soul is enough for a fulfilling life. Don’t always focus on others’ footsteps and lose your own rhythm. After walking on a path for a long time, there will always be loneliness and solitude. No matter what, don’t give up your initial passion and dreams, and don’t forget your past determination. Only after being hurt and pained will you slowly become clear and return to yourself, and then discover that there is still a sky above you.

21、不要评价别人的容貌，因为他不靠你吃饭。不要评价别人的德行，因为你不比他高尚。不要评价别人的家庭，因为那和你无关。不要乱花钱，因为明天你就可能失业。不要趾高气扬，因为明天你就可能失势。不要委屈自己，多多珍惜每一天多微笑。
21. Don’t judge others’ appearance, as they don’t rely on you for food. Don’t judge others’ virtues, as you are not nobler than them. Don’t judge others’ families, as it has nothing to do with you. Don’t spend money recklessly, as you might lose your job tomorrow. Don’t be arrogant, as you might lose your position tomorrow. Don’t mistreat yourself, and cherish every day with more smiles.

22、生活的起起落落，一定要观察每一个念头是否能应用。念头里多一份柔和，多一份承担。是烦恼总是浮云，在烦恼里拧巴，不值得。
22. In the ups and downs of life, observe whether every thought can be applied. With more softness and responsibility in your thoughts, worries are just passing clouds, and it’s not worth twisting in them.

23、人生需要沉淀，宁静才能致远；人生中，都会遇到不顺心的事，都会碰到不顺眼的人。如果你不学会原谅，就会活得痛苦，活得累。人生最可贵的品格是本分自然地生活，踏踏实实地做事儿，兢兢业业地工作，诚诚实实地交友，心底坦荡地为人。
23. Life needs to be precipitated, and only in tranquility can you achieve far-reaching goals. In life, you will encounter unpleasant things and people you don’t like. If you don’t learn to forgive, you will live in pain and exhaustion. The most precious quality in life is to live naturally, work diligently, be honest in making friends, and have an open heart.

24、人生会遇见四种人：自己，你最爱的人，最爱你的人，和你共度一生的人，遇见同一个人，注意了，真得要好好珍惜，你可是相当幸运儿。否则，请你不要伤心，难过，你所遇见得都只是过客而已。
24. Life will introduce you to four kinds of people: yourself, the person you love the most, the person who loves you the most, and the person you spend your life with. If you meet the same person, pay attention, and cherish them, for you are truly fortunate. Otherwise, please don’t be sad or upset; all the people you meet are just passers-by.

25、接受挑战后，要尽量放松。在脑电波开始平和你的中枢神经系统时，你可感受到自己的内在动力在不断增加。你很快会知道自己有何收获。自己能做的事，不必祈求上天赐予你勇气，放松可以产生迎接挑战的勇气。
25. After accepting a challenge, try to relax. As your brainwaves become calm and your central nervous system is activated, you will feel your inner motivation increasing. You will soon know what you have gained. You don’t need to pray for courage from the heavens; relaxation can generate the courage to face challenges.

26、别人的幸福总是容易看到，痛苦却是少有人知道。藏在心里的苦楚更是无人知晓了。世上没缺憾的婚姻少之又少，只是程度不同罢了。多数人是婚前睁着大大的眼睛找对象，婚后则半睁半闭过日子。
26. It’s easy to see other people’s happiness, but their pain is rarely known. The suffering hidden in their hearts is even more unknown. There are very few flawless marriages in the world, only varying degrees of imperfection. Most people keep their eyes wide open when looking for a partner before marriage, and then live with half-open eyes after marriage.

27、社会是有等级的，很多事不公平，别抱怨，因为没有用。
27. Society has hierarchies, and many things are unfair. Don’t complain, because it’s useless.

28、能把我哄回来，不是因为你有能力，只是因为我舍不得你。
28. The reason I can be coaxed back is not because of your ability, but because I can’t bear to let you go.

29、如果你不给自己烦恼，别人也永远不可能给你烦恼。因为你自己的内心，你放不下。
29. If you don’t give yourself troubles, others can never give you troubles. It’s because of your own mind that you can’t let go.

30、光阴似箭，而光阴里缱绻的点点滴滴，却让人回味，令人难忘。许多事情，在回忆里，总会有一种浓重的幸福的色彩，昨日的种种艰辛万苦，都只为今天的美满幸福。可世间谁可曾自命是美满幸福的。就像我们总是无比痛苦的想要逃离现在，又在将来无比痛苦的回忆现在。
30. Time flies, and the tender moments in time are memorable and unforgettable. Many things, in memories, always have a strong sense of happiness. The hardships of yesterday are all for today’s happiness. But who in the world can claim to be truly happy? Just as we always want to escape the present painfully, and then painfully recall the present in the future.

