1.别小看任何人,越不起眼的人。往往会做些让人想不到的事。
1. Never underestimate anyone, as the most unassuming people often do things that are unexpected.
2.抱怨就像搬起石头砸自己的脚,于人无益,于己不利,于事无补。
2. Complaining is like lifting a stone only to drop it on your own foot; it benefits no one, harms yourself, and does not help the situation.
3.被人误解的时候能微微的一笑,这是一种素养;受委屈的时候能坦然的一笑,这是一种大度;吃亏的时候能开心的一笑,这是一种豁达;无奈的时候能达观的一笑,这是一种境界;危难的时候能泰然一笑,这是一种大气;被轻蔑的时候能平静的一笑,这是一种自信;失恋的时候能轻轻的一笑,这是一种洒脱。
3. When misunderstood, a slight smile demonstrates your cultivation; when wronged, a calm smile shows your magnanimity; when at a disadvantage, a happy smile reflects your open-mindedness; when helpless, an optimistic smile represents your realm; when in danger, a composed smile displays your grandeur; when belittled, a peaceful smile indicates your confidence; when heartbroken, a gentle smile signifies your detachment.
4.表面上缺的是金钱,本质上缺的是观念,命运里缺的是选择,骨子里缺的是勇气,肚子里缺的是知识,事业上缺的是毅力,行动上缺的是改变!
4. On the surface, it may seem like a lack of money, but fundamentally, it is a lack of ideas. In fate, it is a lack of choices; in character, it is a lack of courage; in knowledge, it is a lack of learning; in career, it is a lack of perseverance; in action, it is a lack of change!
5.别人讲我们不好,不用生气难过。说我们好也不用高兴,这不好中有好,好中有坏,就看你会不会用?
5. When others speak ill of us, there is no need to be angry or upset. When they praise us, there is no need to be happy either, for there is good in the bad and bad in the good, depending on how you use it.
6.别人可以违背因果,别人可以害我们,打我们,毁谤我们。可是我们不能因此而憎恨别人,为什么?我们定要保有颗完整的本性和颗清净的心。
6. Others may go against cause and effect, harm us, beat us, or slander us. However, we must not hate them for this. Why? We must always maintain our integrity and a pure heart.
7.别人永远对,我永远错,这样子比较没烦恼。
7. If you think others are always right and you are always wrong, you will have fewer worries.
8.别试图去给年轻人讲经验,讲一万句不如他自己摔一跤;眼泪教他做人,后悔帮他成长,疼痛才是最好的老师。人生该走的弯路,其实一米都少不了。
8. Do not try to impart experience to young people. A million words are not as effective as one fall. Tears teach them to be human, regret helps them grow, and pain is the best teacher. The detours in life must be taken, and not a single step can be skipped.
9.把自己当成大树,便时时有被狂风刮倒的忧愁;把自己当作棵幼苗,便时时会享受阳光雨露。青涩,便成长;熟透,便腐烂!
9. If you see yourself as a towering tree, you will always worry about being knocked down by fierce winds; if you see yourself as a young sapling, you will always enjoy the sunshine and rain. Being young means growth, while being ripe means decay!
10.不懂得自爱的人,是没有能力去爱别人的。
10. Those who do not love themselves are incapable of loving others.
11.不管你的生活有多么糟糕,都要记得微笑;不管你受了多少伤,都不要绝望;不管你的内心有多迷茫,都要记得你的梦想。有了梦想,灵魂就不会四处游荡;有了梦想,生活就有希望;有了梦想,每个平凡的日子都会变得闪亮。
11. No matter how bad your life may be, always remember to smile; no matter how many injuries you have suffered, do not despair; no matter how confused your heart may be, always remember your dreams. With dreams, the soul will not wander aimlessly; with dreams, life has hope; with dreams, every ordinary day becomes radiant.
12.不管是身处上坡还是下坡,适当的时候一定要懂得让自己停下来,驻足回望是为了更好地迈进。
12. Whether you are going uphill or downhill, it is important to know when to stop and take a break. Pausing to look back allows you to move forward more effectively.
13.不适合的鞋子,就不要硬塞了,磨的是自己的脚;打电话对方不接,就不要一次次重拨,珍惜你的会第一时间打来;搬走的餐厅,就不要老远过去吃了,你的时间不能一直花在追随的路上。所有人和事,自己问心无愧就好,不是你的也别强求,其实离去的都是风景,留下的才是人生。
13. Do not force ill-fitting shoes onto your feet, as they will only cause blisters. If someone does not answer your call, do not keep redialing, as those who care for you will call you first. If a restaurant has moved away, do not go out of your way to eat there, as your time should not be spent chasing after things. For all people and things, be true to yourself and do not强求 what is not yours. Those who leave are just scenery, while those who remain are your life.
14.不要常常觉得自己很不幸,世界上比我们痛苦的人还要多。
14. Do not often feel unfortunate, as there are many people in the world who suffer more than us.
15.不要太肯定自己的看法,这样子比较少后悔。当你对自己诚实的时候,世界上没有人能够欺骗得了你。
15. Do not be too certain of your own opinions, for this will lead to fewer regrets. When you are honest with yourself, no one in the world can deceive you.
16.【快乐人生的十个要点】一、脾气小一点。二、心情好一点。三、嘴巴甜一点。四、脑袋活一点。五、行动快一点。六、效率高一点。七、胆子大一点。八、理由少一点。九、运动多一点。十、身体好一点。
16. [Ten要点 for a happy life]: 1. Have a smaller temper. 2. Be in a better mood. 3. Speak more sweetly. 4. Be more mentally agile. 5. Act faster. 6. Be more efficient. 7. Be more courageous. 8. Have fewer excuses. 9. Exercise more. 10. Keep your body healthier.
17.不要太心急,不用太焦虑,所有事物的流动,都自有它的顺序。很多的时候,只要我们等一等,就安全了,让一让就过去了,忍一忍就和谐了,看一看就明白了,尝一尝就知道了,问一问就清楚了,想一想就悟出了。你跟事情过不去,那些事情必然跟你过不去。只有和谐的心态,才能引发出和谐的事态。
17. Do not be too anxious, do not be too worried, everything has its own order of flow. Many times, if we just wait a moment, we will be safe; if we just give way, it will pass; if we just endure, we will be harmonious; if we just observe, we will understand; if we just taste, we will know; if we just ask, we will find out; if we just think, we will realize. If you cannot let go of the issues, those issues will inevitably cause you trouble. Only a harmonious mindset can lead to harmonious situations.
18.不要因为小小的争执,远离了你至亲的好友,也不要因为小小的怨恨,忘记了别人的大恩。勇于接受别人的批评,正好可以调整自己的缺点。
18. Do not distance yourself from your close friends over trivial disputes, nor forget others’ great kindness because of minor grievances. Be brave to accept criticism from others, as it can help adjust your shortcomings.
19.不要因为众生的愚疑,而带来了自己的烦恼。不要因为众生的无知,而痛苦了你自己。
19. Do not let the ignorance and doubts of others bring you troubles. Do not let the ignorance of others cause you pain.
20.不要用玫瑰的标准去苛求全世界的花朵,要让每一朵花都绽放出自己独特的色彩和芬芳。
20. Do not judge all the flowers in the world by the standards of roses; let each flower bloom in its unique colors and fragrance.
21.不要在你的智慧中夹杂着傲慢。不要使你的谦虚心缺乏智慧。
21. Do not mix arrogance with your wisdom. Do not lack wisdom in your humility.
22.不与别人盲目攀比,自己就会悠然自得。不把人生目标定得太高,自己就会欢乐常在。不刻意追求完美,自己就会远离痛苦。不是时时苛求自己,自己就会活的自在。不每每吹毛求疵,自己就会轻轻松松。
22. Do not blindly compare yourself with others, and you will be content. Do not set your life goals too high, and you will always be happy. Do not deliberately pursue perfection, and you will stay away from pain. Do not constantly demand perfection from yourself, and you will live freely. Do not always nitpick, and you will be relaxed.
23.敞开心扉,宽容的对待别人你就会拥有全世界,记住,千万别为利来,为利往,笑看人生,你就是最幸福的人。
23. Open your heart and treat others with tolerance, and you will possess the whole world. Remember, do not come for the sake of gain, and laugh at life; then you will be the happiest person.
24.承认自己的伟大,就是认同自己的愚疑。
24. Admitting your greatness means acknowledging your ignorance.
25.仇恨永远不能化解仇恨,只有慈悲才能化解仇恨,这是永恒的至理。
25. Hatred can never resolve hatred; only compassion can dissolve hatred, and this is an eternal truth.
26.处不住的,只能遗弃;盼不来的,只能放弃;留不住的,只能终止。人生,就是这样,选择不易,放弃艰难。人生之苦,苦在选择,人生之难,难在放弃。人生,说到底,就是选择与放弃。
26. What cannot be settled must be abandoned; what cannot be expected must be given up; what cannot be retained must be terminated. Life is like this: making choices is not easy, giving up is difficult. The bitterness of life lies in making choices, and the difficulty of life lies in giving up. In the end, life is all about choices and sacrifices.
