1、愚笨的女人打击男人，聪明的女人激励男人。
1. Foolish women demoralize men, while wise women inspire men.

2、愚笨的女人盯着男人的缺点，老是生气，聪明的女人欣赏男人的优点，很是开心。
2. Foolish women focus on men’s shortcomings and are always angry; wise women appreciate men’s strengths and are very happy.

3、愚笨的女人不分场合与男人争吵，弄得男人很没面子， 聪明的女人在外人面前给足男人面子，私下再对男人严加管教。
3. Foolish women argue with men in public, causing them to lose face; wise women give men face in front of others and discipline them strictly in private.

4、愚笨的女人贬低男人—她忘了：贬低男人就是贬低自己；聪明的女人赞赏男人—她明白：赞赏男人才是炫耀自己。
4. Foolish women belittle men - she forgets that belittling men is belittling herself; wise women praise men - she understands that praising men is showing off herself.

5、愚笨的女人不停地唠叨那些陈年旧事，聪明的女人与男人一起憧憬美好未来。
5. Foolish women keep nagging about past events; wise women look forward to a bright future with men.

6、愚笨的女人对男人寸步不离；聪明的女人和男人若即若离。
6. Foolish women stick to men all the time; wise women maintain a sense of distance with men.

7、愚笨的女人知道洗衣做饭，但不愿再梳妆打扮，聪明的女人也知道洗衣做饭，但不忘扮靓自己。
7. Foolish women know how to do laundry and cook, but are unwilling to dress up; wise women also know how to do laundry and cook, but never forget to dress up themselves.

8、愚笨的女人带给男人压抑和压力；聪明的女人带给男人激情和动力。
8. Foolish women bring depression and pressure to men; wise women bring passion and motivation to men.

9、愚笨的女人抓住男人的过错不放，以为自己看透了男人的本质；聪明的女人原谅男人，把男人比作永远长不大的孩子。
9. Foolish women hold onto men’s mistakes and think they have seen through men’s nature; wise women forgive men and treat them as children who never grow up.

10、愚笨的女人会说“你给我滚！”聪明的女人会说“不许离开我！”
10. Foolish women say, “Get out of my sight!”; wise women say, “Don’t leave me!”

11、愚笨的女人把男人当弹弓，拉得越紧，飞得越远；聪明的女人把男人当风筝，悠然地牵着手中的线。
11. Foolish women treat men like slingshots, pulling them tighter and making them fly farther; wise women treat men like kites, leisurely holding the string in their hands.

12、愚笨的女人过于强调自我，聪明的女人善于寄托和依靠。
12. Foolish women overemphasize their own selves; wise women are good at relying and depending on others.

13、高兴，就笑，让大家都知道。悲伤，就假装什么也没发生。
13. If happy, laugh and let everyone know. If sad, pretend nothing has happened.

14、在不违背原则的情况下 对别人要宽容 能帮就帮 千万不要把人逼绝了 给人留条后路。
14. In the case of not violating principles, be tolerant to others, help if you can, never push people to the wall, and leave them a way out.

15、一定要做个有教养的女人。
15. Be a woman with good manners.

16、要漂亮，更要有气质。
16. Be beautiful, but also have temperament.

17、学会妥协的同时，也要坚持自己最基本的原则。
17. Learn to compromise while insisting on your most basic principles.

18、不要停止学习。不管学习什么，语言，厨艺，各种技能。
18. Never stop learning. Learn anything, languages, cooking skills, and various skills.

19、要关注时尚，做个美丽的女人。只有内在美的女人也是不完整的。
19. Pay attention to fashion and be a beautiful woman. A woman with only inner beauty is also incomplete.

20、愚笨的女人使男人在她的泪水中失败；聪明的女人使男人在她的笑容中成功。
20. Foolish women make men fail in her tears; wise women make men succeed in her smile.

21、爱笑的女人，运气不会太差。
21. A woman who loves to laugh will not have bad luck.

22、看穿但不说穿。很多事情，只要自己心里有数就好了，没必要说出来。
22. See through but don’t expose. For many things, as long as you have a clear understanding in your heart, there is no need to speak it out.

23、维持自己觉得可靠的社交圈子并且扩展之。
23. Maintain and expand your reliable social circle.

24、说话时可以很直接，人很直爽，那总比虚伪好。
24. It’s better to speak directly and be straightforward than to be hypocritical.

25、有人向你索取东西，微笑着望向他：你要用什么来和我换？
25. If someone asks you for something, smile and look at them: What will you exchange with me for it?

26、没有十全十美的东西，没有十全十美的人，关键是清楚到底想要什么。得到想要的，肯定会失去另外一部分。如果什么都想要，只会什么都得不到。
26. There is no perfect thing or perfect person. The key is to be clear about what you really want. Gaining what you want will inevitably lead to losing something else. If you want everything, you will end up with nothing.

27、我喜欢一位朋友说的这句“善忘是一件好事。”
27. I like the saying from a friend, “Forgetfulness is a good thing.”

28、对自己好一点，心情不好的时候，什么都别考虑，去吃自己爱吃的吧。
28. Treat yourself well. When you’re in a bad mood, don’t think about anything, just go and eat what you love.

29、钱很重要，但不能依靠男人或父母，自己一定要保持一定的赚钱的能力。
29. Money is important, but don’t rely on men or parents. You must maintain your own ability to make money.

30、不要太高估自己在集体中的力量，因为当你选择离开时，就会发现即使没有你，太阳照常升起。
30. Don’t overestimate your own power in the group, because when you choose to leave, you will find that even without you, the sun still rises.

31、不要轻易许下承诺，做不到的承诺，比没许下更可恶。
31. Don’t make promises easily. A promise that cannot be fulfilled is worse than not making one at all.

32、过去的事情可以不忘记，但一定要放下。
32. You can remember the past, but you must let go.

33、即使输掉了一切，也不要输掉微笑……
33. Even if you lose everything, don’t lose your smile…

34、不管做了什么选择，都不要后悔，因为后悔也于事无补。
34. No matter what choice you make, don’t regret it, because regret won’t help.

35、不要和朋友或亲人共事，最后你们一定彼此怨恨。
35. Don’t work with friends or relatives, or you will end up resenting each other.

36、越着急的事情越要慢慢做。
36. The more urgent the matter, the slower you should handle it.

37、快乐最重要，谁人、何物、何事使你快乐，你就同他们在一起。何物让你不快乐，你就离开他。没有条件，创造条件也要离开他。
37. Happiness is the most important thing. Whoever, whatever, or whatever makes you happy, stay with them. If something makes you unhappy, leave it. If there are no conditions, create conditions and leave it.

38、不要老在别人面前倾诉你的困境袒露你的脆弱。
38. Don’t always pour out your troubles and expose your vulnerabilities in front of others.

39、学会用心的经营自己。
39. Learn to manage yourself with your heart.

40、不要把时间浪费在上网和看偶像剧上。
40. Don’t waste your time on surfing the internet and watching idol dramas.

41、不要因为冲动说一些过激的话。
41. Do not say something extreme due to impulsiveness.

42、两个人同时犯了错，站出来承担的那一方叫宽容，另一方欠下的债，早晚都要还。
42. When two people make mistakes at the same time, the one who steps forward to take responsibility is called tolerance, and the other party’s debt will have to be repaid sooner or later.

43、懂得从内心欣赏别人，虽然这很多时候很难。
43. Learn to appreciate others from the heart, although this is often difficult.

44、自己不喜欢的人，可以报之以沉默微笑；自己喜欢的人，那就随便怎么样了，因为你的喜爱会挡也挡不住地流露出来。
44. For those you do not like, you can respond with silence and a smile; for those you like, just do whatever you want, because your affection will inevitably show through.

45、不要做刺猬 能不与人结仇就不与人结仇 谁也不跟谁一辈子 有些事情没必要记在心上。
45. Do not be a hedgehog; avoid making enemies if possible. No one is with anyone for a lifetime, and there is no need to keep some things in mind.

46、不要觉得不了解也会有爱情。在不了解的时候，我们仅仅是喜欢，达不到爱情。当彼此的缺点暴露出来以后，很多时候这喜欢也就会结束了。
46. Do not think that there can be love without understanding. When we do not understand each other, we are merely attracted to each other, not in love. When each other’s flaws are exposed, this attraction often ends.

1.而那些爱与恨，痛与苦仿佛隔了太远，被岁月附上尘埃，变得似乎不值一提起来，可却依旧留在了心底某处隐隐作痛。 ——fresh果果 《仙剑奇侠之花千骨》
1. The love and hate, pain and suffering seem to be too far away, covered in dust by the years, seemingly insignificant, yet still lingering in the depths of our hearts, causing a dull ache. ——Fresh Fruit Fruit, “Chinese Paladin: The Journey of Flower and Bone”

2.春心莫共花争发，一寸相思一寸灰。 ——李商隐 《无题》
2. Do not let your spring heart compete with the blossoming flowers; an inch of longing turns into an inch of ashes. ——Li Shangyin, “Untitled”

3.爱情只有当它是自由自在时，才会叶茂花繁。认为爱情是某种义务的思想只能置爱情于死地。只消一句话：你应当爱某个人，就足以使你对这个人恨之入骨。 ——罗素
3. Love can only flourish when it is free; the idea that love is some kind of obligation can only lead to its death. Just one sentence: you should love someone, is enough to make you hate that person. ——Bertrand Russell

4.那时候苏小姐把自己的爱情看得太名贵了，不肯随便施与。现在呢，宛如做了好衣服，舍不得穿，锁在箱里，过一两年忽然发见这衣服的样子和花色都不时髦了，有些自怅自悔。 ——钱钟书 《围城》
4. At that time, Miss Su valued her love too much and was unwilling to give it away casually. Now, it is like a beautiful garment, too precious to wear, locked away in a chest, only to be discovered after a year or two that the style and colors are no longer fashionable, leaving her feeling regretful. ——Qian Zhongshu, “Fortress Besieged”

5.我们应该只有在年幼的时候 才会有这么奋不顾身的爱情吧 而当我们渐渐长大 就再也想不起那些 因为思念而失眠的夜晚了。 ——郭敬明 《夏至未至》
5. Perhaps we only have such selfless love when we are young, and as we grow older, we can no longer remember those sleepless nights caused by longing. ——Guo Jingming, “The Summer Solstice Has Not Yet Arrived”

6.初恋之所以美好，是因为我们再也回不去那个年轻纯洁的时光了。 ——《请回答1997》
6. The beauty of first love lies in the fact that we can never go back to that young and innocent time. ——“Reply 1997”

7.柔情似水，佳期如梦，忍顾鹊桥归路。两情若是长久时，又岂待朝朝暮暮。 ——秦观 《鹊桥仙》
7. Tenderness is like water, the perfect date is like a dream, how can I bear to look back at the path of the Magpie Bridge. If true love lasts long, why should we care about being together every day and night? ——Qin Guan, “The Immortal at the Magpie Bridge”

8.那些刻在椅子背后的爱情，会不会像水泥上的花朵，开出没有风的，寂寞的森林。——郭敬明
8. The love engraved on the back of chairs, will it be like flowers on concrete, blooming into a forest of loneliness without wind? ——Guo Jingming

9.爱情需要合理的内容，正像熊熊烈火要油来维持一样；爱情是两个相似的天性在无限感觉中的和谐的交融。——别林斯基
9. Love requires a reasonable content, just as a raging fire needs oil to sustain it; love is the harmonious blending of two similar natures in an infinite sense. ——Vyacheslav Ivanovich Belinsky

10.爱是一种甜蜜的痛苦，真诚的爱情永不是走一条平坦的道路的。——莎士比亚
10. Love is a sweet pain, and true love never follows a smooth path. ——William Shakespeare

11.就算你不接受我也没关系， 就算你不碰我……， 就算……你喜欢别人也没关系了…… 我再也不要等你来回应了 就算你不理我也没关系 我理你就行 就算你不肯跟我一起面对 也无法改变我喜欢你这一事实 这样……就够了！ 《元气少女缘结神》
11. It’s okay if you don’t accept me, if you don’t touch me…, even if… you like someone else… I will no longer wait for your response; it’s enough that I care for you, even if you don’t want to face it with me; it cannot change the fact that I like you. That’s enough! “Yuan Qi Shao Nu Yuan Jie Shen”

12.蒹葭苍苍，白露为霜。所谓伊人，在水一方。 ——诗经 《国风·秦风·蒹葭》
12. Reeds are green and vast; white dew turns into frost. The one I yearn for is beyond the water. ——The Book of Songs, “National Wind·Qin Wind· Reeds”

13.如果我不做自己的观众，还以为在爱着他。 ——《洛丽塔》
13. If I were not my own audience, I would think I am still in love with him. ——“Lolita”

14.爱情常常把人抽空，留下一具空躯壳，然后扬长而去。所以，聪明人始终对爱情有戒心，三思而后行，甚至于干脆不行。 ——周国平 《人与永恒》
14. Love often drains a person, leaving behind an empty shell, and then leaves without a trace. Therefore, wise people always remain cautious about love, thinking thrice before acting, or even not acting at all. — Zhou Guoping, “Man and Eternity”

15.女人一生中总要傻过一回，然后心才会慢慢变得坚硬。——莫郁华 ——辛夷坞 《原来你还在这里》
15. In a woman’s life, she must be foolish once, and then her heart will gradually become tough. — Mo Yuhua, — Xin Yuwu, “原来你还在这里” (The Original You Are Still Here)

16.一念起，万水千山。一念灭，沧海桑田。 ——姚敏 《不负如来不负卿》
16. A single thought can cross thousands of rivers and mountains. A single thought can turn the ocean into mulberry fields. — Yao Min, “不负如来不负卿” (Live Up to the Buddha and to the Lover)

17.你不出现，我这辈子就不爱了。 ——厉爵风 《总裁的33日索情》
17. If you don’t appear, I won’t fall in love for the rest of my life. — Li Jue Feng, “The President’s 33-Day Seduction”

18.当我对所有的事情都厌倦的时候，我就会想到你，想到你在世界的某个地方生活着，存在着，我就愿意忍受一切。你的存在对我很重要 ——赛尔乔·莱翁 《美国往事》
18. When I am tired of everything, I think of you, and knowing that you are living and existing somewhere in the world, I am willing to endure everything. Your existence is very important to me. — Sergio Leone, “Once Upon a Time in America”

19.什么都不是爱的对手，除了爱。 ——王小波
19. Nothing can be a match for love, except love itself. — Wang Xiaobo

20.世间最执著的爱恋，是用最纯粹的心去爱一个人，用尽生命的全部力气去承受。一生里如果有一次这样爱过，就算爱如夏花，只开半夏，也无怨无悔。 ——冷爱 《花开半夏》
20. The most persistent love is to love someone with the purest heart, and to bear it with all the strength of life. If you have loved like this once in your life, even if it’s as short as a summer flower, you will have no regrets. — Leng Ai, “花开半夏” (Blooming for Half a Summer)

21.我从来不知道 ，原来一个一无所有的人想守护另一个一个一无所有的人结局会是这样悲伤。 ——籽月 《夏有乔木雅望天堂》
21. I never knew that the ending would be so sad when a person with nothing wants to protect another person with nothing. — Zi Yue, “夏有乔木雅望天堂” (A Tree in Summer, Hope in Heaven)

22.说到底，爱情就是一个人的自我价值在别人身上的反映。——爱献生
22. After all, love is a reflection of one’s self-worth in someone else. — Aisens

23.风雨难洗心痕， 沧桑不灭情伤。 莫要轻言亘古， 离散才看荒凉。 ——风凌天下 《傲世九重天》
23. Wind and rain cannot wash away the traces of the heart, and vicissitudes cannot erase emotional wounds. Do not lightly speak of eternity, for only in separation can one see the desolation. — Feng Ling Tian Xia, “傲世九重天” (Proud World, Nine Heavens)

24.很多时候，我都会保持沉默不解释，不是因为我词穷，而是因为，时间会证明一切。
24. Many times, I will remain silent and not explain, not because I am at a loss for words, but because time will prove everything.