31、很多人认为欲望是“魔鬼”，很多的时候确实是这样，但好的欲望却不能停止，想要攀登到顶峰，就必须保持你向上的无止境的欲望——“没有欲望，哪有天才？”
31. Many people think that desire is the “devil,” and it often is. However, a good desire cannot be stopped. To reach the summit, you must maintain your insatiable desire to move upward – “Without desire, where would there be genius?”

32、当看破一切的时候，才知道，原来失去比拥有更踏实。
32. When you see through everything, you will realize that losing is more reassuring than possessing.

33、你需要的伴侣最好是那能能够和你并肩立在船头，浅斟低唱两岸风光，同时更能在惊涛骇浪中紧紧握住你的手不放的人。换句话说，他本身不是你必须应付的惊涛骇浪。
33. The partner you need is someone who can stand by your side at the bow of the ship, enjoying the scenery along the banks while singing softly, and also holding your hand tightly during the stormy waves. In other words, he himself is not the stormy waves you have to deal with.

34、我们常常：等有钱了再去旅游，等有时间再去旅游。难道你从没想过，有钱的时候未必有时间，有时间的时候未必就有钱，既有钱又有时间的时候，未必有好身体。人生苦短，何不，想旅游的时候就出门呢？
34. We often: wait until we have money to travel, and then wait until we have time to travel. Have you never thought that when you have money, you may not have time; when you have time, you may not have money; and when you have both money and time, you may not have good health. Life is short, so why not travel when you feel like it?

35、一起在寒冬牵手看场电影，去图书馆寻找一册书籍，厨房的小桌子边喝酒，说说聊聊。每次离开，知道某刻会回来。即使去远行，内心有人牵挂，不会走失于岁月变迁。静静厮守，观望世间风景直到万象成空。时间无多，诸行无常。爱的人，我与你，要珍惜，并甘愿相爱。
35. Together, holding hands in the cold winter to watch a movie, searching for a book in the library, drinking by the small table in the kitchen, talking and chatting. Each time we leave, we know we will come back. Even when we go far away, someone cares for us and we won’t get lost in the changes of time. Quietly stay together, watching the world’s scenery until everything becomes empty. Time is running out, and all things are impermanent. My loved one, I want to cherish our time together and willingly love each other.

36、坚持未必是胜利，放弃未必是认输，与其华丽撞墙，不如优雅转身，给自己一个迂回的空间，学会思索，学会等待，学会调整。人生，有很多时候，需要的不仅仅是执着，更是回眸一笑的洒脱。
36. Persistence is not necessarily victory, and giving up is not necessarily admitting defeat. Instead of crashing into the wall, it’s better to turn around gracefully, giving yourself a space to maneuver, learning to think, to wait, and to adjust. In life, there are many moments when we need not only persistence but also the free and easy smile when looking back.

37、勇敢做自己，永远不会太迟。
37. It’s never too late to be true to yourself.

38、阳光的绿荫又移了一寸，树木的嫩叶又长了一分，这就是时光。在时光的咏叹调中，人正如一朵花，有无自己的果实，全靠自己是否投入地去吸收大自然的营养。时光无情的平等，它时刻告诉你：青春有过但只有一次，肌体活过也仅此一生。时光被你的寂静拉长了，许多的时光就恍若梦中一闪即逝了。
38. The green shade of the sunlight has moved an inch, and the tender leaves of the trees have grown a little. This is time. In the lament of time, humans are like a flower, whether they bear fruit or not depends on whether they wholeheartedly absorb the nutrients from nature. Time’s ruthless equality always tells you: youth has been, but only once, and the body lives only once. Time is stretched by your silence, and much of it flickers like a dream and passes by.

39、楼底与楼顶的风景，永远不同，谁也别羡慕谁。
39. The scenery at the bottom of the building is always different from that at the top, so don’t envy each other.

40、不要太肯定自己的看法，这样子比较少后悔。
40. Don’t be too sure of your own opinions, so you’ll have fewer regrets.

41、在世人中间不愿渴死的人，必须学会从一切杯子里痛饮；在世人中间要保持清洁的人，必须懂得用脏水也可以洗身。
41. Those who do not wish to die of thirst among people must learn to drink from every cup; those who want to stay clean among people must understand that they can wash themselves with dirty water.

42、总有那么一个人，心里总想着，但却刻意不会再去联系，不去打听，不去打扰。
42. There is always someone you keep thinking about, but deliberately choose not to contact, inquire about, or disturb.