27.创造机会的人是勇者,等待机会的人是愚者。
27. Those who create opportunities are the brave, while those who wait for opportunities are the foolish.
28.慈悲是你最好的武器。
28. Compassion is your best weapon.
29.聪明之人,一味向前看;智慧之人,事事向后看;聪明之人,是战胜别人的人;智慧之人,是战胜自己的人。
29. The wise look forward, while the intelligent look back; the wise conquer others, while the intelligent conquer themselves.
30.从生来开始,我们最后都是要修得圆满,但是人和人圆满的境界是不一样的,每个人把自己要做的事情都做好就圆满了。所以不要评价他人,因为每个人都不一样,人只有自己有资格评价自己。
30. Since birth, we all aim to achieve perfection, but the state of perfection varies from person to person. As long as everyone does their own tasks well, they will achieve perfection. So do not judge others, as everyone is different, and only one has the right to judge oneself.
31.从现在开始,聪明一点,不要问别人想不想你,爱不爱你?若是要想你或者爱你自然会对你说,但是从你的嘴里说出来,别人会很骄傲和不在乎你。再也不要太在意一些人,太在乎一些事,顺其自然以最佳心态面对,因为这个世界就是这样:往往在最在乎的事物面前,我们最没有价值。
31. From now on, be smarter, do not ask others if they miss you or love you. If they want you or love you, they will naturally tell you. But if you say it yourself, others will become arrogant and not care about you. No longer care too much about some people or things, face the best attitude with the natural order, because the world is like this: often in front of the things we care about the most, we have the least value.
32.当窗外的风雨来了,我们有房屋,当心中的风雨来了呢?
32. When the wind and rain come outside the window, we have houses, but what about the storms in our hearts?
33.当你烦恼的时候,你就要告诉你自己,这切都是假的,你烦恼什么?
33. When you are troubled, you should tell yourself that all of this is false. Why are you troubled?
34.当你明天开始生活的时候,有人跟你争执,你就让他赢,这个赢跟输,都只是文字的观念罢了。当你让对方赢,你并没有损失什么。所谓的赢,他有赢到什么?得到什么?所谓的输,你又输到什么?失去什么?我们大部份的生命都浪费在文字语言的捉摸上。
34. When you start living tomorrow, if someone argues with you, let them win. The concepts of winning and losing are just words. When you let the other person win, you haven’t lost anything. What exactly has the so-called winner gained? What have they received? And what have you lost in the so-called defeat? Most of our lives are wasted on the nuances of language and words.
35.当你劝告别人时,若不顾及别人的自尊心,那么再好的言语都没有用的。
35. When you advise others, if you don’t take into account their self-esteem, even the best words are useless.
36.当你手中抓住一件东西不放时,你只能拥有这件东西,如果你肯放手,你就有机会选择别的。人的心若死执自己的观念,不肯放下,那么他的智慧也只能达到某种程度而已。
36. When you hold onto something, you can only possess that one thing. If you are willing to let go, you will have the opportunity to choose something else. If a person’s heart is stubbornly attached to their own concepts and refuses to let go, their wisdom can only reach a certain level.
37.当你未学佛的时候,你看什么都不顺。当你学佛以后,你要看什么都很顺。
37. When you haven’t learned Buddhism, everything seems unpleasant to you. After learning Buddhism, everything seems smooth and harmonious.
38.当你知道迷惑时,并不可怜,当你不知道迷惑时,才是最可怜的。
38. It’s not pitiful to be confused when you know it; the real pity comes when you are confused and don’t even realize it.
39.当所有的期待都成空,我还能相信什么。听着以前的歌,想着以前的人,看一个又一个陌生人来来去去,心里特别不是滋味。苦涩、酸楚、悲伤,一股劲的在心里翻滚,我只能苦笑。什么东西都无法经过时间的考验,什么都是只能相信一时,是誓言太假,还是现实太残酷?我不懂,我也不想懂,我累了。
39. When all expectations come to nothing, what else can I believe in? Listening to old songs, thinking of old people, and watching strangers come and go, I feel particularly uncomfortable. Bitterness, sourness, and sadness all churn inside my heart, and I can only force a smile. Nothing can stand the test of time; everything is just a temporary belief. Are promises too fake, or is reality too cruel? I don’t understand, and I don’t want to. I’m tired.
40.当一个人迫切的想要和你分手,你就答应他吧。他那样迫切,何尝对你不是一种侮辱。有些人总是不够清醒,看到对方那么迫切,却偏偏还想挽留……他迫你搬走,你要立刻找一辆货车来,连夜把属于自己的东西搬走,快的让他无法想象,迫切的人是留不住的,他根本不爱你,才会这样践踏你的尊严。
40. When someone is eager to break up with you, just agree. Their eagerness is an insult to you. Some people are not clear-headed enough; seeing the other person’s eagerness, they still want to hold on… When they urge you to move out, find a truck immediately and move your belongings overnight, so fast that they can’t even imagine it. You can’t keep someone who is so eager to leave; they don’t love you and will trample on your dignity.
41.当有人逼迫你去突破自己,你要感恩他。他是你生命中的贵人,也许你会因此而改变和蜕变。当没有人逼迫你,请自己逼迫自己,因为真正的改变是自己想改变。蜕变的过程是很痛苦的,但每一次的蜕变都会有成长的惊喜。
41. When someone forces you to break through yourself, be grateful to them. They are the noble person in your life, and you may change and transform because of them. When no one forces you, push yourself, because real change comes from the desire to change. The process of transformation is painful, but every transformation brings the surprise of growth.
42.得不到的东西,我们会直以为他是的,那是因为你对他了解太少,没有时间与他相处在起。当有天,你深入了解后,你会发现原不是你想像中的那么。
42. We always think that what we can’t get is the best because we don’t know enough about it and haven’t spent time with it. One day, when you truly understand it, you will find that it is not what you imagined.
43.得意时要看淡,失意时要看开。人生有许多东西是可以放下的。只有放得下,才能拿得起。尽量简化你的生活,你会发现那些被挡住的风景,才是最适宜的人生。千万不要过于执着,而使自己背上沉重的包袱。
43. When you are successful, learn to take it lightly; when you are frustrated, learn to let go. There are many things in life that can be let go. Only by letting go can we pick up more. Simplify your life as much as possible, and you will find that the blocked scenery is the most suitable for life. Don’t be too persistent, or you will burden yourself with a heavy load.
44.低头是一种能力,它不是自卑,也不是怯弱,它是清醒中的嬗变。有时,稍微低一下头,或者我们的人生路会更精彩。
44. Bowing your head is a skill, not inferiority or cowardice, but a transformation in sobriety. Sometimes, bowing your head a little can make your life more wonderful.
45.对待生命要认真,对待生活要活泼。
45. Treat life seriously and live lively.
46.对于时光而言,我们只不过是一粒细小的微尘;那些生命中很多的走过,也只不过是相逢与别离的叹息,丝毫不能改变时间的继续流逝;曾经以为,美丽的风景一直会延续,美好的时光会一直伴我们走下去,殊不知时光也会有苍老的一天。
46. In terms of time, we are just a tiny speck of dust; many of the encounters and farewells in life are just sighs, unable to change the continuous passage of time. I once thought that beautiful scenery would always last, and wonderful times would always be with us, but I didn’t know that time would age one day.
47.多少人要离开这个世间时,都会说出同句话,这世界真是无奈与凄凉啊!
47. Many people, when they leave this world, say the same thing: this world is truly full of helplessness and desolation!
48.多用心去倾听别人怎么说,不要急着表达你自己的看法。
48. Listen more to what others have to say, and don’t be in a hurry to express your own opinions.
49.恶口永远不要出自于我们的口中,不管他有多坏,有多恶。你愈骂他,你的心就被污染了,你要想,他就是你的善知识。
49. Never let harsh words come out of our mouths, no matter how bad or evil someone is. The more you curse them, the more your heart is polluted. Remember, they are your virtuous teachers.
50.法本法无法,无法法亦法。今付无法时,法法何曾法。令一切众生生欢喜者,则令一切如来欢喜。
50. The Dharma itself has no Dharma; even non-Dharma is Dharma. When there is no Dharma to be given, what has ever been the Dharma? To bring joy to all sentient beings is to bring joy to all the Tathagatas.
51.凡尘俗世,你来我往,纷纷扰扰难以回避。让你生气的人请不要在意,让你快乐的人请记得珍惜,让你无拘无束的人请藏在心底放进漫长的生命里。
51. In the mundane world, coming and going, hustle and bustle are hard to avoid. Don’t mind those who make you angry, cherish those who make you happy, and keep those who let you be carefree in your heart and throughout your long life.
