1.总以为自己有颗童心就能摆脱成长的烦恼,其实不然,无理取闹的年龄过了,该长大了。
1. You always think that having a childlike heart can free you from the troubles of growing up, but that’s not the case. The age of unreasonableness has passed, it’s time to grow up.
2.宁愿高傲的被爱,也不要卑微的去爱!
2. I would rather be loved with pride than to love humbly!
3.时间会把你想要的东西慢慢都给你,但是它也会把你所有舍不得的东西慢慢都带走。
3. Time will slowly give you what you want, but it will also slowly take away everything you can’t bear to lose.
4.如果你放不下错的人,那么你永远也找不到对的人!没有人会陪你走一辈子,所以你要适应孤独,没有人会帮你一辈子,所以你要一直奋斗。
4. If you can’t let go of the wrong person, you will never find the right one! No one will accompany you for a lifetime, so you need to adapt to loneliness. No one will help you for a lifetime, so you must keep striving.
5.爱情是灯,友情是影子,当灯灭了,你会发现你的周围都是影子,朋友,是在最后可以给你力量的人!
5. Love is a lamp, friendship is a shadow. When the lamp goes out, you will find that your surroundings are full of shadows. Friends are the ones who can give you strength in the end!
6.每个人的心里,都会有那个一个你不想提,却永远不会忘记的人。
6. In everyone’s heart, there is a person you don’t want to mention but will never forget.
7.很多事情的后果是你无法自己去控制的,你能做的,只是去做你认为正确的事情。
7. The consequences of many things are beyond your control. What you can do is to do what you think is right.
8.不属于我的东西,我不要。不是真心给我的东西,我不要。
8. I don’t want things that don’t belong to me. I don’t want things that aren’t given to me sincerely.
9.只是一个人安静地流泪,悲伤到不能自已。再也回不来了,那些安静幸福的时光,那些相濡以沫的爱情,再也找不回来了。整个世界,都空了。
9. Just quietly crying alone, overwhelmed with sadness. Those quiet, happy times, that tender love - they are gone forever. The whole world feels empty.
10.站在六楼望下,眼里是忍了又忍的眼泪。辞远,我们不说那么虚幻的东西。来生太飘渺,我只要今世。今世爱你就足够。
10. Standing on the sixth floor and looking down, my eyes are filled with tears that I’ve held back again and again. Farewell, we don’t talk about such illusory things. The afterlife is too ethereal; I just want this life. Loving you in this life is enough.
11.你再也遇不到一个人这样爱你,我亦不会再这样爱一个人。
11. You will never meet someone who loves you like this again, and I will never love someone like this again.
12.可是美丽如她怎么也留不住你的心,你们笑得那么自然,我实在是不懂,有过爱情的人怎么可以这么云淡风清。
12. But beautiful as she is, she can’t hold onto your heart. You both laugh so naturally; I really don’t understand how people who have experienced love can be so indifferent.
13.有多少次我们为了面子而错过了本该属于我们的东西,又有多少次我们执着的去挽留本不该属于我们的东西。
13. How many times have we missed what should have been ours for the sake of face, and how many times have we persistently tried to keep what shouldn’t be ours?
14.我深信心里有我的人会永远包容我的缺点,迁就我的任性,用他对我的执着来改变我,而不是转身…
14. I firmly believe that the person who has me in their heart will always tolerate my shortcomings, accommodate my willfulness, and change me with their persistence, instead of turning away…
15.也许,我早已不是要选择一个人。 而是,在等待那个可以在一起的人。
15. Perhaps, I am no longer looking for a person to choose. Instead, I am waiting for the one I can be with.
16.爱情开始的时候,忙着把对方的习惯变成习惯。爱情结束的时候,又忙着把这些习惯封成禁忌。
16. At the beginning of love, we are busy turning each other’s habits into our own. At the end of love, we are busy turning these habits into taboos.
17.那些偷偷溜走的时光,催老了我们的容颜,却丰盈了我们的人生。
17. Those quietly slipping away moments have aged our appearances but enriched our lives.
18.读书多了,容颜自然改变,许多时候,自己可能以为许多看过的书籍都成了过眼云烟,不复记忆,其实他们仍是潜在的。在气质里,在谈吐上,在胸襟的无涯,当然也可能显露在生活和文字里。
18. The more books you read, the more your appearance naturally changes. Many times, you may think that the books you’ve read have become fleeting memories, but they are still hidden within you. In your temperament, in your conversation, in the boundlessness of your mind, and of course, they may also be revealed in your life and writing.