43、生命是一场懂得，剪一段流年的时光，握着一路相随的暖，把最平淡的日子梳理成诗意的风景。
43. Life is about understanding, cutting a piece of fleeting time, holding the warmth that accompanies you along the way, and turning the most ordinary days into poetic landscapes.

44、憎恨别人对自己是一种很大的损失。
44. Hating others is a great loss to oneself.

45、我们逃离不了擅长指手画脚的人群，我们也不能隐居南山梅妻鹤子孤独终老，所以，我们要微笑着听别人的要求说：你讲的真对。然后咽下那句：但是，我活着不是为了你。当你狂躁不安之时，你是一事无成的那一个。当你闷闷不乐之时，你是困难重重的那一个。
45. We cannot escape from people who are good at pointing fingers and giving orders, nor can we live in seclusion like a hermit with a wife made of plum blossoms and a crane for a child, so we should smile and listen to others’ demands, saying: “You’re right.” Then swallow the words: “But, I’m not living for you.” When you are restless and irritable, you will achieve nothing. When you are gloomy and unhappy, you will face many difficulties.

46、生活往往是这样，你为自己争取一下，也许前方就是风雨之后见的彩虹。简单的人，勤劳节俭，一切随缘而安。不需要为挣不尽的财富焦头烂额，也不会为柴米油盐而忧愁。不争，自然从容；不计较，所以常快乐。一方田园可养终生，一眼天地可怡情致。心闲是人生最好的福气。
46. Life is often like this: if you fight for yourself, maybe there is a rainbow after the storm ahead. Simple people, hardworking and thrifty, go with the flow and are content. They don’t need to worry about endless wealth, nor do they need to worry about daily necessities. Without competition, they are naturally calm; without calculation, they are always happy. A piece of farmland can support a lifetime, and a glimpse of the world can bring joy. A leisurely mind is the best fortune in life.

47、做人，最重要的是要时刻保持善良的本质，你善良，世界才宽阔，他人才宽容。要有济人之心，物质有厚薄，精神无囿限；要有赞人之口，好言令冬暖，恶语使夏寒；要有纯净之眼，你看简单了，众生并不复杂；要有助人之手，少些锦上添花，多点雪中送炭；要有忍人之胸，你接纳多少，就能得到多少。
47. The most important thing in life is to always maintain a kind nature. If you are kind, the world will be broad, and others will be tolerant. Have a heart to help others, material things have thickness, but spirit knows no bounds; have a mouth to praise others, kind words warm the winter, and harsh words chill the summer; have pure eyes, if you see simplicity, all beings are not complicated; have helping hands, less adding flowers to brocade, more sending charcoal in snowy weather; have a tolerant heart, the more you accept, the more you will gain.

48、心素如简，人淡如菊。
48. Keep your heart simple and pure, and be as indifferent as a chrysanthemum.

49、世间百媚千红，唯对你情之所钟。
49. Among the myriad of beauties in the world, only you have captured my heart.

50、那些年，未来遥远得没有形状，我们单纯得没有烦恼。
50. Those years, the future was so distant and shapeless, and we were so innocent and carefree.

51、看到你幸福的样子，于是幸福着你的幸福。
51. Seeing you happy, I am happy for your happiness.

52、走好脚下的路，对得起自己，流年似水，岁月蹉跎，人这辈子，我只能说，不可能总一帆风顺，人生路也许会蜿蜒崎岖，人生路上也许会有惊涛骇浪。这正是“路漫漫其修远矣”的表现啊。也正因为如此，人生才更真切、更生动、更有意义，我们应该“上下而求索！”
52. Walk the path under your feet, be worthy of yourself, time flies like water, and years pass by. In this life, I can only say that it is impossible to always go smoothly. The road of life may be winding and rugged, and there may be storms and waves on the road of life. This is the manifestation of “the long road and its distant journey.” It is precisely because of this that life is more real, vivid, and meaningful. We should “seek and explore!”

53、无论你多么讨厌你的学校，当你离开久了，你还是会想念它……
53. No matter how much you dislike your school, when you are away for a long time, you will still miss it…

54、谦逊那是基于力量和底气，高傲就是基于空虚和无能。我们每一个在这个世界上，除了你的父母能够没有条件的容忍你之外，在所有的人际交往中，我们都要学会克制自己，拿更好的自己的一面去和别人交往。这个和虚伪没有关系，我们都要在和别人的关系当中，尽可能的考虑别人的感受。
54. Humility is based on strength and confidence, while arrogance comes from emptiness and incompetence. In this world, apart from our parents who can unconditionally tolerate us, we must learn to restrain ourselves and present a better side of ourselves in social interactions. This is not about being hypocritical; we should all consider others’ feelings in our relationships.