25.总有一个人，一直住在心里，却告别在生活里。忘不掉的是回忆，继续的是生活，来来往往身边出现了很多人，总有一个位置，一直没有变。看看温暖的阳光，偶尔还是会想一想。
25. There is always someone who lives in the heart but says goodbye to life. The unforgettable are memories, and what continues is life. Many people come and go around, but there is always a place that has not changed. Look at the warm sunshine, and occasionally think about it.

26.依稀记得；那天遇见你，我的青春便开始不安分守己了。
26. I vaguely remember; the day I met you, my youth began to be restless.

27.我曾经沉默地、毫无希望地爱过你。我既忍受着羞怯，又忍受着嫉妒的折磨。我曾经那样真诚那样温柔地爱过你，愿上帝赐给你的也像我一样坚贞如铁。 ——普希金 《我曾经爱过你》
27. I once loved you silently and hopelessly. I endured both shyness and the torment of jealousy. I loved you so sincerely and gently, may God grant you someone as steadfast as iron, just like me. — Pushkin, “I Loved You”

28.爱不可怕，可怕的是爱得不够，最可怕的是爱得不够还要勉强。 ——顾城
28. Love is not terrible, but loving not enough is terrible. The most terrible thing is loving not enough and still trying to force it. — Gu Cheng

29.爱情不会因为理智而变得淡漠，也不会因为雄心壮志而丧失殆尽。它是第二生命；它渗入灵魂，温暖着每一条血管，跳动在每一次脉搏之中。——爱迪生
29. Love will not become indifferent because of reason, nor will it be completely lost because of ambition. It is a second life; it penetrates the soul, warming every vein and beating in every pulse. — Edison

30.爱情的欢乐虽然是甜美无比，但只有在光荣与美德存在的地方才能生存。──古尔内尔
30. Although the joy of love is incredibly sweet, it can only survive where honor and virtue exist. — Gournelle

31.爱情必须以对丈夫孩子和家庭的义务为前提。我对人生的理解是：不能光满足于大吃大喝，而且食欲也会逐月减弱。我以为，这种减弱只有爱情才能弥补。——契诃夫
31. Love must be based on the obligations to one’s husband, children, and family. My understanding of life is that one cannot be satisfied with just eating and drinking, and the appetite will gradually weaken over time. I believe that only love can make up for this weakening. — Chekhov

32.有一个人，可以让你依靠，可以为你指点阡陌，自此不用，费煞思量。 可以不必认路的幸福。她满心欢喜。 ——墨舞碧歌 《路从今夜白》
32. There is someone who can rely on, who can guide you through the paths, so you don’t have to, spend a lot of thought. The happiness of not having to recognize the road. She is delighted. — Mo Wu Bi Ge, “路从今夜白” (The Road Turns White Tonight)

33.如若相爱，便携手到老；如若错过，便护你安好。
33. If we love each other, let us join hands and grow old together; if we miss each other, I will protect your well-being.

34.不管你对多少异性失望，你都没有理由对爱情失望。因为爱情本身就是希望，永远是生命的一种希望。爱情是你自己的品质，是你自己的心魂，是你自己的处境，与别人无关。爱情不是一个名词，而是一个动词，永远的动词，无穷动。 ——史铁生 《务虚笔记》
34. No matter how many opposite sexes you are disappointed in, you have no reason to be disappointed in love. Because love itself is hope, always a hope in life. Love is your own quality, your own soul, your own situation, and has nothing to do with others. Love is not a noun, but a verb, an eternal verb, an infinite action. — Shi Tiesheng, “The Book of Nullities”

35.结婚与恋爱毫无关系，人们老以为恋爱成熟后便自然而然的结婚，却不知结婚只是一种生活方式，人人可以结婚，简单得很。而爱情完全是另外一回事。 ——亦舒 《我的前半生》
35. Marriage has nothing to do with love. People always think that love will naturally lead to marriage when it matures, but they don’t know that marriage is just a way of life, and everyone can get married, which is very simple. Love, on the other hand, is a completely different thing. — Yishu, “My First Half of Life”

36.不管你心里藏着什么秘密，我只想告诉你，你守你的秘密，我会好好守着你。 ——顾西爵 《我站在桥上看风景》
36. No matter what secrets you hold in your heart, I just want to tell you that you keep your secrets, and I will take good care of you. — Gu Xijue, “I Stand on the Bridge and Watch the Scenery”

37.有了朋友，生命才显出它全部的价值；一个人活着是为了朋友；保持自己生命的完整，不受时间侵蚀，也是为了朋友。友谊要像爱情一样才温暖人心，爱情要像友谊一样才牢不可破。——穆尔.约翰
37. Only with friends can life show its full value; one lives for friends; maintaining the integrity of one’s life and not being eroded by time is also for friends. Friendship should be as warm as love, and love should be as unbreakable as friendship. — Mu’er John

38.爱情使顺从变成为易事。——英国
38. Love makes obedience easy. — United Kingdom

39.爱情和谋杀一样，总是要暴露的。——威.康格里夫
39. Love, like murder, always comes to light. — W. Congreve

40.如果一个人没有能力帮助他所爱的人，最好不要随便谈什么爱与不爱。当然，帮助不等于爱情，但爱情不能不包括帮助。——鲁迅
40. If a person does not have the ability to help the one they love, it is best not to talk casually about love or not love. Of course, help is not equal to love, but love cannot be separated from help. — Lu Xun

41.爱情，是爱情，推动着世界的发展。
41. Love, it is love, that drives the development of the world.

42.爱情、希望、恐惧和信仰构成了人性，它们是人性的标志和特征。——罗.勃朗宁
42. Love, hope, fear, and faith constitute human nature; they are the signs and characteristics of human nature. — R. Browning

43.没有爱情的人生叫受罪。——威.康格里夫
43. A life without love is called suffering. — W. Congreve

44.如果一个人没有能力帮助他所爱的人，最好不要随便谈什么爱与不爱。当然，帮助不等于爱情，但爱情不能不包括帮助。──鲁迅
44. If a person does not have the ability to help the one they love, it is best not to talk casually about love or not love. Of course, help is not equal to love, but love cannot be separated from help. — Lu Xun

45.每个人的生命中 都应该曾有一次 为了某个人而忘了自己 不求有结果 不求同行 不求曾经拥有 甚至不求他知道 只求在最美的年华里 遇见他 ——桐华 《最美的时光》
45. Everyone’s life should have once forgotten themselves for someone, without seeking results, without seeking companionship, without seeking once owned, and even without seeking to be known, just seeking to meet him in the most beautiful years. — Tong Hua, “The Most Beautiful Time”

46.人生最好的时候不是早，也不是晚，有些人你穷其一生也不会爱，有些人你一眼就爱上，恰好那个人也爱上你，那就是最好的时候，最巧的时候。 ——笙离 《爱你，是我做过最好的事》
46. The best time in life is neither early nor late. Some people you will never love in your whole life, and some people you fall in love with at first sight. If that person also falls in love with you, that is the best time, the most coincidental time. — Sheng Li, “Loving You Is the Best Thing I’ve Ever Done”

47.感情的开始就是一颗沙粒进入贝壳的开始，经过长时间的磨合，沙粒才有可能成为一粒珍珠，叫做幸福 ——刘同 《谁的青春不迷茫》
47. The beginning of a relationship is like a sand grain entering a shell. After a long period of friction, the sand grain may become a pearl called happiness. — Liu Tong, “Whose Youth Is Not Confused”

48.一直在寻找奇迹，一直在寻找对的人，然后对他说，我找到了你。 《爱神》
48. Always searching for miracles, always searching for the right person, and then say to him, I found you. — “Eros”

49.我爱你，安安静静对待你；我爱你，轰轰烈烈在心里。 ——李宫俊 《李宫俊的诗》
49. I love you, quietly treating you; I love you, passionately in my heart. — Li Gongjun, “Li Gongjun’s Poems”

50.爱情，不仅讲究门当户对，也讲究棋逢对手。 ——乐小米 《青城2》
50. Love not only pays attention to a good match, but also to having worthy opponents. — Le Xiaomi, “Green City 2”

51.谎言就算是包装一百种形式，也依旧是谎言。 ——罗鹂 《离婚律师》
51. Even if a lie is packaged in a hundred forms, it is still a lie. — Luo Li, “Divorce Lawyer”

52.感情中最磨人的，不是争吵或冷战，而是明明喜欢、还要装出不在乎。爱，总和自尊捆绑在一起。但自尊绝非高高在上的姿态，而是坦诚的面对自己。世人都习惯了扮演一种不屑一切的冷艳。演技越好，离快乐越远。别藏得太深，幸福会找不到你。 ——苏芩
52. The most tormenting aspect of emotions is not arguments or cold wars, but pretending not to care when you clearly like someone. Love is always tied to self-esteem. However, self-esteem is not about having a condescending attitude; it’s about facing oneself honestly. People are accustomed to playing a role of indifference. The better the acting, the further away from happiness they are. Don’t hide too deep, or happiness will not find you. —— Su Qian

53.我们的生命不是我们自己的，从子宫到坟墓，我们和其他人紧紧相连。无论前世今生，每一桩恶行，每一项善举，都会决定我们未来的重生。 《云图》
53. Our lives are not our own; from the womb to the tomb, we are closely connected with others. No matter in past or present lives, every evil act and every good deed will determine our future rebirth. —— Cloud Atlas

54.你为什么喜欢我？ 因为你漂亮，在我眼里。 《请回答1997》
54. Why do you like me? Because you are beautiful, in my eyes. —— Reply 1997

55.没有物质的爱情只是虚弱的幌子，被风一吹，甚至不用风吹，缓慢走动几步就是一盘散沙。 ——郭敬明 《小时代》
55. Love without material support is just a weak facade, easily blown away by the wind, or even without the wind, just a few slow steps can turn it into scattered sand. —— Guo Jingming, “Tiny Times”

56.离开，让一切变得简单，让一切有了重新被原谅的理由，让我们重新来过。 《夏至未至》
56. Leaving makes everything simple, gives everything a reason to be forgiven, and allows us to start over. —— Summer Solstice

57.深夜你突然醒来，你的手慢慢抚过我的脸颊，黑暗里你的眼睛闪过明亮的光泽。 时光凝驻，这一刻的爱情情深似海，而人生，注定寂寞如雪。 ——匪我思存 《裂锦》
57. In the deep night, you suddenly wake up, your hand slowly caressing my cheek, your eyes shining brightly in the darkness. Time stands still, and the love at this moment is as deep as the sea, while life is destined to be as lonely as snow. —— Fei Mo Si Cun, “Cracked Brocade”

58.梦里轻盈的雪花一朵朵落下，无声无息，消失在海面上。所谓繁花不过是一场梦，就像他的爱情一样。今生今世，相见无期。 ——匪我思存 《佳期如梦之海上繁花》
58. In the dream, the light snowflakes fall silently, vanishing on the sea surface. All the prosperity is just a dream, just like his love. In this life, we will never meet again. —— Fei Mo Si Cun, “The Dream of the Sea of Flowers”

59.放弃，不是因为我输了，而是因为我懂了。
59. I give up, not because I lost, but because I understood.

60.我再也不要看见她哭的样子了，就算我从此从她心目中消失。 ——工藤新一 《名侦探柯南》
60. I never want to see her cry again, even if I disappear from her heart forever. —— Shinichi Kudo, “Detective Conan”

61.我相信爱情。也相信爱情会死。 ——罗骊 《离婚律师》
61. I believe in love. I also believe that love can die. —— Luo Li, “Divorce Lawyer”

62.在我说出怀孕，在他惊慌失措的那一刻，我的爱情就彻底地死了…… ——辛夷坞 《致我们终将逝去的青春》
62. When I told him about the pregnancy, and in that moment of panic, my love died completely… —— Xin Yi Wu, “To Our Youth That Passed Away”

63.那样的笑容里什么都有，但又什么都没有，那样的笑容谁都在，也因此，谁都不在。 ——天下归元 《凤倾天阑》
63. That smile has everything, yet nothing at all; everyone is in it, and thus, no one is. —— Tian Xia Gui Yuan, “Phoenix倾倒天澜”

64.彩袖殷勤捧玉钟，当年拚却醉颜红。舞低杨柳楼心月，歌尽桃花扇底风。 从别后，忆相逢，几回魂梦与君同。今宵剩把银釭照，犹恐相逢是梦中。 ——晏几道 《鹧鸪天》
64. With my colorful sleeves, I hold the jade cup diligently, our faces flushed from drinking back then. Dancing under the willow building, the moon in my heart; singing with the peach blossom fan, the wind at the bottom. Since parting, I remember our meetings, several times in dreams with you. Tonight, I use the silver lamp to light up, still fearing that our encounter is just a dream. —— Yan Ji Dao, “Partridge Sky”

65.我掐指一算，你命里缺我，所以我就来了。 ——高见 《爱情回来了》
65. I calculated with my fingers, you lack me in your life, so I came. —— Gao Jian, “Love Comes Back”

66.那种用美好的感情和思想使我们升华并赋予我们力量的爱情，才能算是一种高尚的热情；而使我们自私自利，胆小怯弱，使我们流于盲目本能的下流行为的爱情，应该算是一种邪恶的热情。──乔治.桑
66. The love that elevates and empowers us with beautiful emotions and thoughts can be considered a noble passion; while the love that makes us selfish, cowardly, and indulges in base instincts should be considered an evil passion. —— George Sand

67.爱情没有规则，也不应该有条件。——黎里
67. Love has no rules, nor should it have any conditions. —— Li Li

68.衣带渐宽终不悔，为伊消得人憔悴。──柳永
68. My clothes grow wider, but I never regret, for I am willing to wither for you. —— Liu Yong

69.爱情使是非概念混淆不清；强烈的爱情和骄傲的野心都是没有疆界的。——约.德莱顿
69. Love confuses the concepts of right and wrong; strong love and proud ambition have no boundaries. —— John Dryden

70.爱情是一片炽热狂迷的痴心，一团无法扑灭的烈火，一种永不满足的欲望，一分如糖似蜜的喜悦，一阵如痴如醉的疯狂，一种没有安宁的劳苦和没有劳苦的安宁。──理查.德.弗尼维尔
70. Love is a burning, infatuated obsession, an uncontrollable fire, an insatiable desire, a sweetness like sugar and honey, a madness like drunkenness, a restless toil and a peaceful rest without labor. —— Richard de Fournival

71.去”爱”你绝对熟悉的某人或某物是不可能的。爱总是被引向那些隐藏着秘密的地方。——瓦莱里
71. It is impossible to “love” someone or something you are absolutely familiar with. Love is always directed towards places that hide secrets. — Valéry

72.女人们不断为了爱情而自寻短见，但是一般说来她们总是做得很小心，不让自杀成为事实。通常这只是为了引起她们情人的怜悯或者恐怖而作的一个姿态。——毛姆
72. Women often commit suicide for love, but generally speaking, they always do it carefully to avoid making it a reality. Usually, it is just a gesture to evoke pity or horror from their lovers. — Maugham

73、只要男女真心相爱，即使终了不成眷属，也还是甜蜜的。——丁尼生
73. As long as a man and a woman truly love each other, even if they don’t end up together, it is still sweet. — Tennyson

74、你是被奴役的土地的儿女，你是爱情的天使，你是异想天开的精灵，你是诚实的孩童，你是经验丰富的老者，你是富上有头脑的男子，你是心地善良的女性，你是满怀希望的巨人，你是饱经忧患的母亲，你是充满幻想的诗人。——巴尔扎克
74. You are the child of enslaved land, you are the angel of love, you are the imaginative elf, you are the honest child, you are the experienced elder, you are the wealthy and intelligent man, you are the kind-hearted woman, you are the hopeful giant, you are the mother who has suffered much, you are the imaginative poet. — Balzac

75、恋爱是艰苦的，不能期待它象美梦一样出来。──拜伦
75. Love is hard, and it cannot be expected to come out like a beautiful dream. — Byron

76、没有阳光花儿不香，没有爱情生活不甜。
76. Without sunshine, flowers do not smell sweet; without love, life is not sweet.