19.我们放下尊严,放下个性,放下固执,都只是因为放不下一个人。
19. We let go of our dignity, our personality, and our stubbornness, all because we can’t let go of a person.
20.我不需要太多复杂的剧情,只想确定你会在我故事里。
20. I don’t need too many complicated plots; I just want to make sure that you are in my story.
21.友情的延续来自心灵,不论联系有多少,只要内心留有彼此的一片天空,那么偶尔一声问侯就会带来会心的一笑。
21. The continuation of friendship comes from the heart. No matter how much contact there is, as long as there is a piece of sky for each other in our hearts, an occasional greeting can bring a knowing smile.
22.不管怎么样,你都不要放弃希望,只要相信期待就会成真,无论碰到什么挫折,只要坚持下去,就会如愿以偿。
22. No matter what, don’t give up hope. As long as you believe and expect, it will come true. No matter what setbacks you encounter, if you persist, you will get what you want.
23.爱一个人就是拨通电话时忽然不知道要说什么,才知道原来只是想听听她那熟悉的声音,原来真正想拨通的,只是自己心底的一根弦。
23. Loving someone is when you dial a phone call and suddenly don’t know what to say, only to realize that you just want to hear her familiar voice. It turns out that what you really want to connect is a string in your own heart.
24.你永远也看不到我最寂寞时候的样子,因为只有你不在我身边的时候,我才最寂寞。
24. You will never see me at my loneliest, because I am only the loneliest when you are not by my side.
25.年少时都曾那样的执着,或因一件事物,或因,一份感情。那些可长可短的情绪会幻化成一种力量,令我们痛不欲生,或,生不如死。
25. When we were young, we were all so persistent, either because of an object or a feeling. Those emotions, long or short, would turn into a force that made us suffer or feel life was not worth living.
26.如果生活是一场戏,我就是那台上的小丑,永远挂着别人的笑脸,流着自己的泪水。
26. If life is a play, I am the clown on the stage, always wearing other people’s smiles and shedding my own tears.
27.那些曾经以为念念不忘的事情就在我们念念不忘的过程里,被我们遗忘了。
27. Those things we thought we would never forget were forgotten in the process of never forgetting.
28.那些以前说着永不分离的人,早已经散落在天涯了。
28. Those who once said they would never part have long been scattered across the world.
29.离别与重逢,是人生不停上演的戏,习惯了,也就不再悲怆。
29. Parting and reunion are the constant plays in life. Once accustomed to them, there is no longer any sorrow.
30.结局已经注定,我们都无法去改变什么,我们都无能为力去多做点什么,就这样地结束爱你的心。
30. The ending is already predetermined, and we cannot change anything. We are powerless to do more, and so we end our love for you.
31.既不回头,何必不忘。既然无缘,何需誓言。今夕何夕。君已陌路。其实真的有命运。
31. If we don’t look back, why not forget? Since we have no fate, why make promises? Tonight, who knows? You have become a stranger. In fact, there is really fate.
32.寂寞的人总是会用心的记住他生命中出现过的每一个人,于是我总是意犹未尽地想起你,在每个星光陨落的晚上一遍一遍数我的寂寞。
32. Lonely people always remember everyone who has appeared in their lives with all their hearts, so I always think of you with lingering thoughts, counting my loneliness over and over on every starry night.
33.曾经也有一个笑容出现在我的生命里,可是最后还是如雾般消散,而那个笑容,就成为我心中深深埋藏的一条湍急河流,无法泅渡,那河流的声音,就成为我每日每夜绝望的歌唱。
33. Once there was a smile in my life, but it eventually dissipated like fog. That smile became a turbulent river deeply buried in my heart, impossible to cross. The sound of that river became the desperate singing in my daily and nightly life.
34.我就像现在一样看着你微笑,沉默,得意,失落,于是我跟着你开心也跟着你难过,只是我一直站在现在而你却永远停留过去。
34. I watch you smile, remain silent, feel proud, and lose myself, so I am happy with you and sad with you. I always stand in the present, but you stay in the past.