55、做人如水，你高，我便退去，决不淹没你的优长；你低，我便涌来，决不暴露你的缺陷；你动，我便随行，决不撇下你的孤单；你静，我便长守，决不打扰你的安宁；平时，我们也知道性格决定命运，也知道应该胸怀更广，也知道眼界要宽，但是常常当遇到具体事情时，还是不能拿得起放得下。
55. Be like water in life: when you are high, I will recede and not overshadow your strengths; when you are low, I will flow in and not expose your weaknesses; when you move, I will follow and not leave you alone; when you are still, I will remain and not disturb your peace. We know that character determines destiny, and we should have broader minds and wider horizons, but often when faced with specific situations, we still cannot let go and move on.

56、在这个世界上别太依赖任何人，因为当你在黑暗中挣扎的时候，连你的影子也会离开你。
56. Don’t rely too much on anyone in this world, because when you struggle in the darkness, even your shadow will leave you.

57、请相信，会有闪电划破你的夜空，快的让你想不起所有的阴霾。请相信，上帝选择你来到人间，就会选择你直接升入天堂。请相信，你的生命独一无二，你的未来充满奇迹，你的梦想会通过你的不懈努力一一实现。
57. Believe that there will be lightning that breaks through your night sky, so fast that you can’t remember all the gloom. Believe that God chose you to come to this world, and will also choose you to ascend directly to heaven. Believe that your life is unique, your future is full of miracles, and your dreams will come true through your unremitting efforts.

58、一个人的成熟，在思想里。一个人的天真，在眼神里。成熟和天真，并非一对矛盾词。成熟是一种生活态度，天真是一种生活方式。每张面孔都会变老，但生活方式可以年轻一辈子。老天若是爱你，眷恋你，会让你做一生的大孩子。
58. A person’s maturity lies in their thoughts, while their innocence is in their eyes. Maturity and innocence are not contradictory terms. Maturity is an attitude towards life, and innocence is a way of life. Faces may age, but a lifestyle can remain young forever. If God loves and cherishes you, He will let you be a big child for your entire life.

59、一无所知的世界，走下去，才有惊喜。有些事，会让你用眼泪哭。有些事，会让你埋在心底里哭。有些事，会让你整个灵魂哭。我们每一个人，都会遇见绝望和痛苦，所有人都会哭，而流泪往往不是最伤心的。你可能心丧若死，却面无表情，枯坐了几天，才突然哭出来，泪水流下时，你才是得救了。
59. In a world of unknowns, only by moving forward can there be surprises. Some things will make you cry with tears, some will make you cry in your heart, and some will make your entire soul cry. We all encounter despair and pain, and everyone cries, but shedding tears is not always the saddest. You may feel utterly hopeless, expressionless, and sit idle for days before suddenly crying out. When the tears flow, you are saved.

60、每个人都是独立的个体，真的没有谁离开谁就活不下去的情况。
60. Everyone is an independent individual, and there is truly no situation where one cannot live without another.

61、虽然终于遇到了对的人，但是却偏偏在错误的时间里，那只能徒留遗憾，不如没有遇见。
61. Although you finally meet the right person, if it’s at the wrong time, it can only leave regrets. It’s better not to have met them at all.

62、得不到的东西，我们会一直以为他是美好的，那是因为你对他了解太少，没有时间与他相处在一起。当有一天，你深入了解后，你会发现原不是你想象中的那么美好。
62. We always think that what we can’t obtain is beautiful because we don’t know enough about it and haven’t spent time with it. One day, when you get to know it deeply, you will find that it’s not as beautiful as you imagined.

63、所谓练习微笑，不是机械地挪动你的面部表情，而是努力地改变你的心态，调节你的心情。学会平静地接受现实，学会对自己说声顺其自然，学会坦然地面对厄运，学会积极地看待人生，学会凡事都往好处想。这样，阳光就会流进心里来，驱走恐惧，驱走黑暗，驱走所有。
63. Practicing smiling is not about mechanically moving your facial expressions, but about genuinely changing your mindset and regulating your emotions. Learn to calmly accept reality, tell yourself to go with the flow, face misfortune with courage, view life positively, and always think positively. In this way, sunlight will flow into your heart, driving away fear, darkness, and everything else.

64、人无完人，事无完美！有些人计较会烦，有些事在意会累！看的淡一点，开心多一点！抬起头，低下心，踏实做事，简单做人！
64. No one is perfect, and nothing is perfect! Some people become annoyed when they’re particular, and some things become tiring when they’re太在意. Take a lighter view, and you’ll be happier! Raise your head, lower your heart, work diligently, and live simply!