52.凡是能站在别人的角度为他人着想,这个就是慈悲。
52. To be able to stand in someone else’s shoes and consider their feelings is what compassion is all about.
53.佛陀从不勉强别人去做他不的事情,佛陀只是告诉众生,何者是善?何者是恶?善恶还是要自己去选择,生命还是要自己去掌握。
53. Buddha never forced anyone to do things they didn’t want to do. Buddha only told sentient beings what is good and what is evil. It is up to each individual to choose between good and evil, and to take control of their own lives.
54.感悟人生话说好听的人,心往往冰凉。嘴上没一句好话的人,心地却很善良。人前很会做人的,背后总有算计。人前不会做人的,才是正直。当面说你不好的,实在都是朋友。背后说你坏话的,才是刀刀见血。眼前得罪人不可怕,不知不觉中得罪人才是最要命。
54. People who speak beautifully often have cold hearts. Those who never say a kind word may have a kind heart. Those who are good at dealing with others in public may have ulterior motives behind their backs. Those who are not good at dealing with others in public are often honest. Those who tell you directly that you are not good are true friends. Those who speak ill of you behind your back are the ones who hurt you the most. It’s not可怕 to offend people in front of them, but it’s deadly to offend them without realizing it.
55.感谢上苍我所拥有的,感谢上苍我所没有的。
55. Be grateful for what you have, and be grateful for what you don’t have.
56.个人如果不能从内心去原谅别人,那他就永远不会心安理得。心中装满着自己的看法与想法的人,永远听不见别人的心声。
56. If one cannot forgive others from the heart, they will never feel at ease. Those who are full of their own opinions and thoughts will never hear the voices of others.
57.给人金钱是下策,给人能力是中策,给人观念是上策。财富买不来好观念,好观念能换来亿万财富。世界上最大的市场,是在人的脑海里!
57. Giving money to others is a low-level strategy, giving abilities is a moderate strategy, and giving concepts is the best strategy. Wealth cannot buy good concepts, but good concepts can bring immense wealth. The largest market in the world is in people’s minds!
58.给生活贴上梦想的标签,那些普通的日子就升华了,平淡的时光染上华丽的色彩,点石成金,就是这么回事。
58. Label life with the tag of dreams, and those ordinary days will be sublimated. The plain time will be dyed with gorgeous colors, turning stones into gold – that’s how it works.
59.根本不必回头去看咒骂你的人是谁?如果有条疯狗咬你口,难道你也要趴下去反咬他口吗?
59. There’s no need to look back and see who is cursing you. If a mad dog bites you, do you have to趴 down and bite it back?
60.管你信不信,原本花心的人到最后最痴情,原本专一的人到最后最绝情。
60. Believe it or not, those who were once fickle often become the most devoted in the end, while those who were once devoted often become the most ruthless.
61.很多人都相信:机会可遇而不可求,所以很多人就把他们宝贵的时间用在等候机会上,其实,如果你有过人的勇气,睿智的头脑,勤劳的双手,那么你也可以创造机会。
61. Many people believe that opportunities are serendipitous and cannot be sought, so they spend their precious time waiting for opportunities. In fact, if you have exceptional courage, wisdom, and diligence, you can also create opportunities.
62.很多时候,我们说放下了,其实并没有真的放下,我们只是假装很幸福,然后在寂静的角落里孤独地抚摸伤痕。
62. Often, when we say we have let go, we haven’t really let go. We just pretend to be happy and then touch our wounds alone in the quiet corners.
63.很多事,不是你想,就能做到的。很多东西,不是你要,就能得到的。很多人,不是你留,就能留住的。不要把什么都看得那么重。人生最怕什么都想计较,却又什么都抓不牢。失去的风景,走散的人,等不来的渴望,全都住在缘分的尽头。何必太执着,该来的自然来,会走的留不住。放开执念,随缘是最好的生活。
63. Not everything you want to do can be achieved, not everything you want to get can be obtained, and not everyone you want to keep can be retained. Don’t take everything too seriously. The most terrible thing in life is to want to hold onto everything, yet not being able to grasp anything. The lost scenery, the separated people, and the unattainable desires all reside at the end of fate. Why be so persistent? What comes will come, and what goes will go. Let go of your attachments, and follow the fate – it is the best way to live.
64.花开了,然后凋零。星星是璀璨的,可那光芒也会消失。这个地球、太阳甚至是连这个宇宙也会有死亡的时候,人的一生和这些东西相比,简直就像刹那间的事情,我们的一切都只是刹那间的邂逅,最后都是要归入死的永眠。
64. Flowers bloom and then wither. Stars are brilliant, but their light will fade. This Earth, the Sun, and even the entire universe will eventually die. Compared to these things, human life is just a fleeting moment, and everything we have is just a brief encounter, eventually returning to the eternal sleep of death.
65.毁灭人只要句话,培植个人却要千句话,请你多口下留情。
65. Destroying a person only takes a word, but nurturing one takes a thousand words. Please be kind with your words.
66.毁灭一个人只要一句话,培植一个人却要千句话,请你多口下留情。
66. It takes just one word to destroy a person, but a thousand words to nurture them. Please be kind with your words.
67.活着,一定要有气度,这不仅仅是涵养,也是一种标识。在与人交往中,为人所看中的第一要素即是气度。修炼人生,展示自己活着的气度,让生命更有意义。
67. To live, one must have a certain demeanor, which is not only a matter of self-restraint but also a mark of identity. In social interactions, the first thing people notice is one’s demeanor. Cultivate your life and display your living demeanor to make your life more meaningful.
68.活着的气度是昂首挺胸,独立寒冬,面对漫天大雪,而巍然不动的英雄豪情,是酷暑三伏,雷雨交加,坐于书房,面不改色,挥笔题书的那份悠然宁静。
68. Living with dignity means standing tall and firm in the cold winter, facing the heavy snowfall without flinching, and maintaining a composed and peaceful state of mind while sitting in the study during the hot summer, amidst thunderstorms.
69.活着的气度则是要刚柔并济,胸中有天地。要坚韧不拔,顽强不屈。要傲骨侠肠,正直勇敢。
69. Living with dignity means being both strong and gentle, having a heart that embraces the world. It means being resilient and unyielding, having a noble spirit and being brave and upright.
70.活着天,就是有福气,就该。当我哭泣我没有鞋子穿的时候,我发现有人却没有脚。多分心力去注意别人,就少分心力反省自己,你懂吗?
70. To live is a blessing, and we should be grateful. When I cried because I had no shoes, I discovered that some people had no feet. Focusing more on others means less focus on self-reflection. Do you understand?
71.忌妒别人,不会给自己增加任何的好处。忌妒别人,也不可能减少别人的成就。
71. Jealousy does not bring any benefits to oneself, nor can it reduce the achievements of others.
72.既然喜欢的人未必能在一起,那碰到喜欢的东西就尽量买了吧。
72. Since the person you like may not be with you, try to buy the things you like when you come across them.
73.金钱再多也无法阻止死亡,长相再美也不能讨好阎王,名声再大也要经过生死。因此人生不要太贪,不要活得太累。
73. No amount of money can prevent death, beauty cannot please the King of Hell, and fame cannot escape the cycle of life and death. Therefore, do not be too greedy in life and do not live too tired.
74.尽管我们越来越现实,但是请不要忘记我们最初的梦想。
74. Although we are becoming more realistic, please do not forget our initial dreams.
75.狂妄的人有救,自卑的人没有救。
75. Arrogant people can be saved, but those with low self-esteem cannot.
76.来是偶然的,走是必然的。所以你必须,随缘不变,不变随缘。
76. Coming is accidental, going is inevitable. So you must, go with the flow and remain unchanged, and remain unchanged while going with the flow.
77.老虎不发威他就一只病猫!发威了他就是王者!所以人人都可以是王者但同时也可能是病猫,关键在于你自己的选折!
77. A tiger is just a sick cat if it does not show its power! But when it shows its power, it becomes a king! So everyone can be a king but also a sick cat at the same time, and it all depends on your own choice!
78.了解永恒真理的人,就不会为任何的生离死别而哀伤悲泣,因为生离死别是必然的。虽然你讨厌个人,但却又能发觉他的优点好处,像这样子有修养的人,天下真是太少了。
78. Those who understand the eternal truth will not grieve for any parting or loss, as they know it is inevitable. Even if you dislike someone, you can still find their strengths and virtues. People with such self-cultivation are rare in this world.
79.离开你之后才发现,世界之大却没有我一席之地。
79. Only after leaving you did I realize that the world is so big, yet there is no place for me.
80.恋爱不是慈善,不能随便施舍的。是没有公式,没有原则,没有道理可循的。可是人们至si都还在执著与追求。请你用慈悲心和温和的,把你的不满与委屈说出来,别人就容易接受。
80. Love is not charity and cannot be given away casually. It has no formula, no principles, and no logic to follow. Yet people still pursue it until their last breath. Please speak your grievances and frustrations with compassion and gentleness, so that others can accept them more easily.
81.良心是每一个人最公正的审判官,你骗得了别人,却永远骗不了你自己的良心。
81. The conscience is the most impartial judge for everyone. You may deceive others, but you can never deceive your own conscience.
