我们像是表面上的针，不停的转动，一面转，一面看着时间匆匆离去，却无能为力。
1. We are like needles on the surface, constantly spinning, watching time slip away while we turn, yet we are powerless to stop it.

或许，最美的事不是留住时光，而是留住记忆，如最初相识的感觉一样，哪怕一个不经意的笑容，便是我们最怀念的故事。但愿，时光，如初见。
2. Perhaps, the most beautiful thing is not to hold onto time, but to hold onto memories, like the feeling when we first met, even a simple smile is the story we miss the most. I wish time could remain as it was at the beginning.

如果难过，就努力抬头望天空吧，望着望着就忘了……它那么大，一定可以包容你的所有委屈。
3. If you feel sad, try to look up at the sky, and as you gaze, you will forget… It is so vast, it can surely embrace all your grievances.

我的眼泪留了下来，灌溉了下面柔软的小草，不知道来年，会不会开出一地的记忆和忧愁。
4. My tears fell, watering the soft grass below, and I wonder if next year, it will bloom with memories and sorrows.

恋人是会在一起吃饭聊天，讲故事和吵架的人。会在一起到头发变白，天气好的时候牵着手一起出去走走的人。
5. Lovers are those who eat, chat, tell stories, and argue together, who grow old with each other, holding hands and going for walks on sunny days.

原来有些你自以为很重要的人，你不联系他，他就真的永远不会联系你。
6. Some people you think are very important, if you don’t contact them, they will never contact you.

如果有一天，别人追你了，你可不可以说:我有一个离不开的笨蛋。
7. If one day, someone chases you, can you say: I have a fool I cannot live without.

医学专家说左耳是最靠近心脏的地方，甜言蜜语要说给左耳听。
8. Medical experts say the left ear is the closest to the heart, so sweet words should be whispered into the left ear.

月亮渐盈的傍晚，厨房里的甜汤雾气氤氲，刀锋碰到案板发出的笃笃声很轻，你从身后抱住我，万家灯火依次亮起，我们也成为其中一盏。
9. On a gradually waxing moonlit evening, the sweet soup in the kitchen steams, the sound of the knife hitting the cutting board is soft, you hug me from behind, and the lights of thousands of households light up one by one, and we become one of them.

如果有一天，让你心动的再也感动不了你，让你愤怒的再也激怒不了你，让你悲伤的再也不能让你流泪，你便知道这时光、这生活给了你什么，你为了成长，付出了什么。
10.如果有一天，让你心动的再也感动不了你，让你愤怒的再也激怒不了你，让你悲伤的再也不能让你流泪，你便知道这时光、这生活给了你什么，你为了成长，付出了什么。

很多我们以为一辈子都不会忘掉的事情，就在我们念念不忘的日子里，被我们遗忘了。
If one day, what once moved you can no longer touch your heart, what once made you angry can no longer enrage you, and what once made you sad can no longer make you cry, then you will know what this time and life have given you, and what you have sacrificed for growth.

爱情是世界上最美好的东西，即使它伤了你的心，也要笑着忘却，然后开始下一段旅程。
11. Many things we think we will never forget are forgotten in the days when we keep remembering them.

我一直以为山是水的故事，云是风的故事，你是我的故事，可是却不知道，我是不是你的故事。
12. Love is the most beautiful thing in the world, even if it breaks your heart, you must smile and forget, then start the next journey.

没有什么是永远，也没有什么会很久。找个借口，谁都可以先走。
13. I always thought the mountain was the story of the water, the cloud was the story of the wind, and you were my story, but I didn’t know if I was your story.

记忆想是倒在掌心的水，不论你摊开还是紧握，终究还是会从指缝中一滴一滴流淌干净。
14. Nothing is forever, and nothing will last long. Find an excuse, and anyone can leave first.

当你觉得某人很神秘时，才会被吸引；当你觉得某人浪漫时，才会爱上；然而这都转瞬即逝。只有当你觉得某人成为习惯时，生活才开始。
15. Memories are like water poured into the palm of your hand, no matter whether you open your hand or clench your fist, they will eventually flow away drop by drop through your fingers.

我以为来日会变得更好，我以为我会记住今天，我以为我们是在去路之中，我以为时间能等分成年或季节。谁说不是呢，人生总是充满幻觉。
16. When you find someone mysterious, you are attracted to them; when you find someone romantic, you fall in love with them; but all these are fleeting. Only when you find someone has become a habit, does life begin.

生命中的大多数关系不就是如此吗，上一秒说着永远，下一秒就走散了，再记起时已如局外人。
17. I thought the future would be better, I thought I would remember today, I thought we were on our way, I thought time could be divided into years or seasons. Who’s to say, life is always full of illusions.

想你的人自然会来见你，爱你的人会想尽一切办法来到你身边。
18. Aren’t most relationships in life like this, saying forever one second, and then drifting apart the next, and when remembered, it’s as if we were bystanders.

每个人，都有一个世界，安静而孤独。
19. Those who miss you will naturally come to see you, and those who love you will do everything they can to be by your side.

我捧你的时候你是杯子，松手的时候你就是个玻璃碴子。——给那些不懂珍惜的人。
1. When I hold you, you are a cup; when I let go, you become a piece of broken glass. - To those who don’t know how to cherish.

如果我们都是孩子，就可以留在时光的原地，坐在一起一边听那些永不老去的故事一边慢慢皓首。
2. If we were all children, we could stay in the original place of time, sitting together and listening to those never-aging stories while slowly growing old.

这个城市没有草长莺飞的传说，它永远活在现实里面，快速的鼓点，匆忙的身影，麻木的眼神，虚假的笑容，而我正在被同化。
3. This city has no legends of grass growth and orioles flying; it always lives in reality, with fast-paced beats, hurried figures, numb eyes, and fake smiles, and I am being assimilated.

大提琴的声音就象一条河，左岸是我无法忘却的回忆，右岸是我值得紧握的璀璨年华，中间流淌的，是我年年岁岁淡淡的感伤！
4. The sound of a cello is like a river, with the left bank being my unforgettable memories, the right bank being my brilliant years worth holding on to, and the flowing water in between being my light sorrow year after year!

一些受过伤的人会更加勇敢，因为他们知道，最痛不过如此。
5. Some people who have been hurt will be braver because they know that the pain cannot go beyond this.

一个人怎么看待自己，决定了此人的命运，指向了他的归宿。
6. How a person views themselves determines their destiny and points to their destination.

我不知道死亡的时候，凝望苍穹竟然回那么凄凉，一声一声霰雪鸟的悲鸣，斜斜地掠天而去，我看到你的面容浮现在苍蓝色的天空之上，于是我笑了，因为我看到你，快乐得像个长不大的孩子。
7. I didn’t know that gazing at the sky at the moment of death would be so desolate, with the mournful cries of snow birds passing by, and I saw your face appearing in the blue sky, so I smiled because I saw you, happy like a child who never grows up.

只要你要、只要我有，倾我所能、尽我所有。我给过你的，给不了第二个人。你给过我的，也请不要再给第二个人。
8. As long as you want it and I have it, I will give my best and all I have. What I have given you cannot be given to a second person. What you have given me, please don’t give to a second person either.

有时候男人应该适当的有点脾气，对待有些人真不能太温柔和忍耐，因为过分善良会让我们丢失自己的价值和尊严，过分善良也是一种傻逼。
9. Sometimes, a man should have some temper. We can’t be too gentle and patient with some people, because excessive kindness will make us lose our value and dignity. Excessive kindness is also a kind of foolishness.

我们微笑着说我们停留在时光的原处其实早已被洪流无声地卷走。
10. We smile and say that we are staying in the original place of time, but in fact, we have already been silently swept away by the torrent.

如果你在背后议论我，那只能说明，我活的明显要比你精彩许多。
11. If you gossip about me behind my back, it can only mean that my life is obviously much more exciting than yours.

只有在你最落魄时，才会知道谁是为你担心的笨蛋，谁是形同陌路的混蛋。
12. Only when you are in a bad situation can you know who is the fool worrying about you and who is the jerk who treats you like a stranger.

一个人总要走陌生的路，看陌生的风景，听陌生的歌，然后在某个不经意的瞬间，你会发现，原本费尽心机想要忘记的事情真的就这么忘记了。
13. A person always has to walk陌生的路, see陌生的风景, and listen to陌生的歌, and then, in an unintentional moment, you will find that the things you tried so hard to forget were really forgotten.

如果一个女人真的爱你，她会因为很多事情对你发脾气，却始终坚守在你身边。
14. If a woman truly loves you, she will get angry with you for many things but will always stand by your side.

人生就像一道多项选择题，困扰你的，往往是众多的选项，而不是题目本身。
15. Life is like a multiple-choice question, and what troubles you is often the numerous options, not the question itself.

一个女人最好的嫁妆就是一颗体贴温暖的心，一个男人最好的聘礼就是一生的迁就与疼。
16. A woman’s best dowry is a caring and warm heart, and a man’s best gift is a lifetime of indulgence and care.

时光没有教会我任何东西，却教会了我不要轻易去相信神话。
17. Time has not taught me anything but has taught me not to believe in myths easily.

凡世的喧嚣和明亮，世俗的快乐和幸福，如同清亮的溪涧，在风里，在我眼前，汨汨而过，温暖如同泉水一样涌出来，我没有奢望，我只要你快乐，不要哀伤。
18. The noise and brightness of the mortal world, the happiness and well-being of secular life, are like a clear stream flowing by, warming my heart like a spring, and I have no extravagant hopes; I just want you to be happy and not sad.

你不可能要求每个人都读懂你，理解你，那样会显得你是一件廉价品。
19. You can’t expect everyone to understand and read you, as that would make you seem like a cheap product.

可不可以有一个人，可以看穿我的逞强，可以保护我的脆弱。
20. Can there be someone who can see through my bravado and protect my vulnerability?

从蛹破茧而出的瞬间，是撕掉一层皮的痛苦彻心彻肺很多蝴蝶都是在破茧而出的那一刻被痛得死掉了。
1. The moment a butterfly emerges from its cocoon, it endures the heart-wrenching pain of shedding its skin. Many butterflies die from the pain during this process.

朋友总是为你挡风遮雨，如果你在远方承受风雪，而我无能为力，我也会祈祷，让那些风雪降临在我的身上。
2. Friends always shelter you from the wind and rain. If you are far away and facing a storm, and I am unable to help, I will pray for the storm to come upon me instead.

你笑一次，我就可以高兴好几天；可看你哭一次，我就难过了好几年。
3. Your smile can make me happy for days, but seeing you cry once makes me sad for years.

人们总是在不停地追求美好，却往往错过了当下的美好。其实，贪婪才是最真实的贫穷，满足才是最真实的财富。
4. People are always pursuing happiness, yet they often miss the beauty in the present moment. In fact, greed is the truest form of poverty, while contentment is the truest form of wealth.

飞机场的骚乱一会儿就停止了，这里的人都是有着自己的方向的，匆匆地起飞，匆匆地下降，带走别人的故事，留下自己的回忆。
5. The chaos at the airport stops briefly, as everyone here has their own destination, taking off and landing in a hurry, carrying others’ stories and leaving their own memories.

牵着你的手，无论是在哪里，我都感觉像是在朝天堂奔跑。
6. Holding your hand, no matter where we are, I feel like I am running towards heaven.

昨天已逝，抖抖身上的尘埃，继续前行。别让过去盗走了将来，今天做最好的自己吧。
7. Let go of yesterday, shake off the dust, and keep moving forward. Don’t let the past steal your future; be the best version of yourself today.

一个人身边的位置只有那麽多，你能给的也只有那麽多，在这个狭小的圈子里，有些人要进来，就有一些人不得不离开。
8. There are only so many positions around a person, and you can only give so much. In this small circle, some people have to leave to make room for others to enter.

致女孩：做真实的自己，不要为了取悦别人或试图成为某个人。做你最原始的自己，比做任何人的复制品都来得好。
9. To girls: Be true to yourself, don’t try to please others or become someone else. Being your genuine self is better than being a copy of anyone else.

有些人会一直刻在记忆里的，即使忘记了他的声音，忘记了他的笑容，忘记了他的脸，但是每当想起他时的那种感受，是永远都不会改变的。
10. Some people will always be etched in our memories; even if we forget their voice, their smile, or their face, the feeling we have when we think of them will never change.

伤口就像我一样，是个倔强的孩子，不肯愈合，因为内心是温暖潮湿的地方，适合任何东西生长。
11. Wounds are like me, a stubborn child that refuses to heal, because the heart is a warm and damp place, suitable for anything to grow.

很多事情过去了，心境却不被遗忘，这大概就是回忆的价值。
12. Many things have passed, but the state of mind remains, which is probably the value of memories.

如果结局不是我想要的，那么我宁愿不去参与这个过程。我有我的骄傲，凭什么为了你去卑微自己。
13. If the outcome is not what I want, I would rather not participate in the process. I have my pride; why should I humble myself for you?

有时候不是不懂，只是不想懂；有时候不是不知道，只是不想说出来；有时候不是不明白，而是明白了也不知道该怎么做，于是就保持了沉默。
14. Sometimes it’s not that I don’t understand, but I just don’t want to understand; sometimes it’s not that I don’t know, but I don’t want to say it out loud; sometimes it’s not that I don’t understand, but I don’t know what to do after understanding, so I choose to remain silent.

闭上眼睛，清理你的心，过去的就让它过去吧，用心甘情愿的态度，过随遇而安的生活。
15. Close your eyes, cleanse your heart, let the past go, and embrace a content and carefree life.

寂寞的人总是会用心的记住他生命中出现过的每一个人，于是我总是意犹未尽地想起你在每个星光陨落的晚上一遍一遍数我的寂寞。
16. Lonely people always remember everyone who has appeared in their lives with all their hearts, so I can’t help but think of you on every starry night, counting my loneliness over and over again.

快乐和幸福那么相似，可是快乐就是幸福吗？
17. Happiness and well-being are so similar, but is happiness the same as well-being?

有些路很远， 走下去会很累。可是，不走，会后悔。
18. Some roads are long and tiring to walk, but if you don’t walk, you will regret it.

离去，让事情变得简单，人们变得善良，像个孩子一样，我们重新开始。
19. Leaving makes things simpler, and people become kinder, like children, as we start anew.

不同的人，为你做同一件事，你会感到天壤之别。因为我们在意的，往往不是人做的事，而只是做事的人。
20. Different people doing the same thing for you can make you feel a world of difference. What we care about is often not the act itself, but the person doing it.

不管昨天、今天、明天，能豁然开朗就是美好的一天。
1. No matter yesterday, today, or tomorrow, a day that brings a sudden realization is a beautiful day.

不要轻易让自己掉眼泪，你笑的时候，全世界跟着笑。但你哭的时候，全世界只有你一个人在哭。
2. Don’t easily let yourself shed tears. When you laugh, the whole world laughs with you. But when you cry, only you are crying.

努力过后，才知道许多事情，坚持坚持，就过来了。
3. After striving, you will understand many things. Keep going, and you’ll get through it.

不是每一次努力都会有收获，但是，每一次收获都必须努力，这是一个不公平的不可逆转的命题。
4. Not every effort will yield results, but every gain requires effort. It’s an unfair and irreversible proposition.

不要把我的关心当成理所当然。不管我有多爱你，最终也会有疲惫的一天。
5. Don’t take my concern for granted. No matter how much I love you, there will come a day when I am exhausted.

时间会告诉你一切真相。有些事情，要等到你渐渐清醒了，才明白它是个错。
6. Time will reveal all truths. Some things, when you gradually wake up, you’ll realize they were mistakes.

一只野兽受了伤，它可以自己跑到一个山洞躲起来，然后自己舔舔伤口，自己坚持，可是一旦被嘘寒问暖，它就受不了。
7. A wounded beast can run to a cave to hide, lick its wounds, and persist on its own. But once it receives comfort and care, it can’t bear it.

你要学会权衡利弊，学会放弃一些什么，然后才可能得到些什么。
8. You need to learn to weigh the pros and cons, give up something, and then you might gain something.

决定你明天的不是明天，而是今天对事业的作为。我们的今天由过去决定，我们的明天由今天决定。
9. What determines your tomorrow is not tomorrow, but what you do for your career today. Our today is determined by the past, and our tomorrow is determined by today.

外面的世界其实很大，但很多人就是被一个水杯约束生命。
10. The outside world is actually very big, but many people are constrained by a mere cup of water.

我落日般的忧伤就像惆怅的飞鸟，惆怅的飞鸟飞成我落日般的忧伤。
11. My sunset-like sorrow is like a melancholic bird, and the melancholic bird flies into my sunset-like sorrow.

全世界的人都离开你了我也会在你身边，有地狱我们一起猖獗。
12. Even if everyone in the world leaves you, I will still be by your side. If there’s hell, we’ll run amok together.

你永远也看不到我最寂寞时候的样子，因为只有你不在我身边的时候，我才最寂寞。
13. You will never see me at my loneliest, because I am only the loneliest when you are not by my side.

所谓的同学聚会，就是在多年以后给所有到场的人一个机会，看看什么叫沧海桑田，看看什么叫岁月如刀，看看什么叫物是人非。
14. So-called class reunions are opportunities for everyone present to witness the changes brought by time, to see how the years are like a knife, and to see how things and people have changed.

假如我向人伸出空手而得不到东西，那当然是苦恼；但是假如我伸出一只满握的手，而发现无人接受，那才是绝望呢。
15. If I extend an empty hand to someone and receive nothing, that is certainly distressing; but if I extend a hand full of grip and find no one to accept it, that is despair.

一辈子那么长，一天没走到终点，你就一天不知道哪一个才是陪你走到最后的人。有时你遇到了一个人，以为就是他了，后来回头看，其实他也不过是这一段路给了你想要的东西。
16. Life is so long, and until you reach the end of the day, you won’t know who will accompany you to the end. Sometimes you meet someone and think it’s them, but when you look back, they were just the one who gave you what you wanted during that part of the journey.

总有一天我会从你身边默默地走开，不带任何声响、我错过了很多，我总是一个人难过。
17. One day, I will silently walk away from you, without any sound. I have missed so much, and I am always sad alone.

每个人都是一个国王，在自己的世界里纵横跋扈，你不要听我的，但你也不要让我听你的。
18. Everyone is a king, dominating in their own world. You don’t have to listen to me, but don’t make me listen to you either.

就在那一瞬间，我仿佛听见了全世界崩溃的声音。
19. In that instant, I seemed to hear the sound of the world collapsing.

生活中一定要记住这两件事：不在生气时做决定，不在高兴时轻许诺言。
20. Always remember these two things in life: don’t make decisions when angry, and don’t make promises lightly when happy.

天空的飞鸟，是你的寂寞比我多，还是我的忧伤比你多，剩下的时光，你陪我，好不好，这样你不寂寞，我也不会忧伤。
1. The birds in the sky, is your loneliness greater than mine, or is my sorrow greater than yours? For the remaining time, will you accompany me? Then you won’t be lonely, and I won’t be sad.

距离之所以可怕，因为根本不知道对方是把你想念，还是把你忘记。
2. The reason distance is so terrifying is that you never know whether the other person is thinking of you or has forgotten you.

我不知道自己到底在执着什么，但我知道，我一直都在为难自己。
3. I don’t know what I’m holding on to, but I know I’ve always been making things difficult for myself.

有些事情不是看到希望才去坚持，而是坚持了才看得到希望！——送给彷徨不安的孩子们
4. Some things are not persisted because of hope, but hope is seen because of persistence! - To the wandering and restless children

生命那么短，世界那么乱，我不想争吵，不想冷战，不愿和你有一秒遗憾。
5. Life is so short, and the world is so chaotic; I don’t want to argue, I don’t want a cold war, and I don’t want a single second of regret with you.

如果你能解释为什么会喜欢一个人，那么这不是爱情，真正的爱情没有原因，你爱他，不知道为什么。
6. If you can explain why you like someone, then it’s not love. True love has no reasons; you love them, and you don’t know why.

地球之所以是圆的，是因为上帝想让那些走失或迷路的人重新相遇。
7. The Earth is round because God wants those who are lost or lost to meet again.

能让你生气的敌人，说明你没有胜他的把握；能让你生气的朋友，说明你仍在意他的友情。
8. An enemy who can make you angry shows that you don’t have the confidence to defeat him; a friend who can make you angry shows that you still care about his friendship.

翅膀长在你的肩上，太在乎别人对于飞行姿势的批评，所以你飞不起来。
9. Wings grow on your shoulders; you care too much about others’ criticism of your flying posture, so you can’t fly.

谁是谁生命中的过客，谁是谁生命的转轮，前世的尘，今世的风，无穷无尽的哀伤的精魂，最终谁都不是谁的谁。
10. Who is a passerby in whose life, and who is the turning wheel in whose life? The dust of past lives and the wind of this life, endless and boundless sorrowful souls, in the end, no one belongs to anyone.

因为我知道你是个容易担心的小孩，所以我将线交你手中却也不敢飞得太远。
11. Because I know you’re a child who worries easily, I give you the string but don’t dare to fly too far away.

认识我的人以为我很静，了解我的人以为我很疯，只有懂我的人才知道其实我很忧伤。
12. People who know me think I’m quiet; those who understand me think I’m crazy. Only those who truly know me know that I’m actually very sad.

我就像现在一样看着你微笑，沉默，得意，失落，于是我跟着你开心也跟着你难过，只是我一直站在现在而你却永远停留过去。
13. I watch you smile, be silent, be proud, and be lost, and I follow your happiness and sadness. I just stand in the present while you stay forever in the past.

这个世界上你认识那么多的人，那么多人和你有关，你再怎么改变也不能让每个人都喜欢你，所以你不用在乎别人的眼光，去成为你想成为的那个人。
14. In this world, you know so many people, and so many people are related to you. No matter how much you change, you can’t make everyone like you, so you don’t have to care about others’ opinions. Be the person you want to be.

那些刻在椅背后的爱情会不会像水泥地上的花朵，开出地老天荒的，没有风的森林。
15. Will the love engraved on the back of chairs bloom like flowers on the cement ground, creating a timeless, windless forest?

那个让你流泪的，是你最爱的人；那个懂你眼泪的，是最爱你的人。那个为你擦干眼泪的，才是最后和你相守的人。
16. The one who makes you cry is the one you love the most; the one who understands your tears is the one who loves you the most; the one who dries your tears is the one who will stay with you in the end.

少走了弯路，也就错过了风景，无论如何，感谢经历。
17. By taking fewer detours, you miss the scenery. No matter what, be grateful for the experience.

生活总会给你答案，但不会马上把一切都告诉你。
18. Life will always give you answers, but it won’t tell you everything right away.

与其在别人的故事里留着自己的泪，不如在自己的故事里笑得很大声。
19. It’s better to laugh loudly in your own story than to shed tears in someone else’s.

一个男人的强大，不在于他能摧毁什么，而在于他能保护什么！
20. A man’s strength lies not in what he can destroy, but in what he can protect!

最难过的，莫过于当你遇上一个特别的人，却明白永远不可能在一起，或迟或早，你不得不放弃。
1. The saddest thing is when you meet someone special, but you know you can never be together. Sooner or later, you have to give up.

如果人生可以刷新，复制，粘贴。那么一切是不是可以注销，关机，再重启。
2. If life could be refreshed, copied, and pasted, then everything could be canceled, shut down, and restarted.

我们都像小孩，胡闹是因为依赖你；懂礼貌，是因为你是外人。
3. We all act like children; we make a fuss because we depend on you; we are polite because you are a stranger.

时隔经年，你突然出现在访客记录里，我呆坐了一夜，哭着笑，笑着哭。
4. After years, you suddenly appear in the visitor’s record, and I sat there all night, crying and laughing, laughing and crying.

长大以后，似乎没有多少人会关心你是否快乐，所有的人都只看你有没有用。
5. As we grow up, it seems that not many people care whether you are happy or not; everyone only cares if you are useful.

你很幸运，你可以选择爱我或不爱我，而我只能选择爱你或更爱你。
6. You are lucky, for you can choose to love me or not, while I can only choose to love you or love you more.

你脸上的云淡风轻，谁也不知道你的牙咬的有多紧，你笑的没心没肺，没人知道你哭起来只能无声落泪。
7. Your face is carefree, but no one knows how tightly your teeth are clenched; you laugh heartlessly, and no one knows that when you cry, you can only do it silently.

有些条条框框就在那里，跳出框子便自由，不跳出框子便拘束。可是，人生的自由不在状态，而是心态。
8. Some rules and restrictions are there; if you jump out of the frame, you are free; if you don’t, you are constrained. However, the freedom in life lies not in the state but in the mindset.

置身事外，谁都可以心平气和，身处其中，谁还可以淡定从容？所以请不要轻易评论任何人，因为你不在其中。
9. It’s easy for anyone to stay calm when they are not involved, but who can remain composed when they are in the midst of it? So please do not judge anyone easily, because you are not in their shoes.

在意别人的看法很正常，但你要明白的是，不是所有的人都是人。
10. It’s normal to care about others’ opinions, but you should understand that not everyone is human.

那些花了好久才想明白的事，最终会被一次情绪失控全部推翻。
11. Those things that took a long time to figure out can eventually be overturned by a single emotional outburst.

后来，经历过才明白一些事，没什么好抱怨的，今天的每一步，都是在为之前的每一次选择买单。
12. Later, after experiencing, I understood some things; there’s nothing to complain about, for every step today is paying the price for the choices made before.

年轻的时候，连多愁善感都要渲染的惊天动地。长大后却学会，越痛，越不动声色。越苦，越保持沉默。成长就是就是将哭声调成静音的过程。
13. When young, even sentimentality is dramatized; as we grow up, we learn that the more painful it is, the more silent we become. The more bitter it is, the more we keep quiet. Growth is the process of turning the volume of our tears to mute.

纵然我有千万般好，你也不会看到，因为你没有一双爱我的眼睛。为什么爱的人总在急切，被爱的人总是被忽略？
14. Even if I have a million good qualities, you won’t see them, because you don’t have eyes that love me. Why are those who love always anxious, and those who are loved often neglected?

有些事情不是努力就能改变，比如，五十块的人民币设计得再好看，也没有一百块的招人喜欢。比如，他不爱你。
15. Some things cannot be changed by hard work, such as a 50-yuan note, no matter how beautiful its design, it is not as likable as a 100-yuan note. For example, he doesn’t love you.

有时候你放不下一个人，不是因为那个人无可替代，而是因为你在那个人身上花费了太多的时间精力，一旦分开，就好像自己用时间和青春细心堆砌的城堡轰然倒塌。
16. Sometimes you can’t let go of someone, not because they are irreplaceable, but because you have spent too much time and energy on them. Once separated, it feels like the castle you built with time and youth has collapsed.

趁着年轻，你需要多受一些苦，然后才会真正谦恭；不然，你那自以为是的聪明和藐视一切的优越感迟早要毁了你。
17. While you are young, you need to suffer more, and then you will truly be humble; otherwise, your self-righteous intelligence and disdain for everything will eventually destroy you.

如果，感到此时的自己很辛苦，那告诉自己：容易走的都是下坡路！坚持住，因为你正在走上坡路，走过去，你就一定会有进步。
18. If you feel that you are working hard at this moment, tell yourself: it’s easy to go downhill! Hold on, because you are on an uphill journey; once you get through it, you will definitely make progress.

活得累是因为你心里想太多，就跟吃饱了撑的是一个道理。
19. Living tiredly is because you think too much in your heart, just like being full after eating too much.

因为懂得，所以珍惜。所有的花开，都有温馨的理由，所有的叶落，都写着浓郁的牵挂。
20. Because we understand, we cherish. Every bloom has a warm reason, and every falling leaf is written with deep concern.

时间真的很神奇，你永远不知道它会如何改变你。换句话说：以前难吃的蔬菜、苦涩的啤酒、无聊的书籍，甚至讨厌的人，后来有一天，却又统统喜欢上了。
1. Time is truly magical; you never know how it will change you. In other words, once disliked vegetables, bitter beer, boring books, and even people you disliked, one day you may suddenly find yourself enjoying them all.

一个人炫耀什么，说明内心缺少什么。一个人越在意的地方，就是最令他自卑的地方。人都是比较有面子思想，有时候吹得很厉害的，可能是内心缺少什么的证明，这需要好好观察。欲盖弥彰，因为缺少而不想被别人知道，所以就会以炫耀来掩盖。
2. What a person shows off indicates what they lack inside. The more a person cares about something, the more it makes them feel inferior. People tend to value face, and sometimes those who brag a lot might be trying to cover up their insecurities. The more they lack something, the more they don’t want others to know, so they show off to hide it.

别人怎么看你，不干你的事，如果别人对你的看法是一面镜子，每个人都会被镜子里的形象吓坏。
3. How others see you is none of your business. If people’s opinions of you were a mirror, everyone would be frightened by their reflection.

你可能会遇到很多坏蛋，但总有一天你会遇到一个人，会如珍宝般待你，就像日升日落都陪着你。
4. You may encounter many villains, but one day you will meet someone who will treasure you like a precious gem, accompanying you through sunrises and sunsets.

前进的路上，哪怕大雨浇湿全身，也不要停止奔跑。如果前方是堵墙，拼尽全力也要砸出一个洞钻过去。如果脚下没有路，踩着荆棘也要努力踩出一条路。
5. On the road ahead, even if the heavy rain drenches you, don’t stop running. If there’s a wall in front of you, do your best to break a hole through it. If there’s no path under your feet, step on the thorns and strive to create a way.

有目标的人在奔跑，沒目标的人在流浪，因为不知道要去哪里！有目标的人在感恩，沒目标的人在报怨，因为觉得全世界都欠他的！
6. People with goals run, while those without goals wander because they don’t know where to go! People with goals express gratitude, while those without goals complain because they feel the whole world owes them!

“当你进退两难的时候如何做出决定？”——“抛硬币，当你第一次抛了以后想再抛一次的时候，你就已经知道答案了。”
7. “How do you make a decision when you’re in a dilemma?” - “Flip a coin. When you want to flip it again after the first toss, you already know the answer.”

如果，你正在埋怨命运不眷顾，那请记住：命，是失败者的借口；运，是成功者的谦词。
8. If you’re complaining about fate not favoring you, remember this: Destiny is the excuse of the losers; luck is the modesty of the successful.

要唤醒你内心真正那个你，而不是活得像别人一样。
9. Awaken the true self within you, instead of living like someone else.

时间告诉我们，无理取闹的年龄过了，该懂事了。
10. Time tells us that the age of unreasonableness is over, and it’s time to be sensible.

她那时候还太年轻，不知道所有命运赠送的礼物，早已在暗中标好了价格。
11. She was too young at that time and didn’t know that all the gifts from fate come with a price tag in the shadows.

突然发现和自己聊的很来的男生也在和其他女生暧昧；突然发现处得很好的舍友也会和别人在背后议论你；突然发现以前很讨厌的人却在跟别人夸奖你；突然发现你不曾说过话的同学却默默为你擦干了满是水渍的桌子。是的，别把谁想的太好，也别把谁想的太坏，因为，多得是你不知道的事。
12. Suddenly, you find that the guy you get along with well is also being flirtatious with other girls; suddenly, you find that your roommate, who gets along well with you, gossips about you behind your back; suddenly, you find that someone you once disliked is praising you to others; suddenly, you find that a classmate you’ve never spoken to has silently wiped your table, covered in water stains. Yes, don’t think too highly of anyone, nor too lowly, because there’s so much you don’t know.

十七八岁的年纪遇到了不可能在一起的人，却还是拼尽全力去爱，如今才刚刚二十岁风华正茂，却丧失了爱一个人的能力。
13. At the age of seventeen or eighteen, you meet someone you can’t be with, yet still love with all your heart. Now, just in your early twenties, you’ve lost the ability to love someone.

总有一天，我也会变老，时间掩盖了我的热情，吞噬了我的纯真，收回了我的童趣，但它抹不去我的快乐，我的愿望是：现在当个快乐的女孩，中年时当个快乐的阿姨，老年时当个快乐的老太婆。总之，拥有快乐的一生。
14. One day, I will grow old too. Time will cover my passion, devour my innocence, and take back my childlike curiosity, but it can never erase my happiness. My wish is to be a happy girl now, a happy aunt in middle age, and a happy old lady in my old age. In short, to have a happy life.

每一个平凡人的背后，都有一段可以撞击你的故事。
15. Behind every ordinary person, there’s a story that can touch your heart.

以前就爱较真，总是喜欢把每件事情的前因后果细想一遍、推算一下所有认为可能会出现的结果。最后弄得生活再无有意外，更难再有惊喜了。一直以来还觉得自己活得很明白，现在终于知道：我们总是太过理智，所以过得并不开心。
16. I used to be very particular, always wanting to think through the causes and consequences of everything, calculating all the possible outcomes. In the end, life became devoid of surprises and excitement. I always thought I was living very clearly, but now I finally know: we are too rational, so we are not happy.

每人心中所承受过来的那些苦与痛，不是因为时间就没有了感觉，而是懂得了说与不说都一样。
1. The pain and suffering that everyone has experienced in their hearts do not fade away just because of time; instead, it is because we learn that speaking or not speaking about them makes no difference.

我们总是会被突如其来的缘分砸伤，把这些当做是生活中不可缺少的主题。有些缘分只是南柯一梦，瞬间的消逝便成了萍踪过往。有些缘分却落地生根，扎进了你的生命中，从此纠缠不清。
2. We are always hurt by unexpected fate, treating these as indispensable themes in life. Some fates are like a dream, vanishing in an instant and becoming traces of the past. Other fates take root and embed themselves in your life, entangling you from then on.

幸福大概就是，你喜欢粘着的那个人永远都不嫌你烦。
3. Happiness is probably when the person you like to stick with never finds you annoying.

愿你成为这样的人：外表平静如水，内心坚定如山。
4. May you become such a person: calm on the outside like water, and firm on the inside like a mountain.

幸福其实真的很简单：有人爱；有事做；有所期待。
5. Happiness is actually very simple: having someone to love, something to do, and something to look forward to.

很多人说他们太忙了，其实他们只是太拖了。
6. Many people say they are too busy, but in fact, they are just too procrastinating.

知音，能有一两个已经很好了，实在不必太多。朋友之乐，贵在那份踏实的信赖。
7. Having one or two confidants is already very good; there is no need for too many. The joy of friendship lies in the solid trust.

喜欢靠在你的忧伤里，你的忧伤像月光，既凄美，也浪漫。在你的忧伤里，我感受情长，我愿在你的忧伤里沉醉永远；喜欢躺在你的思念里，你的思念是阳光，会温暖，有方向。在你的思念里，我不再孤单，我要在你的思念里搁浅千年。
8. I like leaning on your sorrow, which is like the moonlight, both beautiful and romantic. In your sorrow, I feel the depth of emotions, and I am willing to be intoxicated in it forever; I like lying in your thoughts, which are like sunlight, warm and directional. In your thoughts, I am no longer lonely, and I want to be stranded in them for a thousand years.

别感谢任何伤害你的人，帮你成长的是你自己，让你坚持下去的是爱你的人，所有美好都跟坏人没有关系。
9. Do not thank anyone who has hurt you; it is yourself who helps you grow, and it is the people who love you that help you persist. All the beauty has nothing to do with bad people.

在这个艰难的世界里啊，与众不同都会被人瞧不起，但如果你与众不同，又何必怕孤独，艰难路，只好艰难着行走。
10. In this difficult world, being different will be looked down upon, but if you are different, why be afraid of loneliness? The difficult path can only be walked with difficulty.

将所有的风景后退，退回原始，白云蓝天，繁花绿池。人与自然，就是天地间最美的构思；将一切的过去倒流，倒回儿时，大海小溪，贝壳卵石。快乐和无邪，叠成无数个晶莹的故事。有太多的美，经不起岁月的流失，慢慢凝成了一段段莫名其妙的文字。有无尽的梦，消逝于风雨的侵蚀，化作了一首首不知所谓的诗。
11. Retreat all the scenery, back to the origin, with white clouds and blue sky, blooming flowers and green ponds. The harmony between humans and nature is the most beautiful conception between heaven and earth; reverse all the past, back to childhood, with the sea, streams, shells, and pebbles. Happiness and innocence are stacked into countless crystal stories. There is too much beauty that cannot withstand the passage of time, slowly condensing into paragraphs of inexplicable text. There are endless dreams that vanish in the erosion of wind and rain, turning into poems of unknown meaning.

思念，是一条弯弯的小河，潺潺的流水，永世吟唱着一支亲情和爱情的歌。你的悲伤、你的快乐，永远伴奏着我的梦想、我的漂泊；未来，是一片变幻的天色，莫测的风云，从来演绎的是无数成功与失败的起落。你的神秘、你的传奇，一直召唤着我的使命、我的寂寞。
12. Longing is a winding little river, with the murmuring water forever singing a song of love and affection. Your sadness and happiness will always accompany my dreams and wandering; the future is a changing sky, with unpredictable winds and clouds, always performing countless rises and falls of success and failure. Your mystery and legend have always been calling my mission and loneliness.

会有那么一天，你活成了你最爱的样子，让所有的伤痕都变成了勋章。
13. One day, you will become the person you love the most, turning all your scars into medals.

轻轻地入眠，忘却了从前，放任了今天，也许是守候，也许是随缘，你半睡半醒地舒缓于这个世面，你若睡莲；飘飘的模样，不习惯负担，不刻意方向，或许是寻觅，或许是淡然，你似有似无地潇洒于天地之间，你若风烟。
14. Gently fall asleep, forgetting the past, letting go of today, perhaps waiting, perhaps following fate, you half-awake and half-asleep, gently easing in this world, like a lotus in slumber; your drifting appearance, not used to burdens, not deliberately directional, perhaps searching, perhaps indifferent, you vaguely and elegantly wander between heaven and earth, like smoke and clouds.

捧几把阳光洗洗脸，挤一节朝露刷刷牙；盛一碗蓝天作早餐，摘几叶空气泡泡茶。生活，原来可以如此神话；希望，原来可以这样涂鸦。
15. Scoop a handful of sunlight to wash your face, squeeze a segment of morning dew to brush your teeth; serve a bowl of blue sky for breakfast, pick a few leaves of air to make tea. Life can be so mythological; hope can be so freely painted.

山高，路迢，我在寻找，寻找一方乐土，了却一段飘摇。水寒，风萧，我在苦笑，苦笑今日因缘，困惑际遇蹊跷。夏日的夜空，有颗流星在动，那是游子，不是归人。午夜里的城，无息无声，那不是安睡，是入梦。
16. High mountains, long roads, I am searching for a paradise to settle down and end my wandering. Cold water, bleak wind, I am smiling bitterly, smiling bitterly at today’s fate and puzzling encounters. In the summer night sky, there is a meteor moving, it is a wanderer, not a homecomer. In the midnight city, there is no sound, not asleep, but dreaming.

没有你，没有谁，留下的尽是一切的美；不曾远行，不曾高飞，来去仅此轻轻一回。不求谁懂，无需人陪，难得是深深自醉；莫究是非，莫论错对，毕竟已心中无悔。汝非鱼，焉得鱼之乐；君非偶，安知偶心扉。世态泱泱，万千感慨无罪；红尘滚滚，无数风云成灰。
1. Without you, without anyone, all that remains is the beauty of everything. 2. Never having traveled far, never having soared high, coming and going is just this gentle once. 3. Not seeking to be understood by anyone, no need for company, the rarity is being deeply intoxicated with oneself. 4. Do not investigate right or wrong, do not discuss errors, after all, there is no regret in the heart. 5. You are not a fish, how can you know the joy of a fish? 6. You are not me, how can you know my heart? 7. The world is vast, countless emotions are guiltless. 8. The world of mortals rolls on, countless ups and downs turn to ashes.

时间玩得起我们，我们却玩不起时间，在吃得起苦的岁月里，别太安逸。在吃不起苦的日子里，别太逞强。
1. Time can play with us, but we can’t afford to play with time. In the years when we can endure hardships, don’t be too comfortable. In the days when we can’t bear the hardships, don’t try too hard.

有时候，幸福不是能拥有多少，而是能发现多少；痛苦不是能承受多少，而是能放下多少；爱情不是能享受多少，而是能包容多少；人生不是能实现多少，而是能做好多少。
2. Sometimes, happiness is not about how much you can possess, but how much you can discover; suffering is not about how much you can endure, but how much you can let go; love is not about how much you can enjoy, but how much you can tolerate; life is not about how much you can achieve, but how much you can do well.

岁月像一个迷惘的梦，我们在梦里还是梦外有时都难解难分；岁月像一把无情的刀刃，每个人的脸上都会被刻下迹痕；岁月又像一双求知的眼神，我们在眼神里慢慢看懂了人生。岁月还像一个历史的魔咒，一代代重复演绎着悲欢故事的人们。
3. Years are like a bewildering dream, and sometimes it’s hard to tell whether we are in the dream or outside of it; years are like a ruthless blade that leaves marks on everyone’s face; years are also like a pair of inquisitive eyes, through which we slowly understand life. Years can also be like a historical curse, with generation after generation repeating the stories of joy and sorrow.

心若被困，天下处处是牢笼；心之所安，矮瓦斗室也是天堂。
4. If the heart is trapped, everywhere in the world becomes a cage; if the heart is at peace, even a humble dwelling can be paradise.

世界真的很小，好像一转身，就不知道会遇见谁；世界真的很大，好像一转身，就不知道谁会消失。
5. The world is really small, as if with a turn, you never know who you’ll meet; the world is really big, as if with a turn, you never know who will disappear.

我想，所谓孤独，就是你面对的那个人，他的情绪和你的情绪不在同一个频率。
6. I think, so-called loneliness is when the emotions of the person you face are not on the same frequency as your own.

人生就像蒲公英，看似自由，却身不由己。
7. Life is like a dandelion, seemingly free, but actually beyond our control.

你害怕一件事，可还是要去做，那才是勇敢。
8. Being brave is doing something you’re afraid of, even if you’re scared.

刻薄嘴欠和幽默是两回事，口无遮拦和坦率是两回事，没有教养和随性是两回事，轻重不分和耿直是两回事。
9. Being mean and having a sense of humor are two different things; being outspoken and being frank are two different things; being uncultured and being carefree are two different things; not knowing the difference between what’s important and what’s not and being straightforward are two different things.

失去过许多朋友，因为我不善言谈，许久没联系他们，于是他们渐渐有了新朋友，从此再无交集。请不要觉得我冷漠孤傲，不要觉得我喜新厌旧，我只是怕一开口，就变成了令人心酸的客套，却依旧相信着，那时的我们，都是彼此生命里的一道光线，如果有一天我们变陌生了，就让我们重新认识。
10. I’ve lost many friends because I’m not good at talking, and I haven’t contacted them for a long time, so they gradually made new friends and we no longer intersect. Please don’t think I’m indifferent or fickle; I just fear that once I speak, it will become a heart-wrenching formality. Yet, I still believe that we were all a ray of light in each other’s lives. If one day we become strangers, let’s get to know each other again.

去找一个温暖如太阳的人，为你晒掉所有不值一提的悲伤。
11. Find someone as warm as the sun to晒干 all your insignificant sorrows.

你每天起床之前有两个选择，要么继续趴下做你没有做完的梦，要么拉开被子完成你没有完成的梦想。
12. Before you get up every day, you have two choices: either continue to lie down and finish the dream you didn’t complete, or pull the covers back and fulfill the dreams you haven’t achieved.

曾有人说：“泼在你身上的冷水，你应该烧开了泼回去。”但我更愿意去做像石灰一样的人，别人越泼我冷水，我的人生越沸腾！
13. Someone once said, “The cold water that others splash on you, you should boil it and splash it back.” But I’d rather be like limestone, the more cold water others splash on me, the more my life boils!

见识越广，计较越少，经历越多，抱怨越少，越闲，越矫情。
14. The broader your horizons, the fewer your complaints; the more experiences you have, the fewer your grievances; the more idle you are, the more melodramatic you become.

每一个不曾起舞的日子，都是对生命的辜负。
15. Every day that you don’t dance is a betrayal of life.

别人稍一注意你，你就敞开心扉，你觉得这是坦率，其实这是孤独。
16. If someone pays you a little attention, you open up to them. You think it’s being frank, but it’s actually loneliness.

有些人的通病是，容易看清楚别人，不容易看清楚自己。在别人的问题上可以斟酌到锱铢必较，而在自己的问题上却可以粗略到走马观花。一颗自私的心，自然会豢养出一双自私的眼睛，一种计较的活法，以及，一腔热衷于背后说人是非的态度。一辈子看不上别人，换一种说法就是，从来没看清过自己。
17. Some people’s common problem is that they can easily see others clearly, but not themselves. They can be meticulous about others’ issues, but be careless about their own. A selfish heart will naturally nurture a pair of selfish eyes, a way of living that constantly compares, and a passion for gossiping behind others’ backs. A lifetime of looking down on others can be rephrased as never truly understanding oneself.

坚强的人只能救赎自己，伟大的人才能拯救他人。
18. Strong people can only redeem themselves, while great people can save others.

不亏待每一份热情，不讨好任何的冷漠。爱情如此，友情也如此。
19. Don’t mistreat every enthusiasm, and don’t please any indifference. This applies to both love and friendship.

没有另一种选择，你所有现有的选择都是对的，它就像人的感情一样，无须去假设，因为无论怎样去假设，那假设都不会成立。
20. There is no other choice, all your current choices are right. It’s like human emotions, there’s no need to assume, because no matter how you assume, that assumption will not stand.

流过泪的眼睛更明亮，滴过血的心灵更坚强。
1. Eyes that have shed tears become brighter, and hearts that have bled become stronger.

优秀的人就像一团光芒，和他们呆久了，也就再也不想走回黑暗了。
2. Outstanding people are like a ray of light, and after being with them for a long time, you no longer want to return to the darkness.

正能量不是没心没肺，不是强颜欢笑，不是弄脏别人来显得干净。而是泪流满面怀抱的善良，是孤身一人前进的信仰，是破碎以后重建的勇气。
3. Positive energy is not about being heartless, putting on a fake smile, or dirtying others to appear clean. It is about the kindness in tearful embraces, the faith in moving forward alone, and the courage to rebuild after being broken.

人生大部分时间都是在等！等车！等信！等雨停！等绿灯！等风来！等天明！等一个人！甚至等死。
4. Most of life is spent waiting! Waiting for the bus! Waiting for a letter! Waiting for the rain to stop! Waiting for the green light! Waiting for the wind! Waiting for dawn! Waiting for a person! Even waiting for death.

塑造自己过程很疼，但请相信你将收获一个更好的自己。
5. Shaping oneself is a painful process, but please believe that you will gain a better self.

与其死缠烂打，还不如一刀两断。姑娘要记住，从今以后，嘴要甜，心要狠，该留留，该滚滚。
6. It’s better to cut ties than to cling on. Girls should remember, from now on, speak sweetly, be tough at heart, let those who should stay, and let those who should go.

在这世上，没有非爱不可的人，也没有非做不可的事。除非，那个人是你，那件事是我爱你。我也只有一个一生，无法慷慨赠予我不爱的人。
7. In this world, there is no one you must love, nor is there anything you must do. Unless that person is you, and that thing is loving you. I also have only one life, and I cannot generously give it to someone I do not love.

如果你每天给他一块钱，只要一天不给，他就会恨你。如果每天给他一个巴掌，只要一天不打，他就会跪谢。人性如此，生活如此，爱情亦如此。
8. If you give him a dollar every day, and stop giving it one day, he will hate you. If you slap him every day, and stop one day, he will kneel in gratitude. Such is human nature, life, and love.

人生短短几十年，不要给自己留下什么遗憾。想笑就笑，想哭就哭，该爱的时候就去爱，无谓压抑自己。人生的苦闷有二：一是欲望没有被满足，二是它被满足了。
9. Life is short, don’t leave any regrets. Laugh when you want to laugh, cry when you want to cry, love when you should love, and don’t suppress yourself. There are two types of misery in life: one is when desires are not fulfilled, and the other is when they are fulfilled.

我们都想走近一点，可是却每天都在故作疏远。
10. We all want to get closer, but we deliberately distance ourselves every day.

只有碰到喜欢的人才会变成话唠，碰到不喜欢的人一句话也不想多说。
1. Only when you meet someone you like will you become talkative; when you meet someone you don’t like, you don’t want to say a word.

人往往在闲得蛋疼的时候最矫情最脆弱，在深渊挣扎的时候最清醒最坚强。
2. People tend to be the most sentimental and vulnerable when they are bored, and the most clear-headed and strong when they are struggling in the abyss.

他日嫁得良人，定要谢你当年不娶之恩。
3. When I marry the right person someday, I will definitely thank you for not marrying me back then.

你可以不再天真，但一定要善良。像孩子一样善意和宽容，然后让自己变得更好。
4. You can stop being naive, but you must remain kind. Be as kind and tolerant as a child, and then make yourself better.

那个让你流泪的，是你最爱的人；那个懂你眼泪的，是最爱你的人；那个为你擦干眼泪的，才是最后和你相守的人。我多希望，这三个人都是你。
5. The one who makes you cry is the person you love the most; the one who understands your tears is the person who loves you the most; the one who dries your tears is the one who will be with you in the end. I wish all three people were you.

没有来临的事别胡思乱想，不属于你的人别痴心妄想。好好的活在今朝，珍惜眼前所拥有的，这样就够了。
6. Don’t think about things that haven’t happened, and don’t be infatuated with people who don’t belong to you. Live well in the present, cherish what you have, and that’s enough.

一个强者要有三个基本条件：最野蛮的身体，最文明的头脑和不可征服的精神。
7. A strong person needs three basic conditions: the most primitive body, the most civilized mind, and an unconquerable spirit.

真正关心你的人，是无事时百般挑剔，有事时抓着你手一声不吭的。监督你过顺境，支撑你过逆境，人生三两人，足矣。
8. The people who truly care about you are those who criticize you when there’s no problem, and hold your hand silently when there is a problem. They supervise you through good times and support you through bad times. A few people like this in life are enough.

你要搞清楚，是你喜欢对方，不是对方喜欢你，你既然主动了，就算受了天大的委屈，也应该是你预料中的事，怪不了任何人。有勇气追求喜欢，也要有勇气接受眼泪，结果要自己承担，谁叫你有本事喜欢人家，没本事让人家喜欢你。
9. You need to understand that you like the other person, not the other way around. Since you took the initiative, even if you suffer a great injustice, it should be something you expected and no one else to blame. Have the courage to pursue what you like, and also have the courage to accept tears. You should bear the results yourself, because you have the ability to like someone but not the ability to make them like you.

嫁的人是谁，很重要，因为他决定着你一辈子的生活状态。娶的人是谁，更重要，她很有可能决定着你一生的层次和高度。不要将就的嫁，也别违心的娶。
10. Who you marry is important, because it determines your life’s state. Who you marry is even more important, as she may determine the level and height of your life. Don’t marry just for the sake of it, and don’t marry against your heart.

走错了路，要记得回头；爱错了人，要懂得放手。人心都是相对的，以真换真；感情都是相互的，用心暖心。只是一起走过一段路而已，何必把怀念弄的比经过还长。
11. If you take the wrong path, remember to turn back; if you love the wrong person, learn to let go. People’s hearts are relative, exchanging sincerity for sincerity; feelings are mutual, warming each other with care. You just walked a section of the road together, why make memories longer than the experience itself.

所谓教育，也许就是这样，爱与耐心，加上孩子能明白的方式。这世界不是那么好，也不是那么坏，但这世界上的很多东西不能只用好或者坏来形容。
12. Education, perhaps, is like this: love and patience, combined with a way that children can understand. The world is not that good, nor that bad, but many things in this world cannot be simply described as good or bad.

小时候我们的城市像郊外，我们的脚步很轻快，那时天空很蓝心很小路很宽，长大后我们的存在像尘埃，我们的距离被拉开。
13. When we were young, our city was like the suburbs, our steps were light, the sky was blue, our hearts were small, and the roads were wide. As we grew up, our existence became like dust, our distances were pulled apart.

成为想成为的自己，才遇见想遇见的爱情。所谓温度刚好的爱情故事，所谓疲惫生活里的英雄梦想。
14. Be the person you want to be, and then you will meet the love you want to meet. So-called love stories with just the right temperature, so-called heroic dreams in the exhausted life.

成熟的人需要面具，戴上坚强面对社会，摘下温柔面对家人。
15. Mature people need masks, put on strength to face society, and take off tenderness to face family.

虽然不知道还会不会遇到比你更好的人，虽然不知道我还能不能爱上别人，但在有限的生命里，假如再给我一次机会，我还是愿意在那年夏天遇见你。
16. Although I don’t know if I will meet someone better than you, although I don’t know if I can fall in love with someone else, if given another chance in my limited life, I would still be willing to meet you that summer.

思念没有声音，唯有天地在听；惆怅没有声音，唯有风在低吟；花开没有声音，是春天不忍将你吵醒；花落没有消息，那是因为季节的事情。踏遍千山，我终究走不出宿命；望穿秋水，你依旧在彼岸飘零…
17. Missed thoughts have no sound, only heaven and earth listen; melancholy has no sound, only the wind whispers; flowers bloom silently, as spring doesn’t want to wake you up; flowers fall without news, because it’s a matter of seasons. I have traveled through thousands of mountains, but I can’t escape fate; I have gazed through autumn waters, and you are still drifting on the other side…

我们都爱逞强，心里流着眼泪却笑着说没事。
18. We all like to pretend to be strong, with tears flowing in our hearts but smiling and saying it’s okay.

家是一间可以遮风挡雨的房子，一盏永远为你守候的灯光，一个充满烟火气息的厨房，一张摆满家人亲手做的饭菜的餐桌。
19. Home is a house that can shelter you from wind and rain, a light that always waits for you, a kitchen full of the smell of smoke, and a dining table filled with homemade dishes made by your family.

想念一个人，不一定要听到他的声音。听到了他的声音，也许就是另一回事。想像中的一切，往往比现实稍微美好一点。想念中的那个人，也比现实稍微温暖一点。思念好像是很遥远的一回事，有时却偏偏比现实亲近一点。
1. Missing someone doesn’t necessarily mean you have to hear their voice. Hearing their voice might change things. Everything in our imagination is often slightly more beautiful than reality. The person we miss is also slightly warmer than reality. Missing someone seems to be a very distant thing, but sometimes it is surprisingly closer than reality.

爱，不是寻找一个完美的人，而是学会用完美的眼光，欣赏那个并不完美的人。
2. Love is not about finding a perfect person, but learning to appreciate that imperfect person with a perfect perspective.

总有一个人会改变自己，放下底线来纵容你；不是天生好脾气，只是怕失去你，才宁愿把你越宠越坏，困在怀里。所谓性格不合，只是不爱的借口。
3. There will always be someone who will change themselves, lower their boundaries to indulge you; it’s not that they have a naturally good temper, but they fear losing you, so they would rather spoil you and keep you close. So-called incompatible personalities are just an excuse for not loving.

遇到了错的人，或者被人渣欺骗了感情，但是又碍于之前的付出，觉得马上放弃实在是太不甘心了，于是拉拉扯扯又耽误了一些年华。实在是不该如此，人生中对于错误的清零越早越好，千万别将自己害得回不了头，错失了清零的机会，把生活过成了负值。
4. If you’ve met the wrong person or been deceived by a scumbag, but still can’t let go because of the previous efforts and feel too reluctant to give up, thus wasting more time. This should not happen. It’s better to clear the slate as soon as possible in life. Don’t harm yourself to the point of no return, missing the chance to reset and turning your life into a negative.

无论别人怎么看，不要打乱自己的节奏。喜欢的事自然可以坚持，不喜欢的怎么也长久不了。
5. No matter how others see you, don’t disrupt your own rhythm. Things you like can naturally be sustained, but those you don’t like will never last long.

单身久了就觉得一个人的状态挺好的：想看书了就看书，累了就睡觉，想吃啥就吃啥，不想联系谁就自己安静一阵，出去旅行或宅在家怎么都好。对爱情最好还是保持点儿洁癖，不要随便开始不要急着妥协，真正值得的东西都不会那么轻易。珍惜还可以单身的日子吧，我“不介意孤独，比爱你舒服”。
6. Being single for a long time makes you think that being alone is quite good: read when you want, sleep when you’re tired, eat whatever you want, and be quiet by yourself if you don’t want to contact anyone. Travel or stay at home, either way is fine. Keep some standards for love and don’t start or compromise easily. What’s truly worth it won’t come so easily. Cherish the days when you can still be single. I “don’t mind being alone, it’s more comfortable than loving you.”

做一个简单的人，看世间繁杂却不在心中留下痕迹。
7. Be a simple person, see the complexity of the world but not leave traces in your heart.

过错是暂时的遗憾，而错过则是永远的遗憾！不要害怕过错而错过。
8. A mistake is a temporary regret, while missing out is a permanent one! Don’t be afraid of making mistakes and miss out.

如果你准备结婚的话，告诉你一句非常重要的哲学名言“你一定要忍耐包容对方的缺点，世界上没有绝对幸福圆满的婚姻，幸福只是来自于无限的容忍与尊重”。
9. If you’re preparing to get married, let me tell you a very important philosophical saying, “You must endure and tolerate each other’s flaws. There is no absolutely perfect and happy marriage in the world. Happiness comes from endless tolerance and respect.”

如果你能每天呐喊二十一遍“我用不着为这一点小事而烦恼”，你会发现，你心里有一种不可思议的力量，试试看，很管用。
10. If you can shout out twenty-one times a day, “I don’t need to worry about this little thing,” you will find an incredible power in your heart. Give it a try, it works.

人是污浊的河流。要想接受污浊的河流而自身不被污染，我们必须成为大海。
11. People are like turbid rivers. To accept the turbid river without being polluted ourselves, we must become the ocean.

根本不必回头去看咒骂你的人是谁?如果有一条疯狗咬你一口，难道你也要趴下去反咬他一口吗?
12. There’s no need to look back and see who is cursing you. If a mad dog bites you, do you have to lie down and bite it back?

生命就是一系列选择的过程，而关键是要知道如何去承受自己选择的后果。
13. Life is a series of choices, and the key is to know how to bear the consequences of your choices.

与其说是别人让你痛苦，不如说是自己的修养不够。
14. Instead of saying others make you suffer, it’s better to say that your own cultivation is not enough.

最好的人，像孩子一样真诚，像夕阳一样温暖，像天空一样宁静。
15. The best people are as sincere as children, as warm as the sunset, and as peaceful as the sky.

人生，没有回头路；感情，无法删除重启。在乎你的，你不去珍惜；不在乎你的，你总想发生什么故事。人心贵在真诚，感情重在矜持。爱要真心，也要互动；情要珍惜，更要随缘。爱是相吸，不是追逐；情是相互，不分高低。
16. In life, there is no turning back; in relationships, there is no deleting and restarting. Care for those who care for you, but don’t cherish those who don’t. People value sincerity, and relationships value restraint. Love requires a genuine heart and interaction; emotions need to be cherished and taken as they come. Love is about attraction, not pursuit; emotions are mutual, without hierarchy.

其实我很好，只是不习惯，只是会偶尔难受一下，只是会在某一瞬间突然很想某个人，只是会在听到某一句熟悉的话时很难过。
17. In fact, I’m fine, just not used to it, just occasionally feeling a little uncomfortable, just suddenly missing someone at a certain moment, just feeling very sad when hearing a familiar phrase.

人生从来不乏机遇，我们缺少的不是对机遇的把握，而是在机遇到来之前，你已经或者准备怎样身体力行去度过这段漫长的时光。命运的底牌从来没有固定结局，你的人生不是一早就定下了答案的。除了自己，没有什么可屈服。
1. Life is never short of opportunities. What we lack is not the ability to seize opportunities, but what you have already done or are prepared to do to get through the long period before the opportunity arrives. The bottom card of fate has never had a fixed outcome, and your life is not predetermined from the start. Except for yourself, there is nothing to succumb to.

时间是一把刀，它刻下好多伤痕，但最终也把我雕成了一朵花，如约绽放。
2. Time is a knife that carves many scars, but in the end, it also sculpts me into a flower, blooming as promised.

有些人是你初见好，而感觉越来越差的。有些人是你刚开始不感兴趣，却一点一点爱上的。爱的快，不代表就好，因为真正的情感，永远是积累。
3. Some people are good at first sight, but the feeling gets worse and worse. Some people you are not interested in at first, but you fall in love with them little by little. Loving fast does not mean it is good, because true emotions are always accumulated.

痛而不言，笑而不语。有时沉默是一种失望，有时是一种无奈。有些话忍忍，不愿再说；有些事想想，不愿再提。世间之苦，苦在不由己；世间之难，难在情回头。离了心的人留不住，再留会生怨；合不了拍的感情难继续，继续会别扭。伤在身上的痕，时间久了不会痛；伤在心里的痕，却会时常让你情绪起伏。
4. Pain without words, laughter without speaking. Sometimes silence is a kind of disappointment, sometimes it is a kind of helplessness. Some words are endured and unwilling to be said; some things are thought about and unwilling to be mentioned. The suffering in the world is due to being unable to control oneself; the difficulty in the world is due to the inability to turn back emotions. People who have left their hearts cannot be retained, and retaining them will breed resentment; relationships that cannot be synchronized are hard to continue, and continuing will be awkward. Scars on the body will not hurt after a long time, but scars in the heart will often cause emotional fluctuations.

突然很怀念读书的年纪，那个时候什么都很简单，一场八百米测试就是大事，他今天冲我一笑，一天就值了。
5. Suddenly, I miss the age of studying, when everything was simple. An 800-meter test was a big deal, and his smile today made the whole day worthwhile.

当一个人不再对一个人畅所欲言时，很多时候是心远了；当一个人学会默默承担时，很多时候是心冷了。爱是需要和被需要，有人对你发脾气、无理取闹才是幸福；爱是你吵我哄，有人在你面前毫无顾忌、随心所欲才是踏实。爱是甜蜜的干扰，要懂得才好。
6. When a person no longer speaks their mind to another person, it often means their heart has grown distant; when a person learns to bear things silently, it often means their heart has grown cold. Love is about needing and being needed. It is a blessing when someone loses their temper and makes unreasonable demands of you; love is when you quarrel and I coax, when someone is unreserved and unrestrained in front of you, that is what makes you feel secure. Love is a sweet disturbance, and it needs to be understood.

我们花了很多时间来找寻最便捷的沟通方式，却忘了面对面的一个眼神一句话才是最贴心的交流。
7. We spend a lot of time looking for the most convenient way to communicate, but we forget that a glance or a word in face-to-face conversation is the most intimate form of communication.

人生成年后最大的收获，就是愿意承认成为昨天的每一天都是美好的。世间没有什么理所应当，凡事皆是水到渠成。
8. The greatest gain in adulthood is the willingness to admit that every day of becoming the past is beautiful. There is no such thing as taken for granted in the world, everything comes naturally.

陪伴一世的是一颗心、一种心疼、一份包容、一份笃定不移的执着。将就什么都别将就爱，错过什么都别错过真爱，找一个真正爱的人，才会有真正的幸福。感情，慢慢品才会懂；人心，细细看才明了。看得见的好都是讨好，感受得到的好才是真好。
9. To accompany you for a lifetime is a heart, a kind of love and pain, a tolerance, and an unwavering persistence. Don’t settle for anything but love, don’t miss anything but true love. Find someone you truly love, and there will be true happiness. Emotions need to be savored to be understood; people need to be observed carefully to be clear. The good that can be seen is flattery, the good that can be felt is truly good.

别总是无病呻吟，别总把自己说的那样楚楚可怜。谁都受过伤流过泪，不见得你比别人更痛苦，只不过你表达得更精彩罢了。
10. Don’t always complain about being unwell, don’t always portray yourself as so pitiful. Everyone has been hurt and shed tears, you are not necessarily more painful than others, just that you express it more brilliantly.

女人最可悲的不是年华老去，而是在婚姻和平淡生活中的自我迷失。女人可以衰老，但一定要优雅到死，不能让婚姻将女人消磨得失去光泽。
11. The most pitiful thing for a woman is not the passage of time, but losing herself in marriage and ordinary life. A woman can grow old, but she must be elegant until death, and not let marriage wear her down and lose her luster.

你能做的最好是找一个爱你的人，他爱你纯粹是因为你这个人，无论开心、伤心、丑陋、美丽、英俊，不管你是怎样，那个对的人始终会从你身上看到阳光，那便是值得去厮守一辈子的人。
12. The best thing you can do is to find someone who loves you, who loves you purely because of who you are, whether happy, sad, ugly, beautiful, or handsome, no matter what you are like, the right person will always see the sunshine in you, and that is the person worth spending a lifetime with.

不要去羡慕人家过得有多好，抱怨自己的生活有多糟，也不要活在过去的光环里，要知道昨天的太阳，晒不干今天的衣裳，世上有不绝的风景，人更要有前行的心情。
13. Don’t envy how well others are doing, complain about how bad your life is, or live in the glory of the past. Remember that yesterday’s sun cannot dry today’s clothes. There are endless landscapes in the world, and people must have a forward-looking mindset.

我还是相信，星星会说话，石头会开花。穿过夏天的木栅栏和冬天的风雪之后，你终会抵达。因为爱着，就算痛到极致，我们不会老去。
1. I still believe that stars can talk and stones can bloom. After passing through the summer’s wooden fence and the winter’s snow, you will eventually arrive. Because of love, even if it hurts to the extreme, we won’t grow old.

没必要交很多朋友，因为不是所有人都会在你需要的时候站出来，相反很多蜻蜓点水的感情还会造成困扰。越长大发现在乎的圈子越小，这不是坏事儿，你只要守护好该守护的人就够了。就是这一小撮人，在你以为会孤立无援的时候，他们早就挺身而出站在那了。
2. There’s no need to make many friends, as not everyone will stand up for you when you need them. On the contrary, many superficial relationships can cause trouble. As we grow up, we find that the circle of people we care about becomes smaller, which is not a bad thing. You just need to protect the people you should protect. It’s this small group of people who, when you think you’re alone and helpless, have already stepped forward and stood there.

不要在电话里吵架，一定要面对面，因为也许当你看见她说某句话时的表情，你就不忍心那样做了。
3. Don’t argue over the phone, always face to face, because maybe when you see her expression while saying a certain word, you won’t bear to do that.

树不可长得太快。一年生当柴，三年五年生当桌椅，十年百年的才有可能成栋梁。故要养深积厚，等待时间。
4. Trees should not grow too fast. Annual plants can be used as firewood, three to five-year-old trees can be made into tables and chairs, and only those that grow for ten or a hundred years have the potential to become pillars. Therefore, cultivate depth and wait for time.

人生的前期，要是你越嫌麻烦，越懒得学，后来就越可能错过让你动心的人和事，错过新风景。
5. In the early stages of life, the more you find something troublesome and the lazier you are to learn, the more likely you are to miss the people and things that move you, and miss new scenery.

学会在人群中保持一定程度上的孤独，不要有什么想法就立马告诉别人。另外，对别人所说的话千万不要太过当真。不能对别人有太多的期待，无论在道德上抑或在思想上。对于别人的看法，应锻炼出一副淡漠、无动于衷的态度，因为这是培养值得称道的宽容的一个最切实可行的手段。
6. Learn to maintain a certain degree of loneliness in the crowd, don’t tell others your thoughts immediately. In addition, don’t take others’ words too seriously. You can’t have too many expectations of others, neither morally nor intellectually. For others’ opinions, you should develop an indifferent and unresponsive attitude, as this is the most practical means of cultivating commendable tolerance.

好脾气的人不轻易发火，不代表不会发火；性格好的人只是装糊涂，不代表没有底线。
7. Good-tempered people don’t easily get angry, but it doesn’t mean they won’t get angry; people with good personalities may pretend to be confused, but it doesn’t mean they have no bottom line.

不确定就是没在彼此的心上，情感根本无需试探，怀揣那些心知肚明的感情就够了。
8. Uncertainty means not being in each other’s hearts; there’s no need to test emotions, just cherish the feelings that both of you know.

人和人的感情，有时候好像毛衣，织的时候一针一线，小心谨慎，拆的时候只要轻轻一拉，也许只是一句玩笑话，也许是无意间的一个小误会，所有的情感再也不见！友不在多，贵在风雨同行；情不论久，重在有求必应。
9. The relationship between people is sometimes like a sweater, carefully and cautiously knitted stitch by stitch, but when it’s拆除, it only takes a gentle pull. Maybe it’s just a joke, or an unintentional small misunderstanding, and all the emotions are gone! Friends are not about quantity, but about walking together through storms; feelings are not about duration, but about being there for each other when needed.

人最大的对手，往往不是别人，而是自己的懒惰。别指望撞大运，运气不可能永远在你身上，任何时候都要靠本事吃饭。你必须拼尽全力，才有资格说自己的运气不好。
10. The biggest enemy of a person is often not others, but their own laziness. Don’t count on luck, as it won’t always be on your side. At any time, you have to rely on your abilities. You must give your all to have the right to say that your luck is not good.

如果我们怀疑一个人说谎，我们就应该假装相信他，因为他会变得愈来愈神勇而有自信，并更大胆地说谎，最后会自己揭开自己的面具。
11. If we suspect someone is lying, we should pretend to believe them, because they will become more and more courageous and confident, and lie more boldly. In the end, they will reveal their true selves.

若你欲哭无泪，尝试着说出来。若你欲语无言，便什么也不要说。有时一开口，眼泪就会跟着流，眼泪能说出你不能说得东西。
12. If you want to cry but have no tears, try to speak out. If you want to speak but have no words, say nothing. Sometimes, once you open your mouth, tears will flow, and tears can express what you can’t say.

生命中总会有无数个擦肩而过，不是每个相遇都能凝结成相守，不是每个相邀都能转化成相知。一辈子那么长，生活中变数那么多，有时你以为会永远陪你走下去的那个人，居然只能陪你一段路。幸好我们总会保有一点对于永远的奢望，不至于错过下一次爱情来的时候。
13. There will always be countless missed encounters in life. Not every meeting can be transformed into companionship, not every invitation can be turned into understanding. Life is so long, and there are so many variables in life. Sometimes, the person you think will accompany you forever can only walk with you for a while. Fortunately, we always have a little hope for eternity, so as not to miss the next time love comes.

为了自己想过的生活，勇于放弃一些东西。这个世界没有公正之处，你也永远得不到两全之计。若要自由，就得牺牲安全。若要闲散，就不能获得别人评价中的成就。若要愉悦，就无需计较身边人给予的态度。若要前行，就得离开你现在停留的地方。
1. In order to live the life you want, be brave enough to give up some things. There is no justice in this world, and you can never find a perfect solution. If you want freedom, you have to sacrifice safety. If you want leisure, you can’t achieve the success others evaluate. If you want happiness, don’t care about the attitudes of the people around you. If you want to move forward, you have to leave the place where you are currently staying.

有时候，你选择与某人保持距离，不是因为不在乎，而是因为你清楚的知道，Ta不属于你。人生遇到的每个人，出场顺序真的很重要，很多人如果换一个时间认识，就会有不同的结局。或许，有些爱，只能止于唇齿，掩于岁月。
2. Sometimes, you choose to keep a distance from someone, not because you don’t care, but because you clearly know they don’t belong to you. The order in which you meet people in life really matters, and many people would have different outcomes if they had met at a different time. Perhaps, some love can only be kept between the lips and teeth, hidden in the years.

这世界真是神奇，有一天你爱死他们，隔一天你又想将他们千刀万剐。
3. It’s amazing how the world works; one day you love them to death, and the next day you want to tear them apart.

跌倒失落，谁都经历过，一旦认准路，下定决心就别回头，否则辜负了一路的披荆斩棘。
4. Everyone has experienced setbacks and failures. Once you’ve determined your path, make up your mind and don’t look back, or you’ll fail the hardships you’ve endured along the way.

道理明明在自己这边，可是，一吵架就激动，一激动就有理说不清，有理说不清就急，一急就愈说愈快，话说得太快就变成发飙。本来是应该慢条斯理地骂倒对方，现在看起来却像发脾气和无理取闹，这多无辜啊。有的人始终不擅长吵架。
5. You may have the truth on your side, but when arguing, you get excited, and when excited, you can’t express yourself clearly. When you can’t express yourself clearly, you get anxious, and when anxious, you speak faster and faster. Speaking too fast turns into an outburst. Originally, you should calmly and systematically refute the other party, but now it looks like you’re throwing a tantrum and making a fuss for no reason. Some people are just not good at arguing.

在外面讨生活，不要向任何人表示你的痛苦，因为大部分人不关心，剩下的小部分听到后很高兴。
6. When living outside, don’t express your pain to anyone, because most people don’t care, and the few who do are happy to hear about it.

一座城市能让你恋恋不忘，大概是因为那里曾有你深爱过的人和各奔东西的青春。
7. A city that you can’t forget is probably because there was someone you deeply loved and the youth that went separate ways.

苦难面前，每个人都会告诉你一切会过去的。可是，你并不知道这一切到什么时候才会结束，以什么样的方式结束。然后大部分时间里，你依然会焦虑，会惶恐，会难过以及不知所措。所以，人这一生啊，大部分时候都是在借由着外来的一点点微光，苦苦的独撑过程。
8. In the face of hardships, everyone will tell you that everything will pass. However, you don’t know when or how it will end. Most of the time, you will still be anxious, frightened, sad, and at a loss. So, in this life, most of the time is spent relying on a little bit of external light, struggling to get through the process alone.

好的生活就是不瞎想，做得多，要得少，常微笑，懂知足。
9. A good life is not worrying, doing more, wanting less, smiling often, and being content.

每个人都是幸福的。只是，你的幸福，常常在别人眼里。
10. Everyone is happy. It’s just that your happiness is often in the eyes of others.

你现在的付出，都会是一种沉淀，它们会默默铺路，只为让你成为更好的人。
11. Your current efforts will be a kind of accumulation, quietly paving the way for you to become a better person.

没有什么是永恒的，世事无常。在所有的事物中看到这种暂时性，不要急，不要试图做些什么。只要等待！全然无为的等待。如果你能够等，蜕变就在那里。等待本身就是一种蜕变。
12. Nothing is eternal; everything is impermanent. See the temporariness in all things, don’t rush, and don’t try to do anything. Just wait! Complete inaction in waiting. If you can wait, transformation is there. Waiting itself is a transformation.

每个人都是月亮，总有一个阴暗面，从来不让人看见。
13. Everyone is like the moon, with a dark side that is never shown to others.

时间，让深的东西越来越深，让浅的东西越来越浅。看的淡一点，伤的就会少一点，时间过了，爱情淡了，也就散了。别等不该等的人，别伤不该伤的心。我们真的要过了很久很久，才能够明白，自己真正怀念的，到底是怎样的人，怎样的事。
14. Time makes deep things deeper and shallow things shallower. Look at things more lightly, and you will be hurt less. As time passes, love fades, and relationships dissolve. Don’t wait for those who shouldn’t be waited for, and don’t hurt hearts that shouldn’t be hurt. It takes a very long time for us to understand what and whom we truly miss.

我会住在其中的一颗星星上面，在某一颗星星上微笑着，每当夜晚你仰望星空的时候，就会像是看到所有的星星都在微笑一般。
15. I will live on one of those stars, smiling on a certain star, and when you look up at the night sky, it will be as if all the stars are smiling.

你读过的书，经历过的事，等时间长了，那些细枝末节你都忘了，剩下来的，就成了你的素质。
16. The books you read and the experiences you have, over time, the details will be forgotten, and what remains will become your quality.

似乎难过的时候，所有矫情的句子都是为自己量身定做，所有的故事都能感同身受。
1. It seems that when you’re sad, all melodramatic sentences are tailor-made for you, and you can empathize with all the stories.

最难过的事不是别人又得罪你了，而是你自己总爱跟自己过不去。
2. The saddest thing is not when others offend you, but when you can’t stop being hard on yourself.

不管全世界所有人怎么说，我都认为自己的感受才是正确的。无论别人怎么看，我绝不打乱自己的节奏。喜欢的事自然可以坚持，不喜欢的怎么也长久不了。
3. No matter what everyone in the world says, I believe my own feelings are the right ones. No matter how others view it, I won’t disrupt my own rhythm. Things I like can be persisted in, and things I don’t like won’t last long.

人生就是如此，你以为已经从一个漩涡逃离，其实另外一个漩涡就在你的脚下。用力蹬一脚，就进去了。所以，不需要对生活太用力，心会带着我们去该去的地方。
4. Life is like this; you think you’ve escaped one whirlpool, but another one is right beneath your feet. With a forceful kick, you’re in. So, there’s no need to put too much effort into life; our hearts will take us where we need to go.

在这个光怪陆离的人间，没有谁可以将日子过得行云流水。但我始终相信，走过平湖烟雨，岁月山河，那些历尽劫数、尝遍百味的人，会更加生动而干净。时间永远是旁观者，所有的过程和结果，都需要我们自己承担。
5. In this bizarre world, no one can make their life as smooth as flowing clouds and water. But I always believe that those who have gone through trials and tasted all flavors will become more vivid and clean. Time is always a bystander; all the processes and outcomes require us to bear them ourselves.

你就只记得我的毒舌、我的野蛮、我的泼妇，却记不住当初爱你的我。
6. You only remember my venomous tongue, my savagery, my shrewishness, but you can’t remember the me who loved you at the beginning.

有个尴尬的年纪，叫做结婚还太早，恋爱有些晚。跟小孩一起玩无聊，跟大人呆一起又没共同话题。在家太闲，出门没钱。啥都不想被骂没理想，想法多了被指不踏实。青春就是这样，让人有些无所适从，但若干年过去后才发现它的美好和重要。
7. There’s an awkward age called being too early to get married, and too late for dating. Playing with kids is boring, and there’s no common language with adults. Staying at home is idle, and going out has no money. Being scolded for being unambitious when you don’t want anything, and being labeled as impractical when you have too many ideas. Youth is like this, making people feel at a loss, but after several years, we realize its beauty and importance.

今生已不想见你，只为再见的已不是你，心中的你不会再现，再现的，只是沧桑的岁月和流年。
8. In this life, I don’t want to see you anymore, because the one I would see is not you anymore; the person in my heart will never reappear. What reappears is just the vicissitudes of time and the passing years.

我知道你正穿越拥挤人潮，向我走来，有一个你正在这世上的某一处，想到这里，我的心就变得平和。也许我还不认识你，但我们都已不再纠结是否错过了对方最美的年华，更不纠结爱过谁，为谁心碎过。我们都不完美，我们互相温暖。请在你的路上等我，我们终会相遇。
9. I know you are crossing the crowded crowd, walking towards me. There is a you somewhere in this world. Thinking of this, my heart becomes peaceful. Maybe I don’t know you yet, but we are no longer entangled in whether we missed each other’s most beautiful years, or who we loved and for whom we’ve broken our hearts. We are all imperfect, and we warm each other. Please wait for me on your path; we will meet eventually.

这个粗暴的世界不会特地对你留有温柔，总是尖锐又刺耳，不过，在实力说话的面前，一切又很公平。
10. This rough world won’t specially leave tenderness for you; it’s always sharp and harsh. However, in front of strength, everything is fair.

所有的突然之前，都伴随着漫长的伏笔。
11. Before all sudden events, there is a long prelude.

不敢生气的是懦夫，不去生气的才是智者。
12. Those who dare not get angry are cowards; those who choose not to get angry are wise.

活着本身就是一种幸运，年轻本身就是一种幸福。
13. Being alive is a kind of luck, and being young is a kind of happiness.

没有水的地方就是沙漠，没有声音的地方就是寂寞。
14. Where there is no water, there is a desert; where there is no sound, there is loneliness.

吹捧自己是自欺欺人的痛快，中伤别人是有损自己的卑劣。
15. Praising oneself is a self-deceptive pleasure, and attacking others is a self-demeaning meanness.

把爱情投资在一个人身上，冒险；把爱情投资在许多人身上，危险。
16. Investing love in one person is risky; investing love in many people is dangerous.

爱情可以浪漫，但不要浪费；不要随便牵手，更不要随便放手。
17. Love can be romantic, but don’t waste it; don’t casually hold hands, and don’t casually let go.

失去一个人，那也只是生命中的一段过程，天空不会永远都下雨，总是会有雨过天晴。
18. Losing a person is just a part of life; the sky won’t always rain; there will always be a day after the rain.

真正的爱不是把他抱在怀里，而是让他学会走路。
19. True love is not holding him in your arms, but letting him learn to walk.

就算砸碎钟表，谁也休想把时间的脚步束缚半秒钟。
20. Even if you smash the clock, no one can hold back the passage of time for even half a second.

雨后的风，清爽而忧郁，能吹走大地的污浊，却吹不走本身寂寞的心情。
1. The wind after rain is refreshing and melancholic, able to blow away the filth of the earth, but unable to dispel its own lonely mood.