35.很多人不需要再见,因为只是路过而已。总有一些时光,要在过去后,才会发现它已深深刻在记忆中。谢谢你来过,很遗憾你还是离开。
35. Many people don’t need to say goodbye because they are just passing by. There are always moments that only become deeply engraved in our memories after they have passed. Thank you for coming, but it’s a pity that you still left.
36.能冲刷一切地除了眼泪,就是时间,以时间来推移豪情,时间越长,抵触越淡,似乎一杯不时稀释地茶。
36. Apart from tears, the only thing that can wash away everything is time. Time shifts our emotions, and the longer it passes, the weaker the resistance becomes, like a cup of tea that is constantly diluted.
37.人生若只如初见,便可省略诸多的怨怼。她说的,人生再好,怎如初见。她这一生,早就覆水难收。唯一的契机,只是在初见的那一瞬间,却无法永恒。
37. If life were only like when we first met, we could omit many regrets. She said that life is good, but it’s not as good as when we first met. Her life has long been irretrievable. The only opportunity was in that first moment, but it could not last forever.
38.人们对于生命的馈赠总是显得如此心平气和,我们无法抗拒,却要一并应承错过。只能奢望下次契机出现时能坦然迎接,可即使在期望与焦虑中熬过整个严冬,邂逅的,也未必就是春暖花开。
38. People always seem calm and composed when it comes to the gifts of life. We cannot resist but have to accept the missed opportunities. We can only hope to embrace the next opportunity with ease, but even after enduring the whole winter of expectation and anxiety, what we encounter may not necessarily be the warm spring blossoms.
39.她是我今生无论走到哪里都忘不掉的人,我不见得如何深爱她,可再也不会有一个人那么轻易就让我心痛。
39. She is the person I will never forget no matter where I go in this life. I may not love her deeply, but no one else can make my heart ache so easily.
40.那些温暖,以及纯真,在岁月的侵蚀下,已成虚妄。唯一的感恩,是在我们初初相见的那一刻。
40. The warmth and innocence have become illusions under the erosion of time. The only gratitude is for the moment when we first met.
41.这一次,他没有挽留,有些缘分就是需要,到了期限,就抓不住了。
41. This time, he didn’t try to hold on; some fates are meant to be let go once their time has come.
42.当然有过那样的一个人,是生命中不可磨灭的烙印。有了他,世上别的人都可以被忽略。即使把握不住任何有关于爱情的线索,也深深感激他陪同我度过的漫漫人生。即使人暮黄昏黯然回望,也庆幸曾经有泪是为他而流。
42. There was indeed such a person, an indelible mark in life. With him, everyone else in the world could be ignored. Even if I couldn’t grasp any clues about love, I am deeply grateful for his company through the long journey of life. Even as I look back in the dim twilight of old age, I am glad that I once shed tears for him.
43.有些人会一直刻在记忆里的,即使忘记了他的声音,忘记了他的笑容,忘记了他的脸,但是每当想起他时的那种感受,是永远都不会改变的。
43. Some people will always be etched in our memories; even if we forget their voices, their smiles, and their faces, the feeling we have when we think of them will never change.
44.一个人总要走陌生的路,看陌生的风景,听陌生的歌,然后在某个不经意的瞬间,你会发现,原本费尽心机想要忘记的事情真的就这么忘记了。
44. One must always walk unfamiliar roads, see unfamiliar scenery, and listen to unfamiliar songs. Then, in a moment of carelessness, you will find that the things you tried so hard to forget have truly been forgotten.
45.寂寞的人总是会用心的记住他生命中出现过的每一个人,于是我总是意犹未尽地想起你在每个星光陨落的晚上一遍一遍数我的寂寞。
45. Lonely people always remember everyone who has appeared in their lives with all their hearts. So, I always think of you with lingering thoughts, counting my loneliness again and again on every starry night.
46.风吹起如花般破碎的流年,而你的笑容摇晃摇晃,成为我命途中最美的点缀,看天,看雪,看季节深深的暗影。
46. The wind blows the broken years like flowers, and your smile sways, becoming the most beautiful ornament in my life journey. Watching the sky, the snow, and the deep shadows of the seasons.
47.有些事情还没讲完那就算了吧。每个人都是一个国王,在自己的世界里纵横跋扈,你不要听我的,但你也不要让我听你的。
47. Some things left unsaid are better left that way. Everyone is a king in their own world, dominating and ruling. You don’t have to listen to me, but don’t make me listen to you either.