82.每个企业家都有自己的特色和风格,但他们还有共同的特征,那就是:有正确的判断力,有决心,敢于创新,勤奋工作。
82. Every entrepreneur has their own unique characteristics and style, but they also share common traits: having the right judgment, determination, courage to innovate, and hard work.
83.每个人都拥有生命,但并非每个人都懂得生命,乃至于生命。不了解生命的人,生命对他来说,是种惩罚。
83. Everyone has life, but not everyone understands life, let alone appreciates it. For those who do not understand life, it is a punishment.
84.每天多一点的努力不为别的,只为日后能选择一种自己喜欢的活法。
84. A little more effort every day is not for anything else, but to be able to choose a way of life you like in the future.
85.每一种创伤都是一种成熟。
85. Every kind of trauma is a kind of maturity.
86.梦想是一个幸福的念想,想着想着就快乐了,它执着地立在那里,是生活的一个界标,代表着活力与向上。
86. A dream is a happy thought, and when you think about it, you become happy. It stands there persistently, serving as a milestone in life, representing vitality and progress.
87.梦自己想梦的,做自己想做的,生命只有一次……一旦错过了就不可能再有这个机会了,不要让自己后悔。
87. Dream what you want to dream, and do what you want to do. Life only happens once…once you miss an opportunity, it’s impossible to have it again. Don’t let yourself regret it.
88.默默的关怀与祝福别人,那是种无形的布施。
88. Silently caring for and blessing others is a form of invisible giving.
89.那些特别懂得自娱的人,其实都是孤独却又不愿轻易打破孤独的孩子。所以他们学会了独自一个人的快乐方式,而那种快乐,恰是最不容易失去的。
89. Those who are particularly good at entertaining themselves are actually lonely children who are unwilling to easily break their loneliness. So they learned to find happiness alone, and that kind of happiness is the most unlosable.
90.内心充满忌妒,心中不坦白,言语不正的人,不能算一个五官端正的人。的真理只藏在平淡无味之中。
90. A person with jealousy in their heart, dishonesty in their mind, and improper speech cannot be considered a person with a good appearance. The truth only lies in the plain and tasteless.
91.能力的培养不是一朝一夕的事,这是一个日积月累的循序渐进的过程,这里面包含着对各种能力的积累。如果你想成为一个合格的人才,必须从小就培养自己的责任感,挖掘自己身后所隐藏的巨大潜能,如此才能在个人发展空间和个人能力之间达到平衡。
91. Developing abilities is not something that can be achieved overnight; it is a gradual process of accumulation over time, involving the accumulation of various skills. If you want to become a qualified talent, you must cultivate your sense of responsibility from an early age and tap into the hidden potential behind you. Only in this way can you achieve a balance between personal development space and personal ability.
92.能说不能行,不是真智慧。
92. Being able to speak but not act is not true wisdom.
93.能为别人设想的人永远不寂寞。
93. A person who can think for others is never lonely.
94.你不必和因果争吵,因果从来就不会误人。你也不必和命运争吵,命运它是最公平的审判官。
94. You don’t have to argue with cause and effect, as it never misleads people. You also don’t have to argue with fate, as fate is the fairest judge.
95.你不必和因果争吵,因果从来就不会误人。你也不必和争吵,它是最公平的审判官。
95. You don’t have to argue with cause and effect, as it never misleads people. You also don’t have to argue with fate, as it is the fairest judge.
96.你不要常常觉得自己很委曲,你应该要想,他对我这样已经很好了,这就是修行的功夫。
96. Don’t often feel wronged; instead, think that they have already been good to you. This is the skill of cultivation.
97.你不要一直不满人家,要一直检讨自己才对。不满人家是苦了你自己。
97. Don’t always be dissatisfied with others; you should always examine yourself. Being dissatisfied with others only brings suffering to yourself.
98.你不要直不满人家,你应该直检讨自己才对。不满人家,是苦了你自己。(动情的话)
98. Don’t always be dissatisfied with others; you should always examine yourself. Being dissatisfied with others brings suffering to yourself. (Emotional words)
99.你的生命非常有限,所以,不要浪费在重复他人的生活上;不要被教条束缚,不要被他人喧嚣的声音掩盖你内心;你要有勇气,听从你心灵和直觉的指示,你的内心知道你想要成为什么样子的。其他事情都是次要的。
99. Your life is very limited, so don’t waste it by repeating other people’s lives. Don’t be bound by dogmas or drowned out by the noise of others. Have the courage to follow the guidance of your heart and intuition, as they know what you want to become. Everything else is secondary.
100.你改变不了环境,但你可以改变自己;你改变不了事实,但你可以改变态度;你改变不了过去,但你可以改变现在;你不能控制他人,但你可以掌握自己;你不能预知明天,但你可以把握今天;你不可以样样顺利,但你可以事事尽心;你不能延伸生命的长度,但你可以决定生命的宽度。
100. You can’t change the environment, but you can change yourself; you can’t change the facts, but you can change your attitude; you can’t change the past, but you can change the present; you can’t control others, but you can master yourself; you can’t predict tomorrow, but you can seize today; you can’t succeed in everything, but you can do your best in everything; you can’t extend the length of life, but you can decide its width.
101.你每天若看见众生的过失和是非,你就要赶快去忏悔,这就是修行
101. If you see the faults and disputes of sentient beings every day, you should quickly repent, for this is the practice of cultivation.
102.你目前所拥有的都将随着你的死亡而成为他人的,那为何不现在就布施给真正需要的人呢?
102. What you currently possess will become someone else’s after your death, so why not give it to those who truly need it now?
103.你认命比抱怨还要好,对于不可改变的事实,你除了认命以外,没有更好的办法了。
103. Accepting your fate is better than complaining. For the unchangeable facts, there is no better solution than accepting your fate.
104.你无需告诉每个人,那一个个艰难的日子是如何熬过来的。大多数人都看你飞得高不高,很少人在意你飞得累不累。所以,做该做的事,走该走的路,不退缩,不动摇。无论多难,也要告诉自己:再坚持一下!别让你配不上自己的野心,也别辜负了曾经经历的一切。
104. You don’t need to tell everyone how you’ve survived those difficult days. Most people just care about how high you fly, not how tired you are. So, do what you should do, go where you should go, without shrinking back or wavering. No matter how hard it is, tell yourself to hold on a little longer! Don’t let yourself be unworthy of your ambitions, and don’t let down the experiences you’ve had.
105.你希望掌握永恒,那你必须控制现在。
105. If you wish to grasp eternity, you must first control the present.
106.你要包容那些意见跟你不同的人,这样子子比较好过。你要是直想改变他,那样子你会很痛苦。要学学怎样忍受他才是。你要学学怎样包容他才是。
106. You should tolerate those who have different opinions from you, as it makes life easier. If you only want to change them, you will suffer. Learn how to endure and tolerate them.
107.你要做一个不动声色的大人了。不准情绪化,不准偷偷想念,不准回头看。去过自己另外的生活。你要听话,不是所有的鱼都会生活在同一片海里。——村上春树
107. You need to become a calm and composed adult. No emotional outbursts, no secret longing, no looking back. Live your own separate life. Listen, not all fish live in the same sea. - Haruki Murakami
108.你硬把单纯的事情看的很严重,那样子你会很痛苦。
108. If you take simple matters too seriously, you will suffer.
109.你有你的生命观,我有我的生命观,我不干涉你。只要我能,我就感化你。如果不能,那我就认命。
109. You have your own view of life, and I have mine. I won’t interfere with you. If I can, I will influence you. If not, I will accept my fate.
110.其实爱美的人,只是与自己谈恋爱罢了。
110. In fact, people who love beauty are just in love with themselves.
111.其实优质的生活不只是经济上的富足,而是行为上的自由,精神上的满足,情绪上的愉悦,心灵上的放松。
111. A high-quality life is not only about material wealth, but also about freedom in actions, satisfaction in spirit, pleasure in emotions, and relaxation in the soul.
112.千金何足惜,一士固难求。
112. A thousand pieces of gold are not worth cherishing, but a true friend is hard to find.
113.切恶法,本是虚妄的,你不要太自卑你自己。切善法,也是虚妄的,你也不要太狂妄你自己。
113. Evil deeds are ultimately illusory, so don’t be too humble about yourself. Good deeds are also illusory, so don’t be too arrogant about yourself.
114.情执是的原因,放下情执,你才能得到自在。
114. Attachment is the root of suffering. Let go of attachment, and you will find peace.
115.热恋时的爱情,可以什么都不在乎。只要你要,只要我有,因为我爱你,所以我愿意。一旦感情平复了下来,心中就会出现接连不断的计较,为什么我付出的比你多;为什么我什么都可以给你,你却要有所隐瞒……然后冷战,争吵,分手,和好,冷战。走得过的就是执子之手,走不过的就只能缅怀当初。
115. In the heat of passion, love can care for nothing else. As long as you want it and I have it, I am willing to give it because I love you. Once the passion subsides, endless comparisons arise: Why do I give more than you? Why can I give you everything, yet you keep secrets… Then comes cold war, quarrels, breakups, reconciliations, and so on. Those who make it through hold hands, while those who don’t can only reminisce about the past.