65、心理学家推荐的能让你开心的事：每天拍几张照片；看快乐的电影；在周末的清晨做白日梦；给朋友寄卡片；在水边散步；偶尔吃一顿大餐；每星期坚持做一次锻炼；一边开车，一边大声歌唱；一边喝咖啡，一边读小说；一边打电话，一边信手涂鸦；一边洗澡，一边唱歌。
65. Psychologists recommend happy things to do: take a few photos every day; watch happy movies; daydream on a weekend morning; send cards to friends; take a walk by the water; occasionally have a big meal; exercise once a week; sing loudly while driving; read a novel while drinking coffee; doodle while on the phone; sing while taking a bath.

66、若不是心宽似海，哪有人生风平浪静。所谓舍得，就是要舍迷入悟、舍小获大、舍妄存真、舍虚取实。凡事看淡点、看开些，一切随缘、随心。无意于得，就无所谓失。心平气和，朴素自在，平平静静，愉愉快快。
66. If not for a heart as vast as the sea, where would there be calm and peaceful life? The so-called “letting go” means to let go of confusion and gain enlightenment, to let go of the small and gain the big, to let go of the false and keep the true, and to let go of the empty and take the real. Look at things lightly and openly, go with the flow, and follow your heart. If you don’t care about gaining, you won’t worry about losing. Be calm and simple, and be happy.

67、你见，或者不见我，我就在那里，不悲不喜；你念，或者不念我，情就在那里，不来不去；你爱，或者不爱我，爱就在那里，不增不减；你跟，或者不跟我，我的手就在你的手里，不舍不弃。来我的怀里，或者让我住进你的心里，默然相爱，寂静欢喜。
67. Whether you see me or not, I am there, neither sad nor happy; whether you miss me or not, the feeling is there, neither coming nor going; whether you love me or not, love is there, neither increasing nor decreasing; whether you follow me or not, my hand is in your hand, never giving up. Come to my arms, or let me live in your heart, love in silence, and rejoice quietly.

68、遇到一件事，如果你喜欢它，那么享受它；不喜欢，那么避开它；避不开，那么改变它；改不了，那么接受它；接受不下，那么处理它；难以处理，那么就放下它。其实，人最难的是“放下”.放下了，就释然了。
68. When encountering a situation, if you like it, then enjoy it; if you don’t like it, avoid it; if you can’t avoid it, change it; if you can’t change it, accept it; if you can’t accept it, deal with it; if it’s hard to deal with, then let it go. In fact, the hardest thing for people is to “let go.” Once you let go, you will be relieved.

69、可以一个人唱歌，一个人喝咖啡，一个人涂鸦，一个人旅行，一个人逛大街，一个人在雨中漫步，一个人听音乐，一个人自言自语，一个人发呆，一个人跳舞，一个人看电视，一个人翻杂志……只有爱，是自己一个人做不到的。
69. You can sing alone, drink coffee alone, doodle alone, travel alone, wander alone, walk in the rain alone, listen to music alone, talk to yourself alone, daydream alone, dance alone, watch TV alone, and flip through magazines alone… The only thing you cannot do alone is love.

70、人一简单就快乐，一世故就变老。
70. When people are simple, they are happy; when they become worldly, they grow old.

71、我唯一的错，就是认真了。
71. My only mistake is that I took it seriously.

72、感谢上苍，我所拥有的，感谢上苍，我所没有的。放不下，苦了自己。
72. Thank God for what I have, and thank God for what I don’t have. If you can’t let go, you suffer.

73、这就是爱情、当一个女人不再对你吼、对你闹。对你发脾气，管你这管你那时、当她沉默时，你真的在她心里已经失去了那个不可或缺的地位了。纵使她还爱你、但是有些东西真的变了。纠缠、看似很烦、其实是最幸福的。
73. This is love: when a woman no longer yells at you, makes a fuss, gets angry, or bosses you around, and when she becomes silent, you have truly lost that indispensable position in her heart. Even if she still loves you, something has really changed. Entanglement may seem annoying, but it is actually the happiest thing.

74、真实幸福就在你的身辺，而不在你的对面，你对面的是别人的幸福。
74. True happiness is by your side, not in front of you. What’s in front of you is someone else’s happiness.

75、感情再深，恩义再浓的朋友，天涯远隔，情义，终也慢慢疏淡。不是说彼此的心变了，也不是说不再当对方是朋友，只是，远在天涯，喜怒哀乐不能共享。原来，我们已是遥远得只剩下问候，问候还是好的，至少我们不曾把彼此忘记。
75. No matter how deep the feelings or how strong the friendship, when friends are far apart, their bonds will gradually fade. It’s not that our hearts have changed, nor that we no longer consider each other friends, but because we are far away, we cannot share each other’s joys and sorrows. In the end, we are so distant that all we have left is greetings, but greetings are still good, at least we haven’t forgotten each other.