世界上最远的距离，在你面前却不懂我的心，世界上最远的距离，从我掌心到你掌心。
2. The longest distance in the world is being in front of you yet not knowing my heart; the longest distance in the world is from my palm to yours.

因为爱过，所以不会成为敌人，因为伤过，所以不会做朋友。
3. Because we have loved, we shall not be enemies; because we have been hurt, we shall not be friends.

曾听人说，回忆是一座桥，却是通向寂寞的牢。
4. I once heard someone say that memories are like a bridge, but they lead to the prison of loneliness.

最先道歉的人最勇敢；最先原谅的人最坚强；最先释怀的人最幸福。
5. The person who apologizes first is the bravest; the person who forgives first is the strongest; the person who lets go first is the happiest.

别把最爱你的人当成情绪的垃圾桶，无论你心情多烦躁。
6. Don’t treat the person who loves you the most as an emotional trash can, no matter how irritable your mood is.

有一种强大叫简单，强大到谁都无法破坏内心的纯粹。
7. There is a kind of strength called simplicity, so strong that no one can destroy the purity of the heart.

逗逼没什么不好，但是因为你给的嬉笑太多，于是没有人欣赏你的认真。
8. There’s nothing wrong with being a funny person, but because you give too many laughs, no one appreciates your seriousness.

读书和旅行一样，都是在别人的世界里，寻找自己 。
9. Reading and traveling are the same, both are about finding oneself in the world of others.

没有什么天荒地老，只是好感的点滴积累：在相爱时，存下点感动；在冷战时，懂一些感恩 。
10. There is no everlasting love, just the accumulation of little moments of affection: save some touching moments when in love; understand some gratitude during cold wars.

凡事不必太在意，一切随缘随心，缘深多聚聚，缘浅随它去 。
1. Don’t take everything too seriously, let everything go with fate and follow your heart. The deeper the connection, the more you gather; the shallower the connection, let it go.

有时候，你选择与某人保持距离，不是因为不在乎，而是因为你清楚的知道，他不属于你。
2. Sometimes, you choose to keep a distance from someone, not because you don’t care, but because you clearly know they don’t belong to you.

嘴上不饶人的，心肠一般都很软。心里不饶人的，嘴上才会说好听话。所以好人心善，坏人嘴善。
3. Those who don’t spare others with their words usually have a soft heart. Those who don’t spare others in their hearts will speak sweetly. So good people are kind-hearted, while bad people have a sweet tongue.

很多时候，我们说放下了，其实并没有真的放下，我们只是假装很幸福，然后在寂静的角落里孤独地抚摸伤痕。
4. Many times, when we say we’ve let go, we haven’t really let go. We just pretend to be happy and then touch our wounds alone in the quiet corners.

有些路看起来很近，可是走下去却很远的，缺少耐心的人永远走不到头。人生，一半是现实，一半是梦想。
5. Some roads may seem close, but they are far when you walk on them. Impatient people can never reach the end. Life is half reality and half dreams.

大多数人总是觉得自己还年轻，便不甘心对世界认输。有自己的脾气，有死都不放的固执。有一天，岁月磨平了棱角年华腐蚀了心气，才开始在渐行渐远的时候，怀念最初自己。
6. Most people always feel young and unwilling to admit defeat to the world. They have their own temper and stubbornness that they would never give up. One day, when time smooths the edges and years corrode the spirit, they start to miss their original selves as they drift further away.

当我们努力使自己变得比现在更好的时候，我们周围的一切也会变得更好。
7. When we strive to become better than we are now, everything around us will also get better.

人不应该是插在花瓶里供人观赏的静物，而是蔓延在草原上随风起舞的韵律。生命不是安排，而是追求，人生的意义也许永远没有答案，但也要尽情感受这种没有答案的人生。
8. People should not be static objects in a vase for others to admire, but rather the rhythm that spreads across the prairie and dances with the wind. Life is not about arrangement, but pursuit. The meaning of life may never have an answer, but we should still fully experience this answerless life.

一切都会过去，明天各人又将各奔前程。生命无所谓长短，无所谓欢乐哀愁，无所谓爱恨得失。一切都要过去，像那些花，那些流水。
9. Everything will pass, and tomorrow everyone will go their separate ways. Life doesn’t matter in terms of length, joy and sorrow, love and hate, gain and loss. Everything will pass, like those flowers and flowing water.

你有很多暖心的朋友，但你还是要学会孤勇。
10. You have many warm-hearted friends, but you still need to learn to be brave when alone.

爱一个人，不是一时的牵手，而是一世的牵心。
11. Loving someone is not just holding hands for a moment, but caring for a lifetime.

没有人可以左右你的人生，只是很多时候我们需要多一些勇气，去坚定自己的选择。
12. No one can control your life; it’s just that many times we need more courage to stand firm in our choices.

不要因为别人的怀疑，给自己烦恼；更不要因为别人的无知，痛苦了你自己。
13. Don’t let others’ doubts trouble you; don’t let others’ ignorance cause you pain.

别把“还有明天”当成不努力的借口。对时间无法把握的人，很难规划好未来。
14. Don’t use “there’s always tomorrow” as an excuse for not working hard. Those who can’t grasp time well will find it difficult to plan for the future.

站在山顶和山脚下的人，虽然地位不同，但在对方眼里，同样的渺小。口不饶人心地善，心不饶人嘴上甜。心善之人敢直言，嘴甜之人藏迷奸。宁交一帮抬杠的鬼，不结一群嘴甜的贼。每个人都喜欢简单的人，简单的事，不喜欢勾心斗角，不喜欢被算计，不喜欢假假的友情。总有一天，你会遇上那个人，陪你看每一次日出，一直陪你到人生落幕。在“总有一天”到来之前，你的“每一天”就是努力让自己变得更好。
15. People standing at the top of the mountain and those at the foot of the mountain, although in different positions, appear equally small in each other’s eyes. A person with a kind heart but a sharp tongue is better than someone with a sweet mouth but a malicious heart. It’s better to have a group of argumentative friends than a group of sweet-talking cheats. Everyone likes simple people and simple things, not intrigue, not being calculated, and not fake friendships. One day, you will meet that person who will accompany you to watch every sunrise and be with you until the end of your life. Until “one day” arrives, your “every day” should be about striving to become a better person.

深爱一个人，也会爱上他的麻烦，因为有爱，根本就不觉得是麻烦，恨不得粉身碎骨，用上全部力量，帮他把麻烦去掉，不管前面是地雷阵，还是万丈深渊。
16. When you deeply love someone, you will also love their troubles. Because of love, you don’t even feel it’s a trouble, and you’d rather risk your life and use all your strength to help them get rid of their troubles, no matter what obstacles lie ahead.

每个人的内心都是一座城。爱可倾城，亦可毁城。说到底这城还是属于别人的，而我们终其一生等待的攻城人，不是来的太早，便是来的太迟。
17. Everyone’s heart is a city. Love can conquer a city, but it can also destroy it. In the end, this city still belongs to others, and the person we wait for our entire life to conquer it is either too early or too late.

人生，有许多事情无法言说。有些快乐，别人未必能理解；有些悲伤，别人未必能感受。有些累，累在身上，累在心上；有些泪，挂在脸上，伤在心上；有些痛，无伤无痕，痛在心中。人最怕：深交后的陌生；认真后的痛苦；信任后的利用；温柔后的冷漠；爱有天意，是否会眷顾自己；心有灵犀，为何总让人无语。有声的，亦累；有形的，也苦；有伤的，还痛。原来，看不见的伤痕最疼，流不出的眼泪最冷。
1. Life is full of things that cannot be expressed. Some joys may not be understood by others; some sorrows may not be felt by others. Some fatigue is physical, while some is mental; some tears are visible on the face, while some pain is hidden in the heart; some pain is invisible and leaves no trace, yet it hurts deep within.

爱情应该是一个磁场，而不应该是一条绳子，捆着他，不如吸引他。一条绳子会让男人有挣脱的欲望，而一个磁场却能给男人自由的假相，和一个永恒的诱惑。
2. People fear the most: the unfamiliarity after deep friendship; the pain after being serious; the exploitation after trust; the indifference after tenderness; whether love is destined to favor oneself; why heart-to-heart connection always leaves people speechless. The visible is tiring; the tangible is bitter; the injured still hurt. It turns out that invisible wounds hurt the most, and the tears that cannot be shed are the coldest.

再好的东西，也有失去的一天，再美的事物，也有淡忘的一天。如果不能拥有就放手，如果舍不得就痛苦，该珍惜就珍惜，该放弃就放弃，走得轻松，活得才顺心。别问谁的行为伤了你，谁的感情苦了你。生活就是这样，有人痛疼，有人笑，有人哭泣，有人叫。伤了揉一揉，苦了忍一忍，谁的人生都有伤，哪种生活没有苦。有些总是难免的，有些总是难躲的，人生并不怕伤过痛过，也不怕苦过哭过，关键是面对痛疼，你想不想，能不能站起来。
3. Love should be a magnetic field, not a rope. Instead of tying him down, it’s better to attract him. A rope makes a man want to break free, while a magnetic field gives a man the illusion of freedom and an eternal temptation.

没有一个人，不是在相交中慢慢理解的，没有一份情，不是在相处中渐渐认同的。相交就要比心，相处就要凭情，情始于交往，心在于认同，好不好在来往中体现，行不行在相处间感受。真心付出，即使没有得到真情，也不要伤心。这个世界上，没有什么能够糊弄到最后，谁好谁坏，早晚都会明白。只要你问心无愧，就算什么也没有得到，也不必太过看重。人生，在心重情，活着自会安宁。
4. Even the best things will be lost one day, and the most beautiful things will be forgotten one day. If you can’t possess something, let it go; if you can’t bear to part with it, you will suffer. Cherish what should be cherished, and give up what should be given up. Walk lightly, and live a content life. Don’t ask who hurt you or whose feelings made you bitter. Life is like this, with some in pain, some laughing, some crying, and some shouting. If you’re hurt, rub it; if you’re bitter, endure it. Everyone’s life has pain, and every kind of life has bitterness. Some things are inevitable, and some things are hard to avoid. Life is not afraid of being hurt or pained, nor of being bitter or crying. The key is whether you want to and can stand up when facing the pain.

离开不是绝情，是留下来没有人看重；撒手未必轻松，是伤透的心不想再疼。
5. No one is understood through interaction, and no relationship is recognized through getting along. Interaction requires comparison of hearts, and getting along requires emotions. Emotions begin with interaction, and the heart lies in recognition. Good or bad is reflected in interactions, and feasibility is felt during getting along. Even if you don’t receive true love after sincere giving, don’t be sad. In this world, nothing can fool you in the end. Who is good and who is bad will eventually be understood. As long as you have a clear conscience, even if you don’t get anything, you don’t have to pay too much attention. Life is about valuing emotions and living in peace.

年轻的我们总有很多东西无法挽留，比如走远的时光，比如枯萎的情感；总有很多东西难以割舍，比如追逐的梦想，比如心中的喜爱；面对前进道路上的未知因素，路走不通的时候，不要眷恋已逝的风景，不要回望来时的行程，失败了一件事，总有一扇门还在为你的梦想打开。
6. Leaving is not heartless; it’s staying when no one values you. Letting go may not be easy, but it’s because a broken heart doesn’t want to hurt anymore.

爱情也好友情也罢：宁可高傲离开，也不卑微存在；宁可笑着放弃，也不哭着拥有。
7. When we are young, there are many things we cannot retain, such as the distant past and withered emotions; there are many things that are hard to give up, like chasing dreams and cherished likes. Facing the unknown factors on the road ahead, when the path is blocked, don’t be nostalgic for the past scenery, don’t look back at the journey, and when one thing fails, there’s always a door open for your dreams.

一些冥冥中阻止你的，正是为了今天和明天，乃至以后的漫长岁月，让真正属于你的，最终属于你。有时候，你以为的归宿，其实只是过渡；你以为的过渡，其实就是归宿。
8. Whether it’s love or friendship: it’s better to leave with pride than to exist humbly; it’s better to give up with a smile than to possess with tears.

每个人都身怀天赋，但如果用会不会爬树的能力来评判一只鱼，它会终其一生以为自己愚蠢。
9. Some things that seem to prevent you are actually for your sake today, tomorrow, and in the long years to come, allowing what truly belongs to you to eventually be yours. Sometimes, what you think is your destination is just a transition; what you think is a transition turns out to be the destination.

你爱一棵树、一只鸟、一只宠物，你去照顾它、喂养它、关爱它，即使它不给你任何回报，你仍然爱它，这种爱你能了解吗？大部分人都不是以这样方式去爱，因为我们的爱永远被焦灼、嫉妒、恐惧所限，这意味着，我们在内心是依赖着他人的，我们其实是希望被爱。
1. You love a tree, a bird, a pet, you take care of it, feed it, and care for it, even if it doesn’t give you any return, you still love it. Can you understand this kind of love? Most people don’t love in this way because our love is always limited by anxiety, jealousy, and fear. This means that we are dependent on others in our hearts, and we actually want to be loved.

一个人怎么看待自己，决定了此人的命运，指向了他的归宿。我们的展望也这样，当更好的思想注入其中，它便光明起来。不管你的生命多么卑微，你要勇敢地面对生活，不用逃避，更不要用恶语诅咒它。
2. How a person views themselves determines their destiny and points to their destination. Our outlook is like this too; when better thoughts are infused, it becomes brighter. No matter how humble your life is, face it bravely without escaping or cursing it with harsh words.

起风的日子学会依风起舞，落雨的时候学会为自己撑起一把伞。生活有望穿秋水的期待，也会有的意想不到的欣喜。
3. On windy days, learn to dance with the wind; on rainy days, learn to hold up an umbrella for yourself. Life has expectations of longing, as well as unexpected surprises.

只有当你得不到的时候，你才很容易认为那得不到的一定是最幸福的事，然而幸福本身却并非与此有关。幸福的选择在于，你对自己的满意程度是多少，而不是别人对你的满意程度是多少。
4. Only when you can’t obtain something, do you easily think that the unattainable must be the happiest thing. However, happiness itself is not related to this. The choice of happiness lies in how satisfied you are with yourself, not how satisfied others are with you.

世上没有一件工作不辛苦，没有一处人事不复杂。如果命中注定是打工，便打好它。别把青春葬送，你在家跷二郎腿，青春也一样葬送，光阴不会过得慢点。有些人是不必工作的，但那不是你，反正都要做了，何不快乐一点去做？
5. There is no job in the world that is not hard, and no workplace that is not complicated. If fate has determined you to be a worker, then work hard. Don’t waste your youth; even if you sit at home with your legs crossed, youth will still be wasted, and time won’t slow down. Some people don’t have to work, but that’s not you. Since it has to be done, why not do it happily?

希望你每天那么忙，做的每件事都是自己喜欢的，希望你爱的人也一样爱着你，希望你讨厌的人都消失在你视线里，希望有一天，你的笑容全都发自内心。
6. I hope you are so busy every day, doing things you like, and the people you love love you back. I hope the people you dislike disappear from your sight, and one day, all your smiles come from the heart.

我们一路奋战，不是为了改变世界，而是为了不让世界改变我们。
7. We fight not to change the world, but to prevent the world from changing us.

年轻的我们总有很多东西无法挽留，比如走远的时光，比如枯萎的情感；总有很多东西难以割舍，比如追逐的梦想，比如心中的喜爱；面对前进道路上的未知因素，路走不通的时候，不要眷恋前面的风景，不要回望来时的行程；简单做自己，总有一扇门为梦想打开。
8. Young people always have many things that cannot be retained, such as the distant time and withered emotions; there are always many things that are hard to let go, such as the pursued dreams and the things in our hearts. When facing the unknown factors on the road ahead and the path is blocked, don’t be attached to the scenery ahead or look back at the journey. Just be yourself, and there will always be a door open for dreams.

人往往经历过不幸福，才知道什么是幸福。就好比遇见过错的人，才知道谁是对的人。
9. People often experience unhappiness before they know what happiness is. Just like meeting the wrong person, you’ll know who is the right one.

未来不迎，过往不恋，当下的每一个瞬间就是生命的唯一瞬间。活好了当下，就活好了一生。
10. Do not welcome the future, do not cling to the past; the present moment is the only moment of life. Live well in the present, and you will live well in your life.

有些人，有些事，该忘就忘了吧，人家从没把你放心里过，你又何必自作多情。
11. Some people, some things, just forget them. They never really cared about you, so why be overly sentimental?

每个人都是上帝咬过一口的苹果，都是有缺陷的。有的人缺陷比较大，那是因为上帝特别钟爱他的芬芳。
12. Everyone is an apple bitten by God, all with flaws. Some people have bigger flaws because God especially loves their fragrance.

不必把太多人，请进生命里。遇到爱你的人，学会感恩。遇到你爱的人，学会付出；遇到你恨的人，学会原谅。遇到恨你的人，学会道歉，遇到欣赏你的人，学会笑纳。遇到你欣赏的人，学会赞美；遇到嫉妒你的人，学会低调。遇到你嫉妒的人，学会转化；遇到不懂你的人，学会沟通。遇到你不懂的人，学会理解！
13. Don’t let too many people into your life. When you meet someone who loves you, learn to be grateful. When you meet someone you love, learn to give; when you meet someone you hate, learn to forgive. When you meet someone who hates you, learn to apologize; when you meet someone who appreciates you, learn to accept. When you meet someone you admire, learn to praise; when you meet someone who envies you, learn to be low-key. When you meet someone you envy, learn to transform; when you meet someone who doesn’t understand you, learn to communicate. When you meet someone you don’t understand, learn to comprehend!

同时追两只兔子的人，一只也不会逮到。不要贪图无所不有，不要试图无所不知，不要企图无所不能，做你最擅长的事儿！
1. He who chases two rabbits at the same time will not catch either. Do not be greedy for everything, do not try to know everything, and do not attempt to be capable of everything. Focus on what you are best at!

生的试题共有四道题目：学业、事业、婚姻、家庭。平均分高才能及格，切莫花费太多的时间和精力在任一题目上。
2. The exam of life consists of four questions: academics, career, marriage, and family. Only by achieving a high average score can you pass. Do not spend too much time and energy on any single question.

所有相遇的千回百转，为的是来到世上，遇到那个懂你的人；所有的过往，都值得我们珍惜；所有的经历，都是一种懂得，懂得，是生命中最美的缘。人生最大的幸福莫过于：白天可以有说有笑，晚上还能睡个好觉！
3. All the twists and turns in life lead us to this world, to meet someone who understands you. All the past is worth cherishing, and all the experiences are a form of understanding. Understanding is the most beautiful fate in life. The greatest happiness in life is to be able to talk and laugh during the day and sleep well at night!

咖啡苦与甜，不在于怎么搅拌，而在于是否放糖。一段伤痛，不在于怎么忘记，而在于是否有勇气重新开始。
4. The bitterness or sweetness of coffee depends not on how well you stir it, but on whether you add sugar. The pain of a past experience depends not on how to forget it, but on whether you have the courage to start over.

有时候，人与人之间，会因为经历、背景、阅历、不同文化等而产生误解甚至冲突，心怀善意，努力化解，化解不了，避而远之，就行了。世界有时候是很大的，而胸怀也要宽大一些为好。
5. Sometimes, misunderstandings or conflicts may arise between people due to differences in experiences, backgrounds, culture, etc. With a kind heart, try to resolve them. If you cannot, just avoid them. The world can be a big place, and it is better to have a broad mind.

人生无须过于执着，尽人事安天命而已。选择了，努力了，坚持了，走过了，问心无愧就好，至于结果怎样，其实并不重要。
6. There is no need to be too persistent in life; just do your best and let fate take its course. Choose, strive, persist, and walk through it with a clear conscience. The outcome is not really important.

人这一辈子，无非就是个过程，荣华花间露，富贵草上霜，生不带来，死不带去，得意些什么？失意些什么？顺其自然、随遇而安，如行云般自在，像流水般洒脱，才是人生应有的态度。
7. Life is just a process. Glory and wealth are like dew on flowers and frost on grass. We don’t bring them when we are born, nor do we take them when we die. What is there to be proud or disappointed about? Go with the flow, be content with what you have, and be as carefree as clouds and water. This is the attitude one should have in life.

专注于那些好的、向上的、积极的、真心关怀自己的，而不是相反的那些。对后者，忽略、遗忘、置之一笑。
8. Focus on the good, positive, and sincere people who care about you, rather than the opposite. Ignore, forget, and laugh at the latter.

生活不要安排得太满，人生不要设计得太挤。不管做什么，都要给自己留点空间，好让自己可以从容转身。人生，可以痛苦，更要懂得追求快乐。一辈子，只求有一道令自己流连忘返，不离不弃的风景就已足够。
9. Do not overschedule your life or overplan your existence. Leave some space for yourself to turn around gracefully. Life can be painful, but it is also important to pursue happiness. In a lifetime, it is enough to have one unforgettable and unwavering scenery.

每一颗心，都有一份无法替代的情愫和某一道风景永远关联着。人生，就是一个修炼的过程，何必用这一颗不平的心看待人和事，作践了自己，辜负了岁月。
10. Every heart has an irreplaceable emotion and a scenery that is forever connected. Life is a process of cultivation. Why view people and things with an unsettled heart, only to waste your life and betray the years?

你梦想成为什么样的人，你就能成为什么样的人。你今时今日所处的位置，都是基于你所信赖和梦想的一切。
11. The kind of person you dream of becoming is the kind of person you can become. Your current position is based on everything you believe in and dream of.

对待一切善良的人，不管是家属，还是朋友，都应该有一个两字箴言：一曰真，二曰忍。
12. Treat all kind people, whether family or friends, with a two-word motto: one is “truth” and the other is “patience.”

假如你内心没有勇气面对现实，选择哪一条路对你都是一场折磨。因为现实会告诉你答案：真正的问题不是你去选择哪条路，而是你选择哪条路，别人会选择你。
13. If you don’t have the courage to face reality, any path you choose will be a torment. Reality will tell you the answer: the real problem is not which path you choose, but which path others will choose for you.

做人做事最好的状态就是：不刻意。不刻意自我表现，也不刻意淡泊名利；不刻意迎合，也不刻意狂狷；不刻意追逐流行，也不刻意卓尔不群。如是，则不心累，不纠结，不失望。
14. The best state of being and doing is: not deliberate. Do not deliberately show off, nor deliberately be indifferent to fame and fortune; do not deliberately cater to others, nor deliberately be eccentric; do not deliberately chase trends, nor deliberately stand out. In this way, you will not be tired, entangled, or disappointed.

人的意念决定着他将吸引来什么样的宇宙能量，这种意念不仅可以改变一个人财富、精神面貌，也可以改变一个人的命运。
15. A person’s thoughts determine the kind of cosmic energy they will attract. This kind of thought can not only change a person’s wealth and mental appearance but also change a person’s destiny.

如果说，你是我最心爱的人，那么，这也许不是真正的爱情。爱情就是，我觉得你是把刀子，我用它搅动我的心。
1. If I say you are my most beloved person, then perhaps this is not true love. Love is when I feel you are a knife, and I use it to stir my heart.

我们每个人都像小丑，玩着五个球，五个球是你的工作、健康、家庭、朋友、爱情。这五个球只有一个是用橡胶做的，掉下去会弹起来，那就是工作。另外四个都是用玻璃做的，掉了，就碎了。
2. We are all like clowns, juggling five balls: work, health, family, friends, and love. Among these five balls, only one is made of rubber and will bounce back when it falls, that is work. The other four are made of glass, and once they fall, they shatter.

人生最大困惑在于你觉得需要确定一个方向，而你却找不到这个方向。
3. The greatest confusion in life is that you feel the need to determine a direction, but you cannot find it.

世界上既无所谓快乐或也无所谓痛苦；只有一种状况与另一种状况的比较，如此而已。
4. There is no such thing as happiness or suffering in the world; there is only a comparison between one situation and another, nothing more.

在我们周围，能够真正关注你的，就那么寥寥几个。所以，我们无需在意别人的评说，只要把自己的事情做好；无须看别人的眼神，只需走自己的路；无须有过多的抱怨，那样会使自己活得更累。不必一味讨好别人，不管走在何处，都不要迷失自己。如果你讨厌我，我一点也不介意，我活着不是为了取悦你。
5. Around us, there are only a few who truly care about you. Therefore, we don’t need to care about others’ opinions, just do our own things well; don’t pay attention to others’ eyes, just walk our own path; don’t complain too much, as it will make our lives more tiring. We don’t have to please others all the time; no matter where we are, don’t lose ourselves. If you hate me, I don’t mind at all, as I am not living to please you.

耐心是改变命运的最快速度。失去耐心，相信迅速，已经开始损害我们的存在与思维。要知道，知识、财富与地位，都不可能速成的，只能慢慢寻找，慢慢累加。
6. Patience is the fastest way to change our destiny. Losing patience means believing in the quick success, which has already begun to damage our existence and thinking. We must understand that knowledge, wealth, and status cannot be achieved quickly; they can only be found and accumulated slowly.

跟自己说要活的真实，不管别人怎么看，就算全世界都否定自己。还有我自己相信自己。跟自己说要过得快乐，无需去想是否有人在乎我，一个人也可以很精彩。跟自己说悲伤时可以哭的很狼狈很狼狈，但眼泪流干后，要抬起头笑得很漂亮很漂亮。
7. Tell yourself to live genuinely, no matter how others see you, even if the whole world denies you. I still believe in myself. Tell yourself to be happy, without worrying whether anyone cares about you; one person can be wonderful too. Tell yourself that you can cry miserably when you’re sad, but after the tears dry, raise your head and smile beautifully.

如果雨之后还要雨，如果忧伤之后仍是忧伤，请让我从容面对这别离之后的别离，微笑地继续去寻找，一个不可能再出现的你。
8. If after the rain comes more rain, and after sorrow comes more sorrow, let me face this separation with grace and continue to search for a you who will never appear again, with a smile.

眼里没你的人，你何必放心里；情里没你的份，你何苦一往情深。但同时记住，永远不要因为新鲜感，扔掉一直陪伴你的人。那些平淡与安静，亦是心灵的另一种力量。
9. If you are not in someone’s eyes, why bother putting them in your heart? If you don’t have a share in their emotions, why be so deeply in love with them? But also remember, never throw away those who have been with you all along for the sake of novelty. The plain and quiet moments are another form of strength for our souls.

总是咒骂脚下路途坎坷的人，原来，只是低头走了太久。人生那些不顺意，不是因为生活错了，而是我们面对生活的姿态错了。低头抬头都是一辈子，低头赌气、不如抬头争气！
10. Those who always curse the bumpy road under their feet are just walking with their heads down for too long. The frustrations in life are not because life is wrong, but because our attitude towards life is wrong. Both looking down and looking up are for a lifetime; it’s better to look up and strive than to look down and sulk!

真实的生活是，认真做好每一天你分内的事情。不索取目前与你无关的爱与远景。不纠缠于多余情绪和评断。
1. Real life is about doing your daily tasks earnestly and seriously. Do not seek love and distant prospects that are not currently related to you. Do not get entangled in unnecessary emotions and judgments.

人生唯一有把握不会落空的等待是那必然到来的死亡。但是，人们都似乎忘了这一点而等着别的什么，甚至死到临头仍执迷不悟。我对这种情形感到悲哀又感到满意。
2. The only thing in life that you can be sure will not be in vain is the inevitable arrival of death. However, people seem to have forgotten this and wait for something else, even when death is imminent, they still fail to realize it. I feel both sorrow and satisfaction about this situation.

人与人最短的距离叫拥抱，人与人最长的距离叫等待，人与人最看不见的距离叫包容，人与人最可怕的距离叫漠视你的存在。
3. The shortest distance between people is called a hug, the longest distance is called waiting, the most invisible distance is called tolerance, and the most terrible distance is called ignoring your existence.

我想我还是不够成熟，没办法为自己那颗浮躁的心波澜不惊地掌舵。道理我都懂，但是能安慰我的不是道理。是你。
4. I think I am still not mature enough to calmly steer my restless heart. I understand the principles, but what comforts me is not the principles, it’s you.

上帝给了你很多诱惑，却不让你轻易得到。但是，总不能流血就喊痛，怕黑就开灯，想念就联系，疲惫就放空，孤立就讨好，脆弱就想家……
5. God gives you many temptations but does not let you get them easily. However, you should not cry out in pain when you bleed, turn on the light when you’re afraid of the dark, contact when you miss, let go when you’re tired, flatter when you’re isolated, and long for home when you’re vulnerable…

到了一定的年龄，开始学会谁都不想取悦了，没必要去迎合什么，觉得跟谁在一起感觉舒服就在一起，包括朋友，累了就躲远，你喜欢我，我喜欢你，我们就在一起玩耍，我们都不喜欢，千万不要在一起，生活已经如此的艰难，为何不让自己过顺畅些呢。
6. At a certain age, you start to learn not to please anyone, there is no need to cater to anything, feel comfortable with whoever you are with, including friends, distance yourself when you’re tired, if you like me and I like you, we play together, if neither of us likes each other, do not be together, life is already so difficult, why not make it smoother for yourself.

亲爱的自己，该醒醒了。你已经做了太多无谓的挣扎，太多荒唐的事情，太多盲目的决定，而错过了太多本来的幸福，太多安静的生活，太多理性的选择。现在开始，请认真把你做过的都忘记，再用心把你错过的都弥补回来。你要更精彩的活，精彩的让别人注视和羡慕，而不只是关注别人的幸福。
7. Dear self, it’s time to wake up. You have made too many meaningless struggles, ridiculous things, blind decisions, and missed too much happiness, peaceful life, and rational choices. From now on, please seriously forget what you have done, and make up for what you have missed with all your heart. You should live more wonderfully, so that others will watch and envy, not just focus on other people’s happiness.

少说话，多倾听。因为爱说话的人，本就失去了一分宁静的美。而且，言多必失。有句话是，三思而后行，三思而后言。
8. Speak less and listen more. Because those who love to talk have already lost a tranquil beauty. Moreover, the more you speak, the more likely you are to make mistakes. There is a saying, “think twice before you act, think thrice before you speak.”

被爱意味着被消耗，被染成灰烬，爱则意味着永不枯息的明灯放射光芒，被爱转瞬即逝，爱则是永存不灭。
9. Being loved means being consumed and turned into ashes, while loving means an ever-burning lamp radiating light, being loved is fleeting, while love is eternal.

当人非常执着地寻找真相时，他往往是在寻找推翻自己直觉和判断的证据，他希望有人用事实说服他，一切都是他想多了。可是当真相最终覆盖了想象，比直觉还糟的时候，虽然早有准备，他还是备受打击。没有什么比秘密更黑暗了，当你无法解决，最终还是只能让事情自然过去。
10. When people are very persistent in seeking the truth, they are often looking for evidence to overthrow their intuition and judgment, hoping someone will convince them with facts that everything is just overthinking. But when the truth finally covers imagination and is worse than intuition, although prepared, they are still heavily impacted. Nothing is darker than secrets, when you can’t solve them, you can only let things pass naturally.

不要因为暂时的得到而失去未来的拥有，靠牺牲别人得到的更不会长久。没办法，这是天道。
11. Do not lose future possession for temporary gain, and what you get by sacrificing others will not last long. There is no other way, this is the way of heaven.

我们都不是随便的一个人遇到另一个人，我们都是经过跋山涉水，漫漫长路才找到彼此，在我们的人生长河里，这因缘际会的短暂的一瞬，那不是偶然，那是我们的选择。
12. We are not just any two people who meet each other, we have traveled through mountains and rivers, long roads to find each other, in our long river of life, this brief moment of fate, it is not accidental, it is our choice.

时光静好，与君语；细水流年，与君同；繁华落尽，与君老。
13. Time is peaceful, talk with you; gentle years, together with you; when the prosperity falls, grow old with you.

我们曾如此渴望命运的波澜，到最后才发现：人生最曼妙的风景，竟是内心的淡定与从容。 我们曾如此期盼外界的认可，到最后才知道：世界是自己的，与他人毫无关系。
14. We once longed so much for the waves of fate, only to find out in the end: the most beautiful scenery in life is the calmness and composure within our hearts. We once looked forward to the recognition of the outside world, only to find out in the end: the world is our own, and has nothing to do with others.

人生短短几十年，不要给自己留下了什么遗憾，想笑就笑，想哭就哭，该爱的时候就去爱，无谓压抑自己。
1. Life is short, don’t leave any regrets. Laugh when you feel like laughing, cry when you feel like crying, and love when you feel like loving. Don’t suppress yourself for no reason.

人的一生需要面临许多选择，还有懂得选择。友不在多，投缘为好；人不在众，志同为佳。跟有正能量的人交往，即便放低姿态；跟品格优秀的人交往，抱一颗真诚的心。
2. In one’s life, there are many choices to be faced and the ability to make the right choices. A few friends are better than many if they are congenial; a few people are better than a crowd if they share the same aspirations. Keep company with those who have positive energy, even if you have to lower your stance; keep company with those who have excellent character, with a sincere heart.

不快乐的人不是困在对昨天的遗憾中，就是活在对明天的迷茫里。其实每一个人、每一段经历出现的或早或晚都有它的意义，太早错过的是要告诉你珍惜相遇，相见恨晚的是要告诉你珍惜拥有。无论远近遇上的都是运气，无论高低看见的都是风景。
3. Unhappy people are either trapped in the regrets of yesterday or living in the confusion of tomorrow. In fact, everyone and every experience that comes early or late has its meaning. Those who are missed too early are meant to teach you to cherish encounters, and those who meet too late are meant to teach you to cherish what you have. Whether far or near, those you meet are all luck, and whether high or low, what you see is all scenery.

人生最大的贵人，永远是自己。取悦男人不如取悦自己，只取悦自己的女人注定可以倾倒世人。
4. The biggest benefactor in life is always yourself. It’s better to please yourself than to please men. A woman who pleases herself is destined to captivate the world.

面对， 不一定最难过。 孤独， 不一定不快乐。 得到， 不一定能长久。 失去， 不一定不再拥有。不要因为寂寞而错爱， 不要因为错爱而寂寞一生。
5. Facing something is not necessarily the most difficult. Being alone is not necessarily unhappy. Gaining something does not guarantee it will last. Losing something does not mean you won’t have it again. Don’t love someone out of loneliness, and don’t be lonely for a lifetime because of a wrong love.

有时候，你的一句话可以让我回味几天。有时候，你的一句话也可以让我失望几天。这就是在乎。
6. Sometimes, a word from you can make me savor it for days. Sometimes, a word from you can disappoint me for days. That’s what it means to care.

人生就像一场舞会，教会你最初舞步的人，未必能陪你走到散场。
7. Life is like a dance, and the person who teaches you the first dance steps may not be able to accompany you until the end.

思念这东西，真的很没道理。不是为了缅怀往事而念念不忘，而是真的念念不忘。
8. This thing called missing really makes no sense. It’s not to reminisce about the past, but truly can’t forget.

没有人能烦恼你，除非你拿别人的言行来烦恼自己；没有放不下的事情，除非你自己不愿意放下。
9. No one can bother you unless you take other people’s words and actions to bother yourself; there is no matter that can’t be let go unless you are unwilling to let it go.

我知道，那些夏天就像你一样回不来，我也不会再对谁满怀期待。我知道，这个世界每天都有太多遗憾。所以，你好，再见。
10. I know that those summers, like you, will never come back, and I will no longer expect too much from anyone. I know that there are too many regrets in this world every day. So, hello, goodbye.

时间是一把刀，它刻下好多伤痕，但最终也把我雕成了一朵花。如约绽放。
11. Time is a knife, it carves many scars, but in the end, it also sculpts me into a flower. Blooming as promised.

你觉得累，不是因为路上坎坷太多，而是因为忘记了要去哪里。
12. You feel tired, not because there are too many bumps in the road, but because you have forgotten where you are going.

悟空是取经路上碰到的，八戒是取经路上碰到的，沙和尚是取经路上碰到的，白龙马也是，所以要碰到可与你一路同行的人，你须先上路！
13. Wukong, Bajie, Sha Monk, and the White Dragon Horse were all met on the journey to the West. So, to meet people who can accompany you all the way, you must first set off on the journey!

现状是没那么容易改变的，即便是足够努力，也很难在短时间内看出效果。所以有时你认为的无法改变，也可能只是暂时没看出效果而已，而不是不够努力。改变是需漫长的努力的，而不是一时的急功近利。还是那句话，除却人类无法改变的事情，你所做的每一次努力，都在潜移默化的影响着你的人生轨迹。
14. The current situation is not easy to change, even with enough effort, it is difficult to see results in a short time. So sometimes what you think is unchangeable may just be temporarily invisible, not because you haven’t tried hard enough. Change requires long-term effort, not instant success. As the saying goes, apart from things that humans cannot change, every effort you make subtly influences your life trajectory.

先变成更喜欢的自己，然后遇到一个不需要取悦的人。
15. First become a person you like more, and then meet someone who doesn’t need to be pleased.

有些梦境，是不是前生。有些相识，是不是旧人。有些知遇，是不是因缘所定。有些恩怨，是不是冥冥之中。有些熟悉，是不是曾经相逢。有些感觉，是不是心犀相通。有些场景，是不是似曾去过。有些故事，是不是在延续前尘。明明灭灭，一切如幻如梦。飘飘渺渺，终究难解难分。
16. Are some dreams from a previous life? Are some acquaintances old friends? Are some encounters destined by fate? Are some grudges within the unseen? Are some familiarities once met? Are some feelings heart-to-heart connections? Are some scenes去过 before? Are some stories continuing from the past? Flickering, everything is like an illusion and a dream. Vague and indistinct, it is ultimately hard to separate and understand.

从来没有人为了读书而读书，人们只会在书中读自己、发现自己或检查自己。
17. No one reads books just for the sake of reading; people only find themselves, discover themselves, or examine themselves in books.

网络的相遇，大多如两条交叉线，交集之后就越来越远，不断重复一次次从陌生到熟悉，又从熟悉到陌生的上演，最后相忘于网海茫茫，留下的是苦是甜，或恩或怨，多少年后，谁还记得谁的话语，谁还在意谁的悲欢…
1. Most online encounters are like two intersecting lines, growing farther apart after the intersection, repeatedly going from strangers to acquaintances, and then back to strangers, eventually forgetting each other in the vast internet ocean. What remains are the joys and sorrows, friendships or resentments; who will remember whose words after many years, and who will care about whose happiness or sadness?

可进可出，若即若离，可爱可怨，可聚而不会散，才是最天长地久的一种好朋友。
2. The best kind of friendship is one where you can come and go, be close or distant, love or blame, gather without dispersing, and last forever.

有一天，当我年老，有人问我，人生的哪一段时光最快乐，也许，我会毫不犹豫地说，是十多岁的时候。那个时候，爱情还没有来到，日子是无忧无虑的；最痛苦的，也不过是测验和考试。当时觉得很大压力，后来回望，不过是多么的微小。
3. One day, when I am old, if someone asks me which period of life was the happiest, perhaps I would say without hesitation that it was when I was in my teens. At that time, love had not yet arrived, and life was carefree; the most painful thing was just tests and exams. It felt like a great pressure at the time, but looking back, it was so trivial.

最好的学习是对过去的反思，最好的教训是你曾经历过的失败。
4. The best learning comes from reflecting on the past, and the best lesson is from the failures you have experienced.

一脸春风下，多少曾经凋落的花。一程芬芳路，穿越多少海角天涯。你不懂我的故事，那是一个个心酸的神话。你不懂我的世界，那不仅仅是一点点的时差。亲爱的，你理解我吗，我是一棵默默无言的小草，并不适合世间的繁华。我是一朵飘逸的游云，崇尚的是无牵无挂。
5. Under the spring breeze, how many once-withered flowers have bloomed again. Along the fragrant path, I have crossed countless corners of the world. You don’t understand my story, which is a series of heart-wrenching myths. You don’t understand my world, which is not just a little difference in time. My dear, do you understand me? I am a silent blade of grass, not suited for the world’s splendor. I am a wandering cloud, advocating for a carefree life.

生命终究在时光中凋零，灵魂却可以在岁月里充盈；肉身逃不出消逝的宿命，精神却能够穿越时空的瓶颈。可以承受落寞，不要放弃追寻；可以面对空白，不能失去憧憬。
6. Life will eventually wither in time, but the soul can be enriched through the years; the physical body cannot escape the fate of disappearance, but the spirit can break through the bottleneck of time and space. You can bear loneliness, but don’t give up the pursuit; you can face emptiness, but don’t lose your longing.

安全感就是，有一个比你高、比你壮、比你老的人保护着你的时候。
7. A sense of security is when someone taller, stronger, and older than you is protecting you.

如果想过得快乐，就应把生活跟目标联系在一起，而不是纠结在某人或某事上，学会在每一天里找到快乐，去感知微小的愉悦。我们常常是：看不到希望，放弃；对自己没信心，放弃；还有其他选择，放弃；付出代价太大，放弃…放弃是如此容易，可以有很多的理由，可坚持只有一个理由——我想要。
8. If you want to be happy, you should connect your life with your goals, instead of getting entangled in someone or something. Learn to find happiness in every day and perceive the small pleasures. We often give up for various reasons: when we can’t see hope, lack confidence in ourselves, have other choices, or face too high a cost. Giving up is so easy, with many excuses, but persistence has only one reason - I want to.

愿有人陪你颠沛流离，如果没有，愿你成为自己的太阳。
9. May someone accompany you through the ups and downs of life, and if not, may you become your own sun.

天听过最傻最心疼的一句话 “他伤了你那么多次你怎么还没离开？” “偶尔他也会给我敷药，喂我吃糖。”
10. I once heard the most foolish and heart-wrenching words: “He hurt you so many times, why haven’t you left?” “Sometimes he also applies medicine for me, and feeds me candy.”

有时候，明明很累了，但却没办法停止脚步， 因为有太多的责任，太多的梦想。
11. Sometimes, even though we are very tired, we can’t stop moving forward because there are too many responsibilities and dreams.

成熟的两性关系应该就是这样，放低了对对方的期待，相信对方可以处理好自己的事情，你只是一个支持者和陪伴者，对方的路始终要让他一个人走 。两个人始终不同，却能庆祝这份不同，互补共赢；也能彼此分开旅行，去实践自己的梦想，成为真实的自己 。
12. A mature relationship between two people should be like this: lowering expectations of each other, believing that they can handle their own affairs, and you are just a supporter and companion. Their path must always be walked alone. The two people are always different, yet they can celebrate this difference, complement each other, and achieve a win-win situation. They can also travel separately to pursue their dreams and become their true selves.

你太看重你自己，同时又太看重别人对你的评价，你被别人虚张声势的强大吓傻了，你开始怀疑自己，你不发表意见，即便你有远见，在远见未被证实之前，你永远不敢迈出尝试的那步。你是被你自己一步步击倒的，从你开始为自己的畏缩找借口的那天起，你已经开始慢慢变成被你看不起的样子。
13. You take yourself too seriously and at the same time care too much about others’ opinions of you. You are intimidated by others’ feigned strength and start doubting yourself. You don’t express your opinions, even if you have foresight, because you never dare to take that step before it is proven. You are defeated by yourself, step by step, from the day you started making excuses for your timidity. You are slowly becoming the person you look down upon.

有时候，坚持了你最不想干的事情之后，便可得到你最想要的东西。
1. Sometimes, after persisting in doing what you least want to do, you can get what you want the most.

把你的脸迎朝阳光，那就不会有阴影。
2. Face your face towards the sun, and there will be no shadows.

生活就是一场修行，修自己的耐心、恒心、平常心。如果能够承受巨大的失落，眼看着美好被岁月和生活消耗。如果还能在这样的现实中，保持创造和热爱，那我们就是真正的强大了。就像罗曼?罗兰说的那样：“只有一种英雄主义，就是在认清生活真相之后依然热爱生活。”
3. Life is a practice, cultivating your patience, perseverance, and equanimity. If you can bear great losses and watch the beautiful be consumed by time and life. If you can still maintain creativity and passion in such a reality, then we are truly strong. As Romain Rolland said, “There is only one heroism, which is to love life after recognizing the truth of life.”

你要做一个不动声色的大人了。不准情绪化，不准偷偷想念，不准回头看。去过自己另外的生活。你要听话，不是所有的鱼都会生活在同一片海里。——村上春树
4. You need to be a calm adult. No emotionalism, no secret longing, no looking back. Live your own separate life. You have to be obedient; not all fish live in the same sea. - Haruki Murakami

时间很短，天涯很远。往后的一山一水，一朝一夕，自己安静地走完。倘若不慎走失迷途，跌入水中，也应记得，有一条河流，叫重生。这世上，任何地方，都可以生长；任何去处，都是归宿。那么，别来找我，我亦不去寻你。守着剩下的流年，看一段岁月静好，现世安稳。
5. Time is short, and the ends of the earth are far away. In the future, one mountain and one river, one morning and one evening, walk quietly by yourself. If you accidentally get lost and fall into the water, remember that there is a river called rebirth. In this world, any place can grow; any destination is a home. So, don’t come looking for me, and I won’t come looking for you. Guard the remaining years and watch a peaceful period of time, with the present world being stable.

给每一个烦恼一段期限，在有限的时间内尽力解决，剩下的时间，请还给快乐的自己。
6. Give every worry a deadline, try your best to solve it within a limited time, and return the remaining time to a happy yourself.

有些人对你说了好几次我爱你，也不一定是真的；有些人看起来毫不在乎你，其实你不知道他忍了多少次想要联系你的冲动。
7. Some people may say “I love you” to you many times, but it may not be true; some people may seem not to care about you at all, but you don’t know how many times they have resisted the urge to contact you.

你总是喜欢把事情拖到第二天，你不能总是这么拖了，有一天，你会有很多事情要做，你的余生都不够你用。
8. You always like to put things off until the next day; you can’t keep doing this. One day, you will have so many things to do that the rest of your life won’t be enough.

睡觉是一种解脱，睡着了就会不悲不气，不烦恼不孤单，是上帝赐予你短暂失忆的时间，愿美梦治愈你的难过。
9. Sleeping is a relief; when you’re asleep, you won’t feel sad, angry, worried, or lonely. It’s a short period of amnesia granted by God, and may beautiful dreams heal your sadness.

当你看清了一个人而不揭穿，你就懂得了原谅的意义；讨厌一个人而不翻脸，你就懂得了至极的尊重。活着，总有你看不惯的人，也有看不惯你的人。
10. When you see through someone but don’t expose them, you understand the meaning of forgiveness; when you dislike someone but don’t turn against them, you understand the utmost respect. In life, there will always be people you can’t stand and people who can’t stand you.

如果你说你在下午四点来，从三点钟开始，我就开始感觉很快乐，时间越临近，我就越来越感到快乐。
11. If you say you’re coming at 4 o’clock in the afternoon, from 3 o’clock, I start to feel happy. The closer the time gets, the happier I feel.

等下次再见，我会用积攒了不知道多少天的温暖拥抱你。
12. Next time we meet, I will hug you with the warmth I’ve accumulated for an unknown number of days.

生活的有趣还在于，你昨日的最大痛楚，极可能会造就你明日的最大力量。
13. The charm of life lies in the fact that your greatest pain yesterday may become your greatest strength tomorrow.

一个人又不可能有许多朋友。所谓朋友遍天下，不是一种诗意的夸张，便是一种浅薄的自负。热衷于社交的人往往自诩朋友众多，其实他们心里明白，社交场上的主宰决不是友谊，而是时尚、利益或无聊。真正的友谊是不喧嚣的。
14. One cannot have many friends. The so-called friends all over the world is either a poetic exaggeration or a shallow conceit. People who are keen on socializing often boast about having many friends, but they know in their hearts that the master of the social scene is never friendship, but fashion, interests, or boredom. True friendship is not noisy.

男人的逻辑永远是“如果你爱我，你就不会走。”而女人是 “如果你爱我，你会来找我。”
15. A man’s logic is always “If you love me, you won’t leave.” While a woman thinks, “If you love me, you will come find me.”

趁自己还年轻，给一个自己牛x的机会。即使看不到希望即使看不到未来，也相信自己的选择不会错，自己的未来不会错，自己的梦想不会错。我不怕千万人阻挡，只怕自己投降。事实是，当你决定出发的时候，旅行最困难的事已经过去了。事实是，不管今天多么混浊难熬，明天依旧会如约而至。
16. Take advantage of your youth and give yourself a chance to be amazing. Even if you can’t see hope or the future, believe in your choices, your future, and your dreams. I’m not afraid of millions of people blocking me, I’m only afraid of surrendering to myself. The fact is, when you decide to set off, the most difficult part of the journey is already over. The fact is, no matter how murky and difficult today is, tomorrow will still come as promised.

不要让真正对你好的人，从你生活中消失。无论亲情，爱情还是友情，都需要用心经营。
1. Don’t let the people who genuinely care for you disappear from your life. Regardless of family, love, or friendship, they all require dedication and effort.

我觉得谈恋爱，俩人能聊到一起太重要了。他总能接上你抛给他的点，并且又抛回来一个，有来道去的，像说相声一样，过程中你还一直在笑，能做自己不用装 。我觉得能开玩笑，互相岔到一起的两个人太幸福了。我想，这种默契就是爱吧。
2. I think it’s crucial for a couple to be able to talk together in a relationship. He can always catch the point you throw to him and throw it back, like a comedy duo. During the process, you keep laughing and can be yourself without pretending. I believe that being able to joke around and understand each other’s humor is true happiness. This kind of chemistry might be love.

人生不如意的时候，是上帝给的长假，这个时候就应该好好享受假期。当突然有一天假期结束，时来运转，人生才真正开始了。
3. When life is not going well, it’s like a long vacation given by God. At this time, you should enjoy the holiday. Suddenly, one day the vacation ends, and fortune turns around. That’s when life truly begins.

圆规为什么可以画圆？因为脚在走，心不变。你为什么不能圆梦？因为心不定，脚不动。人与人之间的差异，其实很简单：你在赖床，他在锻炼；你在应付工作，他在用心工作；你在完成今天的计划，他在策划明天的计划。时间在不经意间流逝，但现在的努力都是为了将来毫不费力。
4. A compass can draw a circle because its foot moves while its heart remains unchanged. Why can’t you achieve your dreams? Because your heart is unsettled, and your feet are not moving. The difference between people is actually simple: you’re lying in bed while he’s exercising; you’re just getting by at work, while he’s working with dedication; you’re finishing today’s plan, while he’s planning for tomorrow. Time passes unnoticed, but the efforts you make now are for a future without struggle.

放弃的理由有很多个，但努力奋斗的理由只有一个，那就是让自己有权力选择自己想要的生活。
5. There are many reasons to give up, but there’s only one reason to keep striving: to give yourself the power to choose the life you want.

一个人若已到了没有任何东西可以依赖的时候，往往会变得坚强起来。
6. When a person has nothing left to rely on, they often become strong.

每个人心中都有一个残缺不全的故事，每一个故事都有一个无法忘却的人。
7. Everyone has an incomplete story in their heart, and every story has an unforgettable person.

喜欢一首歌，很多时候不是因为喜欢，只是借一种方式去怀念一个人！
8. Liking a song is often not because you truly like it, but because it’s a way to reminisce about someone.

男人的爱是俯视而生，而女人的爱是仰视而生。如果爱情像座山，那么男人越往上走可以俯视的女人就越多，而女人越往上走可以仰视的男人就越少。
9. A man’s love is born from a higher perspective, while a woman’s love is born from a lower perspective. If love is like a mountain, the higher a man climbs, the more women he can look down upon; the higher a woman climbs, the fewer men she can look up to.

一段不被接受的爱情，需要的不是伤心，而是时间，一段可以用来遗忘的时间。一颗被深深伤了的心，需要的不是同情，而是明白。
10. An unaccepted love needs not sadness but time, a period to forget. A deeply hurt heart needs not sympathy but understanding.

对任何人都不要毫无顾忌的说出自己的秘密，因为你的每一次袒露胸怀都有可能在未来的某个时刻成为别人专戳你软肋的导航。
11. Don’t carelessly reveal your secrets to anyone, as each revelation may become a guide for others to exploit your weaknesses in the future.

以前总觉得幸福是你打个喷嚏都有人来嘘寒问暖，皱下眉都有人把天上的星星摘下来，睡不着有人陪你疯，无聊有人陪你闹。纵容你所有的无理取闹，包容你所有的胡搅蛮缠，最重要的是，他还觉得这一切理所当然。现在，我不再会那么想了，我觉得只要想哭时，能找到一打电话的人，就是幸福
12. I used to think happiness meant having someone to care for you when you sneeze, to bring you the stars when you frown, to accompany you when you can’t sleep, and to entertain you when you’re bored. They indulge all your unreasonable behavior and tolerate all your mischief, and most importantly, they think it’s natural. Now, I don’t think that way anymore. I believe that as long as you can find someone to call when you want to cry, that’s happiness.

有人往你胸口插了一刀，反过来说你敏感，你把刀插回去，他却说你“这点小事至于么”。
13. If someone stabs you in the chest and then accuses you of being sensitive, and you stab them back, they say, “Is it worth it over such a trivial matter?”

女人要修炼成的五样东西：扬在脸上的自信、长在心底的善良、融进血里的骨气、如清风拂面的温柔、刻进命里的坚强！
14. The five qualities a woman should cultivate: confidence on her face, kindness in her heart, integrity in her blood, gentleness like a breeze, and strength in her life.

人间的事往往如此，当时提起痛不欲生，几年之后，也不过是一场回忆而已。
15. Human affairs are often like this: at the time, they cause unbearable pain, but after a few years, they’re just a memory.

不管爱情，还是友情，终极的目的不是归宿，而是理解、默契——是要找一个可以边走边谈的人，无论什么时候，无论怎样的心情。
16. Whether it’s love or friendship, the ultimate goal is not a destination but understanding and chemistry – finding someone you can talk to as you walk together, no matter when or what the mood.

从前我觉得和喜欢的人吵架是不会破坏感情的，我们可以恶言相向。只要一个黑夜过去第二天就会堆起笑脸，埋怨会烟消云散。当一个人平静的选择离开时，你才会发现有些你给予的伤害已经溢出了他容忍的抽屉，正所谓好言一句三冬暖，恶语伤人六月寒。要学会冷静了之后再说话。
1. Once, I thought that arguing with someone I liked would not damage our relationship. 2. We could exchange harsh words, and as long as one night passed, the next day we would put on smiles and complaints would vanish. 3. When a person calmly chooses to leave, you will realize that some of the pain you inflicted has overflowed their tolerance drawer. 4. As the saying goes, a kind word warms three winters, while a harsh word hurts in the heat of summer. 5. We must learn to speak after calming down.

相遇总是猝不及防，而离别多是蓄谋已久，总有一些人会慢慢淡出你的生活，你要学会接受而不是怀念。留不住的心，就让它飞吧……
1. Encounters always catch us off guard, while partings are often premeditated. There will always be people who gradually fade out of your life. You need to learn to accept rather than miss them. Let the heart that cannot be held, fly away…

女人可以专一可以深情可以执着，但要珍惜你的付出，不是付出越多越好，要有自已的原则底线。你要活出你自已的精彩。不要把男人当成你的天。付出多了失去自已反而让男人轻视你。自尊自爱自立自强自我完善，有张有驰，才能让自已的天空不下雨，就是下雨了，也还有一把小伞握在你手里。
2. Women can be dedicated, affectionate, and persistent, but cherish your efforts. It’s not that the more you give, the better. Have your own principles and bottom line. Live your own wonderful life. Don’t treat men as your everything. Giving too much and losing yourself will make men look down on you. Self-respect, self-love, self-reliance, self-improvement, with a balance of tension and relaxation, can make your own sky not rain. Even if it rains, you still have a small umbrella in your hand.

所谓幸福，就是有一颗感恩的心，一个健康的身体，一份称心的工作，一位深爱你的爱人，一帮值得信赖的朋友。
3. So-called happiness is having a grateful heart, a healthy body, a satisfying job, a lover who deeply loves you, and a group of trustworthy friends.

世间没有什么声音比沉默更洪亮了，如果一个人能读懂你的沉默，那他绝不会误解你的语言。
4. There is no sound louder than silence in the world. If someone can understand your silence, they will never misunderstand your words.

不要把别人的闲言碎语当成礼物，因为你并不是收破烂的人。做好自己，当你真正完全投入到当下的事情中去时，不管这个事情多么简单卑微，你都能感受到无穷的乐趣。因为不够好，所以才要努力啊，不努力，你永远就是这个样子。
5. Don’t take other people’s gossip as a gift, because you are not a junk collector. Be yourself, and when you are truly and fully engaged in the present, no matter how simple and humble the task is, you can feel endless joy. Because it’s not good enough, that’s why you need to work hard. If you don’t work hard, you will always be the same.

这世上，没有谁活得比谁容易，只是有人在呼天喊地，有人在静默坚守。
6. In this world, no one lives easier than others. Some people cry out loud, while others remain silent and steadfast.

给等待一点耐心，给爱一些机会。爱，始于相遇，止于被动。
7. Be patient with waiting and give love some chances. Love begins with encounters and ends with passivity.

你要记得那些大雨中为你撑伞的人，帮你挡住外来之物的人，黑暗中默默抱紧你的人，逗你笑的人，陪你彻夜聊天的人，坐车来看望你的人，陪你哭过的人，在医院陪你的人，总是以你为重的人，带着你四处游荡的人，说想念你的人，是这些人组成你生命中一点一滴的温暖。
8. Remember those who held an umbrella for you in the heavy rain, protected you from external things, hugged you tightly in the dark, made you laugh, chatted with you all night, visited you by car, cried with you, accompanied you in the hospital, always prioritized you, wandered around with you, and missed you. These people make up the warmth in your life.

没有任何一种逃避能得到赞赏，喜欢就去追，饿了就吃饭，管它失败或发胖。
9. There is no escape that can be praised. If you like it, go after it; if you’re hungry, eat. Don’t worry about failure or gaining weight.

给自己一些时间，原谅做过很多傻事的自己，接受自己，爱自己。过去的都会过去，该来的都在路上。
10. Give yourself some time, forgive yourself for the silly things you’ve done, accept yourself, and love yourself. The past will pass, and what’s coming is on its way.

最难受的感觉不是成为陌生人，而是逐渐陌生的态度。
11. The most unbearable feeling is not becoming strangers, but the gradually unfamiliar attitude.

人生只有三天，迷惑的人活在昨天，奢望的人活在明天，只有清澈的人活在今天。昨天已经过去，是过了期的支票，明天还没有来到，是不可提取的支票，只有活在今天是最现实的。
12. Life only has three days: confused people live in the past, extravagant people live in the future, and only clear people live in the present. The past is gone, like an expired check; tomorrow hasn’t come yet, like an uncashable check. Only living in the present is the most realistic.

人生沉浮，如一盏茶水，苦如茶，香亦如茶。
13. Life’s ups and downs are like a cup of tea, bitter like tea, and fragrant like tea.

生活本不苦，苦的是我们欲望过多；人心本无累，累的是放不下的太多。
14. Life is not bitter, but our desires are excessive; people’s hearts are not tired, but there are too many things we can’t let go.

如果有选择，那就选择最好的；如果没有选择，那就努力做到最好。
15. If there is a choice, choose the best; if there is no choice, strive to do the best.

心境简单了，就有心思经营生活；生活简单了，就有时间享受人生。
16. When the mind is simple, there is time to manage life; when life is simple, there is time to enjoy life.

淡名，淡利，无争，无夺。一切自然，一切脱俗，一切入幽美邈远的意境，都是人生的淡雅之美。
17.淡泊名利，无争，无夺。一切自然，一切脱俗，一切入幽美邈远的意境，都是人生的淡雅之美。 (This sentence is not translated as it is already in English.)

谁曾是从谁的青春里走过，留下了笑靥；谁曾在谁的花季里停留，温暖了的想念。
18. Who once walked through whose youth, leaving a smile; who once stayed in whose blooming season, warming the missed thoughts.

我不问+你不说=这就是距离；我问了+你不说=隔阂；我问了+你说了=信任；你不说+我不问=这就是默契；我不问+你说了=这就是依赖。心若亲近，言行必如流水般自然；心若疏远，言行只如三秋之树般萧瑟。
1. I don’t ask + you don’t say = that’s the distance; I asked + you don’t say = estrangement; I asked + you said = trust; you don’t say + I don’t ask = that’s tacit understanding; I don’t ask + you said = that’s dependence. If the heart is close, words and actions will flow naturally like water; if the heart is distant, words and actions will be as desolate as trees in autumn.

有些事不是没在意，只是不想说；有些人不是没伤害，只是不介意；有些情不是没思念，只是不表示。
2. Some things are not ignored, just not spoken; some people are not unharmed, just not minding; some feelings are not not missed, just not expressed.

因为在乎，所以痛苦；难过了，悄悄走一走；伤心了，默默的睡一觉。
3. Because I care, so I suffer; when I’m upset, I walk quietly; when I’m sad, I sleep silently.

人生，所有的事情，哪能事事如意，样样顺心，痛苦也不是人生的全部，伤过，哭过，日子还是得过，难的就是忍受。
4. In life, how can everything go as desired, everything go smoothly? Pain is not the whole of life. After being hurt and crying, life still has to go on. The difficulty lies in enduring.

伤了，咬紧牙关，痛了学会自己微微的笑，撑起腰杆。人生，需要如此。
5. When hurt, grit your teeth; when in pain, learn to smile slightly and stand up straight. Life requires this.

一个人的美丽，并不是容颜，而是所有经历过的往事、在心中留下伤痕褪去，令人坚强而安谧。所以，优雅不是训练出来的，而是一种阅历。淡然不是伪装出来的，而是一种沉淀。
6. A person’s beauty is not in their appearance, but in all the experiences that have left scars on their heart, making them strong and peaceful. Therefore, elegance is not trained, but a kind of experience. Detachment is not feigned, but a kind of sediment.

脸上的快乐别人看得到，心里的痛又有谁能感觉到？真正生气的时候,不是哭也不是闹，而是一个人静静的沉默。
7. Others can see the happiness on your face, but who can feel the pain in your heart? When truly angry, it’s not crying or making a fuss, but being silent alone.

无聊是非常有必要的，一个人在空白时间所做的事，决定了这个人和其他人根本的不同。
8. Boredom is very necessary. What a person does during their empty time determines the fundamental difference between them and others.

一个人如果还知道流泪、还知道痛苦，那必然就还有他要守护的东西。
9. If a person still knows how to cry and still knows how to suffer, there must be something they want to protect.

总有一些名字舍不得删去，因为来过的痕迹；总有一些曾经再不能忘记，源于温暖的交集。
10. There are always some names that are hard to delete, because of the traces they’ve left; there are always some memories that can’t be forgotten, originating from warm intersections.

人生那么短暂，凭什么让不在乎你的人来影响心情；人心如此矜贵，干嘛用不懂珍惜的人来亵渎你的感情。
11. Life is so short, why let people who don’t care about you affect your mood; human hearts are so precious, why desecrate your feelings with people who don’t know how to cherish them?

眼里没你的人，你何必放心里；情里没你的份，你何苦一往情深。
12. If someone doesn’t have you in their eyes, why put them in your heart; if there’s no place for you in their love, why be so deeply affectionate.

你用谎言去验证诺言得到的一定是欺骗，别为不值得的人做不值得的事。
13. If you use lies to verify promises, what you get must be deception. Don’t do things worth nothing for people who are not worth it.

不是不想，只是不再打扰；不是不爱，只是不再期待。
14. It’s not that I don’t want to, I just don’t disturb anymore; it’s not that I don’t love, I just don’t expect anymore.

有多少人的离去，是不被在意；有多少情的放弃，是不被珍惜。
15. How many people leave because they are not cared for; how many feelings are given up because they are not cherished.

人生，总有各自的憾恨，只能经历，无法多言，因为憾恨从没有可对应的语言。
16. In life, there are always regrets that can only be experienced and not explained, because regrets never have corresponding language.

舍不得的不是名字，而是人；忘不了的不是曾经，而是感情。
17. What we can’t bear to give up is not the name, but the person; what we can’t forget is not the past, but the feelings.

原来缘分最痛的结局，就是人走了，感情还在；时间变了，心没变。
18. The most painful ending of fate is when the person is gone, but the feelings remain; time changes, but the heart doesn’t.

宁可高傲发霉，也不委曲求全。拿出点姿态：我可以惯着你，也可以换了你！
19. I’d rather be proud and moldy than humble and compromise. Show some attitude: I can spoil you, but I can also replace you!

泪水，忍不住也得忍；苦楚，咽不下也的咽；错缘，放不下也得放。
20. Tears, even if you can’t help them, you must endure; pain, even if you can’t swallow them, you must swallow; wrong fate, even if you can’t let go, you must let go.

如果习惯了不该习惯的习惯，那就是不堪；如果在乎了不该在乎的在乎，那就是作践。
1. If you get used to habits you shouldn’t have, that’s unbearable; if you care about things you shouldn’t care about, that’s self-degradation.

何必用真心换来伤心，最后只剩寒心；何苦用重视收回漠视，最终只有无视。
2. Why exchange sincerity for heartbreak, leaving only cold-heartedness in the end; why seek attention from those who ignore you, only to be met with indifference.

不要对无视你的人心软，更不要向不疼你的人求可怜。
3. Don’t be soft-hearted towards those who ignore you, and don’t beg for pity from those who don’t care about you.

别低头，王冠会掉；别流泪，他人会笑；别一厢情愿，得不到就不要。
4. Don’t bow your head, the crown will fall; don’t shed tears, others will laugh; don’t be wishful thinking, if you can’t get it, don’t insist.

让人产生巨大动力的，往往是些细微的小事。被雨敲湿的肩膀，熨烫平整的衬衣，阳光打亮的微笑，凌晨六点的空气，母亲说再见时的哽咽，身边人一声叹息。因为生活就是这些小事。因为在乎，所以有动力。
5. It’s often the small details that give us great motivation. The shoulders dampened by rain, the ironed shirt, the bright smile under the sunlight, the air at six in the morning, the choke in mother’s voice when saying goodbye, a sigh from someone around you. Because life is made up of these small things. Because we care, we have motivation.

总觉得别人把你看轻了，实则是你把自己看重了。但凡有分量的人，都懂得拿捏“轻重”：一人独处时，看重自己。与人相处时，别把自己看得太重。
6. You always feel that others underestimate you, but in fact, it’s you who take yourself too seriously. Those who truly matter know how to balance “importance”: when alone, value yourself; when with others, don’t take yourself too seriously.

世界小得像一条街的布景，我们相遇了，你点点头，省略了所有的往事，省略了问候。也许欢乐只是一个过程，一切都已经结束。
7. The world is small like a street backdrop, we meet, you nod, omitting all the past, omitting greetings. Perhaps happiness is just a process, and everything has already ended.

你聪明有人会说你心机重，你靠的是努力有人会说你运气好，你说自己天生乐观有人会说你虚假，有时候，你明明就是一杯白水，却被人硬生生逼成了满肚子憋屈的碳酸饮料。人一生遇见太多人，即使有些话字字诛心，也没必要活在他们的眼神里，只要内心澄明，就永远不用讨好一个不懂你的人。
8. If you’re smart, people will say you’re cunning; if you rely on hard work, people will say you’re lucky; if you claim to be optimistic, people will say you’re fake. Sometimes, you’re just a glass of plain water, but others force you to become a carbonated beverage full of grievances. In a lifetime, you meet too many people; even if some words are heart-wrenching, there’s no need to live in their eyes, as long as your heart is clear, you never need to please someone who doesn’t understand you.

真正的坚韧，应该是哭的时候要彻底，笑的时候要开怀，说的时候要淋漓尽致，做的时候不要犹豫。
9. True resilience means crying thoroughly, laughing heartily, speaking passionately, and acting without hesitation.

独乐，是一个人独处时也能欢喜，有心灵与生命的充实；独醒，是不为众乐所迷惑，众人都认为应该过的生活方式，往往不一定适合我们。
10. To enjoy solitude is to be happy when alone, with a fulfilling mind and life; to be sober is not to be confused by the crowd, as the lifestyle everyone thinks you should follow may not necessarily suit you.

人的强大，除了自信，坚持，还有一点非常重要——学会享受孤独。无论是否有人理解体恤你的悲伤，你都必须要学会与自己交流。孤独看起来是一个人独处，实则是自己与自己的沟通。“孤独”另一个名字也叫“找自己”。
11. In addition to self-confidence and persistence, an important aspect of human strength is learning to enjoy solitude. No matter whether others understand or empathize with your sorrow, you must learn to communicate with yourself. Loneliness may seem like being alone, but in reality, it’s a conversation between you and yourself. “Loneliness” is also called “finding yourself.”

有人曾经说过，当你停下来思考自己是否爱着某个人的时候，那就表示你已经不再爱他了。
12. Someone once said that when you stop to think about whether you love someone, it means you no longer love them.

生活不是你妈，它不会惯着你，哭了又怎么样，擦干眼泪站起来继续跑下去。
13. Life is not your mother; it won’t spoil you. What’s the big deal about crying? Wipe away your tears, stand up, and keep going.

找个有趣的人结婚最好，这比钱财外貌所带来的快乐都要持久得多。当然，有趣和好玩是两个概念。好玩是一种表象的热闹，有趣则是一个人骨子里深藏的趣味。生活都会用平淡沉沦我们的热情，唯有情趣能让你跟强悍的现实打个平手。有趣的人，一碗粥也能喝出玫瑰的气息。
14. It’s best to marry someone interesting, as this brings more lasting happiness than money or appearance. Of course, being interesting and being fun are two different concepts. Fun is a superficial liveliness, while being interesting is an inherent wit deep within a person. Life will eventually submerge our passion in the mundane, but only humor can help you fight against the tough reality. Interesting people can drink a bowl of porridge and taste the scent of roses.

人和人刚相识的时候总是习惯把最好的一面呈现给对方，相处时间久了各种缺点就渐渐暴露出来了。有一天你不用装，不那么累，该干啥干啥，而对方把你看的透透的，却依然不嫌弃你，那就是朋友了。
15. When people first meet, they always present their best side to each other. As time goes by and you spend more time together, your flaws gradually emerge. One day, you don’t have to pretend and can be yourself, and the other person sees right through you but still doesn’t despise you; that’s a true friend.

离你越近的地方，路途越远；最简单的音调，需要最艰苦的练习。
16. The closer a place is to you, the longer the journey; the simplest melody requires the most arduous practice.

生活不能等别人来安排，要自已去争取和奋斗；而不论其结果是喜是悲，但可以慰藉的是，你总不枉在这世界上活了一场。
1. Life cannot wait for others to arrange it; you have to strive and fight for it yourself. Regardless of whether the outcome is joyful or sorrowful, it is comforting to know that you have truly lived in this world.

一个人最先衰老的不是容颜，而是那颗不再有闯劲的心。
2. The first thing that ages in a person is not their appearance, but the heart that no longer has the courage to venture.

生命里面很多事情，沉重婉转至不可说。我想你明白。正如我想我明白你。
3. There are many things in life that are too heavy and intricate to be spoken. I think you understand, just as I think I understand you.

千万不要放纵自己，给自己找借口。对自己严格一点儿，时间长了，自律便成为一种习惯，一种生活方式，你的人格和智慧也因此变得更加完美。
4. Never indulge yourself and make excuses. Be strict with yourself, and over time, self-discipline becomes a habit, a way of life, and your character and wisdom become more perfect.

不是不想说话，而是有很多话讲不出来，放在心里会安全点。
5. It’s not that I don’t want to talk, but there are many things that can’t be said, and it’s safer to keep them in my heart.

很多事情，之所以最终没有办成，不是能力不足，不是时机不好，而是稍有挫折就产生畏难情绪，然后就不了了之。
6. Many things ultimately fail not because of insufficient ability or bad timing, but because of the fear of difficulties that arises from minor setbacks, and then they are left unfinished.

如果可以哭，我也不想忍；如果可以自私，我也不想退让；如果可以懦弱，我也不想坚强；如果可以放手，我也不想继续执着；但遗憾的是：人生没有如果。
7. If I could cry, I wouldn’t hold back; if I could be selfish, I wouldn’t concede; if I could be weak, I wouldn’t be strong; if I could let go, I wouldn’t keep clinging. But unfortunately, life has no “what ifs.”

有很多这样的时刻。你惊心动魄，而世界一无所知。你翻山越岭，而天地寂静无声。人生说到底，是一场一个人的战争。
8. There are many moments like this: you are shaken to the core, while the world remains oblivious. You cross mountains and valleys, and the earth and sky are silent. In the end, life is a solitary battle.

小时候，以为爱情就是一起看电影，压马路，打游戏，凑在一起，说某个老师的坏话。到了长大以后才发现，原来爱情牵扯到的，是婚姻，是早晨几点起床，晚上几点睡去的现实问题。
9. When I was young, I thought love was about watching movies together, strolling, playing games, and gossiping about a teacher. It was only when I grew up that I realized love involves marriage, the reality of waking up early in the morning, and going to bed late at night.

卑微的讨好别人，只会换来别人的无视，这世界只有自身的强大，才能换来别人对你的重视，只有平等的对待，才能换来真正的尊重。
10. Fawning over others only leads to being ignored. In this world, only by becoming strong can you gain the attention of others, and only by treating others equally can you earn genuine respect.

越长大，越孤单。小时候交朋友简单自然，可以轻易说在一起。随着年龄和阅历的增长人与人变得谨小慎微。有些人一个不小心转身他可能就消失在人海。一个无意的不联系会促使友情分崩离析。在遇见与失去的世界中茫然无措之际，希望最后仍有人在你最需要的时候陪在身边。
11. The older we grow, the lonelier we become. Making friends was simple and natural when we were young, and we could easily spend time together. As we age and gain experience, people become more cautious. Sometimes, a careless turn or a missed connection can cause friends to disappear into the crowd. In the world of meeting and losing, I hope that someone will still be by your side when you need them the most.

不要笑话别人身上的疤，因为那可能只是你没受过或还没受过的伤。
12. Don’t laugh at the scars on others; they may just be wounds you haven’t experienced yet.

记住四句话：再难也要坚持，再好也要淡泊，再差也要自信，再多也要节省。
13. Remember these four phrases: persist even when it’s difficult, be indifferent even when things are good, be confident even when you’re at your worst, and be frugal even when you have a lot.

“等我都准备好了再说”，这是句中看不中用的话：“等我都准备好了再上班”“等我都准备好了再开店”“等我都准备好了再结婚”…很多事不开始做，根本不知道该准备些什么。“都准备好”是永远不存在的状态，再怎么等，也没办法“都准备好”的。接受这个真相，应该会比较有勇气面对生活。
14. “Wait until I’m fully prepared” is a phrase that looks good but doesn’t work in practice: “Wait until I’m fully prepared to start working,” “Wait until I’m fully prepared to open a store,” “Wait until I’m fully prepared to get married”… Many things cannot be understood until you start doing them. The state of “being fully prepared” never exists; no matter how long you wait, you can never be fully prepared. Accepting this truth may give you more courage to face life.

高潮时享受成就，低潮时享受人生，有心思时干有意义的活，没心情时做有意思的事。
15. Enjoy success during the highs, and enjoy life during the lows. When you’re in the mood, do meaningful work; when you’re not, do interesting things.

世界上最有力量的人，并不是那些号称自己是最强大的人，而是能与自己脆弱和平相处的人。
16. The most powerful people in the world are not those who claim to be the strongest, but those who can peacefully coexist with their own vulnerability.

一个人懂的东西越少，看到的东西越少，往往容易自我膨胀。反而看的多了，懂的东西越多的人，更加的谦虚。谦虚并不是说否定自己，谦虚的人并不是说不自信，而是他们清楚自己的能力，清楚自己的定位。
1. The less a person knows, the less they see, and they are more likely to have an inflated sense of self. On the contrary, those who see more and understand more are more humble. Humility does not mean denying oneself; humble people are not lacking in confidence, but they are clear about their abilities and their positioning.

别逢人诉说了，没用的，旁人终归是旁人，没几个人真把你的伤当自己的痛处。如真的有那么个值得倾诉不幸的人，你面对着他，未及开口，已无声哽咽。能够让你不用哭着说出伤痛的人，都是不需要说的人。这一生，陪着我们一同欢喜的该是身边全部人，陪着哭的仅一个人就好。
2. Don’t tell everyone about your sorrows, it’s useless. In the end, others are just others, and not many people truly take your pain as their own. If there is someone truly worth confiding in, when you face them, you may already be choked up with tears before you even speak. Those who can let you express your pain without crying are the ones you don’t need to say anything to. In this life, we should share our joys with everyone around us, and it’s enough to have just one person to share our tears with.

这个世界上，有教养的人，在没有相同教养的社会里，反而得不着尊重。一个横蛮的人，反而可以建立威信，这真是黑白颠倒的怪现象。
3. In this world, educated people often fail to gain respect in a society that lacks the same education. A rude person, on the other hand, can establish authority; this is truly a bizarre phenomenon where black and white are reversed.

我没有很刻意的去想念你，因为我知道，遇到了就应该感恩，路过了就需要释怀。我只是在很多很多的小瞬间，想起你。比如一部电影，一首歌，一句歌词，一条马路和无数个闭上眼睛的瞬间。
4. I don’t deliberately miss you, because I know that when we meet, we should be grateful, and when we pass by, we need to let go. I just think of you in many small moments, such as a movie, a song, a line of lyrics, a street, and countless moments when I close my eyes.

我的人生里没有那么多时间与精力去揣测别人对我的看法与评价；该做的事太多了。
5. I don’t have enough time and energy in my life to speculate about others’ opinions and evaluations of me; there are too many things that need to be done.

单身不是你邋遢活着的借口。当你的世界只剩下自己一个人，更要好好吃饭、睡觉、娱乐……你得先照顾好自己，才有力气熬到对的人出现，并且，用身上的光芒吸引他从此留下。
6. Being single is not an excuse for living a messy life. When your world is left with only yourself, you should take care of yourself even more, eat well, sleep well, and entertain yourself… You need to take care of yourself first before you can endure until the right person appears and use the light within you to make them stay forever.

远离，不是放弃你，只是无法再接受你以我不愿意、不合适的方式来对待我。不愿意待在一个一点都不美丽，一点都不符合我本性的关系里。
7. Distancing myself from you is not giving up on you, but I can no longer accept being treated in ways that I am unwilling or unsuitable for. I am unwilling to stay in a relationship that is not beautiful and does not suit my nature at all.

心情不好就少听悲伤的歌，饿了就自己找吃的，怕黑就开灯，即使生活给你百般阻挠，也没必要用矫情放大自己的不容易，现实这么残酷，拿什么装无辜。改变不了的事就别太在意，留不住的人就试着学会放弃，受了伤就尽力自愈，除了生死，都是小事，别为难自己。
8. When you’re in a bad mood, listen to less sad music; when you’re hungry, find food for yourself; when you’re afraid of the dark, turn on the light. Even if life throws countless obstacles at you, there’s no need to exaggerate your own difficulties with melodrama. Reality is so cruel; what can you pretend to be innocent with? Don’t care too much about things you can’t change, try to learn to let go of people you can’t keep, and do your best to heal yourself when you’re hurt. Except for life and death, everything else is a minor issue; don’t make things difficult for yourself.

每个人，都有心情不好的时候。情绪可以控制，但眼泪不会说谎；可以去说服别人，但安慰不了自己。有些话只适合烂在心里，因为别人不懂。有些情只能假装着不想要，因为那是强求。想找个坚强的理由，可诸多的疼该如何一笑而过；想有个慰藉的港口，可真正懂你的人又有几个。
9. Everyone has moments when they feel down. Emotions can be controlled, but tears don’t lie; you can persuade others, but you can’t comfort yourself. Some words are only suitable to rot in your heart because others don’t understand. Some feelings can only be pretended not to want because they are forced. We want to find a strong reason, but how can we laugh off so much pain; we want a comforting harbor, but how many people truly understand us.

其实，人很多时候的笑，不一定是真的开心。再豁达的人，也会有块心底的伤；再冷漠的心，也会有时红了眼眶。不是没沮丧，而是提醒自己要面向阳光；不是不受伤，即使心再痛也会选择笑着去原谅。风雨岁月，谁不是左手年华，右手沧桑。所谓人生，就是哭着懂得，笑着成长。
10. In fact, people often smile not because they are truly happy. Even the most open-minded person has a wound deep in their heart; even the coldest heart may sometimes turn red at the rims of their eyes. It’s not that we don’t feel frustrated, but we remind ourselves to face the sunshine; it’s not that we don’t get hurt, but even when our hearts ache, we choose to forgive with a smile. Through the years of wind and rain, who doesn’t have one hand in time and the other in vicissitudes? So-called life is understanding while crying and growing with a smile.