116.人,只要拥有微笑,就能够豁达乐观地活着;人,只要时刻保持微笑,就能够在漫漫人生道路上拥有一张永久的通行证。
116. As long as a person has a smile, they can live with an open and optimistic attitude; as long as they maintain a smile at all times, they will have a permanent pass on the long journey of life.
117.人的一生总是有那么多的不如意,谁也避免不了,开心不开心,烦恼,谁都会有,如果总是拘泥与烦心处,徘徊不前,失落烦恼,无意义的埋怨懊悔,却是最大的错误,应及时调整心态面对,因为你任拥有最大的财富生命,生命就是人生最大的财富。
117. There will always be setbacks in a person’s life, and no one can avoid them. Everyone experiences happiness and unhappiness, but dwelling on troubles and not moving forward is the biggest mistake. Adjust your attitude in time, because you possess the greatest wealth: life itself.
118.人活着,没必要凡事都争个明白。水至清则无鱼,人至清则无朋。跟家人争,争赢了,亲情没了;跟爱人争,争赢了,感情淡了;跟朋友争,争赢了,情义没了。争的是理,输的是情,伤的是自己。
118. There’s no need to be clear about everything in life. If the water is too clear, there will be no fish; if a person is too clear, there will be no friends. If you argue with family, you may win, but lose the affection; if you argue with a lover, you may win, but the relationship becomes distant; if you argue with friends, you may win, but the friendship is gone. You fight for the truth, but lose emotions and hurt yourself.
119.人生,就是一边拥有,一边失去;一边选择,一边放弃。人生,哪有事事如意,生活,哪有样样顺心。所以,不和别人较真,因为不值得,不和自己较真,因为伤不起,不和往事较真,因为没价值,不和现实较真,因为还要继续!
119. Life is about gaining and losing; about choosing and giving up. There’s no such thing as everything going as you wish, and no life is always smooth. So, don’t take others too seriously, because it’s not worth it; don’t take yourself too seriously, because you can’t afford the injury; don’t take the past too seriously, because it’s worthless; don’t take reality too seriously, because you still have to go on!
120.人生,就像一杯美酒,品不出其中的味道;人生,就像一朵鲜花,嗅不出其中的芳香;人生,就像一滴泪水,看不出其中的寓意。
120. Life is like a glass of fine wine, one cannot taste all its flavors; life is like a fresh flower, one cannot smell all its fragrance; life is like a drop of tear, one cannot see all its implications.
121.人生,没有永远的伤痛,再深的痛,伤口总会痊愈;人生,没有过不去的坎,你不可以坐在坎边等它消失,你只能想办法穿过它;人生,没有永远的爱情,没有结局的感情,总要结束;不能拥有的人,总会忘记。慢慢地,你不会再流泪;慢慢地,一切都过去了。适当的放弃,是人生优雅的转身。
121. There is no everlasting pain in life, no matter how deep the pain, the wound will eventually heal; there is no insurmountable obstacle in life, you cannot sit by the obstacle waiting for it to disappear, you can only find a way to cross it; there is no everlasting love in life, relationships without endings always come to an end; those who cannot be possessed will eventually be forgotten. Slowly, you will no longer shed tears; slowly, everything will pass. Appropriate letting go is an elegant turn in life.
122.人生不易,不要笑话别人。家家都有难念的经,人人都有难唱的曲。再风光的人,背后也有寒凉苦楚;再幸福的人,内心也有无奈难处。谁的人生都不易,笑人等于笑己,尊重别人就是尊重自己。最穷无非讨饭,不死总会出头。谁的人生十全十美,谁的生活没有薄凉,谁敢保证一直都人生得意。金无足赤,人无完人。
122. Life is not easy, do not ridicule others. Every family has its own difficult scriptures to read, and everyone has their own difficult songs to sing. Even the most successful people have their own hardships and sorrows behind their success; even the happiest people have their own helplessness and difficulties. No one’s life is easy, laughing at others is equal to laughing at oneself, respecting others is respecting oneself. The poorest person can beg for food, but as long as they don’t die, they will eventually rise above their situation. No one’s life is perfect, no one’s life is without hardships, and no one can guarantee that they will always be successful. Gold is not pure and people are not perfect.
123.人生的奔跑,不在于谁先起跑,而取决于途中的坚持,中途放弃了,你前面所有的努力都是白费,只有努力的坚持,才能得到自己想要了结果!
123. The key to life’s journey does not lie in who starts running first, but in the persistence along the way. If you give up halfway, all your previous efforts will be in vain. Only by persevering can you achieve the desired results!
124.人生的路,难与易都得走;世间的情,冷与暖总会有。有些事,不想做也得做,就是流着泪也要做好;有些情,舍不得放也要放,哪怕心再痛再苦也要放。
124. The road of life, whether difficult or easy, must be traveled; the emotions in the world, whether cold or warm, will always exist. Some things must be done even if you don’t want to, even if it means doing them with tears; some feelings must be let go, even if it causes heartache and pain.
125.人生的路经历过,才知道有短有长;走过一些路,才知道辛苦。登过一些山,才知道艰难。趟过一些河,才知道跋涉。跨过一些坎,才知道超越。经过一些事,才知道经验。阅过一些人,才知道历练。读过一些书,才知道财富。过了一辈子,才知道幸福。
125. Only after experiencing life’s journey can one know its length and shortness; only after walking some paths can one know the hardships. Climbing some mountains, one can understand the difficulties; crossing some rivers, one can understand the journey; overcoming some obstacles, one can understand transcendence. Through experiences, one gains wisdom; meeting people, one gains growth; reading books, one gains wealth. After a lifetime, one can understand happiness.
126.人生的需求如同吃饭,只能吃两碗的饭量,如果贪图饭菜的香味多吃两碗,不但不能正常享受多吃的好处,相反倒会因为胃承受不了而带来痛苦。可见,得到未必就是享受。不要和别人攀比,学会不贪婪,不奢求,平和宁静,知足常乐。
126. The needs of life are like eating; if you can only eat two bowls of rice, but you greedily eat two more because of the aroma of the food, not only will you not be able to enjoy the benefits of eating more, but you will also bring pain to your stomach. It can be seen that gaining is not necessarily enjoying. Do not compare yourself with others, learn not to be greedy or extravagant, be content and at peace, and be happy with what you have.
127.人生的一切不是算来的,而是善来的;不是求来的,而是修来的。胸襟的宽窄,决定命运的格局,你能包容多少,就能拥有多少。凡事看得开、想得透、拿得起、放得下,学会隐忍性情,懂得克制欲望,退却时理智,谦让时大度,除却杂念私心,少些攀比计较,才会随缘自适。
127. Everything in life is not calculated, but earned through kindness; not sought, but cultivated through self-improvement. The width of your mind determines the pattern of your destiny; the more you can tolerate, the more you can possess. Be open-minded, think thoroughly, be able to take action and let go, learn to restrain your temperament, know how to control your desires, be rational when retreating, be generous when yielding, eliminate distracting thoughts and selfishness, and less comparison and calculation, in order to adapt to life with ease.
128.人生短暂,不要让自己活得太累,挤不进的世界,不要硬挤,难为了别人,作贱了自己;做不来的事情,不要硬做,换种思路,也许会事半功倍;拿不来的东西,不要硬拿,即使暂时得到,也会失去。
128. Life is short, do not make yourself too tired. Do not force yourself into a world that you cannot fit into, making things difficult for others and devaluing yourself; do not force yourself to do things you cannot do, try a different approach, and you may achieve twice the result with half the effort; do not force yourself to obtain things you cannot get, even if you temporarily obtain them, you will eventually lose them.
129.人生很多的时候需要自觉的放弃,因为世间还有很多美好的事物,对没有拥有的美好,一直苦苦向往与追求,为了获得而忙忙碌碌,其实自己真正所需要的,往往要经过很多年后才会明白!
129. There are many times in life when one needs to consciously let go, because there are still many beautiful things in the world. For those unattained beauties, people always long for and pursue them, busying themselves for the sake of obtaining them. In fact, what one truly needs often takes many years to understand!
130.人生就是这样,和阳光的人在一起,心里就不会晦暗;和快乐的人在一起,嘴角就常带微笑;和进取的人在一起,行动就不会落后;和大方的人在一起,处事就不小气;和睿智的人在一起,遇事就不迷茫;和聪明的人在一起,做事就变机敏。借人之智,完善自己。学最好的别人,做最好的自己。
130. In life, when you are with positive people, your heart won’t be gloomy; when you are with happy people, your smile will be frequent; when you are with ambitious people, your actions won’t lag behind; when you are with generous people, you won’t be stingy; when you are with wise people, you won’t be confused; when you are with smart people, your actions will become agile. Learn from others’ wisdom to improve yourself. Learn from the best and be the best version of yourself.