76、你见，或者不见我，我就在那里，不悲不喜；你念，或者不念我，情就在那里，不来不去；你爱，或者不爱我，爱就在那里，不增不减；你跟，或者不跟我，我的手就在你的手里，不舍不弃。来我的怀里，或者让我住进你的心里，默然相爱，寂静欢喜。
76. Whether you see me or not, I am there, neither sad nor happy; whether you miss me or not, the feeling is there, neither coming nor going; whether you love me or not, love is there, neither increasing nor decreasing; whether you follow me or not, my hand is in your hand, never giving up. Come to my arms, or let me live in your heart, love in silence, and rejoice quietly.

77、遇到一件事，如果你喜欢它，那么享受它；不喜欢，那么避开它；避不开，那么改变它；改不了，那么接受它；接受不下，那么处理它；难以处理，那么就放下它。其实，人最难的是“放下”.放下了，就释然了。
77. When you encounter something, if you like it, enjoy it; if not, avoid it; if you can’t avoid it, change it; if you can’t change it, accept it; if you can’t accept it, deal with it; if it’s hard to deal with, let it go. In fact, the hardest thing for people is to “let go.” Once you let go, you will feel relieved.

78、感情再深，恩义再浓的朋友，天涯远隔，情义，终也慢慢疏淡。不是说彼此的心变了，也不是说不再当对方是朋友，只是，远在天涯，喜怒哀乐不能共享。原来，我们已是遥远得只剩下问候，问候还是好的，至少我们不曾把彼此忘记。
78. No matter how deep the feelings or how strong the friendship, when separated by great distances, the bonds of affection will gradually fade. It’s not that our hearts have changed, nor that we no longer consider each other friends, but because we are far away, we can no longer share each other’s joys and sorrows. In the end, we are so distant that all we have left is greetings, but greetings are still good, at least we haven’t forgotten each other.

79、世界上最凄绝的距离是两个人本来距离很远，互不相识，忽然有一天，他们相识，相爱，距离变得很近。然后有一天，不再相爱了，本来很近的两个人，变得很远，甚至比以前更远。
79. The most desolate distance in the world is when two people are originally far apart, strangers to each other, and then one day they meet, fall in love, and the distance becomes very close. Then one day, they no longer love each other, and the once close people become very far apart, even farther than before.

80、如果你看到面前的阴影，别怕，那是因为你的背后有阳光。
80. If you see a shadow in front of you, don’t be afraid, because there is sunshine behind you.

81、所谓练习微笑，不是机械地挪动你的面部表情，而是努力地改变你的心态，调节你的心情。学会平静地接受现实，学会对自己说声顺其自然，学会坦然地面对厄运，学会积极地看待人生，学会凡事都往好处想。这样，阳光就会流进心里来，驱走恐惧，驱走黑暗，驱走所有。
81. The so-called practice of smiling is not about mechanically moving your facial expressions, but about striving to change your mindset and regulate your emotions. Learn to calmly accept reality, learn to say “let it be” to yourself, learn to face misfortune calmly, learn to positively view life, and learn to always think positively. In this way, sunlight will flow into your heart, driving away fear, darkness, and everything else.

82、时间不会让我忘记你，只会习惯没有你。
82. Time won’t make me forget you, it will only make me used to not having you.

83、心理学家推荐的能让你开心的事：每天拍几张照片；看快乐的电影；在周末的清晨做白日梦；给朋友寄卡片；在水边散步；偶尔吃一顿大餐；每星期坚持做一次锻炼；一边开车，一边大声歌唱；一边喝咖啡，一边读小说；一边打电话，一边信手涂鸦；一边洗澡，一边唱歌。
83. Psychologists recommend happy things to do: take a few photos every day; watch happy movies; daydream on a weekend morning; send cards to friends; take a walk by the water; occasionally have a big meal; exercise once a week; sing loudly while driving; read a novel while drinking coffee; doodle while on the phone; sing while taking a bath.

84、有时候，莫名的心情不好，不想和任何人说话，只想一个人静静的发呆。有时候，夜深人静，突然觉得不是睡不着，而是固执地不想睡。有时候，听到一首歌，就会突然想起一个人。有时候，别人突然对你说，我觉得你变了，然后自己开始百感交集。丢了的自己，只能慢慢捡回来。
84. Sometimes, for no reason, you feel down and don’t want to talk to anyone, just wanting to be alone in a daze. Sometimes, in the dead of night, you suddenly realize that you’re not unable to sleep, but just stubbornly don’t want to. Sometimes, when you hear a song, you suddenly think of a person. Sometimes, someone suddenly says to you, “I think you’ve changed,” and then you feel a mix of emotions. The lost self can only be slowly picked up again.