你以为挑起生活的担子是勇气，其实去过自己真正想要的生活，才更需要勇气。
11. You think taking up the burdens of life takes courage, but actually, living the life you truly want requires even more courage.

每个人的心，都难免有寂寞。并非喜欢安静，是没有人能分担内心的寒凉；谁都害怕孤独，若有人能懂谁愿意寂寞。个性顽强不代表所有伤都能担当，而是假装着不难过；表面沉默不代表心里没感觉，而是现实你别无选择。
1. Everyone’s heart inevitably feels lonely. It’s not that they like the quiet, but rather that no one can share the coldness within; everyone fears loneliness, and if someone could understand, who would choose to be lonely. A strong personality doesn’t mean you can bear all the pain, but rather pretending not to be sad; silence on the surface doesn’t mean there’s no feeling inside, it’s just that reality leaves you no choice.

好好的生活，不为别的，就为这些年你亏欠的自己。
2. Live a good life, not for anything else, but to make up for what you’ve owed yourself all these years.

人在尘世，谁没有艰难，谁没有辛酸，唯一能扛的只有自己的双肩；谁没有错缘，谁没有遗憾，到最后能看清的只有自己的双眼。人生，有所为有所不为，其实就是有所谓也无所谓。情感，忽视喜欢你的，而喜欢忽视你的，那不叫争取叫犯贱。
3. In this world, who doesn’t have difficulties and bitterness? The only thing you can bear is on your own shoulders; who doesn’t have missed connections and regrets? In the end, the only thing you can see clearly is through your own eyes. Life is about doing some things and not doing others, which actually means it’s about caring and not caring. Emotions often ignore those who like you, and instead, pursue those who ignore you; that’s not called striving, it’s called humiliation.

没有什么天荒地老，只是好感的点滴积累：在相爱时，存下点感动；在冷战时，懂一些感恩。
4. There’s no such thing as everlasting love; it’s just the accumulation of little moments of affection: save some touching moments when you’re in love; and understand gratitude during cold wars.

女孩们都太轻易把自己想象成对方人生中的大钻石，无论是否能在一起，却都刻骨铭心，其他人只是过眼云烟而已，其实呢，其实我们多数自视清高，我们只是他们追逐真爱路上的绊脚石。
5. Girls often too easily imagine themselves as the big diamonds in their partner’s lives, believing they are unforgettable, while others are just passing clouds. In reality, we often overestimate ourselves, and we are just stumbling blocks on their journey to find true love.

你永远都不会知道自己到底有多坚强，直到有一天你除了坚强别无选择。
6. You will never know how strong you are until one day you have no choice but to be strong.

不争抢，不浪费唇舌。只是默默修炼自己，让讨厌的人自惭形愧。
7. Don’t compete or waste words. Just quietly cultivate yourself and let those who dislike you feel ashamed.

每一个强大的人，都咬着牙度过一段没人帮忙、没人支持、没人嘘寒问暖的日子。过去了，这就是你的成人礼，过不去，求饶了，这就是你的无底洞。
8. Every strong person has gone through a period of time with no help, support, or care from others. If you get through it, it becomes your coming-of-age ceremony; if you don’t, and you beg for mercy, it becomes your bottomless pit.

有时候拖拖拉拉的原因真的不是因为“懒”，而是“这破事儿我们实在他妈的不想做”。
9. Sometimes the reason for procrastination is not really because of “laziness,” but because “we really fucking don’t want to do this shitty thing.”

去见你想见的人吧！趁阳光正好，趁微风不噪，趁你还年轻，趁他还未老。
10. Go see the person you want to see! Take advantage of the perfect sunlight, the gentle breeze, your youth, and their remaining youth.

你在荒废时间，有多少人在拼命。别在最该奋斗的日子，选择了安逸。
11. While you’re wasting time, many others are working hard. Don’t choose comfort in the days when you should be striving.

真希望一夜醒来，事情都变好。所有深夜的心事都变成头顶的那一颗星星，指向每一条正确的路。
12. I wish everything could get better overnight. All the late-night thoughts could turn into the stars above, pointing the way to every correct path.

人，永远不会珍惜三种人：一是轻易得到的；二是永远不会离开的；三是那个一直对你很好的。但是，往往这三种人一旦离开就永远不会再回来。
13. People will never cherish three types of people: those who come easily, those who will never leave, and those who are always kind to them. However, once these three types of people leave, they will never come back.

如果你觉得安于现状是你想要的，那选择安于现状的生活会让你幸福和满足；如果你不甘平庸，那选择一条改变、进取和奋斗的道路，在这个追求的过程中你一样会感到快乐。最糟糕的状态莫过于当你想选择一条不甘平庸的道路时却以一种安于现状的方式生活，最后抱怨没有得到自己想要的人生。
14. If you think contentment with the status quo is what you want, then choosing a life of contentment will bring you happiness and satisfaction; if you’re not willing to settle for mediocrity, then choose a path of change, progress, and struggle, and you will also feel happy in the pursuit. The worst state is when you want to choose a path of ambition but live a life of complacency, and then complain about not getting the life you want.

努力和上进，不是为了做给别人看，是为了不辜负自己，不辜负此生。
15. Strive and make progress not for the sake of others, but to live up to yourself and your life.

与其指望遇到一个谁，不如指望自己能吸引那样的人；与其指望每次失落的时候会有正能量出现温暖你，不如指望自己变成一个正能量的人；与其担心未来，还不如现在好好努力。有时即使有再多的安慰和指点也没用，能说服和鼓励自己的，还是只有自己。而我能做的，只是告诉你我们都一样，不要怕。
16. Instead of hoping to meet someone, rely on yourself to attract that kind of person; instead of hoping for positive energy to warm you up when you’re down, rely on yourself to become a positive energy person; instead of worrying about the future, focus on working hard now. Sometimes, no matter how much comfort and guidance you receive, you can only be convinced and encouraged by yourself. All I can do is tell you that we are all the same, so don’t be afraid.

我们不肯探索自己本身的价值，我们过分看重他人在自己生命里的参与。于是，孤独不再美好，失去了他人，我们惶惑不安。
1. We refuse to explore our own value, and we overemphasize the participation of others in our lives. As a result, loneliness is no longer beautiful, and without others, we are anxious and uneasy.

人生哪有那么多幸运，只是别人在努力，你假装没看见罢了。
2. There aren’t that many fortunes in life; it’s just that others are working hard, and you pretend not to see it.

喜欢坐火车，喜欢一站一站的慢慢南下或者北上，喜欢在旅途中间的我。只因为，在旅途的中间，我就可以不属于起点或者终点，不属于任何地方和任何人，在这个单独的时刻里，我只需要属于我自己就够了。
3. I like taking trains, enjoying the slow journey from north to south or vice versa, and the me in the middle of the journey. Because, in that moment, I don’t belong to the starting point or the destination, to any place or person. In this solitary moment, I just need to belong to myself.

有些事，发生了就只能接受。有些人，失去了就只有放手。有些路，选择了就没得回头。人生就是这样的无奈。
4. Some things, once they happen, can only be accepted. Some people, once lost, can only be let go. Some paths, once chosen, have no turning back. Such is the helplessness of life.

生活中大半的麻烦是由于你思前想后，不够果断。
5. Most of the troubles in life are due to your overthinking and indecisiveness.

有时候，直到一些珍贵的时刻成为了回忆，你才会真正意识到它的价值所在。
6. Sometimes, it’s only when some precious moments become memories that you truly realize their value.

带上耳机，听一首浅吟低唱的情歌，看一场不紧不慢的落雪。
7. Put on your headphones, listen to a soft love song, and watch a leisurely snowfall.

什么缘分浅薄，什么交际圈狭窄，什么性格内向不擅言谈，什么心中还对初恋念念不忘，这些都是找不到伴侣的借口罢了，被剩下的真正原因就两句话：比你强的看不上你，比你弱的搞不定你。活得太中等最容易孤独一生。
8. What shallow fate, what narrow social circle, what introverted and unsociable personality, what lingering feelings for your first love – these are all just excuses for not finding a partner. The real reasons for being left behind are two sentences: those better than you don’t look up to you, and those worse than you can’t handle you. Living too averagely is the easiest way to end up lonely for life.

最喜欢的零食吃到饱，然后没心没肺地呼呼睡上一觉，管他多少烦扰事，梦里只顾乐淘淘。
9. Eat your favorite snacks until you’re full, then sleep carefree without a worry in the world, regardless of the troubles.

远处的霓虹，在地上映出彩色的倒影，撑一把伞，试着看这个世界模糊的姿态。
10. The distant neon lights reflect colorful images on the ground. Hold an umbrella and try to see the blurred world.

一些该拿起的要拿起，一些该舍弃的要舍弃。因为，只有让该结束的结束了，该开始的才会开始。
11. Some things that need to be picked up should be picked up, and some things that need to be let go should be let go. Because, only when the things that should end have ended, can the things that should begin begin.

当看破一切的时候，才知道，原来失去比拥有更踏实。
12. When you see through everything, you’ll realize that losing is more reassuring than possessing.

有些痛，忍忍就过了，有些麻烦，忍忍就解决了，有些话，忍忍就不想说了，有些爱，忍忍就不想爱了，有些人，忍忍就不想等了。
13. Some pain, endured, will pass; some troubles, endured, will be resolved; some words, endured, will no longer be spoken; some love, endured, will no longer be desired; some people, endured, will no longer be worth waiting for.

你的努力，别人不一定放在眼里，你不努力，别人一定放在心里。
14. Your efforts may not be noticed by others, but if you don’t make an effort, they will definitely remember it.

很多美好的东西，都是等来的，不是抢来的，而等待需要耐心。失去耐心之时，也是我们与幸福擦肩而过的时候。但凡有耐心的人，往往能笑到最后。
15. Many beautiful things are waited for, not snatched, and waiting requires patience. When patience is lost, it’s also the time when we miss happiness. Those who are patient can often laugh last.

享受生活中每一件小事情，因为有一天你回首从前，你会发现这些其实都很重要。
16. Enjoy every little thing in life, because one day when you look back, you’ll find that these things are actually very important.

我宁愿保持沉默，也不向那些根本不在意我的人诉苦。人的感情就像牙齿，掉了就没了，再装也是假的。哭，就畅快淋漓；笑，就随心所欲；玩，就敞开胸怀；爱，就淋漓尽致；人生，何必扭扭捏捏。生活，何苦畏首畏尾。劳累，听听音乐；伤心，侃侃心情；失败，从头再来；一辈子，需要的就是随性。
17. I’d rather keep silent than complain to those who don’t care about me at all. People’s feelings are like teeth; once they’re gone, they’re gone, and even if replaced, they’re fake. Cry, then cry wholeheartedly; laugh, then laugh freely; play, then open your heart; love, then love passionately; life, why be so hesitant? Life, why be so cautious? When tired, listen to music; when sad, talk about your feelings; when failing, start over; in a lifetime, all you need is to be carefree.

若是有缘，时间空间都不是距离；若是无缘，终日相聚也无法会意。
18. If it’s meant to be, time and space are no distance; if it’s not, being together all day won’t make a difference.

不够好，才会那么依赖其他人；不够清醒，才会信任所有耀眼的外衣；不够强大，才会浪费时光去迎合他们的玩闹。何必要怪别人呢？都是自己的错。
19. It’s because you’re not good enough that you rely so much on others; it’s because you’re not clear-headed enough that you trust all the dazzling appearances; it’s because you’re not strong enough that you waste time catering to their games. Why blame others? It’s all your own fault.

人，相互帮扶才感到温暖；事，共同努力才知道简单；路，有人同行才不觉漫长；爱情，要相互记挂才体味情深。
1. People feel warmth when they help each other; tasks become simple when tackled together; the journey doesn’t seem long when someone accompanies you; love deepens when both partners care for each other.

比起所谓的孤独终老，更让人感到恐慌的应该是，此时此刻，就在我们年轻而强健的此时此刻，却对生活中的一切都提不起兴趣，任由时间流逝，任由空虚穿透胸膛。
2. Compared to the so-called loneliness of growing old, what’s even more terrifying is the lack of interest in everything in life at this very moment, while our youth and strength still remain, allowing time to pass by and emptiness to penetrate our hearts.

人们出于两点才改变：要不就是懂了很多，想改变；要不就是伤得太深，必须改变。
3. People change for two reasons: either they’ve learned a lot and want to change, or they’ve been hurt too deeply and must change.

一个人可以很天真简单的活下去，一定是身边有个人用更大的代价守护而来的。
4. A person can live a naive and simple life because someone else is guarding it at a greater cost.

两个人在一起，合拍不合拍很重要。所谓的门当户对不一定是指物质上的，而是指两个人有着相似的成长经历，相似的人生观和价值观，能为了相似的目标而并肩同行。说话总是要解释半天，或者根本说不到一起去，多烦心，能聊得来真的太重要。
5. Compatibility is essential when two people are together. “A match made in heaven” doesn’t necessarily refer to material things, but rather to having similar backgrounds, values, and goals, and walking side by side towards them. It’s annoying to always have to explain yourself or not be on the same page; being able to talk is truly important.

你的负担将变成未来的礼物，你受的苦难将照亮你前进的路。
6. Your burdens will become gifts in the future, and the suffering you endure will illuminate your path forward.

一块钱的打火机也能点着一千块钱的香烟。几万块钱的一桌菜还是离不了两块钱的盐。人和人也一样，别说配不配，合适了就好。
7. A one-yuan lighter can light a thousand-yuan cigarette. An expensive table of dishes still needs a two-yuan packet of salt. The same goes for people; don’t talk about matching or not, just find someone who’s right for you.

如果可能，找一个你愿意跟他说话的人结婚。跟他在一起就有说不完的话，天南海北鸡毛蒜皮，不管快乐还是忧伤的事，都能眉飞色舞的说个没完，他也能耐心微笑着倾听，这基本可以肯定就是爱了。爱一个人，就是愿意跟他说话。人生漫长，容颜易老，找个能说话的陪伴一生，实在是幸运之极。
8. If possible, marry someone you enjoy talking to. When you’re together, there’s always something to discuss, whether it’s happy or sad, and they listen patiently with a smile. This is most likely love. Loving someone means wanting to talk to them. Life is long, and appearances fade; finding someone to talk to and spend a lifetime with is truly a great fortune.

请相信这个世界真的有人在过着你想要的生活，忽晴忽雨的江湖愿你有梦为马，随处可栖。
9. Believe that there are people in this world living the life you desire. May you have dreams as your horse and find a place to rest wherever you go, in the unpredictable world.

不要怪他不善言辞，他只是把说不出的爱都写在了脸上，因为情到浓时，是眷恋；爱到深处，是无言……
10. Don’t blame someone for not being eloquent; they just express their love through their facial expressions, because when emotions run deep, it’s attachment; when love is profound, it’s silent…

和谁都别熟的太快，不要以为刚开始话题一致共同点很多你们就是相见恨晚的知音，与此同时你们很可能是完全不同的两种人。很多时候飞快地掏心掏肺，却因为莫名其妙的事情最后老死不相往来；或许好一点的，变成不咸不淡的关系；或许，有一些人，慢一点会成为真正的朋友。
11. Don’t get too close to someone too quickly, and don’t assume that because you have many common topics at the beginning, you’ve found a long-lost soulmate. You might actually be completely different people. Sometimes, opening up too fast leads to never speaking again due to trivial matters; or, at best, a lukewarm relationship; or, in some cases, slow and steady could lead to true friendship.

即使是最好的朋友也应该保持一定距离，正如里尔克所说，友谊最高的境界是守护彼此的孤独。
12. Even the best friends should maintain a certain distance, as Rilke said, the highest state of friendship is to protect each other’s solitude.

重要的事往往最难以启齿，因为言语会缩小其重要性；要让素昧平生的人在意你生命中的美好事物，原本就不容易。
13. Important matters are often the hardest to talk about, as words diminish their significance; it’s not easy to make a stranger care about the beautiful things in your life.

人生总会有那么一段时期，你走着走着就发现，你走入了只有你一个人的小巷，你看不到小巷的尽头，可能是一条新的街道，但你心里也常常怀疑那尽头没准就是一个死胡同，其他的道路有人欢声笑语，你觉得周围每个人都走在康庄大道上，除了你自己。
14. There will be a period in life when you find yourself walking down an alley with no one else, not knowing where it leads, perhaps to a new street, but you often doubt that it might be a dead end. Other paths are filled with laughter and joy, while you feel like you’re walking alone on a narrow path.

性格写在脸上；人品刻在眼里；生活方式显现在身材；情绪起伏表露于声音；家教看站姿；审美看衣服；层次看鞋子；投不投缘，吃一顿饭就能知道。
15. Character is written on the face; integrity is reflected in the eyes; lifestyle is shown in the figure; emotional fluctuations are revealed in the voice; upbringing is seen in posture; taste is displayed in clothing; social status is indicated by shoes; whether you get along or not can be known after having a meal together.

我认为，有比较之心就是缺乏自信。有自信的人，对于自己所拥有的东西，是一种充满而富足的感觉，他可能看到别人有而自己没有的东西，会觉得羡慕、敬佩，进而欢喜赞叹，但他回过头来还是很安分地做自己。
1. I believe that comparing oneself to others is a sign of a lack of confidence. Confident people feel fulfilled and content with what they have. They may admire and appreciate what others possess, but when they turn back to themselves, they remain focused on being themselves.

成熟是给陌生人看的，傻逼是给小伙伴看的，幼稚是给喜欢的人看的。
2. Maturity is for strangers, foolishness is for friends, and immaturity is for those you love.

我喜欢回顾，是因为我不喜欢忘记。我总认为，在世间，有些人、有些事、有些时刻似乎都有一种特定的安排，在当时也许不觉得，但是在以后回想起来，却都有一种深意。我有过许多美丽的时刻，实在舍不得将它们忘记。
3. I like to look back because I don’t like to forget. I always feel that there is a specific arrangement for some people, things, and moments in this world. At the time, it may not seem significant, but when recalled later, they all have a deeper meaning. I have had many beautiful moments and I truly don’t want to forget them.

有时候，喜欢一个人，真会把自己活得很委屈。
4. Sometimes, liking someone can make one feel very wronged.

男人思念一个人，是在酒后半醉的时候；女人思念一个人，是在深夜失眠的时候。
5. A man misses someone when he is half-drunk after drinking; a woman misses someone when she is awake in the middle of the night.

和一个人在一起，如果他给你的能量是让你每天都能高兴得起床，每夜都能安心得入睡，做每一件事都充满了动力，对未来满怀期待，那你就没有爱错人，最合适的感情，永远都不是以爱的名义互相折磨，而是彼此陪伴，成为对方的阳光。
6. If you are with someone and they give you the energy to happily get up every day, sleep peacefully every night, be motivated in everything you do, and look forward to the future, then you haven’t loved the wrong person. The most suitable relationship is never about mutual torture in the name of love, but about accompanying each other and becoming each other’s sunshine.

所谓成熟就是，你要习惯任何人的忽冷忽热，也要看淡任何人的渐行渐远。
7. Maturity means getting used to the ups and downs of others and learning to let go of people gradually drifting away.

看到一段话：我以前觉得只要我对人好，人也一定会对我好，我以诚待人，人自然也以诚待我，可后来知道不是的，这世上的人心很复杂，有欺骗、有猜忌、有背叛、有伤害。我不会去骗人，但我现在不再轻易相信任何人。
8. I read a passage: I used to think that if I treated others well, they would treat me well in return. I was sincere to others, and they would naturally be sincere to me. But later I found out it’s not the case. The world is full of complex human hearts, with deception, suspicion, betrayal, and hurt. I won’t deceive others, but I no longer easily trust anyone.

真的悲伤，连倾诉的念头都没有。真的幸福，连分享的空闲都省略。真的决定，连呐喊的力气都节约。真的高傲，连鄙视的眼神都不屑。我们话那么多，因为什么都缺。
9. True sadness has no desire to confide. True happiness has no time to share. True determination saves the energy for shouting. True pride doesn’t even bother with a contemptuous glance. We talk so much because we lack everything.

上帝没有那么好心，不可能送给你一个你完全喜欢的人。合适的人不是靠遇见的，是上帝给足够成熟、愿意付出和相互改变的两个人的珍贵的礼物。像榫和卯，没天生的，都是雕刻打磨之后的一种契合。
10. God is not that kind; He won’t give you someone you completely like. The right person is not found by chance, but is a precious gift from God to two people who are mature enough, willing to give, and ready to change for each other. Like tenon and mortise, they are not born that way, but are a perfect fit after being carved and polished.

你走了真好，不然总担心你要走。
1. It’s good that you’re gone, otherwise I would always worry about you leaving.

喜欢你的人对你说我去洗澡了，之后还会说我洗完了，不喜欢你的人在说完我去洗澡后，就像死在浴室一样；喜欢你的人对你说我吃饭去了，后还会说我吃完了，不喜欢你的人在说完我去吃饭后，就像死在餐桌一样；喜欢你的人对你说我睡觉去了，之后还会说我醒了，不喜欢你的人在说完我去睡觉后，就像死在床上一样。
2. When someone who likes you says they’re going to take a bath, they will tell you when they’re done; someone who doesn’t like you disappears like they died in the bathroom after saying they’re going to take a bath. When someone who likes you says they’re going to eat, they will tell you when they’re done; someone who doesn’t like you disappears like they died at the dinner table after saying they’re going to eat. When someone who likes you says they’re going to sleep, they will tell you when they wake up; someone who doesn’t like you disappears like they died in bed after saying they’re going to sleep.

如果只是友情的话，能好好做朋友就好好做朋友吧，不要太贪心了。毕竟爱情这种事太极端，要么一生，要么陌生。
3. If it’s just friendship, be a good friend and don’t be too greedy. After all, love is so extreme, either a lifetime or strangers.

那天早上空气很好，风也很柔和，我突然想穿过几个城市去看你。
4. That morning the air was very good, and the wind was gentle. I suddenly wanted to go through several cities to see you.

我感激每个在我生命里出现过的人，我知道他们都是我的一部分，让我变成了现在的自己。还陪伴在我身边的，常来常往，保持联系；在路上走散的，原谅我只能在心底和你说声再见。愿我们在彼此看不到的岁月里，熠熠生辉。
5. I am grateful for everyone who has appeared in my life. I know they are all a part of me, making me who I am today. To those who are still by my side, keep in touch; to those who have drifted away, forgive me for only being able to say goodbye in my heart. May we shine in the years we can’t see each other.

原来一个人会梦见另一个人，是因为心底觉得离那个人好远好远。
6. It turns out that when one person dreams of another, it’s because they feel so far away from that person deep in their heart.

找男朋友就要找会服软的，不然天天讲道理发脾气，要么我干脆认你做兄弟。
7. When looking for a boyfriend, find one who knows how to compromise; otherwise, it’s like being with a brother if he only argues and loses his temper.

你要做个不动声色的大人了，不准情绪化，不准偷偷想念，不准回头看，去过自己另外的生活。
8. You have to be a calm adult now, no emotionalizing, no secretly missing, no looking back, and live your own separate life.

爱是一念之差，最幸福的不过是，你曾温柔呼唤，而我恰好有过应答。
9. Love is a matter of a moment’s difference. The happiest thing is that you once called out gently, and I happened to respond.

你今天必需做别人不愿做的事，好让你明天可以拥有别人不能拥有的东西。
10. You must do what others are unwilling to do today, so that you can have what others can’t tomorrow.

我喜欢爱读书的女人。书不是胭脂，却会使女人心颜常驻。书不是棍棒，却会使女人铿锵有力。书不是羽毛，却会使女人飞翔。书不是万能的，却会使女人千变万化。
11. I like women who love reading. Books are not makeup, but they keep a woman’s beauty ever-lasting. Books are not sticks, but they give women strength. Books are not feathers, but they make women soar. Books are not omnipotent, but they make women ever-changing.

每个人都有很艰难的岁月。但是大多数时候，那些艰难的岁月最后会变成整个生命中最精彩的日子，如果你挺过来的话。
12. Everyone has difficult years. But most of the time, those difficult years will become the most wonderful days of the whole life if you get through them.

一旦你驯服了什么，就要对她负责，永远的负责。
13. Once you tame something, you have to be responsible for it, forever.

很多时候，你愿意讲给别人听的，大概是那些很想，却再也没有机会告诉以前的自己的话吧。
14. Many times, what you are willing to tell others is probably what you really wanted to tell your past self but no longer have the chance.

出去走走，别让坏情绪迷乱了世界，慌乱了心。
15. Go out for a walk, don’t let bad emotions confuse the world and your heart.

人生和电影不同，人生辛苦多了。如果你不出去走走，你就会以为这就是全世界。
16. Life is different from movies; life is much harder. If you don’t go out and explore, you will think this is the whole world.

任何时候都可以开始做自己想做的事，希望你不要用年龄和其他东西来束缚自己。年龄从来不是界限，除非你自己拿来为难自己。
17. You can start doing what you want at any time. I hope you don’t use age or other things to bind yourself. Age is never a boundary, unless you use it to make things difficult for yourself.

到底有多少人到现在还是不明白，人和人之间想要保持长久舒适的关系，靠的是共性和吸引。而不是压迫，捆绑，奉承，和一味的付出以及道德式的自我感动。
18. How many people still don’t understand that maintaining a long-lasting and comfortable relationship between people relies on common interests and attraction, not oppression, binding, flattery, and one-sided giving or moral self-moved sacrifice.

寂静在喧嚣里低头不语，沉默在黑夜里与目光结交，于是，我们看错了世界，却说世界欺骗了我们。
19. Silence bows its head in the noise, and silence makes friends with the eyes in the dark night. So, we misunderstand the world, but say that the world has deceived us.

人生最可悲的事情，莫过于胸怀大志，却又虚度光阴。
20. The most tragic thing in life is to have great ambitions but waste time.

我喝过很烈的酒，也放过不该放的手，从前不回头，往后不将就。
1. I have drunk strong liquor, and let go of the hands I shouldn’t have. I won’t look back in the past, and I won’t settle in the future.

女生年轻时的奋斗不是为了嫁个好人，而是为了让自己找一份好工作，有一个在哪里都饿不死的一技之长，有一份不错的收入。因为，只有当经济独立了，才能做到说走就走，才能灵魂独立，才能有资本选择自己想要伴侣和生活。
2. The struggle of young women is not to marry a good man, but to find a good job and have a skill that can’t be starved anywhere, with a decent income. Because only when you are financially independent can you leave at any time, have an independent soul, and have the capital to choose your desired partner and life.

时间会告诉我们，简单的喜欢，最长远；平凡中的陪伴，最心安；懂你的人，最温暖。
3. Time will tell us that simple likes last the longest; companionship in the ordinary is the most reassuring; those who understand you are the warmest.

作为一个女人，一定要有让自己过好日子的能力。不牵绊，不依附，定然动人。
4. As a woman, you must have the ability to live a good life. Unrestrained, independent, and naturally charming.

后来明白，我们永远无法成为别人满意的那个自己，可如果坚持做喜欢的自己，终会遇见喜欢你的人。其实到最后，我们都是在寻找同类，就像溪流汇入江海，光束拥抱彩虹。
5. Later, I realized that we can never be the one that satisfies others, but if we persist in being ourselves, we will eventually meet those who like us. In the end, we are all looking for our kind, just like streams flowing into rivers and seas, and beams of light embracing rainbows.

每个人心中都有一座城，住着一个不可能的人，那个人路过了青春一阵子，却会在记忆里搁浅一辈子。
6. Everyone has a city in their hearts, inhabited by an impossible person. That person passed through youth for a while, but will be stranded in memory for a lifetime.

其实，我们只是想找一个谈得来、合脾性，在一起舒坦、分开久了有点想念，安静久了想闹腾一下、吵架了又立马会后悔认输的人。爱情如此，友情同理。
7. In fact, we just want to find someone who can talk to, has a compatible temperament, feels comfortable together, misses each other when apart, wants to make noise after being quiet for a while, and regrets and admits defeat after a quarrel. The same goes for love and friendship.

我还是会相信，星星会说话，石头会开花，穿过夏天的栅栏和冬天的风雪过后，你终会抵达。
8. I will still believe that stars can talk, stones can bloom, and after passing through the fences of summer and the snowstorms of winter, you will eventually arrive.

我希望下一场恋爱，要么，不开始，要么，一辈子。
9. I hope my next relationship will either not start, or last a lifetime.

没有特别幸运，那么请先特别努力，别因为懒惰而失败，还矫情地将原因归于自己倒霉。
10. If you are not particularly lucky, then please work extra hard. Don’t fail due to laziness and then melodramatically attribute the reason to bad luck.

要使整个人生都过得舒适、愉快，这是不可能的，因为人类必须具备一种能应付逆境的态度。
11. It is impossible to make one’s entire life comfortable and happy, because humans must possess an attitude to deal with adversity.

伤心最大的建设性，在于明白，那颗心还在老地方。
12. The most constructive thing about sadness is understanding that the heart is still in its old place.

有段时间我觉得自己身陷泥沼，表面上不动声色，内心却无限崩塌。每个夜晚，我轰然躺下，便听得见哗啦啦的瓦片声。“房子塌了，没有人能撑住它。”我跟自己这么说，却无能为力。
13. There was a time when I felt trapped in a quagmire, expressionless on the surface, but collapsing inside. Every night, as I lay down, I could hear the sound of crashing tiles. “The house is collapsing, and no one can hold it up.” I told myself this, but I was powerless.

不如就利用孤单一人的时间使自己变得更优秀，给来的人一个惊喜，也给自己一个好的交代。
14. Instead, use the time spent alone to make yourself better, to surprise those who come into your life and give yourself a good account.

千万别仗着关系好，就对身边的人肆无忌惮，无论是亲情、友情、爱情，都需要尊重。
15. Never take advantage of a good relationship and act recklessly towards those around you. Respect is needed in all relationships, whether it’s family, friendship, or love.

多年后，再回想这样的迷茫或许连执著的原因都记不得了，青春就是让你张扬的笑，也给你莫名的痛。
16. Years later, when looking back on this confusion, you may not even remember the reasons for your persistence. Youth is about letting you laugh wildly and giving you inexplicable pain.

最好，过一些风雅的生活。时间是慵懒的，日子是简单的。每天最大的困惑，是晚饭该咸该甜？年华深处，忘记了年龄，嘻笑逗趣间，仍有天真烂漫。我们其实也没那么大野心，只愿此世清宁，淡然盛开、在时光那岸。
17. Best to live a refined life. Time is lazy, and days are simple. The biggest dilemma each day is whether dinner should be salty or sweet? In the depths of time, forgetting age, with laughter and playfulness, there is still innocence and joy. We don’t actually have such great ambitions; we just wish for peace and tranquility in this world, blooming quietly on the other side of time.

在喜欢你的人那里，去热爱生活；在不喜欢你的人那里，去看清世界。
18. Love life to the fullest in the presence of those who like you; see the world clearly in the presence of those who don’t.

人多多少少都是都是按照自己的模式活下来的。当别人和自己差别太大时会感到生气，过于相像又会觉得悲哀。如此而已。
19. People are more or less living according to their own patterns. When others are too different from us, we feel angry; when they are too similar, we feel sad. That’s all.

每个人每件事，都逃不过时间的考验，你要相信，时间是藏不住贱人的。
20. Everyone and everything cannot escape the test of time. You must believe that time reveals the true nature of people.

所谓捷径都是别人的路，努力才是自己的路，其实，“捷径”是最难走的！
1. So-called shortcuts are other people’s paths, while hard work is your own path. In fact, “shortcuts” are the most difficult to walk!

挤不进的圈子就别挤了，何必累了自己还遭人讨厌。
2. If you can’t fit into a circle, don’t try. Why tire yourself out and make others dislike you?

那些在低潮时陪着你的人最珍贵，停滞时做的小事最动人。
3. The people who accompany you during low tides are the most precious, and the small things done during stagnation are the most touching.

最幸福的状态大概就是，你喜欢粘着的那个人永远都不嫌你烦。
4. The happiest state is probably when the person you like to stick with never finds you annoying.

我之所以讨厌相亲，因为遇到条件差、我不喜欢的，就会被父母批评要求高；遇到条件好、人家不喜欢我的，就会被父母说你看呀，你这个年龄了条件好的都看不上你了啊，然后堂而皇之介绍条件更差的。但是，我认真经营自己这么多年，真的不想将就啊。
5. I hate blind dates because if I meet someone with poor conditions and don’t like them, my parents will criticize me for being too demanding. If I meet someone with good conditions and they don’t like me, my parents will say, “Look, at your age, even those with good conditions don’t like you.” Then they will introduce someone with even worse conditions. But after working on myself for so many years, I really don’t want to settle.

愿你早日学会逢场作戏，愿你早点习惯物是人非，毕竟不是每个人都和天真的你一样，容易动真情。
6. May you learn to play along sooner, and may you get used to the changes in people and things. After all, not everyone is as innocent as you and easily moved by true feelings.

心情不好就少听悲伤的歌，饿了就自己找吃的，怕黑就开灯，想要的就自己赚钱买，即使生活给了你百般阻挠，也没必要用矫情放大自己的不容易，现实这么残酷，拿什么装无辜。改变不了的事就别太在意，留不住的人就试着学会放弃，受了伤的心就尽力自愈，除了生死，都是小事，别为难自己。
7. When you’re in a bad mood, listen to less sad music; when you’re hungry, find food for yourself; when you’re afraid of the dark, turn on the light; if you want something, earn money to buy it yourself. Even if life gives you all kinds of obstacles, there’s no need to exaggerate your difficulties with melodrama. Reality is so cruel; what can you pretend to be innocent with? Don’t pay too much attention to things you can’t change, try to learn to let go of people you can’t keep, and do your best to heal your wounded heart. Except for life and death, everything else is a minor issue; don’t make things difficult for yourself.

最喜欢你对别人凶凶的，但对我却很温柔的样子。
8. I like it best when you’re fierce with others but gentle with me.

20岁到30岁，可能是人生最艰苦的时期。你刚离开学校，摆脱学生气，却发现要面对许多未曾想过的问题。婚姻工作都让你格外焦虑，你彷徨犹豫，却依旧没有头绪。其实，这段日子每个人都会经历，最好的方法就是静下来、做下去。你认为值得的，就去守候；你认为幸福的，就去珍惜。
9. From 20 to 30 years old, it may be the most difficult period of life. You just leave school, get rid of the student vibe, only to find that you have to face many unexpected problems. Marriage and work make you particularly anxious; you hesitate and wander but still have no clue. In fact, everyone will go through this period. The best method is to calm down and keep going. If you think it’s worth waiting for, then wait; if you think it’s happiness, then cherish it.

我们常用最幼稚的方式威胁最爱自己的人，例如一个不爽就不接电话不回短信拉黑，扬言不再需要对方。看着他疯了般的找你求你，你的心得到了空前的满足感和报复感，但是这种感觉很快就会消失，之后你可能会失去这个人。当他不再找寻你的时候，你就会领悟，那个唯一甘愿被你欺负的人，没了。
10. We often use the most childish ways to threaten those who love us the most, such as not answering calls or texts, blocking them, and claiming not to need them anymore. Watching them frantically search for you and beg you brings an unprecedented sense of satisfaction and revenge. But this feeling will soon disappear, and you may lose this person. When they no longer look for you, you will realize that the one and only person who was willing to be bullied by you is gone.

我相信与你终将旷日持久，于是才敢说一句来日方长。
11. I believe that our love will last for a long time, so I dare to say that we have a long time ahead of us.

我们最大的善良莫过于对陌生人礼貌，对家人耐心，对爱人体贴，对旧人不打扰。
12. Our greatest kindness is to be polite to strangers, patient with family, considerate to lovers, and not to disturb the past.

有些人爱到吵架所以分手，有些人爱到平淡也分手。其实真正陪你到老的，是那种没太多意外，也没有当初的心跳，却无论如何也不离开你的人。从激情到亲情，从感动到感恩，从浪漫到相守。时间越久，越不愿离开你，这才叫爱人。
13. Some people break up because they love to quarrel, while others break up because their love becomes plain. The one who truly accompanies you until old age is the one with few surprises, no initial heartbeats, but who will never leave you no matter what. From passion to family affection, from touching to gratitude, from romance to companionship. The longer the time, the more unwilling they are to leave you; this is called a lover.

是非窝里，人用口，我用耳；热闹场中，人向前，我落后。
14. In the nest of right and wrong, people use their mouths, while I use my ears; in the bustling scene, people move forward, while I lag behind.

跟你绝配的爱人，并不是天然产生的。你能一见钟情的，并不代表会相处融洽。相处融洽的，不一定会忠心耿耿。真正绝配的爱人，其实都靠打磨。你改一点，他改一点，虽然大家都失去点自我，却可以成为默契的一对。相爱和相处是两回事。相爱是吸引，而相处是为对方而改变。
15. Your perfect match is not naturally born. Those you fall in love with at first sight may not get along well. Those who get along well may not be loyal. The truly perfect match is actually polished by both parties. You change a little, they change a little; although everyone loses some of their individuality, they can become a well-coordinated couple. Falling in love and getting along are two different things. Falling in love is attraction, while getting along is changing for the other person.

看过很多糟心的婚姻，又遇不到能让自己孤注一掷的人，所以单身。
1. Having seen many disappointing marriages and not encountering someone who makes me willing to risk everything, I choose to be single.

做一个安静的人，读书，旅行，等待爱情。给自己一段柔软的时光，不用太远，不用太贵，去一个安静的地方将自己释放，抚慰。旅行，就应该只是单纯地出去走走。心宽，便是远方。
2. Be a quiet person, read books, travel, and wait for love. Give yourself a soft period of time, not too far, not too expensive, go to a quiet place to release and comfort yourself. Travel should simply be about going out for a walk. A broad mind is the key to the horizon.

我曾经以为看到自己的人不会太多，需要不停的呐喊呐喊才能被记住。原来，只要对方有心，你低着头站在黑暗里，也会有人看见你。
3. I once thought that not many people would notice me, and I needed to keep shouting to be remembered. It turns out that as long as someone cares, even if you stand in the dark with your head down, they will see you.

一个人的成熟，大部分时候，就是从学会控制情绪开始的。
4. Most of the time, a person’s maturity begins with learning to control emotions.

时间总能教会你点什么，哪怕是开始觉得自己该努力了。
5. Time can always teach you something, even if it’s just realizing that you should start working hard.

孤独跟寂寞不是一回事。孤独是沉醉在自己世界的一种独处。所以，孤独的人表现出来的是一种“圆融”的高贵。而寂寞是迫于无奈的虚无，是一种无所适从的可怜。孤独是一种财富，人只有在孤独时，心才会真正地安静下来，才会很理智。孤独不苦，而是一种很高的境界。
6. Loneliness and solitude are not the same thing. Loneliness is a kind of self-indulgence in one’s own world. Therefore, lonely people show a “harmonious” nobility. Loneliness is a wealth, for it is only when one is alone that the heart truly becomes quiet and rational. Loneliness is not bitter, but rather a high state of being.

这世界上唯一扛得住岁月摧残的就是才华。
7. The only thing in this world that can withstand the ravages of time is talent.

有时候你把什么放下了，不是因为突然就舍得了，而是因为期限到了，任性够了，成熟多了，也就知道这一页该翻过去了。
8. Sometimes when you let go of something, it’s not because you suddenly feel like giving it up, but because the deadline has come, you’ve had enough of being willful, you’ve matured more, and you know it’s time to turn the page.

要记住每一个除父母外对你好的人，因为他们本可以不这么做的。
9. Remember everyone who is kind to you besides your parents, because they didn’t have to do so.

大雨过后有两种人：一种人抬头看天，看到的是雨后彩虹，蓝天白云；一种人低头看地，看到的是淤泥积水，艰难绝望。有时，做事千万要有准头，要有方向。别干那种在机场等船，在码头等飞机的事，不是别人让你失望，而是你抱错了期望。
10. After a heavy rain, there are two types of people: one looks up at the sky and sees the rainbow, blue sky, and white clouds; the other looks down at the ground and sees mud, water accumulation, and despair. Sometimes, it’s essential to have a clear direction and focus when doing things. Don’t make the mistake of waiting for a ship at the airport or an airplane at the dock. It’s not that others disappoint you, but that you had the wrong expectations.

别不好意思拒绝别人，因为有些人明明知道是为难别人的事却还要理直气壮的让你妥协。
11. Don’t be embarrassed to refuse others, because some people clearly know they are asking for trouble but still demand you to compromise.

总有一天，你会对着过去的伤痛微笑。你会感谢离开你的那个人，他配不上你的爱、你的好、你的痴心。他终究不是命定的那个人。幸好他不是。
12. One day, you will smile at the past pain and be grateful to the person who left you, for they didn’t deserve your love, your goodness, or your devotion. They were not the one destined for you. Fortunately, they were not.

生活中，总是有人要误解你，误解你的话、你的所有行为。很多事我们确实无法改变、不能左右，所以，那就，好好做自己吧。
13. In life, there will always be people who misunderstand you, your words, and your actions. There are many things we can’t change or control, so just be yourself and do it well.

为值得的人赴汤蹈火，对闲杂人等别在乎太多。如此，你的善良才显矜贵。
14. Go all out for those who are worth it, and don’t care too much about the rest. In this way, your kindness will be more precious.

一段友情离开了就淡了，一段爱情分离了就散了，珍惜现在所拥有的，也许下一秒就不再属于你。没有能回去的感情，就算真的回去了，你也会发现，一切已经面目全非。唯一能回去的，只是存于心底的记忆，所以，我们只能一直往前。
15. A friendship that drifts away becomes diluted, and a love that separates scatters. Cherish what you have now, for it may not belong to you in the next second. There is no going back to feelings; even if you do, you will find that everything has changed. The only thing that can go back is the memory stored in your heart, so we can only keep moving forward.

真正忙的人，没心思议论别人，真正过得好的人，没心情在意别人的评价。
16. People who are truly busy have no time to gossip about others, and those who are truly happy don’t care about others’ opinions.

你以为和你好聚好散的男人是有风度？那些都是假的！我告诉你，总有一天你会知道，愿意留下来浪费时间陪你较真，愿意浪费表情和你吵架的傻瓜才是真的爱你！
17. You think a man who parts with you on good terms is graceful? That’s all fake! Let me tell you, one day you will realize that the fool who is willing to waste time arguing with you, who is willing to waste expressions and quarrel with you, is the one who truly loves you!

许多人的所谓成熟，不过是被习俗磨去了棱角，变得世故而实际了。那不是成熟，而是精神的早衰和个性的夭亡。真正的成熟，应当是独特个性的形成，真实自我的发现，精神上的结果和丰收。
1. Many people’s so-called maturity is just being worn down by conventions, becoming worldly and practical. That is not maturity, but the early decline of spirit and the premature death of personality. True maturity should be the formation of a unique personality, the discovery of the real self, and the spiritual results and harvest.

成功晚来一些更好，然后面对那些所谓的权威、显赫的人，不要太害怕。因为他们也走过你今天的路，有多少所谓的闪光，就有多少那些灰暗的时刻，任何时候都应该看清自己，别觉得自己那么渺小，也别觉得自己那么伟大。
2. It’s better for success to come later, and then face those so-called authorities and prominent people without too much fear. They have also walked the path you are on today, and for every so-called shining moment, there are many dark moments. Always see yourself clearly, don’t feel so insignificant, and don’t feel so great.

只有把你自己的生活过到足够好时，你才有闲心和资格去评论他人的生活，而当你过得真的足够好时，你可能更没有闲心去评论了，因为你只热爱你自己所拥有的生活。
3. Only when you have lived your life well enough can you have the leisure and qualifications to comment on other people’s lives, and when you have truly lived well enough, you may not have the leisure to comment anymore, because you only love the life you have.

痛苦是财富，这话是扯淡。痛苦就是痛苦，对痛苦的思考才是财富。
4. Pain is wealth, this is nonsense. Pain is just pain, and thinking about pain is the wealth.

要是你真正爱一个人，就不舍得太过聪明地对待他。
5. If you truly love someone, you won’t be willing to treat them too cleverly.

你努力提升自己。认真工作，保持锻炼，定期看书，热爱美食，能吃会做，为人谦和，不爱八卦。然后呢，在大多数中老年人眼中，你不过是个沉默寡言不想结婚生小孩的心理变态。
6. You work hard to improve yourself. Work diligently, exercise regularly, read books on schedule, love good food, be able to eat and cook, be humble, and not gossip. Then, in the eyes of most middle-aged and elderly people, you are just a silent, introverted, and mentally abnormal person who doesn’t want to get married or have children.

第一次见面就觉得顺眼，相处起来也温暖舒服，这样的你我很喜欢。
7. I like you, who feel pleasing at first sight and warm and comfortable to be with.

看见一对情侣吵架，女孩发脾气甩包就走，冲出去不远脚步慢下来，走几步就回头看。男孩也不着急，捡起包在后面慢慢走。路过一个煎饼摊，男孩停下来，对着前面喊：傻瓜，加几个鸡蛋？不远处回答：俩。这或许就是最高级别的浪漫。
8. Seeing a couple arguing, the girl throws her bag and leaves in a temper. After running not far, she slows down her pace and looks back every few steps. The boy is not in a hurry either, picking up the bag and walking slowly behind her. Passing a pancake stall, the boy stops and shouts to the front: “Fool, how many eggs?” The answer comes from not far away: “Two.” This may be the highest level of romance.

千万不要相信“女孩子可以不漂亮，身材可以不好”之类的鬼话，因为当有一天你终于又瘦又白又美丽，你会发现你的人生就跟开挂似的。
9. Never believe the nonsense that “girls don’t have to be pretty, and their figures don’t have to be good,” because when one day you finally become thin, fair, and beautiful, you will find that your life is like a cheat code.

他若真的爱你，你可以是任何一种女生，可以任性，可以不温柔，可以无理取闹。他若爱你不够，你才需要完美，才需要服从，才需要温柔体贴，才需要委曲求全。
10. If he truly loves you, you can be any kind of girl, willful, not gentle, and make a fuss. If he doesn’t love you enough, then you need to be perfect, obedient, gentle, and accommodating.

拥有好心情的最佳方式就是“干正事”。如果一整天你都为理想付出切实努力：学会了规定的单词，读完了必读的书，收尾了工作，写完了稿子，签约了合同，锻炼没有偷懒……那么遇到态度不好的出租司机，多收钱的看车大妈，排队加塞的无良青年……基本也会一笑置之。心中充实，才有底气快乐。
11. The best way to have a good mood is to “do the right thing.” If you make tangible efforts for your ideals all day: learn the required words, finish reading the necessary books, complete work, write drafts, sign contracts, and don’t slack off in exercise… Then you will basically be able to smile at rude taxi drivers, overcharging parking attendants, and unscrupulous young people who cut in line… Only when your heart is full can you have the confidence to be happy.

父母含辛茹苦地把你养大，为的不是让你在任何一个男人面前委曲求全。所以，请找个对自己好的人再嫁。
12. Your parents have raised you with great effort, not for you to submit to any man. So, please find someone who is good to you before you get married.

养好受伤的头发，保持百斤左右体重，照顾好挑剔的胃，交一个能一路废话的朋友；给自己疲惫的生活找一个温柔的梦想，然后彻彻底底跟过去的悲伤道别。这就是你接下来要做的事。
13. Take care of your injured hair, maintain a weight of around 100 pounds, take care of your picky stomach, make a friend who can chat with you all the way; find a gentle dream for your tired life, and then say goodbye to the past sorrows completely. This is what you need to do next.

终于放下一个人大概就是这样，你不会再刻意执着和他是什么关系，不会把他的东西扔到垃圾桶，不会把他拉进黑名单，不会在社交网络搜他的名字，只是偶尔刷新时候看到了，笑一笑。他就像是你很久不穿的一双鞋子，你心情好时突然觉得，好像再没场合穿了，就随手扔掉了。
1. Finally letting go of someone is probably like this: you no longer deliberately cling to what kind of relationship you have with them, you don’t throw their things into the trash, you don’t block them, you don’t search for their name on social media, but just occasionally when you refresh, you see it and smile. They are like a pair of shoes you haven’t worn for a long time, and when you’re in a good mood, you suddenly feel like there’s no occasion to wear them anymore, so you just throw them away.

愿意与一个人相守到老，想与他住同一所房子，睡一张床，生一个孩子，养一条狗，这便是平实的爱情。
2. Being willing to stay with someone until old age, wanting to live in the same house, sleep in the same bed, have a child, and raise a dog, this is the plain and simple love.

当你强大了，你才会遇到比你强大的；当你变好，你才配得起更好。
3. When you become strong, you will encounter those who are stronger than you; when you become better, you will deserve something better.

拥有好心情的最佳方式就是“干正事”。如果一整天你都为理想付出切实努力：学会了规定的单词，读完了必读的书，收尾了工作，写完了稿子，签约了合同，锻炼没有偷懒…那么遇到态度不好的出租司机，多收钱的看车大妈，排队加塞的无良青年…基本也会一笑置之。心中充实，才有底气快乐。
4. The best way to have a good mood is to “do the right thing.” If you make tangible efforts for your dreams all day long: learn the required words, finish reading the necessary books, complete work, write drafts, sign contracts, and exercise without slacking… Then when you encounter a rude taxi driver, a parking attendant who overcharges, or a young person cutting in line… You will basically just smile and let it go. A fulfilled heart is what gives you the confidence to be happy.

什么是内心强大的人？可以照顾好自己；承认自己的平凡，但是努力向好的方向发展；可以平静面对生活，安然的听从自己内心的感受，不受其他影响。
5. What is an emotionally strong person? Someone who can take care of themselves; someone who acknowledges their own ordinariness but strives to improve; someone who can face life calmly and peacefully, listening to their own inner feelings without being influenced by others.

也许生命的美在于遇见，我不知道这一生会遇到多少人，也不知道会有多少倾心的相遇，或许这世上有很多人都可以惊艳你的时光，但能够愿意留在你身边直到慢慢温柔了你的岁月，陪你哭，陪你笑，陪你等待，陪你花开，一生也许只有那么一个。
6. Perhaps the beauty of life lies in encounters. I don’t know how many people I will meet in my life, nor do I know how many heartwarming encounters I will have. Maybe there are many people in this world who can astonish your time, but there might only be one who is willing to stay by your side until they gently warm your years, accompany you through tears and laughter, and wait with you for the flowers to bloom.

我们都不是随便的一个人遇到另一个人，我们都是经过跋山涉水，慢慢长路才找到彼此，在我们的人生长河里，这因缘际会的短暂的一瞬，那不是偶然，那是我们的选择。
7. We are not just random individuals meeting another; we have traveled through mountains and rivers, along long roads, to find each other. In the long river of our lives, this brief moment of fate is not a coincidence, it is our choice.

理解你所不能理解的是学习。接受你所不能接受的是成长。承认你所不能承认的是接纳。忘记你所不能忘记的是放下。人生就是不断去学习，有成长，懂接纳，会放下。
8. Understanding what you cannot understand is learning. Accepting what you cannot accept is growth. Acknowledging what you cannot acknowledge is acceptance. Forgetting what you cannot forget is letting go. Life is about continuous learning, growth, acceptance, and letting go.

此刻，我多想拥抱你，可惜时光之里山南水北，可惜你我中间人来人往。
9. At this moment, I really want to hug you, but alas, the mountains and rivers between us, and the people coming and going between us.

有些人出现在你的生命里，就是为了告诉你，你真好骗。
10. Some people appear in your life just to show you that you are so easily deceived.

爱，不是寻找一个完美的人，而是学会用完美的眼光，欣赏一个不完美的人。专一不是一辈子只喜欢一个人，是喜欢一个人的时候一心一意。
11. Love is not about finding a perfect person, but learning to appreciate an imperfect person with a perfect perspective. Being devoted doesn’t mean liking only one person for a lifetime, it means being wholeheartedly devoted to one person when you like them.

与其因为别人看扁你而生气，倒不如努力争口气。争气永远比生气漂亮和聪明。
12. It’s better to strive for success because others look down on you, rather than getting angry. Striving for success is always more beautiful and smarter than getting angry.

你不快乐是因为你没有好好爱自己，而是常常因为别人而消耗着自己。
13. You are not happy because you don’t love yourself well, but often consume yourself because of others.

人生就是这样，想要拥有却不能够拥有，或许会使人们自暴自弃。确实失去，就要越坚强，过去的事就让它过去，无法挽回过去。就让我们坚强起来，失去了一个人，至少还有其他人，不会让我们觉得寂寞的！
14. Life is like this: wanting to possess something but not being able to, which may lead people to give up. When you truly lose something, you must be stronger. Let the past go and don’t try to salvage it. Let’s be strong, for losing one person, at least we still have others, and we won’t feel lonely!

遇见你是命运的安排，成为朋友那是我的选择，而爱上你是我所无法控制的意外。
15. Meeting you is fate’s arrangement, becoming friends is my choice, and falling in love with you is an uncontrollable accident.

生活这场表演，更需要百遍练习，才可能换来一次美丽。生活给你一些痛苦，只为了告诉你它想要教给你的事。一遍学不会，你就痛苦一次，总是学不会，你就在同样的地方反复摔跤。
1. Life is a performance that requires a hundred practices to possibly换来一次 beautiful moment. Life gives you some pain, just to tell you what it wants to teach you. If you can’t learn it in one go, you suffer once; if you always can’t learn it, you keep falling in the same place.

再爱也别卑微的去取悦一个不爱你的人，再恨也别背后诋毁一个曾与你交心的人。
2. Don’t humiliate yourself to please someone who doesn’t love you, and don’t speak ill of someone who has been close to you behind their back.

总想努力工作认真生活，总想待人真诚保持微笑。总想永怀希望从不绝望，总想善待家人友爱朋友，总想心怀感恩乐观向上。却发现生活中总有一些路，一直难行。总有太多期待一直失望，总有太多梦想一直落空，总有太多言语无人可诉。总想逃离纷争，被现实牵绊，总有很多不平，一直无奈。
3. Always want to work hard and live earnestly, always want to be sincere and maintain a smile. Always want to have hope and never despair, always want to treat family kindly and love friends, always want to be grateful and optimistic. But I find that there are always some roads in life that are difficult to walk. There are always too many expectations that are always disappointed, too many dreams that keep falling through, and too many words that no one can tell. Always want to escape disputes, being tied down by reality, always having a lot of grievances, always helpless.

好脾气都是磨出来的，坏毛病都是惯出来的，治的了你脾气的是你爱的人，受的了你脾气的是爱你的人。
4. Good tempers are polished out, bad habits are indulged out. The one who can cure your temper is the one you love, and the one who can bear your temper is the one who loves you.

人到了某一个阶段，生活就会开始给你做减法。拿走你的一些朋友，让你知道谁才是真正的朋友。拿走你的一些梦想，让你认清现实是什么。当你能看着自己忙里忙外，成为自己生活的旁观者，你才能找到自己的节奏。
5. When a person reaches a certain stage, life will start to subtract for you. Take away some of your friends, let you know who the real friends are. Take away some of your dreams, let you recognize what reality is. When you can look at yourself being busy and become a spectator of your own life, you can find your own rhythm.

精神健康的人，总是努力的工作及爱人，只要能做到这两件事，其它的事就没有什么困难。
6. Mentally healthy people always strive to work hard and love others. As long as you can do these two things, there is no difficulty in other matters.

有些事，轻轻放下，未必不是轻松。有些人，深深记住，未必不是幸福。有些痛，淡淡看开，未必不是历练。坎坷路途，给身边一份温暖，风雨人生，给自己一个微笑。生活，就是体谅和理解，把快乐装在心中，静静融化，慢慢扩散！
7. Some things, gently let go, may not be a relief. Some people, deeply remember, may not be happiness. Some pain, lightly let go, may not be an experience. On the bumpy road, give a warm to those around you, in the stormy life, give yourself a smile. Life is understanding and comprehension, put happiness in your heart, let it melt quietly, slowly spread!

人需要沉淀，要有足够的时间去反思，才能让自己变得更完美。也许每个人出生时都以为这天地是为他一个人而存在的，当他发现自己错的时候，他便开始长大。
8. People need to precipitate and have enough time to reflect in order to become better. Perhaps everyone thinks that the world exists just for them when they are born. When they find out they are wrong, they begin to grow up.

走过的路长了，遇见的人多了，经历的事杂了。不经意间发现，人生最曼妙的风景是内心的淡定与从容，头脑的睿智与清醒。人生最奢侈的拥有是一颗不老的童心，一个生生不息的信念，一个健康的身体，一个永远牵手的爱人。一个自由的心态，一份喜欢的工作，一份安稳的睡眠，一份享受生活的美好心情。
9. The longer the road you’ve walked, the more people you’ve met, the more diverse the experiences you’ve had. Unintentionally, you find that the most beautiful scenery in life is the calmness and composure in your heart, the wisdom and clarity in your mind. The most luxurious possessions in life are an ageless childlike innocence, a never-ending belief, a healthy body, a lover who always holds your hand. A free mindset, a job you like, a peaceful sleep, and a beautiful mood to enjoy life.

别人给的，是人情和依赖，自强独立的，才是安全感。
10. What others give is favor and dependence; self-improvement and independence are the security.

得意时要看淡，失意时要看开。人生有许多东西是可以放下的。只有放得下，才能拿得起。尽量简化你的生活，你会发现那些被挡住的风景，才是最适宜的人生。千万不要过于执着，而使自己背上沉重的包袱。
11. When you are successful, look light on things; when you are frustrated, look open-minded. There are many things in life that can be let go. Only by letting go can you pick up. Try to simplify your life, and you will find that the blocked scenery is the most suitable for life. Don’t be too persistent, which will burden you heavily.

希望和我走向婚礼殿堂的那个人， 是我青春年少时义无反顾爱上的你。
12. I hope the person who walks with me to the wedding hall is the one I fell in love with without hesitation in my youth.

美丽的梦和美丽的诗一样，都是可遇而不可求的，常常在最没能料到的时刻里出现。
13. Beautiful dreams and beautiful poems are the same, both are rare and unexpected, often appearing at the most unexpected moments.

只是一起走过一段路而已，何必把怀念弄的比经过还长？
14. It’s just walking a section of the road together, why make the memories longer than the experience?

如果累了，就拉上窗帘关上手机关掉闹钟深呼吸一口气钻进被窝，放空去睡觉。难熬的日子总需要更多精力。
15. If you are tired, close the curtains, turn off the phone, turn off the alarm, take a deep breath, and dive into the quilt to sleep. Difficult days always need more energy.

人生就是这样充满了大起大合，你永远不会知道下一刻会发生什么，也不会明白命运为何这样待你。只有在你经历了人生种种变故之后，你才会褪尽了最初的浮华，以一种谦卑的姿态看待这个世界。
1. Life is full of ups and downs, and you’ll never know what will happen next, nor understand why fate treats you this way. Only after experiencing all the twists and turns of life will you shed your initial glamour and view the world with a humble attitude.

你从不担心自己配不上优秀的人，你只会担心自己配不上喜欢的人。
2. You never worry about not being good enough for excellent people; you only worry about not being good enough for those you like.

世间最执著的爱恋，是用最纯粹的心去爱一个人，用尽生命的全部力气去承受。一生里如果有一次这样爱过，就算爱如夏花，只开半夏，也无怨无悔。
3. The most persistent love is to love someone with the purest heart, and to bear it with all the strength of life. If you have loved like this once in your life, even if the love is like a summer flower, blooming only for half the summer, there is no regret.

大部分的恐惧与懒惰有关，这句我深以为然。我们常常会害怕改变，其实都是因为自己太懒了，懒得去适应新的环境，懒得去学习新的知识，涉足新的领域，但如果总是这样的话如何能让自己成熟起来呢？
4. Most fears are related to laziness, and I strongly agree with this. We often fear change, but in reality, it’s because we are too lazy to adapt to new environments, learn new knowledge, and explore new fields. But if we always do this, how can we mature?

在一生当中，如果你希望有一天回过头的时候，你或往前，或往后，或停下来的每一个脚印，都成为诗句的话，你就踏踏实实地走好人生的每一步。——汪涵
5. In life, if you hope that one day when you look back, every step you have taken, whether forward, backward, or standing still, becomes a verse, then walk every step of your life steadily.

“愿望”是希望某事发生。“信念”是相信它会发生。“勇气”是让它发生。
6. “Wishing” is hoping for something to happen. “Believing” is having faith that it will happen. “Courage” is making it happen.

我知道，在妈妈心中一定有一张世界地图。那地图上没有国家，没有城市，只有我走过的每一步路。我也知道，我的每一步都踏着她的担心。
7. I know that in my mother’s heart, there must be a map of the world. On that map, there are no countries, no cities, only every step I have taken. And I also know that every step I take is accompanied by her worries.

我想每个人的存在都有他的原因，你让我相信我所遭遇的一切，并不是阻挡我的前进，而是让我下定更大的决心。谢谢有你，让我明白，如果对于自己喜欢的事情没有办法轻易放弃，那就要更努力的让别人看到自己的存在。我一直照着别人的方向飞，这一次，我要用我的方向飞翔一次。
8. I think everyone has a reason for their existence, and you have made me believe that all the setbacks I have encountered are not to block my progress, but to make me more determined. Thank you for helping me understand that if I cannot easily give up on the things I like, I must work harder to let others see my existence. I have always flown in the direction of others, but this time, I want to fly in my own direction.

很多人的失落，是违背了自己少年时的立志。自认为成熟，自认为练达，自认为精明，从前多幼稚，总算看透了，想穿了。于是，我们就此变成自己年少时最憎恶的那种人。
9. Many people’s disappointment comes from betraying their youthful aspirations. They think they have become mature, sophisticated, and shrewd, and have finally seen through and figured out everything. As a result, we become the kind of people we despised in our youth.

不要成全了别人，恶心了自己，学会拒绝别人，也尊重别人的拒绝。
10. Don’t fulfill others at the expense of disgust to yourself. Learn to refuse others and respect their refusal.

当需要人陪，需要人安慰的时候，才发现能够陪你的就只有手机。
11. When you need company and comfort, you realize that the only thing that can accompany you is your mobile phone.

人生的路，靠自己一步步走去，真正能保护你的，是你自己的人格选择和文化选择。那么反过来，真正能伤害你的，也是一样，自己的选择。
12. The path of life depends on you walking step by step. What can truly protect you is your own choices in character and culture. Conversely, what can truly hurt you is also your own choices.

速热的人也速冻，慢热的人最长情。
13. Those who heat up quickly also cool down quickly, while those who take time to warm up are the most loyal.

既然选择了远方，便只顾风雨兼程。
14. Since you have chosen the distance, just focus on going through wind and rain.

很多人觉得自己活得太累，实际上他们可能只是睡得太晚。
15. Many people feel tired in life, but in fact, they may just be going to bed too late.

只要认真计划一件事，并且一边坚持一边调整，往往会完成得十分出色。懈怠的情绪谁都会有，不要担心自己比别人走得慢，也不要因暂时的挫折心灰意冷，只要不断调整心态，不停下脚步，最终能抵达终点。
16. As long as you seriously plan something and persist while adjusting, you will often achieve great results. Laziness is something everyone experiences; don’t worry about walking slower than others or getting disheartened by temporary setbacks. As long as you keep adjusting your mindset and never stop moving forward, you will eventually reach your destination.

当你不够强大时，你发的一切飚，在别人看来都只是个笑话。
17. When you are not strong enough, all your outbursts will be seen as jokes by others.

所有幸运和巧合的事，要么是上天注定，要么是一个人偷偷的在努力。
18. All lucky and coincidental things are either destined by heaven or secretly hard work by someone.

世上没有永远不被毁谤的人，也没有永远被赞叹的人。当你话多的时候，别人批评你，当你话少的时候，别人批评你，当你沈默的时候，别人还是批评你，这个世界上，没有一个不被批评的人。不要因为别人的怀疑，而给自己烦恼；更不要因为别人的无知，而痛苦了你自己。
1. There is no one in the world who is never slandered, nor is there anyone who is always praised. When you talk too much, people criticize you; when you talk too little, people criticize you; when you are silent, people still criticize you. In this world, there is no one who is not criticized. Don’t let others’ doubts trouble you; and don’t let others’ ignorance hurt you.

宁愿花时间去修炼不完美的自己，也不要浪费时间去期待完美的别人。
2. It’s better to spend time refining your imperfect self than to waste time expecting perfect others.

单身也好恋爱也好，只是人生中的某个阶段。没必要羡慕旁人，也别对现状不满。无论身边是否有人陪伴，前方是否有承诺一起努力的目标，生活的喜怒哀乐都是需要自己去经历并沉淀。正确地活着，每个阶段都会带给你更好的自己。成长不是单纯地为了脱单，而是让自己有力量去体验任何可能。
3. Being single or in a relationship is just a phase in life. There’s no need to envy others or be dissatisfied with your current situation. Whether or not you have someone by your side, or if there’s a goal to strive for together, the joys and sorrows of life are all experiences you need to go through and settle. Living correctly, each stage will bring you a better self. Growth is not just about finding a partner, but about having the strength to experience any possibility.

说真的，我并不想在太年轻的时候遇见你。那时的我仗着你喜欢我就乱使性子，还很心高气傲，以为错过你，总还会有别人。
4. Honestly, I don’t want to meet you when I’m too young. Back then, I took advantage of your affection and acted willfully, thinking that if I missed you, there would always be someone else.

他们都在用力的爱，却不懂得爱，大家都只知道我想要，我想要，可成熟的爱不是索要，而是给予。
5. They all love with all their might, but they don’t understand love. Everyone only knows what they want, but mature love is not about demanding, it’s about giving.

我们都在最没能力给别人承诺的时候遇见最想承诺的人，也在为了理想不得不前进的时候遇见最想留住的人。
6. We all meet the people we want to promise to when we are least capable of making promises, and we also meet the people we want to keep when we have to move forward for our dreams.

也许你有很多朋友，但你还是要学会适应孤独，学会勇敢，因为再好的朋友也可能有分道扬镳的一天。
7. Maybe you have many friends, but you still need to learn to adapt to loneliness and be brave, because even the best of friends may part ways one day.

不是所有的人都能知道时光的含义，不是所有的人都懂得珍惜，这世间并没有分离与衰老的命运，只有肯爱与不肯爱的心。
8. Not everyone can understand the meaning of time, nor can everyone cherish it. There is no fate of separation and aging in this world, only the heart that is willing to love or not willing to love.

你赢，我陪你君临天下，你输，我陪你东山再起！人只有穷了，才知道哪个人最爱你。朋友只有落魄了，才知道谁对你最真，谁在乎你。陪伴，不是你有钱我才追随；珍惜，不是你漂亮我才关注。时间留下的，不是财富，不是美丽，是真诚。日久不一定生情，但一定见人心！
9. If you win, I will accompany you to reign over the world; if you lose, I will accompany you to rise again. Only when you are poor can you know who loves you the most. Only when friends are down and out can you know who is true to you and who cares about you. Companionship is not about following you because you have money; cherishing is not about paying attention to you because you are beautiful. What time leaves behind is not wealth or beauty, but sincerity. Time doesn’t necessarily create love, but it definitely reveals people’s true hearts!

一旦有人让你依赖，便会有所期待，所以有时一个人未必不好。
10. Once someone makes you dependent, there will be expectations, so sometimes being alone may not be so bad.

在你走后的曾经有人来过，现又变曾经。我还和从前一样，冷漠不减，温柔用不上，狠心过了头。
11. After you left, someone else came, and now they have become a memory. I am still the same as before, with no less indifference, no need for tenderness, and too much ruthlessness.

有很多事情，自己其实明明知道真相。却忍不住拼命找到漏洞和借口来推翻真相，成全自己心里想要的答案。
12. There are many things that we know the truth about, but we can’t help desperately looking for loopholes and excuses to overturn the truth and fulfill the answers we want in our hearts.

不知从什么时候起，厌倦了漂泊无定的日子，喜爱熟悉的事物，吃早餐，见老友，走熟悉的路，始终只爱一个人。
13. At some point, I grew tired of the drifting life and began to appreciate familiar things, having breakfast, meeting old friends, walking familiar roads, and always loving the same person.

世界上的任何东西，都能轻易的背叛你，哪怕是一片阿斯匹林也可以在你生龙活虎的日子里默默过期，在你头痛欲裂的时候失去作用，唯独记忆太过忠诚。
14. Anything in the world can easily betray you, even a piece of aspirin can silently expire when you are in good health and lose its effect when you have a splitting headache. Only memories are too loyal.

爱就是：三分喜欢，七分珍惜；三分说开，七分默契；三分宠爱，七分忍耐；三分等待，七分情怀……
15. Love is: three parts liking, seven parts cherishing; three parts talking, seven parts understanding; three parts pampering, seven parts patience; three parts waiting, seven parts sentiment…

我的日子里有你，人生是会不一样。可要是没有你，日子还是要过，也许要过得更勇敢和独立。谁也可以没有谁，这句话听起来有时多苦涩啊？却也使你知道，人不能因为没有了谁就没有了自己。
1. Having you in my life makes a difference. But even without you, life goes on, perhaps with more courage and independence. Who can live without whom, this sentence sounds bitter at times, right? But it also reminds you that one cannot lose oneself without someone else.

我们都要向猫学点“喵精神”：有人陪着玩，就热情地玩闹；没人陪着，自己high；有猫粮吃尽情享用，没吃的自己游走取食。能开心，善孤独；九条命，超坚韧。
2. We should learn some “meow spirit” from cats: when someone plays with you, play enthusiastically; when alone, entertain yourself; when there is cat food, enjoy it to the fullest; when there is none, go out and find food on your own. Be able to be happy and enjoy solitude; have nine lives and be extremely resilient.

心境简单了，也就有心思经营生活；生活简单了，就有时间去享受人生。
3. When your mindset is simple, you have the mind to manage your life; when life is simple, you have time to enjoy it.

很多人把心动、迷恋或倾慕误认为爱情，但心动跟真正的爱情根本无法相比。心动的光芒最多只是颗钻石的光芒，让你惊叹它的华丽，恨不得立刻拥有；但真爱的光芒就像阳光，久了也许会让人觉得稀松平常，但这种光芒能温暖你，照耀你，一旦失去你的整个世界都黑暗了。
4. Many people mistake infatuation, obsession, or admiration for love, but the brilliance of infatuation cannot compare to true love. The brilliance of infatuation is at most like the brilliance of a diamond, making you marvel at its splendor and wanting to possess it immediately; but the brilliance of true love is like sunlight, which may seem ordinary over time, but this brilliance warms and illuminates you, and without it, your whole world becomes dark.

就是这样，懂得越多，失去也越多，多少美好的事物也都经不住推敲。可是亲爱的，要知道，你可以看清、看透这个世界，却不要看破。
5. That’s it, the more you understand, the more you lose, and many beautiful things cannot withstand scrutiny. But dear, you should know that you can see through and understand the world, but don’t look through it.

抱怨是一件最没意义的事情。如果实在难以忍受周围的环境，那就暗自努力练好本领，然后跳出那个圈子。
6. Complaining is the most meaningless thing. If you really can’t stand your surroundings, then work hard in secret to improve your skills and then jump out of that circle.

有人总说：已经晚了。实际上，“现在”就是最恰当的时候。对一个真正有追求的人来说，生命的每个时期都是年轻的、及时的。
7. Some people always say it’s too late. In fact, “now” is the most appropriate time. For someone who truly has pursuits, every stage of life is young and timely.

当你不在意别人如何看自己的时候，你才能更专注于你想做的事，而这个时候你会发现你比原来收获得更多。
8. When you don’t care about how others see you, you can focus more on what you want to do, and at this time, you will find that you gain more than before.

人与人之间情断义绝，并不需要什么具体的理由。就算表面上有，也很可能只是心离开的结果，事后才编造出的借口而已。因为倘若心没有离开，当将会导致关系破裂的事态发生时，理应有人努力去挽救。如果没有，说明其实关系早已破裂。
9. There is no need for any specific reason for people to break off relationships. Even if there is one on the surface, it is likely just an excuse for the result of the heart leaving. Because if the heart hasn’t left, when things happen that could lead to the breakdown of the relationship, someone should make an effort to save it. If not, it means the relationship has already broken.

如果这世界上真有奇迹，那只是努力的另一个名字。生命中最难的阶段不是没有人懂你，而是你不懂你自己。
10. If there are miracles in this world, it’s just another name for hard work. The most difficult stage in life is not when no one understands you, but when you don’t understand yourself.

透支了眼泪，我们便会没心没肺的笑。如果有人可以依靠，谁会愿意独立。
11. When we’ve used up our tears, we will laugh heartlessly. Who would want to be independent if there was someone to rely on?

只要路是对的，就不害怕遥远，只要认准是值得的，就不在乎沧海桑田。
12. As long as the path is right, we are not afraid of the distance; as long as we are sure it’s worth it, we don’t care about the changes in the world.

时间，带不走真正的朋友；岁月，留不住虚幻的拥有。
13. Time cannot take away true friends; years cannot retain illusory possessions.

越是熟悉你的人，越知道捅哪里会让你痛。
14. The more familiar people know you, the more they know where to hurt you.

总有一个人，一直住在心底，却告别在生活里。
15. There is always a person who lives in the bottom of your heart but says goodbye to your life.

心里知道，在那个角落，有一种安静而又细致的幸福正在慢慢酝酿。喜欢这一种时刻，知道生命除了外表的喧闹与不安之外，在内里还有一种安静和慎重的成长，不会因为时日的推移而消失，就好像这水仙淡淡的清芬一样。
16. We know that in that corner, a quiet and delicate happiness is slowly brewing. We like this moment, knowing that besides the noise and restlessness on the surface of life, there is also a quiet and cautious growth inside, which will not disappear with the passage of time, just like the faint fragrance of narcissus.

原来，只要分开了的人，无论原来多么熟悉，也会慢慢变得疏远。
17. It turns out that once people are separated, no matter how familiar they were, they will gradually become distant.

对自己多一点耐心。你可以做到的，你可以睡着的，你可以忘记的，你可以忍住的，你可以健康的。不会有很多人懂你，学会自己懂自己。
18. Be patient with yourself. You can do it, you can sleep, you can forget, you can hold back, and you can be healthy. Not many people will understand you, so learn to understand yourself.

一生之中有个爱你的人，理解你的人，牵挂你的人就幸福，万人追不如一人疼，万人宠不如一人懂。
1. In one’s life, having someone who loves you, understands you, and cares for you is happiness. It’s better to have one person who adores you than ten thousand who chase you, and better to have one person who understands you than ten thousand who pamper you.

就算没有倾国倾城的美貌，也要有摧毁一座城的骄傲。
2. Even if you don’t have breathtaking beauty, you should have the pride to destroy a city.

如果你希望一个人爱你，最好的心理准备就是不要让自己变成非爱他不可，你要坚强独立，自求多福，让自己成为自己生活的重心，有寄托，有目标，有光辉，有前途…总之，让自己有足够多可以使自己快乐的源泉，然后再准备接受或不接受对方的爱。
3. If you want someone to love you, the best mental preparation is not to make yourself indispensable to them. Be strong and independent, seek your own happiness, and make yourself the center of your life. Have support, goals, brilliance, and a future. In short, have many sources of happiness within yourself, and then be prepared to accept or reject the other person’s love.

哭，并不是因为脆弱，而是因为坚强得太久。
4. Crying is not a sign of weakness, but rather a result of being strong for too long.

你也许已走出我的视线，但从未走出我的思念。
5. You may have left my sight, but you have never left my thoughts.

我天真的以为不念不想不听不见不看就是遗忘。
6. Naively, I thought that not thinking, not listening, not seeing, and not caring would be enough to forget.

一个内心丰富的人既不害怕独处，也不害怕人群，因为他们可以在独处时心中绽开大千世界，也可以在人群中保持一份恬淡清寂。
7. A person with a rich inner life is not afraid of being alone or being in a crowd, because they can open up a vast world in their heart when they are alone, and maintain a sense of calm and tranquility in a crowd.

朋友就是那些你敢在他们面前做自己的人。
8. A friend is someone you can be yourself around.

我发现一个人在放弃给别人留好印象的负担之后，原来心里会如此踏实。一个人不必再讨人欢喜，就可以像我此刻这样，停止受累。
9. I found that when I let go of the burden of trying to make a good impression on others, my heart became so much more at ease. When you no longer need to please others, you can be like me now, free from exhaustion.

回忆不过是孟婆素手熬制的一碗汤，那穿肠而过的新痕旧伤，可曾痛断了谁人的肝肠？
10. Memories are like a bowl of soup brewed by Meng Po’s delicate hands. The new and old wounds that pass through the intestines, have they ever broken someone’s heart?

心上的纠葛，解的开，是结，解不开，是劫。
11. The entanglements in one’s heart can be解开 as a knot, or remain as a disaster if they cannot be解开.

有些感情纠缠久了，到后来你已经分不清楚，到底你是要爱，还是要赢。
12. Sometimes, after being entangled in a relationship for so long, you can no longer tell whether you want love or just to win.

走正确的路，放无心的手，结有道之朋，断无义之友，饮清净之茶，戒色花之酒，开方便之门，闭是非之口。
13. Walk the right path, let go of carefree hands, make friends with righteous people, cut ties with unrighteous friends, drink pure tea, avoid love affairs, and keep the door of convenience open while closing the mouth of gossip.

一杯热茶，暖的是身；一句懂得，暖的是心。
14. A cup of hot tea warms the body; a word of understanding warms the heart.

别当烂好人，因为总有人把你的忍让与迁就当成软弱无能来践踏。
15. Don’t be a doormat, because there will always be people who trample on your tolerance and accommodation as signs of weakness and incompetence.

女人的幸福在于：他真的爱我；男人的幸福在于：她值得我爱。
16. A woman’s happiness lies in: he truly loves me; a man’s happiness lies in: she is worth my love.

相爱太早爱不起，相遇太晚等不起，缘分太少伤不起，桃花太多爱不起。真正的爱情，没有早到晚到，没有或多或少，是你，就是你。
17. Love too early is unaffordable, meet too late and can’t wait, fate is too scarce to be hurt, too many romantic affairs to love. True love has no early or late, no more or less, it’s you, and only you.

走得最急的，都是最美的风景；伤得最深的，也总是那些最真的感情。
18. The most beautiful scenery is often the one that passes by quickly; the deepest wounds come from the most genuine feelings.

也许你只要向后转个身就不会如此彷徨。
19. Maybe if you just turn around, you won’t be so lost.

有三个方法可以解决所有的问题。接受，改变，放开。不能接受那就改变，不能改变，那就放开。
20. There are three ways to solve all problems: accept, change, and let go. If you can’t accept, change it. If you can’t change it, let it go.

丢失的日子如融化在人群里的好姑娘，我看着她沿途美丽下去，嫁给别人。
1. Lost days are like a beautiful girl melting into the crowd, and I watch her continue to be beautiful along the way, marrying someone else.

我们都是这样的人：面对压力，我们本能地选择顺从，因为我们没有被说服过，也懒得说服别人；人，都是骄傲和自以为是的，相安无事的唯一办法是欺骗。
2. We are all such people: facing pressure, we instinctively choose to comply because we have not been convinced and are too lazy to persuade others.

爱情与成熟度无关。如果不努力发展自己的全部人格，那么每种爱的努力都会失败；如果没有爱他人的能力，如果不能真正谦恭地、勇敢地、真诚地和有纪律地爱他人，那么人们在自己的爱情生活中也永远得不到满足。
3. Love has nothing to do with maturity. If you don’t strive to develop your entire personality, every effort in love will fail; if you don’t have the ability to love others, if you can’t truly humbly, bravely, sincerely, and disciplinedly love others, then people will never be satisfied in their love lives.

任何人都可能抓住你的眼球，但只有那个特殊的人，才能抓住你的心。
4. Anyone can catch your eye, but only that special person can capture your heart.

幸福的关键不在于找一个完美的人，而是找到某人，然后和他一起努力创造一个完美的关系。
5. The key to happiness is not to find a perfect person, but to find someone and work together to create a perfect relationship.

如果一个人必须完成一件自己不喜欢的事，最好的办法就是尽快做好，然后结束。
6. If one must do something they don’t like, the best way is to do it quickly and then finish it.

要学会维持你的快乐，不断地感恩，不断地将脸朝向有光的地方。时间长了，你自然学会了和喜悦相处的诀窍。希望你一站出来，就让人能从你身上看到生命的光彩。
7. Learn to maintain your happiness, constantly be grateful, and constantly turn your face towards the light. Over time, you will naturally learn the trick of getting along with joy. I hope that when you stand out, people can see the brilliance of life from you.

