标题:每日成长必知:一个人成为废物的9大特质
Title: Daily Growth Essentials: 9 Traits of a Person Becoming a Loser
开头:每日成长必知:一个人成为废物的9大特质
Introduction: Daily Growth Essentials: 9 Traits of a Person Becoming a Loser
NO.1 犹豫不决
NO.1 Indecision
(摇摆不定的人,无论其他方面多么强大,在人生竞赛中,总是容易被那些坚定的人挤到一边。畏惧错误等于毁灭进步)
(Undecided individuals, no matter how strong in other aspects, are easily pushed aside by those who are determined in the race of life. Fear of making mistakes equals the destruction of progress)
NO.2 拖延
NO.2 Procrastination
(很多时候拖延就是逃避问题和懒惰,抱持着能拖一天是一天的心态找各种藉口逃避,如:“我太忙”、“隔一天再做也没关系”等,但随之而来的会是愈加懒惰、愈加消极,然后掉入“懊悔过去”和“幻想未来”的陷阱中。懒惰是很奇怪的东西,它让你以为那是安逸,是休息,是福气;但实际上它所给你的是无聊,是倦怠,是消沉)
(In many cases, procrastination is an escape from problems and laziness, holding on to the mentality of “one more day” and finding various excuses to avoid, such as “I’m too busy” or “it’s okay to do it tomorrow.” However, this leads to increasing laziness, negativity, and falling into the trap of “regretting the past” and “fantasizing about the future.” Laziness is a strange thing; it makes you think it’s comfort, rest, and blessings; but in reality, it gives you boredom, fatigue, and depression)
NO.3 三分钟热度
NO.3 Three-minute enthusiasm
(几乎所有人都有过“雄心勃勃制定计划,然后心灰意冷放弃计划”的经验,然而有句话说“世界上有80%的失败都源于半途而废”,三分钟热度的人不曾有过坚持做一件事,成功获得甜美果实的体会)
(Almost everyone has experienced “ambitiously making plans, then giving up on them with a broken heart.” However, there is a saying, “80% of failures in the world come from giving up halfway.” People with three-minute enthusiasm have never experienced the sweetness of success from persisting in one thing)
NO.4 害怕被拒绝
NO.4 Fear of rejection
(一个能放下自尊去做事的人,是专注目标成果导向的人;而若是把自尊心放在第一位的人,做事时会瞻前顾后,在意他人对自己的想法。所以,一个人越是百无一用的时候,越执念于那些无足轻重的底线与小自尊心)
(A person who can put aside self-esteem to work is focused on the target and result-oriented; while those who put self-esteem first will be hesitant and concerned about what others think of them. Therefore, the more useless a person is, the more they cling to those insignificant bottom lines and small self-esteem)
NO.5 自我设限
NO.5 Self-limitation
(所有的平庸与低成就都是自我设限的结果。自我设限相当于杀死自己的潜能,给自己在心里设置一个“高度”,等于否定自己,即便它可以帮你阻挡挫败感,但是却剥夺了“往上再走一步”的成功机会)
(All mediocrity and low achievement are the results of self-limitation. Self-limitation is like killing one’s potential, setting a “height” in one’s mind, which equals denying oneself. Even though it can protect you from the feeling of failure, it deprives you of the opportunity to “take one more step” to success)
NO.6 逃避现实
NO.6 Escaping reality
(逃避现实的人有5个特征,第一个特征是经常做白日梦;第二是喜欢随心所欲;第三是沉迷游戏或是魔幻小说,逃离现实生活;第四是觉得现实世界很残酷;第五则是无法面对不确定环境)
(There are 5 characteristics of people who escape reality: the first is daydreaming frequently; the second is being capricious; the third is indulging in games or fantasy novels, escaping real life; the fourth is feeling that the real world is cruel; and the fifth is being unable to face uncertain environments)
NO.7 总找藉口
NO.7 Always making excuses
(许多人一犯错,第一反应就是自我辩护,因为找藉口是最容易办到的事情,也是掩饰自己无知的方法。且大多喜欢找藉口的人都有一个共同点,没有野心、没有追求成功的欲望,人生没有一个目标)
(When many people make mistakes, their first reaction is to defend themselves because making excuses is the easiest thing to do and a way to cover up their ignorance. Moreover, most people who like to make excuses have one thing in common: they have no ambition, no desire to pursue success, and no goal in life)
NO.8 恐惧
NO.8 Fear
(心智弱小的人,害怕面对挫折感,凡事都小心谨慎,深怕犯错,也害怕被批评、害怕别人异样眼光,这也阻碍了人继续向前进)
(Mentally weak people are afraid of facing frustration, being cautious in everything, and afraid of making mistakes. They are also afraid of criticism and the strange looks of others, which prevents them from moving forward)
NO.9 拒绝学习
NO.9 Refusing to learn
(自我成长需要不断和自己作斗争,但若抱持着“还不如舒舒服服躺在家玩手机看电影”的想法,迟早会被他人比下去)
(Personal growth requires constant struggle with oneself, but if you hold on to the idea of “it’s better to lie comfortably at home playing with your phone and watching movies,” you will sooner or later be surpassed by others)
结尾:真是扎心,每天看一遍,觉得自己能活着真实无敌了
Ending: It’s really heartbreaking. Watching it every day, I feel like I’m truly invincible for being alive. 1. 结尾 (Ending) 2. 真是扎心 (It’s really heartbreaking) 3. 每天看一遍 (Watching it every day) 4. 觉得自己 (I feel) 5. 能活着 (like I’m) 6. 真实无敌了 (truly invincible for being alive)