85、有些伤口，时间久了就会慢慢长好；有些委屈，受过了想通了也就释然了；有些伤痛，忍过了疼久了也成习惯了……然而却在很多孤独的瞬间，又重新涌上心头。其实，有些藏在心底的话，并不是故意要去隐瞒，只是，并不是所有的疼痛，都可以呐喊。
85. Some wounds will heal slowly over time; some grievances will be relieved after being endured and thought through; some pains will become habits after enduring and suffering for a long time… However, in many lonely moments, they resurface. In fact, some words hidden in the bottom of our hearts are not intentionally concealed, but not all pain can be shouted out.

86、没有人有耐心听你讲完自己的故事，因为每个人都有自己的话要说；没有人喜欢听你抱怨生活，因为每个人都有自己的苦痛；世人多半寂寞，这世界愿意倾听，习惯沉默的人，难得几个。我再也不想对别人提起自己的过往，那些挣扎在梦魇中的寂寞，荒芜，还是交给时间，慢慢淡漠。
86. No one has the patience to listen to your story because everyone has their own words to say; no one likes to hear you complain about life because everyone has their own pain; most people in the world are lonely, and those who are willing to listen and used to being silent are rare. I no longer want to tell others about my past, the loneliness and desolation struggling in nightmares, let time slowly fade away.

87、生活里，有很多转瞬即逝，像在车站的告别，刚刚还相互拥抱，转眼已各自天涯。很多时候，你不懂，我也不懂，就这样，说着说着就变了，听着听着就倦了，看着看着就厌了，跟着跟着就慢了，走着走着就散了，爱着爱着就淡了，想着想着就算了。
87. In life, there are many fleeting moments, like farewells at the train station, where we embrace each other one moment and then go our separate ways the next. Often, you don’t understand, and neither do I. Just like that, as we talk, things change; as we listen, we grow tired; as we watch, we become bored; as we follow, we slow down; as we walk, we drift apart; as we love, our feelings fade; and as we think, we eventually let go.

88、曾经在某一个瞬间，我们以为自己长大了，有一天，我们终于发现，长大的含义除了欲望还有勇气和坚强，以及某种必须的牺牲。在生活的面前我们还都是孩子，其实我们从未长大还不懂得爱和被爱。
88. In life, there are many fleeting moments, like farewells at the train station, where we embrace each other one moment and then go our separate ways the next. Often, you don’t understand, and neither do I. Just like that, as we talk, things change; as we listen, we grow tired; as we watch, we become bored; as we follow, we slow down; as we walk, we drift apart; as we love, our feelings fade; and as we think, we eventually let go.

89、生活里，有很多转瞬即逝，像在车站的告别，刚刚还相互拥抱，转眼已各自天涯。很多时候，你不懂，我也不懂，就这样，说着说着就变了，听着听着就倦了，看着看着就厌了，跟着跟着就慢了，走着走着就散了，爱着爱着就淡了，想着想着就算了。
89. At one point, we thought we had grown up. One day, we finally realized that growing up means more than just desires; it also involves courage, strength, and certain necessary sacrifices. In front of life, we are all still children, and in fact, we have never truly grown up and still don’t understand love and being loved.

90、其时，我很累了，我习惯假装坚强，习惯了一个人面对所有，我不知道自己到底想怎么样。有时候我可以很开心的和每个人说话，可以很放肆的，可是却没有人知道，那不过是伪装，很刻意的伪装；我可以让自己很快乐很快乐，可是却找不到快乐的源头，只是傻笑。
90. Sometimes, I am very tired. I am used to pretending to be strong and facing everything alone. I don’t know what I really want. Sometimes I can talk happily with everyone and be very unrestrained, but no one knows that it’s just a deliberate pretense; I can make myself very happy, but I can’t find the source of happiness, only a silly smile.

91、有时候，莫名的心情不好，不想和任何人说话，只想一个人静静的发呆。有时候，夜深人静，突然觉得不是睡不着，而是固执地不想睡。有时候，听到一首歌，就会突然想起一个人。有时候，别人突然对你说，我觉得你变了，然后自己开始百感交集。丢了的自己，只能慢慢捡回来。
91. Sometimes, for no reason, I feel down and don’t want to talk to anyone; I just want to be alone and lost in thought. Sometimes, in the quiet of the night, I suddenly realize that it’s not that I can’t sleep, but that I just don’t want to. Sometimes, when I hear a song, it reminds me of someone. Sometimes, someone suddenly says to me, “I think you’ve changed,” and then I feel a mix of emotions. The lost parts of myself can only be slowly picked up again.