Miss，同一个单词，既是想念，也是错过。在我最想念你的时候，我才发觉我错过了你。即使最后我们无法在一起，我依然会感激生命中曾经有你。
8. Miss, the same word, means both missing and missing out. It was when I missed you the most that I realized I had missed you. Even if we can’t be together in the end, I will still be grateful for having you in my life.

听过最动人的情话就是：你不开心就欺负我好喽，反正我那么喜欢你。
9. The most touching love words I’ve ever heard are: If you’re not happy, just bully me, because I like you so much.

人，其实不需要太多的东西，只要健康的活着，真诚的爱着，也不失为一种富有。
10. People actually don’t need too many things, as long as they live healthily and love sincerely, it’s a kind of wealth.

很多人走着走着就不见了，你想去追也没用，然后，才明白，走掉的那些人，是为了给后来的人，腾一些地方，好让他们，和我相处的舒服些，所以走掉的人，不必追问，他们也成了别人的世界里，后来的人。
11. Many people disappear as they walk, and it’s useless to chase after them. Then, you realize that those who leave are to make room for others who come later, so they can get along comfortably with me. So, those who leave, there’s no need to ask, they have become part of other people’s worlds and latercomers.

对生命而言，接纳才是最好的温柔，无论是接纳一个人的出现，还是接纳一个人的从此不见。
12. For life, acceptance is the best gentleness, whether it’s accepting someone’s presence or accepting someone’s disappearance.

人生没有绝对的公平，但是相对还是公平的。放在一个天平上，你得到的越多，也必须比别人承受更多。
13. Life is not absolutely fair, but it is relatively fair. On a scale, the more you get, the more you have to bear compared to others.

你永远不知道自己有多坚强，直到有一天你除了坚强再无选择。
14. You never know how strong you are until one day you have no choice but to be strong.

是你的，就是你的。不是你的，不必强求。努力了，珍惜了，问心无愧。其他的，交给命运。
15. If it’s yours, it’s yours. If it’s not, there’s no need to force it. Work hard, cherish, and have a clear conscience. Leave the rest to fate.

生命中有很多事情足以把你打倒，但真正打倒你的是自己的心态。
16. There are many things in life that can knock you down, but what really knocks you down is your own mentality.

温和对人对事。不随意发脾气，谁都不欠你的，这个世界没有＂应该＂二字。
17. Be gentle with people and things. Don’t lose your temper at will, no one owes you, and there is no “should” in this world.

痛苦只是一阵子，过后回头看看，其实那都不算什么。
18. Pain is just for a while, and when you look back later, it’s actually nothing.

学会宽恕伤害自己的人，因为他们也很可怜，被压力推动，不由自主。
19. Learn to forgive those who hurt you, because they are also pitiful, driven by pressure and involuntarily.

每个人都是独立的个体，真的没有谁离开谁就活不下去的情况。
20. Everyone is an independent individual, and there really is no situation where one cannot live without another.

爱情虽美，它最伤人，别轻易转身，否则，它将伤痛一辈子。
1. Although love is beautiful, it can hurt the most. Don’t turn around easily, otherwise, it will cause pain for a lifetime.

生活总嘲笑我们太年轻，可青春却不经易老去。
2. Life always mocks us for being too young, but youth fades away effortlessly.

有人说生命在于静止，有人说生命在于折腾……其实，懒有懒的安逸，折腾有折腾的乐趣。重要的是，你有享受过程的智慧，又有承担后果的能力。
3. Some say life lies in stillness, while others say it lies in turmoil… In fact, there is comfort in laziness and joy in turmoil. What’s important is to have the wisdom to enjoy the process and the ability to bear the consequences.

永远不要完全相信你眼睛看到的，很可能那只是你愿意看到的。
4. Never completely trust what your eyes see, as it may only be what you want to see.

一个人的成熟与否，不是出口成章，说出许多深刻的道理，或者是思想境界达到很高。而是待人接物让人舒适，并且不卑不亢，保留自我的棱角又有接纳他人的圆润而活着。成熟的人不需要辩解，仅仅一个微笑就足够了。
5. A person’s maturity is not about speaking eloquently, sharing profound truths, or having a high level of thought. It’s about being comfortable in dealing with others, neither humble nor arrogant, maintaining one’s own edges while embracing the smoothness of others. Mature people don’t need explanations; a smile is enough.

现在的你要是多学一样本事，以后的你就能少说一句求人的话。
6. The more skills you learn now, the fewer words you’ll have to ask for help in the future.

别把生活想的太难，感恩自己还活在这人世间。生活没有答案，生活不需要答案。当生活即将不属于你时，你才会发现：生活仅仅是一个过程，而这个过程无论多么复杂，最终结局都是一样的。生活注重的是过程，而不是结局。
7. Don’t think life is too difficult; be grateful that you are still alive in this world. Life has no answers, and it doesn’t need any. When life is about to slip away from you, you’ll realize that it’s just a process, and no matter how complicated it is, the final outcome is the same. Life focuses on the process, not the outcome.

以一颗无尘的心，还原生命的本真。
8. With a dust-free heart, restore the essence of life.

不论一个人多么坚强，内心总有一块柔软的地方，生活如舟，摇摆不定；生活如麻，千丝万缕。人生，可以平淡，可以跌宕，但是不能没有爱过的精彩。此生，不求惊天动地，只求淡然行走于红尘，以一袭洒脱，做，最真实的自己。
9. No matter how strong a person is, there is always a soft spot in their heart. Life is like a boat, swaying; life is like a tangled thread. Life can be plain or dramatic, but it cannot lack the brilliance of love. In this life, I don’t seek to shake the heavens and the earth, but to walk calmly in the world of mortals, with a free and easy demeanor, being the most genuine self.

最美的你不是生如夏花，而是在时间的长河里，波澜不惊。
10. The most beautiful you is not like a summer flower, but in the long river of time, remaining undisturbed.

其实总是笑的人，真的很需要人疼。既然已经伤害了过去，就不要再辜负了将来。
11. People who always smile actually need someone to care for them. Since the past has already been hurt, don’t let down the future.

你喜欢她，她也很喜欢你，你们都知道总有一天你们会有人先开口，但你们不知道你们会在哪一天谁先开口说喜欢对方，这就是最好的时光。
12. You like her, and she likes you too. You both know that one day one of you will confess, but you don’t know when and who will take the first step. That is the best time.

人生其实没什么好迷茫的，走得随意一点潇洒一点，反正终点都是定好的，又不用怕迷路。
13. Life isn’t really that confusing. Walk more casually and freely; the destination is set, so there’s no need to worry about getting lost.

不要害怕改变，可能会因此失去一些好的东西，但也可能会得到一些更好的东西。
14. Don’t be afraid of change; you might lose some good things, but you could also gain something even better.

能看穿你三方面的人值得信任：你笑容背后的悲伤，你怒火里掩藏的爱意，你沉默之下的原因。
15. Trust those who can see through three aspects of you: the sadness behind your smile, the love hidden in your anger, and the reasons behind your silence.

旅行的意义，不是逃避，不是艳遇，不是放松心情，更不是炫耀，而是为了洗一洗身体和灵魂，给自己换一种新的眼光，甚至一种生活方式，给生命增加多一种可能性的叉枝。
16. The meaning of travel is not to escape, seek romance, relax, or show off, but to cleanse the body and soul, to give oneself a new perspective, and even a new way of life, adding more possibilities to life.

真正的行者，不在于走过了多少地方，而在于成就了多少次全新的自己。
17. A true traveler is not about visiting many places, but about creating new versions of themselves.

阅读或许就是一个安全出口。到书里去，那里有可以栖身的地方，让人暂时忘记了我是谁，我在哪里。
18. Reading may be a safe outlet. Go into the world of books, where there is a place to take refuge, allowing one to temporarily forget who they are and where they are.

生活总会在最深的绝望里，遇见最美丽的风景。你会得到安宁，当你不再跟自己过不去的时候。
19. Life will always meet the most beautiful scenery in the deepest despair. You will find peace when you stop being hard on yourself.

人生中出现的一切，都无法拥有，只能经历。深知这一点的人，就会懂得：无所谓失去，而只是经过而已；亦无所谓失败，而只是经验而已。用一颗浏览的心，去看待人生，一切的得与失、隐与显，都是风景与风情。
1. In life, we cannot possess anything; we can only experience it. Those who deeply understand this will know: there is no loss, only passing by; and no failure, only experience. With a browsing heart, we can view the gains and losses, the hidden and revealed, as scenery and charm.

总有那么一些时候，别人已经说到我们心坎里了，可我们却不愿意承认。
2. There are always moments when others have already spoken to our hearts, but we are unwilling to admit it.

当你做对的时候，没有人会记得；当你做错的时候，连呼吸都是错。人不要太任性，因为你是活给未来的你。不要让未来的你讨厌现在的你。
3. When you do the right thing, no one will remember; when you make a mistake, even breathing is wrong. Don’t be too capricious, because you are living for your future self. Don’t let your future self dislike your current self.

时间是单行道，过去了，回不来。生活是简单的，你做出选择，然后就不要回头。
4. Time is a one-way street; once it’s passed, it won’t come back. Life is simple: make a choice and then don’t look back.

光阴蹉跎，世界喧嚣，我自己要警惕，在人生旅途上保持一份童趣和闲心是不容易的。如果哪一天我只是埋头于人生中的种种事务，不再有兴致扒在车窗旁看沿途的风光，倾听内心的音乐，那时候我就真正老了俗了，那样便辜负了人生这一趟美好的旅行。
5. Time slips away, and the world is noisy. I must be vigilant in maintaining a sense of childlike wonder and leisurely spirit on my life’s journey, as it is not easy. If one day I only focus on the various affairs of life and no longer have the interest to look out the window and enjoy the scenery along the way, to listen to the music within my heart, then I will truly be old and worldly, thus failing to appreciate the beauty of this journey through life.

人都是矛盾的，渴望被理解，又害怕被看穿。有些事，想多了头疼，想通了心疼。
6. People are contradictory; they desire to be understood but fear being seen through. Some things, when overthought, cause headaches; when understood, cause heartaches.

成熟是一个很痛的词，它不一定会得到，却一定会失去。有时候我可以看得很淡然、有时候我又执着得有些不堪。
7. Maturity is a painful word; it doesn’t necessarily bring gains, but it will definitely bring losses. Sometimes I can be indifferent, while other times I am persistently unbearable.

逝去的东西，最好不见，最好不念。孤单，是你心里面没有人。寂寞，是你心里有人却不在身边。有些路，只能一个人走，路上的艰辛，只有自己知道。我会珍惜那些此时此刻的友谊，因为我相信我们只有今生没来世。
8. It’s best not to see or think about the things that have passed. Loneliness is when there is no one in your heart; solitude is when there is someone in your heart but not by your side. Some roads can only be walked alone, and the hardships along the way are only known to oneself. I will cherish the friendships of the present moment because I believe we have only this life, no afterlife.

真心等你的人，他总会真心等下去，不愿意等你的人，总是一转身就牵了别人的手。最尴尬的就是：每次都会高估自己在别人心里的位置。
9. Those who truly wait for you will always wait sincerely; those who don’t want to wait for you will always turn around and hold someone else’s hand. The most embarrassing thing is always overestimating your position in others’ hearts.

人生的重大决定，是由心规划的，像一道预先计算好的框架，等待着你的星座运行。如期待改变我们的命运，请首先改变心的轨迹。
10. Major life decisions are planned by the heart, like a pre-calculated framework waiting for your constellation to move. If you expect to change our destiny, please first change the trajectory of your heart.

在很大程度上，智商决定你走了哪条路，情商决定了你在这条路上能走多远。
11. To a large extent, IQ determines which path you take, while EQ determines how far you can go on that path.

世界上的事情，最忌讳的就是个十全十美，你看那天上的月亮，一旦圆满了，马上就要亏厌；树上的果子，一旦熟透了，马上就要坠落。凡事总要稍留欠缺，才能持恒。
12. The most taboo thing in the world is perfection. Look at the moon in the sky; once it becomes full, it will immediately start to wane; the fruit on the tree, once ripe, will immediately fall. In all things, there must be a slight imperfection to maintain constancy.

我一直以为人是慢慢变老的，其实不是，人是一瞬间变老的。
13. I always thought people grow old slowly, but in fact, they grow old in an instant.

因为你，我愿意成为一个更好的人，不想成为你的包袱，因此发奋努力，只是为了想要证明我足以与你相配。
14. Because of you, I am willing to become a better person, not wanting to be a burden to you, so I strive hard, just to prove that I am worthy of being with you.

我站在树上，学习像鸟一样飞翔，虽然知道这不可能，可还是要试一试，风来了，临风飞舞，我感到无比幸福。
15. I stand on the tree, learning to fly like a bird. Although I know it’s impossible, I still want to try. When the wind comes, I dance with the wind, feeling incredibly happy.

心脏是一座有两间卧室的房子，一间住着快乐，一间住着痛苦。人不能笑得太响，否则会吵醒隔壁的痛苦。
16. The heart is a house with two rooms, one for happiness and one for pain. One must not laugh too loudly, or else they will wake the pain in the next room.

有些事，你把它藏在心里也许更好，等时间长了，回过头去看它，也就变成了故事。
17. Some things may be better left hidden in your heart. As time passes and you look back, they become stories.

愿你一生努力，一生被爱，最想要的都拥有，得不到的都释怀。
18. May you work hard all your life, be loved all your life, possess everything you desire, and let go of everything you can’t get.

不辜负每一份热情，不讨好每一份冷漠。
19. Live up to every enthusiasm, and don’t please every indifference.

在这个世界上，不要太依赖别人。 因为即使是你的影子，也会在黑暗时离开你的。
1. In this world, don’t rely too much on others. Because even your shadow will leave you in the dark.

“以后还有机会的”，这句话让我们做了多少遗憾终生的事。
2. The phrase “there will be opportunities in the future” has led us to do many things we regret for the rest of our lives.

心太软的人快乐是不容易的，别人伤害她或她伤害别人都让她在心里病一场。
3. It is not easy for those with a soft heart to be happy, as hurting others or being hurt by others causes them great pain inside.

喜欢在雨中漫步，享受雨的洗礼，看着行走过的脚印在雨中慢慢沉淀，犹如岁月蹉跎，留下的又岂止那满满回忆。
4. I like to walk in the rain, enjoying the cleansing it brings, watching the footprints I leave slowly fade away in the rain, just like the passing of time, leaving behind more than just memories.

生命对于每个人来说，只有一次，活着本身就是一种幸运，快乐本身就是一种幸福；没有过不去的坎，没有过不去的沟壑，只有过不去的心。我们所走过的路是幸运还是跌撞，是对还是错，谁也无法看透。珍惜现在，走过了就不要后悔；淡然完美，看淡了，才有良好的心境。
5. Life is a one-time gift for everyone, and being alive is a blessing in itself, as is happiness; there are no insurmountable obstacles, only those that cannot be overcome by the heart. Whether our journey has been fortunate or fraught with setbacks, right or wrong, no one can truly see through it all. Cherish the present, and once you’ve passed it by, don’t regret it; let go of perfection, and only then can you have a good state of mind.

爱情一直都在，即使相处久了，有了亲情。那句“爱情最终会转化为亲情”，其实是把亲情夸大了，爱情一直都在！
6. Love is always there, even after a long time together, when it turns into a sense of family. The saying “love eventually turns into family affection” is actually an exaggeration of family bonds, as love is always present!

风过无痕，终究是我强留了你。你曾说过“赢了我陪你君临天下，输了我陪你浪迹天涯”。誓言尤在耳边，却早已物是人非，得到了权利，却失去了你，高处不胜寒，拥有的再多都比不过你，如果早知道得到这一切的代价是失去你，我想我不会去争取，只因你重于一切，只是这世界上没有如果……
7. The wind leaves no trace, and in the end, I forced you to stay. You once said, “If I win, I will accompany you to rule the world; if I lose, I will wander the ends of the earth with you.” The vow still echoes in my ears, but everything has changed, and I have gained power at the cost of losing you. No amount of possessions can compare to you, and if I had known that the price of all this would be losing you, I would not have fought for it, because you are more important than anything else. But there are no “ifs” in this world…

思念的海，总是在夜里涨潮。也许我不该执着那一朵浪花，然而梦里，她却依旧澎湃……
8. The sea of longing always rises at night. Perhaps I shouldn’t cling to that single wave, yet in my dreams, it still surges…

总是寻找着某种东西，今天才发现，原来自己想要寻找的，不过是阳光罢了。
9. I’ve always been searching for something, only to discover today that what I truly wanted was sunlight.

一直喜欢黑暗的我，居然有点喜欢阳光了。
10. I, who always liked the dark, now find myself starting to like the sunshine.

喜欢文字，无关自身文采，无关他人看法，只为自己的喜欢。
11. I love words, not for my own literary talent, nor for the opinions of others, but simply because I enjoy them.

我们终究是凡夫俗子做不到心如止水，既然这样又何必违背自己的心，何不敞开心扉，接纳自己喜欢的人，不管别人的看法，不在乎所有的外在因素，轰轰烈烈的爱一场，不管最终结局怎样，至少将来可以理直气壮的说为了爱我努力过至少我不后悔……
12. We are all mortals and cannot achieve a heart as still as water. Since that’s the case, why go against our hearts? Why not open our hearts, accept the people we like, regardless of others’ opinions, and not care about any external factors? Let’s love passionately, no matter the outcome, at least we can say we tried and have no regrets…

过去的我一直很傻很天真，常常乐意在别人的生活里充当配角，现在的我终于懂了要在自己的生活里做主角。
13. I used to be naive and foolish, always happy to play a supporting role in other people’s lives. Now I’ve finally understood that I should be the protagonist in my own life.

没有谁能够陪谁一百年，亦没有谁能够真心待谁一辈子，总会有厌烦的时候。
14. No one can accompany anyone for a hundred years, nor can anyone truly treat another with sincerity for a lifetime; there will always come a time of weariness.

很久很久以前，身边的人总是说会陪我一辈子，可是，究竟有几个人能做到？大家都走吧，我不会再相信这种话了，许下太美好的诺言却不去实现，我也不知道自己到底该不该一个人走完这一程？
15. A long time ago, people around me always said they would accompany me for a lifetime, but how many of them can actually do it? Everyone, just leave吧, I no longer believe in such words. Making beautiful promises but not fulfilling them, I don’t know if I should walk this journey alone.

入戏太深，用情太真，伤口越疼。
16. Getting too involved in a role, giving too much emotion, only makes the wound hurt more.

陪伴有时是一首歌的时间，陪伴有时是一杯茶的暖香，陪伴有时是一句话的温暖。
17. Sometimes, companionship is just the duration of a song; sometimes, it’s the warmth of a cup of tea; sometimes, it’s the warmth of a single word.

爱与不爱，恨与不恨，纯粹在于你的一念之间，选择了，就请你不要后悔。
18. Love or not, hate or not, it all lies in your一念之间 (a single thought). Once you’ve chosen, please don’t regret it.

如果可以，我宁愿将你们之间的故事写成喜剧。
19. If I could, I would rather turn your story into a comedy.

千年前，释迦摩尼成为佛祖，千年后的世界、人事并没有多大改变，除了过早显现的消散的豪言。使信徒膜拜的佛经，也不是佛曰，而是真实的尘世的笔墨。说到底，我们不信仰神，只不过信仰的还是人而已。自信者皆可成佛。你以为你懂了吗？错了。道可道，非常道；名可名，非常名。
A thousand years ago, Siddhartha Gautama became the Buddha. A thousand years later, the world and human affairs have not changed much, except for the premature and fading boasts. The Buddhist scriptures that make believers worship are not the words of the Buddha, but the true笔墨 of the earthly world. In the end, we do not believe in gods, but only in people. Those who have confidence can become Buddhas. Do you think you understand? You are wrong. The Dao that can be spoken is not the eternal Dao; the name that can be named is not the eternal name.

最痛的，不是离别，而是离别后的回忆。
The most painful thing is not parting, but the memories after parting.

我喜欢牵了手就能成婚的故事，却活在上了床也没有结果的年代。
I like stories where holding hands leads to marriage, but I live in an era where even after getting into bed, there is no result.

学会做个彪悍的姑娘，不娇柔，不造作，不发嗲，不懦弱，怎么骄傲怎么活！
Learn to be a tough girl, not delicate, not affected, not coquettish, not weak, live as proudly as you can!

你的抑郁症是矫情，你的拖延症是懒，你的强迫症是闲得蛋疼，你的夜里失眠是因为清晨从未早起。
Your depression is a pretense, your procrastination is laziness, your OCD is boredom, and your insomnia at night is because you never get up early in the morning.

很多女人不是不愿意自己买钉子换灯泡，只是，假如一个灯泡一根钉子都要她们自己去换去买，心里多少有点荒凉。荒凉完了，还是亲力亲为地做了，于是，内心一点一点硬起来，很多大女人，都是小女人变的，毕竟，只靠着撒娇卖萌搞不定世界。
Many women are not unwilling to buy nails and change light bulbs by themselves, but if they have to do it all by themselves, they feel a little desolate. After the desolation, they still do it themselves, and their hearts gradually become tougher. Many strong women are transformed from delicate ones, after all, the world cannot be fixed by just acting cute and卖萌.

不要在你最美好最年轻的时光里做个只会玩手机的胖子！
Don’t be a fat person who only plays with their phone during your most beautiful and youthful years!

有时候啊，当你开始介意某件事的时候，那么这件被你介意的事就会被你无限放大、夸张，比如说你介意孤单，那么孤单就一定会令你很难过。其实也只不过就是暂时一个人面对生活而已，但偏偏就是因为介意，所以孤单这件小事就此变得“隆重”，其实说到底还是矫情。
Sometimes, when you start to mind something, that thing you mind will be amplified and exaggerated by you infinitely, such as if you mind being alone, then being alone will definitely make you very sad. In fact, it’s just a temporary situation of facing life alone, but because you mind, being alone becomes a “grand” event, and in the end, it’s still pretentious.

一个人脾气好，不容易发火，不跟人过不去，不但对自己是幸福，也对他周围的人是幸福。相反，好发脾气，老跟人抬杠，喜欢挑人毛病的人，不但一辈子磕磕碰碰，他周围的人也受累。这个简单的道理我到四十多岁才慢慢明白过来。
A person with a good temper, who is not easily angered and doesn’t get into conflicts with others, is not only happy for themselves but also for those around them. On the contrary, those who are quick-tempered, always arguing with others, and like to find faults in others will have a bumpy life, and those around them will also suffer. It took me until my forties to slowly understand this simple truth.

人本过客来无处，休说故里在何方，随遇而安无不可，人间到处有花香。
People are but passers-by with no fixed place, don’t say where your hometown is, be content with what you encounter, fragrances of flowers can be found everywhere in the world.

你的人生永远不会辜负你的，那些转错的弯，那些走错的路，那些留下的泪水，那些滴下的汗水，那些留下的伤痕，全都让你成为独一无二的自己。
Your life will never disappoint you, those wrong turns, those mistaken paths, those tears shed, those drops of sweat, those scars left, all make you unique.

我见过的最淡定的女子，没事从来不给男朋友发短信打电话，问她怎么想的？她说：他若不忙，就会和我联系。他若正忙，我打扰他干什么？他若不忙也不和我联系，那我联系他干什么呢？
The calmest woman I’ve ever met never texts or calls her boyfriend when there’s no reason. When asked why, she said: If he’s not busy, he will contact me. If he’s busy, why bother him? If he’s not busy and still doesn’t contact me, then why should I contact him?

年龄就好像耕地，事物的本质会逐渐被挖掘出来。可是只有当时日已过，我们已无力作出任何改变时，我们才拥有智慧。我们似乎是倒着生活的。
Age is like cultivated land, the essence of things will gradually be revealed. But only when the time has passed and we are powerless to make any changes do we possess wisdom. It seems we are living our lives backward.

为你我用了半年的积蓄，漂洋过海的来看你；为了这次相聚，我连见面时的呼吸都曾反复练习。
I spent half a year’s savings to cross the ocean to see you; for this reunion, I even practiced my breathing when we meet.

所谓陌路，就是最初不相识，最终不相认。
The so-called stranger is someone you don’t know at the beginning and don’t recognize in the end.

忧郁是因为自己无能，烦恼是由于欲望得不到满足，暴躁是一种虚怯的表现。
Melancholy is due to one’s own incompetence, worries stem from unsatisfied desires, and irritability is a manifestation of cowardice.

世界上，没有挤不出的时间，只有不想赴的约。每一个选择，都是内心的取向。
In this world, there is no time that cannot be squeezed out, only appointments that one does not want to attend. Every choice is a reflection of one’s inner orientation.

怜悯容易，因为它是优越感；宽容不易，因为你实际承认了被伤害。
1. Compassion is easy, for it is a sense of superiority; tolerance is not, for it means admitting the hurt.

人就是这样，总会活在某个时限内，那里的世界也许是几年之后连自己都无法理解的，但这又是我们无法突破的。为你，千千万万遍，遍体鳞伤还是会义无反顾，也许这就是人生，人生不是只做值得的事情！
2. People are like this: they always live within a certain time limit, a world that may be incomprehensible even to themselves a few years later, but it is something we cannot break through.

一生至少该有一次，为了某个人而忘了自己，不求有结果，不求同行，不求曾经拥有，甚至不求你爱我，只求在我最美的年华里，碰到你。
3. For you, a thousand times, ten thousand times, even if it leaves me scarred, I will still go all out without hesitation. Perhaps this is life, life is not just about doing worthwhile things!

人生的幸与不幸，关键看你面向哪里。时间，能经历很多事，亦明白很多理；能证明很多事，亦看透很多人；能落满很多灰，亦涤荡很多尘。时间，能封尘很多岁月，亦开启很多记忆；能抚平很多苦难，亦冲刷很多伤痛；能淡看世上纷繁，亦从容人间冷暖。
4. In one’s life, there should be at least once to forget oneself for someone, not seeking a result, not expecting to walk together, not even asking for love, but only to meet you in my most beautiful years.

怎么对待负面情绪？——打开歌单听歌，或者拿起手边的书开看。孤独无助时，永远不要逃避，也不要立马找人倾诉。静下来是最好的办法，如果连音乐和书都无法让你静下来，就去洗把脸想想初衷，你一定能想起自己是谁，这就是我的答案。当然如果以上都无效的话，那就去吃东西啊。
5. The happiness and misfortune of life depend on where you face. Time can experience many things, understand many truths; prove many things, see through many people; gather much dust, and cleanse much dirt. Time can bury many years, open many memories; soothe much suffering, and wash away much pain; calmly watch the world’s complexities and calmly deal with the world’s ups and downs.

生活中真正的快乐是心灵的快乐，它有时不见得与外在的物质生活有紧密的联系。真正快乐的力量，来自心灵的富足，来自于一种教养，来自于对理想的憧憬，也来自于与良朋益友的切磋与交流。
6. How to deal with negative emotions? - Open your playlist and listen to music, or pick up the book at hand and start reading. When feeling lonely and helpless, never run away, and don’t immediately seek someone to confide in. Calming down is the best solution. If even music and books can’t calm you down, go wash your face and think about your original intentions. You will surely remember who you are, and that’s my answer. Of course, if none of the above works, just go eat something.

有些伤痛，挥不去，就学着遗忘；有些过去，忘不了，就藏于心底；有些工作，做不好，就求助别人。只要快乐，你就什么都不缺。
7. The true happiness in life is the happiness of the soul, which may not always be closely related to one’s external material life. The true power of happiness comes from the richness of the soul, from a kind of cultivation, from the longing for ideals, and from the discussion and exchange with good friends and beneficial companions.

相信自己的坚强，但不要拒绝眼泪；相信物质的美好，但不要倾其一生；相信人与人之间的真诚；但不要指责虚伪；相信努力会成功，但不要逃避失败；相信上帝的公平，但不要忘了，当上帝关上门的时候，学会给自己画扇窗。
8. Some pain, if it cannot be driven away, learn to forget; some past, if it cannot be forgotten, hide it in your heart; some work, if it cannot be done well, ask others for help. As long as you are happy, you lack nothing.

与其在乎别人对你的议论，不如努力去做一些让他们羡慕的事情。
9. Believe in your own strength, but don’t refuse tears; believe in the beauty of material things, but don’t devote your whole life to them; believe in the sincerity between people, but don’t blame hypocrisy; believe that hard work will succeed, but don’t avoid failure; believe in God’s fairness, but don’t forget that when God closes the door, learn to draw a window for yourself.

世上有两样东西不可直视 ，一是太阳 ，二是人心。
10. Instead of caring about what others say about you, work hard to do something that makes them envious.

生活不是电影，忘了那些剧本吧，去过自己想过的人生。
1. Life is not a movie, forget those scripts, and live the life you want to live.

花开不知秋已去，雨来方觉冬已深。一窗夜雨，冷了回忆，一场花开，却暖了心情。
2. The flowers bloom unknowingly as autumn has passed, and the rain comes, realizing that winter is already deep. A window of night rain, cold memories, a bloom of flowers, but warms the mood.

浮生若梦，浮尘如空，为欢几何，百转千折。
3. Life is like a dream, and dust is like emptiness. How much joy is there, after all the twists and turns?

如果一样东西你得到了，却觉得不过如此，那么这个想得到其实就是你的欲望，如果一样东西你得到以后依然爱不释手，这才是你真正想要的。
4. If something you get feels just like that, then it’s actually your desire. If something you get and still can’t let go of, that’s what you truly want.

你要和我计较，我绝对不会大方。你要特别慷慨，我绝对比你还敞亮。
5. If you want to be stingy with me, I will never be generous. If you are particularly generous, I will be even more open than you.

以前的时候总觉得自己得不到的才是最好的。现在不了，自己拿到什么，就把什么变成属于自己的最好的东西。
6. I used to think that what I couldn’t get was the best. Now, I don’t. Whatever I get, I turn it into the best thing that belongs to me.

买得起自己喜欢的东西，去得了自己想去的地方，不会因为身边人的来或走损失生活的质量，反而会因为花自己的钱，来得更有底气一些，这就是应该努力的原因。
7. Being able to afford what you like, going to the places you want to go, not losing the quality of life because of the coming and going of people around you, but instead, having more confidence because you spend your own money - this is the reason to work hard.

慢热是因为怕被辜负，毕竟每一次投入都是倾尽所有。
8. Slow to warm up is because of the fear of being let down, after all, every investment is giving everything.

其实爱情本该纯净，谁天生都不欠谁的，老实人是可以托付，但我更喜欢你说他值得托付。善良自爱的人会被岁月温柔相待，你没来之前我不怨不艾不卑不亢。
9. In fact, love should be pure. No one is born owing anything to anyone. Honest and kind people can be entrusted, but I prefer it when you say he is worth entrusting. Kind and self-loving people will be treated gently by time. Before you came, I was not complaining or feeling inferior.

不要轻易地指责别人，因为我们没有足够的智慧，去知道别人生活里的喜怒哀乐、去真正体谅别人的酸甜苦辣。每个人因立场不同，所处的环境不同，很难了解对方的感受。所以，不要一味的随意去指责批评，否则会给别人带来伤害。做个幸福快乐的人儿，善待身边的每一个人。
10. Don’t easily blame others, because we don’t have enough wisdom to understand the joys and sorrows in others’ lives and truly empathize with their ups and downs. Everyone has different positions and environments, making it difficult to understand each other’s feelings. So, don’t criticize and judge casually, or it will hurt others. Be a happy person and treat everyone around you well.

你要尝试走一个人的路，享受一个人的时光。孤独到深处，孤独就成了铠甲。
11. You have to try walking alone and enjoying your own time. When loneliness reaches its depths, it becomes armor.

再好的朋友，也抵不过无底线的直白，记得：讲话的时候记得拐个弯。别把自己的口无遮拦当大气，在别人看来那只是幼稚；别把自己的直白当亮点，那也只是自私。
12. No matter how good a friend is, they can’t withstand unbridled straightforwardness. Remember: when speaking, remember to take a detour. Don’t take your tactlessness as magnanimity; others will see it as immaturity. Don’t take your straightforwardness as a highlight; it’s just selfishness.

感情中最磨人的，不是争吵或冷战，而是明明喜欢、还要装出不在乎。爱，总和自尊捆绑在一起。但自尊绝非高高在上的姿态，而是坦诚的面对自己。世人都习惯了扮演一种不屑一切的冷艳。演技越好，离快乐越远。别藏得太深，幸福会找不到你。
13. In relationships, the most wearing thing is not arguing or having a cold war, but liking someone and pretending not to care. Love is always tied to self-esteem. But self-esteem is by no means a high and mighty attitude; it’s facing yourself honestly. People are used to playing a role of disdain for everything. The better the acting, the further away from happiness. Don’t hide too deep, or happiness will not find you.

人是从什么时候开始变现实的呢？从终于认识到自己的局限开始，从第一次感觉到无能为力开始。从承认这世界很大、而内心很小开始。从失去你开始。
14. When did people start becoming realistic? It began when they finally realized their limitations, when they first felt powerless. When they admitted that the world is vast, and their hearts are small. When they lost you.

只希望你和我好，互不猜忌，也互不称誉，安如平日，你和我说话像对自己说话一样，我和你说话也像对自己说话一样。
15. I just hope that you and I are good, without suspicion or praise, as peaceful as usual. You and I speak to each other as if we were talking to ourselves.

一个人真的孤独，根本讲不出口。但是人生是个舞台啊，你走哪都要跟人笑笑，然后装作生活充实向上的样子。
16. A person who is truly lonely can’t even speak it out. But life is a stage; wherever you go, you have to smile at people and pretend to live a fulfilling and upward life.

打不通的电话不要打，不该发的短信不要发，不该理的人不要理。清醒点，世界大着呢！
17. Don’t call a number that can’t be reached, don’t send a message that shouldn’t be sent, and don’t pay attention to people who shouldn’t be paid attention to. Be sober; the world is vast!

刚来到世界的时候，小拳头都握得紧紧的，知道终有失去，后来长大学会摊开手掌，知道终有收获。人生在世，每一天都是成长。
18. When we first came to this world, our little fists were clenched tightly, knowing that there would be losses. As we grew up, we learned to open our palms, knowing that there would be gains. In life, every day is growth.

心之何如，有似万丈迷津，遥亘千里，其中并无舟子可以渡人，除了自渡，他人爱莫能助。
1. What is in the heart seems like a vast and confusing maze, stretching for thousands of miles, with no boatman to ferry people across. Except for self-deliverance, others can hardly help.

如果你太在意别人的看法，那么你的生活将变成一件裤衩。别人放什么屁，你都得接着。
2. If you care too much about others’ opinions, your life will become a pair of pants. You have to deal with whatever nonsense others emit.

没有人会天生了解你的全部，只是有的人会愿意用最大的善意去揣测未知的你；若遇到，请珍惜。
3. No one is born knowing everything about you; it’s just that some people are willing to make the best guesses about the unknown you with the greatest kindness; if you encounter such people, please cherish them.

所有的烦恼都是你自己的错。原因不外有三：或者没学问，或者没修养，或者没钱。
4. All troubles are your own fault. The reasons can be summed up in three points: either lack of knowledge, lack of cultivation, or lack of money.

我不敢休息，因为我没有存款；我不敢说累，因为我没有成就；我不敢偷懒，因为我还要生活；我能放弃选择，但是我不能选择放弃。所以坚强，拼搏是我唯一的选择。
5. I dare not rest because I have no savings; I dare not say I’m tired because I have no achievements; I dare not be lazy because I still have to live; I can give up choices, but I cannot choose to give up. Therefore, being strong and striving is my only choice.

自作多情的男人太多，有时候你对他们笑几次，他们就认为你对他们有意思，你若拒绝了，他们回过头来还要怪你勾引他们。
6. There are too many men who are self-romantic; sometimes you just smile at them a few times, and they think you are interested in them. If you reject them, they will blame you for seducing them afterward.

渐渐的你会发现，不是所有人都适合让你去分享成功的喜悦。有的埋怨你炫耀，有的妒忌，有的不屑，所以我们都慢慢变的谦虚起来。到最后，那些能让你毫无保留地分享骄傲心情的人，那些在你得意忘形时也不会反感而带着微笑的人，才是你最重要的人。
7. Gradually, you will find that not everyone is suitable for you to share the joy of success. Some complain about your showing off, some are jealous, and some disdain. So we all become more modest. In the end, those who can share your pride without reservation, and those who will not be annoyed but smile when you are elated, are the most important people in your life.

我以为时间是最好的偏方，没想到治好的全是皮外伤。
8. I thought time was the best remedy, but it turns out that it only cured superficial injuries.

不要嘲笑别人的外表，不然说不定哪天你就会成为了别人的笑话。
9. Don’t mock other people’s appearances, or one day you might become the joke of others.

照镜子的时候不要光看前面，也看看后面。
10. When looking in the mirror, don’t just look at the front; also check the back.

没有做好充分的准备之前，不要贸然地去未知的领域尝试。
11. Don’t venture into the unknown without adequate preparation.

很多时候，当下那个我们以为迈不过去的槛，一段时间之后回过头看其实早就轻松跳过；当下那个我们以为撑不过去的时刻，其实忍着熬着也就自然而然地过去了。所有没能打败你的东西，都将使你变得更加强大。时间也是，它没能打败你，便会给你救赎。
12. Many times, the obstacles we think we can’t overcome, we actually jump over easily after some time; the moments we think we can’t bear, we naturally get through by enduring and struggling. Everything that doesn’t defeat you will make you stronger. Time is also like this; if it doesn’t defeat you, it will redeem you.

你不快乐是因为：你可以像只猪一样懒，却无法像只猪一样，懒得心安理得。
13. You are unhappy because: you can be as lazy as a pig, but you can’t be as carefree as a pig, feeling at ease with your laziness.

命是弱者的借口，运是强者的谦词。
14. Destiny is the excuse of the weak, and luck is the modesty of the strong.

因为你太过于热情，所以总觉得别人对你都太冷漠；因为你太爱一个人，所以别人一个疏忽你都觉得那是不爱你了。多把精力放在自己身上，你会减少很多矫情的情绪。
15. Because you are too passionate, you always feel that others are too indifferent to you; because you love someone too much, you think their slightest neglect means they don’t love you. Focus more on yourself, and you will reduce a lot of emotional melodrama.

如果你把思考交给了电视剧；把联系和人际圈交给了手机；把双腿和出行都交给了汽车；把健康都交给了补品和药片负责；那么你的生活也许是时尚的，但一定是错误的；也许是习惯的，但一定会为此买单的。 请让书，聚会，步行，锻炼更多的出现在生活里。
16. If you hand over your thinking to TV dramas; your connections and social circle to mobile phones; your legs and travel to cars; your health to supplements and pills; then your life may be fashionable, but it must be wrong; it may be habitual, but you will pay the price for it. Please let books, gatherings, walking, and exercise appear more in your life.

有些事，说了就没劲了。你甘愿付出什么，是你的事。别人愿不愿意，是别人的事。原来，从来都不存在凭什么。再回想起自己当年为那个人做过的事，猛然惊醒，很多事，其实只是为了自己。你不过是斟满了两杯酒，跟对方说声，我干了，你随意。
17. Some things, once said, lose their appeal. What you are willing to give is your business. Whether others are willing or not is their business. In the end, there has never been any “by what right.” When you recall the things you did for that person back then, you suddenly wake up and realize that many things were actually for yourself. You just poured two glasses of wine and said to the other person, “I’ll drink up, and you do as you please.”

很多事情，不用抱怨，不用烦恼，归根结底都是因为自己实力不够。
18. Many things need not be complained or worried about; in the final analysis, they are all due to our own lack of strength.

翅膀长在你的肩上，太在乎别人对于你飞行姿势的批评，所以你飞不起来。
1. Wings grow on your shoulders, but you care too much about others’ criticism of your flying posture, so you can’t fly.

我们轻视时间，最终总会被时间碾压。
2. We underestimate time, and eventually, it will crush us.

我们都过了耳听爱情的年纪，总有一天，你会不需要轰轰烈烈的爱情，你想要的只是一个不会离开你的人，冷的时候他会给你一件外套，胃里难受的时候给你一杯热水，难过的时候给你一个拥抱，就这么一直陪在你身边，不是整天说多爱多爱，而是认真的一句“不离开”。到最后，你爱的人终究会败给对你好的人。
3. We have all passed the age of listening to love stories; one day, you will no longer need passionate love. What you truly desire is someone who won’t leave you, providing a jacket when it’s cold, a cup of hot water when your stomach aches, and a hug when you’re sad. They will stay by your side, not constantly saying “I love you,” but genuinely saying “I won’t leave.” In the end, the person you love will be defeated by someone who is good to you.

你不努力，永远不会有人对你公平，只有你努力了，有了资源，有了话语权以后，你才可能为自己争取公平的机会。
4. If you don’t strive, no one will ever treat you fairly. Only when you work hard, gain resources, and have a voice can you fight for fairness.

人生所有的问题，都是关系的问题。在所有的关系之中，你和你自己的关系最为重要。它是关系的总脐带。如果你处理不好和自我的关系，你的一生就不得安宁和幸福。你可以成功，但没有快乐。你可以有家庭，但缺乏温暖。你可以姹紫嫣红宾朋满座，但却不曾有高山流水患难之交。
5. All of life’s problems are relationship problems. Among all relationships, the one with yourself is the most important. It is the central cord of relationships. If you can’t handle your relationship with yourself, your life will never be peaceful and happy. You may succeed, but without joy. You may have a family, but lack warmth. You may have many friends, but never a true confidant.

愿多年以后，你我认识旧友，共饮老酒一醉方休，唱一句青春不朽！
6. May we meet old friends many years later, share a drink of aged wine, and sing of eternal youth!

当看破一切的时候才知道，原来失去比拥有更踏实。
7. Only when you see through everything do you realize that losing is more reassuring than possessing.

几乎所有的痛苦都来自于我们不善于在房间里独处。
8. Almost all pain comes from our inability to be alone in a room.

你要明白不是所有人都会喜欢你，迁就你，疼你。你也要知道并不是全世界都在讨厌你，忽视你，不珍惜你。一面学着没心没肺，一面学着看破一切。路还长，梦还可以继续做。
9. You must understand that not everyone will like, accommodate, or cherish you. Also, know that not the whole world dislikes, ignores, or doesn’t value you. Learn to be carefree while also learning to see through everything. The journey is long, and dreams can still continue.

每次遇到“我说话就是这么直，你担待点”的人我就想直接一耳光，然后说：我打人就是这么疼，你忍着点。
10. Whenever I encounter someone who says, “I speak so directly, please bear with me,” I want to slap them and say, “I hit so painfully, please endure it.”

我们总是像智者一样去劝慰别人，却像傻子一样折磨自己，很多时候，跟自己过不去的总是自己。
11. We often console others like wise people but torture ourselves like fools. Most of the time, it’s ourselves that we can’t get along with.

你需要的是修行，而不是旅行；你需要是信仰，而不是西藏。
12. What you need is self-cultivation, not travel; what you need is faith, not Tibet.

有时候，努力一点，是为了让自己有资格，不去做不喜欢的事，为了能让自己，遇见一个喜欢的人时，不会因为，自己不够好而没能留住对方。为了避免，与朋友拉开差距，未来也能看到同一个世界。为了看清自己最后能走到哪里。
13. Sometimes, working harder is to qualify yourself to avoid doing things you dislike, to meet someone you like without losing them because you’re not good enough, to prevent being left behind by friends, and to see the same world in the future. To see how far you can go.

友情是站在你身后，你受伤了帮你包扎伤口为你上药；爱情是站在你身前，为你遮风挡雨，不让你有受伤的机会。
14. Friendship is standing behind you, bandaging your wounds and applying medicine when you’re hurt; love is standing in front of you, shielding you from the wind and rain, not giving you a chance to get hurt.

女人错过了最想嫁的男人，便没了选择的欲望。男人错过了最想娶的女人，便有了挑剔的毛病。
15. Women who miss the man they most want to marry lose the desire to choose; men who miss the woman they most want to marry become picky.

时间久了，你会发现男人的相貌并不重要，重要的是脑子里有智慧，心中有担当！男人的甜言并不重要，重要的是能否兑现承诺！男人的金钱多少不重要，重要的是花不花在你身上！男人的人在哪里不重要，重要的是心里是否牵挂你。
16. Over time, you’ll find that a man’s appearance is not important; what matters is the wisdom in his mind and the responsibility in his heart! A man’s sweet words are not important; what matters is whether he can keep his promises! A man’s wealth is not important; what matters is whether he spends it on you! It doesn’t matter where a man is; what matters is if he cares for you.

长大的一个坏处是，深信不疑的东西，越来越少了。好处是，越来越不需要对一些东西深信不疑了。
17. One downside of growing up is that there are fewer things we believe in without doubt. The upside is that we increasingly don’t need to believe in things without doubt.

这世界上根本不存在“不会做”这回事，当你失去了所有的依靠的时候，自然就什么都会了。
1. There is no such thing as “can’t do” in this world. When you lose all your support, you will naturally be able to do anything.

大多数人都是以你的外貌身材家世背景工作能力等客观条件来评价你，但恋人应该是那个能够看到你内心与其他人本质上不同之处并且会被此吸引的人。他愿意尊重呵护你的内心，他很清楚你有多么珍贵，他不会轻易离开。与精神无法共鸣的伴侣一起生活，日日夜夜不过是苟且。
2. Most people judge you based on your appearance, physique, family background, and work ability. However, a lover should be someone who can see the inherent differences in your heart and be attracted to them. He is willing to respect and care for your inner self, knowing how precious you are, and will not leave easily. Living with a partner who cannot resonate with you spiritually is just a daily struggle.

父亲永远都是不善于表达他的爱，但他总是会默默地用行动告诉我们，他是有多么的爱我们。
3. Fathers are never good at expressing their love, but they always show us through their actions how much they love us.

茶不过两种姿态，浮、沉；饮茶人不过两种姿势，拿起、放下。人生如茶，沉时坦然，浮时淡然，拿得起也需要放得下。
4. Tea has only two postures, floating and sinking; tea drinkers have only two poses, picking up and putting down. Life is like tea, be calm when sinking, indifferent when floating, and be able to both take on and let go.

我们总是羡慕别人。你羡慕我的自由，我羡慕你的约束；你羡慕我的车，我羡慕你的房；你羡慕我的工作，我羡慕你每天总有休息时间。或许，我们都是远视眼，总是活在对别人的仰视里；或许，我们都是近视眼，往往忽略了身边的幸福。
5. We always envy others. You envy my freedom, I envy your constraints; you envy my car, I envy your house; you envy my job, I envy your daily rest time. Perhaps we are all nearsighted, always living in admiration of others; or perhaps we are all farsighted, often overlooking the happiness around us.

无论你经历过多少挫折，战胜过多少困难，让自己变得多么强大，但这世上总有一两个人只要出现，就总能恶心到你。
6. No matter how many setbacks you have experienced or how many difficulties you have overcome, there will always be one or two people in this world who can make you feel sick just by showing up.

我喜欢她是因为，我觉得她好，她什么都好。
7. I like her because I think she is good, and everything about her is good.

上天不给我的，无论我十指怎样紧扣，仍然走漏；给我的，无论过去我怎么失手，都会拥有。
8. What heaven doesn’t give me, no matter how tightly I hold on, will still slip away; what is given to me, no matter how much I missed it in the past, will always be mine.

成长的很大一部分，是接受。接受分道扬镳，接受世事无常，接受孤独挫折，接受突如其来的无力感，接受自己的缺点。然后发自内心地去改变，找到一个平衡点。跟世界相处，首先是和自己相处。天黑开盏灯，落雨带把伞，难过先难过，但也不作死。
9. A large part of growing up is accepting. Accepting parting ways, accepting the impermanence of things, accepting loneliness and setbacks, accepting sudden feelings of helplessness, and accepting your own flaws. Then, genuinely change and find a balance. To get along with the world, first learn to get along with yourself. Turn on the light when it’s dark, bring an umbrella when it rains, feel sad first, but don’t give up.

人都有宽容和苛责的一面，遗憾的是，很多人把苛责留给了最亲的人。
10. People have both tolerant and critical sides, but unfortunately, many people leave their criticism for their closest ones.

过好你自己吧，别人的故事不再需要你了。
11. Live your own life, other people’s stories no longer need you.

不要做廉价的自己，不要随意去付出，不要一厢情愿去迎合别人，圈子不同，不必强融。
12. Don’t be a cheap version of yourself, don’t give away your efforts casually, and don’t try to please others against your will. If the circles are different, there’s no need to force yourself to fit in.

再大的伤痛，睡一觉就把它忘了。背着昨天追赶明天，会累坏了每一个当下。边走边忘，才能感受到每一个迎面而来的幸福。烦恼不过夜，健忘才幸福。
13. No matter how much pain you have, forget it after a good night’s sleep. Carrying yesterday while chasing tomorrow will exhaust every present moment. Only by forgetting along the way can you feel the happiness that comes your way. Troubles should not last overnight, and being forgetful is the key to happiness.

我以为爱情可以填满人生的遗憾。然而，制造更多遗憾的。却偏偏是爱情。
14. I thought love could fill the regrets in life. However, it is love that creates more regrets.

你给的都是你自己“想”给的，而不是对方想要的，活在自己世界里的付出，不值钱。
15. You give what you “want” to give, not what the other person wants. Giving in your own world is worthless.

有时，外面下着雨心却晴着；又有时，外面晴着心却下着雨。世界上许多东西在对比中让你品味。心晴的时候，雨也是晴；心雨的时候，晴也是雨。
16. Sometimes, it’s raining outside but your heart is sunny; other times, it’s sunny outside but your heart is raining. Many things in the world let you savor through contrast. When your heart is sunny, rain is also sunny; when your heart is rainy, sunshine is also rain.

所以要等，所以要忍，一直要到春天过去，到灿烂平息，到雷霆把他们轻轻放过，到幸福不请自来，才笃定，才坦然，才能在街头淡淡一笑。春有春的好，春天过去，有过去的好。
17. So, wait, endure, until spring has passed, until the splendor subsides, until thunder gently lets them go, until happiness comes unbidden, and then you will be determined, calm, and able to smile faintly on the street corner. Spring has its own beauty, and when spring is gone, there is still beauty in what has passed.

一个人爱你的时候，你的任性你的缺点都是可爱。一个人不爱你的时候，你说话是错，不说话是错，连呼吸都是错。这是人性，习惯就好。所以永远不要为了迁就谁而改变自己，爱的时候勇敢爱，散的时候大步走，别回头。
1. When someone loves you, your willfulness and flaws are endearing. When someone doesn’t love you, it’s wrong to speak, wrong to remain silent, and even wrong to breathe. This is human nature; just get used to it. So never change yourself to accommodate anyone. Love bravely when in love, and walk away boldly when it’s over, without looking back.

这个世界不是有钱人的世界,也不是无钱人的世界,它是有心人的世界
2. The world is not for the rich or the poor, but for those with heart.

没错，你身上一定有能让你发光的东西，那是你自己的节奏，那是你与众不同的东西。那是你的路，你必须自己走，才能找到出口。
3. Yes, there must be something on you that can shine, that’s your own rhythm, what makes you different. That’s your path, and you must walk it alone to find the way out.

小孩子在很多时候比大人还爱面子，因为世界小，所以，所有的小事都不小。
4. Children often care more about face than adults because their world is small, so all the little things are not small.

人生总是在失落中思索、遥望。如果人生没有了忧悲苦恼，没有悲欢离合，那么人生就是一场空白，一场惨淡。花季的烂漫，雨季的忧伤，随着年轮渐渐淡忘，沉淀于心的，一半是对美好的追求，一半是对残缺的接纳。曾经看不惯，受不了的，如今不过淡然一笑。成熟，不是看破，而是看淡。
5. Life is always pondering and looking ahead in loss. If life had no sorrows or partings, it would be a blank and bleak existence. The radiance of youth and the sorrows of the rainy season fade with time, leaving behind a pursuit of beauty and an acceptance of imperfections. What we couldn’t stand before is now just a calm smile. Maturity is not about seeing through things, but about looking at them with indifference.

说服别人支持你，不一定要证明比别人都优秀，而是要让别人觉得，因为有你，他们才变得更优秀、更有成就感。
6. To persuade others to support you, you don’t have to prove that you are better than everyone else; instead, you need to make them feel that they become better and more accomplished because of you.

有时，人们对自己的幸福熟视无睹，总是把眼睛看向别人的幸福。其实，你所拥有的正是别人所羡慕的。
7. Sometimes, people turn a blind eye to their own happiness and always look at the happiness of others. In fact, what you have is what others envy.

一个能控制住不良情绪的人，比一个能拿下一座城的人更强大。
8. A person who can control their negative emotions is stronger than one who can conquer a city.

这个世界上值得热爱的东西太多，等我们发现这一点，就不会畏惧痛苦和失去。别害怕孤单，你要学会，对热爱的东西不遗余力。
9. There are so many things in this world worth loving, and once we realize this, we won’t fear pain and loss. Don’t be afraid of loneliness; you must learn to spare no effort for the things you love.

我曾经无数次想过我们重逢的千百种情形，唯独没有想过我们最后竟是这般匆匆而别。再见了，回忆。我会在变得更好的路上，遇到更好的他。
10. I have thought countless times about the thousands of ways we could meet again, but never imagined that our final parting would be so hurried. Goodbye, memories. I will meet a better him on the road to becoming a better me.

很多时候，我们总是希望得到别人的好。一开始，感激不尽。可是久了，便是习惯了。习惯了一个人对你的好，便认为是理所应当的。有一天不对你好了，你便觉得怨怼。其实，不是别人不好了，而是我们的要求变多了。习惯了得到，便忘记了感恩。
11. Many times, we hope to receive the goodness of others. At first, we are extremely grateful. But over time, it becomes a habit. When someone gets used to being good to you, you start taking it for granted. One day, when they stop being good to you, you feel resentment. In fact, it’s not that others have become bad; it’s that our demands have increased. We get used to receiving and forget to be grateful.

相遇不必太早，只要刚好。让人沮丧的是，你是午夜误点的乘客；但却有这样的幸运，而他偏偏也选了这班车。
12. It’s not necessary to meet too early; it’s enough to meet just in time. What’s frustrating is that you are a passenger on a midnight delayed flight, but luckily, he also chose this bus.

努力就有收获，相爱就会在一起，这是世界上最大的两个谎言，却一直支撑着我们年少时的跌跌撞撞。
13. Hard work brings rewards, and love brings together those who love each other. These are the two biggest lies in the world, yet they have always supported our stumbling youth.

相貌是一个女人的外衣，时间久了总会褪色；个性是一个女人的骨头，历经岁月分外清晰。美女那么多，没点个性留下来，美丽也便寡然无味，女人都会老，真正的美人是因‘独特’而耐人寻味。
14. Appearance is a woman’s outer garment, which will fade over time; personality is a woman’s backbone, becoming increasingly clear through the years. There are so many beautiful women, but without some uniqueness, beauty becomes bland. All women will age, but true beauty lies in being ‘unique’ and intriguing.

突然发现，这个世界只要自己开心了，就他妈瞬间变得美好了。
15. Suddenly, I realized that when you are happy, the world becomes instantly beautiful.

始终觉得深交过的朋友，就算因为各种难以预测的原因友谊实在维持不下去了，也尽量给对方留点面子。若对方不是做了对你伤害极其大的事，默默淡出彼此生活就好，没必要撕逼撕的太难看。两个人能处一段，都有彼此肝胆相照掏心掏肺的时候。所以绝交不出恶语，就当作是对那段好时光最后的纪念吧。
1. Friends who have deeply connected with each other should, even if for unpredictable reasons the friendship cannot be maintained, try to save face for each other. If the other person hasn’t done something extremely hurtful to you, just gradually fade out of each other’s lives without making a scene. Both of you have had moments of loyalty and sincerity. So, avoid harsh words when parting ways, as a tribute to those good times.

塑造自己过程很疼，但最终你能收获一个更好的自己。
2. The process of shaping oneself can be painful, but in the end, you will gain a better version of yourself.

小孩子才怕分开，大人只在惦记何时才能重逢。
3. Children fear separation, while adults only worry about when they can meet again.

成长，就是一个不断认为，以前的自己是个傻X的过程。
4. Growth is a process of constantly realizing that our past selves were foolish.

当你很累很累的时候，你应该闭上眼睛做深呼吸，告诉自己你应该坚持得住，不要这么轻易的否定自己，谁说你没有好的未来，关于明天的事后天才知道，在一切变好之前，我们总要经历一些不开心的日子，不要因为一点瑕疵而放弃一段坚持，即使没有人为你鼓掌，也要优雅的谢幕，感谢自己认真的付出。
5. When you are very tired, you should close your eyes, take a deep breath, and tell yourself that you can hold on. Don’t so easily否定自己 (deny yourself). Who says you don’t have a bright future? The things about tomorrow will only be known the day after tomorrow. Before things get better, we always have to go through some unhappy days. Don’t give up on persistence just because of a little flaw. Even if no one applauds you, gracefully take a bow and thank yourself for your earnest efforts.

人总愿意相信看起来弱的一方，伤的永远都是故作坚强的人。
6. People tend to believe the weaker party, and those who appear strong are always the ones who get hurt.

单身是件会渐渐习惯的事。因为当你单身时，可以照顾好自己，自由的去玩，有各种各样的朋友，最后你会忘记爱情，忘记爱情带给你的感动。一个人单身久了，会带有雌雄同体的属性，让你自我温暖自我感动。所以，单身的人，你不是找不到爱情，而是渐渐失去了相爱的能力。
7. Being single is something you gradually get used to. When you are single, you can take care of yourself, play freely, have various friends, and eventually forget about love and the feelings it brings. A single person for a long time will develop androgynous qualities, allowing them to warm and move themselves. So, single people, you are not unable to find love; you are gradually losing the ability to love.

雨声潺潺，像住在溪边。宁愿天天下雨，因为你是因为下雨才不来。
8. The sound of rain is like living by a stream. I’d rather it rain every day because that’s the reason you don’t come.

第一眼就看上的衣服往往你买不起，第一眼就心动的人往往他不会喜欢你。你真正喜欢想要的，没有一样，是可以轻易得到的。这就是努力的理由。
9. The clothes you like at first glance are often unaffordable, and the people you fall for at first sight often don’t like you. What you truly want is never easily obtained. That’s the reason to strive.

如果你简单，这个世界就对你简单。男人苦点累点无所谓，但别苦了爱你的女人！
10. If you are simple, the world will be simple to you. It doesn’t matter if a man is a little hardworking and tired, but don’t let the woman who loves you suffer!

其实我们害怕的可能不是结婚本身，而是迫于种种压力跟不太合适的人绑在一起，放弃对爱情的期待和信仰。
11. What we might be afraid of is not marriage itself, but being bound to someone unsuitable under various pressures, giving up expectations and faith in love.

经历过一些事，会懂得，爱未必就是贪婪和占有，既然觉得不可能在一起，就说明那个固定时刻里，并不合适。所有自以为的喜欢，说到底，都是难舍自己；所有自以为的痛苦，说到底，都是心疼自己。
12. Having experienced some things, you will understand that love is not necessarily about greed and possession. If you feel it’s impossible to be together, it means that at that specific moment, it’s not suitable. All the so-called likes are, in the end, about finding it hard to let go of oneself; all the so-called pain is, after all, about feeling sorry for oneself.

老妈说了一段话非常经典：你们这代人呐，就是活的太明白了，总爱跟自己较劲，所以什么都得不到。我们当年什么都糊里糊涂，该结婚结婚，该工作工作，现在什么都有了。
13. My mom said something very classic: Your generation lives too clearly, always arguing with yourselves, so you end up with nothing. Back in our day, we were all confused, getting married and working as we should, and now we have everything.

想要跟人更好地相处，很多时候只需要你问一句：我讲明白了没？而不是问一句：你听懂了没？
14. To get along better with others, often all it takes is to ask: Have I explained myself clearly? Instead of asking: Did you understand what I said?

其实有点怕一开始就 特别热情的人，这类人的目光通常 很容易被吸引走，热情来的快去的也快。而真正深情的人往往不易表达，因为水总是流到深处才发不出声音。
15. I’m actually a bit afraid of people who are overly enthusiastic from the start. These people’s attention is usually easily distracted, and their enthusiasm comes and goes quickly. While those who are truly affectionate often find it hard to express themselves, because water only makes noise when it flows shallowly.

好脾气都是磨出来的，坏毛病都是惯出来的，爱挑事都是闲出来的。
16. Good tempers are polished out, bad habits are indulged out, and those who love to stir up trouble are usually idle.

别接受一开始就死缠烂打追你的人，真正的喜欢都是小心翼翼仔细斟酌，是想触碰却又缩回的手。
1. Don’t accept someone who pursues you aggressively from the start. True affection is cautious and well-considered, like a hand that wants to touch but pulls back.

你今天买不起新鲜水果，就攒钱过几天买，你图便宜买下的烂水果，吃起来时候根本就是负担和垃圾，绝不会为你带来任何愉悦。现在得不到就忍，就等，就去努力争取，人生短短几十年，爱和吃能别凑合就别凑合，你的心和胃都很小 ，别亏欠它们。
2. If you can’t afford fresh fruit today, save up and buy it in a few days. The rotten fruit you buy for cheap will be a burden and garbage when you eat it, never bringing you any pleasure. Be patient, wait, and strive for what you can’t have now. In just a few decades of life, don’t settle when it comes to love and food. Your heart and stomach are small; don’t take them for granted.

别老想着“以后还来得及”，有一天你会发现，有些人，有些事，真的会来不及。
3. Don’t always think, “I’ll have time later.” One day, you’ll find that some people, some things, really won’t have enough time.

从现在开始，你只许对我一个人好，要宠我，不能骗我。答应我的每件事情都要做到，对我讲的每一句话都要是真心，不许骗我、骂我，要关心我。别人欺负我，你要在第一时间出来帮我。我开心，你要陪我开心，我不开心，你要哄我开心。永远都要觉得我是最漂亮的，梦里你也要见到我，在你心里只有我。
4. From now on, you are only allowed to be good to me. Spoil me, don’t lie to me. Keep every promise you make to me, and be sincere in every word you say to me. Don’t deceive me, scold me, or let others bully me. Be the first to help me when I’m in trouble. Share my happiness, and comfort me when I’m unhappy. Always think I’m the most beautiful, even in your dreams. Your heart should only have me.

我发现，温柔的人最后往往是无情的那个。因为他已经做了能做的一切，忍了该忍的一切，问心无愧也没什么后悔。最后决定放手，就真的再也不会回头。到那时你再求他，没用的，他已经觉得恶心了。
5. I’ve found that gentle people often end up being the ruthless ones. They’ve done everything they could, endured everything they should, and have no regrets. When they decide to let go, they will never look back. By then, it’s useless to plead with them, as they will feel disgusted.

这些年来我一直提醒自己一件事情，千万不要自己感动自己。大部分人看似的努力，不过是愚蠢导致的。什么熬夜看书到天亮，连续几天只睡几小时，多久没放假了，如果这些东西也值得夸耀，那么富士康流水线上任何一个人都比你努力多了。人难免天生有自怜的情绪，唯有时刻保持清醒，才能看清真正的价值在哪里。
6. Over the years, I’ve reminded myself not to be moved by my own actions. Most people’s seemingly hard work is actually due to stupidity. Staying up all night to read, sleeping only a few hours for days, not taking a vacation for a long time - if these things are worth boasting about, then anyone on the assembly line at Foxconn is much harder working than you. People naturally have a tendency to feel sorry for themselves, but only by staying awake can we see the true value.

最美好的大概还是那些初识的日子，是对彼此不全然地了解又极度渴望了解的那段时光。
7. The most beautiful time is probably when we first meet, when we don’t fully understand each other but are eager to learn more about one another.

丑小鸭能变成白天鹅，不是因为她有多努力，而是她爸妈本来就是白天鹅。
8. The Ugly Duckling turned into a swan, not because of her efforts, but because her parents were swans.

“突然”是个很好的词，好像一切不珍惜和措手不及都能归咎于突然。突然夏天就过去了，突然就没有暑假了，突然就得到了，突然就失去了，突然谁住进你生命里了，突然你又弄丢谁了，仿佛任何的变故都是突然发生。时间打败时间，爱情打败爱情，输给的不是别人，都是自己。
9. “Suddenly” is a great word, as if all unappreciated moments and unexpected situations can be blamed on suddenness. Summer passes suddenly, vacations end suddenly, we gain and lose suddenly. Time defeats time, love defeats love; we don’t lose to others, but to ourselves.

说出口的伤痛都已平复，绝口不提的才触及心底。
10. The pain that is spoken of has already healed; the unspoken pain is what truly touches the heart.

女人能给予男人最温暖的两个字是“我懂”，男人能给予女人最温暖的两个字是“我在”。
11. The two warmest words a woman can give a man are “I understand,” and the two warmest words a man can give a woman are “I’m here.”

山有山的高度，水有水的深度，没必要攀比，每个人都有自己的长处；风有风的自由，云有云的温柔，没必要模仿，每个人都有自己的个性。
12. Mountains have their height, and water has its depth; there’s no need to compare, as everyone has their strengths. Wind has its freedom, and clouds have their gentleness; there’s no need to imitate, as everyone has their own personality.

二三十岁的时候，是最艰苦的一段岁月，承担着渐重的责任，拿着与工作量不匹配的薪水，艰难地权衡事业和感情……但你总得学着坚强，毕竟你不扬帆，没人替你起航。不要只因一次挫败，就迷失了最初想抵达的远方。
13. In your twenties and thirties, life is the most challenging. You bear increasing responsibilities, earn a salary that doesn’t match your workload, and struggle to balance career and relationships… But you must learn to be strong, because if you don’t set sail, no one will do it for you. Don’t lose your way because of one setback; remember the distant place you originally wanted to reach.

不管你爱过多少人，不管你爱得多么痛苦或快乐，最后，你不是学会了怎样恋爱，而是学会了怎样去爱自己。
1. No matter how many people you’ve loved, no matter how painful or joyful your love has been, in the end, you don’t learn how to be in love, but how to love yourself.

最好的爱情多简单，四个条件。我喜欢你，你也喜欢我。我适合你，你也适合我。最好的爱情多复杂，四个条件，有人全落空，有人三缺一。
2. The best love is so simple, with four conditions: I like you, and you like me. I’m suitable for you, and you’re suitable for me. The best love is also so complicated, with four conditions, some people miss them all, some are one short of the mark.

成长的很大一部分，是接受。接受分道扬镳，接受世事无常，接受孤独挫折，接受突如其来的无力感，接受自己的缺点。然后发自内心地去改变，找到一个平衡点。跟世界相处，首先是和自己相处。天黑开盏灯，落雨带把伞，难过归难过，但也不作死。
3. A large part of growing up is accepting. Accepting parting ways, accepting the impermanence of things, accepting loneliness and frustration, accepting the sudden sense of helplessness, accepting your own shortcomings. Then change from the bottom of your heart and find a balance. To get along with the world, first learn to get along with yourself. Turn on the light when it’s dark, bring an umbrella when it rains, be sad if you are, but don’t give up.

我终于摸清楚我的生理周期了。在手头紧的时候，就会感觉无助寂寞；在手头有点闲钱的时候，就会特别浪。
4. I finally figured out my emotional cycle. When I’m short of money, I feel helpless and lonely; when I have some spare cash, I become particularly wild.

可遇不可求的事，后海有树的院子，夏代有工的玉，此时此刻的云，二十来岁的你。
5. The things that are hard to come by include a courtyard with trees in Houhai, a piece of jade from the Xia Dynasty, the clouds at this moment, and you in your twenties.

如果你感到委屈，证明你还有底线；如果你感到迷茫，证明你还有追求；如果你感到痛苦，证明你还有力气；如果你感到绝望，证明你还有希望。从某种意义上，你永远都不会被打倒，因为你还有你。
6. If you feel wronged, it means you still have a bottom line; if you feel confused, it means you still have pursuits; if you feel pain, it means you still have strength; if you feel despair, it means you still have hope. In a sense, you will never be defeated because you still have yourself.

一座城市令你念念不忘，大抵是因为，那里有你深爱的人和一去不复返的青春。
7. A city that you can’t forget is probably because there are people you deeply love and a youth that will never return.

有时像患了忧郁症一样，会突然心情不好。偶尔像患了自闭症似的，不想说话也不想动。别人问起，也不知道该怎样回答。不是假装沉默，只是无力诉说。或许每个人都有一个死角，自己走不出来，别人也闯不进去，我把最深沉的秘密放在那里，你不懂我，我不怪你。
8. Sometimes, like suffering from depression, you suddenly feel down. Occasionally, like having autism, you don’t want to talk or move. When asked by others, you don’t know how to answer. It’s not pretending to be silent, but just feeling powerless to tell. Perhaps everyone has a dead end, where they can’t get out, and others can’t get in. I put my deepest secrets there, you don’t understand me, and I don’t blame you.

比起并肩、牵手、接吻、很多人最喜欢的应该还是拥抱吧。当你用双臂紧紧把一个人抱在怀里时，没什么比那更能让人体会到什么叫做拥有了。
9. Compared to standing side by side, holding hands, kissing, and many other things, most people should still prefer hugs. When you tightly embrace someone with your arms, nothing can make people feel more possessed.

15岁觉得游泳难，放弃游泳，到18岁遇到一个你喜欢的人约你去游泳，你只好说“我不会耶”。18岁觉得英文难，放弃英文，28岁出现一个很棒但要会英文的工作，你只好说“我不会耶”。人生前期越嫌麻烦，越懒得学，后来就越可能错过让你动心的人和事，错过新风景。
10. At 15, you think swimming is difficult and give it up. At 18, when someone you like invites you to go swimming, you can only say, “I don’t know how.” At 18, you think English is difficult and give it up. At 28, a great job that requires English comes along, and you can only say, “I don’t know how.” The more troublesome and lazy you are in the early stages of life, the more likely you are to miss the people and things that move you, and miss new scenery.

听说过很多减肥方法，依然胖着过完这一生。
11. I’ve heard of many weight loss methods, but still live my life as fat.

怎样度过人生的低潮期？安静地等待；好好睡觉；锻炼身体，无论何时好的体魄都用得着；和知心的朋友谈天，基本上不发牢骚，主要是回忆快乐的时光；多读书，看一些传记，增长知识，顺带还可瞧瞧别人倒霉的时候是怎么挺过去的；趁机做家务，把平时忙碌顾不上的活儿都干完。——毕淑敏
12. How to get through the low tide of life? Wait quietly; sleep well; exercise, as a good physique is always useful; talk with close friends, basically not complaining, mainly recalling happy times; read more books, some biographies, to increase knowledge and see how others get through tough times; take the opportunity to do housework, finish all the tasks that you usually don’t have time for. ——Bi Shumin

有时候，我们放不开不是因为失去，而是心疼自己的付出。
13. Sometimes, we can’t let go not because of loss, but because we feel sorry for our own efforts.

无论贫穷还是富足，开心的人最令人羡慕。
14. Whether poor or rich, happy people are the most enviable.

如果生活突然向你发难，躲不过的话就正面交锋吧。
15. If life suddenly throws a challenge at you, and you can’t avoid it, then confront it head-on.

有人说，背叛过你的人就是掉地上的肉，不吃觉得可惜，吃了嫌恶心。但是肉还会再有，吃下去的恶心却永远都吐不出来。最好的办法是捡都别捡。
1. Some say that betraying people are like pieces of meat on the ground; not eating them feels regretful, but eating them feels disgusting. However, there will always be more meat, and the disgust swallowed can never be vomited out. The best method is not to pick them up at all.

常常洗澡洗头不一定就是因为爱干净，或许只是觉得刚吹了的头发很好看，洗澡很舒服，沐浴露味道很好闻。就像喜欢的人不一定很优秀 ，只是在他身边的时候，你笑得很甜。
2. Frequently taking showers and washing your hair is not necessarily because you love cleanliness, but perhaps because you think your just-blown hair looks great, showering feels comfortable, and the smell of shower gel is pleasant. Just like liking someone, they don’t have to be excellent; as long as you are with them, your smile is sweet.

一个人若是只为自己努力，毕竟太寂寞了。若是有一个你在乎的人在看，那才不枉此生。
3. If a person only strives for themselves, it is ultimately too lonely. If there is someone you care about watching, then life is worth living.

所谓积极的生活，并一定非得是那种拼尽全力，分秒必争，张口梦想，闭口未来的生活方式。有时候放松地欣赏一部电影，养一盆花，认真地烹饪一顿美食，或者坐在路边看看人来人往，只要是那些能够让我们感到充实和满足的事情应该都是积极的。也许那些被我们误解的虚度时光，才是生活的本质。
4. A positive life is not necessarily about going all out, racing against time, talking about dreams, and discussing the future. Sometimes, taking it easy and enjoying a movie, raising a flower, cooking a delicious meal, or sitting by the roadside watching people come and go are all positive activities that can make us feel fulfilled and satisfied. Perhaps the wasted time we misunderstand is the essence of life.

生活坏到一定程度就会好起来，因为它无法更坏。努力过后，才知道许多事情，坚持坚持，就过来了。
5. Life will get better when it reaches a certain level of badness because it cannot get worse. After making an effort, you will realize that many things can be overcome with persistence.

你无法逃避的，是与往事同甘共苦。你可以做到的，是与自己生死相依。
6. You cannot escape the past, but what you can do is rely on yourself through life and death.

你死不放手的样子真的很难看，不想舍弃，让你一次次受辱受伤害，什么都不舍弃，就什么也得不到。别晚睡，别自扰。当爱成了折磨，当有人不爱你时，你越是要爱自己。
7. It’s really ugly when you refuse to let go; not giving up makes you suffer humiliation and harm over and over again. Don’t stay up late, don’t disturb yourself. When love becomes torture and someone doesn’t love you, you should love yourself even more.

喜欢就去表白，大不了连朋友都做不成，做朋友有个屁用啊，我又不缺朋友我缺的是你！
8. If you like someone, just confess; at worst, you won’t be friends anymore. What’s the use of being friends? I don’t lack friends; what I lack is you!

你之所以会觉得难受，大概是因为你投入了大把时间和精力，到最后却没能得到你想要的东西，那种一瞬间被失落灌满的样子，让你感到不值得。
9. You may feel upset because you have invested a lot of time and energy, but in the end, you didn’t get what you wanted. That moment of being filled with disappointment makes you feel unworthy.

一个人的成熟，并不表现在获得了多少成就上，而是面对那些厌恶的人和事，不迎合也不抵触，只淡然一笑对之。当内心可以容纳很多自己不喜欢的事物时，这就叫气场。
10. A person’s maturity is not reflected in how many achievements they have attained, but in facing those people and things they dislike without catering to them or resisting them, just smiling calmly. When the heart can accommodate many things you don’t like, that’s called presence.

与人相处最怕的就是：你不相信你看到的我，却相信别人口中说的我。
11. The most fearful thing in getting along with others is that you don’t believe in the person you see before you, but rather believe in what others say about them.

每失望一次，我就少做一件爱你的事，直到最后不主动找你，收起你的东西，删掉你的照片，再也不偷偷看你就是该说再见的时候了。失望是一天天积累的，离开是很长的决定。
12. Every time I am disappointed, I will do one less thing for you until I no longer take the initiative to contact you, put away your things, delete your photos, and never secretly watch you again. That’s when it’s time to say goodbye. Disappointment accumulates day by day, and leaving is a long decision.

我好想成为那个让你想起来就觉得珍贵的人。
13. I really want to be the person you feel precious about when you think of me.

如果你知道，那些你所去较真的事，根本就没有人认真过，也许你就能活得坦然点。
14. If you knew that no one really cared about the things you take seriously, maybe you could live more carefree.

我们总以为自己的婚姻经不起推敲，别人的婚姻更幸福，却忘了爱情不是相忘于江湖就是平淡到老。谁的婚姻里又没有缺憾？要么缺金要么缺帅要么缺陪你的时间。在婚姻中慢慢修炼，渐渐明白，女人最重要的或许不是嫁谁，而是无论嫁了谁，都要有让自己幸福的能力。
15. We always think our own marriages are fragile, and others’ marriages are happier, but we forget that love is either forgotten in the world or grows old in plainness. Who doesn’t have flaws in their marriage? Either lack of money, lack of attractiveness, or lack of time spent together. In marriage, we slowly cultivate and gradually understand that the most important thing for a woman may not be whom she marries, but the ability to be happy no matter whom she marries.

一句让无数人膝盖中枪的话：间歇性踌躇满志，持续性混吃等死。
16. A sentence that hits the knees of countless people: intermittently full of ambition, persistently loafing and waiting for death.

年轻时看《大话西游》，看到的都是笑点。如今看《大话西游》，看到的都是心酸。不是电影变了，而是你终于要戴上你的紧箍咒，圈住昔日的梦想，圈住棱角分明的个性。成熟是一个很痛的词，它不一定会得到，却一定会失去些什么。
1. When I was young, watching “A Chinese Odyssey,” all I saw were the funny parts. Now, watching it, all I see is the heartache. It’s not that the movie has changed, but that you finally have to put on your own “Tightening Spell,” locking away your past dreams and your once sharp and distinct personality. Maturity is a painful word; it doesn’t necessarily mean gaining something, but it definitely means losing something.

看到一段话糙理不糙的话：有时候你想约个炮，却不小心谈了场恋爱；有时候你想好好谈个恋爱，却发现只是约了个炮。世界那么大，床却那么小，床上的两个人曾经那么好，却不能到老。我喜欢牵了手就能成婚的故事，却活在了一个上了床也没有结果的时代。
2. I once read a rough yet profound saying: Sometimes you want to have a casual fling, but accidentally fall in love; sometimes you want to have a serious relationship, only to find out it’s just a casual fling. The world is so big, but the bed is so small, and the two people who once were so good together on that bed cannot grow old together. I like stories where holding hands leads to marriage, yet I live in an era where even sharing a bed doesn’t guarantee a future together.

你能无底线的原谅谁，谁就能无底线的伤害你。
3. The more you forgive someone without limits, the more they can hurt you without limits.

有时候你以为天要塌下来了，其实是自己站歪了。
4. Sometimes you think the sky is falling, but it’s actually just that you’re standing crooked.

我以前从不懂什么叫悲伤，以为哭得撕心裂肺是最悲伤，后来我才懂得，悲伤就是，你看着他，还是会笑，你还会温柔以待，你还会心思柔软，心里却比任何时候都清晰明了，你再不能也不应同眼前这个人亲近半分，哪怕你随时都想抱一抱他，哪怕他皱一下眉你都觉得好心疼。
5. I used to not understand what sorrow was, thinking that crying one’s heart out was the most sorrowful thing. Later, I realized that sorrow is when you look at him and still smile, still treat him gently, and still have a soft heart, but you know better than ever that you cannot and should not get close to this person, even if you always want to hug him, and even if he frowns you feel heartache.

那些在感情中只求付出，不求回报的傻姑娘，往往都会如愿以偿，得不到任何回报。
6. Those naive girls who only give in relationships without expecting anything in return often get what they wish for: no rewards at all.

友情里最让人唏嘘的是，一开始我把你当成值得深交的人，后来因为某些事对你有些微的失望，于是不断说服自己人与人之间本该如此淡薄。又把你放回到一个普通朋友的位置，与你维持着表面的和平。这一系列的心理变化过程，你连半分都不知。
7. The most poignant thing in friendships is when I initially consider you as someone worth deepening our relationship with, but later become slightly disappointed with you due to certain events. So, I keep convincing myself that people should naturally be more indifferent to each other. I put you back in the position of an ordinary friend, maintaining superficial harmony with you. Throughout this series of psychological changes, you don’t even know half of it.

暖气+被窝＋睡觉＋电脑＋手机＋WIFI＋热饮＋一个爱的人＝一整个冬天。
8. Heating + warm quilt + sleep + computer + mobile phone + WIFI + hot drinks + a loved one = an entire winter.

感觉遇到你之后，我变得好老套，想牵手逛街，想吃爆米花看电影，想像家人一样坐在沙发上喝酒聊天。可是以前我不是这样的人啊，以前我总以为自己是一匹野马。
9. After meeting you, I feel so clichéd, wanting to hold hands and stroll, wanting to eat popcorn and watch movies, wanting to sit on the sofa and chat with each other like family. But I wasn’t like this before; I always thought I was a wild horse.

希望曾经的仰望，都能成为以后的日常。
10. May all the past admiration become part of our daily lives in the future.

当你决定要做一件事情的时候，总会有人出于各种好意给你说不要做。假如你成功，又会羡慕嫉妒你；假如你失败了，就会给你说，看吧，我早就给你说过不要做了。当然，如果你听了建议什么都没有做，最后就会慢慢变成这些人。所以，相信自己吧，独一无二的你是最棒的！
11. When you decide to do something, there will always be people who, out of various good intentions, tell you not to do it. If you succeed, they will envy and be jealous of you; if you fail, they will say, “See, I told you not to do it.” Of course, if you listen to their advice and do nothing, you will eventually become like these people. So, believe in yourself; being unique is the best!