77、任何时候为爱情付出的一切都不会白白浪费。——塔索
77. Anything paid for love at any time will not be wasted in vain. — Tasso

78、爱情不仅丰富多彩，而且还赏心悦目。——申斯通
78. Love is not only rich and colorful, but also pleasing to the eye. — Shenstone

79、爱情要懂得珍惜，随着岁月加倍的珍惜。爱情不是在明月之下闲散，也不是在长板凳上叹息。——施企巴乔夫
79. Love must be cherished, and cherished even more as time goes by. Love is not idling under the bright moon, nor is it sighing on a long bench. — Shcheglov

80、其实假装的爱情比真实的爱情还要完美，这就是为什么很多女人都受骗了。——巴尔扎克
80. In fact, pretended love is more perfect than true love, which is why many women are deceived. — Balzac

1.爱是包容而不是放纵，爱是关怀而不是宠爱，爱是相互交融而不是单相思，爱是百味而不全是甜蜜。
1. Love is about tolerance, not indulgence; love is about caring, not pampering; love is about blending together, not unrequited; love has many flavors, not just sweetness.

2.爱上一个人容易，等平淡了后，还坚守那份诺言，就不容易了。
2. Falling in love with someone is easy, but after the excitement fades, it is not easy to still stick to that promise.

3.从时间跨度来看，女人特有的气质要比先天的美貌更夺男人心魄。
3. From a temporal perspective, a woman’s unique temperament is more captivating to men than her innate beauty.

4.你可以去爱一个女人，但是不要把自己的全部都赔进去。没有女人值得你用生命去讨好。你若不爱自己，怎么能让别人爱你？
4. You can love a woman, but don’t risk everything for her. No woman is worth讨好ing with your life. If you don’t love yourself, how can you expect others to love you?

5.所谓幸福，就是一个笨蛋遇到一个傻瓜，引来无数人的羡慕和嫉妒，风风雨雨，平平淡淡。
5. So-called happiness is when a fool meets a simpleton, attracting the envy and jealousy of countless people, through thick and thin, plain and simple.

6.美丽的谎言往往比暴力更伤人，肉体的伤可以痊愈，心里的伤却无药可治。
6. Beautiful lies often hurt more than violence. Physical wounds can heal, but emotional wounds are incurable.

7.爱情本来并不复杂，来来去去不过三个字，不是我爱你，我恨你，便是算了吧，你好吗，对不起。
7. Love is not complicated in the first place, coming and going in just three words: I love you, I hate you, or forget it, how are you, I’m sorry.

8.爱情甜蜜时爱情可以让人忘记时间，爱情无味时时间可以让人忘记爱情。
8. When love is sweet, it can make people forget time; when love is tasteless, time can make people forget love.

9.明知会失去自由，明知这是一生一世的合约，为了得到对方，为了令对方快乐，也甘愿作出承诺。恋爱？一个追求不自由的过程，当你埋怨太不自由了的时候，就是你不爱他的时候。
9. Knowing that freedom will be lost, knowing that it is a lifelong contract, in order to get the other person and make them happy, one is willing to make promises. Falling in love? A process of pursuing unfreedom, when you complain about being too unfreedom, it is when you no longer love them.

10.我们放下尊严，放下个性，放下固执，都只是因为放不下一个人。
10. We let go of dignity, personality, and stubbornness, all just because we can’t let go of one person.

11.为什么要那么痛苦地忘记一个人，时间自然会使你忘记。如果时间不可以让你忘记不应该记住的人，我们失去的岁月又有甚么意义？
11. Why forget someone so painfully when time will naturally make you forget? If time cannot make you forget those who should not be remembered, what is the meaning of the years we have lost?

12.深情是我担不起的重担，情话只是偶然兑现的谎言。
12. Deep affection is a burden I cannot bear, and sweet words are just occasionally fulfilled lies.

13.美能激发人的感情，爱情能净化人的心灵。
13. Beauty can inspire emotions, and love can purify the soul.

14.爱一个人原来就是在冰箱里为她留一个苹果，并且等她归来。
14. Loving someone is about saving an apple in the refrigerator for her and waiting for her return.

15.爱情总藏在温柔的心里。
15. Love always hides in a tender heart.

16.谈恋爱就像喝一杯水，刚开始是为了解渴，喝下去之后，便渗进了你的血，入了你的骨，不知不觉不可或缺。
16. Falling in love is like drinking a glass of water; at first, it’s to quench thirst, but after drinking, it seeps into your blood and bones, becoming indispensable without realizing it.

17.好的爱情是你透过一个男人看到世界，坏的爱情是你为了一个人舍弃世界。
17. Good love allows you to see the world through a man, while bad love makes you give up the world for someone.

18.暗恋是神圣的﹐要以对方的幸福为依归。如果有痛楚﹐也该留给自己。
18. Unrequited love is sacred and should focus on the other person’s happiness. If there is pain, it should be left to oneself.

19.为什么要那么痛苦地忘记一个人，时间自然会使你忘记。如果时间不可以让你忘记不应该记住的人，我们失去的岁月又有甚么意义？
19. Why forget someone so painfully when time will naturally make you forget? If time cannot make you forget those who should not be remembered, what is the meaning of the years we have lost?

20.爱一个人并不是一定要得到她，而是要让她幸福，这就是你对她最好的爱。
20. Loving someone doesn’t mean you have to be with her; it means wanting her happiness, which is the best love you can give her.

21.不相信爱情的人，只是因为曾经沧海的心情已经不是常人能够体会。
21. Those who don’t believe in love have experienced a heart that is no longer relatable to the ordinary.

22.当我们爱一个人，会记得一些和他有关的画面。失去他以后，只要一想起，他就会出现，会出现在那些画面里。
22. When we love someone, we remember certain scenes related to them. After losing them, as long as we think of them, they appear in those scenes.

23.两个死心的人，在一起希望彼此能够取暖，却因为彼此的寒冷，只感觉到越来越冷。
23. Two hopeless people together hope to warm each other but end up feeling colder because of each other’s coldness.

24.我真的喜欢你，闭上眼，以为我能忘记，但流下的眼泪，却没有骗到自己。
24. I really like you; I close my eyes, thinking I can forget, but the tears I shed don’t deceive myself.

25.有的人与人之间的相遇就像是流星，瞬间迸发出令人羡慕的火花，却注定只是匆匆而过。
25. Some encounters between people are like meteors, briefly sparking envy-inspiring sparks but destined to pass by in a hurry.

26.凡世的喧嚣和明亮，世俗的快乐和幸福，如同清亮的溪涧，在风里，在我眼前，汨汨而过，温暖如同泉水一样涌出来，我没有奢望，我只要你快乐，不要哀伤。
26. The hustle and bustle of the world, its joys and happiness, flow by like a clear stream in the wind, before my eyes, bringing warmth like a spring. I have no extravagant desires; I just want you to be happy, not sad.

27.在绝望的时刻，与某个人一同怀抱着一个渺茫的希望，并竭力让对方相信终有实现的一天，这种痛楚的喜乐，唯在爱情中才会发生。
27. In desperate moments, embracing a faint hope with someone and trying to convince each other that it will come true, is a bittersweet joy that only happens in love.

28.你永远也看不到我最寂寞时候的样子，因为只有你不在我身边的时候，我才最寂寞。
28. You will never see me at my loneliest because I am only lonely when you are not by my side.

29.因为记忆中的曾经太美好了，美好到即便是再狠心的人也舍不得去忘记。不是爱情不肯放过你，不是回忆不肯放过你，不是宿命不肯放过你，而是你自己不肯放过你自己。
29. The past in memory is too beautiful, so beautiful that even the most ruthless person cannot bear to forget. It’s not love that won’t let you go, not memories that won’t let you go, not fate that won’t let you go, but yourself who won’t let yourself go.

30.有多少人，发表QQ签名只是为了让某人看见。
30. How many people post QQ signatures just to be seen by someone.

31.当我对你越来越礼貌时，我们或许就越来越陌生了。
31. When I become more and more polite to you, we may be becoming strangers.

32.你以为放手可以成全我的幸福，可你不知道我最大的幸福就是和你手牵手。
32. You think letting go can fulfill my happiness, but you don’t know that my greatest happiness is holding hands with you.

33.明明一开始就不应该爱上的人，却爱上了，即使一直告诉自己没问题，到目前为止一切还好，最后的结果，终于还是粉身碎骨。
33. Clearly, we should not have fallen in love with someone from the beginning, but we did. Even if we keep telling ourselves that there’s no problem and everything is fine so far, the final result is still shattered.

34.忘却，是一种逃遁，也是复元。忘却之后，我们只留下美好的回忆。
34. Forgetting is an escape and a recovery. After forgetting, we only leave behind beautiful memories.

35.我们为了重寻热恋的感觉，甚至宁愿放弃原本拥有的一段感情。
35. In order to recapture the feeling of being in love, we would rather give up the relationship we originally had.

36.想要的生活非常简单，追寻它的道路却始终迂回反复。
36. The life we want is very simple, but the path to it is always full of twists and turns.

37.我爱你，不是因为你是一个怎样的人，而是因为与你在一起时，我变成了怎样的自己。
37. I love you, not because of who you are, but because of the person I become when I am with you.

38.我们可以忘记这世间一切，可爱情却是例外的。
38. We can forget everything in this world, but love is an exception.

39.若是有可能，有些事情一定要用所能有的，竭尽全力的能力来记得它。因很多事情我们慢慢地，慢慢地就会变得不记得。
39. If possible, some things must be remembered with all our strength and ability, because many things will slowly, slowly fade from our memory.

40.生命是光束中飞舞的无数细微尘埃，随风起荡不可存留，不被探测与需索，最后只是静寂。
40. Life is the countless tiny particles flying in the beam of light, rising and falling with the wind, impossible to stay, undetectable and unsearchable, and finally, only silence remains.

41.时间与记忆背道而驰，记忆被投递到虚无之中，开始成为无始无终。
41. Time and memory move in opposite directions, with memory being sent into the void, becoming endless and timeless.

42.因为爱情常常是不可预知的，所以它的消逝很多时候也往往不以我们的意志为转移，如果确曾深爱过，则爱就永远不会被我们忘记。
42. Because love is often unpredictable, its disappearance is often beyond our control. If we have truly loved, then love will never be forgotten by us.

43.爱情就是这样，她让我们何时何地都惦念着对方，如果惦念淡没了，消失了，爱情也就结束了。
43. Love is like this: it makes us care about each other all the time and everywhere. If the care fades away and disappears, love comes to an end.

44.其实我们的生活，就是一个又一个的梦，有时候我们沉溺在梦里面，不愿意醒来，我们在梦里哭了，笑了，难过了，开心了，当梦醒了，我们又开始另外一个梦，那些不愿意从梦里走出来的人，就永远地留在回忆里。
44. In fact, our life is a series of dreams. Sometimes we indulge in them and don’t want to wake up. We cry, laugh, feel sad, and happy in our dreams. When the dream wakes up, we start another dream. Those who don’t want to leave the dream stay forever in memories.

45.爱情在开始的时候，总是甜蜜的，以后就有了厌倦，习惯，背弃，寂寞，绝望和冷落。
45. Love is always sweet at the beginning, but later there is boredom, habit, betrayal, loneliness, despair, and neglect.

46.因为寂寞才去爱，往往会陷入更深更深无可救药的寂寞中。
46. Loving someone because of loneliness often leads to deeper and incurable loneliness.

47.浪漫，我曾经触摸过它，直到现在还反胃。残酷，我躲不开它，所以我把它演给你看。
47. Romance, I have touched it before, and I still feel nauseous. Cruelty, I can’t avoid it, so I show it to you.

48.那些已经犯过的错误，有一些是因为来不及，有一些是因为刻意躲避，更多的时候是茫然地站到了一边。我们就这样错了一次又一次，却从不晓得从中汲取教训，做一些反省。
48. The mistakes we have made, some are because of being too late, some are due to deliberate avoidance, and more often, we stand by in confusion. We keep making mistakes again and again, but never learn from them or reflect on ourselves.

49.对于世界而言，你只是芸芸众生中的一人；但是对于某个人而言，你却是他的整个世界。
49. To the world, you are just one person among many; but to someone, you are their entire world.

50.不要为那些不愿在你身上花费时间的人而浪费你的时间。
50. Don’t waste your time on those who are unwilling to spend time on you.

51.如果有人没有按你所希望的方式来爱你，那并不代表他们没有竭尽所能地爱你。
51. If someone doesn’t love you the way you want, it doesn’t mean they’re not doing their best to love you.

52.不要因为结束而哭泣，微笑吧，为你的曾经拥有。
52. Don’t cry because it’s over, smile because it happened.

53.感情有时候只是一个人的事情。和任何人无关。爱，或者不爱，只能自行了断。
53. Sometimes, emotions are just a personal matter. They have nothing to do with anyone else. To love, or not to love, one can only decide for themselves.

54.爱情是最奢侈的享乐，但结局往往悲伤。
54. Love is the most luxurious pleasure, but the ending is often sad.

55.爱情不是避难所，想进去避难的话，是会被赶出来的。
55. Love is not a sanctuary; if you try to take refuge in it, you will be driven out.

56.真正的爱情，是在能爱的时候，懂得珍惜；真正的爱情，是在无法爱的时候，懂得放手。因为，放手才是拥有了一切……请在珍惜的时候，好好去爱。
56. True love is cherishing when you can love; true love is letting go when you can’t. Because, letting go means possessing everything… Please love wholeheartedly when cherishing.