131.人生坎坷,风雨,永不停息。努力拼搏,战胜自己,无怨无悔。
131. Life is full of twists and turns, and the winds and rains never cease. Strive hard, conquer yourself, and live without regrets.
132.人生看淡了,不过是无常。生命里填塞的东西愈少,就越能体验到生命中的快乐。生命本是一次旅行,在每一次停泊时都要清理自己的口袋,把更多的位置空出来,让自己活得更轻松、更自在。
132. When you look at life with detachment, it’s just impermanence. The less you fill your life with, the more you can experience the joy of life. Life is a journey, and at each stop, you should clean your pockets, make more room, and live more lightly and freely.
133.人生路上,我们都在奔跑,我们总在赶超一些人,也总在被一些人超越。人生的要义,一是欣赏沿途的风景,二是抵达遥远的终点;人生的秘诀,寻找一种最适合自己的速度,莫因疾进而不堪重荷,莫因迟缓而空耗生命;人生的快乐,走自己的路,看自己的景,超越他人不得意,他人超越不失志。
133. On the road of life, we are all running, overtaking some people, and being overtaken by others. The essence of life is to appreciate the scenery along the way and reach the distant destination. The secret of life is to find a pace that suits you best, not to be overwhelmed by haste or to waste life by being too slow. The joy of life is to walk your own path, enjoy your own scenery, not to be complacent when surpassing others, and not to lose heart when being surpassed.
134.人生没有十全十美,如果你发现错了,就重新再来;没有机会重新来过的,就让它永远沉入时间的大海。千万不要用一个错误去掩盖另一个错误。总是浸泡在注满过错的池子里,只会让自己越来越虚弱。只有放过曾经的自己,才能享受今天的快乐。别人不原谅你,你可以自己原谅自己。
134. Life is not perfect. If you find you’ve made a mistake, start over; if there’s no chance to start over, let it sink into the ocean of time forever. Never cover one mistake with another. Being constantly immersed in a pool of mistakes will only weaken you. Only by letting go of your past self can you enjoy today’s happiness. If others don’t forgive you, you can forgive yourself.
135.人生是一场漫长对抗,有些人笑在开始,有些人却赢在最终。命运不会偏爱谁,就看你能够追逐多久,坚持多久。
135. Life is a long battle, with some people laughing at the beginning and others winning in the end. Fate doesn’t favor anyone; it depends on how long you can chase and persist.
136.人生是一个漫漫长路,只要你愿意、你足够勇敢、你足够坚强、你足够智慧、你足够坚定,你就一定能够去实现你的人生愿望,去改变你的命运、改变家庭命运、改变社会命运,去帮助更多的人。
136. Life is a long journey. As long as you are willing, brave, strong, wise, and determined, you can achieve your life’s dreams, change your destiny, change the family’s destiny, change the social destiny, and help more people.
137.人生四季,寒暑交替,静心体味生活的悲与喜,笑看起起落落。
137. Life has four seasons, with cold and heat alternating. Calmly savor the joys and sorrows of life, and laugh at the ups and downs.
138.人生在世,无法预知未来。幸与不幸,总须坚持到最后才能知道。所以,人生的好坏都取决于心态。你的心态好,坏事变好事;你的心态不好,好事也变成坏事。
138. In life, we cannot predict the future. Happiness and misfortune can only be known by persisting until the end. Therefore, the quality of life depends on your mindset. With a positive mindset, bad things can turn into good; with a negative mindset, good things can become bad.
139.人生在世,注定要受许多委屈。要使自己的生命获得价值和炫彩,就不能太在乎委屈,不能让它们揪紧你的心灵、扰乱你的生活。要学会一笑置之,要学会超然待之,要学会转化势能。智者懂得隐忍,原谅周围的那些人,在宽容中壮大自己。
139. In life, we are destined to suffer many grievances. To make our lives valuable and colorful, we must not care too much about grievances, nor let them tighten our hearts and disrupt our lives. We must learn to laugh them off, to be detached, and to transform potential energy. The wise know how to endure and forgive those around them, growing stronger in tolerance.
140.人生之旅或阴或晴,风一程雨一程,但也要风雨兼程。我们时常会感觉心累,只是自己想得太多。我们总说生活繁琐,其实是自己不懂得品味。我们总是争强好胜,其实是自己虚荣心太强。
140. The journey of life has its ups and downs, with wind and rain along the way, but we must also face both. We often feel tired because we think too much. We always say life is complicated, but in fact, we don’t know how to savor it. We always compete, but it’s because our vanity is too strong.
141.人生总是有取有舍的,为了自己想过的生活,勇敢放弃一些东西。淡定的人,善待生命,沉稳而不缺少热情;淡定的人,处事不惊,安详而不缺乏快意。淡定的人生,历尽沧桑,却依然呈现随遇而安的美丽淡然。
141. In life, there is always a need to take and let go in order to live the life you desire, bravely giving up some things. A composed person cherishes life, remaining steady yet passionate; a composed person handles situations calmly, serene yet not lacking joy. A composed life, having experienced many vicissitudes, still presents a beautiful, carefree grace.
142.人天福报非久计,苦海茫茫莫留连
142. The blessings of human life are not a long-term plan; do not linger in the vast sea of suffering.
143.人天福报非久计,苦海茫茫莫留连.
143. The blessings of human life are not a long-term plan; do not linger in the vast sea of suffering.
144.人一辈子,你得信这一条:留得住的不需用力,留不住的不需费力。来去随缘,强求不得。
144. In a lifetime, you must believe in this: what can be retained does not require effort, and what cannot be retained does not require struggle. Let things come and go with fate, and do not force them.
145.人有三样东西是无法隐瞒的:咳嗽、贫穷和爱,你想隐瞒,却欲盖弥彰。人有三样东西是不该挥霍的:身体、金钱和爱,你想挥霍,却得不偿失。人有三样东西是无法挽留的:生命、时间和爱,你想挽留,却渐行渐远。你有三样东西是不该回忆的:灾难、死亡和爱,你想回忆,却苦不堪言。
145. There are three things in life that cannot be concealed: coughing, poverty, and love. If you try to hide them, it only makes them more obvious. There are three things that should not be squandered: health, money, and love. If you try to squander them, you will suffer the consequences. There are three things that cannot be held back: life, time, and love. If you try to hold them back, they will gradually slip away. There are three things that should not be remembered: disasters, death, and love. If you try to remember them, it will only cause unbearable pain.
146.人与人之间的很多矛盾都是从傲慢中来的;都觉得自己比别人更高明,比别人更有见识,比别人更正确,于是相互轻视,矛盾也就逐渐生起了。
146. Many conflicts between people stem from arrogance; everyone believes they are wiser, more knowledgeable, and more correct than others, leading to mutual disdain and the emergence of conflicts.
147.人只能活一次,千万别活得太累:应该活得舒心,活得快乐,活得潇洒。修行,是对自己良心的交待,不是做给别人看的。心若计较,处处都有怨言;心若放宽,时时都是祥和。世间不如意事十之八九,能对你百依百顺的人,能让你如愿以偿的事毕竟很少。你若计较,没有一样让你满意。
147. We only live once, so don’t live too tired: live comfortably, happily, and gracefully. Cultivation is an account to your conscience, not for others to see. If your heart is calculating, there will be complaints everywhere; if your heart is open, there will always be harmony. In this world, there are many unsatisfactory things, and few people or things can fully meet your expectations. If you are calculating, nothing will satisfy you.
148.人只这一辈子,我们不能白来这一遭。所以让我们从快乐开始!做你想做的,爱你想爱的。做错了,不必后悔,不要埋怨,世上没有完美的人。跌倒了,爬起来重新来过。不经风雨怎能见彩虹,相信下次会走得更稳。
148. We only have this one life, so let’s not come here in vain. Let’s start with happiness! Do what you want to do, love who you want to love. If you make a mistake, don’t regret it, don’t complain; there are no perfect people in the world. If you fall, get up and start again. Without experiencing wind and rain, how can you see the rainbow? Believe that next time you will walk more steadily.
149.如果抱怨成习惯,心灵就像上了枷锁,没有一刻解脱。唯有放下抱怨,才能体会到生命的自在与幸福。
149. If complaining becomes a habit, the soul is like being shackled, never finding relief. Only by letting go of complaints can one experience the freedom and happiness of life.
150.如果婚姻是爱情的坟墓,那么相亲是为坟墓看风水,表白是自掘坟墓,结婚是双双殉情,移情别恋是迁坟,第三者是盗墓。
150. If marriage is the grave of love, then blind dates are checking the Feng Shui for the grave, confessions are digging one’s own grave, marriages are a joint suicide, infidelity is relocating the grave, and the third party is grave robbing.
151.如果你真的爱他,那么你必须容忍他部份的缺点。
151. If you truly love him, you must tolerate some of his flaws.
152.如果你自己明明对,别人硬说你不对,你也要向人忏悔,修行就是修这些。你什么事都能忍下来,才会进步。就是明明是你对,你也要向他人求忏悔,那就是修行了。当你的错误显露时,可不要发脾气,别以为任性或吵闹,可以隐藏或克服你的缺点。
152. If you are clearly right, but others insist that you are wrong, you should still repent to them. Cultivation is about this. Only when you can endure everything can you progress. Even if you are right, you should seek repentance from others; that is cultivation. When your mistakes are exposed, do not lose your temper, and do not think that being willful or making a fuss can hide or overcome your shortcomings.