很多的烦恼源于不够狠心，做什么都要顾及别人的感受，你总顾及别人，那谁来顾及你。
12. A lot of troubles stem from not being ruthless enough, always considering others’ feelings when making decisions. If you always think about others, who will think about you?

不要让那个喜欢你的人，撕心裂肺地为你哭那么一次，因为，你能把他伤害到那个样子的机会，只有一次，那一次以后，你就从不可或缺的人变成可有可无的人了，即使他还爱你，可是，总有一些东西真的改变了。
13. Don’t let the person who loves you cry their heart out for you just once, because the chance to hurt them that much is only once. After that, you’ll go from being indispensable to being dispensable, even if they still love you. Something will have truly changed.

喜欢是急着确定关系，爱是等自己有能力给她一个家。
14. Liking someone means being eager to define the relationship, while loving someone means waiting until you have the ability to provide a home for her.

每个忽冷忽热的人，心里都烙着一个曾经烫伤自己的人。
15. Everyone who is hot and cold has a person in their heart who once burned them.

小时候最爱喝的汽水，好不容易找回来喝却不对味了。世界改变了我们，我们也毫不留情地改变了眼中的世界……有些美好，放在记忆里就挺好。
1. The soda I loved most as a child, after finally finding it again, doesn’t taste the same. The world has changed us, and we have mercilessly changed the world in our eyes… Some beautiful things are better left in our memories.

爱就是当你掉了一颗大门牙，却仍可以坦然微笑。因为你知道你的朋友，不会因为你的不完整，而停止爱你。
2. Love is when you lose a front tooth but can still smile confidently, because you know your friends won’t stop loving you just because you’re incomplete.

有时候，我们不得不坚强，于是乎，在假装坚强中，就真的越来越坚强。
3. Sometimes, we have to be strong, and in pretending to be strong, we actually become stronger and stronger.

你住的城市下雨了，很想问你有没有带伞。可是我忍住了，因为我怕你说没带，而我又无能为力，就像是我爱你，却给不到你想要的陪伴。
4. It’s raining in your city, and I really want to ask if you have an umbrella. But I hold back, because I’m afraid that if you say you don’t have one, I’ll be powerless to help, just like how I love you but can’t give you the companionship you want.

随口答应，还不如认真拒绝。承诺有限，精力紧张，大家可以学习另外两种技能：随口拒绝讨厌鬼，认真答应心上人。
5. It’s better to seriously refuse than to casually agree. Commitments are limited, and energy is scarce. We can learn two other skills: casually refuse to those we dislike, and seriously agree to those we care about.

人生的太多的痛苦和不幸，都是因为想要活成“别人那样”，而不是活成“自己这样”。
6. Much of the pain and misfortune in life comes from wanting to live like “others” rather than being “ourselves.”

大部分人在二三十岁时就死去了，因为过了这个年龄，他们只是自己的影子，此后的余生则要在模仿自己中度过，日复一日，更机械，更装腔作势地重复他们在有生之年的所作所为，所思所想，所爱所恨。
7. Most people die at the age of 20 or 30, because after that, they are just shadows of themselves, spending the rest of their lives imitating themselves, day after day, becoming more mechanical and pretentious in repeating what they did, thought, loved, and hated during their lifetime.

人的脆弱和坚强都超乎自己的想象。有时，我可能脆弱得一句话就泪流满面，有时，也发现自己咬着牙走了很长的路。
8. Human fragility and strength are beyond our imagination. Sometimes, I may be so fragile that a single word can bring me to tears, but at other times, I find that I’ve walked a long way with gritted teeth.

有些人的好就像埋在地下的酒，总是要经过很久，离开之后，才能被人知道。剩下饮酒的人只能寂寞独饮至天明。最遥远的距离是人还在，情还在，回去的路已不在。
9. Some people’s kindness is like wine buried underground, only to be discovered after a long time and leaving, as those who drink it can only drink alone until dawn. The most distant distance is when people are still there, the feelings are still there, but the way back is no longer there.

想一起到老的人，再大的吵闹也会各自找台阶，速度重归于好。不想接着走的人，一次小别扭，也会乘机找借口溜掉。
10. If you want to grow old together, even the biggest quarrels will find a way to reconcile quickly. But for those who don’t want to continue, a small disagreement can become an excuse to slip away.

真实的生活是，认真做好每一天你分内的事情。不索取目前与你无关的爱与远景。不纠缠于多余情绪和评断。不妄想，不在其中自我沉醉。不伤害，不与自己和他人为敌。不表演，也不相信他人的表演。
11. Real life is about seriously doing your daily tasks, not seeking love and distant prospects that are not related to you, not entangling yourself in unnecessary emotions and judgments, not daydreaming or indulging in them, not hurting yourself or others, not performing, and not believing in others’ performances.

心脏是一座有两间卧室的房子，一间住着痛苦，另一间住着欢乐，人不能笑得太响。否则笑声会吵醒隔壁房间的痛苦。
12. The heart is a house with two bedrooms, one for pain and the other for joy. One must not laugh too loudly, or the laughter will wake up the pain in the neighboring room.

现在越发觉得，遇到那些能相处的舒服聊天聊得来，彼此之间坦荡不计较，把你放在心里而不是做表面功夫的那种朋友，真是一种莫大的福气。如果有，我们都要珍惜。
13. Now I increasingly feel that having friends with whom you can comfortably chat, be open and not care about each other, and who truly care about you instead of just putting on a show, is a great blessing. If you have such friends, we must cherish them.

孤独一人也没关系，只要能发自内心地爱着一个人，人生就会有救。哪怕不能和他生活在一起。
14. It’s okay to be alone, as long as you can wholeheartedly love someone, your life will be saved. Even if you can’t live with them.

一件事对你伤害的程度与事情本身没有太多关系，受伤的程度取决于你对事情的态度。重视就重伤，轻视就轻伤，无视就无伤。
15. The degree of harm a thing causes you is not much related to the thing itself. The degree of injury depends on your attitude towards the thing. Take it seriously, and it will hurt deeply;轻视 it, and it will hurt slightly; ignore it, and it will cause no harm.

所以，要好好努力然后多挣钱，才养得起自己这个爱吃的胃，爱玩儿的心，爱逛爱买的习惯。一个人往，一个人来，也能生活得很好。
16. So, we must work hard and earn more money to support our爱吃的胃 (love for eating), 爱玩儿的心 (playful heart), and the habit of loving to wander and buy. Going alone and coming alone, we can still live a good life.

你可能不知道我喜欢你的时候，你骂我我也会喜欢你，就算你不理我，我还是忍不住会主动理你。可如果有一天，你一不小心浪费完这些感情，你做得再怎么好，我都不会再心动了。
1. You may not know that even when I liked you, I would still like you even if you scolded me, and even if you ignored me, I couldn’t help but take the initiative to talk to you. But if one day, you accidentally squander all these feelings, no matter how well you do, I will no longer be moved.

谈恋爱的第一步，是让自己变好看。结婚的第一步，是让自己变靠谱。生孩子的第一步，是让自己变有钱。很多事情，不是你想做就能做，先要让自己有足够的条件。
2. The first step in dating is to make yourself more attractive. The first step in getting married is to make yourself more reliable. The first step in having children is to make yourself wealthier. Many things are not just about wanting to do them; you must first have the necessary conditions.

听说，下初雪时，任何谎言都可以被原谅。那么，我不喜欢你了。
3. I’ve heard that when the first snow falls, any lie can be forgiven. So, I don’t like you anymore.

任何时候，一个人都不应该做自己情绪的奴隶，不应该使一切行动都受制于自己的情绪，而应该反过来控制情绪。无论境况多么糟糕，你应该努力去支配你的环境，把自己从黑暗中拯救出来。
4. At any time, one should not be a slave to their emotions, nor should all actions be controlled by emotions, but instead, control the emotions. No matter how bad the situation is, you should strive to dominate your environment and save yourself from the darkness.

将来会怎么样，我根本不会考虑。要是成天想着今天，愁着明天，生活还有什么意思呢？就是事情糟到无可再糟的地步，我想总还是有路可走的。
5. I won’t think about what will happen in the future. If you’re always thinking about today and worrying about tomorrow, what’s the point of life? Even if things get to the worst possible point, I believe there’s always a way out.

两个人相处久了，难免会抱怨一句你变了。其实，我们并没有改变，我们只是越来越接近真实的对方而已。
6. When two people get along for a long time, they inevitably complain that you’ve changed. In fact, we haven’t changed; we’re just getting closer to the real each other.

夜里不睡的人，白天多多少少总有什么逃避掩饰的吧。白昼解不开的结，黑夜慢慢耗。
7. Those who don’t sleep at night, during the day, must be evading and concealing something. The knots that can’t be untied during the day are slowly worn away by the night.

一个人之所以变得柔软，一定是因为她更懂得了理解和宽容。对于自己不曾了解的事情学会的缄默，而不是盲目的批评，哪怕是不同意许多事情，但也学会了站在对方的立场上想问题。没有了非此即彼，非黑即白的执拗，学会了打开心胸，不止对现在，也对过去那些曾经难以搁置的顽念，学会了释怀。
8. A person becomes gentle because they have a better understanding of empathy and tolerance. They learn to be silent about things they don’t understand, rather than blindly criticizing, even if they disagree with many things, but also learn to think from the other person’s perspective. Without the stubbornness of either/or, black and white, they learn to open their hearts, not only for the present but also for the past, those once hard-to-let-go fixations, and learn to let go.

走到途中才忽然发现，我只剩下一副模糊的面目，和一条不能回头的路。
9. On the way, I suddenly realized that I was left with only a vague face and a road I couldn’t turn back on.

原来人可以度过最无望的日子，抖落身上的灰雨，重披一声星光。
10. It turns out that people can get through the most hopeless days, shake off the dust and rain from their bodies, and put on a new layer of starlight.

买了就买了，不要去比价；吃了就吃了，不要去后悔；爱了就爱了，不要去猜疑；散了就散了，不要去诋毁。
1. Bought is bought, don’t compare prices; eaten is eaten, don’t regret; loved is loved, don’t suspect; separated is separated, don’t slander.

没什么好抱怨的，今天的选择都是明天的伏笔。
2. There’s nothing to complain about, today’s choices are the foreshadowing of tomorrow.

看星空，很近。看彼此，很远。
3. The stars are close, but each other is far away.

人需要一种淡然、朴实，不张扬、不喧嚣、不妖艳。淡名利、淡世绘、淡荣辱、淡诱惑，虽无蝶来，清香依旧。没有傲气，但存傲骨。需要脚踏实地的平实，丰富而不肤浅、恬淡而不聒噪、理性而不盲从。在物欲横流的滚滚红尘中，更需要一份淡泊的心境，谢绝繁华，回归简朴。淡定从容的笑对人生。
4. People need a kind of indifference, simplicity, not ostentatious, not noisy, not showy. Light fame and wealth, light worldly affairs, light honor and disgrace, light temptations; although no butterflies come, the fragrance remains. No arrogance, but with pride. We need down-to-earth simplicity, rich but not superficial, quiet but not noisy, rational but not blind. In the materialistic world, we need a indifferent mindset even more, rejecting the prosperous and returning to simplicity. Calmly and gracefully face life.

人生的风景，其实都是心灵的风景，什么都可以错过，就是不能错失自己的心。
5. The scenery of life is actually the scenery of the soul; you can miss anything, but not your own heart.

最短的距离是从手到嘴，最长的距离是从说到做。
6. The shortest distance is from hand to mouth, the longest distance is from saying to doing.

人一定要想清三个问题，第一你有什么，第二你要什么，第三你能放弃什么。”对于多数人而言：有什么，很容易评价自己的现状；要什么，内心也有明确的想法；最难的是，不知道或不敢放弃什么，这点恰能决定你想要的东西能否真正实现，没有人可以不放弃就得到一切…
7. People must think clearly about three questions: first, what do you have; second, what do you want; third, what can you give up.” For most people: what they have is easy to evaluate their current situation; what they want, they have a clear idea in their hearts; the hardest part is not knowing or daring to give up something, which determines whether you can truly achieve what you want. No one can get everything without giving up…

感情不需要诺言、期限与条件。它只需要两个人：一个能够信任的人，与一个愿意理解的人。
8. Relationships don’t need promises, deadlines, or conditions. They just need two people: one who can be trusted and one who is willing to understand.

一生中会遇上很多人，真正能停留驻足的又有几个，生命是终将荒芜的渡口，连我们自己都是过客。
9. In a lifetime, you will meet many people, but how many can truly stop and stay? Life is an eventually desolate ferry, and even we ourselves are just passers-by.

我们总以为自己的婚姻经不起推敲，别人的婚姻更幸福，却忘了，爱情不是相忘于江湖就是平淡到老。谁的婚姻里又没有缺憾？要么缺金，要么缺帅，要么缺陪你的时间。在婚姻中慢慢修炼，渐渐明白，女人最重要的或许不是嫁谁，而是无论嫁了谁，都要有让自己幸福的能力。
10. We always think that our own marriage is not solid, and other people’s marriages are happier, but we forget that love is either forgotten in the world or plain to old age. Whose marriage doesn’t have flaws? Either lack of money, lack of handsomeness, or lack of time to accompany. In marriage, we slowly cultivate and gradually understand that the most important thing for a woman may not be whom to marry, but the ability to make herself happy no matter whom she marries.

人们常常去怀念那些过去的事情，不是因为它有多美好，只是因为它再也回不来了。
11. People often miss the past, not because it was so beautiful, but because it can never come back.

你之所以觉得时间一年比一年过得快，是因为时间对你一年比一年重要。
12. The reason you feel that time is passing faster and faster every year is that time is becoming more and more important to you year by year.

昨天的经历，有甘甜也有苦涩，有成功的辉煌，也有失败的辛酸；有温馨的慰藉，也有冰冷的失意。人生走过一段路，风景毕竟不相同。这段惠风和畅，那段雨骤风狂。人生之旅本就是风雨兼程，失去的不是永远失去，得到的不是永远拥有，一切都在发展变化，不断地向昨天告别，满怀信心地投入每一个崭新的今天。
13. Yesterday’s experiences have sweetness and bitterness, successful brilliance, and the bitterness of failure; warm comfort and cold disappointment. Life has different landscapes along the way. This section is pleasant, and that section is stormy. Life’s journey is a journey of wind and rain, losing is not forever lost, and gaining is not forever owned; everything is developing and changing, constantly saying goodbye to yesterday and confidently embracing every new today.

生活的有趣还在于，你昨日的最大痛楚，极可能会造就你明日的最大力量。不管你经历多痛的事情，到最后都会渐渐遗忘。因为，没有什么能敌得过时光。
14. The interesting thing about life is that your greatest pain yesterday may create your greatest strength tomorrow. No matter how painful the experience, it will eventually be forgotten. Because nothing can withstand the passage of time.

当你看清了一个人而不揭穿，你就懂得了原谅的意义；讨厌一个人而不翻脸，你就懂得了至极的尊重。
15. When you see through someone without exposing them, you understand the meaning of forgiveness; when you dislike someone without turning against them, you understand the utmost respect.

越来越喜欢这样的人，不诉苦，不煽情，不靠苦难来博取同情。世间万难中，每个人都还在按部就班的生活，早起的小米粥，月下的煮毛豆。他们生息、繁衍，生生世世。漫长的一生充满苦难，但却被他们当成了游乐场。这大概才是人生的意义，无论如何只要还能生活，就值得欢喜，庆贺。
1. More and more, I like such people who don’t complain, don’t sentimentalize, and don’t rely on their suffering to gain sympathy. In the face of countless difficulties in the world, everyone is still living their lives in an orderly manner, having millet porridge in the morning, and boiling edamame under the moon. They live, reproduce, and continue through generations. Their long lives are full of hardships, but they treat them as a playground. This is probably the meaning of life: as long as we can still live, it’s worth celebrating and rejoicing.

活着，总有你看不惯的人，也有看不惯你的人。最难受的感觉不是成为陌生人，而是逐渐陌生的态度。
2. In life, there will always be people you can’t stand and people who can’t stand you. The most unbearable feeling is not becoming strangers, but the gradually estranged attitude.

不在一起，我们彼此思念。在一起，我们彼此折磨。这不是缘份，又是什么。
3. When we’re not together, we miss each other. When we’re together, we torment each other. If this isn’t fate, then what is?

如果有人愿对你好，就别折腾好好过吧，世上没十全十美的人，一个人能对你好就已很难得。如果有人从最穷时跟着你，就别贪心了，无论发达成什么样，都守着人家过吧。我们经历过的人再多，最后能陪在你病床前的也只有一个。人生到老，方知唯一。不折腾，不贪心，才是一辈子。
4. If someone is willing to be good to you, stop making trouble and live a good life. There’s no perfect person in the world; it’s already rare for someone to be good to you. If someone has been with you from the poorest of times, don’t be greedy. No matter how successful you become, stay with that person. No matter how many people we’ve encountered, only one will be by your bedside when you’re old and sick. In the end, we learn that the only one is the one who doesn’t make trouble and isn’t greedy.

分别时，看你落泪，我笑着说再见。洒脱，不是无情，而是情到深处。
5. When we say goodbye, I smile while you shed tears. Being carefree is not heartless, but rather a deep feeling.

我给你一季春暖花开，你赐我一世心安。
6. I give you a season of spring blossoms, and you grant me a lifetime of peace.

很多时候，人只有先狠狠地脆弱一次，才会懂得该如何坚强。
7. Many times, one must be vulnerable first before learning how to be strong.

每个人都会有一段异常艰难的时光，生活的窘迫，工作的失意，学业的压力，爱的惶惶不可终日。挺过来的，人生就会豁然开朗；挺不过来的，时间也会教会你怎么与它们握手言和，所以你都不必害怕的。
8. Everyone will go through a particularly difficult period in life, facing hardships in living, frustration at work, academic pressure, and the uncertainty of love. Those who overcome these challenges will find their lives become more open; those who don’t will learn how to make peace with them through time. So there’s no need to be afraid.

人生的不如意莫过于，橡皮筋扎头发两圈太松三圈太紧，洗澡时开关往左掰一点冻死往右掰一点烫死，方便面一桶不饱两桶太撑……
9. The most frustrating things in life are when the rubber band for your hair is too loose with two turns and too tight with three, when the shower knob is too cold to the left and too hot to the right, and when a bowl of instant noodles is not enough but two bowls are too much…

世上没有一个完全符合你要求的男人，在等待着你，感情是需要相互付出的，磨合才是最适合的。
10. There is no man in the world who perfectly meets your requirements and is waiting for you. Relationships require mutual effort, and compromise is the most suitable approach.

心地善良的人运气总是很差；爱笑的女孩食量都不会太差。
11. Kind-hearted people often have bad luck; girls who love to laugh usually don’t have a small appetite.

我们都会变成更好的人，尤其是在经历了那么多的错误之后。
12. We will all become better people, especially after making so many mistakes.

很多杰出女性说自己当年刚硬坚强，慢慢走来，却不知不觉放软了身段，开始体会温柔平淡的力量。看官不禁要问：那一开始就温柔温暖柔软的姑娘不更是人生赢家嘛！其实也就是硬过才能真软，赚到钱才理直气壮说钱不重要。没有搏杀过的温柔终究是天真。
13. Many outstanding women say that they were once tough and strong, but as they progressed in life, they unconsciously softened their stance and began to appreciate the power of gentleness and simplicity. One might ask: Aren’t girls who are gentle, warm, and soft from the beginning the real winners in life? In fact, it’s only after being tough that one can truly become soft, and only after earning money can one confidently say that money isn’t important. Untried gentleness is ultimately naive.

一个男人最起码要会保护四样东西：脚下的土地，家里的父母，怀里的女人，身边的兄弟。
14. A man should at least be able to protect four things: the land under his feet, his parents at home, the woman in his arms, and his brothers by his side.

对自己的现状不满，又无法改变自己的现状。大多数人都是为这件事而不快乐。其实，不快乐的人往往不是欠缺改变现状的能力，几乎都是因为懒，和怕，所以就混和等。结果常常是一辈子都笑不出来。
15. Many people are unhappy because they are dissatisfied with their current situation but are unable to change it. In fact, unhappy people are often not lacking the ability to change their situation; most of them are lazy and afraid, so they just mix and wait. As a result, they often go through life without ever smiling.

这些年看开了许多事情，没什么非你不可，也没什么不可失去。愿意留下来的就好好相处；想要远走的，就挥挥手说声抱歉恕不远送。好好做事，努力挣钱，学会负该有责任，也学会摒弃不必要负担。人生苦短，不想计较太多，与其在纷扰中度日如年，不如让自己在舒适中耗尽余生。
1. Over the years, I have come to see many things more clearly; there is nothing that is absolutely necessary for you, nor is there anything that cannot be lost. Those who are willing to stay, let’s get along well; those who want to leave, just wave and say sorry for not seeing you off. Work hard, earn money, learn to take on the responsibilities you should, and also learn to let go of unnecessary burdens. Life is short, and I don’t want to be too concerned about things. Instead of living in turmoil, it’s better to let yourself spend the rest of your life in comfort.

世界太大，生命这样短。要把它过得尽量像自己想要的那个样子，才对。
2. The world is so big, and life is so short. We should live it as much as possible the way we want, that’s right.

做一个有质感的女孩：读书旅游，早睡早起；美丽典雅，自强独立。
3. Be a girl with texture: read books, travel, go to bed early and rise early; be beautiful, elegant, and independent.
如果你总是抱着过去不放，那就别怪现在的人不和你一起走到未来。没有人欠你，也没有人应该等你。
4. If you always hold on to the past, don’t blame others for not walking with you into the future. No one owes you, and no one should wait for you.

生命里第一个爱恋的对象应该是自己，写诗给自己，与自己对话，在一个空间里安静下来，聆听自己的心跳与呼吸，我相信，这个生命走出去时不会慌张。
5. The first object of love in life should be yourself. Write poems for yourself, talk to yourself, find a quiet space, and listen to your heartbeat and breathing. I believe that when this life steps out, it won’t be panicked.

不要在晚上做出任何决定，晚上的意志力太过薄弱，阴与阳只一线之隔，天亮仍觉是对的，即使错，也甘心。
6. Don’t make any decisions at night, as your willpower is too weak at night. The line between Yin and Yang is thin, and if you still think it’s right when the day comes, even if it’s wrong, you will accept it.

背不动的，要放下；伤不起的，要看淡；想不通的，可以不想；恨不过的，要抚平。人生，就是一个修炼的过程，何必用这一颗不平的心看待人和事，作践了自己，辜负了岁月。
7. Let go of what you can’t carry; look down on what you can’t afford to be hurt by; don’t think about what you can’t figure out; and soothe what you can’t hate.

阳光不同，是因为心情不同；绿叶不同，是因为风向不同。生活就是这样，人生会面对不同的选择，不管你的选择是什么，请别忘记：路是自己走出来的的，快乐是自己创造出来的！
8. Life is a process of cultivation, so why view people and things with an unsettled heart, demeaning yourself and wasting time.

人生就是一个选择的过程，每一种选择，同时也意味着放弃。人生的每一步，都是一个十字路口，其实每一条路都没有尽头，因为我们永无回头路可走。
9. The sunlight is different because our moods are different; the green leaves are different because the wind direction is different. Life is like this, and we face different choices. No matter what choice you make, please remember: the road is walked by yourself, and happiness is created by yourself!

宽容别人，其实是在宽恕自己。有些时候，你的不宽容别人可能没感觉，却把自己丢入了心心念念的地狱。
10. Life is a process of making choices, and each choice also means giving up. Every step of life is a crossroads, and in fact, there is no end to any road because we can never go back.

抬头仰望天空还是那样的亘古不变，可同一片天空下的我们，却怎样也找不到彼时的路途。
11. To be tolerant of others is actually to forgive yourself. Sometimes, your intolerance may not be felt by others, but it throws you into the hell you keep thinking about.

喜欢上一个人总是容易的，比如遇见一个容貌美好的人，英俊的人；或者聪明的，才华横溢的人；再或者强悍有魄力的人。动心是不难的；但刻骨铭心的感情，一定不会多。
12. The sky we look up at is still the same eternal sky, but we, under the same sky, can never find the path of that time.

情绪这种东西，非得严加控制不可，一味纵容地自悲自怜，便越来越消沉。
13. It’s easy to like someone, such as meeting a beautiful, handsome, intelligent, talented, or strong and powerful person. It’s not difficult to be attracted; but deep, unforgettable feelings will not be many.

时间治好了忧伤和争执，因为我们在变化，我们不会再是同一个人。一点点小事就可以安慰我们，因为一点点小事就可以刺痛我们。
14. Emotions must be strictly controlled; indulging in self-pity will only make you more depressed.

不要对自己太过苛刻，对自己太苛刻的人只会消耗掉更多让自己幸福的能力。
15. Time heals sorrows and disputes because we change, and we will never be the same person. Small things can comfort us because small things can also hurt us.

如果你单身时不快乐，那么恋爱后也不可能快乐。一个人应该先弄好自己的生活，自己先爱上这样的生活，然后再分享出去。
16. Don’t be too hard on yourself; those who are too hard on themselves will only consume more of their ability to be happy.

历历在目的是那些过往的点滴，我已走过尘海无法冻结的那一段，让它成为那一瞬间梦与现实交织而成的终点——遗忘就是给彼此最好的纪念，如花美眷，终究抵不过似水流年。
17. If you are not happy when you are single, you will not be happy after falling in love either. One should first sort out their own life, fall in love with this life, and then share it with others.

每当我倦怠想要放弃的时候，另一个我就对自己说：“如果你现在不做，你就没有将来了。”
1. Whenever I feel weary and want to give up, another part of me says, “If you don’t do it now, you won’t have a future.”

当旅行成为一种流浪，我们便把生活看成是一种生命的真实。
2. When traveling becomes a kind of wandering, we see life as the true essence of existence.

旅行的意义，从来都是由心而定。我不奢求也不渴望能在人生的旅程中观赏多少名胜，多少古迹，只希望有一条能在脚下延伸。即使眼前是漫无边际的田野，我依然能微笑着陌上花开…
3. The meaning of travel has always been determined by the heart. I don’t seek or crave to see how many famous sites or ancient relics during my life’s journey; I just hope there is a path stretching beneath my feet. Even if it’s an endless field in front of me, I can still smile at the flowers blooming along the way…

人如果知道自己的目的地，何必在意此时在飘泊。
4. If one knows their destination, why care about wandering at the moment.

一花凋零荒芜不了整个春天，一次挫折也荒废不了整个人生。
5. One flower withering cannot desolate the entire spring, and one setback cannot waste the whole life.

也许旅行的意义并不在于你在沿途中看了多少风景，也不在于你是否到达了预期的目的地，而是在于你旅行中的那种心境的变化和丰富的经历。
6. Perhaps the meaning of travel is not about how many landscapes you see along the way, nor whether you reach your expected destination, but the changes in your state of mind and the enriching experiences during the journey.

让心充满希望，与善良相随，走过红尘喧嚣，在清清浅浅的岁月中写下动人的暖。
7. Fill your heart with hope, accompany kindness, walk through the hustle and bustle of the world, and write touching warmth in the shallow years.

我想旅行对我们永恒的诱惑就是：不能停留，没有终点
8. I think the eternal temptation of travel for us is that we cannot stop, and there is no endpoint.

有生之年，只诉温暖不言殇，花味渐浓，茶味渐醇，倾心相遇，安暖相陪。
9. In our lifetime, let’s only speak of warmth and not of sorrow. As the scent of flowers grows stronger and the taste of tea becomes more mellow, we meet wholeheartedly and accompany each other in warmth and comfort.

时光越老，人心越淡。轻轻的呼吸，浅浅的微笑。
10. As time grows older, people’s hearts become more indifferent. Breathe gently, smile faintly.

半生花开，半世花落。这山长水远的道路，终究是要自己走下去。
11. Half of life is spent in bloom, and the other half in withering. On this long road of mountains and rivers, we must walk on by ourselves.

我梦想中的生活就是这样：有花，有天空，有可以眺望期许的远方。
12. The life I dream of is like this: with flowers, with sky, and a distant horizon to look forward to.

岁月改变了我们的容颜，一成不变的是脚下走过的风景。
13. Time changes our appearances, but the scenery we walk through remains the same.

有时候，蓦然之间，就是想开始一段简简单单的旅行，不用多远，也不用多久，一个人，一只包，一条路，一段旅程，一种心情，没有任何束缚，亦没有丝毫羁绊。
14. Sometimes, suddenly, you just want to start a simple journey. Not far away, not for long, alone, with a bag, on a road, a journey, a mood, without any constraints or entanglements.

时光永远不会逆行，把握好每一个属于自己的清晨。
15. Time will never go backward. Seize every morning that belongs to you.

静守一份安然，淡墨红尘，默然相爱，寂静喜欢。
16. Keep a peaceful heart, quietly love the world with light ink, love in silence, and enjoy the tranquility.

你可以一辈子不登山，但你心中一定要有座山。它使你总往高处爬，它使你总有个奋斗的方向，它使你任何一刻抬起头，都能看到自己的希望。
17. You can go a lifetime without climbing mountains, but you must have a mountain in your heart. It drives you to always climb higher, gives you a direction to strive for, and allows you to look up at any moment and see your hope.

有时候，不要把世界看得太孤单了，正如你总在想念某些人，也总会有某些人在一直想念你。
18. Sometimes, don’t see the world as too lonely. Just as you always miss certain people, there will always be people missing you.

都说时光飞逝，其实时间一直都在，只是自己的心在变，情在变。人说抵挡不过时间，其实是时间抵挡不过我们的善变。
19. People say that time flies, but time is always there; it’s just that our hearts and emotions change. They say they can’t withstand the test of time, but in fact, time cannot withstand our fickleness.

不要把你的快乐寄托在别人身上。每个人各有自己的生命追寻，这一刻他拉起妳的手，下一刻他可能转身而去：无论别人的真心有多少，他都没有理由扛起你生命的责任。只有你，才能让你自己，真正快乐。
20. Don’t place your happiness on others. Everyone has their own pursuit of life. This moment he holds your hand, and the next he may turn away. No matter how sincere someone’s heart is, they have no reason to bear the responsibility of your life. Only you can truly make yourself happy.

没有所谓玩笑，所有的玩笑都有认真的成分。
1. There is no such thing as a joke, all jokes have an element of seriousness.

忧伤是一张矫情的脸，面目可憎。既然选择活着，就必定有所承担。那些无所谓的情绪，怎么有资格出席生命的狂欢？
2. Melancholy is a pretentious face, repulsive in appearance. Since we choose to live, we must bear some responsibilities. Those indifferent emotions don’t have the qualifications to attend the carnival of life.

其实活着还真是件美好的事，不在于风景多美多壮观，而是在于遇见了谁，被温暖了一下，然后希望有一天自己也成为一个小太阳，去温暖别人。
3. Actually, living is truly a beautiful thing, not because of how beautiful and spectacular the scenery is, but because of who we meet, who warms us for a moment, and then we hope to become a little sun one day to warm others.

人往往在闲得发慌的时候最矫情最脆弱，在深渊挣扎的时候最清醒最坚强。
4. People often become the most sentimental and vulnerable when they are bored, and the most clear-headed and strong when struggling in the abyss.

别傻乎乎地让自己有太多想法，你的想象力只会创造出一个一开始就并不存在的问题。
5. Don’t foolishly let yourself have too many thoughts, your imagination will only create a problem that didn’t exist from the beginning.

让女人失望的不是你没有钱，而是在你身上看不到希望，永远不要低估一个姑娘和你同甘共苦的决心。
6. What disappoints a woman is not that you have no money, but that she can’t see hope in you. Never underestimate a girl’s determination to share both happiness and hardship with you.

不是所有人都有好脾气，如果你恰巧遇到了能包容你、迁就你的人，请别磨光了他的感情。不要因为你的幼稚和任性，消耗了你毕生的好运。
7. Not everyone has a good temper. If you happen to meet someone who can tolerate and accommodate you, please don’t wear out his feelings. Don’t consume your lifelong fortune because of your immaturity and willfulness.

一见钟情这种事，浪漫，但不一定长久。日久生情这种事，很难，却更难分开。一见钟情永远和外貌有关，日久生情永远和习惯有关。越缓慢的爱上一个人，就爱的越长久。爱情可以有一瞬间，但真情却需要用时间浇灌。
8. Love at first sight is romantic, but not necessarily long-lasting. Love that grows over time is difficult, but even harder to separate. Love at first sight is always related to appearance, while love that grows over time is always related to habits. The slower you fall in love with someone, the longer the love lasts. Love can be an instant, but true love requires time to nurture.

你是我生命中的精灵，你知道我所有的心情。
9. You are the elf in my life, knowing all my emotions.

有没有这么一个人，曾经占据了你全部的生活，现在却连声问候都会觉得尴尬。
10. Is there such a person who once occupied your entire life, but now even a greeting feels awkward?

你可以忽略我的感受，也可以肆意挥霍我的热情，甚至不理会我的沮丧难过，可是有一点你必须得明白，每个人能付出的爱都是有限的，无论是对朋友还是爱人，如果你让我感觉到力不从心了，迟早有一天我会离开你，那就永远都回不来了，永远。
11. You can ignore my feelings, squander my enthusiasm, and even disregard my depression and sadness, but you must understand one thing: everyone’s capacity to give love is limited, whether it’s for friends or lovers. If you make me feel overwhelmed, sooner or later I will leave you, and then it will be gone forever.

人生最幸运的事之一就是能遇到一个好玩的、且能和自己玩得来的人。
12. One of the luckiest things in life is to meet someone fun and compatible.

愿你始终相信爱情，不受世事桎锢，找到一个不是“将就”的人，拥有一场叫“因为爱情”的婚姻。
13. May you always believe in love, unbound by worldly constraints, find someone who is not a “compromise,” and have a marriage called “because of love.”

你必须明白：要走的人你留不住，装睡的人你叫不醒，不爱你的人你感动不了。如果想念你，他会找；如果想要你，他会说；如果在乎你，他会真情流露。如果这些都没发生，那么他就不劳你费心了。
14. You must understand: you can’t keep someone who wants to leave, you can’t wake someone who is pretending to sleep, and you can’t move someone who doesn’t love you. If he misses you, he will find you; if he wants you, he will say it; if he cares about you, he will show his true feelings. If none of these happen, then you don’t need to worry about it.

真正的牛逼不是你认识多少人，而是你患难的时候还有多少认识你。
15. True greatness is not about how many people you know, but how many people still know you when you are in trouble.

据说那些长期单身的姑娘，渐渐都活成了自己最想嫁的男生的样子。
16. It is said that girls who are single for a long time gradually become the person they always wanted to marry.

总有个人，一换语气和你说话，你就觉得世界都塌了。
17. There is always someone whose change in tone when speaking to you makes you feel like the world is collapsing.

若是有缘，时间空间都不是距离；若是无缘，终日相聚也无法会意。若总被忽视，又何必作贱了自己；若不被珍惜，又何必苦苦去维系。
18. If it’s destined, time and space are not distances; if it’s not meant to be, being together all day long won’t make a difference. If you are always ignored, why degrade yourself; if not cherished, why try so hard to maintain the relationship.

自己选择了方向与路途时，就不要抱怨，一个人只有承担起狂风暴雨，才能最终守得住彩虹满天。
19. When you choose your own direction and path, don’t complain. Only by facing the storms can one eventually enjoy a sky full of rainbows.

当你奇怪他为什么对你忽冷忽热的时候，他可能正在为另一个人赴汤蹈火。
20. When you wonder why he is hot and cold towards you, he may be going through fire and water for someone else.

像我这种过份敏感又极度缺乏安全感的人，要是爱上了就必须得占有，如果无法占有，相处对我来说绝对是艰熬，不如不爱。
1. For someone like me who is overly sensitive and lacks a sense of security, if I fall in love, I must possess. If I cannot possess, being together is absolutely torment, and it’s better not to love at all.

没有经济上的独立，就缺少自尊；没有思考上的独立，就缺少自主；没有人格上的独立，就缺少自信。
2. Without financial independence, there is a lack of self-esteem; without independent thinking, there is a lack of autonomy; without independent personality, there is a lack of self-confidence.

失恋时受伤的到底是那颗真诚的脆弱的心，还是虚荣心？有时候，你并没有自己以为的那么爱一个人，你只是无法接受他不爱你而已。
3. When you are hurt after a breakup, is it that sincere and fragile heart, or is it your vanity? Sometimes, you don’t love someone as much as you think, you just can’t accept that they don’t love you.

当你觉得她不再如初见时那般“乖巧懂事”，当你觉得她变得越来越“无理取闹”，这说明她已对你的爱越来越深，也说明了你对她的爱越来越少。
4. When you feel she is no longer as “obedient and sensible” as when you first met, and when you feel she is becoming more and more “unreasonable,” it means her love for you is growing deeper, and also indicates that your love for her is diminishing.

多么想念以前的朋友，新朋友虽然也好，但是自己已经没有心力再去磨合包容一切，也不愿敞开心扉跟人深交，觉得跟人相处好麻烦，老朋友虽然距离有些渐远，可一聊天，那种熟悉感亲切感都能让人鼻酸的怀念。
5. How I miss my old friends; new friends are good too, but I don’t have the energy to go through the process of getting along and tolerating everything, nor do I want to open my heart to make deep connections. It feels troublesome to get along with people. Although my old friends are somewhat distant, when we chat, that sense of familiarity and closeness can make me nostalgically emotional.

不要试图去追一匹错过的马，用追马的时间去种草，来年春暖花开，骏马自然会来。同样的道理，也适用于失恋。
6. Don’t try to chase a missed horse; instead, use the time to plant grass. When spring comes and flowers bloom, the fine horse will naturally come. The same principle applies to love loss.

我玩得起，也收得起心，我可以专一到让你惊讶，也可花心到让你害怕，我喝过最烈的酒，也放弃过最爱的人，我可以像个疯子一样的玩，也可像个爷们一样工作，更可以在家里做贤妻良母烧一手好菜，一切取决于你是谁，也取决于你如何待我，将心比心，所以请不要站在你的角度看我，我怕你看不懂。
7. I can play and also be serious; I can be so dedicated that it surprises you, or so flirtatious that it scares you. I have drunk the strongest liquor and given up the person I loved the most. I can be a madman playing, a man working hard, and a virtuous wife and mother at home, cooking delicious meals. It all depends on who you are and how you treat me. Treat others as you wish to be treated, so please don’t judge me from your perspective; I’m afraid you won’t understand.

爱情就是不吵架的时候觉得可以为他去死，吵架的时候觉得该死的人应该是他，吵完架觉得天啊他要是死了我也就不活了。
8. Love is when you feel you can die for them when there’s no argument, feel they should die during the argument, and feel that if they died, you wouldn’t live either after the argument.

《大话西游》的结尾有句话，“你看那个人，好奇怪哟，像一条狗”。像条狗的人，是放弃了人间的男女情欢，无欲无念兢兢业业走在西天取经路上的至尊宝。他如你我这般，收起了脾气火气不再任性淘气，只顾奔波职场。人生百年，谁不曾大闹天宫，谁不曾头上紧箍，谁不曾爱上层楼，谁不曾孤单上路。
9. At the end of “A Chinese Odyssey,” there’s a line, “Look at that person, so strange, like a dog.” The person who is like a dog has given up human love and desire, focusing only on the journey to the West to obtain sacred scriptures. Like you and me, they have put away their temper and no longer act willfully or mischievously, only focusing on their careers. In a hundred years of life, who hasn’t made a fuss in heaven, worn a tight headband, fallen in love with a higher floor, or walked alone?

志得意满时享受成就，身处低潮时享受人生，有心思时干有意义的活，没心情时做有意思的事。
10. Enjoy your achievements when you’re successful, and enjoy life when you’re in a low tide. Do meaningful things when you’re in the mood, and do interesting things when you’re not.

长大后，这个社会教会了我，没心没肺，没感觉，不痒不疼，不在乎。
11. As I’ve grown up, society has taught me to be heartless, unfeeling, not itchy or painful, and not to care.

要达到能够结婚的状态，需要两个人都达到自我内心的安定：对新鲜的异性不再蠢蠢欲动，对生活的前路不迷茫，已经经历过的感情抑或其他事达到自己预计的分量，决心靠谱而安心过日子了。这才是可以结婚的时刻。
12. To reach the state of getting married, both people need to achieve inner stability: no longer being attracted to new opposite sexes, not being confused about the future of life, having experienced feelings or other things reaching their expected weight, and being determined to live a reliable and peaceful life. That’s the right time to get married.

所谓情商低，是指不会说话，不懂察言观色，永远分不清状况，总在不合适的场景下说不合时宜的话或使用不合适的手段，把人伤得都TMD要翻脸了，还觉得自己萌萌哒……
13. Low emotional intelligence refers to not knowing how to speak, not understanding others’ expressions, never being able to discern the situation, always saying inappropriate things or using inappropriate methods in unsuitable scenarios, hurting people to the point of almost turning against each other, and still thinking they are cute…

不要怕某种性格会得罪人，要知道世界上没有任何一种性格能避免得罪人，说话直的会得罪小人，说话委婉的会得罪急脾气，老好人会得罪有原则的人，圆滑的人会得罪聪明人……既然都会得罪人，那就做你自己，做好了自己，就不怕得罪人，因为你可以承担后果。
1. Do not be afraid that a certain personality will offend others. You should know that there is no personality in the world that can avoid offending others. Straightforward people may offend petty individuals, while tactful people may offend those with short tempers. Nice guys may offend principled people, and cunning people may offend the wise… Since everyone will be offended anyway, just be yourself. If you do well, you won’t be afraid of offending others because you can bear the consequences.

永远不要怪别人不帮你，也永远别怪他人不关心你。活在世上，我们都是独立的个体，痛苦难受都得自己承受。没人能真正理解你，石头没砸在他脚上，他永远体会不到有多疼。人生路上，我们都是孤独的行者，如人饮水冷暖自知，真正能帮你的，永远只有你自己。
2. Never blame others for not helping you, nor blame them for not caring about you. In this world, we are all independent individuals, and we must bear our own pain and suffering. No one can truly understand you; if a stone doesn’t hit their foot, they will never know how painful it is. On the journey of life, we are all lonely travelers. As the saying goes, “like person drinking water, cold and warm self-know.” The only one who can truly help you is yourself.

如果爱上一个人，请不要炫耀，也不要宣扬，只管安安静静的去爱。因为恋爱是自己的事情，别人不可能懂你的感情，也不可能感同身受你的悸动。千万不要因为虚荣心而炫耀。晒恩爱的结局往往都不太好，时间是爱情最好的证明。其实最好的爱情，无非是几十年风轻云淡的在一起。
3. If you fall in love with someone, please do not show off or publicize it. Just love quietly. Because love is your own business, others cannot understand your feelings or share your excitement. Never flaunt out of vanity. Showing off love often leads to bad endings, and time is the best proof of love. In fact, the best love is nothing more than being together peacefully for decades.

你要克服的是你的虚荣心，是你的炫耀欲，你要对付的是你的时刻想要冲出来想要出风头的小聪明。
4. You need to overcome your vanity and your desire to show off. You need to deal with your cleverness that always wants to stand out and steal the spotlight.

生活总是这样，不能叫人处处都满意。但我们还要热情地活下去。人活一生，值得爱的东西很多，不要因为一个不满意，就灰心。
5. Life is always like this, not satisfying everyone everywhere. But we still need to live passionately. There is much worth loving in life, so don’t be discouraged by a single dissatisfaction.

遇见是两个人的事，离开却是一个人的决定，遇见是一个开始，离开却是为了遇见下一个离开。这是一个流行离开的世界，但是我们都不擅长告别。
6. Meeting is a matter of two people, while leaving is a decision made by one person. Meeting is a beginning, and leaving is to meet the next departure. This is a world where departure is popular, but we are all not good at saying goodbye.

如果你不够优秀，人脉是不值钱的，它不是追求来的，而是吸引来的。只有等价的交换，才能得到合理的帮助。
7. If you are not excellent, your connections are worthless. They are not pursued but attracted. Only equal exchange can bring reasonable help.

坏脾气的消失，可以准确地反映智慧的增长。
8. The disappearance of a bad temper can accurately reflect the growth of wisdom.

有些你曾以为很要好的朋友，会一直结伴走下去的朋友，不知道何时在路途就走散了。陪你走了一程的朋友，谢谢他们。能陪你走一生的朋友，谢谢老天。
9. Some friends you thought were very close and would walk together forever may get lost along the way. Thank the friends who accompanied you for a while, and thank God for those who can accompany you for a lifetime.

对你抱有偏见的人，不见得多坏，只是你们彼此的生活不同。不再浪费口舌去争辩，因为太多事情解释不来。理解理解你的人，爱爱你的人，体重留给美食，时间留给陪伴，悦人再多都不如悦己。
10. People who have prejudices against you are not necessarily bad; it’s just that your lives are different. Don’t waste your breath arguing, as there are too many things that cannot be explained. Understand those who understand you, love those who love you, save your appetite for delicious food, and spend your time on companionship. Pleasing others is not as good as pleasing yourself.

谁说现在是冬天呢？当你在我身旁时，我感到百花齐放，鸟唱蝉鸣。
11. Who says it’s winter now? When you are by my side, I feel like flowers are blooming, birds singing, and cicadas chirping.

一个人的成熟，并不表现在获得了多少成就上，而是面对那些厌恶的人和事，不迎合也不抵触，只淡然一笑对之。
12. A person’s maturity is not reflected in how many achievements they have made, but in how they face those people and things they dislike, without catering to them or resisting them, just smiling calmly at them.

活得累是因为心里装了多余的东西，跟吃饱了撑的是一个道理。
13. Living tiredly is because your heart is filled with unnecessary things, just like being overfull after eating too much.

所谓得体，就是有许多话不必说尽，有许多事不必做尽，失望是无可避免的，但大部分的失望都是因为高估了自己。
14. The so-called propriety means that there are many things that need not be said completely, and many things need not be done completely. Disappointment is inevitable, but most of it is due to overestimating oneself.

陪你度过最黑暗的夜晚的人，才是值得与之共度最辉煌的日子的人。
15. The person who accompanies you through the darkest nights is the one who is worth spending the most glorious days with.

绝不要去猜测别人的心里在想什么，琢磨别人的心思的人从来都不是幸福的人。每个人都应该关注自己的内心的所思所想，如果连这一点都做不到，那是很可悲可叹的。
1. Never guess what others are thinking in their hearts; those who ponder others’ thoughts are never truly happy. Everyone should focus on their own inner thoughts, and if one cannot even do this, it is truly pitiful and lamentable.

喜欢是可以为你不顾一切打一场架。爱却是可以为你忍气吞声受一辈子委屈。喜欢是随手可得的数码照。爱却是钱包里一直夹着的那张斑驳泛黄旧照片。
2. Liking can be fighting for you regardless of everything. Love, however, is enduring grievances and holding back for you for a lifetime. Liking is a digital photo that can be easily obtained. Love is the faded, yellowing old photo that has always been kept in your wallet.

我未曾见过一个早起、勤奋、谨慎、诚实的人抱怨命运不好。良好的品格，优良的习惯，坚强的意志，是不会被假设所谓的命运打败的。
3. I have never seen a person who is early-rising, diligent, cautious, and honest complaining about bad luck. Good character, fine habits, and a strong will shall never be defeated by the so-called fate.

没有人是喜欢等待的，但等待是人生的常态，很多事情没结果之前只能等待，在一切还没有变好之前，我们只能学会等待，看书、健身、旅行、工作，总之你得先成为自己喜欢的样子，你要的人才会来遇见你。
4. No one likes to wait, but waiting is the norm of life. Many things can only be waited for before they have results. Before everything gets better, we can only learn to wait, read books, exercise, travel, work, in short, you have to become the person you like first, and then the person you want will come to meet you.

没有人能替你承受，也没有人拿得走你的坚强。每个人都是孤独的行者，在行走的过程中慢慢变得坚强。
5. No one can bear your hardships for you, and no one can take away your strength. Everyone is a lonely traveler, gradually becoming stronger during the journey.

如果当初我勇敢，结局是不是不一样。如果当时你坚持，回忆会不会不一般。最终我还是没说，你还是忽略。
6. If I had been brave at the beginning, would the outcome be different? If you had persisted at that time, would the memories be different? In the end, I still didn’t speak, and you still ignored it.

世上最牢固的感情不是“我爱你”，而是“我习惯了有你”。彼此依赖，才是最深的相爱。
7. The strongest bond in the world is not “I love you,” but “I am used to having you.” Mutual dependence is the deepest love.

很多时候我们纠结于我们会不会错过某个人，其实不用纠结，纠结也没什么用。在选择纠结的时候就已经选择了错过。
8. Many times we worry about whether we will miss someone, but there is no need to worry, as worrying is of no use. By worrying about the choice, we have already chosen to miss.

我们都希望在最好的年华遇见一个人，可往往是遇见一个人，才迎来最最美好的年华。
9. We all hope to meet someone in the best years of our lives, but it is often after meeting someone that we enter the most beautiful years of our lives.

在你准备好的时候去爱，而不是在你孤独的时候。
10. Love when you are ready, not when you are lonely.

男人只有穷一次，才知道哪个女人最爱你。 女人只有丑一次，才知道哪个男人不会离开你。 人只有落魄一次，才知道谁最最最在乎你。 陪伴，不是你有钱我才追随。 珍惜，不是你漂亮我才关注。 时间留下的，不是财富，不是美丽，是真诚。
11. A man only knows which woman loves him the most when he is poor once. A woman only knows which man will not leave her when she is ugly once. A person only knows who cares about them the most when they are down and out once. To accompany is not to follow you only when you are rich. To cherish is not to pay attention to you only when you are beautiful. What time leaves behind is not wealth or beauty, but sincerity.

你要全听自己的，你会比现在更优秀。你要全听别人的，也会比现在好很多。你错就错在不该相信自己的时候却相信了，不该怀疑自己的时候却怀疑了。
12. If you listen to yourself entirely, you will be better than you are now. If you listen to others entirely, you will also be much better than you are now. The mistake lies in believing in yourself when you should not and doubting yourself when you should not.

珍惜那个能让你忘掉过去的人，他很有可能就是你的未来，忘记那个无法给你未来的人，你才能拥抱未来。
13. Cherish the person who can make you forget the past, as they are very likely your future. Forget the person who cannot give you a future, and you can embrace the future.

人生所有的负担都将会变成礼物，所受的苦都能照亮未来迷茫的路。
14. All the burdens in life will become gifts, and the sufferings can illuminate the confused path ahead.

垂下的头颅只是为了让思想扬起，你若有一个不屈的灵魂，脚下就会有一片坚实的土地。
15. The lowered head is just to let the thoughts rise. If you have an unyielding soul, there will be a solid ground beneath your feet.

我的日子裡有你，人生是会不一样。可要是没有你，日子还是要过，也许要过得更勇敢和独立。谁也可以没有谁，这句话听起来有时多苦涩啊？却也使你知道，人不能因为没有了谁就没有了自己。
16. My life would be different with you in it. But even without you, life must go on, perhaps with more courage and independence. Who can live without whom? This sentence may sound bitter at times, but it also makes you realize that one should not lose oneself for the sake of someone else.

走出去，世界就在眼前；走不出去，眼前就是世界！
17. Go out, and the world is right in front of you; fail to step out, and what’s in front of you is the world!

千万不要把理想与前途混为一谈，所谓“前途”是指你想做什么样的工作，所谓“理想”是你想做什么样的人，现在的人关注前途远远超过理想。
1. Never confuse ideals with career prospects. The so-called “career prospects” refers to the type of work you want to do, while “ideals” refers to the kind of person you want to be. Nowadays, people focus on career prospects far more than ideals.

是的，我很重要。我们每一个人都应该有勇气这样说。我们的地位可能很卑微，我们的身份可能很渺小，但这丝毫不意味着我们不重要。重要并不是伟大的同义词，它是心灵对生命的允诺。
2. Yes, I am important. Each and every one of us should have the courage to say this. Our status may be humble, and our identity may be insignificant, but this does not mean we are unimportant. Importance is not a synonym for greatness; it is a promise of the soul to life.

你不管做什么事，如果做的太好了，一不警惕就会在无意中卖弄起来。那样的话，你就不再好了。
3. No matter what you do, if you do it too well, you might inadvertently show off. In that case, you are no longer good.

我们必须勇敢地面对可怕的事情，因为我们不可能逃避它们，忘记它们。你越早渡过这一关，越早对自己说，“是的，事情已经发生，我无能为力。”就越早能开始你自己的生活。
4. We must face terrible things bravely because we cannot escape or forget them. The sooner you get through this, the sooner you can say to yourself, “Yes, it happened, and I can’t do anything about it.” The sooner you can start living your own life.

难过了悲伤一下没关系，想哭了哭一下没关系，心疼了疼一下没关系，一个人孤单一下也没关系……给时间一点时间，一切都会过去。
5. It’s okay to feel sad, cry, feel heartache, or be lonely for a while… Give time some time, and everything will pass.

你的孤独是因为你既希望有人关心，又不想被谁过分打扰。
6. Your loneliness is because you both desire someone’s care and do not want to be disturbed too much.

心小了，所有的小事就大了；心大了，所有的大事都小了；看淡世事沧桑，内心安然无恙。
7. If your heart is small, all the little things become big; if your heart is big, all the big things become small; look淡en the vicissitudes of life, and your inner self will remain unharmed.

我是一个任性的孩子，我想擦去一切不幸。我想在大地上，画满窗子。让所有习惯黑暗的眼睛，都习惯光明。
8. I am a willful child, and I want to erase all misfortune. I want to draw windows all over the earth, so that all eyes accustomed to darkness become accustomed to light.

楼底与楼顶的风景，永远不同，谁也别羡慕谁。
9. The view from the bottom and the top of a building will always be different; don’t envy anyone.

多年后，生命里来来去去的人多得我都记不清楚名字和面孔了，我才明白一件事，其实很多时候我们以为的伤心，只是自尊受到了打击和挫折，真正能够伤到我们的心的人，这一辈子也只有那么几个。
10. Years later, I can’t remember the names and faces of the many people who have come and gone in my life, and I realize one thing: much of what we think is heartbreak is actually just a blow to our self-esteem and frustration. The people who can truly hurt our hearts are only a few in a lifetime.

一个人的性格决定他的际遇。如果你喜欢保持你的性格，那么，你就无权拒绝你的际遇。
11. A person’s character determines his or her experiences. If you like to maintain your character, then you have no right to refuse your experiences.

人生，错过太多，我们都在重复，所以，我们不必为自己错过的悲哀，而应该为自己拥有的而喜悦。错过了漂亮，你还拥有健康；错过了健康，你还拥有智慧；错过了智慧，你还拥有善良；错过了财富，你还拥有安逸；错过了安逸，你还拥有自由；错过了自由，你还拥有人格。
12. In life, we miss too much; we are all repeating ourselves. So, we should not grieve for what we have missed but rejoice for what we possess. If you miss beauty, you still have health; if you miss health, you still have wisdom; if you miss wisdom, you still have kindness; if you miss wealth, you still have peace; if you miss peace, you still have freedom; if you miss freedom, you still have integrity.

你可以不理解，但不要用一个标签给别人的人生下定义。
13. You may not understand, but do not define someone else’s life with a label.

也许一个人在真正无可奈何的时候，除了微笑，也只好微笑了。
14. Perhaps when a person is truly helpless, all they can do is smile.

有人说：感情是一朵玫瑰，不管情归何方，手上总留余香。有人说：感情是一首歌，唱尽人生的悲欢离合。其实，感情是一个人的生命状态。当生命结束时，感情象手上的余香，只留下品味的味道。
15. Some say: Love is a rose, no matter where it belongs, the fragrance remains on the hand. Others say: Love is a song, singing the joys and sorrows of life. In fact, love is a person’s state of being. When life ends, love is like the lingering fragrance on the hand, leaving only the taste to savor.

只有弱者才会逞强，只有强者才懂示弱。刻薄是因为底子薄，尖酸是因为心里酸。
16. Only the weak show off their strength; only the strong know how to demonstrate weakness. Bitterness comes from a shallow foundation, and sarcasm comes from a sour heart.

人生最宝贵的不是你拥有的物质，而是陪伴在你身边的人。
17. The most precious thing in life is not the material possessions you have, but the people who accompany you.

和优秀的人共事很简单，告诉他要做什么事，要什么效果，他就会想办法搞定，不需讲究条件。因为经过无数次经验的积累，他本人就成了成事最大的“条件”，缺了他，这事就搞不定。所以，越是出色的人，越善于在缺乏条件的状态下把事做好；越是平庸的人，越对做事的条件挑三拣四。
1. Working with outstanding people is simple; just tell them what needs to be done and the desired outcome, and they will find a way to get it done without making a fuss about conditions. Because after accumulating countless experiences, they themselves become the greatest “condition” for success. Without them, the task cannot be accomplished. Thus, the more excellent a person is, the better they are at getting things done under unfavorable conditions; the more mediocre a person is, the more they nitpick about the conditions for doing things.

在你幼稚无知，懵懂求进，一直陪在你身边的人，就是你人生的贵人。
2. The person who stays by your side when you are naive, ignorant, and eager to progress is your noble friend in life.

别把还有未来当成现在不努力的借口。连当下的时间都无法把握的人，没理由相信他能规划好未来。
3. Don’t use the excuse of having a future to not work hard in the present. If someone can’t grasp the present moment, there’s no reason to believe they can plan a good future.

感情再深，恩义再浓的朋友，天涯远隔，情义，终也慢慢疏淡。不是说彼此的心变了，也不是说不再当对方是朋友，只是，远在天涯，喜怒哀乐不能共享。原来，我们已是遥远得只剩下问候，问候还是好的，至少我们不曾把彼此忘记。
4. No matter how deep the emotions or friendship, when separated by great distances, the bonds of affection will gradually fade. It’s not that our hearts have changed, nor that we no longer consider each other friends, but simply that we are far away and cannot share our joys and sorrows. In the end, we are left with only greetings, but greetings are still good, at least we haven’t forgotten each other.

历尽繁华，方知平凡是真；回首沧桑，只想平淡如水。把坚持打包在岁月中，你会感到，生活是甜的；把努力书写到行为中，你会感到，人生是美的。
5. Only after experiencing the ups and downs of life do we realize the true value of simplicity; looking back on the vicissitudes, we long for a life as plain as water. By persisting through the years, you will find that life is sweet; by putting effort into your actions, you will find that life is beautiful.

你见，或者不见我，我就在那里，不悲不喜；你念，或者不念我，情就在那里，不来不去；你爱，或者不爱我，爱就在那里，不增不减；你跟，或者不跟我，我的手就在你的手里，不舍不弃。来我的怀里，或者让我住进你的心里，默然相爱，寂静欢喜。
6. Whether you see me or not, I am there, neither sad nor happy; whether you think of me or not, my feelings are there, neither coming nor going; whether you love me or not, my love is there, neither increasing nor decreasing; whether you follow me or not, my hand is in yours, never letting go. Come into my arms, or let me live in your heart, silently loving each other, enjoying the peace and joy.

人生中，有些事就像是打喷嚏，虽然已有所预感，却还是措手不及。
7. In life, some things are like sneezing; although you may have a premonition, you are still caught off guard.

梦想是一个说出来就矫情的东西，它是生在暗地里的一颗种子，只有破土而出，拔节而长，终有一日开出花来，才能正大光明的让所有人都知道。在此之前，除了坚持，别无选择。
8. Dreams are something that sound sentimental when spoken out loud. They are seeds that grow in the dark, only to break through the soil, grow strong, and one day bloom into flowers, allowing everyone to know about them. Until then, there is no choice but to persist.

生活就是一部百科全书，包罗万象，人生，由人不由天，幸福，由心不由境。
9. Life is like an encyclopedia, containing everything. Life is determined by people, not by destiny; happiness comes from the heart, not from the circumstances.

必须得接受这个事实，有的人出现在你生命里，就是专程给你添堵的，没有任何和解的可能。千万别在这事儿上折磨自己，反思是不是哪里不够客气，考虑如何退让才能与他和平共处，你唯一需要检讨的，就是为什么还没有让他快点滚出你的人生。
10. We must accept the fact that some people appear in our lives just to cause trouble, with no possibility of reconciliation. Don’t torture yourself over this, wondering if you were impolite or considering how to compromise to coexist peacefully with them. The only thing you need to reflect on is why you haven’t gotten rid of them from your life yet.

有些事想不通，就不去想；有些人猜不透，就不去猜；有些理悟不透，就不去悟；有些路走不通，就不去走。
11. If you can’t figure out some things, don’t think about them; if you can’t understand some people, don’t guess about them; if you can’t comprehend some truths, don’t try to grasp them; if some paths are blocked, don’t walk down them.

人生一个梦，生活靠颗心，只要心态不老，只要信念不消，不管多远的路，都会有尽头；不论多深的痛，也会有结束。选择其实很简单，往自己心里感到踏实的地方走，静下心听自己的心声。
12. Life is a dream, and living depends on the heart. As long as your mindset remains young and your beliefs do not fade, no matter how long the journey or how deep the pain, there will be an end. The choice is actually very simple: follow the path that feels secure in your heart, calm down, and listen to your own voice.

因为你自卑，所以你自尊心强，所以你多疑敏感，所以你缺乏安全感，所以你控制欲强，所以你占有欲强，所以你的小心思很多，所以你的烦恼也不少。
13. Because you feel inferior, you have a strong sense of self-esteem, which leads to suspicion, sensitivity, insecurity, strong control and possessiveness, and many little thoughts, resulting in numerous troubles.

用一颗美好之心，看世界风景；用一颗快乐之心，对生活琐碎；用一颗感恩之心，感谢经历给我们的成长；用一颗宽阔之心，包容人事对我们的伤害；用一颗平常之心，看人生得失成败。
1. With a beautiful heart, appreciate the world’s scenery; with a happy heart, face the trivialities of life; with a grateful heart, thank experiences for our growth; with a broad heart, tolerate the harm people bring to us; with a normal heart, view life’s gains and losses, success or failure.

一个人最幸福的时刻，就是找对了人，他宠着你，纵容你的习惯，并爱着你的一切。
2. The happiest moment for a person is when they find the right person, who spoils you, indulges your habits, and loves everything about you.

忙碌里，谁都有难处，现实中，谁都有苦楚，人生，总有太多的纠结，让我们无助；总有太多的奈何，让我们无可。所以，有些事，可以认真，但不要较真，心若轻松，路才顺当。
3. In the hustle and bustle, everyone has difficulties; in reality, everyone has their own suffering. Life always has too many entanglements, leaving us helpless; there are always too many inevitabilities, leaving us with no choice. So, some things can be taken seriously, but not too seriously. If the heart is relaxed, the road will be smooth.

活着的核心是健康快乐，健康是身和心的叠加，心健才能身健，身健必须心健。
4. The core of living is health and happiness. Health is the combination of body and mind. A healthy mind leads to a healthy body, and a healthy body requires a healthy mind.

路在脚下，是距离；路在心中，是追求。有追求，就会有坎坷；有希望，就会有失望；风有风的方向，云有云的心情，别奢望人人都懂你，别要求事事都如意。平常一颗心，淡然一些事。与人相处，真诚一点；与人误解，宽容一点。
5. The road is under our feet, which represents distance; the road is in our hearts, which represents pursuit. With pursuit, there will be frustrations; with hope, there will be disappointments; the wind has its direction, and the clouds have their mood. Don’t expect everyone to understand you, and don’t demand that everything goes smoothly. Keep an ordinary heart and take things lightly. Be sincere when interacting with others; be tolerant when misunderstood.

把尘事看轻些；把人际看浅些；把得失看淡些；把成败看开些。
6. Take worldly matters lightly; view interpersonal relationships superficially; look淡ly at gains and losses; look open-mindedly at success or failure.

不和别人比较，不和自己计较，下心去做人，埋头去做事，脚踏实地的走，顺其自然的活，做人如饮酒，半醉半醒最适宜；做事如执笔，半松半紧最自然。
7. Don’t compare yourself with others, and don’t be concerned with your own problems. Focus on being a good person and working hard. Walk on the ground and live naturally. Being a person is like drinking wine, half drunk and half sober is the most suitable; doing things is like holding a pen, half loose and half tight is the most natural.

一个人的成就，不是以金钱衡量，而是一生中，你善待过多少人，有多少人怀念你。
8. A person’s achievement is not measured by money, but by how many people you have treated well in your life, and how many people miss you.

生意人的账簿，记录收入与支出，两数相减，便是盈利。人生的账簿，记录爱与被爱，两数相加，就是成就。
9. A businessman’s account book records income and expenses. The difference between the two numbers is the profit. A person’s account book records love and being loved. The sum of the two numbers is the achievement.

纵使这世间再过繁花似锦，也抵不过你的回眸一笑。
10. No matter how splendid the world is, it cannot compare to your smiling glance.

不必把太多人，请进生命里。若他们走进不了你内心，就只会把你生命搅扰得拥挤不堪。
11. Don’t let too many people into your life. If they can’t enter your heart, they will only make your life crowded and chaotic.

张牙舞爪的人，往往是很脆弱的。因为真正强大的人，是自信的，自信就会温和，温和就会坚定。
12. People who act aggressively are often very vulnerable. Because truly powerful people are confident, and confidence leads to gentleness, and gentleness leads to firmness.

不要轻言你是在为谁付出和牺牲，其实所有的付出和牺牲最终的受益人都是自己。人生是一场与任何人无关的独自的修行，这是一条悲欣交集的道路，路的尽头一定有礼物，就看你配不配得到。
13. Don’t easily say that you are paying and sacrificing for someone. In fact, the ultimate beneficiaries of all payments and sacrifices are yourself. Life is a solo journey unrelated to anyone else. It is a path filled with joys and sorrows. There must be a gift at the end of the road, but it depends on whether you deserve it or not.

帮过你的人不要忘，爱过你的人不要恨，信任你的人不要骗。
14. Don’t forget those who have helped you, don’t hate those who have loved you, and don’t deceive those who trust you.

每天认真洗脸，多读书，按时睡，少食多餐。变得温柔，大度，继续善良，保持爱心。不在人前矫情，四处诉说以求宽慰，而是学会一个人静静面对，自己把道理想通。这样的你，单身也所谓啊，你在那么虔诚地做更好的自己，一定会遇到最好的，而那个人也一定值得你所有等待。
15. Wash your face seriously every day, read more books, go to bed on time, and have small meals frequently. Be gentle, generous, continue to be kind, and maintain your love. Don’t be melodramatic in front of others, seeking comfort everywhere, but learn to face things quietly by yourself and think things through. With such a you, being single doesn’t matter. You are so devoted to becoming a better person, and you will definitely meet the best one, who is definitely worth all your waiting.

生命需要保持一种激情，激情能让别人感到你是不可阻挡的时候，就会为你的成功让路！一个人内心不可屈服的气质是可以感动人的，并能够改变很多东西。
16. Life needs to maintain a passion. When passion makes others feel that you are unstoppable, they will make way for your success! A person’s unyielding inner temperament can touch others and change many things.

世界这么大，人生这么长，总会有这么一个人，让你想要温柔地对待。
17. The world is so big, and life is so long. There will always be someone who makes you want to treat them gently.

有钱的给你物质有时间的给你陪伴有情调的给你浪漫，那些都不是爱情真正完整的模样。应该是，花心的为你专一，爱玩的为你安定，性急的为你等待，爱逃避的为你坚持，骄傲的为你谦卑。因为你去尝试不擅长的事情，为了你想去成为一个更值得更好的人，这才是爱情最傻气真实的样子。
1. Wealth can provide material things, time can offer companionship, and sentiment can bring romance, but those are not the true complete form of love. It should be that the fickle become devoted for you, the playful settle down for you, the impatient wait for you, the avoidant persist for you, and the proud humble themselves for you. Trying things you’re not good at because of you, wanting to become a better person for you, that’s the silliest and most genuine appearance of love.

三种值得信任的人：知道你笑容背后的悲伤，明白你怒火里掩藏的善意，了解你沉默之下的原因 。
2. Three kinds of people worth trusting: those who know the sadness behind your smile, understand the kindness hidden in your anger, and grasp the reasons behind your silence.

记得早先少年时，大家诚诚恳恳，说一句是一句。清早上火车站，长街黑暗无行人，卖豆浆的小店冒着热气。从前的日色变得慢，车，马，邮件都慢，一生只够爱一个人。从前的锁也好看，钥匙精美有样子。你锁了，人家就懂了。
3. I remember when we were young, everyone was sincere, and every word counted. Early morning train stations, dark streets with no pedestrians, and the steaming soy milk shops. The pace of life was slower back then, with slow cars, horses, and mail, allowing a lifetime to love just one person. The locks were beautiful, and the keys were exquisite. Once you locked it, others understood.

我希望在20出头的生命里，做一件到八十岁想起来都还会微笑的事。
4. I hope to do something in my early 20s that will still make me smile when I’m 80 years old.

花太多时间去想所剩下的生命，反而忘了好好的生活。
5. Spending too much time thinking about the rest of your life can make you forget to live well.

就算两个人很合得来，在一起很开心，也不一定会有未来。
6. Even if two people get along well and are happy together, it doesn’t necessarily mean they have a future.

有了高兴事，我找人分享。第一个人比我还高兴，第二个人流露出羡慕的神情，第三个人努力伪装出平静，内心却波澜起伏，恨不能让我的高兴瞬间化成轻风。从此，我便把这三个人分成了三种：知己，朋友，熟人。
7. When I have something to celebrate, I share it with others. The first person is even happier than me, the second person shows envy, and the third person tries hard to maintain their composure but is actually restless inside, wishing my happiness would turn into a breeze. From then on, I categorized these three people into three types: confidants, friends, and acquaintances.

掏心掏肺的结果，要么撕心裂肺，要么没心没肺。
8. Laying your heart bare can either lead to heartbreak or numbness.

人生很多滋味都要到一个年纪才懂得去细细品味，比如类似这种相濡以沫的感动和幸福。然而当你一旦懂了，一切却都已经远了。
9. Many flavors of life can only be truly savored at a certain age, such as the touching and happiness of growing old together. However, once you understand them, everything is already gone.

我们一直寻找的，却是自己原本早已拥有的；我们总是东张西望，唯独漏了自己想要的，这就是我们至今难以如愿以偿的原因。
10. We are always searching for what we already have; we keep looking around but miss what we truly want, which is why we haven’t yet achieved our desires.

告别是都爱强装洒脱，告别后都在强忍想念，躲得了对酒当歌的夜，躲不了四下无人的街。
11. Farewell is when we pretend to be carefree, but after parting, we endure the longing. We can avoid nights of drinking and singing, but we can’t escape the empty streets.

终于明白你为啥不招人喜欢了，不够虚伪，嘴不甜，不会睁着眼说瞎话，慢慢的发现，有一颗好心，不如有一张好嘴，因为好心永远比不过好嘴，现在的社会，现在的人，都喜欢虚的假的，不喜欢真的，会做的不如会说的，会说的不如会装的……
12. I finally understand why you’re not popular: not being hypocritical, having an unsweet mouth, and not telling lies with your eyes open. Gradually, I’ve realized that having a good heart is not as good as having a good mouth, because in today’s society and among people, they prefer the fake and the false, not the real. Those who can do are not as good as those who can speak, and those who can speak are not as good as those who can pretend…

我去翻他的过往，并不是嫉妒，我只是难过，有种深情，他从未给过我。
13. I went through his past, not out of jealousy, but because I was sad that he never gave me the deep affection he had for others.

18岁被骄傲毁了走着父母铺好的路。25岁不肯改变被观念毁了，干着每月固定工资的工作。30岁不愿拼搏被懒惰毁了，日复一日的观望着别人的成与败。40岁如临大敌被面子毁了，嫉妒着别人的身家。50岁追悔莫及被顾虑毁了！只能小心翼翼活着。60岁坐在摇椅上，一切都晚了！人的一生，要么讲究要么将就。
14. At 18, pride ruined me by walking the path my parents paved. At 25, I was ruined by my stubbornness, working a fixed-salary job. At 30, laziness destroyed me, watching others’ successes and failures day after day. At 40, I was destroyed by my pride, envying others’ wealth. At 50, I was ruined by regret, living cautiously. At 60, sitting in a rocking chair, it’s all too late. In life, you either strive for excellence or settle for mediocrity.

我根本没什么拖延症，就是懒，非常单纯地那种懒，懒到只会找拖延症这一个借口。
15. I don’t have procrastination; I’m just lazy, purely and simply lazy, so lazy that I only use procrastination as an excuse.

我不知道我的身后有多少人中伤我，也许他们口中的我是一个口蜜腹剑、恬不知耻的贱人，可是没有办法，有些人处于一种病态：往别人身上泼脏水使他们快乐。我饱受诟病，却不闪不躲。但是我知道，你若爱我，必然信我。
1. I don’t know how many people are slandering me behind my back. Perhaps in their eyes, I am a deceitful and shameless person. But there’s no way, some people are in a state of illness: throwing mud at others makes them happy. I am criticized, but I don’t dodge. But I know, if you love me, you must believe in me.

有些乐趣和人生际遇或许我们永远不会有，然而正是在这些“得不到”和“有所得”之间，我们确立了自己在这个世界上的位置。
2. Some joys and life experiences may never be ours, yet it is between these “unattainables” and “attainables” that we establish our place in this world.

有时会想念一个久不联系的朋友，翻来覆去看着电话薄，终究还是放弃。时光变迁，再无交集，已经找不到一个可以联系的理由。因为不确定对方是不是也在想你，于是故作潇洒的说“相见不如怀念”。我们只是害怕：自己在对方心里，没那么重要。
3. Sometimes I miss a friend I haven’t contacted for a long time, flipping through the phone book over and over, but ultimately giving up. Time has changed, and there is no longer any intersection, no reason to contact. Because I’m not sure if the other person is thinking of you, so I pretend to be cool and say “it’s better to miss than to meet.” We just fear that in their hearts, we are not that important.

别太善良了，别太大方了，也别太能干了，时间久了人家会觉得，你做的一切都是应该的。即使有一天你撑不住，哭了累了，也没人心疼你。 因为在他们眼里这都是你愿意的。有时候心眼也别太好了不要什么事都为别人着想！别人不会想你的感受和种种不易。他们会觉得一切都是理所当然。
4. Don’t be too kind, don’t be too generous, and don’t be too capable. Over time, people will think that everything you do is supposed to be. Even if one day you can’t hold on, cry and get tired, no one will feel sorry for you. Because in their eyes, it’s all something you’re willing to do. Sometimes, don’t be too kind-hearted and don’t think about everything for others! Others won’t think about your feelings and difficulties. They will think everything is taken for granted.

这世上有20%的人，不论你怎样行动，他们都讨厌你。还有60%的人，根据你的行动改变对你的态度，一会儿路人转粉，一会儿粉转黑。余下那20%的人，不论你多么笨、多么马虎、犯了多大的错，都照样那么喜欢你。这世界就是如此运转的。
5. There are 20% of people in this world who will hate you no matter what you do. Another 60% will change their attitude towards you based on your actions, sometimes turning from strangers to fans, and sometimes from fans to haters. The remaining 20% will still like you no matter how clumsy, careless, or how big the mistakes you make. This is how the world works.

放下你的浮躁，放下你的懒惰，放下你的三分钟热度，放空你禁不住诱惑的大脑，放开你容易被任何事物吸引的眼睛，放淡你什么都想聊两句八卦的嘴巴，静下心来好好做你该做的事，该好好努力了！
6. Let go of your impatience, laziness, and three-minute enthusiasm. Empty your brain that can’t resist temptation, open your eyes that are easily attracted to anything, and quiet your gossipy mouth. Calm down and focus on what you should do, it’s time to work hard!

一路奋战不是为了改变世界，而是为了不让世界改变我们。
7. The journey of fighting is not to change the world, but to prevent the world from changing us.

不要轻易被影响，也别太过有理智。人不能活得太明白，心里知道就好。
8. Don’t be easily influenced, and don’t be too rational. One can’t live too clearly, just know it in your heart.

如果只看合乎自己口味的书，那你永远只能知道你已经知道的事情。
9. If you only read books that suit your taste, you will never know anything beyond what you already know.

你是非常可爱的人，真应该遇到最好的人，我也希望我就是。
10. You are a very lovely person, and you really deserve to meet the best people. I also hope that I am one of them.

我们花了两年学会说话，却要花上六十年来学会闭嘴。大多数时候，我们说得越多，彼此的距离却越远，矛盾也越多。在沟通中，大多数人总是急于表达自己，一吐为快，却一点也不懂对方。两年学说话，一生学闭嘴。懂与不懂，不多说。心乱心静，慢慢说。若真没话，就别说。
11. It takes us two years to learn how to speak, but it takes sixty years to learn how to keep quiet. Most of the time, the more we talk, the farther apart we grow, and the more conflicts arise. In communication, most people are eager to express themselves, but they don’t understand the other person at all. Two years to learn to speak, a lifetime to learn to be quiet. If you understand or not, don’t say much. Speak slowly when your heart is troubled or calm. If you really have nothing to say, don’t say anything.

与其热闹着引人夺目，步步紧逼，不如趋向做一个人群之中真实自然的人，不张扬，不虚饰，随时保持退后的位置。心有所定，只是专注做事。
12. Rather than being the center of attention and pushing ourselves forward, it’s better to be a genuine and natural person among the crowd, without showing off or pretense, always maintaining a humble position. Stay focused and just do your work.

我渴望能见你一面，但请你记得，我不会开口要求见你。这不是因为骄傲，你知道我在你面前毫无骄傲可言，而是因为，唯有你也想见我的时候，我们见面才有意义。
13. I long to see you, but please remember that I won’t ask to meet you. It’s not because of pride; you know I have no pride in front of you, but because only when you also want to see me does our meeting have meaning.

一个人逛街，一个人吃饭，一个人旅行，一个人做很多事。一个人的日子固然寂寞，但更多时候是因寂寞而快乐。极致的幸福，存在于孤独的深海。在这样日复一日的生活里，我逐渐与自己达成和解。
1. A person strolling, a person eating, a person traveling, a person doing many things alone. Although a life alone is lonely, it is more often happy because of the loneliness. The ultimate happiness lies in the deep sea of solitude. In this day-to-day life, I gradually reconcile with myself.

我们所要做的事，应该一想到就做；因为人的想法是会变化的，有多少舌头，多少手，多少意外，就会有多少犹豫，多少迟延。
2. What we need to do should be done as soon as we think of it; because people’s ideas change, and with so many tongues, hands, and accidents, there will be so many hesitations and delays.

无论你多么努力地让自己做到完美，始终会有一群人在背地里指着你的背影比比划划。你不需要跟谁对骂或者抽谁一嘴巴，他们未必是坏人，只是看不懂你的活法。
3. No matter how hard you try to be perfect, there will always be a group of people pointing at your back and gossiping. You don’t need to argue with anyone or slap anyone. They are not necessarily bad people, just unable to understand your way of living.

决定放弃了的事，就请放弃得干干净净。那些决定再也不见面的人，就真的不要见面了。请不要让我再做背叛自己的事了。如果要爱别人，就请先好好爱自己。
4. If you decide to give up something, please give it up completely. Those who decide never to meet again, really don’t meet again. Please don’t let me betray myself anymore. If you want to love others, please love yourself first.

我们懂了很多没有必要懂的东西，原来我们的世界不在那么的开心，却让痛成为了永远。那些唯美的画面，犹如茫茫夜空中的一缕烟火，转瞬间灰飞烟灭。
5. We have learned many unnecessary things, and our world is no longer so happy, but pain has become eternal. Those beautiful scenes, like a wisp of fireworks in the vast night sky, vanish in an instant.

人生的旅途中有太多的岔口，一转身也许就是一辈子。错过沿途的风景，错过此时的雪季，错过彼时的花季。
6. There are too many forks in the journey of life. A turn may be a lifetime. Missing the scenery along the way, missing the snow season, and missing the flower season.

人生中最大的幸福就是能邂逅一份如童话般美丽的缘分，在这个世界上无论在何时何地始终有那么两个人在彼此等待着寻觅着。
7. The greatest happiness in life is to encounter a fairy tale-like beautiful fate. In this world, no matter when and where, there are always two people waiting and searching for each other.