92、其时，我很累了，我习惯假装坚强，习惯了一个人面对所有，我不知道自己到底想怎么样。有时候我可以很开心的和每个人说话，可以很放肆的，可是却没有人知道，那不过是伪装，很刻意的伪装；我可以让自己很快乐很快乐，可是却找不到快乐的源头，只是傻笑。
92. Sometimes, I am very tired. I am used to pretending to be strong and facing everything alone. I don’t know what I really want. Sometimes I can talk happily with everyone and be very unrestrained, but no one knows that it’s just a deliberate pretense; I can make myself very happy, but I can’t find the source of happiness, only a silly smile.

93、曾经在某一个瞬间，我们以为自己长大了，有一天，我们终于发现，长大的含义除了欲望还有勇气和坚强，以及某种必须的牺牲。在生活的面前我们还都是孩子，其实我们从未长大还不懂得爱和被爱。
93. At one point, we thought we had grown up. One day, we finally realized that growing up means more than just desires; it also involves courage, strength, and certain necessary sacrifices. In front of life, we are all still children, and in fact, we have never truly grown up and still don’t understand love and being loved.

94、一生至少该有一次，为了某个人而忘了自己，不求有结果，不求同行，不求曾经拥有，甚至不求你爱我，只求在我最美的年华里，遇到你。
94. In one’s life, there should be at least one time when you forget yourself for someone, not for the result, not for the company, not for the possession, not even for your love for me, but just to meet you in my most beautiful years.

95、有些伤口，时间久了就会慢慢长好；有些委屈，受过了想通了也就释然了；有些伤痛，忍过了疼久了也成习惯了……然而却在很多孤独的瞬间，又重新涌上心头。其实，有些藏在心底的话，并不是故意要去隐瞒，只是，并不是所有的疼痛，都可以呐喊。
95. Some wounds take time to heal, some grievances become acceptable after being endured and thought through, and some pains become habits after being endured for a long time… However, in many lonely moments, they resurface. In fact, some words hidden deep in our hearts are not intentionally concealed, but not all pain can be shouted out.

96、最佳的报复不是仇恨，而是打心底发出的冷淡，干嘛花力气去恨一个不相干的人。
96. The best revenge is not hatred, but indifference from the bottom of your heart. Why waste energy hating someone irrelevant to you?

97、假如爱情可以解释，誓言可以修改。假如，你我的相遇，可以重新安排。那么，生活就会比较容易。假如有一天，我终于能将你忘记。然而，这不是随便传说的故事。也不是明天才要上演的戏剧。我无法找出原稿，然后，将你一笔抹去。
97. If love can be explained and vows can be modified. If our encounter can be rearranged. Then, life would be easier. If one day, I could finally forget you. However, this is not a story casually told. Nor is it a drama to be performed tomorrow. I cannot find the draft and then erase you with a single stroke.

98、有人告诉我，鱼的记忆只有7秒，7秒之后它就不记得过去的事情，一切又都变成新的。所以，在那小小鱼缸里的鱼儿，永远不会感到无聊。我宁愿是条鱼，7秒一过就什么都忘记，曾经遇到的人，曾经做过的事，都可以烟消云散。可我不是鱼，无法忘记我爱的人，无法忘记牵挂的苦，无法忘记相思的痛。
98. Someone told me that fish have a memory of only 7 seconds. After 7 seconds, they no longer remember the past, and everything becomes new again. So, the fish in that small fish tank will never feel bored. I would rather be a fish, forgetting everything after 7 seconds, the people I’ve met, the things I’ve done, all can vanish into thin air. But I am not a fish, unable to forget the one I love, unable to forget the pain of longing, unable to forget the ache of yearning.

99、最佳的报复不是仇恨，而是打心底发出的冷淡，干嘛花力气去恨一个不相干的人。
99. The best revenge is not hatred, but the indifference that comes from the bottom of your heart. Why waste energy hating someone irrelevant.

100、没有人有耐心听你讲完自己的故事，因为每个人都有自己的话要说；没有人喜欢听你抱怨生活，因为每个人都有自己的苦痛；世人多半寂寞，这世界愿意倾听，习惯沉默的人，难得几个。我再也不想对别人提起自己的过往，那些挣扎在梦魇中的寂寞，荒芜，还是交给时间，慢慢淡漠。
100. No one has the patience to listen to your story, because everyone has their own words to say; no one likes to hear you complain about life, because everyone has their own pain; most people in the world are lonely, and those who are willing to listen and used to being silent are rare. I no longer want to tell others about my past, those struggles in the nightmare of loneliness and desolation, let time slowly fade them away.