57.恋爱就像口香糖，时间长了会平淡无味，觉得平淡了就想放弃，而无论丢在什么地方，都会留下难以抹去的痕迹。
57. Relationships are like chewing gum; over time, they become tasteless and dull. When they become dull, we want to give up, but no matter where we discard them, they leave an indelible mark.

58.爱情，就以某种匆促的姿态完成了结局，平淡的现实的结局，把所有曾经挣扎过的叛逆和激情，全部地淹没了。
58. Love, in some hasty manner, completes its ending in the plain reality, submerging all the struggles, rebellion, and passion that once existed.

59.有些人会一直刻在记忆里的，即使忘记了他的声音，忘记了他的笑容，忘记了他的脸，但是每当想起他时的那种感受，是永远都不会改变的。
59. Some people will always be engraved in our memories; even if we forget their voice, their smile, and their face, the feeling we have when we think of them will never change.

60.当一个人谁都不爱的时候，他就可以爱上身边的任何一个人。
60. When someone doesn’t love anyone, they can fall in love with anyone around them.

61.我不相信爱情，但我会接受它，因为它是一种安慰。
61. I don’t believe in love, but I will accept it because it’s a comfort.

62.爱可以是一瞬间的事情，也可以是一辈子的事情，每个人都可以在不同的时候爱上不同的人，不是谁离开了谁就无法生活，遗忘让我们坚强。
62. Love can be a matter of a moment or a lifetime. Everyone can fall in love with different people at different times. No one is unable to live without someone else; forgetting makes us strong.

63.有些事，我们明知道是错的，也要去坚持，因为不甘心；有些人，我们明知道是爱的，也要去放弃，因为没结局；有时候，我们明知道没路了，却还在前行，因为习惯了。
63. Sometimes, we persist in doing things we know are wrong because we’re unwilling to give up; we give up on people we know we love because there’s no ending. Sometimes, we continue moving forward even when we know there’s no way out because we’re used to it.

64.没有人值得你为之流泪，值得让你这么做的人不会让你哭泣。
64. No one is worth your tears, and the person who is worth it won’t make you cry.

65.一个人痛苦的时候，就会想起自己以前也曾令人痛苦。
65. When a person is in pain, they will remember that they have also caused pain to others in the past.

66.以前我以为爱一个人，最伟大的是等待，今天重又发现，爱的伟大，除了等待，就是接受。
66. I used to think that the greatest thing about loving someone was waiting. Today, I realized that the greatness of love, besides waiting, is accepting.

67.世上没有任何一种动物，跑得比时间和生命快，赛过光阴的不是速度，而是爱情在两个灵魂之间的慢舞。
67. There is no animal in the world that can run faster than time and life. What surpasses time is not speed, but the slow dance of love between two souls.

68.爱不需要解释，却又可以解释一切。虽然爱情只是众多情感中的一类，但它远比其它来得深刻，来得无奈。
68. Love needs no explanation, yet it can explain everything. Although love is just one of many emotions, it is far more profound and helpless than the others.

69.我总是以为自己是会对流失的时间和往事习惯的。不管在哪里，碰到谁。以什么样的方式结束。
69. I always thought I would get used to the passage of time and the past. No matter where, who I meet, or how it ends.

70.当你对一个人没有感觉了，你会找到许多理由不去爱他。
70. When you have no feelings for someone, you will find many reasons not to love them.

71.当爱情承载更多的希望，它也会幻灭得更快。
71. When love carries more hope, it also disillusions faster.

72.我们始终都不会理解对方的感情，但却舍得彼此交付。
72. We never truly understand each other’s feelings, yet we are willing to commit to each other.

73.爱情总是患得患失的时候最美好，如果不去开始的话，也永远不会消逝，可是，谁又会按捺住不去开始呢？
73. Love is most beautiful when there is a fear of losing it. If we never start, it will never fade away, but who can resist not beginning?

74.有些人是一直会刻在生命里的，哪怕忘记了他的声音，忘记了他的笑容，忘记了他的脸，可是每次想起他，那种感觉，却永远不会变。
74. Some people will always be etched in our lives, even if we forget their voice, their smile, and their face. Yet, every time we think of them, that feeling never changes.

75.爱情或许可以是孤独的酒精，自由的情欲，一场不动声色的游戏，一个拖在身后的黑暗影子，婚姻是一种生活方式，而并非结局，爱情同样也是一种生活方式，而非理想，所以，对我们而言，爱情是可以被替代的，或许也是宁愿被替代的。
75. Love can be lonely alcohol, free desire, a silent game, a dark shadow trailing behind. Marriage is a way of life, not an end. Love is also a way of life, not an ideal. So for us, love can be replaced, and perhaps is better replaced.

76.寂寞对望的灵魂，你是我，而我是你，你不是我，我也不是你。
76. Lonely souls gazing at each other, you are me, and I am you. You are not me, and I am not you.

77.世间可以流逝一切，爱却可以永驻，尽管爱的那么忧伤。只有记忆，将会以一种深刻的不可触及的形式，存留在心里。
77. Time can pass everything in the world, but love can last forever, despite being so sorrowful. Only memories will remain in our hearts, in a profound and unreachable form.

78.我们经常忽略那些疼爱我们的人，却疼爱着那些忽略我们的人。
78. We often overlook those who love us, yet cherish those who ignore us.

79.寂寞的人总是会用心的记住他生命中出现过的每一个人，于是我总是意犹未尽地想起你在每个星光陨落的晚上一遍一遍数我的寂寞。
79. Lonely people always remember everyone who has appeared in their lives with all their hearts. So I keep thinking of you on every starry night, counting my loneliness over and over again.

80.没用的东西，再便宜也不要买；不爱的人，再寂寞也不要依赖。
80. Don’t buy useless things, no matter how cheap; don’t rely on someone you don’t love, no matter how lonely.

81.爱情是一片炽热狂迷的痴心，一团无法扑灭的烈火，一种永不满足的欲望，一分如糖似蜜的喜悦，一阵如痴如醉的疯狂，一种没有安宁的劳苦和没有劳苦的安宁。
81. Love is a passionate obsession, an uncontrollable fire, an insatiable desire, a joy as sweet as sugar and honey, a bout of madness, and a restless toil with no peace and a peace without toil.

82.如果你爱一个人，先要使自己现在或将来百分之百的值得他爱，至于他爱不爱你，那是他的事，你可以如此希望，但不必勉强去追求。
82. If you love someone, first make sure you are 100% worthy of their love now or in the future. As for whether they love you or not, that’s their business. You can hope for it, but don’t force yourself to pursue it.

83.只有在爱情里面，女人才活得真正像个女人。
83. Only in love can a woman truly live like a woman.

84.真爱是一种从内心发出的关心和照顾，没有华丽的言语，没有哗众取宠的行动，只有在点点滴滴一言一行中你能感受得到。
84. True love is a concern and care that comes from the heart, without fancy words or attention-seeking actions. You can only feel it in the little things, in every word and deed.

85.不要轻易说爱，许下的诺言就是欠下的债。
85. Don’t easily say “I love you,” for promises made are debts owed.

86.当你眼泪忍不住要流出来的时候，睁大眼睛，千万别眨眼！你会看到世界由清晰变模糊的全过程，心会在你泪水落下的那一刻变得清澈明晰……
86. When your tears are about to fall, open your eyes wide and don’t blink! You will witness the world becoming blurry from clear, and your heart will become clear and distinct the moment your tears fall.

87.有时候爱情只是因为寂寞，需要找一个人来爱，即使没有任何结局。
87. Sometimes love is just because of loneliness, needing to find someone to love, even if there is no ending.

88.一些杜绝语言的厌倦，一些失去期待的绝望，没有人可以爱，也不想爱上任何人，不相信爱情的人，只是因为曾经沧海的心情，已经不是常人能够体会。
88. The weariness of language, the despair of lost expectations, the inability to love or be loved, the disbelief in love, all stem from a heart that has once crossed the vast ocean, something ordinary people cannot comprehend.

89.真正的爱情并不一定是他人眼中的完美匹配，而是相爱的人彼此心灵的相互契合，是为了让对方生活得更好而默默奉献，这份爱不仅温润着他们自己，也同样温润着那些世俗的心。
89. True love is not necessarily a perfect match in the eyes of others, but a deep spiritual connection between the lovers, a silent dedication to make each other’s lives better. This love not only warms them but also touches those worldly hearts.

90.看中了就不应太挑剔，因为爱情不是在放大镜下做成的。
90. When you find something you like, don’t be too picky, because love is not made under a magnifying glass.

91.真正的爱情能够鼓舞人，唤醒他内心沉睡着的力量和潜藏着的才能。
91. True love can inspire people, awaken the sleeping power and hidden talents within their hearts.

92.有很多人经历过早恋，也许都曾经很早地失身，他们用激情而直接的方式，摸索爱情的路途，但是走得太快，所以难免有时候会心里迷惘，等到真正地成人以后，心里有了破碎的痕迹，很多女人比较不那么容易有欲念，对着自己心爱的男人，有时候一个温柔的拥抱已胜过一切激情。
92. Many people have experienced puppy love and perhaps lost their innocence at an early age. They explore the path of love with passion and directness, but they move too fast, so it’s inevitable that they sometimes feel confused. When they finally become adults, their hearts bear the marks of brokenness, and many women find it harder to have desires. Facing the men they love, sometimes a gentle hug is more powerful than all the passion.

93.对的时间，遇见对的人，是一生幸福；对的时间，遇见错的人，是一场心伤；错的时间，遇见错的人，是一段荒唐；错的时间，遇见对的人，是一生叹息。
93. Meeting the right person at the right time leads to a lifetime of happiness; meeting the wrong person at the right time leads to heartache; meeting the wrong person at the wrong time leads to absurdity; meeting the right person at the wrong time leads to a lifetime of sighs.

94.让一个人了解自己太多的话，就会成为自己致命的弱点，而让自己变得脆弱。
94. Letting someone know too much about yourself becomes your fatal weakness and makes you vulnerable.

95.幻想终究是没有羽翼的天使，飞不出现实的距离。
95. Fantasy is like an angel without wings, unable to fly beyond the boundaries of reality.

96.爱情不是一种虚荣，要拿出来在众人面前炫耀；爱情不是一件美丽的衣裳，要穿在外面给大家欣赏；爱情不是一项任务，要对亲朋好友有个交待。爱情是你一个人的事情，你幸福或者不幸福，只有你自己知道。
96. Love is not a vanity to be displayed before others; it is not a beautiful garment to be worn for everyone’s admiration; it is not a task to be accountable to friends and family. Love is your own business, and only you know whether you are happy or not.

97.没有不变的承诺，只有说不完的谎言。
97. There are no unchanging promises, only endless lies.

98.以为蒙上了眼睛，就可以看不见这个世界；以为捂住了耳朵，就可以听不到所有的烦恼；以为脚步停了下来，心就可以不再远行；以为我需要的爱情，只是一个拥抱。
98. Thinking that covering your eyes can make you invisible to the world; thinking that covering your ears can make you immune to all troubles; thinking that stopping your footsteps can keep your heart from wandering; thinking that what I need in love is just a hug.

99.结局和过程都有了，再去纠缠，连自己都觉得贪婪。
99. With both the ending and the process, to entangle further would be greedy even for oneself.

100.即使不能善待，但那依旧是恩慈，只是幻觉稀薄，即使再剧烈，仍只是烟花，留下的不过一地冰冷的尘埃。
100. Even if it cannot be treated kindly, it is still a form of mercy, only the illusion is thin, and even if it is intense, it is just fireworks, leaving nothing but cold ashes on the ground.

1.婚姻是键盘，太多秩序和规则；爱情是鼠标，一点就通。男人自比主机，内存最重要；女人好似显示器，一切都看得出来。
1. Marriage is like a keyboard, with too many rules and order; love is like a mouse, easily connected. Men compare themselves to the mainframe, where memory is the most important; women are like monitors, where everything can be seen.

2.爱情是一场赌博，赌徒们把未来的岁月作为筹码，下注于远方幸福的时光。
2. Love is a gamble, where gamblers bet their future years on the hope of happiness in the distant future.

3.爱情就像咖啡，苦涩而又香醇；爱情就像鸣曲，曲折而又动人；爱情就像酸梅，青色而又甘甜。
3. Love is like coffee, bitter yet fragrant; love is like a sonata, full of twists and turns yet touching; love is like a green plum, sour yet sweet.

4.幼稚的人和幼稚的人在一起没什么问题，成熟的人和成熟的人在一起也没什么问题。成熟的人和幼稚的人在一起问题就多了。
4. There is no problem when immature people are together, and there is no problem when mature people are together. But when mature people are with immature people, there are many issues.

5.如果你赞同以上说法，就请留言。这样可以让更多的人知道这些道理。如果你还要补充，更有留言，可以让人知道更多的道理。如果你不赞同的话，同样要留言，因为你更有道理。与其说你爱一个人，不如说爱其中的痛苦。
5. If you agree with the above statements, please leave a comment. This way, more people can learn these truths. If you have more to add, please leave a comment as well, as it can help others learn more. If you disagree, you should still leave a comment because you might have a better point. Instead of saying you love someone, it’s better to say you love the pain involved.

6.有些人会一直刻在记忆里的，即使忘记了他的声音，忘记了他的笑容，忘记了他的脸，但是每当想起他时的那种感受，是永远都不会改变的。
6. Some people will always be etched in your memory. Even if you forget their voice, their smile, and their face, the feeling you have when you think of them will never change.

7.感情有时候只是一个人的事情。和任何人无关。爱，或者不爱，只能自行了断。
7. Sometimes, emotions are just a personal matter, having nothing to do with anyone else. To love or not to love can only be decided by oneself.

8.从美丽的邂逅到痴痴的相恋，从一见钟情的浪漫到生死相许的约定，匆匆而过的天，让一对男女仿佛经历了几年的爱情蜕变。
8. From a beautiful encounter to infatuation, from love at first sight to a promise of eternal commitment, the fleeting days make a couple feel as if they have experienced years of love transformation.

9.单身是春天的种子，充满希望；单身是夏天的烈日，热情辉煌；单身是秋天的落叶，自由自在；单身是冬天的雪花，浪漫无限。
9. Being single is like a seed in spring, full of hope; being single is like the scorching sun in summer, passionate and brilliant; being single is like the fallen leaves in autumn, free and unrestrained; being single is like the snowflakes in winter, romantic and infinite.

10.风过花飞，斩不断的是对你无数的牵牵绊绊。没有人会知道，这种想念是如何的痛彻心肺，如何的将心彻底掏空，再无情的撕碎。你的身影总在心中飞，让我醉。
10. The wind blows and flowers fly, but the countless attachments to you cannot be severed. No one knows how painful this longing is, how it completely empties the heart and mercilessly shreds it. Your figure always flies in my heart, making me intoxicated.

11.人一辈子也无法心心相印，他们孤独的只剩下肉体和金钱的交换了。所以，请等待那个对你生命有特殊意义的人。
11. In a person’s lifetime, they may never truly connect with another, leaving them lonely with only the exchange of physical desires and money. So, please wait for that special person in your life.

12.在我的世界里，你依旧纯洁，脏了的只是这个世界。
12. In my world, you remain pure; it’s just the world that has become tainted.