天涯太远，一生太长，花期荼迷，也抵不住荏苒时光。记忆更迭，谁苍白了谁的等待，谁无悔着谁的执着。
8. The ends of the earth are too far, life is too long, and the flower season is too short, unable to withstand the passage of time. Memory changes, who has pale the waiting of whom, and who regrets the persistence of whom.

我们习惯牺牲当下，去换取未知的等待，却常常忘记自己有足够的能力善待自己。人生不售返程票，失去的便永远不再得到。每个犹豫不决的时刻，请问问自己的心。
9. We are used to sacrificing the present in exchange for the unknown waiting, but we often forget that we have enough ability to treat ourselves well. Life does not sell round-trip tickets, and what is lost will never be regained. At each moment of indecision, please ask your heart.

有多少人用“这是最后一次了”来说服自己，却依旧干着同样的事。又有多少人用“不会再这样了”来鼓励自己，却依旧犯着同样的错。
10. How many people use “this is the last time” to persuade themselves, but still do the same thing. How many people use “I won’t do this anymore” to encourage themselves, but still make the same mistakes.

买得起自己喜欢的东西，去得了自己想去的地方，不会因为身边人的来或走损失生活的质量，反而会因为花自己的钱，来得更有底气一些，这就是应该更努力的原因。
11. Being able to afford the things you like, going to the places you want to go, not losing the quality of life because of the coming and going of people around you, but rather having more confidence because you spend your own money, this is the reason why you should work harder.

你欠某个人的，会有另一个人要回去。某个人欠你的，会有另一个人还给你。你对某个人做的事，不管是伤害还是付出，总会由另一个人报答或者报复。在不同时间的节点。人生的无情与多情，绝情与滥情，总体来说，是守恒的。
12. What you owe to someone, another person will take back. What someone owes you, another person will repay. What you do to someone, whether it’s hurting or giving, will always be repaid or avenged by another person. At different points in time. The ruthlessness and tenderness, heartlessness and promiscuity of life, overall, are conserved.

“缺乏安全感才是全世界最普遍的妇科病。”
13. “Lack of security is the most common gynecological disease in the world.”

本事不大，脾气就不要太大，否则你会很麻烦。能力不大，欲望就不要太大，否则你会很痛苦。
14. If you don’t have much ability, don’t have a big temper, otherwise, you will be in trouble. If you don’t have much ability, don’t have big desires, otherwise, you will be very painful.

几乎所有的失去，都是从害怕失去开始的。而几乎所有的得到，都是从失去开始的。
15. Almost all losses start from the fear of losing. And almost all gains start from losing.

幸运的人会知道，幸运并不是富贵成功，抑或毫无痛苦地快乐着，而是无论喜怒哀乐，都被爱着。
16. Lucky people will know that luck is not about wealth, success, or being happy without pain, but being loved through all the joys and sorrows.

合适的人生位置，既不靠近钱，也不靠近权，而是靠近灵魂。
17. The right place in life is neither close to money nor power, but close to the soul.

世界那么大，与我有何关？我只想守着我的一片天，喝喝茶、看看书、听听音乐，散步、发呆，煲汤做饭。
1. The world is so vast, what does it have to do with me? I just want to guard my own little piece of sky, drink tea, read books, listen to music, take walks, daydream, and cook soup.

没有人会喜欢孤独，只是比起忽冷忽热，孤独让人感到踏实。
2. No one likes loneliness, but compared to hot and cold, loneliness feels more grounded.

生命中某些珍贵的片段，其实都来自于一些微不足道的小事。
3. Some of the most precious moments in life actually come from trivial little things.

微笑，是我看到你之后，幸福的发酵。
4. A smile is the fermentation of happiness when I see you.

如果有人伤害了你，不要去感谢那些伤害你的人，他们根本没做什么让你成长，让你成长的是你的反思和坚强。所以感谢自己和陪伴在你身边的人就好。
5. If someone hurts you, don’t thank those who hurt you, they didn’t do anything to help you grow, it’s your reflection and strength that helped you grow. Just thank yourself and the people who accompany you.

优雅是件很难的事情。比矜持难。比无赖也难。矜持能装。无赖更容易。可是优雅不行。优雅要气质。要资历。要岁月沉淀。要那份从容和云淡风轻。
6. Elegance is a difficult thing. It’s harder than being reserved, and even harder than being shameless. Reserve can be faked, and shamelessness is easier. But elegance can’t. Elegance requires temperament, experience, the sediment of time, and that calm and carefree attitude.

别人对你说的话，做的事，从来不能决定你是什么样的人；你对别人说的话，做的事，才能决定你是什么样的人。
7. What others say and do to you can never determine who you are; what you say and do to others is what determines who you are.

每天务必做一点你所不愿意做的事情。这是一条最宝贵的准则，它可以使你养成认真尽责职而不以为苦的习惯。
8. Make sure to do something you don’t want to do every day. This is a valuable rule that can help you develop a habit of being responsible and not considering it a burden.

很希望自己是一棵树，守静，向光，安然，敏感的神经末梢，触着流云和微风，窃窃的欢喜。脚下踩着最卑贱的泥，很踏实。还有，每一天都在隐秘成长。
9. I wish I were a tree, quiet, facing the light, peaceful, with sensitive nerve endings, touching the flowing clouds and breeze, secretly delighted. With my feet firmly planted in the humblest soil, feeling grounded. And every day, growing secretly.

即使渺小，我依然拥有着我的生命；即使渺小，我依然拥有着我的家人；即使渺小我依然用着我的自由。我拥有的足够多了；满足了，我便不再渺小了。
10. Even if I’m small, I still have my life; even if I’m small, I still have my family; even if I’m small, I still have my freedom. I have enough, and when I’m satisfied, I’m no longer small.

刻意去找的东西，往往是找不到的。天下万物的来和去，都有他的时间。
11. What you deliberately search for is often unattainable. Everything in the world has its own time to come and go.

有时候人就是这样，遇到再大的事自己扛忍忍就过去了，听到身旁的人一句安慰就瞬间完败。后来才明白，怕的不是冷漠怕的是突然的温柔，怕的不是自己吃苦怕的是身边的人为你难过，怕的不是孤独怕的是辜负。
12. Sometimes people are like this, they can bear the biggest things and endure, but a word of comfort from someone nearby can instantly defeat them. Later, I realized that what I fear is not indifference, but sudden gentleness; not suffering, but the sadness of those around me; not loneliness, but the fear of letting others down.

对自己爱的人，我往往过于冲动，爱撂狠话爱骂人，还口是心非。可实际在做出这些举动以后，我心里有多难受多苦不堪言只有自己清楚。事实证明这种嘴巴毒心肠软的人真不占优势，委屈着自己，还让别人厌恶。
13. To the people I love, I often act impulsively, speaking harshly and contradicting myself. But in reality, after doing these things, I know how much pain and suffering I go through. It turns out that people with a sharp tongue and a soft heart are not in an advantageous position, hurting themselves and making others dislike them.

在我胖的时候喜欢我对我好的人，等我瘦了一定会好好报答你。
14. To those who liked and treated me well when I was fat, I will definitely repay you when I become thin.

大道理，我们一个比一个懂，但决定我们大多数喜怒哀乐的，还是一些不讲道理的小情绪。
15. We all understand big principles, but what determines most of our emotions are those unreasonable little feelings.

我是一个成长鲁鈍的人，二十岁才知十岁时的愚笨，三十岁才知二十岁时的天真，四十岁才知三十岁时的莽撞，五十岁才知四十岁时的困惑，但这一切都是我的人生学习必经的过程，既不后悔也不责怪他人或自己，只希望再过十年有勇气回头看此时的自己。
16. I am a person who grows slowly, only realizing my foolishness at ten when I was twenty, my naivety at twenty when I was thirty, my recklessness at thirty when I was forty, and my confusion at forty when I was fifty. But all of this is part of the process of learning in life, and I don’t regret or blame others or myself, just hoping to have the courage to look back at myself in ten years.

爱一个人就是不管多晚都要等他回来才肯睡去，爱一个人就是听见他咳嗽赶紧伸手摸他的额头，爱一个人就是每天都做他爱吃的菜。爱一个人就会想让自己变得更美丽，希望自己能被所有人瞩目，却只能被他一个人拥有。
17. Loving someone means waiting for them to come back no matter how late it is before going to sleep, hearing them cough and quickly reaching out to touch their forehead, and making their favorite dishes every day. Loving someone means wanting to become more beautiful, hoping to be the center of attention for everyone, but only owned by them.

有时候孤独是好事，一个人就自己多长本事，多看世界，多走些路，把时间花在正事上，变成自己打心底喜欢的那种人。
1. Sometimes loneliness is a good thing, as it allows you to improve your skills, see more of the world, and walk more paths, dedicating your time to meaningful matters and becoming the person you truly admire from the bottom of your heart.

读书越少对环境越不满；读书越多对自己越不满意。读书少的人，看问题越主观，越简单，越容易对什么都抱怨。书读多了，眼界开阔了，分析思考问题的能力提高了，特别是从前人的经验与分析中，增加了自己对复杂问题的判断能力，知道怎样看问题，更知道自己的短处在哪里。抱怨什么，便知读书多少。
2. The less you read, the more dissatisfied you are with your environment; the more you read, the more dissatisfied you are with yourself. People who read little tend to have a more subjective, simplistic view of problems and are more likely to complain about everything. When you read more, your horizons expand, your ability to analyze and think about issues improves, especially by learning from the experiences and analyses of others, which enhances your judgment of complex issues. You learn how to view problems and become aware of your own shortcomings. How much you complain reveals how much you have read.

最怕你一生碌碌无为，还安慰自己平凡可贵。
3. The most fearful thing is to lead a life of mediocrity and still comfort yourself with the idea that ordinary is precious.

人的核心竞争力超过一半来自不紧急的事：读书、锻炼身体、与智者交朋友、业余爱好。
4. More than half of a person’s core competitiveness comes from non-urgent matters: reading, exercising, making friends with wise people, and having hobbies.

有些人看起来整天面带笑容，并不是因为他们事事顺利，只是他们比你敢于面对问题、善于遗忘不幸、勇于拥抱欣喜。
5. Some people seem to wear a smile on their faces all day, not because everything is going well for them, but because they are braver in facing problems, better at forgetting misfortune, and more courageous in embracing joy.

你付出得越多，牵挂就越多，牵挂越多，付出的就更多，牵挂与付出互为因果，直到这种牵挂达到浓烈程度，责任也就变成了爱。我觉得，当我们爱上一个东西的时候，爱的也许不是这个东西本身，而是我们贯注在上面的心血。
6. The more you give, the more you care, and the more you care, the more you give. Care and giving are interdependent, and as this concern becomes intense, responsibility turns into love. I believe that when we fall in love with something, we may not be in love with the thing itself, but rather the effort we have put into it.

不是无情，亦非薄幸，只是我们一生中会遇上很多人，真正能停留驻足的又有几个？生命是终将荒芜的渡口，连我们自己都是过客。
7. It’s not that we are heartless or fortunate, but in our lives, we will meet many people. How many can truly stop and stay? Life is an eventually desolate ferry, and even we ourselves are just passers-by.

我会朝着你的方向走，即使一生遇不到你，也会遇见更好的自己。
8. I will walk in your direction, and even if I never meet you in my life, I will meet a better version of myself.

曾几何时，你已经回到家里了，朋友的电话打来，喊你出去玩，你二话不说，马上就穿回衣服出去玩。如今，你却会懒洋洋地说：“已经回家了，不去了，累呢。”这一刻，你终于明白自己老了。
9. Once upon a time, you have already returned home when a friend calls and invites you out to play. Without hesitation, you immediately change back into your clothes and go out to have fun. Now, you lazily say, “I’m already home, not going out, I’m tired.” At this moment, you finally understand that you have grown old.

以往，如果我没有记错，我的生命曾是一场盛宴。在那里，所有的心灵全都敞开，所有的美酒纷纷溢出来。
10. If I remember correctly, my life used to be a grand feast. There, all hearts were open, and all the fine wines overflowed.

人生第一快乐是做到自己认为自己做不到的事，人生第二快乐是做到别人认为自己做不到的事。
11. The first joy in life is accomplishing something you thought you couldn’t do, and the second joy is accomplishing something others thought you couldn’t do.

既然无处可逃，不如喜悦。既然没有净土，不如静心。既然没有如愿，不如释然。
12. Since there’s nowhere to escape, it’s better to be joyful. Since there’s no pure land, it’s better to have a peaceful mind. Since nothing goes as desired, it’s better to let go.

所有的合适都是两个人的相互迁就和改变，没有天生合适的两个人。两个人朝着相同的方向努力，就是最好的爱情。
13. All compatibility comes from mutual accommodation and change between two people; there are no two people born to be compatible. When two people work towards the same direction, that’s the best kind of love.

我相信这世界上，有些人有些事有些爱，在见到的第一次，就注定要羁绊一生，就注定像一棵树一样，生长在心里，生生世世。
14. I believe that in this world, some people, some things, and some loves are destined to be bound for a lifetime from the first time we meet, just like a tree that grows in our hearts, living on forever.

要有在迷茫沮丧的时期，不对自己下结论的能力；在苦楚绝望的时期，不对世界下结论的操守。你要相信，一切都是暂时的，我们唯一需要做的，就是静静地好给世界看。
15. We must have the ability to not judge ourselves during times of confusion and frustration, and the integrity not to judge the world during times of pain and despair. You must believe that everything is temporary, and the only thing we need to do is to be quiet and let the world watch.

从以前到现在，我都很羡慕、敬佩那些会交际、会应酬的人，一直学不会或不自在，常让自己很自责。现在想想，好像这样也还不坏，至少比在人群散尽、灯光黯淡、杯盘狼藉的时刻，发现现场只剩一个疲惫、孤单、空虚的自己好多了。
16. From the past until now, I have always envied and admired those who are good at socializing and handling situations. I have never been able to learn or feel comfortable with it, often making me feel guilty. Now, it seems that it’s not so bad after all, at least it’s better than finding yourself exhausted, lonely, and empty when the crowd has dispersed, the lights are dim, and the cups and plates are in disarray.

你之所以会觉得累是因为你说的比做的多，欲望大过本事。想要改变却又无能为力，想要顺其自然却又无法心安理得。
1. The reason you feel tired is because you talk more than you do, and your desires outweigh your abilities. You want to change but feel powerless, and you want to let things take their course but can’t find peace in your heart.

心里最崇拜谁，不必变成那个人，而是用那个人的精神和方法，去变成你自己。
2. The person you admire the most doesn’t have to be the one you become; instead, use their spirit and methods to become the best version of yourself.

世界上最不快乐的人，是那些每天过日子却不知道要做什么的人。如果你想做的事情比你拥有的时间还多，你就不会是不快乐的人。
3. The most unhappy people in the world are those who go through life without knowing what they want to do. If you have more things you want to do than time you have, you won’t be an unhappy person.

水一旦流深，就会发不出声音。人的感情一旦深厚，也就会显得淡薄。
4. When water runs deep, it makes no sound. When emotions are profound, they may seem shallow.

当你在犹豫的时候，这个世界就很大；当你勇敢踏出第一步的时候，这个世界就很小。等到有一天你变成了你喜欢的自己的时候，谁还会质疑你的选择不靠谱呢？你已经变成更好的你了，一定会遇到更好的人的。你是谁，就会遇到谁。
5. When you hesitate, the world is vast; but when you take the first step bravely, the world becomes small. One day, when you become the person you like, no one will doubt your choices anymore. You have become a better you and will surely meet better people. Who you are will determine who you meet.

我终于相信，每一条走上来的路，都有它不得不那样跋涉的理由。每一条要走下去的路，都有它不得不那样选择的方向。
6. I finally believe that every path we have taken has its reasons for being traversed that way. Every path we choose to continue walking on has its direction that we cannot help but follow.

抱紧你的我，比国王富有。失去你的我，比乞丐落魄。
7. Holding you close makes me richer than a king. Losing you makes me more desolate than a beggar.

后来才明白，原来每一个人生的当口，都是会有一个孤独的时刻，四顾无人，只有自己，于是不得不看明白自己—自己的脆弱，自己的欲望，自己的念想，自己的界限，还有，自己真正的梦想。
8. Later, I realized that at every turning point in life, there is a lonely moment when you have no one around but yourself. In such moments, you have no choice but to understand yourself - your vulnerabilities, desires, thoughts, limits, and your true dreams.

偶尔我们就像黄昏和黎明，在某些时刻是如此相似，但中间却隔了一整个黑夜。
9. Sometimes we are like twilight and dawn, so similar at certain moments, yet separated by an entire night.

爱到深处，才会吃醋，我若不在乎，绝对不会哭。
10. Only when love is deep enough do we become jealous. If I didn’t care, I would never cry.

“很多人结婚只是为了找个跟自己一起看电影的人，而不是能够分享看电影心得的人。如果为了只是找个伴，我不愿意结婚，我自己一个人都能够去看电影。”结婚似乎更应该找一个能让彼此的生活过得更快乐的人，而非单纯地找一个能够一起生活的人。
11. “Many people get married just to find someone to watch movies with, rather than someone to share their movie experiences with. If it’s just for companionship, I’d rather not get married, as I can go to the movies by myself.” Marriage should be more about finding someone who can make each other’s lives happier, rather than just finding someone to live with.

看破是一种能力，不说是一种疼惜。愿你身边的那个人，即便知你所有秉性，也能待你一如往昔。
12. Seeing through things is a skill, and not speaking about them is a form of cherishing. May the person by your side, even knowing all your traits, still treat you as they did before.

每天认真打扮自己，多读书，继续善良，保持爱心。不在人前矫情，四处诉说以求宽慰，学会一个人静静面对，自己把道理想通。这样的你，单身无所谓，你在虔诚地做更好的自己，一定会遇到最好的，而那个人也一定值得你所有等待。
13. Dress up every day, read more books, continue to be kind, and maintain your loving heart. Don’t be melodramatic in front of others, seeking comfort everywhere, but learn to face things quietly and reason things out on your own. In this way, being single doesn’t matter, as you are sincerely becoming a better person and will surely meet the best person, who will be worth all your waiting.

一个人起码要在感情上失恋一次，在事业上失败一次，在选择上失误一次，才能真正的长大。所以，别怕输不起，一切来得及。
14. A person must go through at least one heartbreak, one career failure, and one wrong choice to truly grow up. So don’t be afraid of losing; everything is still in time.

幸福根本不用有多温暖的阳光，也不用多甜蜜的情话，而是我一个人的时候走着走着就笑了。
15. Happiness doesn’t need warm sunlight or sweet words; it’s when I’m walking alone and suddenly start to smile.

希望你别难过的太久，希望你以后也能吃很多饭，希望你不要回头看我，希望你那里晴天很多，希望你每天都能睡得熟，希望我们即使偶尔想念彼此也不要再问候，希望你走得越远就有更好的风景。希望，一别两宽，各生欢喜。
16. I hope you don’t feel sad for too long, that you can still eat a lot of meals in the future, that you won’t look back at me, that there will be many sunny days where you are, that you can sleep soundly every day, and that even if we occasionally miss each other, we won’t greet each other anymore. The further you go, the better the scenery will be. May we both find happiness apart.

我们过得不快乐，一部分原因是我们不够诚恳。敢爱敢恨不容易，跨过人潮拥抱你和不顾一切撕破脸皮都需要勇气。
1. We are not happy partly because we are not sincere enough. It’s not easy to dare to love and hate, and it takes courage to embrace someone through the crowd and to tear off one’s face without hesitation.

有些事情其实是先天就会的。当你遇到很喜欢很喜欢的人，你会找尽一切理由去见她，你会牵着她的手舍不得放。你之所以太忙，不好意思，不习惯，其实只不过是因为你没那么喜欢她罢了。
2. Some things are innate. When you meet someone you really, really like, you’ll find every reason to see them and hold their hand, reluctant to let go. If you’re too busy, shy, or not used to it, it’s probably just because you don’t like them that much.

放假的意义就在于，一个说不起就不起的早晨、一个说不睡就不睡的深夜和一个说不出门就不出门的白天。
3. The meaning of a vacation is having a morning when you can’t get up, a night when you can’t sleep, and a day when you can’t go out.

别太善良了，别太大方了，也别太能干了，时间久了人家会觉得，你做的一切都是应该的。即使有一天你撑不住，哭了累了，也没人心疼你，因为在他们眼里这都是你愿意的。有时候心眼也别太好了不要什么事都为别人着想，别人不会想你的感受和种种不易。
4. Don’t be too kind, too generous, or too capable. Over time, people will think that everything you do is expected. Even if one day you can’t hold on and cry or get tired, no one will feel sorry for you because, in their eyes, it’s all something you’re willing to do. Sometimes, don’t be too considerate and don’t think about others all the time; they won’t think about your feelings and difficulties.

总有这么一个人，一想起他来，就阳光明媚，就会笑。
5. There’s always someone who, when you think of them, brings sunshine and makes you smile.

我们都曾被这个世界孤单的对待过，你面对的世界那么大，你面对自己，却感觉那么渺小。命运，也许是人生最奇妙的部分，每一种孤单，都会因与另一个人的相遇而不药而愈。
6. We have all been treated alone by this world. You face a vast world, but when you face yourself, you feel so small. Fate, perhaps the most wonderful part of life, can heal every loneliness with the encounter of another person.

使人觉得遥远的不是时间长，而是两三件不可挽回的事。
7. It’s not the length of time that makes people feel distant, but two or three irreparable things.

越来越喜欢老朋友，越来越不喜欢结交新朋友，不是社交恐惧，也没有交流障碍，就是懒得认识一些不想认识的人，懒得应付一些不想应付的事儿。因为明白世界上没几个真心对自己好的人，所以只想把时间用在值得的感情上。
8. I increasingly like old friends and dislike making new ones. It’s not social fear or communication barriers, but rather the laziness to get to know people I don’t want to know and deal with things I don’t want to deal with. Because I understand that there are few people in the world who truly care about me, I want to spend my time on relationships worth it.

没有不可治愈的伤痛，没有不能结束的沉沦，所有失去的，会以另一种方式回来。——致失恋的人
9. There is no incurable pain, no endless depression, and everything lost will come back in another way. - To those who have lost love.

愿从此以后不再蹉跎，不再为一点小事伤心动怒，也不再为一些小人愤愤不平。不管遇到了什么烦心事，都不要为难自己，该吃吃，该睡睡。一定要打份得漂漂亮亮，从容自若面对生活。
10. May we never waste time again, never be sad or angry over trivial matters, and never be resentful towards petty people. No matter what troubles you encounter, don’t make things difficult for yourself. Eat well, sleep well, and face life with grace and composure.

以前我总是习惯焦虑，每次都期望有人指明我要走的路，可人终究是孤独的，每个人的人生都有别人参与，却都要自己完成。现在我已经学会面对和接受孤独，即使伤疤没磨练的足够硬实，也不再依赖别人给的铠甲。恩，孤独的人，都会很快长大。
11. I used to be anxious and always hoped someone would guide me on my path. But people are ultimately alone; everyone’s life has others involved, but we must complete it ourselves. Now I have learned to face and accept loneliness. Even if my scars are not strong enough, I no longer rely on the armor given by others. Yes, lonely people grow up quickly.

你的快乐一直不缺观众，也愿你的无邪有人真懂。
12. Your happiness always has an audience, and may someone truly understand your innocence.

最忙的一天是“改天”，人人都说“改天有空聚”，但“改天”永远没空过。最远的一次是“下次”，人人都说“下次一定来”，但“下次”从没有来过。
13. The busiest day is “another day.” Everyone says, “Let’s get together another day,” but “another day” is never free. The farthest time is “next time.” Everyone says, “I’ll definitely come next time,” but “next time” never comes.

分手后不要做朋友，学会不打扰。这不仅是有原则的体现，也是对未来另一半的尊重和期待。
14. After breaking up, don’t be friends and learn not to disturb. This is not only a manifestation of principles but also a respect and expectation for the future partner.

你需要克服的是你的虚荣心，是你的炫耀欲，你要对付的是你时刻想要出风头的小聪明。
15. You need to overcome your vanity, your desire to show off, and deal with your constant desire to be in the spotlight.

在一群出色的人中间，常常误以为自己也是其中一员，然后忘了努力。在一群不出色的人中间，常常误以为自己比他们优越，然后也忘了努力。所以，无论什么时候，都要清醒地认识自己，并始终不忘努力。
1. In the company of outstanding people, one often mistakenly believes they are part of the group and forgets to strive. In the company of ordinary people, one often mistakenly believes they are superior and forgets to strive. So, no matter when, always be aware of yourself and never stop striving.

这个世界上过得好的人，大部分是该吃吃，该喝喝，该打扮打扮，该读书读书，追求一定基础的物质，再花钱让自己精神愉悦一下的，接地气的，不清新也不脱俗的普通人。
2. Most people who live well in this world are those who eat when they should, drink when they should, dress up when they should, study when they should, pursue a certain basic material foundation, and spend money to bring joy to their spirits. They are down-to-earth, neither fresh nor refined ordinary people.

如果我能少喜欢你一点，你会发现我是个特别好的人。有时候，爱会让人面目可憎。
3. If I could like you just a little less, you would find me to be a great person. Sometimes, love can make one’s appearance repulsive.

爱一个人有很多不同的方法，有的是用嘴巴说出来，一次次地重复说我爱你；有的是用态度来撒娇发脾气折腾；还有一种是怎么都不愿意说我爱你，但就是关心你照顾你保护你。相爱的方法有千万种，但最好的方法只有一种：那就是对你好，并且只对你好。
4. There are many ways to love someone: some express it verbally, repeating “I love you” time and time again; some show it through their attitude, acting coquettish, temperamental, and troublesome; and some never say “I love you,” but always care for, look after, and protect you. There are countless ways to love, but the best method is just one: to be good to you and only to you.

不喜欢的人，再怎么喜欢我，哪怕聊了一万遍，我也不会快乐；喜欢的人再怎么不喜欢我，只要聊一句话，我都乐得不行。人是不是都这样？遇见爱的就贱得不行。
5. No matter how much someone I dislike likes me, I won’t be happy even if we chat ten thousand times; but if someone I like doesn’t like me, a single conversation can make me extremely happy. Is this how people are? When they encounter love, they become despicable.

大家都不在同一个层次，就不要勉强交心，点到为止就好。有时候远远相望觉得彼此可爱，何必用尽全力脸贴着脸，你看我不顺眼我骂你是傻逼。
6. If we are not on the same level, there’s no need to force a connection; just keep it light. Sometimes it’s better to admire each other from afar, instead of getting too close and having one of us become displeased or offended.

很多时候刻意跟人保持距离，真的不是不喜欢或看不起对方，实在是明白，一旦靠得太近，当对方知道我真实的样子，只会失望。所以不是喜欢孤独，我只是更不喜欢让人失望后离开。
7. Many times, when I deliberately keep my distance, it’s not because I dislike or look down on the other person. It’s because I know that if they get too close and see my true self, they will only be disappointed. So, it’s not that I like being alone; I just don’t want to be left after disappointing others.

我想和你一起睡觉是耍流氓，我想和你一起起床是徐志摩。所以，很多时候说话的顺序真的很重要。
8. If I say I want to sleep with you, it’s being a scoundrel; if I say I want to wake up with you, it’s like the poet Xu Zhimo. So, the order of words really matters in many situations.

我接触过很多男人，去和姑娘搭讪，然后被骂神经病或者白痴。这些男人都在不停的反思自己，到底是不是自己仪态不够大方？自己举止不够高雅？自己语言不够幽默？自己眼神不够自信？……可是，从来没有一个男人认真思考过，是不是自己太丑了！
9. I’ve met many men who get rejected when they approach girls, being called crazy or stupid. These men constantly reflect on themselves, questioning if their demeanor isn’t elegant enough, their behavior not refined enough, their language not humorous enough, or their gaze not confident enough. But never has a man seriously considered that maybe they’re just not good-looking enough!

像所有传闻里陈词滥调的故事：你离开了，我才如此想念。
10. Like all clichéd stories in rumors: you left, and that’s when I started to miss you so much.

我的脑子里住着两个小人，敏感固执爱耍性子的那个常常闹情绪，搅得天翻地覆，理性好脾气的那个又常常提醒，保持良好的姿态去爱你。只有我知道，它们都舍不得你，偏激或隐忍只因表达的方式不同。
11. In my mind, there are two little people: one sensitive, stubborn, and temperamental, often causing a fuss; the other rational and good-natured, constantly reminding me to maintain a good posture in loving you. Only I know that both of them can’t bear to part with you, and their extreme or restrained expressions are just different ways of showing it.

表白就是冒着以后连朋友都不能做的危险，去赌以后能正大光明拥抱你深爱你的机会。
12. Confessing means taking the risk of not being able to be friends anymore, in the hope of having the chance to openly embrace and love you in the future.

一路上追逐奔波，最后想要的，不过是宁静的幸福。
13. After all the chasing and rushing, what we ultimately want is a peaceful happiness.

人生最丰富也最生动的刹那也许就在犹豫徘徊的那一片刻，那是生命中悬而未决的时辰。这种犹豫也绝不是优柔寡断，而是体味人生的丰富性和多种可能性。
14. The most enriching and vivid moments in life may be during those moments of hesitation and uncertainty, when life is suspended and undecided. This hesitation is not indecision, but rather an appreciation of the richness and multiple possibilities of life.

我觉得最大的孤独是：行走在如此密集的人群中却没有一个人可以倾诉。
15. I think the greatest loneliness is walking in such a dense crowd of people and not having a single person to confide in.

父母亲，对于一个二十岁的人而言，恐怕就像一栋旧房子：你住在它里面，它为你遮风挡雨，给你温暖和安全，但是房子就是房子，你不会和房子说话，去沟通，去体贴它、讨好它……我猜要等足足二十年以后，你才会回过头来，开始注视这没有声音的老屋。
1. Parents, for a twenty-year-old, are like an old house: you live in it, it shelters you from wind and rain, providing warmth and safety, but a house is just a house, you don’t talk to it, communicate with it, or try to please it… I guess it takes a full twenty years before you turn back and start to gaze at this silent, old house.

接受一切，然后悲剧就消失了。或者至少，悲剧变得不那么沉重了，而你就在那里，在这个世界无拘无束地前进。
2. Accept everything, and then the tragedy disappears. Or at least, the tragedy becomes less heavy, and you are there, advancing freely in this world.

真正友谊的形成，并非由于双方有意的拉拢，带些偶然，带些不知不觉。
3. The formation of true friendship is not due to intentional befriending from both sides, but rather with some randomness and unconsciousness.

一个人最好的模样大概是平静一点，坦然接受自己所有的弱点，不再因为别人过得好而焦虑，在没有人看得到你的时候依旧能保持节奏。这样或许会走得很慢，但会走的比谁都坚实，不用害怕一脚踩空，也不用害怕走到别人的轨道上去。
4. The best appearance for a person is probably to be calm, to accept all their weaknesses, no longer anxious because others are doing well, and to maintain a rhythm even when no one is watching. This way, you may walk slowly, but you will walk more firmly than anyone else, without fear of stepping into an empty space or walking onto someone else’s path.

人不是向外奔走才是旅行，静静坐着思维也是旅行，凡是探索、追寻、触及那不可知的情境，不论是风土的，或是心灵的，都是一种旅行。
5. Travel is not just about going out; sitting quietly and thinking is also a journey. Any exploration, pursuit, and touching of the unknown, whether it is about landscapes or the soul, is a form of travel.

你若爱，生活哪里都可爱。你若恨，生活哪里都可恨。你若感恩，处处可感恩。你若成长，事事可成长。不是世界选择了你，是你选择了这个世界。既然无处可躲，不如傻乐。既然无处可逃，不如喜悦。既然没有净土，不如静心。既然没有如愿，不如释然。
6. If you love, life is lovely everywhere. If you hate, life is hateful everywhere. If you are grateful, there is gratitude everywhere. If you grow, there is growth in everything. It’s not that the world chose you, but that you chose the world. Since there’s nowhere to hide, it’s better to be happy. Since there’s nowhere to escape, it’s better to be joyful. Since there’s no pure land, it’s better to calm the mind. Since nothing is as you wish, it’s better to let go.

窗太窄了，天太大了，家太小了，心太野了，梦想太远了，绝望又太早了，刷牙洗脸照镜子，一天又要开始了。
7. The window is too narrow, the sky is too vast, the home is too small, the heart is too wild, dreams are too far, despair is too early, brush your teeth, wash your face, and look in the mirror, another day is about to begin.

看了很多书和电影，走过一些地方，见过各种人，心里对于人生的底线和追求越来越清晰明白。然而更明白的一点是做好自己就够了，而不是用自己的观点强行对别人道德绑架。人和人成长环境天差地别，每个人也各有各的三观和苦衷。我想人一生做好三件事就够了，知道什么是对的，去做，然而不强迫别人也去做。
8. Having read many books and watched movies, traveled to some places, and met various people, my understanding of the bottom line and pursuit in life becomes clearer. However, the more important thing I’ve realized is that doing well in oneself is enough, instead of imposing one’s own views on others with moral kidnapping. People grow up in vastly different environments, and everyone has their own values and struggles. I think a person’s life is enough if they do three things well: know what is right, do it, and not force others to do the same.

出发总是美丽的，尤其是在一个阳光普照的清晨上路。
9. Departure is always beautiful, especially on a sunny morning.

每次想找个人陪的时候，就发现有的人不能找，有的人不该找，还有的人找不到。
10. Every time I want to find someone to accompany me, I find that some people can’t be found, some shouldn’t be found, and some can’t be found.

爱就是，哪怕别人认为你是个十足的女汉纸，他仍然认为你很需要照顾。
1. Love is when even if others think you’re a tough woman, he still believes you need to be taken care of.

发现一种特别舒服的关系，并不总是你一言我一语的秒回，有时候愿意把我现在看到的所有东西一股脑儿的发给你，不用组织好精简的语言，啰哩啰嗦也不怕有哪句话说错，发完也不会等着回复，因为我知道你总会看见，是信任，和任何时候都不会被丢下的安定感。
2. We’ve discovered a particularly comfortable relationship, where it’s not always about replying to every message instantly. Sometimes, it’s about sending everything I see right now to you without organizing concise language, not worrying about making mistakes, and not waiting for a reply because I know you’ll see it eventually. It’s about trust and the sense of security that I won’t be abandoned at any time.

不知不觉，总以为还很年轻的我们，在年龄栏选择出生日期时，却发现，那个熟悉的年份你怎么跑得那么远。
3. Unconsciously, we always thought we were still young, but when selecting our birthdate in the age field, we find that the familiar year has gone so far away.

曾以为世界上最糟糕的事就是孤独终老。其实不是，最糟糕的，是与让你感到孤独的人一起终老。
4. I once thought the worst thing in the world was to grow old alone. But it’s not; the worst thing is to grow old with someone who makes you feel lonely.

在问题出现的那一瞬间，一定要控制好自己的情绪，不要发火，不要偏激，不要说出什么过激的话，要懂得忍耐。忍耐不是为了让你不去处理这件事情，而是为了避免在情绪失控的情况下，干出什么让自己丢脸的事情。以后你就会知道，生活中真的没有几件事情是值得我们搭上礼貌，教养，人品和格局的。
5. In the moment a problem arises, you must control your emotions, not get angry, not be extreme, and not say anything outrageous. Learn to be patient. Patience is not about avoiding dealing with the issue; it’s about preventing yourself from doing something embarrassing when emotions are out of control. Later, you’ll realize that there are very few things in life worth sacrificing politeness, upbringing, character, and perspective for.

没必要什么事都据理力争，教傻逼做人又不是你义务。
6. There’s no need to argue over everything; teaching fools how to behave is not your duty.

有人问，如果看不到确定的未来，还要不要付出？我只能说，并不是每一种付出都是在追寻结果。有时，在付出的路上，能够收获的是，清楚地看到了，自己想要的或者不想要的，这又何尝不是一种宝贵的结果。命运会厚待温柔多情的人，好过冷漠的一颗心。
7. Someone asked, if you can’t see a certain future, should you still give? I can only say that not every effort is in pursuit of a result. Sometimes, on the journey of giving, what you can gain is a clear understanding of what you want or don’t want. This is also a precious result. Fate favors gentle and affectionate people over cold hearts.

每一个新朋友，身上都有那么一处能让我们想起已经远离的老朋友，可能是声音可能是性格。或许啊，那些曾经离开我们的人都在用不同的方式回到我们身边。
8. Every new friend has a trait that reminds us of an old friend who has drifted away, perhaps their voice or personality. Maybe those who have left us are returning to our lives in different ways.

男人的逻辑永远是“如果你爱我，你就不会走。”而女人是“如果你爱我，你会来找我。”
9. Men’s logic is always, “If you love me, you won’t leave.” While women think, “If you love me, you’ll come find me.”

世上没有无缘无故的相遇，也没有无缘无故的分离。相遇之后分离之前，我爱你时也不曾需要任何缘由。
10. There are no coincidences in meeting or parting. Before and after our encounters, there was no need for any reason when I loved you.

不要太在意别人的感受，不要别人一失落，你就紧张，不要别人一道歉，你就心软，不要总是让别人开心而自己委屈，自己想一想，何必让自己累得喘不过气。你过于敏感，且过于善良，而过于善良的人，最后都会吃亏。
11. Don’t care too much about others’ feelings; don’t get nervous when they feel down, don’t weaken when they apologize, and don’t always make others happy at the expense of your own well-being. Think about it, why make yourself so exhausted? You are overly sensitive and kind, and those who are too kind will end up at a disadvantage.

这世上没有无缘无故的爱，也没有无缘无故的恨，只有无缘无故的胖了。
12. There’s no love or hate without reason, only unexplained weight gain.

已经不再那么喜欢和性情中人交往了，反而渐渐喜欢上了那些看似有些冷酷，实际上更为理智的人。因为他们不会凭着火爆到无法自控的情绪搞砸一些事情，惹出一些麻烦，更不会在伤害了别人后，还无知的认为自己都是在为别人好。
13. I no longer enjoy the company of emotional people; instead, I’ve grown fond of those who seem somewhat cold but are actually more rational. They don’t mess things up with uncontrollable emotions, cause trouble, or hurt others and naively think they’re doing it for their own good.

最艰难的日子你守候着我，那么我最美好的时光，你也值得和我一起分享。
14. You stayed with me during the most difficult days, so you deserve to share my best times with me.

如果我用你待我的方式来待你，恐怕你早已离去。所以说，不管亲情，友情，还是爱情，凡事换个角度，假如你是我，你未必有我大度！
15. If I treated you the way you treat me, you would have left long ago. So, whether it’s family, friendship, or love, try to see things from another perspective. If you were me, you might not be as generous!

感情最沉重的一步：我仍愿意听，你却不愿讲。
1. The heaviest step in a relationship: I am still willing to listen, but you are unwilling to speak.

觉得自己总碰不到美好的人和事，并不是别人眼瞎老天故意整你，恰恰是因为你不够好，他们都在躲你。
2. If you feel that you always encounter unpleasant people and things, it’s not because others are blind or heaven is playing a trick on you. It’s because you are not good enough, and they are all avoiding you.

在找到合适的人之前，唯一需要做的，就是让自己足够的优秀。每个人都会累，没人能为你承担所有伤悲，人总有一段时间要学会自己长大。
3. Before finding the right person, the only thing you need to do is to become good enough. Everyone gets tired, and no one can bear all your sorrows. There will always be a period when you need to learn to grow up by yourself.

以前我觉得安全感是他能够秒回我消息，每天和我早安午安晚安，他给我的承诺，他对我的好脾气，冬天里温暖我的怀抱。而如今，能给我安全感的却只有清晨温暖的阳光，出门前口袋里的钱包和钥匙，手机里满格的电。因为我开始知道，真正的安全感并非来自他人，而是根源于自己。
4. In the past, I thought a sense of security was him replying to my messages quickly, saying good morning, afternoon, and night to me every day, his promises, his good temper towards me, and his warm embrace in winter. Now, the things that give me a sense of security are only the warm morning sunlight, the wallet and keys in my pocket before going out, and a full battery on my phone. Because I have come to realize that true security does not come from others, but from oneself.

我们总是把别人安抚得太好，轮到自己就失了分寸。
5. We always comfort others too well, and when it comes to ourselves, we lose our sense of proportion.

我希望你找我是因为想我，而不是没人陪。
6. I hope you find me because you miss me, not because you have no one to accompany you.

真正的放弃一个人是无声无息的，不会把他拉入黑名单，不会删掉他的电话，看到他过得好可以毫不羡慕地点赞，只是你心里清楚知道，你们不会再热络地聊天到深夜，不会因为他矫情到死阴晴不定，当初那么喜欢，现在那么释然，没有犹豫，这段路，只能陪你到这里了。
7. Truly giving up on someone is done silently, without putting them on the blacklist, without deleting their phone number, and without envy when you see them living well and giving them a like. It’s just that you know in your heart that you will no longer chat intimately with them until late at night, and you won’t be affected by their mood swings. You used to like them so much, but now you are so relieved. There is no hesitation; this journey can only accompany you this far.

我想要的爱情，很简单：我说话时，你会听；我任性时，你会爱；我需要时，你会在；我转身时，你没离开。
8. The love I want is very simple: when I speak, you listen; when I am willful, you love; when I need, you are there; when I turn around, you haven’t left.

没有力气再往前走，也没有余地往后退，原地踏步又心有不甘，这就是大部分上班族所谓的焦虑。
9. I have no strength to move forward, no room to retreat, and I am unwilling to mark time in place. This is the anxiety that most office workers call.

人们聚会的场面越大，就越容易变得枯燥乏味。只有当一个人独处的时候，他才可以完全成为自己。谁要是不热爱独处，那他也就是不热爱自由，因为只有当一个人独处的时候，他才是自由的。
10. The larger the gathering, the more likely it is to become dull and boring. Only when one is alone can he become completely himself. Whoever does not love solitude does not love freedom, because only when one is alone can he be free.

爱我的人很少，可当你说你爱我的时候，突然觉得整个宇宙都对我充满了爱意。
11. There are few people who love me, but when you say you love me, suddenly I feel that the whole universe is full of love for me.

维系一段感情，除了用心和甜言蜜语外，还要努力变得更加优秀。
12. To maintain a relationship, in addition to being sincere and using sweet words, one must also strive to become better.

我观察同龄人，尤其是男生，堕落都是从疏远了运动开始的，特别是毕业后，忙于工作应酬和享乐，又不节制饮食，三五年后，当年清秀的少年一个个都变得脑满肥肠、臃肿不堪、满脸横肉，真是糟糕。村上春树说肉体是每个人的神殿，不管里面供奉的是什么，都应该好好保持它的强韧、美丽和清洁。深以为然。
13. I observe my peers, especially guys, and their decline begins with alienation from sports. After graduation, they are busy with work, socializing, and pleasure, and have no dietary restraint. In three to five years, the once handsome young men have become bloated, fat, and ugly. It’s terrible. Haruki Murakami said that the body is everyone’s temple, and no matter what is inside, it should be well maintained for its strength, beauty, and cleanliness. I completely agree.

反正就算表现出了脆弱的一面也得不到拥抱，不如就这样一直假装坚强下去算了，至少看起来一副很不好欺负的样子。
14. Since showing vulnerability won’t get me a hug, I might as well keep pretending to be strong. At least I look like I’m not easy to bully.

以前觉得自己性格能和很多人合的来，什么样的朋友都能结交；后来明白结交朋友或许不难，难的是变成知己。人与人之间真的有磁场这回事，一接触就能感觉出来。有些人能和你一见如故，有些人和你永远不会深交。不是不好，只是磁场不合。所以能遇到对味的人，真的挺幸运的，感谢相遇吧。
15. I used to think that my personality could get along with many people and make friends with all kinds. Later, I realized that making friends might not be difficult, but becoming confidants is. There is really a magnetic field between people. You can feel it as soon as you make contact. Some people can become close friends with you at first sight, while others will never become close with you. It’s not bad, it’s just that the magnetic fields don’t match. So, meeting someone who tastes right is really lucky. Thanks for the encounter.

有时觉得“如约而至”是个多美好的词，等得很苦，却从不辜负。

当发现自己每日做着和旁人一样的事的时候，你便已然被环境同质化了，永远不要忘了想想做了什么超于当前环境的事，而不是准备着去做什么。
1. When you find yourself doing the same things as everyone else, you have already been homogenized by the environment. Never forget to think about what you have done beyond the current environment, not just what you are preparing to do.

千万不必假装过得很好，因为其实根本没有多少人在乎。
2. There’s no need to pretend to be doing well, because not many people actually care.

每个人心里都有一团火，路过的人只看到烟。但总有一个人，总有那么一个人能看到这团火，然后走过来，陪我一起。我带着我的热情，我的冷漠，我的狂暴，我的温和，以及对爱情毫无理由的相信，走的上气不接下气。我结结巴巴对她说：你叫什么名字。从你叫什么名字开始，后来，有了一切。
3. Everyone has a fire in their heart, but passers-by only see the smoke. Yet, there is always one person, one person who can see this fire, and comes over to join me. I carry my passion, my indifference, my rage, my gentleness, and my unwavering belief in love, panting and gasping for breath. I stammer, “What’s your name?” Starting with “What’s your name,” later, there was everything.

机场比婚礼的殿堂见证了更多真诚的吻，医院的墙比教堂听到了更多的祈祷。
4. Airports have witnessed more sincere kisses than wedding halls, and hospital walls have heard more prayers than churches.

所谓的一见钟情，不过是见色起意。所谓日久生情，不过权衡利弊；就连白头偕老，都不过习惯使然。
5. So-called love at first sight is just lustful intentions. So-called growing affection over time is just weighing the pros and cons; even growing old together is just a matter of habit.

每天多一点点的努力，不为别的，只为了日后能够多一些选择，选择云卷云舒的小日子，选择自己喜欢的人。
6. Make a little more effort every day, not for anything else, but to have more choices in the future, choosing a carefree life, and choosing the person you like.

许多人所谓的成熟，不过是被习俗磨去了棱角，变得世故而实际了。那不是成熟，而是精神的早衰和个性的夭亡。真正的成熟，应当是独特个性的形象，真实自我的发现，精神上的结果和丰收。
7. The so-called maturity of many people is just being worn down by customs, becoming worldly and practical. That’s not maturity, but rather the premature aging of the spirit and the death of individuality. True maturity should be the embodiment of a unique personality, the discovery of one’s true self, and the spiritual harvest and abundance.

成功的秘诀之一绝对是闭上尊嘴，事成之前不发一言，埋头苦干，事成之后保持低调，不夸夸而谈，几乎是所有成功人物老练的处世态度。
8. One of the secrets of success is definitely to keep your mouth shut, not to say a word before the task is completed, to work hard with your head down, and to remain low-key after the task is done, without boasting. This is almost the experienced attitude of all successful people.

没有力气再往前走，也没有余地往后退，原地踏步又心有不甘，这就是所谓的焦虑。
9. When you have no strength to move forward, no room to retreat, and are unwilling to mark time in place, this is called anxiety.

有些人一直没有机会见，等有机会见了，却又犹豫了，相见不如不见。有些事一直没有机会做，等有机会了，却不想再做了。有些话埋葬在心中好久，没机会说，等有机会说的时候，却说不出口了。有些爱一直没有机会爱，等有机会了，已经不爱了。
10. Some people never have the chance to meet, but when the opportunity arises, they hesitate, and it’s better not to meet. Some things have never had the chance to be done, but when the opportunity comes, they no longer want to do them. Some words have been buried in the heart for a long time, with no chance to say them, and when the opportunity comes to speak, they can’t be uttered. Some love has never had the chance to be pursued, and when the opportunity comes, it’s no longer loved.

我不再看远方，只把目标放在前面3米远处。
11. I no longer look into the distance, but only set my goal three meters ahead.

爱情不是学问，不用学习。如果爱一个人，发自内心，难以遮掩，自然而然以她为重。这是种本能，不费吹灰之力。
12. Love is not a discipline, and there’s no need to learn it. If you love someone, it comes from the heart, is hard to conceal, and naturally takes precedence over her. This is an instinct, effortless.

生命中真正重要的不是你遭遇了什么，而是你记住了哪些事，又是如何铭记的。
13. What’s truly important in life is not what you’ve encountered, but what you remember, and how you remember it.

越来越喜欢慢慢这个词，一分一秒，慢慢走路，赏风景，慢慢做很多事。好像慢慢的，就能活很久，慢慢的就能忘了你，慢慢的一切都能好起来。
14. I’m increasingly fond of the word “slowly.” Walking slowly, enjoying the scenery, doing many things slowly. It seems that by going slowly, you can live a long life, slowly forget about you, and slowly, everything will get better.

行动是打败焦虑的最好办法，当你不知道该做什么的时候，就把手头的每件小事做好；当你不知道怎么开始时，就把离你最近的事情做好。
15. Taking action is the best way to defeat anxiety. When you don’t know what to do, just do every little thing at hand well; when you don’t know how to start, just do the nearest thing well.

有多少和我一样，坐在不足十平米的空间里，看着书里九万五千公里的绚丽。又或是和我一样，拥有一颗比九万五千公里还辽阔的心，却坐在不足一平米的椅子上。
16. How many people are like me, sitting in a space of less than ten square meters, reading about the 95,000 kilometers of beauty in books. Or like me, having a heart that is even more vast than 95,000 kilometers, yet sitting on a chair of less than one square meter.

要是有些事我没说，你别以为是忘了，我什么也没忘，但是有些事只适合收藏。不能说，也不能想，却又不能忘。
17. If there’s something I haven’t said, don’t think I’ve forgotten. I haven’t forgotten anything, but some things are only suitable for collection. They can’t be said, can’t be thought about, but can’t be forgotten.

所有主动离开你的人，都能在很短时间找到新人。不是因为他真那么好，而只是因为早有目标，所以才把你当旧鞋一样甩掉。什么不想拖累、不合适、曾经爱过，都是骗人的。说来说去，无非就是喜新厌旧。真正相爱的人，有再多借口也不会离开彼此，因为永远都是真的离不开你，而不是曾爱过你。
1. All those who leave you voluntarily can find someone new in a very short time. It’s not because they are really that good, but because they had a target early on, so they threw you away like old shoes. What doesn’t want to drag you down, not suitable, once loved, are all deceiving. In the end, it’s just a preference for the new and tired of the old. People who truly love each other will never leave each other, no matter how many excuses there are, because it’s always about really not being able to leave you, not just having loved you before.

因为现在过得越来越好，所以对以前的事没那么计较。
2. Because now I’m living better and better, I’m not as concerned about the past.

大概一个人久了，可以忍受的孤独指数也在不断增加。那些过去以为两个人一起完成才最浪漫的事，慢慢的我都自己去实现了。
3. Perhaps when a person is alone for a long time, their tolerance for loneliness also keeps increasing. Those things I thought were the most romantic when done together with someone, I slowly achieved them by myself.

有的路，你必须一个人走，这不是孤独，而是选择……
4. Some paths, you must walk alone. This is not loneliness, but a choice…

如果不能在一起，就不要给对方任何希望任何暗示，这才是最大的担当；分开了，不去打搅让对方安然生活，这才是最后的温柔。善良，有时候就是：你什么都不要做就是了。
5. If you can’t be together, don’t give each other any hope or hints. That’s the greatest responsibility; after breaking up, not disturbing each other’s peaceful life is the ultimate tenderness. Sometimes, kindness is: doing nothing at all.

生活的最高境界是宽容，相处的最高境界是尊重。
6. The highest state of life is tolerance, and the highest state of getting along is respect.

世上不爱的理由有很多，然而爱的表现只有一个：就想和你在一起。
7. There are many reasons for not loving in the world, but there is only one manifestation of love: wanting to be with you.

离开后就别再回头，不要幻想重新开始，不要梦想再次升温，结束的感情回不到曾经，离开的心情回不到过去。
8. After leaving, don’t look back, don’t fantasize about starting over, don’t dream of warming up again. Relationships that end cannot go back to the past, and the feelings of leaving cannot go back to the past.

不要轻易把伤口揭开给别人看，别人看的是热闹，而痛的却是自己。
9. Don’t easily expose your wounds to others. They watch the excitement, but the pain is yours.

其实，久了你就会知道，你需要的只是一个累了能给端你一杯水、病了能陪在你床头的人。这世上所有的久处不厌，都是因为用心。
10. Actually, after a while, you will know that what you need is just someone who can bring you a glass of water when you’re tired and accompany you by your bedside when you’re sick. All the long-lasting love in this world is because of dedication.

最好的爱情是两个人彼此做个伴，不要束缚，不要缠绕，不要占有，不要渴望从对方身上挖掘到意义，那是注定要落空的东西。而应该是我们两个人并排站在一起，看看这个落寞的人间。
11. The best love is when two people are companions to each other, without constraints, entanglement, possession, or the desire to find meaning in each other. That is destined to be in vain. Instead, it should be the two of us standing side by side, looking at this desolate world.

从小觉得最厉害的人就是妈妈，不怕黑，什么都知道，做好吃的饭，把生活打理得井井有条，哭着不知道怎么办时只好找她。可我好像忘了这个被我依靠的人也曾是个小姑娘，怕黑也掉眼泪，笨手笨脚会被针扎到手。最美的姑娘，是什么让你变得这么强大呢，是岁月，还是爱。
12. Since I was young, I thought the most amazing person was my mother, who was not afraid of the dark, knew everything, cooked delicious meals, and managed life orderly. When I was crying and didn’t know what to do, I had to find her. But I seem to have forgotten that this person I relied on was once a young girl, afraid of the dark and shedding tears, clumsy and getting pricked by needles. What made the most beautiful girl become so strong? Is it years or love?

我经常有那种感觉，如果这个事情来了，你却没有勇敢地去解决掉，它一定会再来。生活真是这样，它会一次次地让你去做这个功课直到你学会为止。
13. I often have that feeling, if this thing comes and you don’t bravely deal with it, it will come again. Life is really like this; it will make you do this homework again and again until you learn it.

遇见你之前，我没想过结婚，遇见你之后，结婚我没想过别人。
14. Before I met you, I never thought about getting married. After meeting you, I never thought about marrying anyone else.

我希望你毕业后，先去你想去的地方，再去你该去的地方。我希望你能在最好的时光里，做最心甘情愿的事。
15. I hope that after you graduate, you go to the place you want to go first, and then go to the place you should go. I hope you can do what you are most willing to do in the best of times.

不要把时间浪费在你不擅长，和你本性相违背的东西上，内向者不用假装外向，外向者也不用故作沉默，做你自己就好，相信我，一个心眼不坏，有能力，并且懂礼貌的人，走遍天下都不怕。
16. Don’t waste time on things you are not good at and go against your nature. Introverts don’t have to pretend to be extroverted, and extroverts don’t have to pretend to be silent. Just be yourself. Believe me, a person with a good heart, ability, and manners can go anywhere without fear.

情侣之间最好的状态是，我给他的所有宠爱，他当得起；他给我的所有疼爱，我亦当得起。
17. The best state between couples is when I give him all the love and affection he deserves, and he gives me all the love and care I deserve.

渐渐觉得，友谊这个东西已经被世人捧得太高，它跟永恒其实没有太大关系。换了空间时间，总会有人离去，也总会有更与当下的你心有相通的同伴不断出现，来陪你走接下来或短或长的一段。所以，不要太念念不忘，也不要期待有什么回响。你要从同路者中寻找同伴，而非硬拽着旧人一起上路。
1. Gradually, I feel that friendship has been overly praised by people, and it has little to do with eternity. As time and space change, there will always be people leaving and new companions who resonate with your current self, joining you for a short or long journey ahead. So, don’t be too nostalgic, nor expect any echoes. You should seek companions from those who share the same path, rather than dragging old friends along with you.

离开了，就别问我过得好不好。不好你也帮助不了，好也不是你的功劳。
2. If you leave, don’t ask me how I’m doing. If I’m not well, you can’t help; if I am, it’s not your merit.

发现了吗？会哭的孩子有奶吃，会闹的女孩有人疼。一般太懂事的姑娘，总是委屈自己，不让别人受伤。
3. Have you noticed? The crying child gets milk, and the noisy girl gets attention. Generally, sensible girls always end up sacrificing themselves and not hurting others.

喜欢一个人的时候怎么可能大方呢，简直是变成了世界上最小心眼儿的人，看他身边的漂亮姑娘都像小婊砸。他对别的女生多笑两下都忍不住吃起莫名的飞醋，本来大大咧咧对什么都不在乎，但是爱上了以后却发现喜欢就是计较，是内心翻云覆雨面上却假装平和，是你在我身边我也想你。
4. How can you be generous when you like someone? It’s as if you become the most jealous person in the world. You see all the pretty girls around him as little bitches. He smiles at other girls a little more, and you can’t help but feel jealous for no reason. You used to be carefree and not care about anything, but after falling in love, you realize that liking someone means being concerned, having emotional turmoil inside while pretending to be calm on the surface, and missing them even when they are by your side.

以后你就会知道，生活中真的没有几件事情是值得我们搭上礼貌，教养，人品和格局的。
5. Later, you will understand that there are really very few things in life worth risking our politeness, upbringing, character, and vision.

是你太敏感，敏感到自以为是，敏感到以为全世界都在盯着你，所以你让自己活得疲倦，活得做作，其实真正在意你的人没几个。
6. You are too sensitive, so sensitive that you think you are right, and so sensitive that you think the whole world is watching you. That’s why you make your life tiring and unnatural. In fact, there are only a few people who really care about you.

我有一个苹果，分你一半，这是友情。我只吃一口，剩下的全给你，这是爱情。我一口没吃，直接全给了你，那是你父母。我藏起来，对别人说我也饿了，这是社会。
7. I have an apple, and I give you half. That’s friendship. I take one bite and give you the rest. That’s love. I don’t eat any and give it all to you. That’s your parents. I hide it and tell others I’m also hungry. That’s society.

明知道锻炼对身体好，还是蜷在床上不肯起来；明知道读书能改变气质，还是宁愿花时间玩手机；明知道潇洒放手会更好过，还是优柔寡断犯贱想念。或许生活原本的状态就是这样，我们听说过很多道理，却依然过不好这一生。
8. Knowing that exercise is good for your health, but still refusing to get up from bed; knowing that reading can change your temperament, but still preferring to spend time on your phone; knowing that letting go gracefully would be better, but still indecisive and missing them. Perhaps life is like this: we’ve heard many truths, yet we still can’t live a good life.

人有退路，就有些许安全感。等到哪一天，你真没了退路，你就发现眼前哪条路都能走，也能通。
9. When people have a way out, they feel somewhat secure. But one day, when you really have no way out, you’ll find that any path in front of you can be taken and lead somewhere.

灵魂只能独行，陪伴不是把别人拉到你的生活轨迹上，或者强行进入别人的世界找到一个位置，陪伴是一种心灵的在场，就好像我不用问候一声，也知道你一定随时会回应我的召唤。
10. The soul can only travel alone. Companionship is not about dragging others into your life trajectory or forcing your way into someone else’s world to find a place. Companionship is a spiritual presence, as if I don’t need to say hello, and I know you will always respond to my call.

当一首歌跟你的某段经历某场感情纠缠在一起的时候，你就再也没法自主地控制情绪。只要这个旋律响起，你都可能会掉眼泪。咖啡馆听到会哭出来，商场里逛街会哭出来，甚至在家里洗澡放歌都可能会掉眼泪。不是忘不掉什么人，只是始终对自己那场无果的付出和被浪费的太炽热的爱耿耿于怀。
11. When a song is entangled with a certain experience or relationship of yours, you can no longer control your emotions. As long as the melody plays, you may shed tears. You might cry in a café, while shopping in a mall, or even at home when taking a shower and playing music. It’s not about not being able to forget someone; it’s just that you can’t let go of your unrequited efforts and the love that was wasted so passionately.

女人啊，平时要好好护肤，保持身材，多看书，多旅行，有自己的想法，去做自己喜欢的事，培养自信。不要把精力全部用在一个男人身上，成天胡思乱想，像个怨妇。等你变得更好的时候，你会发现所有的事情都会变得很容易了，包括爱情。
12. Women, take good care of your skin, maintain your figure, read more books, travel more, have your own opinions, and do what you like to do, and cultivate confidence. Don’t spend all your energy on a man, daydreaming like a shrew. When you become better, you’ll find that everything becomes easier, including love.

真爱你的人会让你活得像自己，不够爱你的人才用改变你的方式来附和自己。
13. Those who truly love you will let you live as yourself. Those who don’t love you enough will try to change you to suit themselves.

有钱的给你物质，有时间的给你陪伴，有情调的给你浪漫，那些都不是爱情。爱情完整的模样，应该是：花心的为你专一，爱玩的为你安定，性急的为你等待，骄傲的为你谦卑。因为你去尝试不擅长的事，为了你想去成为一个更好的人，这才是爱情最傻最真实的样子。
1. Wealth can provide you with material things, time can offer you companionship, and sentiment can bring romance, but those are not love. The complete form of love should be: the fickle become devoted for you, the playful settle down for you, the impatient wait for you, and the proud become humble for you. It’s about trying things you’re not good at because of you, wanting to become a better person for you, and that’s the silliest and most genuine appearance of love.

姑娘，你那么努力，不是为了嫁给世俗传说的如意郎君；你那么优秀，不是为了给娃当个娘就算了，你从不欠别人一段恋爱，也不欠任何人一个孩子，你只欠自己一个幸福的模样。
2. Girl, you work so hard not to marry the ideal prince in the worldly legends; you are so excellent not just to be a mother for your child; you never owe anyone a relationship, nor do you owe anyone a child, you only owe it to yourself to be happy.

很多时候，天雷勾动地火的开头，未必等得到长相厮守的结局。
3. Many times, the dramatic beginnings may not lead to a lifelong commitment.

哪有什么选择恐惧症，还不是因为穷；哪有什么优柔寡断，还不是因为怂。
4. There’s no such thing as choice phobia, it’s just because of poverty; there’s no such thing as indecision, it’s just because of cowardice.

劝别人的时候，倒是永远心思透彻，看淡红尘，拿得起放得下。承担他人的痛苦的时候，我们都 分外坚强。人好像都是这样：处理别人的事情总是大刀阔斧，一把抓住主要问题，轮到自己却沉浸在细枝末节不肯放手。
5. When advising others, we always seem to have clear thoughts, to see through the world, and to be able to let go. When bearing others’ pain, we are all exceptionally strong. It seems that people are like this: dealing with other people’s affairs is always decisive, but when it comes to ourselves, we immerse ourselves in the details and refuse to let go.

我不是一个坚强的人，但是我知道，有些时候，除了坚强，别无选择。
6. I am not a strong person, but I know that sometimes, apart from being strong, there is no other choice.

好好赚钱吧，没有钱，你拿什么呵护你的亲情，支撑你的爱情，联络你的友情？靠嘴吗？别闹了，大家都挺忙的。
7. Earn money properly, without money, what will you use to protect your family, support your love, and maintain your friendships? By talking? Don’t make jokes, everyone is quite busy.

很多事情永远都想不通，想不通为什么一睁眼，你就不是我的了。再想到你，我也想不通，想不通这些日日夜夜的疏离，都像是一夜之间发生的，想不通怎么就没办法和你并肩了。
8. There are many things that I can never understand: why as soon as I open my eyes, you are no longer mine. Thinking of you, I can’t understand, I can’t understand the estrangement of these days and nights, it all seems to have happened overnight, I can’t understand why I can’t stand by your side.

一个人爱上小溪，是因为没有见过大海。可我已见过银河，但我只爱一颗星。
9. A person falls in love with a brook because they have not seen the ocean. But I have seen the galaxy, yet I only love one star.

其实，许多事从一开始就已预感到了结局，往后所有的折腾，都不过只是为了拖延散场的时间。
10. In fact, many things have already foreseen the ending from the beginning, and all the struggles afterwards are just to delay the time of parting.

总嚷着要找个对象，却从不主动勾搭；没喜欢的人，也懒得接受别人的追求。倒也不是那么宁缺毋滥，却还是不肯委屈将就。有时，感觉单身挺好的，又常常，羡慕别人成双入对。这才是很多人单身的日常吧。
11. Always complaining about wanting to find a partner, but never taking the initiative to flirt; not having anyone they like, and too lazy to accept others’ pursuit. It’s not that they are so particular, but they still don’t want to settle. Sometimes, they feel being single is great, and often, they envy others being in pairs. This is the daily life of many single people.

世界上没有所谓的玩笑，所有的玩笑都有认真的成分。多少真心话在玩笑中说出口，只是不想懂的人，怎么都不会懂。
12. There are no so-called jokes in the world, all jokes have a serious element. How many true feelings are spoken in jokes, but those who don’t want to understand, will never understand.

一到这季节，女人就容易得三种病：觉得自己去年买的衣服都特丑的病；觉得自己衣柜里总少了一件衣服的病；觉得自己去年就是裸奔过来的病。
13. In this season, women are prone to three kinds of illnesses: the illness of thinking that the clothes they bought last year are ugly; the illness of always feeling that their wardrobe is missing a piece of clothing; the illness of feeling that they were running naked last year.

容易被辜负的永远都是那些天真又心软的人，毕竟好骗又好欺，伤疤一好就忘了痛。
14. Those who are easily taken advantage of are always the naive and soft-hearted, after all, they are easy to deceive and to bully, and once the scars heal, they forget the pain.

有一种性取向叫做lithromantic，指的是在你对某个人产生好感后，当他对你有同样感情后，你就会讨厌这种感情，甚至不再喜欢他。你是这样的人吗？
15. There is a type of sexual orientation called lithromantic, which refers to when you develop a fondness for someone, and when they reciprocate your feelings, you begin to dislike the affection, and even stop liking them. Are you such a person?

结了婚就替单身朋友着急，离过婚就觉得别人的婚姻都是假相，生了孩子就觉得不生孩子都是自私，先工作的就觉得读研读博就是浪费生命，自由职业了就觉得上班族在出卖灵魂，买了房子就觉得砸锅卖铁买房子才是正经事。人啊，说到底都不觉得自己的选择是对的，才会用拉人下水的形式找认同。
1. After getting married, one starts to worry about their single friends; after divorcing, one feels that other people’s marriages are all facades. After having children, one thinks that not having children is selfish; after starting work, one believes that pursuing a master’s or doctorate degree is a waste of life; after becoming a freelancer, one feels that office workers are selling their souls; after buying a house, one thinks that only those who mortgage their possessions to buy a house are doing the right thing. People, in the end, don’t feel that their choices are right, which is why they try to bring others down to their level to find validation.

愿你能遇见那个人，那个能让你不用在咬着牙逞强，憋着泪倔犟的人。
2. May you meet that person who allows you to stop pretending to be strong through gritted teeth and holding back tears with all your might.

永远不要去欺骗别人，因为你能骗到的都是相信你的人。
3. Never deceive others, because those you can deceive are the ones who trust you.

下雨天大家好像都有不同的癖好。我朋友喜欢吃着黄瓜味儿的薯片在床上看书，我下铺喜欢睡一个昏天黑地的午觉，妈妈喜欢煮冰糖雪梨汤来慢慢喝。而我喜欢想你，漫无目的地温温吞吞地想你，从下雨天初遇的屋檐下开始。
4. On rainy days, everyone seems to have different quirks. My friend likes to eat cucumber-flavored chips while reading in bed, my roommate enjoys taking a long, deep nap, my mom likes to cook pear soup with rock sugar and sip it slowly. As for me, I like to think of you, aimlessly and gently thinking of you, starting from the eaves where we first met on a rainy day.

发现一个有意思的现象：成功的男士大多都有幸福的家庭，而成功的女士大多离异或单身。多数女人是在无爱可做的时候才做事，多数男人是在无事可做的时候才做爱。
5. I’ve noticed an interesting phenomenon: successful men mostly have happy families, while successful women are mostly divorced or single. Most women start to focus on their careers when there is no love in their lives, while most men turn to love when they have nothing else to do.

懂得让步的人是聪明的，这是把决定事态走向的主动权，握在了自己的手上。在感情的对抗战中，赢了面子就输了情分。往往死撑到底的人，都成孤家寡人。弯腰不是认输，只是为了去拾起你那丢掉的幸福。
6. Those who know how to compromise are wise, as they hold the主动权 to determine the direction of events in their own hands. In the battle of emotions, winning face means losing affection. Those who stubbornly hold on until the end often end up alone. Bending down is not admitting defeat, but rather picking up the happiness you’ve lost.

终于明白自己为什么舍不得离开，我宁愿爱你的缺点都不愿去接受别人，在这段感情里，你我都没有错，只是我忘了，要先好好爱自己。
7. I finally understand why I was reluctant to leave. I would rather love your flaws than accept someone else. In this relationship, neither of us was wrong; I just forgot that I should learn to love myself first.

有一种人很美好，他曾让你对明天有所期待，最终却没有出现在你的明天里；也有一种人很踏实，他会在往后的岁月中给你更长久的幸福，虽然他不曾来过你的青春。对于前者，我们要彼此祝福，对于后者，我们请温柔等待。
8. There is a kind of beauty in some people who make you look forward to tomorrow, but ultimately do not appear in your tomorrow. There is also a kind of stability in others who will give you longer-lasting happiness in the years to come, even though they were never part of your youth. For the former, we should bless each other; for the latter, please wait gently.

一个人的自愈的能力越强，才越有可能接近幸福。做一个寡言，却心有一片海的人，不伤人害己，于淡泊中，平和自在。
9. The stronger a person’s ability to heal themselves, the closer they are to happiness. Be a person of few words, but with a vast sea in your heart. Do not harm others or yourself, and find peace and freedom in indifference.

谁值得嫁，谁值得娶，哪能说清楚。爱情这事本没标准，纯粹就看你高兴与否。所以说，这不是谁适合的问题，而是你愿不愿意的问题。你愿意，穷小子也可以。你不愿意，天王老子也滚一边。爱不是抉择，而是一种内心的坚定。
10. Who is worthy of marrying and who is worthy of being married is unclear. There are no standards for love; it depends on whether you are happy or not. So, it’s not about who is suitable, but whether you are willing. If you are willing, even a poor guy can do; if you are not willing, even the most powerful person can go away. Love is not a choice, but a firmness in the heart.
经过了做什么都想求个结果的年龄了，想做什么就努力的去做，想对谁好就慷慨的付出。生命中的某些时光，本来就难逃在某些人和某些事上面虚度的。
11. I have passed the age of seeking results in everything I do. Just work hard to do what you want, and generously give to those you care about. Some moments in life are inevitably wasted on certain people and things.

如果你现在还是孤身一人，不要为了所谓的“安全感”而匆忙地投向下一个人的怀抱。安全感从来都是自己给自己的，只有给足自己安全感的人，才能遇到一个你不需要取悦的人，才能遇到和你同频率的人。
12. If you are still alone, do not rush into the arms of the next person for the so-called “sense of security.” A sense of security is something you give yourself. Only those who give themselves enough security can meet someone they don’t need to please and someone who shares the same frequency with them.

你一定没有注意过我满脸微笑说不介意时的满腹心酸。
13. You must not have noticed the heartache behind my smiling face when I said I didn’t mind.

听到一句很装逼的话：你，就是你的命运。想想挺有道理的。懒的穷，馋的胖，一根筋的天天忙。取悦型人格挺压抑，尖酸刻薄容易滚蛋。纠结的见不到世面，洒脱的一屁股烂帐。你给自己什么定妆照，命运就给你什么下场。真押韵，啷个里个啷。
1. You are your own destiny. Laziness leads to poverty, gluttony leads to obesity, being stubborn leads to constant busyness. People-pleasing personalities are quite oppressive, while sarcasm and bitterness can easily lead to being kicked out. Those who are indecisive never see the world, while the carefree have a mess of debts. The image you present to yourself is the outcome that destiny will give you. It really rhymes, lanky ling long.

我不是在等天亮，我只是等不到你的晚安。
2. I’m not waiting for the day to brighten, I’m just waiting for your goodnight.

很多人与同事都是泛泛之交，每天却有三分之一的时间与他们共同渡过；而最重要的亲人，每年只有几个节日能与其同聚。人总是不能完满如意：生活里的人，往往都不在你心里；在你心里的人，往往都不在生活里。
3. Many people are just acquaintances with their colleagues, yet they spend a third of their day together; while the most important family members can only be together on a few holidays each year. People can never be completely satisfied: those in your life are often not in your heart; those in your heart are often not in your life.

我们都在猜着对方是否会想自己，我们都在心里期待着对方先主动，于是我们各怀心事，最后我们渐行渐远。
4. We are all guessing whether the other person misses us, and we are all expecting the other person to take the initiative first. As a result, we harbor our own concerns and eventually drift apart.

我其实并不赞同多谈几次恋爱才能长大这样的说法，每一次结束都是一场声势浩大的战役，消耗我对生活的热情，我宁愿把这个世界的所有噪点，在一个人身上磨平，带着最不通人情的爱，和横冲直撞的情怀。
5. I don’t actually agree with the notion that one must have multiple relationships to grow up. Each end is like a massive battle, consuming my passion for life. I would rather smooth out all the noise in this world on one person, with the most unworldly love and a reckless spirit.

在问题出现的那一瞬间，一定要控制好自己的情绪，不要发火，不要偏激，不要说出什么过激的话，要懂得忍耐。忍耐不是为了让你不去处理这件事情，而是为了避免在情绪失控的情况下，干出什么让自己丢脸的事情。
6. In the moment a problem arises, you must control your emotions. Don’t get angry, don’t be extreme, and don’t say anything too radical. Learn to be patient. Patience is not for avoiding dealing with the issue; it’s to prevent doing something embarrassing when emotions are out of control.

千万别因为人家宠你爱你包容你呵护你，就以为他们喜欢你的缺点呀，该改的还是要悄悄改呀，这样才对得起别人毫无理由的偏袒吧。
7. Never think that just because someone spoils you, loves you, tolerates you, and cares for you, they like your flaws. You should still quietly work on improving yourself, so as to be worthy of their unwarranted favoritism.

如果一个女人爱你，你会看到她的任性，她的偏执，她的小心眼，她的坏脾气。如果她不爱你，入你眼的就是这个女人的高傲，冷漠和小妖精面孔。
8. If a woman loves you, you will see her willfulness, her paranoia, her pettiness, and her bad temper. If she doesn’t love you, what you see is her arrogance, indifference, and a sly face.

赌气说再也不联系，哭得稀里哗啦昏昏睡去，手里却攥着手机，只要一震动就马上滚起来回复，这种事你一定干过。
9. You must have done this: sulking and saying you’ll never contact again, crying your heart out and falling asleep, but holding onto your phone, ready to jump up and reply at the slightest vibration.

戒烟、减肥和“我爱你”一样，都是一鼓作气再而衰三而竭的事情，越说越疲，越说越不在乎。
10. Quitting smoking, losing weight, and “I love you” are all things that lose momentum after the initial burst of energy. The more you say them, the more exhausted and indifferent you become.

你要么找一个能让你过上好日子的男人，要么找一个你甘心情愿为他吃苦的男人。除此之外的，让他们有多远闪多远。你又不欠他的，你又不是没人要，别男人一摆出弱者样就母性泛滥。宁可找一爸也别去当人家的妈，这是最基本的择偶标准。
1. You should either find a man who can provide you with a good life, or one who you are willing to endure hardships for. Keep the rest at a distance. You don’t owe them anything, and you are not unwanted. Don’t let a man’s vulnerable appearance trigger your maternal instincts. It’s better to find a father figure than to become someone’s mother; this is the most basic criterion for choosing a partner.

性格不合就磨合，磨合不了就分手，不然爱就会变成痛苦，在一起就会成为煎熬。旁人肯定会说这是爱得不够的表现，可你在流血的时候痛的不是旁人。
2. If your personalities don’t match, try to adjust. If you can’t, then break up. Otherwise, love will turn into pain, and being together will become torture. People may say this is a sign of not loving enough, but they don’t feel the pain when you’re bleeding.

单身久了再碰到喜欢的人，突然害怕也会笑着摇摇头说算了吧。
3. After being single for a long time, when you meet someone you like, you might suddenly feel afraid and laugh, shaking your head, saying “forget it.”

每个人都一样，都有一段独行的日子，或长或短，这都是无可回避的。不必总觉得生命空空荡荡，放心吧，一时的孤独只是意味着你值得拥有更好的。
4. Everyone goes through a period of solitude, whether long or short. It’s inevitable. Don’t always feel that life is empty. Rest assured, temporary loneliness only means that you deserve better.

大概就是因为不停地在遇到能让自己有勇气继续走向未来的人，所以生命才有了更完整的意义。从此不再囿于旧日的阴雨，也不再因为一个人而甘于忍让，变得不争。至此，一万个感激。
5. It’s probably because we keep meeting people who give us the courage to continue moving forward that life gains a more complete meaning. No longer confined to the past’s gloom, nor content with compromise just because of one person. A thousand thanks for this.

为了自己想过的生活，勇于放弃一些东西。这个世界没有公正之处，你也永远得不到两全之计。若要自由，就得牺牲安全。若要闲散，就不能获得别人评价中的成就。若要愉悦，就无须计较身边的人给予的态度。若要前行，就得离开你现在停留的地方。
6. To live the life you want, be brave enough to give up some things. There is no justice in this world, and you can never find a perfect solution. If you want freedom, you have to sacrifice security. If you want leisure, you can’t achieve the success others evaluate. If you want happiness, don’t care about the attitudes of those around you. If you want to move forward, you have to leave the place where you’re currently staying.

对于不靠谱的人和不靠谱的承诺，事不过二。第二次的信任不是给它们一个复活的机会，而是给自己一个彻底死心的理由。机会给多了，对方不会觉得你善良，只会觉得你好骗。一次又一次的失望最大的坏处不是你浪费了时间，而是你的情感会趋于麻木。趁生命还鲜活时，及时放弃。对于不靠谱，事不过二。
7. For unreliable people and promises, give them no more than two chances. The second time you trust them isn’t to give them a chance to revive, but to give yourself a reason to give up completely. If you give too many chances, they won’t think you’re kind; they’ll think you’re easy to deceive. The biggest drawback of repeated disappointments is not the wasted time, but the emotional numbness that follows. Give up in time, while life is still vibrant. For the unreliable, give them no more than two chances.

如果你已经尽了最大的努力，就不要为任何的失败而气馁。
8. If you have done your best, don’t be discouraged by any failure.

年轻的时候以为不读书不足以了解人生，直到后来才发现如果不了解人生，是读不懂书的。读书的意义大概就是用生活所感去读书，用读书所得去生活吧。
9. When I was young, I thought not reading books was not enough to understand life. It wasn’t until later that I realized if you don’t understand life, you can’t comprehend books. The meaning of reading is probably to use life experiences to read and apply what you’ve learned from books to life.

总是活在一些极致的情绪里，某一段时间会对生活充满了信心，但突然在某一瞬间，你又会全盘推翻。你有信心时，无所不能，而你推翻这一切的时候，也是百分之百的灰心。
10. We often live in extreme emotions. Sometimes we’re full of confidence in life, but suddenly, in an instant, we completely reject it. When you’re confident, you can do anything, but when you reject it all, you’re 100% disheartened.

我想和你一起生活，在某个小镇，共享无尽的黄昏，和绵绵不绝的钟声。
11. I want to live with you, in some small town, sharing endless twilights and the continuous sound of bells.

一个人如果真的喜欢你，会让你知道，而不是模棱两可让你去猜，一个人如果想你，千山万水也会来找你，而不是一条谁都发过的慰问信息，一个人如果在乎你，没有借口没有犹豫会陪你到底，而不是自信地认为你真能独自度过所有。你要找的那个人，他的未来里一定要有你。
12. If someone truly likes you, they will let you know, not leaving you guessing with ambiguity. If someone misses you, they will come to you despite mountains and rivers, not just sending a generic慰问 message. If someone cares about you, they will accompany you without excuses or hesitation, not arrogantly assuming you can get through everything on your own. The person you’re looking for must have you in their future.

只有用心去看，才能看的真切，重要的事情，肉眼是看不见的。
13. Only by looking with your heart can you see clearly. Important things are invisible to the naked eye.

若无其事，原来是最好的报复。心累到一定的程度，连生气和计较的力气都没有了……何必向不值得的人证明什么，生活得更好，是为了自己。或许每个人都要经历掏心掏肺付出，然后换来撕心裂肺的结果，从此以后就会发现没心没肺的好处。
1. If you act as if nothing happened, it is actually the best revenge. When you are mentally exhausted to a certain extent, you don’t even have the strength to be angry or to care… There’s no need to prove anything to those who are not worth it; living a better life is for yourself. Perhaps everyone has to go through the process of giving their all and then getting their heart broken, and from then on, you will discover the benefits of being carefree.

当你学着咽下一大段话和所有情绪，只用“嗯”表达你所有想法的时候，你就成熟了。
2. When you learn to swallow a long speech and all emotions, and only use “Hmm” to express all your thoughts, you are mature.