48.那个下雨的夜、独自走在我们曾牵手同行的路上,再也找不到幸福的感觉,没有了欢快的笑声、也没有了情语绵绵,只有那风的嘲笑和雨的哭泣声…
48. On that rainy night, walking alone on the path where we once held hands, I can no longer find the feeling of happiness. There are no more joyful laughter or endless love words, only the mocking wind and the crying rain…
49.凡世的喧嚣和明亮,世俗的快乐和幸福,如同清亮的溪涧,在风里,在我眼前,汨汨而过,温暖如同泉水一样涌出来,我没有奢望,我只要你快乐,不要哀伤……
49. The noise and brightness of the world, the happiness and joy of secular life, flow like a clear stream, in the wind and before my eyes. Warmth gushes out like a spring. I have no extravagant desires; I just want you to be happy and not sad…
50.我想给我的灵魂找一条出路,也许路太远,没有归宿,但我只能前往。
50. I want to find a way out for my soul. Perhaps the road is too long and has no destination, but I must go forward.
51.一个人最大的缺点不是自私多情野蛮任性,而是偏执地爱一个不爱自己的人。
51. A person’s biggest flaw is not selfishness, sentimentality, barbarism, or willfulness, but being stubbornly in love with someone who doesn’t love them.
52.心是最大的骗子,别人能骗你一时,而它却会骗你一辈子。
52. The heart is the biggest liar; others can deceive you for a while, but it can deceive you for a lifetime.
53.我真的喜欢你,闭上眼,以为我能忘记,但流下的眼泪,却没有骗到自己。
53. I really like you. I close my eyes, thinking I can forget, but the tears I shed have not deceived myself.
54.如果不曾拥有又怎么会失去呢拥有就是失去的开始。
54. If you never had something, how could you lose it? Possessing something is the beginning of losing it.
55.心中开始发现,生命只是一句无缘,爱走了,梦散了,还有一种孤独,还有一种无奈,藏着太多的孤独,把自由一分钟包围。分开的凋零,爱情的憔悴,一朵花,一个世界,一份思念,一片无缘,只是手中的画面,人生的再也不见。
55. In my heart, I begin to realize that life is just a sentence of no fate. Love is gone, dreams are scattered, and there is loneliness and helplessness, hiding too much solitude, surrounding freedom for just one minute. The withering of separation, the haggardness of love, a flower, a world, a longing, a no fate, just a picture in hand, and never again in life.
56.很多人都不明白,为什么每个人都有一张嘴两个耳朵两只眼睛,因为每个人看的听的都比说的多
56. Many people don’t understand why everyone has one mouth, two ears, and two eyes, because everyone sees and hears more than they speak.
57.积极的人在机会面前看到希望,消极的人在机会面前看到忧患
57. Positive people see hope in the face of opportunities, while negative people see worries.
58.其实没有什么能伤害你,能伤害你的,是你的在意。
58. In fact, nothing can hurt you. What can hurt you is your concern.
59.这世界根本没有绝对的公平,车走车路,马走马路,凭真本事是竞争的砝码,长袖善舞,懂得敷衍,也是竞争的手段,无可厚非,就看你要什么,坚守什么。
59. There is no absolute fairness in this world. Cars take the road, horses take the path. Real skills are the key to competition, while being tactful and knowing how to please others is also a means of competition. There is nothing wrong with it; it depends on what you want and what you stand for.
60.不是每一次努力都会有收获,但是,每一次收获都必须努力,这是一个不公平的不可逆转的命题。
60. Not every effort will yield results, but every gain requires effort. This is an unfair and irreversible proposition.
61.愿孤独过后,你活成自己喜欢的模样。
61. May you become the person you like after the loneliness.
62.走得最急的,都是最美的风景;伤得最深的,也总是那些最真的感情。
62. The most fleeting moments are the most beautiful scenes; the deepest wounds always come from the most genuine feelings.
63.恋爱的时间是那么地短暂而又美好,留下了今生最美的回忆,曾经感叹,今生没有虚度,至少我们还从心底爱过彼此……
63. The time of love is so short and beautiful, leaving the most beautiful memories of this life. Once I sighed that I hadn’t lived in vain, for we have truly loved each other from the bottom of our hearts…
64.静静地,把心交给这一场场的忧伤,在忧伤里沉醉,在忧伤里思索,在忧伤里体会,另一种别样而真实的美丽。
64. Quietly, I give my heart to these moments of sorrow, indulging, contemplating, and experiencing another unique and genuine beauty in sadness.