153.如果人生是一段旅途,快乐与悲伤就是那两条长长的铁轨,在我身后紧紧跟随。
153. If life is a journey, happiness and sadness are those two long railway tracks, closely following behind me.
154.若能切随他去,便是世间自在人。
154. If one can follow him, they will be a carefree person in this world.
155.身是菩提树,心为明镜台。时时勤拂拭,勿使惹尘埃!
155. The body is the Bodhi tree, the mind is the bright mirror. Cleanse it diligently at all times, and do not let it be tainted by dust!
156.生而为人,活着,活出风度,风采,风格。这些皆为外表,而气度则是内涵,是质地,是根本。
156. As human beings, live with style, elegance, and grace. These are all appearances, while temperament is the connotation, the essence, and the foundation.
157.生活不要安排得太满,人生不要设计得太挤。不管做什么,都要给自己留点空间,好让自己从容转身。留一点好处让别人占,留一点道路让别人走,留一点时间让自己思考。任何时候都要记得给人生留点余地,不冒进,不颓废,不紧张,不松懈,不偏激,不执着。得到时不自喜,失去时不郁闷,得失之间淡定从容。
157. Don’t overschedule your life, and don’t overdesign your existence. No matter what you do, leave some space for yourself to turn around gracefully. Allow others to benefit a little, let others take a path, and give yourself some time to think. Always remember to leave some room for your life, neither being overly ambitious nor decadent, neither tense nor lax, neither extreme nor obsessed. When you gain something, don’t be overly pleased; when you lose something, don’t be depressed. Remain calm and composed between gains and losses.
158.生活绝对不会是一帆风顺的,人生就那么几十年,走好自己的路就要有自己的思考,有坚定的意志,坚持自己的信念,坚持自己的追求,不能放松对自己的要求,更不能糊里糊涂地度过自己的人生。人生不能虚度,自己要对得起自己。
158. Life will never be smooth sailing. With only a few decades in life, to walk your own path, you need to think for yourself, have a firm will, adhere to your beliefs, and persist in your pursuits. You cannot relax your demands on yourself, nor can you spend your life in confusion. Life should not be wasted; you must be worthy of yourself.
159.生活磨砺了人生,这一路走来,学会了接受。
159. Life has honed our existence. Along this journey, we have learned to accept.
160.生活太匆忙,不妨慢下来,在岁月中跋涉,每个人都有自己的故事,看淡心境才会秀丽,看开心情才会明媚。累时歇一歇,随清风漫舞,烦时静一静,与花草凝眸,急时缓一缓,和自己微笑。
160. Life is too hurried; it’s worth slowing down. As we journey through the years, everyone has their own story. A calm state of mind will make the scenery more beautiful, and an open-hearted attitude will make the mood brighter. When tired, take a break and dance with the gentle breeze; when troubled, be still and gaze at the flowers and plants; when in a hurry, slow down and smile at yourself.
161.生命是自己的,不必用别人的标准来框定自己的人生。如果想讨好所有人,满足所有人的标准,最终只会迷失自己。你不可能让所有人对你满意,因为每个人都有自己不同的标准。试图让所有人都喜欢你,是徒劳无功的,也是对自己的不负责任。不要迷失在别人的评价里,用心倾听自己内心的声音,做自己就好。
161. Your life is your own; don’t use others’ standards to define it. If you try to please everyone and meet everyone’s criteria, you will ultimately lose yourself. You cannot make everyone satisfied with you, as everyone has different standards. Trying to make everyone like you is futile and irresponsible to yourself. Don’t get lost in others’ evaluations; listen to your inner voice and be true to yourself.
162.时光荏苒,就好像根本没有办法再回到以前了,但是还是有很多人选择在继续生活,他们至少不张扬,平平淡淡的选择了自己该做的那一部分。当阳光照射在他们身上时,应该会觉得异常温暖明媚吧。
162. Time flies, and it seems impossible to go back to the past. However, many people still choose to continue living. They remain low-key and quietly choose their part to play. When sunlight shines on them, they must feel exceptionally warm and bright.
163.时间总会过去的,让时间流走你的烦恼吧!
163. Time will always pass; let it wash away your worries!
164.世间的人要对法律负。修行的人要对因果负。
164. People in the world should be responsible for the law. Those who practice should be responsible for cause and effect.
165.世上有一样东西,比任何别的东西都更忠诚于你,那就是你的经历。你生命中的日子,你在其中遭遇的人和事,你因这些遭遇产生的悲欢、感受和思考,这一切仅仅属于你,不可能转让给任何别人,哪怕是你最亲近的人。这是你最珍贵的财富。
165. There is one thing in the world that is more loyal to you than anything else: your experiences. The days of your life, the people and events you encounter, and the joys, sorrows, feelings, and thoughts that arise from these experiences all belong to you and cannot be transferred to anyone else, even your closest loved ones. This is your most precious wealth.
166.是非和得失,要到最后的结果,才能评定。
166. Right and wrong, as well as gains and losses, can only be judged by the final outcome.
167.是非天天有,不听自然无,是非天天有,不听还是有,是非天天有,看你怎么办?真正的布施,就是把你的烦恼忧虑分别和执著心通通放下。
167. Right and wrong exist every day; if you don’t listen, they naturally disappear. Right and wrong exist every day; if you don’t listen, they still exist. Right and wrong exist every day; it’s up to you how to deal with them. The true act of giving is to let go of your worries, anxieties, distinctions, and attachments.
168.受挫一次,对生活的理解加深一层;失误一次,对人生的醒悟增添一阶;不幸一次,对世间的认识成熟一级;磨难一次,对成功的内涵透彻一遍。从这个意义上说,想获得成功和幸福,想过得快乐和欢欣,首先要把失败,不幸,挫折和痛苦读懂。
168. Experiencing setbacks, mistakes, misfortune, and tribulations helps us understand life, awaken to its meaning, mature in our understanding of the world, and comprehend the essence of success. In this sense, to achieve success, happiness, joy, and delight, we must first learn to read and understand failure, misfortune, setbacks, and pain.
169.谁都不是救世主。可怜之人,必有可恨之处,而且都是犹大。
169. No one is a savior. There is always something hateful about a pitiful person, and they are all Judas.
170.说话不要有攻击性,不要有杀伤力,不夸已能,不扬人恶,自然能化敌为友。个常常看别人缺点的人,自己本身就不够好,因为他没有时间检讨他自己。
170. When speaking, avoid being aggressive or destructive, do not boast about your abilities, and do not publicize others’ faults. In this way, you can naturally turn enemies into friends. A person who constantly sees the shortcomings of others is not good enough themselves, because they have no time to reflect on themselves.
171.随缘不是得过且过,因循苟且,而是尽人事听天命。
171. Going with the flow does not mean drifting along or muddling through; it means doing your best and then letting fate take its course.
172.所谓“人”,就是你在它上面再加上任何一样东西它就不再是“人”了。
172. The so-called “person” is that when you add anything to it, it is no longer a “person.”
173.所谓的放下,就是去除你的分别心是非心得失心执著心。
173. The so-called letting go means eliminating your discriminating mind, right and wrong mind, gain and loss mind, and attachment mind.
174.所谓门槛,能力够了就是门,能力不够就是槛。人生的沟沟坎坎,多半是能力不足所致。
174. The so-called threshold is a door when one’s ability is sufficient, and a barrier when one’s ability is insufficient. Most of the obstacles in life are caused by a lack of ability.
175.所有的病患,医生最难治,所有的众生,自以为是的人最难渡。
175. The most difficult patients for doctors to treat are those who are hardest to cure, and the most difficult sentient beings to help are those who are self-righteous.
176.同样的瓶子,你为什么要装毒药呢?同样的,你为什么要充满着烦恼呢?
176. Why do you choose to fill the same bottle with poison? Similarly, why do you choose to be filled with afflictions?
177.为人处世的最佳境界是不卑不亢。太在乎别人的眼光和评价,只会让自己做事放不开手脚,犹豫不决,失去自我,失去个性,丢失自我的价值。坚持自己所选择的,相信自己所坚持的,才是属于你自己的正确道路。别人怎么看你并不重要,重要的是你要做你自己,去做自己认为正确的事。
177. The best state of being in life is to be neither humble nor arrogant. Caring too much about others’ opinions and evaluations will only make you indecisive, lose your individuality, and lose your self-worth. Persist in your choices, believe in your persistence, and that is the right path for you. How others see you is not important; what matters is being yourself and doing what you think is right.
178.我们可以失望,但不能盲目。
178. We can be disappointed, but not blindly.
179.我们每一个人都应该有更多的同情,更多的爱,比维持我们生存需要的多得多,我们应该把它分散给别人,追求是生命之光。
179. Each of us should have more compassion and love than what is needed to maintain our survival, and we should share it with others, as pursuit is the light of life.