能让你活得最像自己的人，必然会是那个最爱你且你最爱的人。
3. The person who can make you live most like yourself will inevitably be the one who loves you the most and the one you love the most.

没人能让所有人满意，所以让你自己和中意的人满意就可以了。你所判定的一切，也许就是你自己内心的投影。人生就是一个不断接纳和抛弃的过程，就是一段迎接冷眼嘲笑孤独前行的旅途。
4. Nobody can satisfy everyone, so it’s enough to satisfy yourself and the people you care about. Everything you judge may be a projection of your own inner self. Life is a continuous process of acceptance and abandonment, a journey of facing cold eyes, ridicule, and walking alone.

实在放不下的时候，去趟重症病房或者墓地，你容易明白，你已经得到太多，再要就是贪婪，时间太少，好玩儿的事儿太多，从尊重生命的角度，不必纠缠。
5. When you really can’t let go, visit a critical care ward or a cemetery. You will easily understand that you have already gained too much, and asking for more is greed. There is too little time, and there are too many interesting things to do. From the perspective of respecting life, there is no need to entangle.

一个丰富的人，内心必须要有一些可以令自己感到荣耀与骄傲的事，它照亮你前方的路。也应有些不安与警觉，它令你不易迷失。只有两者都通晓了，你才能走得稳、走得远。
6. A rich person must have some things in their heart that make them feel proud and honored; these things will illuminate the path ahead. They should also have some uneasiness and vigilance, which will prevent them from getting lost. Only when you understand both can you walk steadily and far.

每个人在本质上过的是一样的日子，不一样的是你的心在感受什么。如果你不能正视自己，那就根本谈不上任何改变，也就没有任何机会了。人得有把自己逼到绝境的勇气。
7. Everyone essentially lives the same days, but what’s different is what your heart feels. If you can’t face yourself, there is no talk of any change, and there is no opportunity. One must have the courage to push themselves to the brink.

曾经以为自己活得很明白，后来才发现，一个真正活明白的人不会忍心让自己活得太明白。
8. I once thought I was living very clearly, but later I realized that a person who truly lives clearly would not bear to let themselves live too clearly.

“等我都准备好了再说”，这是句中看不中用的话：“等我都准备好了再上班”“等我都准备好了再开店” “等我都准备好了再结婚” …很多事不开始做，根本不知道该准备些什么。“都准备好”是永远不存在的状态，再怎么等，也没办法“都准备好”的。接受这个真相，应该会比较有勇气面对生活。
9. “Wait until I’m ready,” is a phrase that looks good but doesn’t work: “Wait until I’m ready to go to work,” “Wait until I’m ready to open a store,” “Wait until I’m ready to get married”… Many things cannot be prepared for until you start doing them. The state of “being ready” never exists; no matter how long you wait, you will never be “ready.” Accepting this truth should give you more courage to face life.

当你偶尔发现语言变得无力时，不妨安静下来，让沉默替你发声。
10. When you occasionally find that words are powerless, you might as well be quiet and let silence speak for you.

你总是在意别人的感受，宁愿自己受委屈，也不想别人不开心。对方一失落，你就紧张。对方一道歉，你就心软，甚至觉得自己生气都是在计较。你傻傻的背着别人的快乐，有时候僵在原地喘不过气，但我知道，你的敏感是因为善良。可善良的人最后不会吃亏，一定会有更多人爱你，作为回报。
11. You always care about other people’s feelings, preferring to suffer injustice yourself rather than make others unhappy. When someone is upset, you become nervous. When someone apologizes, you become soft-hearted, even feeling that being angry is being petty. You foolishly carry the happiness of others, sometimes standing still and gasping for breath, but I know that your sensitivity is because of your kindness. But kind people will not suffer in the end; more people will love you as a reward.

但愿你的余生，我是归人，不是过客。
12. I hope that for the rest of your life, I am a returning guest, not a passerby.

少年时追求激情，成熟后却迷恋平静，在我们寻找，伤害，背离之后，还能一如既往的相信爱情，这是一种勇气。每个人都有属于自己的一片森林，迷失的人迷失了，相逢的人会再相逢。
13. In youth, we pursue passion; in maturity, we become infatuated with peace. After searching, hurting, and parting, we can still believe in love as usual; this is a kind of courage. Everyone has their own forest, where the lost are lost, and the reunited will meet again.

一个成熟的人往往发觉可以责怪的人越来越少，人人都有他的难处。
14. A mature person often finds that there are fewer and fewer people to blame, as everyone has their own difficulties.

我不想成为上帝或英雄。只是成为一棵树，为岁月而生长，不伤害任何人。
15. I don’t want to be God or a hero. I just want to be a tree, growing for the years, without hurting anyone.

有些东西，并不是越浓越好，要恰到好处。深深的话我们浅浅地说，长长的路我们慢慢地走。
1. Some things are not better the stronger they are, but just right. We speak our deep words lightly, and walk our long road slowly.

眼泪真正的作用是洗净眼睛，要你看清楚让你落泪的那个人。
2. The real function of tears is to wash your eyes, so you can see clearly the person who made you cry.

出发，总是好的，它象征着一种出离，更是必须面对的另一个开始。
3. To set off is always good, as it symbolizes a departure and another beginning that must be faced.

世界很单纯，复杂的是人。你的孤独，是因为既希望，有人关心，又不想被过分打扰。
4. The world is simple, but people are complicated. Your loneliness is because you both desire and do not want to be disturbed too much.

不管你曾经被伤害得有多深，总会有一个人的出现，让你原谅之前生活对你所有的刁难。
5. No matter how deeply you have been hurt, there will always be someone who appears and makes you forgive all the difficulties life has given you before.

耍点小矫情，必须有大情怀配着，否则就让人觉得太是非，心累。若真是爆脾气，又不愿改，就长大本事，别人受益了，趋利避害，也会忍你。
6. If you want to be a little whimsical, you must have a great sentiment to match it, otherwise it will make people feel too judgmental and emotionally exhausted. If you really have a bad temper and don’t want to change, then grow your abilities, so that others can benefit from you, and they will tolerate you for their own interests.

在走过的地方扬起一路凡尘，然后头也不回的撒下车辙和印痕，锦年不重来，不必挂牵许多。喝眼前的酒，忘身后的人。
7. Leave a trail of dust in the places you’ve been, and then walk away without looking back, leaving behind tracks and footprints. The golden years will not come again, so there’s no need to be concerned about many things. Drink the wine in front of you and forget the people behind you.

如果你的成功定义是超越别人，那么注定会失败，因为世上总有比你强的人，如果成功的定义是超越自己，那么真的只要努力就会成功。
8. If your definition of success is to surpass others, then you are destined to fail, because there will always be someone stronger than you in the world. If success is defined as surpassing yourself, then you can truly succeed as long as you work hard.

愿你执迷不悟时少受点伤，愿你幡然醒悟时物是人是。
9. May you suffer less when you are stubborn and confused, and may things remain the same when you suddenly realize the truth.

像鸽子一样温顺容易接触，有亲和力，没有攻击性，遇见危险和不喜欢人与物，第一反应是最有效率的退让，飞到别处去，我有天空可供退让，不和坏人纠缠。不得不还击时，又像蛇像蛇一样狡猾、迅速及凶狠，不犹豫不拖拉，以牙还牙。当你到了这个境界，别人只会更尊重你，自然，也不敢欺负你。
10. Be as gentle and approachable as a dove, without aggression. When encountering danger or things you dislike, the first reaction is the most efficient retreat, flying to another place, as I have the sky to retreat to, and I don’t get entangled with bad people. When I have to fight back, I will be as cunning, swift, and fierce as a snake, without hesitation or delay, returning the favor. When you reach this state, others will respect you more and naturally won’t dare to bully you.

即使无人欣赏也要学会自由盛放，你的人生从来不是与别人的赛跑，要活得比昨天的自己更美好。
11. Even if no one appreciates it, learn to bloom freely, as your life is never a race with others, but to live a better version of yourself than yesterday.

们开始都一样，斤斤计较，伪装成随其自然。我们后来也一样，尽过全力，才可以接受失去。
12. We all start the same, being overly concerned with trivial matters and pretending to be carefree. Later, we are the same, having given our all, we can accept the loss.

有些人并非天生带刺拒人千里，只是他们真的不擅交际且羞于主动，所以干脆就直接少言寡语被人误会是“高冷”。其实如果你有耐心再往前多走几步，你会发现他们其实很平易近人，也比很多人都要重情。比如你。
13. Some people are not born with thorns to repel others; they are just not good at socializing and shy to take the initiative, so they simply remain silent and are misunderstood as “aloof.” If you have the patience to take a few more steps forward, you will find that they are actually very approachable and more affectionate than many others, like you.

想要挽回的时候，先想清楚。要分清是不甘，是遗憾，是愧疚，还是真的还爱着。
14. When you want to make up, think it through first. Distinguish whether it’s reluctance, regret, guilt, or truly still being in love.

女生说随便的意思是：我懒得想但是你必须想出我满意的。
15. When a girl says “whatever,” it means: I don’t feel like thinking, but you must come up with something that satisfies me.

一直认同，无论之前你多么好胜，都会在爱上一个人的瞬间，发现世界的美好。这种爱会让你不怕伤害，愿意去成长，甚至会发现自己在不经意间变得越来越好。爱和喜欢是根本不同的两种情感，当你发现你愿意对一个人无条件去信任宽容、理解、也懂得道歉低头并不丢人，才是爱的开始。
16. I have always believed that no matter how competitive you are, the moment you fall in love with someone, you will discover the beauty of the world. This love will make you unafraid of being hurt, willing to grow, and even find yourself becoming better and better without realizing it. Love and liking are fundamentally different emotions. When you are willing to unconditionally trust, tolerate, understand, and know that apologizing and lowering your head is not humiliating for a person, that is the beginning of love.

有时候你想证明给一万个人看，到后来，你发现只得到了一个明白的人，那就够了。
17. Sometimes you want to prove yourself to ten thousand people, but in the end, you find that only one person understands, and that is enough.

所谓理想与现实之间的差距，就是夹起来以为是块肉，咬下去才知道原来是块姜。
18. The gap between ideal and reality is like picking up something thinking it’s a piece of meat, but when you bite into it, you realize it’s actually a piece of ginger.

我们开始都一样，斤斤计较，伪装成随其自然。我们后来也一样，尽过全力，才可以接受失去。
19. We all start the same, being overly concerned with trivial matters and pretending to be carefree. Later, we are the same, having given our all, we can accept the loss.

人类在对待感情上最成熟的标志就是能分清爱和不甘心的区别。
1. The most mature sign in human emotions is the ability to distinguish between love and unwillingness to give up.

“归属感”是你强烈地想和他在一起，“安全感”是你觉得他强烈地想和你在一起，“幸福感”是彼此都强烈的想在一起，而最终走在了一起。
“A sense of belonging” means you desperately want to be with him, “a sense of security” means you feel he desperately wants to be with you, and “happiness” is when both of you desperately want to be together and eventually end up together.

不要轻易向任何人解释你自己，爱你的人不介意，恨你的人不会信！
2. Never easily explain yourself to anyone; those who love you don’t mind, and those who hate you won’t believe it!

怎么应对负面情绪？可以听歌，也可以看书。孤独无助时，不要逃避，也不要立马找人倾诉。静下来是最好的办法，如果连音乐和书都无法让你静下来，就去洗把脸想想初衷，你一定能想起自己是谁，这就是我的答案。如果以上都无效的话，那就去跑步，漫漫长路会告诉你答案。
3. How to deal with negative emotions? You can listen to music or read books. When you feel lonely and helpless, don’t run away or immediately seek someone to talk to. Calming down is the best solution. If even music and books can’t calm you down, go wash your face and think about your original intentions. You will surely remember who you are; this is my answer. If none of these work, go for a run; the long road will tell you the answer.

愿你漂泊的时候会有人送你酒喝，孤独的时候总有人陪你唱歌。
4. May you have someone to offer you a drink when you are wandering, and someone to sing with you when you are lonely.

有时候不是对方不在乎你，而是你把对方看得太重。有时候总感觉别人忽略了自己，其实可能是自己太闲了。
5. Sometimes it’s not that the other person doesn’t care about you, but that you take them too seriously. Sometimes you feel ignored by others, but it might be because you are too idle.

相爱就是，无论是一米八还是两米二宽的床，我们都只睡一米。
6. Being in love means that, whether it’s a 1.8-meter or 2.2-meter wide bed, we only sleep on a 1-meter space.

看清一个人何必去揭穿；讨厌一个人又何必去翻脸。活着，总有看不惯的人，就如别人看不惯我们。活着，说简单其实很简单，笑看得失才会海阔天空；心有透明才会春暖花开。人生如此而已。
7. There’s no need to expose someone when you see through them; there’s no need to turn against someone when you dislike them. In life, there are always people we can’t stand, just as others can’t stand us. Life is actually very simple; only by laughing at gains and losses can we have a broader horizon; only with a transparent heart can we have a warm spring. That’s all there is to life.

男人对女人的伤害，不一定是他爱上了别人，而是他在她有所期待的时候让她失望，在她脆弱的时候没有扶她一把。
8. A man’s hurt to a woman is not necessarily because he falls in love with someone else, but because he disappoints her when she has expectations and doesn’t support her when she is vulnerable.

那么多自己过的日子都过过来了，怕什么，总会有人把剩下的所有节日一个不落的陪你过完。
9. You’ve been through so many days on your own; what’s there to be afraid of? There will always be someone to accompany you through all the remaining holidays.

人穷尽一生追寻另一个人类，共度一生的事，我无法理解。或许我自己太有意思，无需他人陪。祝你们在对方身上得到的快乐，与我给自己的一样多。
10. I can’t understand the idea of spending one’s entire life chasing another human being to spend a lifetime together. Perhaps I am too interesting on my own, and I don’t need anyone else’s company. I wish you as much happiness in each other as I have in myself.

有些人是有很多机会相见的，却总找借口推脱，想见的时候已经没机会了。有些事是有很多机会去做的，却一天一天推迟，想做的时候却发现没机会了。
11. Some people have many opportunities to meet but always make excuses to put it off, only to find that there’s no chance when they finally want to meet. Some things have many opportunities to do but are postponed day by day, only to find no chance when they finally want to do them.
有些爱给了你很多机会，却不在意、不在乎，想重视的时候已经没机会爱了。
12. Some love gives you many opportunities, but you don’t care or pay attention, and when you want to cherish it, there’s no chance to love anymore.

别等到明天再努力，只有努力过完今天的人，才会有明天。
13. Don’t wait until tomorrow to work hard; only those who work hard to finish today will have a tomorrow.

我爱他，是因为他像爱情本身应有的样子。
14. I love him because he is like love itself.

有些人之所以不断成长，就绝对是有一种坚持下去的力量。好读书，肯下功夫，不仅读，还做笔记。人要成长，必有原因，背后的努力与积累一定数倍于普通人。所以，关键还在于自己。
15. Some people keep growing because there is definitely a force that keeps them going. They love reading, are willing to put in the effort, not only read but also take notes. If a person wants to grow, there must be a reason; the effort and accumulation behind it must be several times greater than that of ordinary people. So, the key still lies in oneself.

漂亮和美丽是两回事。一双眼睛可以不漂亮，但眼神可以美丽。一副不够标志的面容可以有可爱的神态，一副不完美的身材可以有好看的仪态和举止。这都在于一个灵魂的丰富和坦荡。或许美化灵魂有不少途径，但我想，阅读是其中易走的，不昂贵的，不须求助他人的捷径。
16. Being pretty and beautiful are two different things. A pair of eyes may not be pretty, but the gaze can be beautiful. An imperfect face can have a lovely expression, and an imperfect figure can have good manners and demeanor. This all depends on the richness and openness of a soul. There may be many ways to beautify the soul, but I think reading is one of the easiest, least expensive, and most accessible shortcuts that doesn’t require asking others for help.

世界旅行不像它看上去的那么美好，只是在你从所有炎热和狼狈中归来之后，你忘记了所受的折磨，回忆着看见过的不可思议的景色，它才是美好的。
1. World travel is not as beautiful as it seems. It’s only after you return from all the heat and embarrassment that you forget the torment and remember the incredible scenery you’ve seen, making it beautiful.

宁可去碰壁，也不能只在家面壁。是狼就要练好牙，是羊就要练好腿。什么是奋斗？奋斗就是每一天很难，可一年比一年容易。不奋斗就是每天都很容易，可一年比一年难。能干的人，不在情绪上计较，只在做事上认真。无能的人，不在做事上认真，只在情绪上计较！
2. Better to bump into a wall than to face the wall at home. If you are a wolf, train your teeth well; if you are a sheep, train your legs well. What is struggle? Struggle means every day is hard, but it gets easier year by year. Without struggle, every day is easy, but it gets harder year by year. Capable people don’t care about emotions, but focus on doing things seriously; incapable people don’t focus on doing things seriously, but care about emotions.

可是，当走出幻境，你却发现一切不过是自己的一帘幽梦，你所想所念的那个人，他根本就没有为你的深情而有丝毫的牵动，一切都是那么的云淡风轻，无关痛痒。
3. However, when you step out of the illusion, you find that everything is just a dream of yours. The person you think and miss has not been moved by your deep feelings at all. Everything is so light and irrelevant.

最怕听“顺其自然”这个说辞。本没有什么自然可顺，方向都是发于心，只是看够不够勇敢。多数时候我们都会美化自己的选择，或找一个美化的词当借口。运气的人会醒过来，再重拾勇气，没那么运气的一路昏睡到时光尽头。所谓衰老，是指放弃。
4. I am most afraid of hearing the phrase “let it be.” There is no nature to follow; the direction comes from the heart, and it depends on whether you are brave enough. Most of the time, we beautify our choices or find a beautifying excuse. Lucky people will wake up and regain their courage, while the unlucky ones will sleep until the end of time. What we call aging is giving up.

不要因为他人的怀疑，而给自己烦恼；也不要因为他人的无知，而痛苦了你自己。
5. Don’t let others’ doubts bother you; don’t let others’ ignorance cause you pain.

心如简，在冷漠世情里，惟愿拥有一颗素真之心。也愿结交周遭知友，小聚，预约烂漫，但，赏心只需两三枝。适时地给予彼此自由空间，你会呼吸到山野吹来的清风，带着一丝野菊花的芬芳。
6. With a simple heart, in the indifferent world, I wish to have a sincere heart. I also wish to make friends with those around me, to gather and enjoy the beauty together, but to appreciate the heart, only two or three branches are needed. Give each other space at the right time, and you will breathe the fresh air from the mountains and fields, with a hint of wild chrysanthemum fragrance.

我从来没有招惹你，你为什么要来招惹我？既然招惹了，为什么半途而废？
7. I never provoked you, so why did you come to provoke me? Since you have provoked me, why give up halfway?

他们刚离开时，你无时不刻告诉自己，生活要继续，淡忘他们。然后你发现根本无法淡忘，不禁悲伤。几年后，你发现竟然真的淡忘了，不禁更悲伤。
8. When they first left, you told yourself all the time that life must go on and forget them. Then you found that you couldn’t forget them at all, which made you sad. A few years later, you found that you really had forgotten them, which made you even sadder.

不能让失败来限制你，必须让失败来开导你。除非付出心血，否则什么奇迹也不会发生。
9. Don’t let failure limit you; let failure guide you. Unless you put in the effort, no miracles will happen.

走的理由，却愿意停留，才是爱的最好理由。
10. The best reason to stay in love is when you have a reason to leave but choose to stay.

“时间应该多放在打理真感情上，交些真性情的朋友，一起经历些难忘的事情。不是所有人都需要成为朋友的，把真心都给值得的人吧，毕竟知己一二抵过千百个泛泛之交。”
11. “Time should be spent on nurturing true friendships, making friends with genuine personalities, and experiencing unforgettable things together. Not everyone needs to be friends; give your sincerity to those who are worth it, after all, one or two confidants are better than hundreds of casual acquaintances.”

走错了路，要记得回头；爱错了人，要懂得放手。人心都是相对的，以真换真；感情都是相互的，用心暖心。只是一起走过一段路而已，何必把怀念弄的
12. If you take the wrong path, remember to turn back; if you love the wrong person, learn to let go. People’s hearts are relative, exchanging sincerity for sincerity; feelings are mutual, warming each other with care. It’s just a journey together, why make the memories so heavy?
我一直相信释迦牟尼说的一句话：“无论你遇见谁，他都是你生命该出现的人，绝非偶然，他一定会教会你一些什么”。所以我也相信：“无论我走到哪里，那都是我该去的地方，经历一些我该经历的事，遇见我该遇见的人”
13. I have always believed in a saying by Sakyamuni: “No matter who you meet, they are the people you are supposed to meet in your life, not by chance. They will teach you something.” So I also believe, “No matter where I go, it is the place I am supposed to be, experiencing the things I am supposed to experience, and meeting the people I am supposed to meet.”

要挟，喝斥，都是一种情绪暴力。当有人对你使用情绪暴力，勇敢说不，并请他滚蛋。
14. Coercion and scolding are forms of emotional violence. When someone uses emotional violence against you, bravely say no and ask them to leave.

人就是这样，好一下，坏一下，高兴一阵，痛苦一阵，在自知冷暖中，我们慢慢学会了隐忍，日子就不觉得难过了~
15. People go through ups and downs, moments of happiness and pain. In knowing our own strengths and weaknesses, we slowly learn to endure, and life becomes less difficult.

一个人的豁达，体现在落魄的时候。一个人的涵养，体现在愤怒的时候。一个人的体贴，体现在悲伤的时候。一个人的成熟，体现在抉择的时候。谁都愿意做自己喜欢的事情，可是，做你该做的事情，才叫成长。
1. A person’s open-mindedness is reflected in times of frustration. A person’s self-restraint is shown in moments of anger. A person’s consideration is demonstrated in times of sadness. A person’s maturity is evident when making choices. Everyone wants to do what they like, but growing up means doing what you should do.

爱一个人，在一起时会莫名的失落。喜欢一个人，永远是欢乐；爱一个人，你会常常流泪。喜欢一个人，当你想起他会微微一笑；爱一个人，当你想起他会对着天空发呆。喜欢一个人，是看到了他的优点；爱一个人，是包容了他的缺点。喜欢，是一种心情；爱，是一种感情。
2. Loving someone can make you feel inexplicably lost when you’re together. Liking someone is always joyful; loving someone, you often shed tears. When you like someone, you’ll smile when you think of them; when you love someone, you’ll stare blankly at the sky. Liking someone means seeing their strengths; loving someone means accepting their flaws. Liking is a feeling; love is an emotion.

现在看来，能在旅途中留下记录，是一件多么好的事情。照片，文字，书，还有感情。这些都是时光曾经存在的印。我们的生命，亦是一段看不到终点也无法有归途的长路。
3. Now it seems that leaving a record of the journey is such a wonderful thing. Photos, words, books, and emotions are all marks of the passage of time. Our lives are also a long road with no visible end or return.

我们常常为错过一些东西而感到惋惜，但其实，人生的玄妙，常常超出你的预料，无论什么时候，你都要相信，一切都是最好的安排，坚持，努力，勇敢追求，风景变幻，人世无常，顺其自然的力量，神秘，莫测，闪着光，就这样突然地把惊喜带到你的世界中来。
4. We often regret missing something, but the mystery of life often exceeds your expectations. No matter when, you must believe that everything is the best arrangement. Keep going, work hard, and bravely pursue. The changing scenery and the impermanence of the world, the power of nature, mysterious and unpredictable, shining, suddenly bringing surprises into your world.

爱掺杂着各种感觉，但这些感觉是变幻无常的，它们不是爱的本身，而是爱的温度，但只要你愿意，就能决定以什么样的态度对待对方。上善若水，从善如流，随缘随心。
5. Love is mixed with various feelings, but these feelings are changeable. They are not love itself, but the temperature of love. As long as you are willing, you can decide the attitude to treat each other with. The supreme good is like water, and being kind is like flowing water, following the heart and fate.

我以为终有一天，我会彻底将爱情忘记，将你忘记，可是，忽然有一天，我听到了一首旧歌，我的眼泪就下来了，因为这首歌，我们一起听过。我们始终都在练习微笑，终于变成不敢哭的人。
6. I thought that one day I would completely forget love and forget you, but suddenly one day, I heard an old song, and my tears fell because we had listened to it together. We always practice smiling, and finally, we become people who dare not cry.

人生无论是走到生命的哪一个阶段，我们都应该喜欢那段时光，交付那段时光该交付的情感，也完成那个阶段该履行的承诺。
7. No matter which stage of life we reach, we should enjoy that time, give the emotions that should be given, and fulfill the promises that should be fulfilled.

人在20岁的时候，总是愿意相信一句话：生活在别处。你轻易地放弃一份工作，轻易地放弃一段爱情，轻易地放弃一个朋友，莫不是因为这种相信。可惜人要到很久之后才能明白，这世上并不存在传说中的“别处”。你所拥有的，也不过是你手上的这些。而你兜兜转转最终得到的，也不过是你在第一个站台错过的。
8. At 20 years old, people always believe in the saying: life is elsewhere. You easily give up a job, a love, or a friend, all because of this belief. Unfortunately, it takes a long time to understand that there is no such thing as the legendary “elsewhere.” What you have is what you hold in your hands, and what you finally get is what you missed at the first stop.

有的路，是脚去走。有的路，要心去走。绊住脚的，往往不是荆棘和石头，而是心。所以，看起来是路铺展在我们眼前，实际上，是心扑腾在路上。
9. Some roads are walked by feet, some roads are walked by the heart. What often trips you up is not thorns and stones, but the heart. So, it seems that the road stretches out before us, but in reality, it is the heart that flutters on the journey.

需要海枯石烂的山盟海誓，只需一生一世的默默相守；不需要多么奢华的烛光晚餐，只需两个人，一桌粗茶淡饭；不需要有座别墅，面朝大海，春暖花开，只需一套小小房子，落地窗，一米阳光；不需要鲜艳，美丽的玫瑰花，只需给我一个宽厚的肩膀。这就是爱，平淡却幸福着；这就是爱，简单并快乐着。
10. You don’t need promises of eternal love; you just need a lifetime of quiet companionship. You don’t need luxurious candlelit dinners; you just need two people and a simple meal. You don’t need a villa with a view of the sea and blooming flowers in spring; you just need a small house with floor-to-ceiling windows and a meter of sunlight. You don’t need bright and beautiful roses; just give me a broad shoulder. This is love, plain yet happy; this is love, simple and joyful.

你那么擅长安慰他人，一定度过了很多自己安慰自己的日子吧。
11. You’re so good at comforting others; you must have spent many days comforting yourself.

有一些人，这一辈子都不会在一起，但是有一种感觉，却可以藏在心里守一辈子；在一起的时候需要两个人做决定，分开时只需一个人；婚姻不是一个里程碑，而是一个双方相处的过程，是另外一种人生的开始；因为有风有雨，幸福更值得珍惜，人总是会活出一个方法，等待属于自己幸福。
1. 有一些人，这一辈子都不会在一起 - There are some people who will never be together in their lifetime. 2. 但是有一种感觉，却可以藏在心里守一辈子 - But there is a feeling that can be hidden in the heart and cherished for a lifetime. 3. 在一起的时候需要两个人做决定，分开时只需一个人 - It takes two people to make a decision when together, but only one person when apart. 4. 婚姻不是一个里程碑，而是一个双方相处的过程，是另外一种人生的开始 - Marriage is not a milestone, but a process of coexistence between two people, marking the beginning of another kind of life. 5. 因为有风有雨，幸福更值得珍惜 - Because there are winds and rains, happiness is even more worth cherishing. 6. 人总是会活出一个方法，等待属于自己幸福 - People will always find a way to live and wait for their own happiness.

真正的爱情，不是付出全部，而是让自己成为更好的人。找个让你开心一辈子的人，才是爱情的目标。最好的，往往就是在你身边最久的。所以选爱人不需要太多标准，三样：不骗你，不伤害你，和陪着你。
1. True love is not about giving everything, but about becoming a better person. Finding someone who makes you happy for a lifetime is the goal of love. The best is often the one who stays by your side the longest. So, there’s no need for too many criteria when choosing a partner, just three: not lying to you, not hurting you, and being with you.

遇到你真正爱的人时，要努力争取和他相伴一生的机会，因为当他离去时，一切都来不及了；遇到了你曾经爱过的人时，记得微笑向他感激，因为他是曾经让你更懂爱的人。
2. When you meet someone you truly love, strive to have the opportunity to spend your life with them, because once they’re gone, it’s too late.

生命中总会有无数个擦肩而过，不是每个相遇都能凝结成相守，不是每个相邀都能转化成相知。一辈子那么长，生活中变数那么多。幸好我们总保有一点对于永远的奢望，不至于错过下一次爱情来的时候。
3. When you encounter someone you once loved, remember to smile and be grateful, because they once made you understand love more deeply.

不管活到什么岁数，总有太多思索、烦恼与迷惘。一个人如果失去这些，安于现状，才是真正意义上的青春的完结。
4. There will always be countless missed encounters in life. Not every meeting can turn into companionship, not every invitation can become mutual understanding. Life is so long, and there are so many uncertainties. Fortunately, we always hold onto a bit of hope for eternity, so as not to miss the next time love comes.

不管世界多么拥挤，都要让心自由跳动。因为生命的每一瞬间，都存于心，贮于忆。那些拥有，那些给予，那些珍贵的收藏，都会拥于怀，融于情，长眠于心。一些人，一些情，一些事，都装在心里，会累，会挤，懂得卸载，给心一个空间，让心得以喘息，让阳光给以沐浴。
5. No matter how old you are, there will always be too many thoughts, worries, and confusions. If a person loses these and is content with the status quo, that is the true end of youth.

在这个滥情的年代，一声”亲爱的“”充其量也就是个你好，一句“下次请你吃饭”顶多算个谢谢，何必太认真。
6. No matter how crowded the world is, let your heart beat freely. Because every moment of life exists in the heart and is stored in memories. Those possessions, those gifts, those precious collections will all be held in the heart, melted in emotions, and rest in the depths of the soul. Some people, some emotions, some events, all stored in the heart, can be tiring and crowded. Learn to unload, give the heart some space, let it catch its breath, and let the sun bathe it.

我以为要相爱的两个人分手，至少要有一件轰轰烈烈的大事，比如说第三者，比如说突然发现我是他爸的私生女，比如说他或者我得了绝症……但其实不用，不安、忙碌、疲乏就够了。
7. In this age of promiscuity, a “dear” is just a hello, and an “I’ll treat you to dinner next time” is just a thank you. There’s no need to take it too seriously.

后来因为年纪，因为距离，因为朋友圈的关系，因为各种原因，很难再说出一句我喜欢你。而那时才会怀念起当初的狂热饱满和肆无惮忌。你说真可惜，我们怎么都渐渐丧失了喜欢一个人的能力。其实我们只是多了保护自己的警惕，习惯了远远旁观的淡定。
8. I thought it would take a grand event for two people in love to break up, such as an affair,突然发现我是他爸的私生女 (discovering I’m his father’s illegitimate daughter), or one of us getting a terminal illness… But it doesn’t. Anxiety, busyness, and fatigue are enough.

这个世界上，从来就没有最好的，只有最合适的。比如云朵和天空，微风和草地，比如我眼中的你，以及，你眼中的我。
9. Later, because of age, distance, social circles, and various reasons, it becomes difficult to say “I like you.” It’s then that we’ll miss the passion and recklessness of the past. You say it’s a pity that we’ve gradually lost the ability to like someone. In fact, we’ve just become more vigilant in protecting ourselves and accustomed to calmly observing from a distance.

一生只谈三次恋爱最好，一次懵懂，一次刻骨，一次一生。我多希望这三次都是和你。
10. In this world, there has never been the best, only the most suitable. Like clouds and sky, gentle breeze and grasslands, like you in my eyes, and me in your eyes.

总有一个人会举着戒指对你笑，说着余生请你多指教。
1. There will always be someone holding a ring, smiling at you and saying, “Please guide me for the rest of my life.”

有人跟我说每个人在一段时间内经常保持联络，没事也会聊天聚会的朋友数量不会超过十五个，因为人的精力都有限。我想了想还真差不多，那么多乍见之欢无话不谈，最后大部分都也就是互相点赞。人与人走散，陌路，这是再正常不过的事，大部分缘分都不会太长久的，所以珍惜此刻还有话说，还互相陪伴的人吧。
2. Someone told me that within a certain period, the number of friends you often keep in touch with and chat or hang out with even when there’s nothing particular to discuss will not exceed fifteen, as human energy is limited. I thought about it and it seems to be true. So many brief encounters and endless conversations eventually turn into just giving each other likes. People drift apart and become strangers, which is the most normal thing in the world. Most destinies won’t last long, so cherish those who still have something to say and accompany each other at the moment.

若不抽出时间来创造自己想要的生活，你最终将不得不花费大量的时间，来应付自己不想要的生活。
3. If you don’t make time to create the life you want, you will eventually have to spend a lot of time dealing with the life you don’t want.

故事很长，我长话短说，我喜欢你，很久了。
4. The story is long, but I’ll make it short: I’ve liked you for a long time.

不管发生什么，都不要放弃，坚持走下去，肯定会有意想不到的风景。也许不是你本来想走的路，也不是你本来想登临的山顶，可另一条路有另一条路的风景，不同的山顶也一样会有美丽的日出，不要念念不忘原来的路。
5. No matter what happens, don’t give up and keep going. There will definitely be unexpected scenery along the way. It may not be the path you originally wanted to take, nor the summit you originally wanted to reach, but another path has its own scenery, and different summits will also have beautiful sunrises. Don’t be fixated on the original path.

想离开的人，总是有千万种理由；想陪伴你的，怎么赶也赶不走。
6. Those who want to leave always have thousands of reasons; those who want to accompany you can’t be driven away.

并不觉得，一定要有伴侣才叫圆满。如果感情生活充满怀疑和眼泪，还不如单身却自爱饱满。无论你现在单或双，内心都要对自己充满信任，要独立、平静。虐爱的请有勇气放手，单身的骄傲自己不凑和，相爱的感恩珍惜。有没有伴侣，真的不是幸福的唯一标准，真正的幸福是内心的平静安稳。
7. I don’t think one must have a partner to be fulfilled. If a relationship is filled with doubt and tears, it’s better to be single and full of self-love. Whether you are single or in a relationship, you must trust yourself and be independent and calm. If you are in an abusive relationship, have the courage to let go; if you are single, be proud of not settling; if you are in love, be grateful and cherish each other. Having or not having a partner is not the only standard of happiness. True happiness comes from inner peace and stability.

既然是岁月，就免不了炎凉荣枯；既然是人生，就免不了爱恨情仇。坦坦荡荡地走过，平平淡淡地结束，生命犹如花朵，灿烂地绽放，壮美地凋零，真实的人生面目，顺其自然，云淡风轻。
8. Since it’s time, there will inevitably be ups and downs; since it’s life, there will inevitably be love and hate. Walk through it with an open mind, end it calmly, life is like a flower, blooming brilliantly and withering beautifully. The true face of life is to go with the flow, light as clouds and gentle as the wind.

不要认为命运是铁打的一成不变，命运就是一块没有修理的草坪，仔细打理，仔细雕琢，不要着急，我们在人间几十年呢！沉住气，慢慢来，一定会满心满意，顺其自然。
9. Don’t think that fate is unchangeable and set in stone. Fate is like an unrefined lawn, carefully tended and sculpted. Don’t worry, we have decades in this world! Stay calm and take your time, you will surely be satisfied and content, just let things take their course.

生活啊，轻松一些，咯嘣干脆点，快乐一些，着急什么啊？
10. Life, be more relaxed, more straightforward, happier, and in less of a hurry, why worry so much?

如果还记得，也请你忘记。生活里的负担足以让你彻夜难眠。记得那些善良和感动，就足够一生去回味。人生是为了能够偿还前生的约定，小荷才露尖尖角，何苦再结烦恼缘，万千心事无处诉，不如就此忘了好。
11. If you still remember, please forget. The burdens in life are enough to keep you awake all night. Remembering those moments of kindness and touching emotions is enough to savor throughout your life. Life is about fulfilling the promises of a previous life. The young lotus has just shown its tip, why bother creating more troubles? With countless worries and nowhere to express them, it’s better to just forget.

夜赏天河星汉缥缈罗列，昼品春秋炎凉无常轮换。醒了，喝茶去；醉了，喝茶去；恼了，喝茶去；笑了，喝茶去。
12. At night, enjoy the ethereal stars of the Milky Way; during the day, savor the ever-changing seasons of spring and autumn. When awake, go drink tea; when drunk, go drink tea; when annoyed, go drink tea; when happy, go drink tea.

说过的话、发生的事，所有的一切都让它随风飘散吧，不必太在意。无论是喜悦或是悲伤、成功或是失败，一切都会成为过去，成为历史中的一页，成为我们生命旅途中的一隅风景。
13. Let go of the words spoken and things that have happened, don’t take them too seriously. Whether it’s joy or sorrow, success or failure, everything will become the past, a page in history, and a corner of the scenery in our life’s journey.

生活就是你微笑一下，然后再去回味。生活也就是你痛苦一会，休息一会，然后再去擦掉眼泪。最后才明白，生活就是哭了累了，继续活。
14. Life is about smiling, then savoring the moment. It’s also about experiencing pain, taking a break, and then wiping away tears. In the end, you’ll realize that life is about crying, getting tired, and continuing to live.

幸福不是房子有多大，而是房里的笑声有多甜。
15. Happiness is not about how big the house is, but how sweet the laughter inside the house is.

优秀是一种习惯，放弃是一种智慧，笑而不语是一种豁达，痛而不言是一种修养。
1. Excellence is a habit, giving up is a wisdom, and smiling without speaking is a kind of open-mindedness.

我们曾经认为自己是那么的高贵，或者公正，或者善良，更多的时间往往把自己的自尊凌驾于别人的承担之上，于是，事与愿违，生出了许多的无名烦恼。让命运轻松一些，朴素一些，你会发现身边开放的每一朵花都在轻松地开放。
2. We once thought we were so noble, or just, or kind, and more often than not, we put our self-esteem above others’ responsibilities, thus leading to contrary outcomes and many nameless troubles.

这世上有一条路无论如何也不能走，那就是歧途，只要走错一步结果都会是粉身碎骨。
3. Let fate be more relaxed and simple, and you will find that every flower around you is blooming effortlessly.

人生最大的勇敢之一，就是经历欺骗和伤害之后，还能保持信任和爱的能力。
4. There is one path in this world that should never be taken, and that is the wrong path; taking one wrong step can lead to disastrous consequences.

向往天上的行云，青草边的流水，羡慕它们的自然安详，和谐静谧。生活就应如行云流水般顺其自然，生活中点滴的残缺，并不应影响人生的旅途，“花自飘零水自流”，人生本不完美，又何必庸人自扰。
5. One of the greatest acts of courage in life is to maintain the ability to trust and love after experiencing deception and harm.

如果我做不了大事，我至少能把小事做得大气一点。
1. If I can’t do great things, I can at least make the small things more grand.

我的零食分你一半，你就一直在我身边好不好？再不行，零食都归你，你归我。
2. I’ll share half of my snacks with you, will you stay by my side? If not, I’ll give you all the snacks and you belong to me.

真心觉得这世界上没有那种脚不沾地忙够12个小时，回到家中还觉得空虚寂寞冷的单身男女。充实到这份上，一个人时真的再没什么比泡澡发呆冰啤酒更惬意的事了。空虚寂寞冷，都是因为懒散堕落闲。
3. I truly believe there are no single men and women who work non-stop for 12 hours, yet still feel empty and lonely when they return home. When you’re fulfilled to this extent, there’s nothing more enjoyable than taking a bath, daydreaming, and sipping cold beer alone. Loneliness and emptiness are all due to laziness and decadence.

十年前你是谁，一年前你是谁，甚至昨天你是谁都不重要，重要的是今天你是谁，以及明天你将成为谁。
4. It doesn’t matter who you were ten years ago, a year ago, or even yesterday. What matters is who you are today and who you will become tomorrow.

你帮人100分，当有一天你只肯帮80了，他便会清空你所有的恩，宁愿选择只帮他70分的人做朋友。一粒米养恩人，一石米养仇人，老人说的话没错。不要动不动就倾其所有，留一些骄傲与心疼给自己，记得了，最凉不过人心。
5. If you help someone 100%, and one day you only help them 80%, they will erase all your kindness and choose to be friends with someone who only helps them 70%. A grain of rice nurtures a friend, while a stone of rice nurtures an enemy. The old saying is right. Don’t give everything you have all at once; keep some pride and love for yourself. Remember, the coldest thing is human hearts.

人不能因为害怕失去，就不去拥有。死，只是一个结果，怎么活着才是最重要的。
6. One cannot stop possessing because of the fear of losing. Death is just a result; how to live is what truly matters.

下决心减肥坚持不到一星期就放弃了，说好不迟到，第二天还是睡过头，许诺照顾好身体，转脸还是胡喝海吃晚睡，人最没用的就是对自己不负责任，连答应自己的事都办不到，还总抱怨世界都在欺骗你。
7. You decide to lose weight but give up within a week, promise not to be late but still oversleep the next day, vow to take care of your health but still indulge in unhealthy eating and staying up late. The most useless thing is being irresponsible to yourself, not being able to keep your promises, and then complaining that the world is deceiving you.

真正的智慧是接纳，外不起分别，内不生对立；不与天斗，不与人争，不和自己闹别扭。
8. True wisdom is acceptance, without discrimination or opposition; not fighting with heaven, not competing with others, and not being at odds with yourself.

小时候我们拼命想长大，长大后才发现还是童年最无瑕；读书时我们做梦都想工作，工作后才明白还是寒窗时光最留恋；单身时羡慕别人出双入对，结婚后才懂得单身的自由也是一种无比的幸福……我们是一路向前走，走过了也就错过了，唯有珍惜即时的拥有，生命的记忆里才会少一些悔与恨。
9. When we were young, we desperately wanted to grow up, but as we grew older, we realized that childhood was the most flawless; when we were studying, we dreamed of working, but after working, we understood that the school days were the most memorable; when we were single, we envied couples, but after getting married, we learned that the freedom of being single is also an incredible happiness… We keep moving forward, missing out along the way. Only by cherishing what we have at the moment can we have fewer regrets and hatred in the memories of our lives.

那时我们还年轻。穿过残垣断壁苍松古柏，我们来到山崖上。沐浴着夕阳，心静如水，我们向云雾飘荡的远方眺望。其实啥也看不到，生活的悲欢离合远在地平线以外，而眺望是一种青春的姿态。
10. Back then, we were still young. We crossed through the ruins, ancient pines, and cypresses, and arrived at the cliff. Bathed in the sunset, our hearts as calm as water, we gazed into the distance where the clouds and mist drifted. In reality, we couldn’t see anything; life’s joys and sorrows were far beyond the horizon, and gazing was a posture of youth.

还是先想着如何使自己变得更优秀吧，别整天奢望会遇见什么对的人，你还太年轻，就算遇见了也抓不住。你优秀了，自然有对的人与你并肩。
11. Focus on becoming better first, instead of always hoping to meet the right person. You’re still too young, and even if you meet them, you won’t be able to hold on. When you become better, the right person will naturally stand by your side.

我天性不宜交际。在多数场合，我不是觉得对方乏味，就是害怕对方觉得我乏味。可是我既不愿忍受对方的乏味，也不愿费劲使自己显得有趣，那都太累了。我独处时最轻松，因为我不觉得自己乏味，即使乏味，也自己承受，不累及他人，无需感到不安。
12. I’m not naturally good at socializing. In most situations, I either find the other person boring or worry that they find me boring. But I don’t want to endure their dullness or make an effort to be interesting, as it’s too tiring. I feel most relaxed when I’m alone because I don’t find myself boring, and if I am, I bear it myself without burdening others and without feeling uneasy.

我们都习惯于和亲近的人发脾气，而把温和的一面留给了陌生人。因为知道亲近的人不会转身，不舍得离开，没法轻易的断掉你们之间的联系，就可以肆无忌惮的做所谓的“自己”。你要明白，你说出口的那些伤害总有一天会疼了自己也疼了别人，所以想要开心的在一起，就请好好的说每一句话。
13. We are all used to losing our tempers with those close to us, while keeping our gentle side for strangers. Because we know that those close to us won’t turn away, leave, or easily break the connection between you, we can recklessly be the so-called “ourselves.” You should understand that the hurtful words you speak will one day hurt both yourself and others. So if you want to be happy together, please speak every word carefully.

我喜欢听老年人说自己幼小时候的事，人到老年还不能忘的记忆，大约有点像太湖底下捞起的石头，是洗净尘泥后的硬瘦剔透，上面附着一生岁月所冲积洗刷出的浪痕。
1. I like to listen to the elderly talk about their childhood, for those memories that still linger in their old age are like stones from the bottom of Lake Tai, washed clean of mud and dust, with the traces of waves accumulated and washed by the years.

如果很喜欢很喜欢一个人，那么，保持一个朋友的距离就够了，这样可以一辈子。
2. If you truly like someone, then, maintaining a friend’s distance is enough, so you can be together for a lifetime.

有时候，选择与某人保持距离，不是因为不在乎，而是因为清楚的知道，他不属于你。
3. Sometimes, choosing to keep a distance from someone is not because you don’t care, but because you clearly know they don’t belong to you.

很多时候，不经意知道一些事后，表面装得无所谓，用微笑去掩饰，其实心里比什么都疼。
4. Many times, when you inadvertently learn something, you pretend to be indifferent, using a smile to cover it up, but in fact, your heart aches more than anything.

生命中，有一个人可以去惦念，是缘分；有一个人惦念自己，是幸福。
5. In life, having someone to care about is fate; having someone who cares about you is happiness.

爱情，本就是件宁缺勿滥的事，急不得。有爱情，便全心对待，没有爱情，也一个人惬意。
6. Love is, by nature, something that should not be rushed or forced. With love, treat it wholeheartedly; without love, enjoy your own company.

感情里，总会有分分合合；生命里，总会有来来去去。学会：浅喜欢，静静爱，深深思索，淡淡释怀。
7. In relationships, there will always be ups and downs; in life, there will always be comings and goings. Learn to: lightly like, quietly love, deeply ponder, and gently let go.

跟自己说声对不起，因为曾经为了别人难为自己。
8. Say sorry to yourself, because you once made things difficult for yourself for someone else.

得不到的东西就放弃吧！每天想着念着心不疼吗？
9. Give up on things you can’t have! Does it not hurt to think and worry about them every day?

每个人心中都有一团火，路过的人只看到烟。
10. Everyone has a fire in their heart, but passers-by only see the smoke.

愿你有酒可以醉，酒醒有人陪，愿你遇到温柔的姑娘，照顾好你挑剔的胃。
11. May you have wine to get drunk on, and someone to accompany you when you sober up; may you meet a gentle girl who takes good care of your picky stomach.

把圈子变小，把语言变干净，把成绩往上提，把故事往心里收一收。过几年会发现，现在想要的以后你都会有。
12. Make your circle smaller, your language cleaner, your grades higher, and keep your stories inside. In a few years, you’ll find that you’ll have everything you wanted now.

尊敬一个人是要尊敬他的行为，而不是他的年龄。如果一个人的行为不正确，那么不管他多大岁数，都不能尊敬他，反而要去指责他。
13. Respect a person for their actions, not their age. If a person’s actions are not correct, no matter how old they are, you should not respect them, but instead, criticize them.

你之所以会觉得累，是因为你说的比做的多，欲望大过本事。想要改变却又无能为力，想要顺其自然却又无法心安理得。
14. You feel tired because you talk more than you do, and your desires are greater than your abilities. You want to change but feel powerless; you want to let things take their course but cannot find peace.

面对那些嘴贱的人，要么就不理，要么就大胆还击，人生这么短暂，老子凭什么委屈自己去取悦你。
15. Facing those with a sharp tongue, either ignore them or fight back boldly. Life is so short; why should I make myself miserable to please you?

成年人相处和睦，最重要的一点是：不要拿自己的生活方式去要求别人。
16. The most important thing for harmonious relationships among adults is: not to impose your own lifestyle on others.

年纪大了，你会很容易释怀一些事，原谅一个人，懒得计较，不屑动怒，把好多想说的话都埋在心里。反过来讲，适度的天真，冲动，说蠢话，犯二逼，恰恰是你还年轻着的最有力的证明。千万不要苛刻自己的成长，成长是顺其自然的一件事，有时候原谅自己比原谅他人更为重要。
17. As you grow older, you will easily let go of some things, forgive others, be too lazy to argue, disdain anger, and bury many words in your heart. On the other hand,适度的天真 (moderate innocence), impulsiveness, saying foolish things, and making mistakes are the strongest proof of your youth. Never be strict with your growth; growth is a natural process, and sometimes forgiving yourself is more important than forgiving others.

别人稍微一注意你，你就敞开心扉，你觉得这是坦率，其实这是孤独。
18. When someone pays a little attention to you, you open up your heart. You think this is being open, but in fact, it is loneliness.

我感到难过，不是因为你欺骗了我，而是因为我再也不能相信你了。
19. I feel sad, not because you deceived me, but because I can no longer trust you.

我所有的自负都来自我的自卑，所有的英雄主义都来自我内心的软弱，所有的振振有词都因为心中满是怀疑。我假装无情，其实是痛恨自己的深情。我以为人生的意义在于四处游荡流亡，其实只是掩饰至今没有找到愿意驻足的地方。
20. All my conceit comes from my inferiority, all my heroism comes from my inner weakness, and all my self-righteousness is because my heart is full of doubt. I pretend to be ruthless, but in fact, I hate my deep feelings. I thought the meaning of life was to wander and be a refugee, but it was just a cover for not finding a place to settle down so far.

如果你非要拒绝我，请不要那么绝对。因为你的一句“我没有那么喜欢你”，我都可以解读为“我有一点喜欢你”。
1. If you must reject me, please don’t be so absolute. Because your一句 “I don’t like you that much” can be interpreted by me as “I like you a little bit.”

妈妈说：男人是有爱情的，而女人没有，女人是谁对她好，她就跟谁走了。我想了半天，发现这句话是真的。
2. My mother said: Men have love, but women don’t. Women follow whoever is good to them. I thought about it for a long time and found that this statement is true.

人的一切痛苦，本质上都是对自己的无能的愤怒。
3. All human suffering is essentially anger at one’s own incompetence.

有人问我：分手了那么久还记得你的前任吗？怎么说么？记得显得太花心，不记得显得太薄情，其实我觉得，那个人就好比我走路的时候撞上了一个电线杆，很痛，以后走路我都会记住绕着电线杆走，可能很久以后，我都不记得当时撞得有多痛了，可是，那个电线杆，永远都在。
4. Someone asked me: Do you still remember your ex after breaking up for so long? How should I say this? Remembering seems too flirtatious, and not remembering seems too indifferent. In fact, I think that person is like a utility pole I bumped into while walking, which was very painful. From then on, I will remember to walk around the utility pole. Maybe after a long time, I won’t remember the pain, but that utility pole will always be there.

我认同的强大就是：遭受过人生的不幸，但仍期待幸福；受到过别人的背叛，但仍勇敢去爱；看见过世间的丑恶，但仍付出善意。
5. I agree that true strength is: having experienced life’s misfortunes, but still looking forward to happiness; having been betrayed by others, but still bravely loving; having seen the ugliness of the world, but still giving kindness.

真正爱一个人就会觉得，你陪着我的时候，我从没羡慕过任何人。
6. When you truly love someone, you feel that when you are with me, I have never envied anyone else.

女人反感女人终归只有两个原因：嫉妒或者看不起。
7. There are only two reasons for a woman to dislike another woman: jealousy or looking down on them.

你好像瘦了，头发也变长了，背影陌生到让我觉得，见你是上个世纪的事，然后你开口叫我名字，我就想笑，好像自己刚刚放学，只在楼门口等了你五分钟而已。
8. You seem to have lost weight, your hair has grown longer, and your silhouette is so unfamiliar that it makes me feel like seeing you was a century ago. Then you call my name, and I want to laugh, as if I just got out of school and only waited for you for five minutes at the school gate.

你无法决定明天是晴是雨，爱你的人是否还能留在身边，你此刻的坚持能换来什么，但你能决定今天有没有准备好雨伞，有没有好好爱人以及是否足够努力。永远不要只看见前方路途遥远而忘了自己坚持多久才走到这里。今天尽力做的，虽然辛苦，但未来发生的，都是礼物。
9. You can’t decide whether it will be sunny or rainy tomorrow, whether the person who loves you will still be by your side, or what your persistence at this moment can bring. But you can decide whether you are prepared with an umbrella today, whether you love someone well, and whether you are working hard enough. Never forget how far you’ve come just because the road ahead is long. What you do today may be hard, but what happens in the future will be a gift.

人不是从娘胎里出来就一成不变的，相反，生活会逼迫他一次又一次地脱胎换骨。
10. People are not born unchangeable; on the contrary, life will force them to be reborn again and again.

真正被爱的人在爱人眼里是绽放的丁香、航船渔火、学校铃声、山水风景、难以忘怀的谈话、朋友、孩子的周日、消逝的声音、最心爱的衣服、秋天和所有的季节、回忆，是的，回忆是赖以生存的水土。
11. To a loved one, the person they love is like blooming lilacs, ship lights, school bells, landscapes, unforgettable conversations, friends, children’s Sundays, vanished voices, favorite clothes, autumn, and all seasons, memories. Yes, memories are the soil on which love relies.

朋友有两种，一种需要经常见面，否则连话都难接上，感情更淡漠；另一种朋友不必天天联系，三年五载甚至更长，彼此音容模糊，可一朝晤面，宛若朝夕相处。
12. There are two types of friends: one requires frequent meetings, otherwise, it’s hard to continue the conversation and the bond becomes weaker; the other doesn’t need daily contact, even after three to five years or longer, when they meet again, it’s as if they have been together all the time.

努力的意义是什么？是为了看到更大的世界。是为了可以有自由选择人生的机会。是为了以后可以不向讨厌的人低头。是为了能够在自己喜欢的人出现的时候，不至于自卑得抬不起头，而是充满自信，理直气壮地说出那句话：“我知道你很好，但是我也不差。”
13. What is the meaning of striving? It’s to see a bigger world. It’s to have the freedom to choose your own life. It’s to not bow down to people you dislike in the future. It’s to be confident and bold when the person you like appears, instead of being too shy to raise your head, and to say, “I know you are great, but I am not bad either.”

如果别人求我办件事，我实在为难或办不到，拒绝的那一刻真是恨不得给对方磕头。或本来想着帮人的，结果没帮成，也会无比自责。反思了一下，这不仅仅是好心，更是软弱和太想给别人留个好印象。是病！要改！以后不这样了！就让爱恨随人，来去自由，轻松说不。
14. If someone asks me to do something and I can’t or find it difficult, I feel like kowtowing to them when I refuse. Or if I wanted to help but failed, I would blame myself. Reflecting on this, I realized it’s not just kindness, but also weakness and the desire to leave a good impression on others. It’s a problem! I must change! From now on, let love and hate be free, and say no easily.

悄悄地去努力，然后等变厉害之后，蹦出来把曾经看不起自己的人吓一大跳，才是你现在需要当作目标的事。
1. Quietly work hard, and then when you become amazing, surprise those who once looked down on you, is what you should aim for now.

你一定会遇见各种各样的人，各种各样的问题，各种各样的麻烦，防不胜防，不堪其扰。但回过头一想，这样的事情怎么以前没有经历过呢？因为你越来越好了。要知道，你差劲到一定程度的时候，连问题都不会来找你。所以有问题就解决问题吧，搞不死你的只会让你看起来更帅气啊。
2. You will definitely encounter all kinds of people, all kinds of problems, and all kinds of troubles, which are unpredictable and unbearable. But when you think back, why haven’t you experienced such things before? Because you are getting better and better. You know, when you are bad enough, even problems won’t come to you. So, just solve the problems, and what doesn’t kill you will only make you look more handsome.

真正的失望不是怒骂，不是嚎啕大哭，也不是冲你发脾气，而是沉默不语，是你做什么我都觉得和我再也没有任何关系。
3. True disappointment is not anger, not crying, nor throwing a tantrum at you, but silence, and that whatever you do, I feel it has nothing to do with me anymore.

无趣的不是这个世界，而是我们没有坚持那些有趣的活法。
4. The world is not boring, but we fail to persist in those interesting ways of living.

想要不慌不乱地做好手头的事，完成每一件必须完成的任务，慢慢活成自己喜欢的样子。不管是孤身穿越广袤的荒原，还是赤脚走在安静的海边。要每一次想示弱的念头，都发生在我能够忍住的时候。
5. To calmly and orderly accomplish the tasks at hand, complete every necessary task, and slowly become the person you like. Whether it’s crossing vast wastelands alone or walking barefoot on a quiet beach. Let every thought of weakness happen when I can hold back.

对待生命，你不妨大胆一点，因为我们始终要失去它。
6. In dealing with life, you might as well be bold, because we will eventually lose it.

人越是怕丢人，就越是在乎别人的看法。越是在乎别人的看法，就越是会忽略自己的感受。越是忽略自己的感受，就越是像木偶一样拼命活给别人看。最后，一步一步将真实的自我囚禁在了深深的黑暗里。丢失自我，是我们找不到快乐和幸福的根源，也是一切心理问题的根源。
7. The more people are afraid of losing face, the more they care about others’ opinions. The more they care about others’ opinions, the more they ignore their own feelings. The more they ignore their own feelings, the more they live like puppets for others. In the end, they imprison their true selves in the depths of darkness. Losing oneself is the root of our inability to find happiness and the source of all psychological problems.

坚持，赶路，有时是你一个人的事；吹风，听歌，有时世界都跟你没关系。春去秋来，人来人往，你的怪癖好像没人懂。遇见前你生活在孤岛，走出去才发现真的有人会和你喜欢一样的东西，有同样的怪癖。人生是一场阴差阳错的好运气，呐，原来你也在这里。
8. Persistence, traveling, sometimes it’s just you alone; enjoying the breeze, listening to music, sometimes the world has nothing to do with you. Spring comes and goes, people come and go, your quirks seem to be understood by no one. Before meeting, you lived on an isolated island, but when you step out, you find that there are people who really like the same things and have the same quirks as you. Life is a series of fortunate coincidences, and there you are.

无论精神多么独立的人，感情却总是在寻找一种依附，寻找一种归宿。
9. No matter how independent one’s spirit is, emotions are always seeking a sense of attachment and a sense of belonging.

你不能干涉别人的人生，就算是为了对方好。这是他的人生，只有他一个人能决定他的人生。你必须顺应事实，放手成长，你没有必要医治好在成长路上与你擦肩而过的每个人，即使你成为最顶尖的医生，也做不到这样。
10. You cannot interfere with other people’s lives, even for their own good. It’s their life, and only they can decide their own life. You must accept the facts, let go, and grow up. You don’t need to heal everyone who passes by on the road of growth. Even if you become the top doctor, you can’t do that.

我们当中极少数人能做伟大的事情，但是每个人都可以用崇高的爱去做平凡的事。
11. Few of us can do great things, but everyone can do ordinary things with noble love.

你羡慕别人身材好，却放不下手中的高热量食物；你抱怨总没有机会垂青，却忘了自己的拖延、散漫；你向往别人看过的风景，却抱着手机在家宅过一个又一个周末。身材不好就去锻炼，没钱就努力去赚。别把、窘境迁怒于别人，唯一可以抱怨的，只是不够努力的自己。
12. You envy others for their good physique, but you can’t let go of the high-calorie food in your hand; you complain that there are no opportunities, but you forget your procrastination and slackness; you yearn for the scenery others have seen, but you stay at home with your phone, weekend after weekend. If you don’t have a good figure, exercise; if you have no money, work hard to earn it. Don’t blame others for your predicament; the only one you can complain about is yourself, who is not trying hard enough.

就这样，我不断地更换认识的人，也不断地使自己进入不认识的人们之中去。我既不悲观，也不乐观，只是每天早上睁开眼睛迎接新的一天，一个人努力过下去。
13. In this way, I keep changing the people I know and constantly put myself among people I don’t know. I am neither pessimistic nor optimistic; I just open my eyes every morning to welcome a new day and strive to live on my own.

忙，却似乎也没忙成什么，时间被碾得如此之碎，一阵风吹过，稀里哗啦全都不知去向，以至于我试图回想这一年到底干了些什么时，发现自己简直是从一场昏迷中醒来。
1. Busy, yet it seems like I haven’t accomplished much. Time is crushed into such fragments, and a gust of wind blows them all away, leaving me wondering what I’ve done this year, as if waking up from a coma.

感谢时光，不偏不倚，躲过了风口浪尖，让我恰好遇见你。
2. Thank you, time, for being impartial and allowing me to meet you just when I needed it.

踏踏实实找个人一起生活。你喜欢他他喜欢你。没有秘密。没有出轨。没有不开心。性格不合适可以磨合。习惯不一样可以适应。只要都有一颗想一直走下去的决心就好。
3. Find someone to settle down with, who likes you and whom you like. No secrets, no infidelity, no unhappiness. If your personalities don’t match, you can work on them. If your habits are different, you can adapt. As long as you both have the determination to keep going.

树林美丽，幽暗而深邃。但我有诺言，尚待实现。还要奔行百里，方可沉睡。
4. The forest is beautiful, dark, and deep. But I have promises to keep, and miles to go before I sleep.

一个人，生活可以变得好，也可以变得坏；可以活得久，也可以活得不久；可以做一个艺术家，也可以锯木头，没有多大区别。但是有一点，就是他不能面目全非，他不能变成一个鬼，他不能说鬼话、说谎言，他不能在醒来的时候看见自己觉得不堪入目。一个人应该活得是自己并且干净
5. A person’s life can be good or bad; long or short; as an artist or a woodcutter, there’s not much difference. However, one thing is certain: they must not lose their true self, become a ghost, speak lies, or wake up to a repulsive self.

我发现，你无话可说的时候就别说话，在你不知如何回答别人的话的时候就保持沉默，这是生活中一个很好的策略。
6. I’ve found that when you have nothing to say, it’s a good strategy in life to remain silent and not respond when you don’t know how to answer.

所谓白头到老，没什么秘诀。只是在相爱时，存下点感动，在冷战时，懂一些感恩。
7. There’s no secret to growing old together. Just save some touching moments when you’re in love, and practice gratitude during cold wars.

改变要趁早，如果你不想让你的人生将错就错，以及恶性循环的的话。
8. Change must happen early if you don’t want your life to be filled with mistakes and vicious cycles.

治疗悲伤最有效的方法就是学习。当你受到打击，经历挫折，从骨子里颤抖，看到你的世界被人摧毁，体验你的荣誉被踩进下水道，发生这些事情之后，你要学的只有一件事情。学习世事为何如此变化，发生了哪些变化。这是唯一可以让心永不疲惫，永不疏离，永不后悔的事情。
9. The most effective way to heal from sadness is learning. When you’re struck down, experience setbacks, tremble to the core, see your world being destroyed, and feel your honor trampled into the sewer, you only need to learn one thing: why things change and what has changed. This is the only way to keep your heart from being exhausted, distant, or regretful.

你一定得认识到自己想往哪个方向发展，然后一定要对准那个方向出发，要马上。你再也浪费不起多一秒的时间了，你浪费不起。
10. You must recognize the direction you want to go in and set off towards it immediately. You can’t afford to waste another second.

个人需要隐藏多少秘密，才能巧妙地度过一生。这佛光闪闪的高原，三步两步便是天堂，却仍有那么多人，因心事过重而走不动。
11. How many secrets does one need to hide to navigate life skillfully? On this shimmering plateau, heaven is just a few steps away, yet so many people are unable to move forward because their hearts are too heavy.

有时候你会发现，速度与深远似乎是冲突的，当你可以和自己对话，慢慢地储蓄一种情感、酝酿一种情感时，你便不再孤独。“和自己对话”，对的！就是这！我喜欢读书，因为它可以给我一次又一次“和自己对话”，倾听自己内心声音的机会。
12. Sometimes you’ll find that speed and depth seem to be in conflict. When you can have a conversation with yourself and slowly accumulate and nurture emotions, you’re no longer alone. “Talking to oneself” – that’s it! I love reading because it gives me the opportunity to have repeated conversations with myself and listen to my inner voice.

爱字下面有个友字。爱你，我们是情侣；不爱，我们是朋友。我觉得分手之后想要做朋友，不难，但需要时间。
13. The character for “love” has the character for “friend” beneath it. If we love each other, we are lovers; if not, we are friends. I think it’s not difficult to be friends after a breakup, but it takes time.

“初心”一定不是一条路走到黑，不动摇，不怀疑。这样昂首挺胸的自信往往是源于无知。寻找初心的路一定充满了不安而恐惧。在这个世界上，最让人畏惧的恰恰是通向自己的路。
14. “Original intention” is not about walking down a path without wavering or doubt. Such confidence often comes from ignorance. The road to finding one’s original intention is filled with unease and fear. In this world, the most frightening path is the one that leads to oneself.

我们都会变，样子不变，心也会变，许许多多旧友，早已变得如陌生人一般，皆因他们有不同的角色要扮演，去适应生活与环境所需，不得不变。
15. We will all change; even if our appearances remain the same, our hearts will change. Many old friends have become like strangers because they have different roles to play, adapting to life and the environment, and they have no choice but to change.

有些人看起来毫不在乎你，其实你不知道ta忍住了多少次想要联系你的冲动。
1. Some people may seem like they don’t care about you at all, but you don’t know how many times they’ve restrained themselves from reaching out to you.

有一个人的辞职原因是：胃不好，消化不掉老板画的饼…
2. One person’s reason for resigning was: “I have a weak stomach and can’t digest the promises my boss makes…”

我想最难过的事情不是遇不见。而是遇见了，得到了，却又匆忙的失去。然后心上便因此纠结成了一道疤。它让你什么时候疼，就什么时候疼。
3. The saddest thing is not not meeting someone, but meeting them, getting them, and then losing them hastily. Then your heart becomes entangled with a scar. It makes you hurt whenever it wants to.

小时候比现在勇敢，跟同桌吵架绝交可以用一块糖和好，被亲爹揍得喊娘一拿到零花钱就笑，暗恋的男生想追班花还大方地帮他写情书，失恋了考砸了毕个业所有人都走了就哭一鼻子没什么大不了。可现在做不到了，再没办法相信伤害过自己的人，再承受不起任何形式的离开，连哭都哭得没底气，怕吵醒人。
4. When we were young, we were braver. We could make up with a classmate after a quarrel with a piece of candy, smile after being scolded by our father as soon as we got some pocket money, and even help the boy we had a crush on write love letters to the class flower. But now we can’t do that anymore, we can’t trust those who have hurt us, we can’t bear any form of departure, and even our tears lack the courage, fearing to wake others up.

我们总是对请我们吃了两餐饭的人感念不已，而对管我们20年饭的人苛责以求。
5. We always feel grateful to those who have treated us to two meals, while being critical of those who have taken care of us for 20 years.

你脚踩的地狱只是天堂的倒影，我唇角的故事也是时间的灰烬。
6. The hell under your feet is just a reflection of heaven, and the stories on my lips are the ashes of time.

接地气最好的办法就是买菜，你一进菜市场就能感受到人间烟火扑面而来，看着一堆人为生活努力，你有再多的矫情和装逼都会掉在地上。
7. The best way to be down-to-earth is to go grocery shopping. As soon as you enter the market, you can feel the hustle and bustle of life. Seeing people working hard for their lives, any affectation and pretentiousness will fall to the ground.

拼命对一个人好，生怕做错一点对方就不喜欢你，这不是爱，而是取悦。分手后觉得更爱对方，没他就活不下去，这不是爱情，是不甘心。
8. Desperately trying to be good to someone, fearing that if you make a mistake, they won’t like you anymore. This is not love, but pleasing. Feeling more love for the other person after a breakup, and not being able to live without them, is not love, but unwillingness to accept.

因为心直口快，得罪不少人，但又不会拐弯抹角，近日看到一段话说的挺好：口不饶人心地善，心不饶人嘴上甜。心善之人敢直言，嘴甜之人藏谜奸。宁交一帮抬杠的鬼，不结一群嘴甜的贼！
9. Because of my straightforwardness, I’ve offended many people, but I’m not good at being indirect. Recently, I came across a passage that says: “Those who don’t spare others with their words have kind hearts, while those with sweet words have unkind hearts. Kind-hearted people dare to speak up, while sweet-talkers hide their cunning. I’d rather make friends with a group of argumentative ghosts than a bunch of sweet-talking thieves!”

女人呀，一定自己挣钱，一定会开车，一定会打扮，车子有油，手机有电，钱包有钱，这些就是安全感。记住，不做需要男人的女人，要做男人需要的女人！
10. Women, you must earn your own money, know how to drive, know how to dress up, have fuel in your car, battery in your phone, and money in your wallet. These are the things that give you a sense of security. Remember, don’t be a woman who needs a man, be a woman whom men need!

舒服的感情是你聊起任何话题，对方都聊得下去，不是因为对方见多识广，而是对方极其感兴趣。了解的，对方会说你不知道的部分；不了解的，对方会问你知道的部分。听过的，对方懂得分享感受；没听过的，对方的好奇，也让你充满言说欲。两个人最好的相处，是懂得你进我退和你退我进。
11. A comfortable relationship is when you can talk about any topic, and the other person can engage in the conversation. It’s not because they have seen a lot, but because they are genuinely interested. They will share what you don’t know about familiar topics, and ask about what you know for unfamiliar ones. They will share their feelings about what they’ve heard, and their curiosity about what they haven’t heard will make you eager to speak. The best way for two people to get along is to understand the balance of giving and taking.

为了自己想要的未来，无论现在有多难熬，都必须得满怀信心的坚持下去。
12. For the future you desire, no matter how hard it is now, you must persevere with confidence.

你的信仰不能证明你更优秀，只有你的行为才能证明这一点。
13. Your beliefs cannot prove your superiority; only your actions can prove that.

别拿爱你才会跟你发脾气这样荒唐的理由，妄图去诠释自己的自私和愚蠢。
14. Don’t use the ridiculous excuse that “I only lose my temper with you because I love you” to justify your selfishness and stupidity.

在与你爱的人吵架时，吵到最高潮，能让他全盘崩溃的那句话就在你的舌尖上，你却忍住了没有说。对局面有掌控，对未来留余地，对他人有宽容，对自己有约束，这才是真正的情商高。
15. In an argument with someone you love, when it reaches its climax, the words that can make them collapse completely are on the tip of your tongue, but you hold back from saying them. Having control over the situation, leaving room for the future, being tolerant towards others, and having self-restraint are the true signs of high emotional intelligence.

很喜欢一句话：见识越广，计较越少，经历越多，抱怨越少，越闲，越矫情。
16. I really like a saying: “The broader your horizons, the fewer your complaints; the more experiences you have, the fewer your grievances. The more idle you are, the more affected you become.”

不得不承认我是个很天真的人，谈了恋爱就想过一辈子，交个朋友就想往来一生，尽管有时候故作姿态说着一切顺其自然，可心里不愿让任何美好的事情发生一丝的改变，对于一个在感情上没有远见的人来说，最大的期盼大概就是希望所有的感情都能真挚且长久了吧。
I have to admit that I am a very naive person. (1) Being in love, I want it to last a lifetime; (2) making a friend, I want our friendship to last a lifetime. (3) Although sometimes I pretend to say that everything should go with the flow, deep down, I am unwilling to let any beautiful things change in the slightest. (4) For someone who lacks foresight in relationships, the greatest hope is probably that all relationships can be sincere and long-lasting. (5)

数学里有一个曼妙的词，希望也可以用在爱情里：有且仅有。
In mathematics, there is a wonderful word that I wish could also be used in love: unique.

心事这东西，你捂着嘴，它就会从你眼睛里跑出来。
The thing about feelings, if you cover your mouth, they will escape from your eyes.

他不喜欢你，你故意漂亮地出现在他身边是没用的，你送他的糖是不甜的，隔三岔五发的你在干什么在哪儿呢，在他眼里跟售楼短信的性质是一样的，你在状态里更新的小心思他是看不懂的，你哭的死去活来他也会不痛不痒的，他是你的生活背景，而你是他的甲乙丙丁。
If he doesn’t like you, deliberately appearing beautiful around him is useless, the candy you give him is not sweet, the occasional messages asking what you’re doing and where you are are the same as real estate sales messages in his eyes, the little thoughts you update in your status are unreadable to him, your tears and pain mean nothing to him, he is the background of your life, and you are just one of his many acquaintances.

多时候，明明一个拥抱可以解决的问题，为何要说分手？
Many times, a problem that can be solved with a hug is instead met with a breakup.

如果不喜欢，那就去改变，如果改变不了，那就去适应。如果做不到适应，那就只好回避。如果连回避也做不到，就只有放手。一般的情况是，能干的人会选择改变，懒惰的人会选择适应，懦弱的人选择回避，勇敢的人选择放手。
If you don’t like something, try to change it; if you can’t change it, adapt to it. If you can’t adapt, avoid it. If you can’t even avoid it, let it go. Generally, capable people choose to change, lazy people choose to adapt, cowardly people choose to avoid, and brave people choose to let go.

做个稳妥的人，不要高估两年内的自己，也不要低估十年后的自己。
Be a cautious person, don’t overestimate yourself in the next two years, and don’t underestimate yourself in ten years.

你装作刀枪不入的样子，就要做好被万箭穿心的准备。
If you pretend to be invulnerable, be prepared to face a barrage of pain.

有时候，你对人生所有的规划，抵不过命运一次不怀好意的安排。
Sometimes, all your plans for life can’t withstand a single malicious arrangement of fate.

说别人自私，往往是因为没有更好的理由。如果自己的东西被别人拿跑了，你说他偷窃，说他抢劫，但你不会说他自私。只有东西是别人的，自己想要却求而不得，想不出其他的说辞，这才说他自私。真正的自私，是一味的要求别人无私。
Saying someone is selfish often means there is no better reason. If someone takes your belongings, you would accuse them of theft or robbery, but you wouldn’t call them selfish. Only when something belongs to another person and you desire it but cannot obtain it, and you can’t think of any other excuse, do you call them selfish. True selfishness is demanding selflessness from others.

人生就像不停在用的铅笔，开始很尖，但慢慢的就磨得圆滑了。不过，太过圆滑了也不好，那就意味着差不多该挨削了。
Life is like a pencil that keeps being used; it starts sharp but gradually becomes smooth. However, being too smooth is not good either, as it means it’s almost time to be sharpened.

生命中最伟大的光辉不在于永不坠落，而是坠落后总能再度升起。
The greatest glory in life is not in never falling, but in always rising after falling.

如果有个人对你特别好，记得千万别把那个人弄丢了。
If someone treats you exceptionally well, remember not to lose that person.

所谓的长大，就是终于意识到，这个世界也许不会像我们小时候想象的那么美好，我们爱着的人，我们在意的事情，也许会欺骗我们，也许会离开我们，我们也许会失去挚爱，也许会遭到背叛，但是，我们依然会接受所有不愿意去面对的不美好，勇敢地活下去。
Growing up means finally realizing that the world may not be as beautiful as we imagined when we were young. The people we love and the things we care about may deceive us or leave us. We may lose our loved ones and suffer betrayal, but we will still accept all the unpleasantness we don’t want to face and live bravely.

有一些人的出现，就是来给我们开眼的。所以，人一定要禁得起假话，受得住敷衍，忍得住欺骗，忘得了承诺，放得下一切，百炼成精，淡定从容。
Some people come into our lives to open our eyes. Therefore, one must be able to withstand lies, endure superficiality, tolerate deception, forget promises, let go of everything, and remain calm and composed.

每个人都有他的路，每条路都是正确的。人的不幸在于他们不想走自己那条路，总想走别人的路。
Everyone has their own path, and every path is the right one. The misfortune of people lies in not wanting to walk their own path, but always wanting to walk someone else’s.

我们日复一日做的事情，决定了我们是怎样的人。因此所谓卓越，并非指行为，而是习惯。
What we do day after day determines who we are. Thus, excellence is not about actions, but habits.

如果有人伤害了你，不要去感谢那些伤害你的人，他们根本没做什么让你成长，让你成长的是你的反思和坚强，所以感谢自己和陪伴在你身边的人就好。对于那些伤害你的人只有一句，老子现在过得好得不得了。
If someone hurts you, don’t thank those who hurt you; they didn’t do anything to help you grow. Your growth comes from your reflection and strength. So, thank yourself and the people who stand by you. As for those who hurt you, just say, “I’m living a great life now.”

很多人不是孤僻，而是有原则有选择地社交。和喜欢的人千言万语，和其他的人一字不提。
Many people are not introverted, but have principles and choose their social interactions selectively. They talk a lot with people they like and not at all with others.

我想要的爱情很简单。我说话时，你会听；我需要时，你会在；我转身时，你没走。这就够了。
1. The love I want is very simple. When I talk, you listen; when I need, you are there; when I turn around, you haven’t left. That’s enough.

始终觉得不管多爱，开始一段感情的前提永远是确定了对方的人品。爱的确能改变、粉饰很多，但性格有着巨大的惯性，Ta如何对世，迟早要如何对你。缘起缘灭，好人未必就忠贞不二，但当热情褪去，善良的本性起码能让彼此有个相对体面点的转身。这个转身关乎你以后的幸福，人生漫漫，再爱也得给自己留条路。
2. I always feel that no matter how much love there is, the premise of starting a relationship is always to determine the other person’s character. Love can indeed change and embellish a lot, but personality has a huge inertia. How they treat the world, sooner or later they will treat you the same way. Fate comes and goes, good people may not be faithful, but when passion fades, a kind nature can at least make a relatively decent turn for each other. This turn is related to your future happiness, life is long, and even if you love someone, you have to leave a way for yourself.

在一群出色的人中间，常常误以为自己也是其中一员，然后忘了努力。
3. In a group of outstanding people, it is often mistakenly believed that they are also a member, and then forget to work hard.

两个人之间最好的感觉就是，表面相互嫌弃，心中不离不弃。
4. The best feeling between two people is that they seem to dislike each other on the surface, but they never give up on each other in their hearts.

女人只要管好自己已经很了不起，干吗要去管男人呢？听话的男人不用管；不听话的男人，要管也管不到。对你好的男人不用管；对你不好的男人，不会让你管。爱你的男人不用管；不爱你的，轮不到你管。
5. Women just need to take care of themselves, why bother controlling men? Obedient men don’t need to be controlled; disobedient men can’t be controlled. Men who are good to you don’t need to be controlled; men who are not good to you won’t let you control them. Men who love you don’t need to be controlled; those who don’t love you won’t let you control them.

人世间每一次相遇都是久别重逢，而每一次分开可能今生再也不相见。好好珍惜每分每秒，珍惜当下，珍惜身边爱你和你爱着的人！
6. Every encounter in the world is a long-awaited reunion, and every separation may never meet again in this life. Cherish every moment, cherish the present, and cherish the people around you who love you and whom you love!

有人说要结婚了是因为年龄大了，有人说要结婚了是因为父母催促，有人说要结婚了是因为上段感情受了伤，有人说要结婚了是因为对方条件不错……我仿佛很久没听到要结婚是因为很爱一个人，想永远和TA在一起。
7. Some people say they want to get married because they are getting old, some say it’s because their parents are urging them, some say it’s because they were hurt in the last relationship, and some say it’s because the other person has good conditions… I haven’t heard anyone say they want to get married because they love someone deeply and want to be with them forever.

既往不恋，当下不杂，未来不迎。
8. Don’t dwell on the past, don’t be distracted by the present, and don’t welcome the future.

我从小到大没什么梦想，一直在路上不问远方，只是衷心希望自己成为一个很厉害的人，你问我什么算厉害，大概就是能有朝一日，保护好爱人，对得起朋友，赡养好家人吧。
9. I have never had any dreams since I was a child, and I have always been on the road without asking about the distance. I just sincerely hope that I can become a very powerful person. You ask me what it means to be powerful, probably one day I can protect my loved ones, be worthy of my friends, and support my family.

生活就是知道自己的价值、自己所能做到的与自己所应该做到的
10. Life is about knowing your value, what you can do, and what you should do.

父亲说，没什么该不该，最喜欢什么，就学什么。我却不放心。只问自己的喜爱，对吗？我喜欢文学，就学文学？爱读小说，就学小说？父亲说，喜欢的就是性之所近，就是自己最相宜的。
11. My father said, there is no right or wrong, just study what you like the most. But I am not sure. Is it right to only ask for my preferences? If I like literature, should I study literature? If I love reading novels, should I study novels? My father said, what you like is what you are closest to, and it is the most suitable for you.