13.以后你会不经意地想起我，请别忘记我曾那样深深地爱过你。
13. In the future, you may inadvertently think of me, but please don’t forget how deeply I once loved you.

14.恋爱中，男人的个性是多余的，女人的头脑是多余的。
14. In love, a man’s personality is superfluous, and a woman’s mind is superfluous.

15.女人在一次次的恋爱中知道男人是什么东西，男人在一次次的恋爱中知道女人要什么东西。
15. Women learn what men are through repeated relationships, while men learn what women want through repeated relationships.

16.她没有拒绝你，但也没有对你心动，说明她现在很寂寞，需要男人，需要爱，但是你还有很多缺点，并不能一下子令她十分接受与满意。
16. She didn’t reject you, but she didn’t feel attracted to you either. This means she is currently lonely, needing a man and love, but you still have many shortcomings that prevent her from fully accepting and being satisfied with you.

17.只有爱情没有婚姻会像泡沫一样容易破灭；只有婚姻没有爱情也会像白开水一样容易让人厌倦。
17. Love without marriage is like a bubble, easily bursting; marriage without love is like plain boiled water, easily becoming boring.

18.婚前女人把男人看成果，可是婚后却总是这不满那不满的，觉得婚前的日子像无花果一样白过了。
18. Before marriage, women view men as fruits, but after marriage, they are always dissatisfied with this and that, feeling that their pre-marital days were wasted like figs without flowers.

19.女人要学会扮靓自己。不要拿朴素来当挡箭牌，不要拿家务做借口，不懂时尚，你就不是一个的好女人。
19. Women should learn to dress up. Don’t use simplicity as an excuse, and don’t use housework as a reason. If you don’t understand fashion, you are not a good woman.

20.那些美丽的小鱼，它们睡觉的时候也睁着眼睛。不需要爱情，亦从不哭泣。它们是我的榜样。
20. Those beautiful little fish sleep with their eyes open. They don’t need love and never cry. They are my role models.

21.对弈的人已走,谁还在意推敲红尘之外的一盘残棋？
21. The players have left, who still cares about pondering over a half-finished game of chess beyond the mortal world?

22.我颠倒了整个世界，只为摆正你的倒影。
22. I’ve turned the entire world upside down, just to straighten your reflection.

23.失恋的人虽各不相同，但仰望星空却是唯一的不约而同。
23. Although people who have lost love are different, gazing at the starry sky is the only thing they all have in common.

24.如果一个人的感情得到了解脱，那么另一个人将走向可怕的地狱。
24. If one person’s emotions are liberated, the other will head towards a terrible hell.

25.时间是最公正的裁判；历史是最优秀的见证人。你终究会知道我如何爱你，但是，要给我一定的时间！
25. Time is the fairest judge; history is the best witness. You will eventually know how much I love you, but give me some time!

26.爱情本来应该是件快乐的事，爱人本来是个信任的伴侣，假如沦落成了一件勾心斗角的事一场保密与反保密犯错与抓错的战争，那么爱情有什么意思？
26. Love should be a happy thing, and a lover should be a trusted companion. If it becomes a scheming battle of secrets and catching mistakes, what’s the point of love?

27.爱情本是个不等式，没有谁可以预见感情天平的哪一端会重些，哪一端又会轻些。但是爱情就是这样，如果你没有勇气去尝试，那就注定只有陪伴自己孤寂的灵魂。
27. Love is an inequality; no one can predict which side of the emotional scale will be heavier and which will be lighter. But love is like this; if you don’t have the courage to try, you are destined to only accompany your lonely soul.

28.爱情真的很短暂，象烟花是最美最真实的比喻，只是呼啸着冲上天空的一刹那，而后变成习惯，最后变成亲情，失恋后痛的感觉因为你不能改掉一个习惯，不能拒绝最原始的亲情。
28. Love is truly fleeting, like the most beautiful and real metaphor of fireworks. It’s just the moment when it soars into the sky, and then becomes a habit, eventually turning into a familial love. The pain of a broken heart is because you can’t change a habit or refuse the most primitive familial love.

29.喜欢一个人，就是两个人在一起很开心；而爱一个人，即使不开心也想和他在一起。
29. Liking someone means being happy together; loving someone means wanting to be with them even when it’s not happy.

30.感情经不起比，一比比出寒碜；感情经不起推敲，一敲碎成片段。
30. Relationships cannot be compared; once compared, they reveal their shortcomings. Relationships cannot be scrutinized; once examined, they crumble into fragments.

31.示爱者是动物，被爱者是植物。如果爱被拒绝，离开的当然是动物，因为植物是不会生出脚来跑路的。
31. The person who expresses love is an animal, and the one who is loved is a plant. If love is rejected, the one who leaves is the animal, because plants don’t have feet to run away.

32.一段感情能给你带来多大痛苦，就曾给你带来过多大快乐。
32. The pain a relationship brings you is proportional to the happiness it once brought you.

33.给我一个支点，让我重新撬动你的心好吗？可令我难过的是，直到你离去，也始终不肯给我这个支点。
33. Give me a fulcrum, let me try to move your heart again, okay? What makes me sad is that you never gave me this fulcrum until you left.

34.如果你的婚姻不幸福，那就回来找我吧，哪怕我已经老得走不动了，我也会带你一起私奔的。
34. If your marriage is unhappy, come back to me, even if I’m too old to walk. I’ll still elope with you.

35.当我们都老的时候，我希望还能吻着你的牙床，直到永远。
35. When we’re old, I hope I can still kiss your gums and be together forever.

36.漂亮是女人的通行证——一句老话而已，也算颠扑不破的真理。明明是糖衣炮弹，最后也不见得赢得美人归，但就是死心塌地讨好她。而那些缺乏视觉效果的女子尽管有的明明是良药，因为苦口，男人常常下不了决心娶她。
36. Beauty is a woman’s passport - an old saying, but also an unshakable truth. Although it’s just a sugar-coated shell, it doesn’t necessarily win the beauty’s heart, but men still wholeheartedly try to please her. Those women who lack visual appeal, even if they are the real cure, may be hard to swallow, and men often can’t make up their minds to marry them.

37.大龄未婚男女像是坐巴士坐过了站。有时是因为巴士上的座位太舒适了，简直不愿下车；有时是因为不认识自己该下的站台。终身不结婚的男女呢？他们是巴士司机。
37. Older unmarried men and women are like passengers who have missed their stop on the bus. Sometimes it’s because the seats on the bus are too comfortable, and they don’t want to get off; sometimes it’s because they don’t know which stop they should get off at. Men and women who never marry are the bus drivers.

38.我很忙——听到这句话时，父母担心的是孩子的身体健康；朋友心想这哥们儿事业有成；妻子马上觉得自己家务的担子重了；女朋友流泪了，她开始意识到自己在他心目中的位置不一定有他的事业重要，甚至简直就是一个分手的信号或借口。
38. I’m busy - when people hear this, parents worry about their child’s health; friends think this guy’s career is successful; the wife feels the burden of housework has increased; the girlfriend cries, realizing that she may not be as important to him as his career, and it could even be a signal or excuse for a breakup.

39.一群人在讨论现代做什么事最冒险？登山滑翔极限运动。。。说什么的都有。其实，感情才是最大的冒险，而且在任何时代都如此。因为种种冒险行为大不了一死，但感情的折磨却让人生不如死。
39. What is the most adventurous thing to do in modern times? Climbing, gliding, extreme sports… There are all kinds of opinions. In fact, emotions are the biggest adventure, and it has always been so. Because all kinds of adventurous actions are just death, but the torment of emotions makes life unbearable.

40.有了自己的房子，未婚女子就像是凭空小了几岁，又有耐心慢慢地挑选爱人了。一男向一女征询意见：我们先租房子住，结了婚攒了钱再买房子吧？女答：那我还不如先租丈夫呢。
40. Owning a house makes unmarried women feel younger and more patient in choosing a lover. A man asks a woman for advice: “Shall we rent a house first and buy one after getting married and saving money?” The woman replies: “Then I might as well rent a husband first.”

41.友情，亲情……我们之间无所不有，却唯独没有爱情。
41. Friendship, family… We have everything between us, but the only thing missing is love.

42.每个女人都有两个版本：精装本和平装本，前者是在职场社交场合给别人看的，浓妆艳抹，光彩照人；后者是在家里给最爱的人看的，换上家常服睡衣，诉苦。婚姻中的丈夫往往只能看到妻子的平装本和别的女人的精装本。
42. Every woman has two versions: hardcover and paperback. The former is for others to see in the workplace and social situations, with heavy makeup and shining brightly; the latter is for their loved ones at home, wearing casual clothes and pajamas, complaining. Husbands in marriage often only see their wives’ paperback version and other women’s hardcover version.

43.我一直在寻找那种感觉，那种在寒冷的日子里，牵起一双温暖的手，踏实地向前走的感觉。
43. I’ve been looking for that feeling, the feeling of holding a pair of warm hands on a cold day and walking forward steadily.

44.因为平淡，我们的爱情有时会游离原本温馨的港湾；因为好奇，我们的行程会在某个十字路口不经意的拐弯，就在你意欲转身的刹那，你会听见身后有爱情在低声地哭泣。
44. Because of the mundane, our love sometimes drifts away from the originally warm harbor; because of curiosity, our journey may inadvertently turn at a crossroads, and when you want to turn around, you’ll hear love crying softly behind you.

45.夜晚来了我还依然睁着眼睛，是因为我看见了你留在月光下的痕迹。
45. I still keep my eyes open when night comes, because I see the traces you left in the moonlight.

46.在这城市里,我相信一定会有那麽一个人,想着同样的事情,怀着相似的频率,在某站寂寞的出口,安排好了与我相遇。
46. In this city, I believe there must be someone who thinks the same things, with a similar frequency, at some lonely exit, arranged to meet me.

47.时间没有等我，是你忘了带我走，我们就这样迷散在陌生的风雨里，从此天各一方，两两相忘。
47. Time didn’t wait for me, it’s you who forgot to take me away. We got lost in the unfamiliar wind and rain, and since then, we have been in different places, forgetting each other.

48.如果有来生，我愿做你的妹妹，即使我们无法步入婚姻的殿堂，我也可以做你永远无法割舍的亲人！
48. If there is an afterlife, I would like to be your sister. Even if we cannot enter the marriage hall, I can still be your forever inseparable family!

49.知道吗，男孩站在女孩的左边是因为那样可以离她的心更近一些。
49. Did you know that a boy stands on the girl’s left side because it brings him closer to her heart?

50.公交分钟一班，地铁分钟一班，我们的爱，一辈子只有这一班！
50. Buses come every minute, subways come every minute, our love, there’s only this one lifetime!

51.为追求到我喜欢的人，我愿意放弃我所拥有的一切，可当我放弃这一切后，她还会接受我的爱吗？
51. To pursue the person I like, I am willing to give up everything I have. But when I give up everything, will she still accept my love?

52.生活，匀速的是爱，不匀速则变成一种伤害。
52. Life, at a constant speed is love, uneven speed becomes a kind of hurt.

53.男人最大的秘密往往告诉红颜知己，不是同性家人或妻子。当红颜知己成了妻子，她的这部分权力马上被取消了。
53. Men often tell their biggest secrets to their confidantes, not to their family members or wives. When a confidante becomes a wife, her power in this aspect is immediately revoked.

54.好女人是男人的学校。好女人却希望这个好学生永远不要毕业。
54. A good woman is a man’s school. A good woman, however, hopes that this good student will never graduate.

55.老夫老妻越长越像。有人说因为他们相爱。但医生说，起因是朝夕相处，饮食结构相同作息规律同步。同一棵树上的树叶也是越长越像的。
55. Old couples look more and more alike. Some say it’s because they are in love. But doctors say that the cause is their constant companionship, the same diet, and synchronized routines. The leaves on the same tree also grow more and more similar.

56.爱情就像两个拉橡皮筋的人，受伤的总是不愿放手的那一个！
56. Love is like two people pulling a rubber band; the one who gets hurt is always the one unwilling to let go!

57.婚姻是一把伞。有了它，风雨烈日时自然舒适无比，但更多平平淡淡的天气里，多了一把伞难免是累赘。
57. Marriage is an umbrella. With it, you are naturally comfortable during wind, rain, and scorching sun, but in more ordinary days, an extra umbrella can be a burden.

58.用一转身离开，用一辈子去忘记。
58. Leave with a turn, and spend a lifetime forgetting.

59.暗恋最伟大的行为，是成全。你不爱我，但是我成全你。真正的暗恋，是一生的事业，不因他远离你而放弃。没有这种情操，不要轻言暗恋。
59. The greatest act of unrequited love is to fulfill. You don’t love me, but I fulfill you. True unrequited love is a lifelong career, not giving up because he is far away from you. Without this sentiment, don’t casually speak of unrequited love.

60.有时候女孩子的心理非常微妙。你在她身边痴心了若干年，她都不会爱你，但一旦你喜欢上了别人，她就忍受不了了，发现自己原来是喜欢你的。
60. Sometimes a girl’s psychology is very subtle. You may be devoted to her for several years without her loving you, but once you fall for someone else, she can’t stand it and realizes that she actually likes you.

61.沉溺于以前与回忆的人是一个很懦弱的人，因为她（他）不敢勇敢地正视现实。现实是什么？现实就是变化。没有不变的感情，没有不变的人。
61. People who indulge in the past and memories are cowardly because they dare not face reality bravely. What is reality? Reality is change. There are no unchanging feelings or people.

62.我不觉得人的心智成熟是越来越宽容涵盖，什么都可以接受。相反，我觉得那应该是一个逐渐剔除的过程，知道自己最重要的是什么，知道不重要的东西是什么。
62. I don’t think that maturity means becoming more and more tolerant, accepting everything. On the contrary, I believe it’s a process of elimination, knowing what’s most important and what’s not.

63.守一颗心，别像守一只猫。它冷了，来偎依你；它饿了，来叫你；它痒了，来摩你；它厌了，便偷偷地走掉。守一颗心，多么希望像守一只狗，不是你守它，而是它守你！
63. Guard a heart, not like guarding a cat. It comes to snuggle with you when it’s cold, calls you when it’s hungry, rubs you when it’s itchy, and sneaks away when it’s bored. Guarding a heart, how I wish it could be like guarding a dog, not you guarding it, but it guarding you!

64.诺言的“诺”字和誓言的“誓”字都是有口无心的。
64. The character “诺” in promise and “誓” in oath both have mouths but no hearts.

65.你在做什么？我在仰望天空。度的仰望是什么？是我想念她的角度。为什么要把头抬到度？为了不让我的眼泪掉下来。
65. What are you doing? I am looking up at the sky. What is a 45-degree gaze? It’s the angle at which I miss her. Why do I raise my head to 45 degrees? To keep my tears from falling.

66.能让男人轻松的女人是好女人，能让女人满足的男人是好男人。
66. A good woman is one who can make a man feel at ease, and a good man is one who can satisfy a woman.

67.晚上，那点疼就出来了，先是失神片刻，然后五脏六腑的神经才一齐苏醒过来，万箭穿心。
67. At night, the pain emerges, first losing consciousness for a moment, and then the nerves of the internal organs awaken together, piercing through the heart like a thousand arrows.