65.我以为小鸟飞不过沧海,是小鸟没有飞过沧海的勇气,多年后我才发现,不是小鸟飞不过去,而是沧海的那一头早已没有了等待。
65. I thought the little bird couldn’t fly across the sea because it lacked the courage. Years later, I realized it wasn’t the bird that couldn’t fly across, but that there was no longer any waiting on the other side of the sea.
66.伤口就像我一样,是个倔强的孩子,不肯愈合,因为内心是温暖潮湿的地方,适合任何东西生长。
66. The wound is like me, a stubborn child that refuses to heal, because the heart is a warm and damp place, suitable for the growth of anything.
67.那些刻在椅子背后的爱情,会不会像水泥上的花朵,开出没有风的,寂寞的森林。
67. The love engraved on the back of the chair, will it bloom like flowers on cement, creating a lonely forest without wind?
68.原来一直以来是我在自作多情,原来你早已经把我当成过去,而我却傻傻地把你一直当成永远。
68. It turns out that I have always been wishful thinking. You have long regarded me as a thing of the past, while I foolishly considered you as forever.
69.一支彼岸花,无论是盛夏绽放着寂寞,还是黄泉路上绝美的繁华,都是我们生生世世无法穿越的殊途。
69. A flower from the other shore, whether it blooms in solitude during the peak of summer or forms a beautiful spectacle on the road to the underworld, represents a different path we can never cross in our eternal lives.
70.没有人会留意,这个陌生又熟悉城市的秋天,窗外阳光灿烂。我却没有温暖,满是忧伤,伴着我的歌声。是我心碎的幻想,我用我的眼泪,抚摸我的寂寞和悲伤。
70. No one notices the autumn of this strange yet familiar city, with bright sunshine outside the window. I have no warmth, only sorrow, accompanying my singing. It’s the illusion of my broken heart. I use my tears to touch my loneliness and sadness.
71.慢慢的,迷茫,好比流浪,却想不通,为何扎根于我的心膛。再次闲下来时,不知道了,原来是我们迷失了的自我。
71. Slowly, confusion sets in, like wandering, but I can’t figure out why it has taken root in my heart. When I’m idle again, I realize that we have lost ourselves.
72.曾经的岁月不在翻转,曾经的我们年少轻狂。
72. The past years will never turn back, and we were once young and reckless.
73.不管你爱过多少人,不管你爱的多么痛苦或快乐。最后,你不是学会了怎样去恋爱,而是学会了怎样去爱自己。
73. No matter how many people you have loved or how painful or joyful your love has been, in the end, you don’t learn how to love others, but rather how to love yourself.
74.失望到极致是想说一长串证明自己的话,可是话到嘴边却又变成了苦笑,觉得再没有任何必要,说一个字都觉得多余。
74. When disappointment reaches the extreme, you want to say a long串 of words to prove yourself, but when it comes to your lips, it turns into a bitter smile. You feel there is no need anymore, and saying a single word feels unnecessary.
75.生活总是这样,不能叫人处处都满意。但我们还要热情地活下去。
75. Life is always like this, not satisfying everyone at every turn. But we must still live passionately.
76.在还没有人疼你的时候,你必须活得像个爷们
76. When no one loves you, you must live like a tough guy.
77.有时候,你需要出去走一走,呼吸一下新鲜空气,然后提醒自己,你是谁,想成为什么样的人。
77. Sometimes, you need to go out for a walk, breathe some fresh air, and remind yourself of who you are and what kind of person you want to become.
78.一个人,有时真是蛮享受的。不用因迁就而遗失自我,亦不必为维持自我而得罪任何人,一个人有一个的好。—— 亦舒
78. Being alone can be quite enjoyable at times. You don’t have to compromise and lose yourself, nor do you have to offend anyone to maintain your identity. There are benefits to being alone. - Yi Shu
79.有些人在想一个人,有些人在等一个人,有些人敏感的心拒绝任何人,或者说,习惯了一个人,我已经分不清,你是友情,还是错过的爱情。
79. Some people are thinking of someone, some are waiting for someone, while some sensitive hearts reject anyone, or rather, are accustomed to being alone. I can no longer tell if you are friendship or a missed love.