180.我们所走过的每一天,都有它独特的意义。生活中没有多少轰轰烈烈的大事,更多的是平常琐碎的小事。在这些个小事当中,我们不断地得到关爱,得到智慧,得到成长,得到记忆,得到那些值得珍惜的一切。如果我们能把每一天都当做生命的最后一天来过,这样的人生无疑是最有价值的人生!
180. Every day we go through has its unique meaning. There are not many grand events in life, but more ordinary trivial matters. In these small things, we continuously receive care, wisdom, growth, memories, and all that is worth cherishing. If we could live each day as if it were the last day of our lives, such a life would undoubtedly be the most valuable!
181.我们要尽量去相信美好的东西——相信真爱存在,相信生活很精彩,相信他人的善意,相信自己的能力,相信努力有意义,相信事情会变好,相信幸福会来敲门…这些美好,你越相信,就越接近。
181. We should try to believe in beautiful things - believe in the existence of true love, believe that life is wonderful, believe in the kindness of others, believe in our abilities, believe that effort is meaningful, believe that things will get better, and believe that happiness will come knocking… The more you believe in these beauties, the closer you are to them.
182.我们有一种天生的惰性,总想着能够吃最少的苦,走最短的弯路,获得最大的收益。有些事情,别人可以替你做,但无法替你感受,缺少了这一段心路历程,你即使再成功,精神的田地里依然是一片荒芜。成功的快乐,收获的满足,不在奋斗的终点,而在拼搏的过程,所以,该你走的路,要自己去走,别人无法替代。
182. We have an innate laziness, always wanting to suffer the least, take the shortest path, and gain the most. Some things others can do for you, but they cannot feel them for you. Without this journey of the heart, even if you are successful, your spiritual field will still be barren. The joy of success and the satisfaction of harvest are not at the end of the struggle, but in the process of striving. Therefore, the path you should take, you must walk it yourself, and others cannot replace you.
183.我们之所以会心累,就是常常徘徊在坚持和放弃之间,举棋不定。我们之所以会烦恼,就是记性太好,该记的,不该记的都会留在记忆里。我们之所以会痛苦,就是追求的太多。我们之所以不快乐,就是计较的太多,不是我们拥有的太少,而是我们计较的太多。
183. We are tired because we often hover between persistence and giving up, undecided. We are troubled because our memory is too good, and both what should be remembered and what should not be remembered stay in our memory. We suffer because we pursue too much. We are unhappy because we are too concerned, not because we have too little, but because we are too concerned.
184.我们只有咬紧牙关,用脚步丈量路途,用汗水辉映阳光,管它山高水远路长,前面就是心的方向。坚强是我们心灵的壳,维护着我们的脆弱。纷扰的尘世,冷漠的空间,我们唯有选择坚强,才能抗拒诱惑与寒流的侵袭,给精神一个支点,给心灵一个家园。你不坚强,没人替你掩饰忧伤。
184. We must grit our teeth, measure the journey with our footsteps, and reflect the sunlight with our sweat. No matter how high the mountains or how long the road, ahead lies the direction of our hearts. Strength is the shell of our souls, protecting our vulnerability. In this chaotic world and indifferent space, we can only choose to be strong to resist the temptation and invasion of the cold, providing a fulcrum for our spirit and a home for our hearts. If you are not strong, no one will cover your sorrow for you.
185.我相信,梦里能到达的地方,总有一天,脚步也能到达。
185. I believe that one day, the places we can reach in our dreams will also be reached by our footsteps.
186.我在等一个人,一个可以把我的寂寞故事画上休止符的人;一个可以陪我听遍所有悲伤情歌,却不会让我想哭的人;一个我可以在他身上找出一百个缺点,却还是执意要爱他的人;一个会对我说,我们有坑一起跳、有苦一起尝、有一辈子就一起过的人!
186. I am waiting for someone who can put a period to my lonely story; someone who can accompany me through all the sad love songs without making me want to cry; someone I can find a hundred flaws in, yet still insist on loving; someone who will say to me, “We’ll jump into the pit together, taste the bitterness together, and spend a lifetime together!”
187.希望你常对自己说,闻到了佛法,我是最幸福的人,除了这幸福外,再没有别的了。
187. I hope you often tell yourself that having encountered the Buddha’s teachings makes you the happiest person, and apart from this happiness, there is nothing else.
188.下雨了,才知道谁会给你送伞;遇事了,才知道谁对你真心。有些人,只会锦上添花,不会雪中送炭;有些人,只会火上浇油,不会坦诚相待。
188. When it rains, you’ll know who will bring you an umbrella; when you face difficulties, you’ll know who is sincere to you. Some people only add flowers to brocade, not bringing warmth in times of need; some people only pour oil on the fire, not being honest and straightforward.
189.现实中的男人,往往大多善于伪装。女人要在婚前完全读懂一个男人,却不是一件容易的事情。
189. Men in reality are often good at disguising themselves. It is not easy for a woman to fully understand a man before marriage.
190.相信世上有好人,但一定要防范坏人;相信自己很坚强,但不要拒绝眼泪;相信金钱能带来幸福,但不要倾其一生;相信真诚,但不要指责虚伪;相信成功,但不要逃避失败;相信缘分,但不要盲目等待;相信爱情,但不要求全责备。
190. Believe in the existence of good people, but always be on guard against bad ones; believe in your own strength, but don’t refuse tears; believe that money can bring happiness, but don’t devote your entire life to it; believe in sincerity, but don’t criticize hypocrisy; believe in success, but don’t run away from failure; believe in fate, but don’t wait blindly; believe in love, but don’t be overly critical.
191.相信自己,一路风景一路歌,人生之美,正在于此。
191. Believe in yourself, and along the way, you’ll find beauty and song in every landscape. This is the true beauty of life.
192.想要一扇明亮的窗,打开能看到世界,关上能徜徉自己的生活。看书,品茶,喜欢的绿色植物都在窗外,每天都是新鲜和愉悦。
192. I want a bright window, one that opens to reveal the world and closes to immerse myself in my own life. Reading books, savoring tea, and my favorite green plants are all outside the window, making every day fresh and delightful.
193.心大一切小,心小一切大;心高一切低,心底一切高。心窄一切窄,心宽一切宽;心有一切有,心空一切空;心悟一切悟,心迷一切迷;心安一切安,心乱一切乱;心美一切美,心丑一切丑;心强一切强,心弱一切弱;心动一切动,心静一切静;心康一切康,心病一切病。
193. When the heart is big, everything seems small; when the heart is small, everything seems big; when the heart is high, everything seems low; when the heart is humble, everything seems high; when the heart is narrow, everything seems narrow; when the heart is broad, everything seems broad; when the heart possesses, everything is there; when the heart is empty, everything is empty; when the heart is enlightened, everything is clear; when the heart is lost, everything is confusing; when the heart is at peace, everything is calm; when the heart is in turmoil, everything is chaotic; when the heart is beautiful, everything is beautiful; when the heart is ugly, everything is ugly; when the heart is strong, everything is strong; when the heart is weak, everything is weak; when the heart moves, everything moves; when the heart is still, everything is still; when the heart is healthy, everything is healthy; when the heart is sick, everything is sick.
194.心若简单,生活就简单;心若复杂,生活就充满痛苦。
194. If the heart is simple, life is simple; if the heart is complicated, life is full of pain.
195.幸福,不是收获的多,而是抱怨的少。于人不苛求,遇事不抱怨。只有善于驾驭自己情绪和心态的人,才能获得平静,感受到幸福的味道。
195. Happiness is not about gaining more, but complaining less. Do not be demanding towards others, and do not complain about circumstances. Only those who are good at controlling their emotions and mindset can achieve peace and experience the taste of happiness.
196.幸福,是用来感觉的,而不是用来比较的。生活,是用来经营的,而不是用来计较的。感情,是用来维系的,而不是用来考验的。爱人,是用来疼爱的,而不是用来伤害的。金钱,是用来付出的,而不是用来衡量的。谎言,是用来击破的,而不是用来粉饰的。信任,是用来沉淀的,而不是用来挑战的。
196. Happiness is meant to be felt, not compared. Life is meant to be lived, not calculated. Relationships are meant to be maintained, not tested. A partner is meant to be cherished, not hurt. Money is meant to be spent, not measured. Lies are meant to be exposed, not embellished. Trust is meant to be built, not challenged.
197.幸福和幸运是需要代价的,天下没有免费的午餐!
197. Happiness and luck come at a price; there is no such thing as a free lunch!
198.性格决定命运,选择改变人生。
198. Character determines destiny, and choices change lives.
199.修行就是修正自己错误的观念。
199. Cultivation is about correcting our erroneous beliefs.
200.修行要有耐性,要能甘于淡泊,乐于寂寞。
200. Cultivation requires patience, the ability to be content with simplicity, and the joy of embracing solitude.