68.只能指望黑夜快点过去，等到白天，我那点没有希望的挂念就可以蜷缩在心底不为人知的角落，可以暂时不痛，我的那点爱情是怕光的。爱，不受时间的限制。真不忍心，提起苦涩的过去，尽管婆娑的夜晚一如从前美丽，但我的心却失去了平衡。到现在也想不通，我曾那样深深的恋着你，你却非要和我分离？记忆啊，你为什么不和时光一块流去？
68. All we can do is hope for the night to pass quickly, and when the day comes, my hopeless longing can curl up in an unknown corner of my heart, temporarily free from pain. My love is afraid of light. Love is not limited by time. It’s really hard to bear, mentioning the bitter past. Although the swaying nights are as beautiful as before, my heart has lost its balance. To this day, I can’t understand why you insisted on separating from me when I loved you so deeply. Memory, why don’t you flow away with time?

69.最痛苦的就是分手以后。之所以痛苦，就是因为我曾深深地爱过你。多少年以后，仍深深地记起你，你的笑靥起伏难平。思念是一首不老的歌，不能忘记的是那只黄雀，还是那场冷雨？品味一下当年在高粱地里那些天真的游戏，不觉哈哈大笑，其实，分手又未尝不是一种的记忆？
69. The most painful thing is after breaking up. The reason for the pain is that I once loved you deeply. Even after many years, I still remember you vividly, your smiling face hard to forget. Longing is an eternal song, and what can’t be forgotten is the yellow sparrow or the cold rain? Taste those innocent games in the sorghum field back then, and you can’t help but laugh. In fact, breaking up is also a kind of memory, isn’t it?

70.人啊，在不能够爱，没有权利爱的时候，在不经意间碰撞出的“爱”的火花，是最纯洁，最难忘的。尽管这种“爱”只能深藏在心底，从一开始就注定了没有结局，但却是人生极有魅力的一种温馨和苦涩，也正因为没有结局，这种宝贵的感情才能在你记忆中，永远保持着一份。你只听到托尔斯泰对于爱情一相情愿的纯真，还没有听说过钱钟书对于平凡爱情的无奈：它是一座城堡，城外的人想竭力冲进去，而城内的人又想竭力挤出来。
70. People, when they cannot love or have no right to love, the sparks of “love” that collide inadvertently are the purest and most unforgettable. Although this kind of “love” can only be hidden deep in the heart and is destined to have no ending from the beginning, it is a charming and bittersweet experience in life. It is precisely because there is no ending that this precious feeling can be forever preserved in your memory. You have only heard Tolstoy’s one-sided innocence about love, but you have not yet heard Qian Zhongshu’s helplessness about ordinary love: It is a castle, where people outside want to rush in desperately, and those inside want to squeeze out.

71.他纵有千个优点，但他不爱你，这是一个你永远无法说服自己去接受的缺点。一个人最大的缺点不是自私多情野蛮任性，而是偏执地爱一个不爱自己的人。暗恋是一种自毁，是一种伟大的牺牲。暗恋，甚至不需要对象，我们不过站在河边，看着自己的倒影自怜，却以为自己正爱着别人。
71. He may have a thousand优点, but if he doesn’t love you, it’s a flaw you can never persuade yourself to accept. The biggest flaw in a person is not being selfish, fickle, barbaric, or willful, but being stubbornly in love with someone who doesn’t love you. Unrequited love is a form of self-destruction and a great sacrifice. Unrequited love doesn’t even need an object; we just stand by the river, watching our own reflections and pitifully thinking we are in love with someone else.

72.一个萝卜一个坑，说的是婚姻情况。事实上对于爱情来说，是不成立的。优秀的人，不管男女都会是一个萝卜好几个坑，所以这个世界天天上演悲欢离合的故事。
72. One radish for one pit, which describes the situation of marriage. In fact, it is not true for love. Excellent people, regardless of gender, will be one radish with several pits, so the world stages stories of joy and sorrow every day.

73.吝啬是男人的大忌，就算穷也不要做出一副穷样，男人抱怨女人只爱男人的钱，其实也并不一定就是这样，有的女人喜欢男人为她花钱，有时候也是为了证实自己在男人心目中的位置。男人如果喜欢一个女人，一定愿意为她花钱。
73. Stinginess is a great taboo for men. Even if they are poor, they should not act poor. Men complain that women only love men’s money, but it’s not necessarily the case. Some women like men to spend money on them, sometimes to confirm their position in the man’s heart. If a man likes a woman, he will definitely be willing to spend money on her.

74.在爱的世界里，没有谁对不起谁，只有谁不懂得珍惜谁。
74. In the world of love, no one is sorry for anyone; it’s just that some people don’t know how to cherish others.

75.如果有一天我白发苍苍不再美丽，你是否还会轻抚我的脸颊，说陪我走到海角天涯？如果天真的老了，海真的枯了，我只愿能与你相守千千万万个轮回。
75. If one day my hair turns gray and I am no longer beautiful, will you still gently touch my cheek and say you will accompany me to the ends of the earth? If the sky really grows old and the sea really dries up, I only wish to be with you through thousands of reincarnations.

76.如果在情敌出现的时候，一个劲地把情人往自己怀里拉，反而会把情人往对方怀里推。过分紧张不是一件好事。轻松一点，这样两方都不会累得慌。
76. If you constantly pull your lover towards you when a rival appears, it may actually push them towards the rival. Being overly anxious is not a good thing. Relax, so that neither side will feel exhausted.

77.傻是我的特长，痴是我的理想，当傻和痴交织在一起的时候，便是我梦境里最美的天堂！别笑我，我就这么痴心，我会傻傻地爱你痴痴地恋你，一直到老！
77. Foolishness is my specialty, and infatuation is my ideal. When foolishness and infatuation are intertwined, it becomes the most beautiful paradise in my dreams! Don’t laugh at me, I am so infatuated, and I will foolishly love you and be infatuated with you until we are old!

78.以前只是一种经历与感觉，而不是证据，不需要为以前的喜欢付出现在或以后的责任。不要揪住以前的事情不放。现在的事实比以前的回忆更有实效性与说服力。
78. The past is just an experience and a feeling, not evidence. There is no need to pay the present or future responsibilities for the past preferences. Don’t dwell on past matters. The present facts are more practical and persuasive than past memories.

79.有时候女孩子的心理非常微妙。你在她身边痴心了若干年，她都不会爱你，但一旦你喜欢上了别人，她就忍受不了了，发现自己原来是喜欢你的。
79. Sometimes, a girl’s psychology is very delicate. You may be devoted to her for several years without her loving you, but once you fall for someone else, she can’t stand it and realizes that she actually likes you.

80.生日是一个舞台，一次考验，一个机会。恋爱时，男人更会利用这一点；结婚后，女人更会利用这一点。
80. A birthday is a stage, a test, and an opportunity. In love, men are more likely to take advantage of this; after marriage, women are more likely to take advantage of this.

81.女人能够忍受不幸的婚姻，不能忍受不幸的爱情；男人能够忍受不幸的爱情，不能忍受不幸的婚姻。
81. Women can tolerate an unhappy marriage, but they cannot tolerate an unhappy love; men can tolerate an unhappy love, but they cannot tolerate an unhappy marriage.

82.爱情永远都处在时差中，不是你早，就是我晚，反正永远不同步。
82. Love is always out of sync, either you are early, or I am late, but never in sync.

83.白天，有太阳的时候，我的那点阴暗的心思躲在绚烂的花盘后面，谁也看不见，他们以为我已经把你忘了，就像你忘了我一样。
83. During the day, when the sun is out, my dark thoughts hide behind the bright flower petals, and no one can see them. They think I have forgotten you, just like you have forgotten me.

84.爱情就是上辈子欠下的情债这辈子来还——我上辈子一定俗不可耐，搞得我今生无债可还！！
84. Love is like a debt from a past life that needs to be repaid in this life - I must have been so vulgar in my previous life that I have no debt to repay in this life!

85.爱，从来就是一件千回百转的事。不曾被离弃，不曾受伤害，怎懂得爱人？爱，原来是一种经历，但愿人长久。
85. Love has always been a complicated matter. Without experiencing abandonment and pain, how can one learn to love? Love is an experience, and may people last a long time.

86.婚姻是不可捉摸在于：一个乐观的男人加上一个乐观的女人，有时等于两个悲观主义者。
86. Marriage is unpredictable because sometimes an optimistic man plus an optimistic woman equals two pessimists.

87.男人要是爱上一个女人，不管她如何待他，他都爱。温顺也是好，泼辣也是好，不爱了，一切都是错。
87. If a man falls in love with a woman, he will love her no matter how she treats him. Being gentle is good, being fierce is good, but once the love is gone, everything is wrong.

88.如果丈夫或妻子总想做对方的警察，那么左看右看对方都有点像小偷。
88. If a husband or wife always wants to be the police of the other, then no matter how you look at the other, they seem like a thief.

89.有人说爱情就像在捡石头，总想捡到一个适合自己的，但是你又如何知道什么时候能够捡到呢？她适合你那你又适合她吗？其实，爱情就像磨石子一样，或许刚捡到的时候，你不是那么的满意，但是记住人是有弹性的，很多事情是可以改变的。只要你有心有勇气，与其到处去捡未知的石头，还不如好好的将自己已经拥有的石头磨亮磨光。你开始磨了吗？
89. Some people say that love is like picking up stones, always wanting to find one that suits you, but how can you know when you will find it? Does she suit you, and do you suit her? In fact, love is like polishing stones. Perhaps when you first find it, you are not satisfied, but remember that people are adaptable, and many things can be changed. As long as you have the heart and courage, it is better to polish the stone you already have instead of looking for unknown stones everywhere. Have you started polishing?

90.两个人热恋时，感情已经热烈得就要把彼此都燃烧了，还需要什么经营，但是时间一长了，冷却的爱情需要彼此都真诚地去维系与经营，爱情才不会变质。
90. When two people are in love, their feelings are so passionate that they seem to burn each other, and there is no need for management. However, as time goes by, the cooled love needs to be sincerely maintained by both parties, so that love will not spoil.

91.那些美丽的小鱼，它们睡觉的时候也睁着眼睛。不需要爱情，亦从不哭泣。它们是我的榜样。
91. Those beautiful little fish, they keep their eyes open when they sleep. They don’t need love and never cry. They are my role models.

92.你是一朵百合，散发出沁人心脾的芳香，我只想伫立在你的身旁，看着你呵护着你，用爱滋润着你，让你开得更娇艳，因为我只愿作你一生的园丁！
92. You are a lily, emitting a refreshing fragrance. I just want to stand by your side, watching you, caring for you, and nourishing you with love, making you bloom more beautifully. Because I am willing to be the gardener of your life!

93.如果你们之间只是一种精神恋爱，你离开的时候可能还不会这么痛苦，但是如果你把身体也纠缠进去，那么你离开的时候，会是身心疲惫。
93. If it’s just a spiritual love between you, you may not feel as much pain when you leave. But if you get physically involved, you’ll be physically and mentally exhausted when you part ways.

94.你以为不可失去的人，原来并非不可失去，你流干了眼泪，自有另一个人逗你欢笑，你伤心欲绝，然后发现不爱你的人，根本不值得你为之伤心，今天回首，何尝不是一个喜剧？情尽时，自有另一番新境界，所有的悲哀也不过是历史。
94. The person you thought you couldn’t lose may not be irreplaceable after all. Once you’ve cried your tears, someone else will come to make you laugh. When you’re heartbroken, you’ll realize that the person who doesn’t love you isn’t worth your sadness. Looking back, it’s all just a comedy. When love ends, a new realm awaits, and all the sorrows are just history.

95.爱情总是想象比现实美丽，相逢如是，告别亦如是。我们以为爱得很深很深，来日岁月，会让你知道，它不过很浅很浅。最深最重的爱，必须和时日一起。因为爱情的缘故，两个陌生人可以突然熟络到睡在同一张床上。然而，相同的两个人，在分手时却说，我觉得你越来越陌生。爱情将两个人由陌生变成熟悉，又由熟悉变成陌生。爱情正是一个将一对陌生人变成情侣，又将一对情侣变成陌生人的游戏。
95. Love is always more beautiful in our imagination than in reality, both when we meet and when we say goodbye. We think we love deeply, but as time goes by, you’ll find that it’s only shallow. The deepest and heaviest love must grow with time. Because of love, two strangers can suddenly become close enough to sleep in the same bed. However, the same two people may say they feel increasingly陌生的 when they part ways. Love turns strangers into lovers and then turns lovers back into strangers.

96.你可以去爱一个女人，但是不要把自己的全部都赔进去。没有女人值得你用生命去讨好。你若不爱自己，怎么能让别人爱你？
96. You can love a woman, but don’t give everything you have for her. No woman is worth winning at the cost of your life. If you don’t love yourself, how can you expect others to love you?

97.也许是错过了一次车，也许是在美景前多停留了一秒，最终我们真的相遇了。不得不承认，这是中注定的缘分。也许我们只是匆匆的过客，也许离别后永不相逢，但能够认识你，却使我欣喜万分。吧，最想忘却的将是最深的记忆。
97. Perhaps it was missing a bus, or maybe lingering for an extra second in front of a beautiful scene; in the end, we did meet. We have to admit that it was destined fate. Perhaps we were just passing by, or maybe we’ll never meet again after parting, but knowing you has brought me immense joy. The things we try hardest to forget will often be the deepest memories.

98.我生命里的温暖就那么多，我全部给了你，但是你离开了我，你叫我以后怎么再对别人笑。
98. I have only so much warmth in my life, and I gave it all to you. But you left me, and now how can I smile at others?

99.总有一天我会从你身边默默地走开，不带任何声响。我错过了狠多，我总是一个人难过。
99. One day, I will quietly walk away from you without a sound. I’ve missed out on so much, and I’m always sad by myself.

100.痴情的人永远都抱着这样的想法：连我自己都被自己感动，她有什么理由不被我打动呢？但坚持不懈的追求只能证明你是一个坚持不懈的人，仅此而已。
100. Lovestruck people always hold on to this thought: If I can move myself with my dedication, why wouldn’t she be moved as well? But persistent pursuit only proves that you are a persistent person, nothing more.

1.爱一个人就是拨通电话时忽然不知道要说什么，才知道原来只是想听听她那熟悉的声音，原来真正想拨通的，只是自己心底的一根弦。
1. Loving someone means calling them without knowing what to say, only to realize that you just want to hear their familiar voice. It turns out that what you truly want to connect is a string in your heart.

2.爱一个人就是在她迟归时想上一千种坏的可能，在想像中经历万般劫难，发誓等她回来要好好罚她，一旦见面却什麽都忘了。
2. Loving someone means imagining a thousand terrible scenarios when they’re late, going through all sorts of ordeals in your mind, vowing to punish them when they return, but forgetting everything once you see them.

3.你在孤独悲伤的日子，请悄悄地念一念我的名字，并且说：这世上有人在怀念我，我活在一个人的心里。（普希金）
3. On the days when you’re lonely and sad, please whisper my name quietly and say: There’s someone in this world who misses me, and I live in someone’s heart. (Pushkin)

4.你若爱她，让你的爱像阳光一样包围她，并且给她自由。—-泰戈尔
4. If you love her, let your love surround her like sunshine and set her free. - Tagore

5.如果你爱她（他），就对她（他）说吧，不要让她（他）错过，因为你可能因为放弃了这次机会，那么机会就有可能永远不会再来了。
5. If you love him (her), tell him (her), don’t let him (her) miss out, because you might give up this opportunity and it may never come again.