80.人生就是一场旅行,不在乎目的地,在乎的是沿途的风景以及看风景的心情。
80. Life is a journey; it’s not about the destination, but the scenery along the way and the mood with which you view it.
81.人不能太方,也不能太圆,一个会伤人,一个会让人远离你,因此人要椭圆。
81. One cannot be too square or too round, as one may hurt others, and the other may cause people to distance themselves. Therefore, one should be elliptical.
82.开始认真的去写诗,用心的去审视每个文字,正因那里都是你的影子。
82. I began to write poetry earnestly and scrutinize every word, for there your shadow lies.
83.两个人走总不会寂寞,孤独的时候还有个你。
83. Two people walking together will never be lonely; even in solitude, there is still you.
84.得到了再失去,总是比从来就没有得到更伤人
84. To gain and then lose something is always more painful than never having it at all.
85.别试图站在高楼往下跳,一旦跳下,要么是摔死自我,要么是砸死别人,死相都不好看。
85. Don’t try to jump off a tall building; once you jump, either you’ll crush yourself or someone else, and neither outcome is pretty.
86.寂寞的人总是会用心的记住他生命中出现过的每一个人,于是我总是意犹未尽地想起你在每个星光陨落的晚上一遍一遍数我的寂寞
86. Lonely people always remember everyone who has appeared in their lives with all their hearts. Thus, I endlessly recall you on every starry night, counting my loneliness over and over.
87.当忧伤袭来之时,才知道自己原本对快乐只能是一种奢求,快乐总是伴着忧伤不期而至。而快乐总是与我擦肩而过,留下忧伤伴我左右。
87. When sadness strikes, one realizes that happiness is but a luxury, often accompanied by sorrow. Happiness always passes by, leaving sorrow by my side.
88.当时间不再等待时,而同一条街头的徘徊,原来也是一种渐变的悲哀。当秋叶纷纷飘落时,在同一路口的等待,尽然也成了一种麻木的无奈。
88. When time no longer waits, wandering on the same street becomes a gradual sorrow. As autumn leaves fall, waiting at the same intersection turns into a numb helplessness.
89.记忆突然漏掉的一块被风吹散,形成永远无法弥补的空白。记忆的空白总会被以后旳人和事所填满,并在时间的空隙里,慢慢凝结成永恒。
89. A sudden gap in memory, scattered by the wind, forms an eternal void. This void will be filled by future people and events, gradually solidifying into eternity in the gaps of time.
90.我终在飘零,没有港湾没有航向,追逐的却总是一潮潮,一浪浪的讽刺,不知还有什么理由能让我还活着,还有什么能让我去追寻。
90. I am adrift, without a harbor or direction, chasing after wave after wave, wave after wave of irony. I don’t know what reason there is for me to keep living, or what I should pursue.
91.寂寞惯了,当你来的时候,我天真的以为我看到了希望,现在的心更痛了,你不过是一个擦肩而过的陌生人。
91. Accustomed to loneliness, when you came, I naively thought I saw hope. Now my heart aches more, for you are but a stranger passing by.
92.有些事,不经意也会想起;有些回忆,白发苍苍也无法忘记;有些伤口,别人永远看不见,因为它就在你的心里深藏。
92. Some things are remembered unintentionally; some memories can never be forgotten, even when one’s hair turns gray; some wounds are invisible to others, for they are hidden deep within your heart.
93.人生最遗憾的,莫过于,轻易地放弃了不该放弃的,固执地坚持了不该坚持的。
93. The most regrettable thing in life is to give up too easily on what should not be given up, and to stubbornly persist in what should not be persisted in.
94.有些人会一直刻在记忆里的,即使忘记了他的声音,忘记了他的笑容,忘记了他的脸,但是每当想起他时的那种感受,是永远都不会改变的。
94. Some people will always be etched in your memory; even if you forget their voice, their smile, and their face, the feeling you have when you think of them will never change.
95.为你的难过而快乐的是敌人,为你的快乐而快乐的是朋友,为你的难过而难过的才是你的知己。
95. Those who are happy at your misfortune are enemies; those who are happy at your happiness are friends; those who are sad at your misfortune are your confidants.