6.我会永远记得一个人，会和我一起蹲在路边等外卖；我会永远记得一个人，会在快迟到时拉着我在人群中飞奔；我会永远记得一个人，会在房间的转角吓得我尖叫。
6. I will always remember someone who would wait with me by the roadside for takeout; I will always remember someone who would run with me through the crowd when we’re about to be late; I will always remember someone who would scare me to scream at the corner of the room.

7.最难打开的是心门，最难走的路是心路，最难过的桥是心桥，最难调整的是心态。世界上最难干的工程是改造人的内心世界！手指脏了，大可不必把手指砍掉；帽子小了，大可不必把头削掉。当你抓住一件东西总不放时，或许你永远只会拥有这件东西，如果肯放手，便获得了其它选择机会。
7. The most difficult door to open is the heart’s door, the hardest path to walk is the heart’s path, the most challenging bridge to cross is the heart’s bridge, and the most difficult thing to adjust is one’s mindset. The world’s most challenging project is transforming a person’s inner world! If your finger is dirty, there is no need to chop it off; if your hat is too small, there is no need to shave your head. When you hold onto something and never let go, you may only possess that one thing, but if you are willing to let go, you gain the opportunity to choose other options.

8.爱是亘古长明的灯塔，它定晴望着风暴却兀不为动，爱就是充实了的生命，正如盛满了酒的酒杯。——泰戈尔
8. Love is the eternally shining lighthouse, gazing steadily at the storm yet remaining unmoved. Love is a life fulfilled, just as a cup filled with wine. - Tagore

9.爱情只有当它是自由自在时，才会叶茂花繁。认为爱情是某种义务的思想只能置爱情于死地。只消一句话：你应当爱某个人，就足以使你对这个人恨之入骨。
9. Love can only flourish when it is free and unrestrained. The idea that love is a certain obligation can only lead to its death. A single sentence: you should love someone, is enough to make you hate that person deeply.

10.爱情不会因为理智而变得淡漠，也不会因为雄心壮志而丧失殆尽。它是第二生命；它渗入灵魂，温暖着每一条血管，跳动在每一次脉搏之中。
10. Love will not become indifferent due to reason, nor will it be completely lost because of ambition. It is a second life; it seeps into the soul, warming every vein and beating in every pulse.

11.只有一个男子的专恋能够适应一个少女的初恋要求；也只有少女的初恋能够满足一个男子的末恋的欲望。——海克尔
11. Only a man’s exclusive love can meet a young girl’s first love requirements; and only a girl’s first love can satisfy a man’s last love desires. - Hekel

12.如果一个人把生活兴趣全部建立在爱情那样暴风雨般的感情冲动上，那是会令人失望的。——居里夫人
12. If a person bases all their interests in life on the stormy emotional impulses of love, they will be disappointed. - Madame Curie

13.假如你记不住你为了爱情而做出来的一件最傻的是，你就不算真正恋爱过；假如你不曾絮絮地讲你恋人的好处，使听的人不耐烦，你就不算真正恋爱过。——罗兰
13. If you can’t remember the silliest thing you’ve done for love, you haven’t truly been in love; if you haven’t talked endlessly about your lover’s virtues, making the listener impatient, you haven’t truly been in love. - Roland

14.爱情就像银行里存一笔钱，能欣赏对方的优点，就像补充收入；容忍对方缺点，这是节制支出。所谓永恒的爱，是从红颜爱到白发，从花开爱到花残。——培根
14. Love is like depositing money in a bank. Appreciating each other’s strengths is like increasing income; tolerating each other’s weaknesses is controlling expenses. So-called eternal love is from youth to old age, from blooming flowers to withered ones. - Bacon

15.如果你爱一个人，先要使自己现在或将来百分之百的值得他爱，至于他爱不爱你，那是他的事，你可以如此希望，但不必勉强去追求。——罗兰
15. If you love someone, first make sure you are 100% worthy of their love now or in the future. As for whether they love you or not, that’s their business. You can hope for it, but you don’t have to force yourself to pursue it. - Roland

16.爱不需要解释，却又可以解释一切。虽然爱情只是众多情感中的一类，但它远比其它来得深刻，来得无奈。
16. Love doesn’t need an explanation, yet it can explain everything. Although love is just one of many emotions, it is far deeper and more helpless than the others.

17.当爱情要完结时，你不想画上句号也不行，当你怀疑是否主动画上句号时，那表示你根本就拾不得，也没办法画上这个句号。每一段情始终会有句号，句号要来时，你想挡都挡不住。
17. When love is coming to an end, you have to draw a period even if you don’t want to. When you doubt whether to take the initiative to draw a period, it means you can’t let go and can’t draw this period. Every relationship will eventually have a period, and when it comes, you can’t stop it.

18.爱情一旦成为了习惯，就会一辈子也摆脱不了的。
18. Once love becomes a habit, it will be impossible to get rid of for a lifetime.

19.爱一个意味什么呢？这意味着为他的幸福而高兴，为使他能够更幸福而去做需要做的一切，并从这当中得到快乐。——车尔尼雪夫斯基
19. What does it mean to love someone? It means being happy for their happiness, doing everything needed to make them happier, and finding joy in it. - Chernyshevsky

20.和一个生活习惯有很多差异的人恋爱不要紧，结婚要慎重，想想你是否可以长久忍受彼此的不同。
20. It doesn’t matter if you fall in love with someone whose lifestyle differs greatly from yours; however, when it comes to marriage, be cautious and consider whether you can tolerate each other’s differences for a long time.

21.持久的爱情源于彼此发自内心的真爱，建立在平等的基础之上。任何只顾疯狂爱人而不顾自己有否被爱，或是只顾享受被爱而不知真心爱人的人都不会有好的结局。
21. Lasting love comes from true love from the heart and is built on a foundation of equality. Anyone who only loves someone crazily without considering if they are loved in return, or only enjoys being loved without sincerely loving someone, will not have a good ending.

22.我爱你不是因为你是谁，而是我在你面前可以是谁。
22. I love you not because of who you are, but because of who I can be in front of you.

23.爱一个人意味着什么呢？这意味着为他的幸福而高兴，为使他能更幸福而去做需要做的一切，并从中得到快乐。——车尔尼雪夫斯基
23. Loving someone means being happy for their happiness, doing everything needed to make them happier, and finding joy in it. —— Chernyshevsky

24.爱情和婚姻是两股道上跑的车。——蒙台涅
24. Love and marriage are like cars racing on two different tracks. —— Montaigne

25.人的一生中最要紧的发现自己，而在婚姻中则是被人所发现。——冉拉尔
25. The most important thing in a person’s life is to discover oneself, and in marriage, it is to be discovered by someone else. —— Rarnal

26.爱情需要薄薄的一层忧伤，需要一点点嫉妒疑虑戏剧性的游戏。——瓦西列夫
26. Love needs a thin layer of sadness, a touch of jealousy, and dramatic games of doubt. —— Vasilyev

27.轻率的玩弄恋爱正如玩火一样，随时有自焚的危险。如果说恋爱是甜美的酒浆，但随便乱喝，也会变成烈性的毒汁。——丁玲
27. Playing with love carelessly is like playing with fire, with the constant danger of self-destruction. If love is a sweet nectar, drinking it recklessly can turn it into a potent poison. —— Ding Ling

28.彼此恋爱，却不要做爱的系链。——纪伯伦
28. Love each other, but do not be bound by love. —— Gibran

29.打算讨老婆的男人，应有如下的觉悟：权利将减半，义务将倍增。——汤川秀树
29. A man who intends to marry should have the following realization: his rights will be halved, and his obligations will be doubled. —— Yukio Shimizu

30.青年人无法无天，玩弄爱情；中年人食髓知味，追求爱情；老年人寂寞无聊，回忆爱情。——秋田雨雀
30. Young people are reckless and play with love; middle-aged people savor the taste and pursue love; old people, feeling lonely and bored, reminisce about love. —— Akuta Ushio

31.为了失恋而耽误前途是一生的损失。——荷海
31. Losing one’s future for the sake of a broken heart is a lifelong loss. —— Ho Hai

32.假如你记不住你为了爱情而做出来的一件最傻的事，你就不算真正恋爱过；假如你不曾絮絮地讲你恋人的好处，使听的人不耐烦，你就不算真正恋爱过。
32. If you can’t remember the silliest thing you’ve done for love, you haven’t truly been in love; if you haven’t talked endlessly about your lover’s virtues, making listeners impatient, you haven’t truly been in love.

33.获得爱情你可以随便用什么办法，而保持爱情却需要智慧。
33. You can obtain love by any means, but maintaining love requires wisdom.

34.爱情应当山盟海誓，只有专一的忠贞不渝的爱情，才是真正的爱情。
34. Love should be full of promises, and only a love that is exclusively faithful and unyielding is true love.

35.爱情有吸引力，婚姻有约束力。想要逃离两者只会白费力。
35. Love has the power of attraction, and marriage has the power of restraint. Trying to escape both is futile.

36.你曾经不被人所爱，你才会珍惜将来那个爱你的人。
36. If you have never been loved by someone, you will cherish the one who loves you in the future.

37.不能见面的时候，他们互相思念。可是一旦能够见面，一旦再走在一起，他们又会互相折磨。
37. When they can’t meet, they miss each other. But once they can meet and walk together again, they will torment each other.

38.只想找一个在我失意时可以承受我的眼泪，在我快乐时，可以让我咬一口的肩膊。
38. I just want to find someone who can bear my tears when I’m down and let me bite their shoulder when I’m happy.

39.童稚之爱的原则是：“因为我爱，所以我爱。”成熟之爱的原则是：“因为我爱，所以我被爱。”——（美）弗罗
39. The principle of childish love is: “I love because I love.” The principle of mature love is: “I love because I am loved.” —— Fro (US)

40.曾经沧海难为水，除却巫山不是云。可是如果我还没经沧海或是刚到沧海打了个转就回来，而且也没到过巫山就一头钻进了围城怎么办啊。
40. It’s hard to appreciate the simple things after experiencing the vast ocean or the clouds over Wushan Mountain. But what if I haven’t experienced the vast ocean or just returned after a brief visit, and I haven’t even been to Wushan Mountain before entering the besieged city?

41.浪漫是什么？是送花？雨中漫步？楼前伫立不去？如果两人彼此倾心相爱，什么事都不做，静静相对都会感觉是浪漫的。否则，即使两人坐到月亮上拍拖，也是感觉不到浪漫的。
41. What is romance? Is it sending flowers? Strolling in the rain? Standing in front of a building without leaving? If two people truly love each other, even doing nothing and just quietly facing each other can feel romantic. Otherwise, even if they sit on the moon together, they won’t feel the romance.

42.是否门当户对不要紧，最重要应该是兴当趣对，不然没有共同语言，即使在一起，仍然会感觉到孤独。
42. It doesn’t matter if the couple comes from similar social backgrounds; what’s most important is that they share the same interests, or else they will feel lonely even when they are together.

43.不要为了寂寞去恋爱，时间是个魔鬼，天长日久，如果你是个多情的人，即使不爱对方，到时候也会产生感情，最后你怎么办？
43. Don’t fall in love just because you feel lonely. Time is a demon, and as it passes, if you are an affectionate person, you will develop feelings for the other person even if you don’t love them at first. What will you do then?

44.不要为了负责而去结婚。要知道，不爱对方却和对方结婚是最不负责的。即使当时让对方很伤心，但是总比让他几年甚至一辈子伤心强。
44. Don’t get married just for the sake of responsibility. Remember, marrying someone you don’t love is the most irresponsible thing to do. It may hurt them at the moment, but it’s better than causing them years or even a lifetime of sadness.

45.不管多大多老，不管家人朋友怎么催，都不要随便对待婚姻，婚姻不是打牌，重新洗牌要付出巨大代价。
45. No matter how old you are or how much your family and friends urge you, never take marriage lightly. Marriage is not like playing cards; redealing comes at a great cost.

46.成熟的爱情，敬意忠心并不轻易表现出来，它的声音是低的，它是谦逊的退让的潜伏的，等待了又等待。——（英）狄更斯
46. Mature love, respect, and loyalty are not easily displayed. Its voice is low, it is humble, yielding, and hidden, waiting and waiting again. —— (UK) Charles Dickens

47.爱，原来是没有名字的，在相遇之前等待的，就是它的名字。——席慕容
47. Love, originally, had no name. What awaited before the encounter was its name. —— Xi Murong

48.有的女人恋爱时让男友宠着自己，结婚后仍然要老公百般宠着自己，却忘记做为一个女人应该做的份内之事。这样的女人是不懂得爱情的。
48. Some women let their boyfriends pamper them during dating, and after marriage, they still expect their husbands to pamper them in every way, forgetting their own responsibilities as a woman. Such women do not understand love.

49.世界上没有人值得你为他流眼泪，因为值得你流泪的人，永远不会让你流泪！
49. No one in the world is worth your tears, because the person who is worth your tears will never make you cry!

50.有人说恋爱要找自己喜欢的人，结婚要找喜欢自己的人，都是片面的。恋人不喜欢自己有什么可恋的？老婆自己不喜欢怎么过一辈子？
50. Some say that in love, you should find someone you like, and in marriage, find someone who likes you. Both are one-sided. If your lover doesn’t like you, what’s there to love? How can you spend a lifetime with a wife you don’t like?

51.恋爱的时间能长尽量长。这最少有两点好处：一，充分，尽可能长的享受恋爱的愉悦，婚姻和恋爱的感觉是很不同的。二，两人相处时间越长，越能检验彼此是否真心，越能看出两人性格是否合得来。这样婚后的感情就会牢固得多。
51. Try to prolong the time of dating as much as possible. This has at least two benefits: First, enjoy the pleasure of love for as long as possible, as the feelings of marriage and love are very different. Second, the longer two people spend together, the better they can test whether they are truly sincere and whether their personalities are compatible. This will make the emotional bond after marriage much stronger.

52.男人不坏，女人不爱，这坏不是指心肠狠毒，自私无情什么的。而是指油嘴滑舌，花言巧语。一般的好男人以为说情话是油嘴滑舌，轻浮肉麻的表现，所以不愿去做。对别人这样说是不对，可是对自己老婆，就要油嘴滑舌一点。为什么不能做个心好嘴滑的男人呢？
52. Men are not bad, women don’t love them. This “bad” doesn’t refer to being heartless and ruthless, selfish and merciless, or anything like that. It refers to being smooth-talking and flattering. Ordinary good men think that speaking sweet words is smooth-talking and frivolous, so they are unwilling to do it. It’s wrong to say this to others, but for your own wife, you should be more smooth-talking. Why not be a man with a good heart and a smooth tongue?

53.真爱一个人，就要尽量让他开心，他开心了你就会开心，那么双方就有激情了。
53. If you truly love someone, try your best to make them happy. When they are happy, you will be happy, and then both of you will have passion.