96.嫌贫爱富不是可耻,是不明智。适当放宽点要求,不是在给别人机会,而是在给你自己机会。对于宁死都不会降低要求的女孩,我觉得与其把时间浪费在找男人身上,还不如把精力用在拼拼事业。把自己变成豪门,也就不必在乎对方是不是豪门了。
96. It’s not shameful to prefer wealth over poverty, but unwise. Relaxing your requirements a bit is not giving others a chance, but giving yourself one. For girls who would rather die than lower their standards, I think it’s better to focus on building a career than searching for a man. Become a magnate yourself, and you won’t have to care whether the other party is one or not.
97.生活啊,轻松一些,咯嘣干脆点,快乐一些,着急什么啊?
97. Life, be more relaxed, more straightforward, and happier. What’s the rush?
98.我还相信工作的价值——越辛苦越好。不工作的人有太多的时间来沉溺于自己和自己的烦恼之中。
98. I still believe in the value of work - the harder, the better. People without work have too much time to indulge in their own troubles.
99.尊敬一个人是要尊敬他的行为,而不是他的年龄。如果一个人的行为不正确,那么不管他多大岁数,都不能尊敬他,反而要去指责他。
99. Respect a person for their actions, not their age. If a person’s behavior is not correct, regardless of their age, they should not be respected but rather criticized.
100.从今开始,我要帮自己一个忙。卸下负担。忘却疼痛、抚平创伤。
100. From now on, I will do myself a favor. Let go of burdens. Forget the pain and heal the wounds.
101.有些人明明刻薄嘴欠却说自己是幽默,有些人明明口无遮拦却说自己是坦率,有些人没有教养却以为自己是随性,也有些人轻重不分以为自己是耿直。
101. Some people who are mean and sarcastic claim to be humorous, some who speak without restraint think they are straightforward, some who lack manners believe they are casual, and some who don’t know boundaries think they are honest.
102.有走的理由,却愿意停留,才是爱的最好理由。
102. Having a reason to leave but choosing to stay is the best reason for love.
103.愿多年以后,你我认识旧友,共饮老酒一醉方休,唱一句青春不朽!
103. May we, after many years, meet old friends, drink aged wine together, and sing of eternal youth!
104.每一次结束都有一串沉重的往事,每一次放弃都有一番苦苦的徘徊,在开始与结束间进行着新的人生,续写着新的剧情。结束不是无情,放弃不是轻松,于选择与放弃间理解人生,感受心情。懂得选择与放弃,开始与结束,就是人生。
104. Every ending carries a heavy past, and every giving up involves a painful dilemma. Between beginnings and endings, we embark on new lives and write new stories. Endings are not heartless, and giving up is not easy. Understanding choices and giving up, beginnings and endings, is what life is about.
105.相遇不必太早,只要刚好。让人沮丧的是,你是午夜误点的乘客;但却有这样的幸运,而他偏偏也选了这班车。
105. Meeting doesn’t have to be too early, as long as it’s just in time. It’s disheartening that you are a late-night passenger, but luckily, they also chose this bus.
106.我以为终有一天,我会彻底将爱情忘记,将你忘记,可是,忽然有一天,我听到了一首旧歌,我的眼泪就下来了,因为这首歌,我们一起听过。我们始终都在练习微笑,终于变成不敢哭的人。
106. I thought that one day I would completely forget about love and you, but suddenly, one day, I heard an old song, and my tears fell because we had listened to it together. We keep practicing smiling, eventually becoming people who dare not cry.
107.有时候你想证明给一万个人看,到后来,你发现只得到了一个明白的人,那就够了。
107. Sometimes you want to prove yourself to ten thousand people, but in the end, you find that only one person understands, and that’s enough.
108.少年时追求激情,成熟后却迷恋平静,在我们寻找,伤害,背离之后,还能一如既往的相信爱情,这是一种勇气。每个人都有属于自己的一片森林,迷失的人迷失了,相逢的人会再相逢。
108. In youth, we pursue passion, but as we mature, we become infatuated with tranquility. After searching, hurting, and betraying, to still believe in love is a kind of courage. Everyone has their own forest, where the lost get lost, and those who meet will meet again.
109.单身久了是什么感觉?——偶尔羡慕情侣,偶尔庆幸自由。
109. What is it like to be single for a long time? - Occasionally envy couples, occasionally grateful for freedom.
110.别让不合适的人带走了最好的你。
110. Don’t let the wrong person take away the best in you.