54.不要因为自己长相不如对方而放弃追求的打算，长相只是一时的印象，真正决定能否结合主要取决于双方的性格。我见过的帅哥配丑女，丑女配帅哥的太多了。
54. Don’t give up on pursuing someone just because you think you’re not as good-looking as them. Appearance is only a temporary impression. What truly determines whether two people can be together mainly depends on their personalities. I’ve seen too many handsome men with unattractive women and vice versa.

55.女人要学会扮靓自己，不要拿朴素来做挡箭牌，不要拿家务做借口，不懂时尚，你就不是一个完整的女人。
55. Women should learn to dress up and not use simplicity as an excuse or use housework as an excuse. If you don’t understand fashion, you are not a complete woman.

56.幼稚的人和幼稚的人在一起没什么问题，成熟的人和成熟的人在一起也没什么问题，成熟的人和幼稚的人在一起问题就多了。
56. There is no problem when immature people are together, and there is no problem when mature people are together. But when mature people are with immature people, there will be many problems.

57.并不是要达到了怎样的目的，爱才成为爱。无论怎样的爱都是一份美好，一份结果。而刻在心底的爱，因为无私无欲，因为淡泊忧伤，才会是真正的永恒。
57. Love doesn’t have to achieve a certain goal to be considered love. Any kind of love is beautiful and has a result. The love engraved in the bottom of our hearts, because it is selfless and desire-free, because it is indifferent and melancholic, will be truly eternal.

58.当你真心爱一个人时，那人除了有崇高的才能外，他还有一些可爱的弱点这也是你爱他的重要关键。——（法）摩路瓦
58. When you truly love someone, besides their noble talents, they also have some lovable weaknesses, which are also an important key to your love for them. —— (France) Maurois

59.毫无经验的初恋是迷人的，但经得起考验的爱情是无价的。——马尔林斯基
59. Inexperienced first love is charming, but love that withstands trials is priceless. —— Malinowski

60.我承认天底下再没有比爱情的责罚更痛苦的，也没有比服侍它更快乐的事了。——莎士比亚
60. I admit that there is nothing more painful than the punishment of love, nor anything more joyful than serving it. - Shakespeare

61.其实就像打计程车。第一，不像公共汽车，只需等待就会自动来到你的面前，而需要你先向它招手才停；第二，如果你碰到的是空车，那就是你的幸运，但往往车上已经有人了；第三，走了多少距离就要付出多少代价。
61. It’s actually like hailing a taxi. First, unlike a bus, it won’t come to you automatically by just waiting; you need to wave at it to stop; second, if you happen to find an empty car, that’s your luck, but often there’s already someone in it; third, you have to pay a price proportional to the distance you’ve traveled.

62.真正打动人的感情总是朴实无华的，它不出声，不张扬，埋得很深。——周国平
62. The emotions that truly touch people are always simple and unadorned; they make no noise, show no off, and are buried deep. - Zhou Guoping

63.女生常说：“男人没有一个是好东西。”所以当一个女生对你说：“你是个好人”时，你基本上就死了，因为你在她心目中已经正式退出了男人的行列，从而失去了进一步发展的可能。只有当一个女生对你说：“你这个死鬼”时，你才真是个好人……
63. Girls often say, “No man is a good thing.” So when a girl tells you, “You are a good person,” you are basically dead, because in her mind, you have officially withdrawn from the ranks of men and lost the possibility of further development. Only when a girl says to you, “You rascal,” are you truly a good person…

64.因为有思念，才会让人写出伤感动人的句子，因为丰富的情感，才会让人在内心发疯想要去找寻。因为有忧伤的一瞥，才会让人思念至今。因为有擦肩而过，才会让人如此伤感，因为你永远不知道，才会努力想让你记住背影。选择自己所爱的，爱自己所选择的。
64. It is because of longing that one can write sad and touching sentences, and it is because of rich emotions that one becomes crazy in the heart, wanting to search for something. It is because of a glimpse of sadness that one can miss someone till now. It is because of a brush with fate that one feels so sentimental, for you never know, and you will try hard to make them remember your silhouette. Choose what you love, and love what you choose.

65.如果你们已经在一起了，就要去努力的相信对方，不要因为一件小事就去胡乱猜疑，那样一点好处都没有，也是你对你自己不自信的一种表，反而会让对方对你逐渐失去信心。
65. If you are already together, make an effort to trust each other, and don’t let a small matter lead to wild suspicions, as it will be of no benefit and will only show your lack of confidence in yourself, causing the other person to gradually lose faith in you.

66.如果她（他）爱你，你也爱她（他），那你千万不要骗她，即使善意的欺骗最好也不要有，因为她（他）毕竟是你最爱的人。
66. If she (he) loves you and you love her (him), then never deceive her (him), even if it’s a well-intentioned lie; after all, she (he) is the person you love the most.

67.一只鸡蛋可以画无数次，一场爱情能吗？——达芬奇
67. A single egg can be drawn countless times, but can a love affair?

68.现在在一起，可能在一起，即将不在一起的，记住我这句话：错过了，就有可能永远不会再来了。
68. Those who are together now, might be together, or will soon be apart, remember my words: once missed, it may never come back again.

69.思念总是有不得不收藏起来的时刻，而生命里最舍不得，藏得总是最深，且不让人知道。
69. There are moments when longing has to be hidden away, and the things we cherish the most in life are always hidden the deepest and kept secret from others.

70.一个人受到感情的伤害，原本是可以慢慢淡忘的，但如果心里一直念念不忘，就会使其所受的伤害，永远难以痊愈。
70. Emotional wounds can be slowly forgotten, but if one keeps thinking about them, the pain will never heal.

71.女人的体力本来就柔弱，所以，通常她们都喜欢手臂大的壮汉。
71. Women are naturally physically weaker, so they usually prefer strong, well-built men.

72.没有什么比辩才更能引起女人的兴趣了。可怜的女人，她们完全不明白一个能听话的男友比一个能说话的男友，不知要强多少倍。
72. Nothing can arouse a woman’s interest more than eloquence. Poor women, they don’t understand that a boyfriend who listens is much better than one who talks.

73.女人是男人前程上的一大障碍。爱上一个女人，想再做什么事情就不容易了。要便利地爱上一个女人，不受她的一点妨碍，那只有一个办法—就是结婚。
73. Women are a major obstacle in a man’s career. Falling in love with a woman makes it difficult to do anything else. To conveniently fall in love with a woman without being hindered by her, there is only one way - marriage.

74.如果你想被别人爱，你首先必须使自己值得爱，不是一天，一个星期，而是永远。
74. If you want to be loved by others, you must first make yourself worthy of love, not just for a day or a week, but forever.

75.人并不是美丽才可爱，而是因为可爱才美丽。
75. People are not lovable because they are beautiful, but beautiful because they are lovable.

76.一个姑娘爱上一个男子的时候，决不会看出他的缺点来。
76. When a girl falls in love with a man, she will never see his flaws.

77.爱，原来是没有名字的，在相遇之前等待的，就是它的名字。
77. Love, originally, had no name; what we wait for before meeting, is its name.

78.我要你知道，这世界上有一个人是永远等着你的，不管是在什么时候，不管你是在什么地方，反正你知道，总有这样一个人。——张爱玲
78. I want you to know that there is someone in this world who will always be waiting for you, no matter when or where you are. Just know that there is such a person. —— Eileen Chang

79.所有的结局都已写好，所有的泪水也都已启程，却忽然忘了，是怎麽样的一个开始。在那个古老的，不再回来的夏日，无论我如何地去追索，年轻的你只如云影掠过。而你微笑的面容，极浅极淡，逐渐隐没在日落后的群岚。遂翻开那发黄的扉页，命运将它装订得极为拙劣。含著泪，我一读再读，却不得不承认，青春，是一本太仓促的书。
79. All the endings have been written, and all the tears have set off, but suddenly I forgot how it all began. In that ancient, never-returning summer, no matter how I search, your youthful figure passes by like a cloud’s shadow. And your smiling face, so light and faint, gradually fades into the mountains after sunset. I turn to the yellowed pages, and fate has bound it so poorly. With tears, I read it again and again, but I have to admit that youth is a book too hastily written.

80.以沉默来表示爱时，其所表示的爱最多。——加尼特
80. When love is expressed in silence, it speaks the loudest. —— Thomas à Kempis

81.从前有一个男孩和一个女孩，男孩对女孩说如果我有一晚粥，我会把其中一半给你。女孩长大后，嫁了人，但她总是想起男孩的话，她觉得才是她一生中的最爱。
81. Once there was a boy and a girl. The boy said to the girl, “If I have a bowl of porridge, I will give half to you.” The girl grew up and got married, but she always remembered the boy’s words, and she felt that he was the love of her life.

82.如果我不爱你，我就不会思念你，我就不会妒忌你身边的异性，我也不会失去自信心和斗志，我更不会痛苦。如果我能够不爱你，那该多好。
82. If I didn’t love you, I wouldn’t miss you, be jealous of the opposite sex around you, lose my confidence and fighting spirit, or suffer. How great it would be if I could stop loving you.

83.爱火，还是不应该重燃的，重燃了，从前那些美丽的回忆也会化为乌有。如果我们没有重聚，也许我僣带着他深深的思念洽着，直到肉体衰朽；可是，这一刻，我却恨他。所有的美好日子，已经远远一去不回了。
83. Love should not be rekindled, for if it is, the beautiful memories of the past will vanish. If we hadn’t reunited, perhaps I would still cherish his deep longing until my body withers away; but at this moment, I hate him. All the good days have gone forever.

84.追求和渴望，才有快乐，也有沮丧和失望。经过了沮丧和失望，我们才学会珍惜。你曾经不被人所爱，你才会珍惜将来那个爱你的人。
84. It is through pursuit and desire that we find happiness, as well as depression and disappointment. Through depression and disappointment, we learn to cherish. If you have not been loved by others, you will cherish the one who loves you in the future.

85.你是我猜不到的不知所措，我是你想不到的无关痛痒。
85. You are the uncertainty I cannot guess, and I am the triviality you cannot imagine.

86.放弃一个很爱你的人，并不痛苦。放弃一个你很爱的人，那才痛苦。爱上一个不爱你的人，那是更痛苦。
86. Giving up someone who loves you deeply is not painful. Giving up someone you love is painful. Falling in love with someone who doesn’t love you is even more painful.

87.别因为寂寞而错爱，别因为错爱而寂寞一生。
87. Don’t fall in love due to loneliness, and don’t be lonely for a lifetime because of a misfortune in love.

88.别等到错过后才去后悔，别等到失去后才想挽回。
88. Don’t wait until you miss it to regret, don’t wait until you lose it to want to make up for it.

89.或许只有在离得最远的时候，才能把曾经走过的那段日子，看的最真确最清楚。
89. Perhaps only when we are farthest apart can we see the days we have spent together most clearly and truly.

90.若是有缘，时间空间都不是距离。若是无缘，终日相聚也无法会意。凡事不必太在意，更不需去强求，就让一切随缘吧！
90. If it is destined, time and space are no distance. If not, even being together all day long won’t make sense. Don’t care too much about everything, nor try to force it. Just let everything go with the flow.

91.所谓最难忘的，就是从来不曾想起，却永远无法忘记。
91. The most unforgettable is the one that is never thought of, but can never be forgotten.

92.不要让那个喜欢你的人，撕心裂肺地为你哭那么一次。因为，你能把她伤害到那个样子的机会，只有一次。那一次以后，你就从，不可或缺的人，变成，可有可无的人了。即使，她还爱你，可是，总有一些，真的东西改变了。
92. Don’t let the person who likes you cry their heart out for you just once. Because, the chance for you to hurt them like that is only once. After that, you will go from being an indispensable person to a dispensable one. Even if she still loves you, there will always be something real that has changed.

93.一个女人最终想要寻觅的，只不过是一个宽容的怀抱，有着自己在里面任性蛮缠。失恋，是令女人迅速自我成长的唯一途径。等到哪天，不再痴缠，不再耍赖，不再喜怒无常，那也就不再爱了。有些人，明明知道爱上会受伤，偏偏要爱。我们一直如此，一边深情，一边残忍。那些风月，仅仅只是风月，如此而已。
93. What a woman ultimately seeks is nothing more than a tolerant embrace, where she can act willfully and entangled within it. Heartbreak is the only way for a woman to grow up quickly. One day, when she no longer clings, acts coquettishly, or has mood swings, it means she no longer loves. Some people, knowing they will get hurt, still choose to love. We have always been like this, deeply affectionate and cruel at the same time. Those romantic moments are just romantic moments, nothing more.

94.上帝创造了男人是为了使他孤独，而创造女人是为了让他更孤独。
94. God created man to make him lonely, and created woman to make him even lonelier.

95.有一只小猴子，肚肚被树枝划伤了，流了很多血。它见到一个猴子朋友就扒开伤口说，你看我的伤口，好痛。每个看见它伤口的猴子都安慰它，同情它，告诉它不同的治疗方法，它继续给朋友们看伤口。继续听取意见，后来它感染死掉了。一个老猴子说，它是因自己而死的。痛，说一次就复习一次。
95. There was a little monkey whose belly was scratched by a tree branch, bleeding a lot. It showed its wound to a monkey friend and said, “Look at my wound, it hurts so much.” Every monkey who saw its wound comforted it, sympathized with it, and told it different ways to treat it. It continued to show its wound to friends and listen to their opinions. Later, it died of infection. An old monkey said, “It died because of itself. Pain, mentioning it once is to review it once.”

96.不是什么你死我活。而是习惯，一个女人习惯了一个男人的鼾声，从不适应到习惯再到没有他的鼾声就睡不着觉，这就是爱；一个男人习惯了一个女人的任性撒娇，甚至无理取闹无事生非，这就是爱；一个人会为了另一个人去写微博去关注他，这就是爱。
96. It’s not about life or death. It’s about habit. A woman getting used to a man’s snoring, from not being able to adapt to getting used to it, and then not being able to sleep without his snoring, that’s love; a man getting used to a woman’s willfulness and coquetry, even her unreasonableness and fussiness, that’s love; a person writing Weibo and following someone for another person, that’s love.

97.当女人不再对你撒娇，她已经对你没热情了；当女人不再深夜催你回家，她已经对你失望了；当女人不再向你解释她的行为和想法，她已经对你厌烦了。
97. When a woman no longer coos to you, she has lost her passion for you; when a woman no longer calls you to come home late at night, she is disappointed in you; when a woman no longer explains her actions and thoughts to you, she is tired of you.

98.爱情不是奇遇，可是当我们在这样的奇遇中有了爱情，却早已注定了分离。适合走到最后的人，从一开始就是为了彼此而生的。我相信这一点，相信冥冥中注定的相遇和分离。有心的人，再远也会记挂对方；无心的人，近在咫尺却远在天涯。
98. Love is not a chance encounter, but when we have love in such encounters, separation is already predetermined. People who are suitable to be together until the end are born for each other from the beginning. I believe in this, in the destined meetings and separations in the unseen world. Those with a heart will remember each other, no matter how far apart; those without a heart are far away even when they are close.

99.想你的时候有些幸福，幸福得有些难过。
99. When I think of you, I feel a little happiness, but it’s a happiness that makes me a little sad.

100.要是有人追求，世界上没有一个女人不是飘飘然的。正因为这样，女人才会那么迷死人。
100. If someone pursues her, no woman in the world is not elated. It is precisely because of this that women can be so fascinating.