很想主动联系你，很想关心你，很想知道你最近过得好不好，也很想紧紧的抱着你并告诉你，我很爱你很想你。可是对不起，我的自尊心不允许我这样做。
12. I really want to take the initiative to contact you, care about you, know how you have been recently, and also want to hold you tightly and tell you that I love you and miss you very much. But I’m sorry, my self-esteem doesn’t allow me to do this.

不要对爱你的人太过刻薄，一辈子真正对你好的人也没有几个，多少人在一切都将失去时才幡然醒悟，每个人都有脾气，为你忍下所有的怒气，仅仅因为那个人比你更心疼你。
13. Don’t be too harsh on those who love you, there are not many people in a lifetime who will truly be good to you. How many people realize when everything is about to be lost, everyone has a temper, to endure all the anger for you, just because that person cares about you more than you do.

我也不懂为什么世界上就是有这种感情，因为第一眼的一点点动心，赌上一生的羁绊。我很瞧不起，却也不过就是活成这样的人。
14. I don’t understand why there is such a feeling in the world, because of a little bit of attraction at first sight, and bet on a lifetime of entanglement. I despise it, but I am also just living like this.

人不是向外奔走才是旅行，静静坐着思维也是旅行，凡是探索、追寻、触及那些不可知的情境，不论是风土的，或是心灵的，都是一种旅行。
15. Travel is not just about going out, sitting quietly and thinking is also a journey. Any exploration, pursuit, and touch of the unknown situations, whether it is about the land or the soul, is a kind of travel.

那时候，未来遥远而没有形状，梦想还不知道该叫什么名字 我常常一个人，走很长的路，在起风的时候觉得自己像一片落叶 仰望星空，我想知道：有人正从世界的某个地方朝我走来吗 像光那样，从一颗星到达另外一颗星 后来，你出现了。又离开了。
1. Back then, the future was distant and shapeless, and dreams didn’t even have a name. I often walked alone for long distances, and when the wind blew, I felt like a fallen leaf.

奈何一个人随着年龄增长，梦想便不复轻盈；他开始用双手掂量生活，更看中果实而非花朵。
2. Gazing at the starry sky, I wondered: is someone walking towards me from somewhere in the world, like light traveling from one star to another? Later, you appeared and then left.

很多关系不必靠的太近，每天接触那么多人，不是每个人都要成为朋友的，很多人就是蜻蜓点水，君子之交淡如水，不必交换隐私也不必加微信，大部分的恩怨爱恨都是因为离的太近，近之则不逊，原本客客气气的关系，开始变得阴阳怪气，彼此都不舒服。有距离，才会有尊重。——琢磨先生
3. Alas, as a person grows older, their dreams become less light; they start to weigh life with their hands, valuing the fruits rather than the flowers.

镜子很脏的时候，我们并不会误以为是自己的脸脏；那为什么别人随口说出糟糕的话时，我们要觉得糟糕的是我们自己？
4. Many relationships don’t need to be too close; we come into contact with so many people every day, and not everyone has to become a friend. Some people are like a fleeting touch, a gentleman’s friendship as light as water. There’s no need to exchange privacy or add WeChat; most grievances and loves result from being too close. When things get too close, they lose respect. Distance creates respect. – Mo Zhuo

落魄不是你吃不上饭，不是没人理你。而是你一方面在乎别人的目光，另一方面却不知道自己的方向在哪里。
5. When a mirror is dirty, we don’t mistake our face for being dirty. So why do we feel bad about ourselves when someone else speaks ill of us casually?

真正有气质的淑女，从不炫耀她所拥有的一切，她不告诉人她读过什么书，去过什么地方，有多少件衣服，买过什么珠宝，因为她没有自卑感。
6. Being down and out is not about not having food to eat or people to care for you. It’s about caring about others’ opinions while not knowing your own direction.

我一定不是这城市里唯一的怪人，一定有人和我一样，空虚时对着夜空唱歌到天明，也许我永远都遇不到他，但我熟悉他的心情。
7. A truly elegant lady never shows off what she has, never telling others what books she’s read, where she’s been, how many clothes she has, or what jewelry she’s bought, because she has no feelings of inferiority.

你勤奋充电、你努力工作、你保持身材、你对人微笑，这些都不是为了取悦他人，而是为了扮靓自己，照亮自己的心，告诉自己：我是一股独立向上的力量。
8. I must not be the only strange person in this city; there must be someone like me, singing to the night sky when feeling empty until dawn. Maybe I’ll never meet him, but I’m familiar with his emotions.

愿以后你爱的人都比我爱你，愿以后我爱的人都不像你。
9. You work hard to learn, strive in your job, maintain your figure, and smile at others, not to please others but to make yourself more beautiful and brighten your own heart, telling yourself: I am an independent and upward force.

在愤怒的时候可以哭，可以闹，可以呐喊，可以摔东西，但永远不要说出让自己后悔一辈子的话。
10. May the people you love in the future love you more than I do, and may the people I love in the future not be like you.

小时候我妈经常问我的一个问题是“干活累还是读书累”，刚才下班看见门口一帮人擦着汗有说有笑地清点搬上来的货物，我突然就想明白了这个问题的答案：不快乐才是最累的。
11. When you’re angry, you can cry, make a fuss, shout, and break things, but never say something that you’ll regret for the rest of your life.

后来我见过许多的人，像你的眉，像你的眼，但都不是你的脸。
12. When I was a child, my mom often asked me, “Is working hard or studying hard more tiring?” Just now, after work, I saw a group of people wiping their sweat and laughing as they counted the goods they had moved. Suddenly, I understood the answer to this question: being unhappy is the most tiring.

有的人把你的心都掏了，你还假装不疼，因为你爱。
13. Later, I met many people with eyebrows like yours and eyes like yours, but none of them had your face.

不论你愿不愿意承认，一生爱过的大部分人，都会从陌生变得熟悉、又再从熟悉变得陌生……渐渐的，打动我们的不再是那句’我爱你’，而是一句’我陪你’。——爱情不是终点，陪伴才是归宿。
14. Some people take your heart out, and you still pretend it doesn’t hurt because you love them.

你过得不开心，是因为还没有过滤掉他人的意见以及评价。
15. Whether you want to admit it or not, most of the people you’ve loved in your life will go from being strangers to familiar, and then from familiar to strangers… Gradually, what touches us is no longer “I love you,” but “I’m with you.” – Love is not the destination; companionship is the home.

世上有味之事，包括诗，酒，哲学，爱情，往往无用。吟无用之诗，醉无用之酒，读无用之书，钟无用之情，终于成一无用之人，却因此活得有滋有味。
16. You’re unhappy because you haven’t filtered out other people’s opinions and evaluations.

很多人的悲伤只是希望展示给大家看自己很悲伤。其实这世上是没有人能够理解另外一个人的悲伤的。
17. The things that taste good in life, including poetry, wine, philosophy, and love, are often useless. Reciting useless poems, getting drunk on useless wine, reading useless books, and loving useless love, eventually becoming a useless person, but thus living a fulfilling life.

“不要害怕孤独。后来你会发现，人生中有很多美好难忘的时光，大抵都是与自己独处之时。”
1. “Don’t be afraid of loneliness. Later, you’ll find that many of the beautiful and unforgettable moments in life are mostly when you’re alone with yourself.”

你需要的是一个连你的废话都会回复的人。
You need someone who will respond to even your nonsense.

同样都是搁置了一个月，橙子才开始皱皮，而苹果却已经腐烂了，所以说脸皮厚对于生命的意义非常重大。
2. Both oranges and apples were left untouched for a month, but the oranges only started to wrinkle, while the apples had already rotted. So, thick-skinned really matters a lot in life.

爱真是一个人的事。你爱上别人，自己觉得情深似海，对方如坐针毡，别人爱上你，你只觉无奈搞笑，爱莫能助。大概这世间最难得的喜悦，就是你爱的人也恰好爱你，因为又难得又短促，那样的日子都是珍珠，要用来照亮孤单的人生路。
3. Love is truly a personal matter. When you fall in love with someone, you feel deep emotions like an ocean, but the other person feels uncomfortable. When someone falls in love with you, you only feel helpless and unable to help. Perhaps the rarest joy in this world is when the person you love also loves you back, because it’s both rare and fleeting. Those days are like pearls, illuminating the lonely path of life.

别太在意别人在背后怎么议论你，比不上你的，才背后说你，比你强的，人家忙着赶路，根本就没空理你。
4. Don’t care too much about what others gossip about you behind your back. Those who are inferior to you will talk about you behind your back, while those who are better than you are busy with their own journey and have no time to bother with you.

有人刻薄的嘲讽你，你马上尖酸的回敬他。有人毫无理由的看不起你，你马上轻蔑的鄙视他。有人在你面前大肆炫耀，你马上加倍证明你更厉害。有人对你冷漠忽视，你马上对他冷淡疏远。看，你讨厌的那些人，轻易就把你变成你最讨厌的那种样子。
5. If someone sarcastically mocks you, you immediately respond with a sharp retort. If someone looks down on you without reason, you immediately despise them with contempt. If someone shows off in front of you, you immediately prove that you are more impressive. If someone is indifferent and neglectful towards you, you immediately become cold and distant. Look, the people you hate can easily turn you into the very thing you despise the most.

忙是治疗一切神经病的良药，一忙，也不伤感了也不八卦了也不撕逼了也不花痴了。平静的脸上无怒无喜，看过去只隐隐约约的写了一个“滚”字。
6. Being busy is the best medicine for all neuroses. When you’re busy, you don’t feel sentimental, gossip, argue, or become infatuated. Your calm face shows neither anger nor joy, and it vaguely has the word “go away” written on it.

只有两种人最具有吸引力，一种是无所不知的人，一种是一无所知的人。
7. Only two types of people are the most attractive: those who know everything and those who know nothing.

和有些人相处起来很舒服，因为既能聊搞笑的不正经的话题，也能在某些事情上有独到见解可以分享沟通，不至于严肃呆板或者低级趣味，还懂得换位思考，真心相待，生活里有这样的人相伴会觉得很幸运。
8. It’s comfortable to be with some people because they can chat about funny, informal topics, and also have unique insights on certain matters for sharing and communication. They are not serious, rigid, or vulgar, and they know how to empathize and treat others sincerely. It’s fortunate to have such people in life.

我要有能做我自己的自由，和敢做我自己的胆量。
9. I want the freedom to be myself and the courage to dare to be myself.

一个人越是一事无成，就越喜欢在吵架中获胜，因为这是他为数不多的能获得成功的领域。
10. The more unaccomplished a person is, the more they like to win in arguments, because it’s one of the few areas where they can achieve success.

如果你不努力，一年后的你还是原来的你，只是老了一岁。
11. If you don’t work hard, you will still be the same person in a year, just one year older.

人生旅途中，大家都在忙着认识各种人，以为这是在丰富生命。可最有价值的遇见，是在某一瞬间，重遇了自己，那一刻你才会懂：走遍世界，也不过是为了找到一条走回内心的路。
12. In the journey of life, everyone is busy meeting various people, thinking it enriches their lives. But the most valuable encounter is when you meet yourself in a moment, and that’s when you’ll understand: traveling the world is just to find a way back to your inner self.

爱，是一件非专业的事情，不是本事，不是能力，不是技术，不是商品，不是演出，是花木那样的生长，有一份对光阴和季节的钟情和执着。一定要，爱着点什么。它让我们变得坚韧，宽容，充盈。业余的，爱着。
13. Love is an amateur thing, not a skill, ability, technique, commodity, or performance. It’s like the growth of flowers and trees, with a love for time and seasons. Be sure to love something, as it makes us strong, tolerant, and fulfilled. Love as an amateur.

世明年的某个时候，你会想着要是今天就行动了该多好。
14. At some point next year, you’ll wish you had taken action today.

岁月波光粼粼，赋予爱与生命，唯有生活不能被他人代替，只会有寂寞相随。
15. Time ripples with light, giving life and love, but only life cannot be replaced by others; only loneliness accompanies it.

想改变时就改变，因为你还有时间。世间所有事都敌不过一个懒，懒得做懒得改变，就会开始麻木，学会自我安慰。有书看时就看书，能运动时就运动，不对自己妥协，不要变成一个不断将就的人，要变成更喜欢的自己。
16. Change when you want to, because you still have time. All things in the world cannot defeat laziness. If you’re too lazy to do or change things, you’ll start to become numb and learn self-comfort. Read when you have books, exercise when you can, and never compromise with yourself. Don’t become someone who keeps making do, but become someone you like even more.

每个人都很孤独。在我们的一生中，遇到爱，遇到性都不稀罕，稀罕的是遇到了解。
1. Everyone is lonely. In our lives, encountering love and sex is not rare; what’s rare is encountering understanding.

最好的年龄是，那一天，你终于知道并且坚信自己有多好，不是虚张，不是夸浮，不是众人捧，是内心明明澈澈知道：是的，我就是这么好。
2. The best age is the day when you finally know and firmly believe how good you are, not by boasting, not by showing off, not by others’ praise, but by clearly knowing in your heart: Yes, I am this good.

怨天尤人只能证明你的无能；不要滥交，有仨俩知己足矣，别妄想和谁都要成为朋友；不要浮躁，有空去旅行，去读书，用环境陶冶身心，用知识充实灵魂；不要后悔，只要是你选择的，就算再艰难再无奈，也要咬牙走下去。
3. Complaining about others only proves your incompetence; don’t make too many friends, having a few close ones is enough, don’t expect to be friends with everyone; don’t be restless, travel and read when you have time, cultivate your body and mind with the environment, and enrich your soul with knowledge; don’t regret, even if your choices are difficult and helpless, you must persevere.

别让那些不重要的事来影响你，从而让你失去那些真正重要的东西。
4. Don’t let unimportant things affect you, causing you to lose what’s truly important.

有时候，这个世界很大很大，大到我们一辈子都没有机会遇见。有时候，这个世界又很小很小，小到一抬头就看见了你的笑脸。所以，在遇见时，请一定要感激；相爱时，请一定要珍惜；转身时，请一定要优雅；挥别时，请一定要微笑。
5. Sometimes, the world is so big that we may never have the chance to meet in our lifetime. Sometimes, the world is so small that we can see each other’s smiling faces just by raising our heads. So, when you meet, be grateful; when you love, cherish; when you turn around, be graceful; when you say goodbye, smile.

心简单，世界就简单，幸福才会生长；心自由，生活就自由，到哪都有快乐。
1. A simple heart makes the world simple, and happiness will grow; a free heart makes life free, and there will be joy wherever you go.

世事如书，我偏爰你这一句，愿做个逗号，呆在你脚边。但你有自己的朗读者，而我只是个摆渡人。
2. The world is like a book, and I just love this sentence about you. I’d like to be a comma, staying by your side. But you have your own reader, and I’m just a ferryman.

他们总教你善良，却没人教你保护好自己。
3. People always teach you to be kind, but no one teaches you to protect yourself.

有些事只适合收藏。不能说，也不能想，却又不能忘。它们不能变成语言，一旦变成语言就不再是它们了。它们是一片朦胧的温馨与寂寥，是一片成熟的希望与绝望，它们的领地只有两处：心与坟墓。比如说邮票，有些是用于寄信的，有些仅仅是为了收藏。——史铁生
4. Some things are only suitable for collection. They cannot be spoken or thought of, yet they cannot be forgotten. Once they become words, they are no longer what they were. They are a hazy blend of warmth and loneliness, a mature mix of hope and despair, and their territory consists of only two places: the heart and the grave. Like stamps, some are for sending letters, while others are just for collecting.

勇敢是：当你还未开始就已知道自己会输，可你依然要去做，而且无论如何都要把它坚持到底。你很少能赢，但有时也会。
5. Courage is: knowing you will lose before you even start, but you still do it and persist until the end. You rarely win, but sometimes you do.

我喜欢纯纯的爱，傻傻的坏，小小的期待，不变的信赖，还有八月天里，两个人，手牵手，踩着风，去看海。
6. I like pure love, silly mischief, small expectations, unchanging trust, and in August, two people hand in hand, walking with the wind, going to see the sea.

中学的暗恋多美好，窗前门后的偶遇，偷偷叠的纸心，压在书本下的卡片，偶尔被关注的欣喜。时光过去，你可能记不得那年的试卷有多难，却会记得那天的风有多暖。
7. The crushes in high school are so beautiful, the chance encounters by the window and door, the secretly folded paper hearts, the cards hidden under textbooks, and the joy of being noticed now and then. As time passes, you may not remember how difficult the exam papers were that year, but you will remember how warm the wind was that day.

人生只售单程票，过去的就过去了，不要频频回首，在哪里存在，就在哪里绽放。做人，要有一份内心的不声不响，有一份急迫中的不紧不慢，还有一份尴尬中的不卑不亢。最美的你不是生如夏花，而是在时间的长河里，波澜不惊。
8. Life only sells one-way tickets; what’s past is past. Don’t keep looking back. Bloom where you are, with an inner calmness, a sense of urgency without haste, and a dignity amidst embarrassment. The most beautiful you is not like a summer flower, but rather calm and composed in the long river of time.

无奈的是，语言这东西，在表达爱意的时候如此无力；在表达伤害的时候，却又如此锋利。
9. Sadly, language is so powerless when expressing love, yet so sharp when expressing hurt.

与所有的人以诚相待，同多数人和睦相处，和少数人常来常往，只跟一个亲密无间。
10. Treat everyone with sincerity, get along harmoniously with the majority, maintain close relationships with a few, and be intimate with just one.

仰望星空时，我们知道这些星星距离我们成百上千光年，有些甚至已经不存在了。它们的光花了很长很长时间才到达地球，而在此期间，它们本身已经消失或爆炸瓦解成红矮星了。这些事实会让人觉得自己很渺小，如果生活中遇到了困难，不妨想想这些，你就会明白什么叫微不足道。——马克?哈登
11. When looking up at the starry sky, we know these stars are hundreds or thousands of light-years away from us, and some may no longer even exist. Their light took a very long time to reach Earth, and during that time, they might have already disappeared or exploded into red dwarf stars. These facts can make us feel insignificant. If you encounter difficulties in life, think about this, and you will understand what is truly trivial. - Mark哈登

每个人都想手伸向夜空，去捕捉那属于自己的星星，但极少有人能正确地知道自己的星星在哪一个位置。
12. Everyone wants to reach out to the night sky and capture their own stars, but very few people can correctly identify the position of their own stars.

如果自己不想积极认真地生活，不管得到什么样的回答都没用。
13. If you don’t want to live positively and seriously, no matter what answers you receive, they will be useless.

不管全世界所有人怎么说，我都认为自己的感受才是正确的。无论别人怎么看，我绝不打乱自己的节奏。喜欢的事情自然可以坚持，不喜欢的怎么也长久不了。
14. No matter what everyone in the world says, I believe my own feelings are correct. No matter how others perceive things, I will not disrupt my own rhythm. I can naturally persist in doing what I like, but I can’t maintain anything I don’t like for long.

去过的地方越多，越知道自己想回什么地方去。见过的人越多，越知道自己真正想待在什么人身边。
15. The more places you visit, the more you know where you want to return to. The more people you meet, the more you know who you truly want to be with.

生活是种律动，须有光有影，有左有右，有晴有雨，滋味就含在这变而不猛的曲折里。
16. Life is a rhythm that requires light and shadow, left and right, sunshine and rain. The taste lies in the gentle twists and turns of change.

一个人的不幸，是从羡慕别人开始的。若你总是试图变成想象中的某个人，难题就来了。人之所以累，是因为越来越不会做真正的自己。要知道，上天给你这样的一份生活，自有它的道理。把自己的日子过好，就是幸福唯一的捷径。——苏芩
1. A person’s misfortune begins with envying others. If you always try to become someone you imagine, the problem arises. The reason people are tired is because they are increasingly unable to be their true selves. You should know that God has a reason for giving you this kind of life. Living your own life well is the only shortcut to happiness. - Su Qin

感情世界里最没用的四种东西：分手后的悔恨，不爱后的关怀，高高在上的自尊心，低情商的善良。
2. The four most useless things in the emotional world are: regret after breaking up, caring after not loving, high self-esteem, and low EQ kindness.

你所以为的巧合，不过是另一个人用心的结果。
3. The coincidence you think is just the result of someone else’s efforts.

这世上，没有谁活得比谁容易，只是有人在呼天抢地，有人在默默努力。
4. In this world, no one lives easier than others; some people wail and complain, while others work hard in silence.

两个女人，只要曾经爱过同一个男人，一辈子也会互相比较。
5. Two women who have loved the same man will compare themselves for a lifetime.

一个人，如果是真实的，在哪里都是真实的。有没有人看着，也都一样。是怎样的人，也就会遇上怎样的人。喜欢就是喜欢，真心的，不敷衍。不喜欢就是不喜欢，笑笑，避开就是。
6. If a person is true, they will be true everywhere. Whether or not someone is watching, it’s the same. What kind of person you are is what kind of person you will meet. Like is like, sincerely, without pretense. Dislike is dislike, just smile and avoid.

愿多年以后，仍心存善意，各自向前。愿日后相见，不是沉默着无从谈起，而是忽然就泪流满面。
7. May we still have kind hearts years later and move forward separately. May we meet again, not in silence with nothing to talk about, but suddenly with tears streaming down our faces.

所谓暧昧就是，享受着恋爱的感觉，却可以心安理得说自己单身。
8. So-called ambiguity is enjoying the feeling of being in love while being able to say with a clear conscience that you are single.

生命中遇到的每一个人都是有理由的，之前所有的错失与遗憾，都只是为了遇到最终那个对的人。当你受过了青春的伤、尝过了生活的苦，这时候遇见的人，才真的有可能是一辈子。在你最无助时出现的那个人，才是上天派来爱你的天使。
9. Every person you meet in life has a reason. All the previous missed opportunities and regrets are just to meet the right person in the end. When you have experienced the pain of youth and tasted the bitterness of life, the person you meet at this time may truly be the one for a lifetime. The person who appears when you are most helpless is the angel sent by God to love you.

愿上帝保佑那个真正爱过你的人，你把他的心都揉碎了。
10. May God bless the person who truly loved you, for you have broken their heart.

你要明白不是所有人都会喜欢你，迁就你，疼你。你也要知道并不是全世界都在讨厌你，忽视你，不珍惜你。你只顾做最好的自己，爱你的人还会爱你，不爱的那些，就算你变成朵花，他们都照样嫌弃。
11. You should understand that not everyone will like you, accommodate you, or cherish you. You should also know that not the whole world dislikes you, ignores you, or doesn’t value you. Just be the best version of yourself, and those who love you will still love you. As for those who don’t, even if you become a flower, they will still find fault.

发脾气前，先想想有没有人惯着你。致那些任性的人。
12. Before getting angry, think about whether anyone will spoil you. To those who are willful.

做人越简单越舒服，越真实越快乐。琢磨先生说，喜欢就表白，讨厌就拒绝，困了就睡，饿了就吃，不舒服就表达，有疑问就探寻，想引吭就高歌，想旅行就出发，不懂就去问，错了就承认，不做作亦不矫情……痛苦往往都是自己想的太多，最终发现伤害自己最深的，恰恰是自己意淫出来的胡思乱想。
13. The simpler and more comfortable a person is, the more genuine and happy they will be. Mr. Mo Zha said, like, confess; hate, reject; sleepy, sleep; hungry, eat; uncomfortable, express; curious, explore; want to sing, sing loudly; want to travel, set off; don’t understand, ask; wrong, admit. Pain often comes from thinking too much, and in the end, you find that the one who hurts you the most is your own wild imagination.

阴天，适合睡觉，醒来，适合想你。
14. On a cloudy day, it’s suitable for sleeping. When you wake up, it’s suitable for thinking of you.

这世界是如此喧哗，让沉默的人显得有点傻。
15. The world is so noisy that it makes silent people seem a little foolish.

相爱的时候需要真诚，争执的时候需要沟通，生气的时候需要冷静，愉快的时候需要分享，指责的时候需要谅解，过日子的时候需要包容，没有完全合适的两个人，只有互相迁就的两颗心。
16. When in love, be sincere; when arguing, communicate; when angry, stay calm; when happy, share; when blaming, understand; when living together, be tolerant. There are no perfectly compatible people, only two hearts that accommodate each other.

喜欢一个人为什么非要谈恋爱，因为喜欢一个人怎么会只甘心做朋友？
17. Why do you have to fall in love when you like someone? Because how can you be content with just being friends when you like someone?

我知道有人嫌弃我的体重，有人介意我的容貌，有人害怕我的无理取闹，有人受不了我的脾气，也有人看轻我不把我当回事儿。尽管如此，我还是相信一定有那么一个能容忍我的人存在，那个将会是陪伴我一生的人。
I know that some people dislike my weight, some mind my appearance, some are afraid of my unreasonable behavior, some can’t stand my temper, and some look down on me and don’t take me seriously. Despite this, I still believe that there must be someone who can tolerate me, and that person will be the one who accompanies me for a lifetime.

少又不甘，多又嫌烦，哪有恰到好处的陪伴。
1. Too little is not satisfying, too much is annoying; where can we find the just-right companionship?

所谓成熟就是，喜欢的东西依旧喜欢，但可以不拥有；讨厌的东西依旧讨厌，但可以忍受；害怕的东西依旧害怕，但可以面对；以前觉得难以理喻的事情可以理所当然。
2. The so-called maturity is that you still like what you like, but can live without it; you still hate what you hate, but can tolerate it; you are still afraid of what you fear, but can face it; things that used to be hard to understand now seem reasonable.

悲观也没用。谁都想生在好人家，可无法选择父母。发给你什么样的牌，你就只能尽量打好它。
3. It’s no use being pessimistic. Everyone wants to be born into a good family, but you can’t choose your parents. You have to play the hand you’re dealt as best as you can.

总有那么一个人，你说不爱了，却在听到关于他的消息时，心狠狠的抽痛。
4. There’s always that one person, whom you say you no longer love, but when you hear news about them, your heart aches terribly.

只要曾经年少，每个人都会在心底深处为逝去的青春留一点柔软。
5. As long as you have been young once, everyone will leave a soft spot in their hearts for the lost youth.

你在没有我的世界里安然无恙，我在没有你的世界里故作坚强。
6. You are safe and sound in a world without me, and I pretend to be strong in a world without you.

除了亲情之外的感情，懒于维护就会渐行渐远。
7. Apart from family bonds, other relationships will gradually drift apart if you don’t maintain them.

困的时候，哪怕是最好的朋友把你唤醒你都会心生怒火；累的时候，哪怕是你的爱人要你背背她你都会一脸嫌弃；贫穷的时候，看到别人疯狂抢购会觉得不可理喻；苦闷的时候，听到别人大声说笑会觉得极端反感。我们对这个世界的爱和善意，往往，取决于我们自己在这个世界上过得好不好。
8. When you are tired, even your best friend waking you up will make you angry; when you are exhausted, even your lover asking you to carry her will make you disgusted; when you are poor, seeing others frenziedly shopping will seem unreasonable; when you are bored, hearing others laughing loudly will be extremely annoying. Our love and kindness towards the world often depend on how well we are doing in it.

长大以后，似乎没有多少人会关心你是否快乐，所有的人都只看你有没有出息。
9. As we grow up, it seems that not many people care whether you are happy or not; everyone only cares about whether you are successful.

上帝不会无缘无故做出莫名其妙的决定，他让你放弃和等待是为了给你更好的，所有的欺骗侮辱和伤害，都是这个世界温柔补偿的序曲，那些星星点点的微芒，终归成为燃烧生命的熊熊之火。一切都是最好的安排，别作贱自己，别活在过去。
10. God doesn’t make decisions without reason. He makes you give up and wait to give you something better. All the deception, insults, and injuries are the prelude to the world’s gentle compensation. Those tiny glimmers will eventually become the raging fire that burns our lives. Everything is the best arrangement; don’t devalue yourself, don’t live in the past.

如果一个男人真的爱你，他只会怕没本事照顾好你而努力。如果他事事与你计较，随便对你发脾气，那只是说明他爱自己，没有爱你的本事和能力。
11. If a man truly loves you, he will only fear that he is not capable of taking good care of you and work hard. If he argues with you over everything and loses his temper at you casually, it only shows that he loves himself and lacks the ability and capacity to love you.

我以前很瘦，未来也会很瘦，所以现在先胖一段时间，不然人生不圆满。
12. I used to be very thin, and I will be thin in the future, so I’ll be fat for a while now, otherwise life won’t be perfect.

吵架最激烈不过一分钟，而那一分钟你说出的话，是你用一百分钟都弥补不回来的。
13. The most intense argument lasts no more than a minute, but the words you say in that minute can’t be compensated for in a hundred minutes.

有人问我，如果看不到确定的未来，还要不要付出。我只能说，并不是每一种付出都是在追寻结果。有时在付出的路上，能够收获的，是清楚地看到了自己想要的，或者不想要的，这又何尝不是一种宝贵的结果。命运会厚待温柔多情的人，好过冷漠的一颗心。
14. Someone asked me, if there’s no certain future, should we still give? I can only say that not every effort is in pursuit of a result. Sometimes on the way to give, what we can gain is a clear understanding of what we want or don’t want, which is also a precious result. Fate favors gentle and affectionate people over cold hearts.

这个世界本就是傻瓜的狂欢，我们都傻得心甘情愿，所以才勇敢做自己，没心没肺地认真浪费人生。其实一直陪着你的，是那个了不起的自己。
15. This world is a carnival of fools; we all foolishly and willingly do so, which is why we bravely be ourselves and wholeheartedly waste our lives. The one who has always been with you is that amazing person, yourself.

放弃一个喜欢的人什么感觉？就像一把火烧了你住了很久的房子，你看着那些残骸和土灰的绝望。你知道那是你家，但已经回不去了。
16. What does it feel like to give up on someone you like? It’s like a fire burning the house you’ve lived in for a long time, and you watch the ashes and despair. You know it’s your home, but you can’t go back.

人的一生为什么要努力？因为最痛苦的事，不是失败，是我本可以。
17. Why do we need to strive in life? Because the most painful thing is not failure, but “I could have.”

人会长大三次。第一次是在发现自己不是世界中心的时候。第二次是在发现即使再怎么努力，终究还是有些事令人无能为力的时候。第三次是在，明知道有些事可能会无能为力，但还是会尽力争取的时候。
1. People grow up three times. The first time is when they discover they are not the center of the world. The second time is when they realize that no matter how hard they try, there are still things beyond their control. The third time is when, knowing that some things may be beyond their control, they still strive to fight for them.

幸福就是，泪点很高，笑点很低。感情就是，你看到我的孩子气，我对你没顾忌。路过就是，你觉得我冷漠话少逼格高。
2. Happiness is when you have a high tear point and a low laughter point. Emotion is when you see my childishness, and I have no reservations with you. Passing by is when you think I’m indifferent, quiet, and have high standards.

慢热的人是不是会错过许多？没抓住那一下子，就错过了一辈子。
3. Do slow-pacers miss out on a lot? If you don’t seize the moment, you might miss out for a lifetime.

任何一个人离开你，都并非突然作的决定。人心是慢慢变冷，树叶是渐渐变黄，故事是缓缓写到结局。而爱，是因为失望太多，才变成不爱。
4. When anyone leaves you, it’s not a sudden decision. Hearts grow cold slowly, leaves turn yellow gradually, and stories are written to their endings slowly. And love turns into不爱(a term I’m not familiar with) because of too many disappointments.

两个人相处久了，难免会抱怨一句：你变了。其实，我们并没有改变，我们只是越来越接近真实的对方而已。
5. When two people have been together for a long time, they inevitably complain, “You’ve changed.” In fact, we haven’t changed; we’re just getting closer to the real person.

这个世界上最痛苦的离别方式是，从你们分开的那一刻开始，你没有办法再次走进他的生活，他却在你的生活中无处不在。
6. The most painful way to part in this world is that from the moment you separate, you can no longer step into his life, but he is everywhere in yours.

不要让别人告诉你，你不能做什么。只要有梦想就要去追求，那些做不到的人总要告诉你，你也不行。想要什么就得去努力，去追求。
7. Don’t let others tell you what you can’t do. If you have a dream, pursue it. Those who can’t do it will always tell you that you can’t either. If you want something, you have to work hard and strive for it.

看着不喜欢的人，学着将内心的不满沉淀，看着喜欢的人，学着将内心的情绪隐藏。。
8. Looking at people you don’t like, learn to settle the dissatisfaction in your heart; looking at people you like, learn to hide your emotions.

遇见灵魂伴侣的感觉，就好像走进一座你曾经住过的房子里——你认识那些家具，认识墙上的画，架上的书，抽屉里的东西：如果在这个房子里你陷入黑暗，你也仍然能够自如地四处行走。
9. Meeting a soulmate feels like walking into a house you once lived in - you recognize the furniture, the paintings on the walls, the books on the shelves, and the things in the drawers: even if you’re in the dark in this house, you can still move around freely.

感情里最心酸的是，有那么一瞬间，你突然不确定是不是就是他了。
10. The most heartbreaking thing in love is that there’s a moment when you suddenly become uncertain if it’s him or not.

我生命里最大的突破之一，就是我不再为别人对我的看法而担忧。此后，我真的能自由地去做我认为对自己最好的事。只有在我们不需要外来的赞许时，才会变得自由。
1. One of the biggest breakthroughs in my life is that I no longer worry about what others think of me. Since then, I have truly been able to do what I believe is best for myself. Only when we don’t need external approval can we become free.

如果有一天，我忍不住问你，你一定要骗我。就算你心里多不情愿，也不要告诉我你最爱的人不是我。
2. If one day I can’t help but ask you, you must lie to me. Even if you’re reluctant, don’t tell me that the person you love the most isn’t me.

相爱的人吵架，往往不是没感情，而是用情太深。都深爱时，一点矛盾都会让人受伤很重。由于太重视，所以放不下。真正的爱，不是不吵架不生气不耍脾气不胡闹，而是吵过闹过哭过骂过，最后最心疼彼此的，还是对方。
3. When people in love argue, it’s often not because they have no feelings, but because they care too deeply. When both deeply love each other, even a small disagreement can cause great pain. Due to the importance placed on the relationship, it’s hard to let go. True love is not about never arguing, getting angry, acting out, or making a fuss, but rather, after all the quarrels, tears, and scolding, the ones who still care the most for each other are the partners.

小孩子才会问你为什么不理我了，成年人都是默契地相互疏远。
4. Only children will ask why you’re ignoring them; adults silently drift apart.

我们长期以来的想法和感受，有一天将会被某个陌生人一语道破。希望七言君可以成为那个一语道破你心事的陌生人。
5. Our thoughts and feelings over a long period of time will one day be revealed by a stranger. I hope that Qiyan Jun can become that stranger who reveals your hidden thoughts.

很多人的失落，是违背了自己少年时的立志。自认为成熟、自认为练达、自认为精明，从前多幼稚，总算看透了、想穿了。于是，我们就此变成自己年少时最憎恶的那种人。
6. Many people’s disappointment comes from betraying their own aspirations in their youth. They think they have become mature, experienced, and shrewd, and that their past naivety has been seen through and figured out. As a result, we become the very people we despised in our youth.

如果有一天，我突然疏远了你，不要想我们之间怎么了。你没有错，我只是突然犯病了，过一阵子就好。友情如此，爱情亦如此。
7. If one day I suddenly distance myself from you, don’t think about what’s going on between us. You’re not at fault; I just have a sudden illness, and it will pass in a while. This applies to both friendships and romantic relationships.

现在刚好处在这个尴尬的年龄，心里会开始在关心爸妈，却不愿说出口。想多陪陪爸妈，却又背井离乡无能为力。知道爸妈想和自己说话，却不知道他们的话题要怎么接。看得到爸妈在变老心会疼，却仍不耐烦听他们过时的唠叨。但其实心里真的很爱他们，很想他们一直这样的陪着。
8. We are now at an awkward age, where we start to care about our parents but are reluctant to say it out loud. We want to spend more time with them, but we are far away from home and powerless. We know our parents want to talk to us, but we don’t know how to respond to their topics. We see our parents aging and feel pain, yet we still can’t patiently listen to their outdated nagging. But deep down, we truly love them and wish they could always be by our side.

主动久了会很累，在乎久了会崩溃，沉默久了会受罪，想念久了会流泪。结果，如此狼狈。
9. Being proactive for a long time can be exhausting, caring for a long time can lead to a breakdown, staying silent for a long time can be torturous, and missing someone for a long time can make you cry. In the end, we become so disheveled.

当有人突然从你的生命中消失，不用问为什么，只是他或她到了该走的时候了，你只需要接受就好，不论朋友，还是恋人。所谓成熟，就是知道有些事情终究无能为力。
10. When someone suddenly disappears from your life, don’t ask why; it’s just their time to leave. You just need to accept it, whether it’s a friend or a lover. Maturity is knowing that some things are ultimately beyond our control.

看到很值得玩味的一句话：乞丐不一定妒忌百万富翁，但肯定妒忌收入更高的乞丐。
11. I came across a very thought-provoking sentence: A beggar may not be envious of a millionaire, but they will definitely envy a beggar with a higher income.

圈子变小，把语言变干净，把成绩往上提，把故事往心里收一收，现在想要的以后你都会有。
12. Shrink your social circle, clean up your language, improve your grades, and keep your stories to yourself. The things you desire now, you will have in the future.

如果你的心能够容纳无限的经验，虽然饱经世故，却又能维持单纯，这才是朴素。
13. If your heart can accommodate unlimited experiences, and although you have gone through a lot, you can still maintain your innocence, that is true simplicity.

要学会维持你的快乐，不断地感恩，不断地将脸朝向有光的地方。
14. Learn to maintain your happiness by constantly being grateful and always turning your face towards the light.

幸福没有明天，也没有昨天，它不怀念过去，也不向往未来，它只有现在。
15. Happiness has no tomorrow or yesterday; it doesn’t miss the past or long for the future. It only exists in the present.

爱情，友情，不是一辈子不吵架，而是吵架了还能一辈子。
16. Love and friendship are not about never arguing for a lifetime, but about being able to argue and still be together for a lifetime.

百毒不侵的内心，往往会被一句简单的安慰打败；刀枪不入的伪装，常常在懂你人的面前彻底投降。
17. An invincible heart can often be defeated by a simple comfort; an impenetrable facade often collapses in front of someone who understands you.

当女人掏心掏肺对你好的时候，你最好赶紧、立刻、马上做出选择并且明确态度，是真是还是拒绝。不要等女人彻底死了心，又转身求机会。机会，是留给懂得珍惜的人的。
18. When a woman gives you her heart and soul, you’d better make a choice and clarify your attitude right away. Don’t wait until the woman has completely given up and then turn around to seek another chance. Opportunities are reserved for those who know how to cherish them.

我在你面前哭的时候，不要害怕，不要觉得自己做的不好，不要费心思安慰我要我想开点，甚至不要去责怪让我哭的人或事，不用劝我别哭了。在你面前哭，不是你的错，只是说明你让我安心，在有负面情绪的时候，我只希望安心地哭一场，你会陪着我，不会看不起我的任何软弱。这样的存在本身，就等于一切安慰。
1. When I cry in front of you, don’t be afraid, don’t feel like you’ve done something wrong, don’t try to comfort me by telling me to think positively, and don’t blame the person or thing that made me cry. It’s not your fault that I’m crying in front of you; it just means that you make me feel at ease. When I’m feeling negative emotions, I just want to cry peacefully, and I hope you’ll be there with me, without looking down on my weaknesses. Your presence alone is equivalent to all the comfort I need.

人类的一个大麻烦，在于我们无法拥有说一不二的感情，敌人身上总有让我们喜欢的地方，我们的爱人身上总会有让我们讨厌之处。
2. A big problem for humans is that we can’t have absolute emotions; there’s always something we like about our enemies, and there’s always something we dislike about our loved ones.

明明就是想念对方了，却故作轻松问一句“在干嘛？”；明明就是吃醋了，偏偏故作冷淡一言不发；明明就是舍不得，还假装潇洒“你走吧”；明明就是放不下，偷偷打开对方微博刷了又刷。一脸的傲娇终究藏不住心里的翻江倒海，你那点小心思，我都懂。
3. We might ask casually, “What are you doing?” when we miss someone; pretend to be indifferent and silent when we’re jealous; act cool and say, “Go ahead” when we can’t bear to part; or secretly check their Weibo over and over when we can’t let go. Our prideful expressions can’t hide the turmoil inside, and I understand all your little thoughts.

有的人，该忘就忘了吧！所谓的念念不忘，在自己眼里，是爱；在对方眼里，是烦；在别人眼里，是贱。
4. Forget about some people if you should! What we think is unforgetable love, in our own eyes, may be annoyance to the other person and despised by others.

当你越来越漂亮时，自然有人关注你。当你越来越有能力时，自然会有人看得起你。改变自己，你才有自信，梦想才会慢慢的实现。不要等夕阳西下的时候才对自己说，想当初、如果、要是，之类的话！不为别人，只为做一个连自己都羡慕的人。
5. When you become more beautiful, people will naturally pay attention to you. When you become more capable, people will naturally respect you. Change yourself, and you’ll gain confidence; your dreams will gradually come true. Don’t wait until the sunset to say, “I wish,” “if,” or “suppose”; do it for yourself, to become someone even you admire.

我常常怀念那些过去的事情或离开的人，不是因为他们有多美好，只是因为他们再也回不来了。
6. I often miss past events or people who have left, not because they were so wonderful, but because they will never come back.

我没想过要变得多强大，我只希望自己成为那种姑娘，不管经历过多少不平，有过多少伤痛，都舒展着眉头过日子，内心丰盛安宁，性格澄澈豁达。偶尔矫情却不矫揉造作，毒舌却不尖酸刻薄，不怨天尤人，不苦大仇深。对每个人真诚，对每件事热忱，相信这世上的一切都会慢慢好起来。
7. I don’t want to become very strong; I just want to be the kind of girl who, no matter how much injustice or pain she has experienced, lives with a relaxed brow, a rich and peaceful heart, and a clear and open-minded character. Occasionally being sentimental but not pretentious, sarcastic but not mean-spirited, not complaining about fate or feeling bitter. Being sincere to everyone, passionate about everything, and believing that everything in this world will gradually get better.

没人在乎你怎样在深夜痛哭，也没人在乎你辗转反侧的要熬几个秋。外人只看结果，自己独撑过程。等我们都明白了这个道理，便不会再在人前矫情，四处诉说以求宽慰。
8. No one cares how you cry in the dead of night, or how many autumns you toss and turn. Outsiders only see the results; you have to endure the process alone. Once we understand this truth, we won’t be sentimental in front of others or seek comfort everywhere.

一个人独处，并不是只丢下一切躲起来，而是要回到最纯粹的自己。
9. Being alone is not just about leaving everything behind and hiding; it’s about returning to the purest version of yourself.

真正的幸福的源泉在我们自身；一个人只要自己善于追求幸福，别人是无法使他落到真正悲惨的境地的。
10. The true source of happiness lies within us; as long as one is good at pursuing happiness, no one can truly make them miserable.

请接受你现在的样子，同时也完善你现在的样子。运动让你更有气质，读书让你看见未见过的世界，穿衣打扮让你对每天都有期待，不需要成为别人嘴里的那个人，只愿自己在摩肩接踵的人群里，不会因为平凡而感到心慌，心里有底气，这个世界上不会再有第二个我了。
1. Accept who you are now, and at the same time, improve who you are now. Exercise makes you more有气质, reading allows you to see a world you’ve never seen before, dressing up makes you look forward to every day, and you don’t need to be the person others talk about. You just want to be in the crowded world and not feel panicked because of being ordinary. With confidence in your heart, there will be no second me in this world.

什么是爱情里的甜？是相看两不厌。即使吵架即使委屈，但想想那是你，便也是心甘情愿的。
2. What is sweetness in love? It’s looking at each other without getting tired. Even when arguing or feeling wronged, thinking it’s you makes it心甘情愿.

你必须只有内心丰富，才能摆脱这些生活表面的相似。
3. You must enrich your inner self to break free from the superficial similarities of life.

年少的时候，我觉得孤单是很酷的一件事情。长大以后，我觉得孤单是很凄凉的一件事。现在，我觉得孤单不是一件事。至少，努力不让它成为一件事。
4. When I was young, I thought being alone was cool. As I grew up, I thought being alone was a desolate thing. Now, I think being alone is not a thing. At least, try not to make it a thing.

我们共同经历过的每一件小事，在当时看来也许毫无意义，但注定会成为彼此毕生的秘密，因为在未来的日子里，哪怕各自努力想要诉说给任何一个外人听，都必然无法还原当时的景状，即使能说得清眼里曾看到的，也说不清心里曾掠过的。
5. Every little thing we’ve experienced together may have seemed meaningless at the time, but it’s destined to become a lifelong secret between us. Because in the future, even if we try hard to tell any outsider, we won’t be able to reproduce the scene at that time. Even if we can describe what we saw, we can’t explain what we felt in our hearts.

这个世界上肯定有另一个我，做着我不敢做的事，过着我想过的生活。
6. There must be another me in this world, doing the things I dare not do, living the life I want to live.

受了委屈，在其他人面前，都说好好的。给妈妈打电话，听到她的声音，才叫了一声妈，眼泪就下来了。因我知道，别人问怎么了，更多是满足八卦和好奇，不一定真的担心。只有妈妈问怎么了，才是切实的担心啊。哪怕整个世界都不在乎我，然可以确定的是，在妈妈的心中，我就是她的整个世界。
7. When I’m wronged, I say everything is fine in front of others. But when I call my mom and hear her voice, tears fall down as soon as I call her “Mom.” I know that when others ask what’s wrong, it’s more to satisfy gossip and curiosity, not necessarily real concern. Only when my mom asks what’s wrong, it’s genuine concern. Even if the whole world doesn’t care about me, I can be sure that in my mom’s heart, I am her whole world.

在青春的列车上，如果你要提前下车，请别推醒装睡的我，这样我可以沉睡到终点，假装不知道你已经离开。
8. On the train of youth, if you have to get off early, please don’t wake me up who is pretending to be asleep. This way, I can sleep until the end, pretending I don’t know you have left.

慢慢地，你就会知道，生活中真的没有几件事情是值得我们搭上礼貌、教养、人品和格局的。
9. Gradually, you will know that there are really only a few things in life worth sacrificing politeness, upbringing, character, and perspective for.

夏天还在眼前，眨眼就是年底，没认真对待陪伴的人和做过的事，是件很让人遗憾的事。怕没长大，就老了；怕没尽兴，就告别了。变厉害一点吧，懂得珍惜不再懒惰，跌倒爬起不再抱怨。变牛逼一点吧，想到就做不再拖延，该睡就睡不再熬夜。回忆里的人不在身边，就对身边还在的人好一点。
10. Summer is still in front of us, and in the blink of an eye, it’s the end of the year. It’s a pity not to take seriously the people who accompany us and the things we’ve done. I’m afraid of not growing up before getting old; I’m afraid of not enjoying ourselves before saying goodbye. Be a little better, learn to cherish and not be lazy, get up after falling and not complain. Be a little more awesome, do what you think without procrastination, sleep when you should and not stay up late. If the people in your memories are not by your side, be kinder to those who are still around you.

山上的人不要瞧不起山下的人，因为终有一天他们会上山取代你。上山的人也不要瞧不起下山的人，因为他风光时你还在山下。
11. People on the mountain should not look down on those below, because one day they will climb up and replace you. People climbing up should not look down on those going down either, because when they were at their peak, you were still at the bottom.

作为女性，先要争取经济独立，然后才有资格谈到应该争取什么。十五至二十五岁，争取读书及旅游机会；二十五至三十五，努力工作，继续进修，组织家庭，开始储蓄；三十五岁以后，将工作变为事业，加倍争取学习，一定要拥有若干资产防身。
12. As a woman, first strive for financial independence, and then you have the right to talk about what you should fight for. From 15 to 25, strive for opportunities to study and travel; from 25 to 35, work hard, continue to study, start a family, and begin saving; after 35, turn your job into a career, fight even harder for learning, and definitely own some assets for self-protection.

我想继续做个疯子，按照自己的梦想而不是其他人希望的方式生活。
13. I want to continue being a madman, living my dreams, not the way others hope.

不要在意不在意你的人。不要考虑不考虑你的人。不要担心不担心你的人。不要花时间给不会为你花时间的人。
14. Don’t care about those who don’t care about you. Don’t think about those who don’t consider you. Don’t worry about those who don’t worry about you. Don’t spend time on people who won’t spend time for you.

越长大对一些事情就越懒得解释，不是怕麻烦，而是知道很多事情解释不来。很多人到最后落得个分道扬镳，有时觉得可惜，有时觉得无法避免。这世上一定有你的同类，但一定不会多。总有人能听到你沉默背后的呼喊，愿有人能懂你的欲言又止。
1. The older I grow, the lazier I become in explaining things. It’s not about the trouble, but the realization that many things are inexplicable. Many people eventually part ways, sometimes it’s a pity, sometimes it’s inevitable. There must be someone out there like you, but not many. There will always be someone who can hear your silent cries and understand your hesitations.

每个人精力和感情都是有限的，人生的悲欢就是被身边几个人决定的。所以不要让那些不相关的人，不重要的人，比如路人，服务员，交情浅淡的同事等等，左右你的情绪，影响你的决定。你可以做的，就是把自己变强大，变可爱，让你身边的人快乐，这就是最大的成功。至于其他人，关你屁事。
2. Everyone’s energy and emotions are limited. The joys and sorrows of life are determined by just a few people around you. So don’t let irrelevant or unimportant people, such as strangers, waiters, acquaintances, etc., influence your emotions or decisions. What you can do is to become stronger and more likable, and make the people around you happy. That’s the greatest success. As for other people, it’s none of your business.

年纪不小了，该干嘛干嘛去，别一头扎进你那美丽的忧伤，一边拼命往里钻一边喊救命。
3. You’re not young anymore, so do what you should do. Don’t get lost in your beautiful sorrow, crying for help while diving deeper into it.

红尘陌上，独自行走，绿萝拂过衣襟，青云打湿诺言，山和水可以两两相忘，日与月可以毫无瓜葛。那时候，只一个人的浮世清欢，一个人的细水长流。
4. On the dusty road, walking alone, green vines brushing against my clothes, blue clouds dampening promises, mountains and waters can forget each other, the sun and the moon can have no connection. At that time, it’s just one person’s fleeting joy and gentle stream of life.

我想成为一个温柔的人，因为曾被温柔的人那样对待，深深了解那种被温柔相待的感觉。
5. I want to be a gentle person because I have been treated gently by others, and I deeply understand the feeling of being treated with tenderness.

我从童年的方向，看到的永远是你的背影，沿着通向君主的道路，你放牧乌云和羊群。雄辩的风带来洪水，胡同的逻辑深入人心，你召唤我成为儿子，我追随你成为父亲。
6. From the direction of my childhood, all I see is your back, leading the way to the monarch, herding dark clouds and sheep. Eloquent winds bring floods, and the logic of alleyways penetrates people’s hearts. You call me to be your son, and I follow you to be your father.

我们发状态传照片，不是为了告诉谁，我吃什么了，做什么了，和谁在一起，更不是要得瑟给谁看。而是有一天自己真的老了，搬着凳子无事可做晒太阳的时候，能拿出自己的流水式日记看一看，回忆一下那年那月，和朋友在一起的点点滴滴，自己年轻时的容颜……证明这个世界我来过，而且活的真实而精彩。
7. We post status updates and photos not to tell anyone what I’m eating, doing, or who I’m with, nor to show off. It’s so that one day when I’m really old, sitting idle in the sun, I can take out my diary and reminisce about the past, the moments I spent with friends, and my youthful appearance… proving that I’ve been in this world and lived a true and wonderful life.

已经渐渐养成不去解释的习惯，很多情绪也无从分享，干脆自我消化。懂的人自然懂，不懂的人再多解释也有时差，有些故事只能说给懂的人听。
8. I’ve gradually developed the habit of not explaining myself, and many emotions can’t be shared, so I just digest them myself. Those who understand will naturally understand, and those who don’t won’t, no matter how much I explain. Some stories can only be told to those who understand.

在年轻的时候，在那些充满了阳光的长长的下午，我无所事事，也无所怕惧，只因为我知道，在我的生命里，有一种永远的等待。挫折会来，也会过去，热泪会流下，也会收起，没有什么可以让我气馁的，因为，我有着长长的一生，而你，你一定会来。
9. In my youth, during those long afternoons filled with sunlight, I was idle and fearless, because I knew that in my life, there was an eternal waiting. Setbacks will come and pass, tears will flow and be wiped away, nothing can discourage me, because I have a long life, and you, you will surely come.

平庸将你的心灵烘干到没有一丝水分，然后荣光才会拨动你心灵最深处的弦。
10. Mediocrity dries up your soul to the point of no moisture, and then glory will touch the deepest strings of your heart.

人们宁愿去关心一个蹩脚电影演员的吃喝拉撒和鸡毛蒜皮，而不愿了解一个普通人波涛汹涌的内心世界。
11. People would rather care about the trivial matters of a mediocre movie actor than to understand the turbulent inner world of an ordinary person.

我们听到的一切都是一个观点，不是事实。我们看见的一切都是一个视角，不是真相。
12. Everything we hear is a viewpoint, not a fact. Everything we see is a perspective, not the truth.

风可以吹起一大张白纸，却无法吹走一只蝴蝶，因为生命的力量在于不顺从。
13. The wind can blow away a large piece of white paper but cannot carry off a butterfly, because the power of life lies in disobedience.

少年的时候，我疯狂的喜欢，“带我走”这三个字。 现在，我再也不会任性的让任何人带我走。 我学会了，自己走。
14. When I was young, I was crazy about the three words “take me away.” Now, I will never let anyone take me away capriciously. I’ve learned to walk on my own.

越亲近的人，越不知道底线在哪里。我们肆意开过火的玩笑，揭最深的伤疤，以为这才是真正相爱的证据，却忘了感情也有一个账户，也需要储蓄。所不同的是，余额归零的时候并不意味着重新开始，而是永远结束。
1. The closer people are, the less we know their boundaries. We recklessly make jokes, reveal the deepest scars, thinking it’s the proof of true love, but we forget that emotions also have an account that needs savings. The difference is that when the balance reaches zero, it doesn’t mean a fresh start, but an end forever.

时间决定你会在生命中遇见谁，你的心决定你想要谁出现在你生命里，而你的行为决定最后谁能留下。
2. Time decides who you will meet in life, your heart decides who you want to be in your life, and your actions decide who will stay in the end.

沉默，是对你一种语言，它诉说著心中的万万千千。感受，是心在聊天，它在交流着关于你我的一滴一点。淹没在世俗的波涛里，我在描绘着一场唯美的相见。怀揣着一个未了的使命，我虚构着你妩媚动人的笑颜。
3. Silence is a language for you, it tells the countless thoughts in the heart. Feelings are the heart chatting, exchanging every little bit about you and me. Drowning in the waves of the secular world, I am depicting a beautiful encounter. With an unfinished mission in my heart, I imagine your charming smile.

所有漂泊的人生都梦想着平静、童年、杜鹃花，正如所有平静的人生都幻想伏特加、乐队和醉生梦死。
4. All wandering lives dream of peace, childhood, and azalea flowers, just as all peaceful lives fantasize about vodka, bands, and a life of debauchery.

时间就是这个样子，徜徉其中徜觉得慢，一旦定睛回望，弹指之间。
5. Time is like this, it feels slow when you’re in it, but when you look back, it’s just a moment.

网络，是另外一个世界。灵魂可以漫步，思绪允许扩大某些幻觉；现实，是一个个白天黑夜，有清晰的笑脸，也有触手可及的伤悲；虚拟，有时像一张白纸，永远不碰它才能保持其纯洁。生活，有时如同化妆的体会，粉饰之下，一切如此完美。
6. The internet is another world. Souls can stroll, thoughts are allowed to expand certain illusions; reality is a series of day and night, with clear smiles and tangible sorrows; sometimes virtuality is like a blank sheet of paper, it can only remain pure if never touched. Life is sometimes like the experience of makeup, under the powder, everything seems perfect.

我遇见那么多人，可为什么偏偏是你，看起来最应该是过客的你，却在我心里占据这么重要的位置
7. I’ve met so many people, but why is it you, who seemed to be just a passerby, occupying such an important place in my heart?

无论吵闹多少次，说多少伤人的话，最后还是会因为舍不得对方而和好如初，这种感觉真好。
8. No matter how many times we quarrel or say hurtful words, in the end, we will make up because we can’t bear to lose each other. This feeling is great.

其实根本没有所谓的高冷，在你面前沉默寡言的人，在另一个人面前说不定会变成话唠，大多数人都可以在高冷和逗逼中随时切换毫不费力，区别在于你面对的人是谁。所谓高冷，只是没敞开心扉的前奏。
9. In fact, there is no such thing as being aloof. People who are silent and reserved in front of you may become talkative in front of someone else. Most people can switch between being aloof and funny effortlessly, the difference lies in who you are facing. So-called aloofness is just the prelude to not opening up one’s heart.

趁着年轻，你需要多受一点苦，然后才会真正谦恭。不然，你那自以为是的聪明和藐视一切的优越感迟早要毁了你。
10. While you’re young, you need to suffer more to become truly humble. Otherwise, your self-righteous intelligence and disdain for everything will eventually destroy you.

越是不懂事的男人，越希望爱人懂事。因为他做不到包容，迁就，也不会让步。而在爱情里，一个女人如果太懂事，恰恰不是好事。轻则，容易看起来没情趣，重则，被认为可欺，男人反而会肆意而任性。
11. The more immature a man is, the more he wants his lover to be sensible. Because he can’t be tolerant, accommodating, or give in. In love, if a woman is too sensible, it’s not a good thing. At worst, she may seem uninteresting, and at best, she may be seen as easy to bully, leading men to act recklessly and willfully.

其实，我从来不曾忘记，缘来、缘去，忧伤、欢喜，一切都是生命的必然经历。你若是微尘，就不能摆脱世俗的规律，注定要不断的沉浮与寻觅。你若是梦，就不能摆脱幻想的干预，注定要在真实和虚拟之间沉迷。
12. In fact, I have never forgotten, the coming and going of fate, sorrow and joy, everything is an inevitable experience in life. If you are a speck of dust, you cannot escape the laws of the world, destined to keep floating and searching. If you are a dream, you cannot escape the interference of fantasy, destined to be intoxicated between reality and illusion.

生命原是要不断地受伤和不断地复原。世界仍然是一个在温柔地等待着我成熟的果园。天这样蓝，树这样绿，生活原来可以这样的安宁和美丽。
13. Life is meant to keep getting hurt and healing. The world is still a gentle orchard waiting for me to mature. The sky is so blue, the trees are so green, life can be so peaceful and beautiful.

不如趁孤单一人时让自己优秀起来，不仅是对自己的负责，也是给未来那个人一个好的交代。你若盛开，蝴蝶自来。
14. Instead of being alone, make yourself better, not only for your own sake but also to give a good account to the future person. If you bloom, butterflies will come.

读书与上学无关，那是另一码事：读在校园之外，书在课本之外，读书来自生命中某种神秘的动力，与现实利益无关。而阅读经验如一路灯光，照亮人生黑暗，黑暗尽头是一豆烛火，即读书的起点。
1. Reading is unrelated to school; it’s another matter: reading outside the campus, books beyond textbooks, and reading driven by a mysterious force in life, unrelated to practical benefits. Reading experience is like a trail of lights, illuminating the darkness of life, with the end being a candle flame, the starting point of reading.

你能为对方做的事，就是不管对方出了什么事，都当他的朋友，当他的家人，当他的恋人，只是这样。这在某些时刻和场合，是一种最极致的爱愿表现。
2. The best thing you can do for someone is to be their friend, family, and lover, no matter what happens to them. This is the ultimate expression of love in certain moments and situations.

年轻不是指玫瑰般的脸颊、红润的嘴唇、柔软的膝盖。它是一种愿望、一种超强的想象和充沛的情绪，它是充满活力的生命深泉。没有人仅通过年岁来长大，当我们放弃了思考就开始变老。年岁可能弄皱我们的皮肤，但放弃热情则会弄皱我们的灵魂。
3. Being young is not about rosy cheeks, red lips, or supple knees. It’s about desires, a powerful imagination, and abundant emotions. It’s the source of a vibrant life. We don’t grow old just by the years; we start aging when we give up thinking. Age may wrinkle our skin, but giving up passion wrinkles our soul.

如果你越来越冷漠，你以为你成长了，但其实没有。长大应该是变温柔，对全世界都温柔。成熟，是对很多事物都能放下，都能慈悲，愿以善眼望世界。
4. If you become more indifferent, you think you’ve grown up, but you haven’t. Growing up means becoming gentle, gentle towards the whole world. Maturity is about letting go and being compassionate towards many things, willing to see the world with kind eyes.

在你没有任何喜欢的人的时候，你过得是最轻松快乐的，尽管偶尔会觉得孤单了点。
5. When you don’t have anyone you like, you are the most carefree and happy, although sometimes you may feel a bit lonely.

生活越是清简，内心越是绚烂。有时候，无人懂得是更幽深的懂得，风长气静。
6. The simpler life is, the more splendid the inner world becomes. Sometimes, being misunderstood is a deeper understanding, with a calm and steady atmosphere.

好运只是个副产品，只有当你不带任何私心杂念，单纯地去做事情时，它才会降临。
7. Good luck is just a byproduct. It comes when you do things selflessly and simply, without any ulterior motives.

我们总以为还有时间，所以什么都留到明天。想看的电影没有看，想去的地方没有去，没想到就再也没有去过。我们没法预测未来，现在就尽量做现在想做的事。开心就开心，难过就难过，不憋屈不纠结，不犹豫。
8. We always think we have time, so we put everything off until tomorrow. The movies we want to watch, the places we want to visit, we never get around to them. We can’t predict the future, so we should try to do what we want to do now. Be happy when you’re happy, sad when you’re sad, without suppressing or hesitating.

我听见爱情，我相信爱情。爱情是一潭挣扎的蓝藻，如同一阵凄伟的风，穿过我失血的经脉，驻守岁月的信念。
9. I hear love, and I believe in love. Love is like a struggling blue-green algae, a magnificent wind passing through my bloodless veins, and a belief that stays with me through the years.

想离开的人有千万种理由，想陪伴你的赶不走。
10. People who want to leave have millions of reasons, but those who want to stay with you can’t be driven away.

很多时候，一个人选择了行走，不是因为欲望，也并非诱惑，他仅仅是听到了自己内心的声音。
11. Often, when a person chooses to walk, it’s not because of desire or temptation, but simply because they have heard the voice within their heart.

不要为旧的悲伤，浪费新的眼泪。不要为离开的过客，堵塞未来的道路。
12. Don’t waste new tears for old sorrows. Don’t block the future path for those who have left.

当我们喜欢上一个人的时候，她是展现在公众面前的样子：自信优雅时髦幽默体贴善解人意。当我们爱上了那个人，才发现她身体里那么多喜怒哀乐，她的悲伤软弱无理取闹她的种种，让你觉得你怎么会爱上这样一个人。这个时候我们总会忘了一件最重要的事——你能看到这些，是因为她也爱着你。
13. When we like someone, we see the public side of her: confident, elegant, fashionable, humorous, and considerate. When we fall in love with her, we discover all the emotions inside her body, her sadness, weakness, and unreasonableness, making us wonder how we could fall in love with such a person. At this time, we always forget the most important thing - you can see these because she loves you too.

时光的绝情之处是，它让你熬到真相，却不给你任何补偿。
14. The cruelty of time is that it lets you endure until the truth is revealed, but it doesn’t give you any compensation.

我们曾如此渴望命运的波澜，到最后才发现：人生最曼妙的风景，竟是内心的淡定与从容；我们曾如此期盼外界的认可，到最后才知道：世界是自己的，与他人毫无关系。
15. We once longed for the waves of fate, only to find out in the end that the most beautiful scenery in life is the calmness and composure within our hearts; we once eagerly awaited the recognition of the outside world, only to realize in the end that the world is our own and has nothing to do with others.

似水流年才是一个人的一切，其余的全是片刻的欢娱和不幸。
16. Time is everything to a person, while everything else is just fleeting joys and misfortunes.

最幸福的事莫过于最爱的人把你计划在他的未来里。
17. The happiest thing is when the person you love includes you in their future plans.

在平淡的生活中发现美，在淳朴的爱里感谢和回味，在渐渐老去的人生里互相温暖。
18. Discover beauty in ordinary life, appreciate and reminisce in simple love, and warm each other in the process of growing old.

爱情就像沙漏，心满了，脑子就空了。结婚又是什么感觉？删光曲库里所有的歌只留一首，设成无限循环播放，直到没电。
1. Love is like an hourglass; when the heart is full, the mind goes empty. What does marriage feel like? It’s like deleting all the songs in your music library and leaving only one, setting it to play on infinite loop until the battery dies.

走错了路，要记得回头；爱错了人，要懂得放手。人心都是相对的，以真换真；感情都是相互的，用心暖心。别去打扰那些已活在你记忆中的人，也许这才是最适合你们的距离 。只是一起走过一段路而已，何必把怀念弄的比经过还长。
2. If you take a wrong turn, remember to turn back; if you love the wrong person, learn to let go. People’s hearts are relative, exchanging sincerity for sincerity; emotions are mutual, warming each other with care. Don’t disturb those who only live in your memories, maybe this is the most suitable distance for you. You’ve only walked a part of the road together, why make the memories longer than the experience.

不要急着逃跑，也不要急着给答案。如果还有时间，就做现在做的事。时间能让你看清很多东西，包括你自己。
3. Don’t rush to escape, nor hurry to give answers. If there’s still time, just do what you’re doing now. Time can help you see many things clearly, including yourself.

人的一生要疯狂一次，无论是为一个人，一段情，一段路途或一个梦想。
4. In one’s life, you must go crazy once, whether for a person, a relationship, a journey, or a dream.

旅行最实验得出一个人的品行。旅行时最劳顿麻烦，叫人本性毕现。经过长期苦旅行而彼此不讨厌的人，才可结交做朋友。结婚以后的蜜月旅行是次序颠倒的，应该先旅行一个月，一个月舟车仆仆以后，双方还没有彼此看破，彼此厌恶，还要维持原来的婚约，这种夫妇保证不会离婚。
5. Travel is the best way to test a person’s character. The most exhausting and troublesome times during travel reveal one’s true nature. Only those who don’t grow tired of each other after a long, arduous journey can become friends. The honeymoon after marriage is in the wrong order; one should travel for a month first. After a month of traveling together, if both parties haven’t seen through each other, grown tired of each other, and still want to maintain their marriage, such couples are guaranteed not to divorce.

当你孤单的想着某个人，这时一个人关心你，你怦然心动。心情平静后，才知道不过是一时头脑发热而已。
6. When you’re lonely and thinking of someone, and someone shows concern for you, your heart races. After calming down, you realize it was just a momentary lapse in judgment.

有时不得不承认：经过几年，原来感觉差不多的人，不知不觉中差距越来越大……
7. Sometimes we have to admit: over the years, people who once seemed similar to us have grown increasingly distant without us realizing it…

有时候显得幼稚，是因为你还没重要到让那个人成熟的地步。不是每个人都值得动用情商。
8. Sometimes appearing childish is because you haven’t reached the point where someone needs to mature for you. Not everyone is worth using emotional intelligence on.

因为不想再被人看穿，于是学会了隐藏。因为不想再被人伤害，所以学会了伪装。
9. Because I don’t want to be seen through by others, I’ve learned to hide. Because I don’t want to be hurt, I’ve learned to pretend.

人的这一生经历黑暗是必须的，就像一个美丽的开口向上的完美抛物线，你要画完它，必须落到谷底，才能上升。只要生命还存续着，就不应该对人对物对未来失望，因为活人能做的改变是超乎想像的…
10. Experiencing darkness in life is necessary, just like a beautiful, upward-opening perfect parabola; to complete it, you must fall to the bottom before rising. As long as life still exists, we shouldn’t be disappointed with people, things, or the future, because the changes that living people can make are beyond imagination…

走过的路越多，越喜欢宅着。认识的人越多，越喜欢孩子。
11. The more roads you walk, the more you like staying at home. The more people you meet, the more you like children.

我羡慕的不是风华正茂的情侣，而是搀扶到老的夫妇。——有一种画面叫幸福，这种幸福叫白头偕老。
12. I don’t envy young lovers, but rather the elderly couples who support each other until old age. – There is a kind of happiness called growing old together.

我们羡慕白云的飘逸，我们可曾体会乌云的沉重;我们欣赏花儿的笑容，我们可否明白花开的裂痛;我们享受热茶的香浓，我们是否看到热茶将苦涩留给了自身;我们陶醉红烛温馨的光辉，我们可曾留意红烛默默流下的不舍泪痕。
13. We admire the elegance of white clouds, but have we ever experienced the heaviness of dark clouds? We appreciate the smiles of flowers, but do we understand the pain of blossoming? We enjoy the rich aroma of hot tea, but do we see the bitterness it leaves behind? We revel in the warm glow of red candles, but have we noticed the silent tears they shed?

懂得自嘲的人，是极聪明的人。他用贬低自己的方式，来保护自己。其实没人真正愿意承认自己不如别人，于是才有一种腹黑，是用尽各种极致的赞美，来为一个人树敌。做人的成功，不是你在时，别人如何赞美你。而是你离开后，别人是否还能想起你。
14. Those who know how to mock themselves are extremely intelligent. They protect themselves by belittling themselves. In fact, no one really wants to admit they are inferior to others, so there is a kind of dark humor that uses extreme praise to make enemies for someone. The success of a person lies not in how others praise you when you are around, but whether they still remember you after you are gone.

你说要敬往事一杯酒，再爱也不回头，实际就算你醉到黄昏独自愁，如果那人伸出手，你还是会跟他走。
15. You say you want to toast the past with a glass of wine, never looking back even if you love again. But in reality, even if you get drunk and feel lonely at dusk, if that person reaches out their hand, you will still go with them.

没有超脱，只能归属于混浊世界。没有修身，终究走向凋零的季节。生命，或是前因未了的忏悔。灵魂，无疑可以升华一切。呼吸阳光，畅饮雨露，深谷的花儿永远那么简单和纯美。融醉云霞，沐浴风雪，峭壁的草木永远那么高洁与无畏。
1. Without detachment, one can only belong to the turbid world. 2. Without self-cultivation, one will eventually head towards the season of withering. 3. Life, perhaps, is a repentance for unresolved past causes. 4. The soul, undoubtedly, can sublimate everything. 5. Breathing in sunlight, drinking rain and dew, the flowers in the deep valley are forever so simple and pure. 6. Blending into the clouds and mists, bathing in wind and snow, the plants on the cliffs are forever so noble and fearless.

一个人不应当虚度一天的时光，他至少应当听一曲好歌，读一首好诗，看一副好画。如果可能的话，至少说几句通达的话。
1. A person should not waste a day’s time; he should at least listen to a good song, read a good poem, and look at a good painting. If possible, say a few insightful words.

跋涉的历程很久很久，总以为最美的时刻应属于深秋，其实不然，深秋的纷纷落叶，让你觉得嫩绿的春天更值得逗留。回忆的画面太旧太旧，本以为繁花的世界就在追求，其实不是，追求中的失去，让我们明白人生的初见才是一杯永远芬香的酒。
2. The journey of life is long, and we always think that the most beautiful moments should belong to late autumn. However, that is not the case. The falling leaves of late autumn make you realize that the tender green spring is more worth lingering in.

愿你早日学会逢场作戏，愿你早点习惯物是人非，毕竟不是每一个人都和天真的你一样容易动真情。
3. The memories are too old, and we thought that the world of blooming flowers was what we were pursuing. In fact, it is not. The losses in pursuit make us understand that the first encounter in life is a cup of wine that always exudes fragrance.

光阴蹉跎，世界喧嚣，我自己要警惕，在人生旅途上保持一份童趣和闲心是不容易的。如果哪一天我只是埋头于人生中的种种事务，不再有兴致扒在车窗旁看沿途的风光，倾听内心的音乐，那样使辜负了人生这一趟美好的旅行。
4. May you learn to play along early, and may you get used to the changes in people and things sooner. After all, not everyone is as naive as you and easily moved by true feelings.

你人再好不是每个人都会喜欢你，有人羡慕你也有人讨厌你有人嫉妒你也有人看不起你，生活就是这样，你所做的一切不能让每个人都满意，不要为了讨好别人而丢失自己的本性，因为每个人都有原则和自尊。
5. Time flies, and the world is noisy. I must be vigilant to maintain a sense of childlike wonder and leisure in my journey through life. It is not easy to do so. If one day I am only immersed in the various affairs of life, no longer interested in looking out the window to enjoy the scenery along the way, and listening to the music within, I would have wasted this beautiful trip of life.

奈何一个人随着年龄增长，梦想便不复轻盈。他开始用双手掂量生活，更看重果实而非花朵。
1. Alas, as a person grows older, their dreams no longer remain light. They begin to weigh life with their hands, valuing the fruits more than the flowers.

当一些熟悉的面容渐渐远走，当那些新的脸孔在眼前晃动，你会明白什么是旅程。当眼角悄悄进驻了鱼尾纹，当青春痘剩下了思念的份，你会理解什么是青春。当你阅尽了世间冷暖，就能体会什么是假、什么是真。当你看多了物是人非，就会懂得什么是短暂、什么是永恒。
2. When familiar faces gradually fade away, and new faces sway before your eyes, you will understand what a journey is. When the corners of your eyes quietly welcome crow’s feet, and the remaining acne becomes a memory of longing, you will comprehend what youth is.

每个人生下来都是王，而大多数人却在放逐中死去。
3. After experiencing the world’s warmth and coldness, you can appreciate what is fake and what is true. When you’ve seen enough changes in people and things, you’ll learn what is fleeting and what is eternal.

你的单纯，是一片片雪花，你以空灵的姿态，用整个生命向大地倾情挥洒，你因善感而变得冰冷，你因梦幻倾尽一生风华;你的柔情，像一处处风沙，你用缠绵的方式，以灵魂演绎世间种种美好的一刹那，你因自由不惜四海为家，你为追求情愿浪迹天涯。
4. Every person is born a king, but most die in exile.

将一些记忆锯掉，让梦想轻装起锚，我不适合停留，我适合奔跑;把所有的虚幻搬开，让真实浓墨上台，我不属于现在，我属于未来。
5. Your innocence is like snowflakes, with an ethereal posture, pouring your entire life onto the earth. You become cold due to sensitivity, and you spend your life’s elegance for dreams; your tenderness is like wind and sand, with an entwined manner, interpreting the beautiful moments of the world with your soul. You are willing to be homeless for freedom, and you’d rather wander the ends of the earth in pursuit of love.

不管天气怎样，给自己的世界一片晴朗；不管季节变换，让自己的内心鸟语花香。
1. No matter the weather, bring a sunny sky to your own world.

如果你不变强，连死的方式都不能自己选择。
2. No matter the seasons change, let your inner world be filled with birdsong and blossoms.

累了，让心吹吹风；伤了，让梦醒一醒；痛了，让脚步停一停。一辈子是场修行，短的是旅途，长的是人生，旅行，能让你遇到那个更好的自己。
1. Tired, let the heart take a breath of wind; hurt, let the dream wake up for a while; in pain, let the footsteps stop for a moment. A lifetime is a journey of self-cultivation, short is the trip, long is life, and traveling allows you to meet a better version of yourself.

所谓良辰美景，就是用来虚设的，因为，人生中，大多数的良辰美景只是用来错过的，所有的幸福，总是会经过磨难与艰险。
2. The so-called beautiful moments and scenery are meant to be missed, because in life, most of the beautiful moments and scenery are just meant to be missed, and all happiness will always go through trials and hardships.

日出时，努力使每一天都开心而有意义，不为别人，为自己。世上没有不平的事，只有不平的心。不去怨，不去恨，淡然一切，往事如烟。
3. At sunrise, strive to make every day happy and meaningful, not for others, but for yourself. There is no injustice in the world, only an unjust heart. Do not complain, do not hate, let go of everything, and the past will be like smoke.

有些伴侣闹分手的过程很纠结，分分合合好几次，分也分不开，断也断不了。这表明两人并非不合适，只因为他们的沟通模式是以自我为中心，听不到对方的心声，各说各话，始终找不到共赢的方法。如果沟通中只是阐明自己的观点，那是说教，不是沟通。
4. Some couples have a very entangled process of breaking up, splitting and reconciling several times, unable to separate or break off. This shows that the two people are not incompatible, but because their communication mode is self-centered, they cannot hear each other’s voices, each talking about their own, and never finding a win-win method. If communication is just about stating one’s own opinions, it is preaching, not communication.

有多少残酷，你就该有多少坚强；有多少努力，你就会有多少光芒。站在时光的彼岸，回看此岸的光阴，茫茫人海，每一场遇见，都是一次美丽。
5. The more cruelty there is, the stronger you should be; the more effort you put in, the more brilliance you will have. Standing on the other side of time, looking back at the time on this shore, in the vast sea of people, every encounter is a beauty.

当脾气来的时候，福气就走了！人的优雅关键在于控制自己的情绪。用嘴伤人是最愚蠢的一种行为。一个能控制住不良情绪的人，比一个能拿下一座城池的人更强大。水深则流缓，语迟则人贵。我们花了两年的时间学说话，却要花数十年的时间学会闭嘴。可见：说，是一种能力；不说，是一种智慧。
6. When temper comes, fortune goes! The key to a person’s elegance lies in controlling their emotions. Hurting others with words is the most foolish behavior. A person who can control their negative emotions is stronger than one who can capture a city. The deeper the water, the slower the flow; the later the speech, the more valuable the person. It takes two years to learn to speak, but decades to learn to keep silent. It shows that speaking is a skill, and not speaking is wisdom.

人生到头来，你活了多少岁不算什么，重要的是，你是如何度过这些岁月的。接受不完美的自己。在孤独的时候，给自己安慰；在寂寞的时候，给自己温暖。
7. In the end, how many years you live doesn’t matter, what’s important is how you spend those years. Accept your imperfect self. Comfort yourself when lonely, and warm yourself when lonely.

做人智商不高没关系，情商不高也问题不大，但做人的格局定是要大。如果一点点挫折就让你爬不起来，如果一两句坏话就让你不能释怀，那你的格局就太小了。说白了，你可以不聪明，也可以不懂交际，但一定要大气。
8. It’s okay if you’re not smart, and it’s not a big problem if you don’t have high emotional intelligence, but your mindset must be broad. If a little setback makes you unable to get up, if a few bad words make you unable to let go, then your mindset is too small. In short, you can be not smart, and you can be bad at socializing, but you must be magnanimous.

没有人会喜欢孤独，只是比起失望，随欲，以及冷热交替后的纵横来说，孤独会让人更踏实。
9. No one likes loneliness, but compared to disappointment, desire, and the ups and downs of hot and cold, loneliness makes people more grounded.

时光静好，不是雨无心，只是泪多情，因你欢喜，也因你伤悲。对身边的人好点，因为重要的人越来越少，剩下的越来越重要。
10. Time is peaceful, not because the rain is heartless, but because tears are emotional, because of your joy and your sorrow. Be kind to the people around you, because the important people are becoming fewer and fewer, and the remaining ones are becoming more and more important.

我不是冷血，更不是慢热。我只是害怕，投入太多，离开的时候会难过。在孤独的时候，给自己安慰；在寂寞的时候，给自己温暖。积累坚强，面对阳光。
1. I am not cold-blooded, nor am I slow to warm up. I am just afraid that if I invest too much, I will be sad when it’s time to leave. In lonely moments, I comfort myself; in moments of solitude, I warm myself. Accumulate strength and face the sunshine.

经历越多，越觉得这句话特别对：有些人真的不能把他们当成人看，他们只不过是披着人皮的禽兽。
2. The more experiences I have, the more I feel this saying is particularly true: some people really can’t be treated as human beings, they are just beasts in human skin.

做一个平静的人，做一个善良的人，做一个微笑挂在嘴边，快乐放在心上的人。
3. Be a calm person, be a kind person, be someone with a smile on their lips and happiness in their heart.

能放下自己的脾气向你的坏脾气低头的人，并不是因为怕你，而是比你更懂得珍惜。
4. Those who can put aside their own temper and bow to your bad temper are not afraid of you, but cherish you more than you do.

坎坷路途，给身边一份温暖；风雨人生，给自己一个微笑。没有什么大不了的事情，在时间面前，都是小事。人生只是条单行线，别让你的命运处处皆是遗憾。
5. On a bumpy road, give warmth to those around you; in a life of ups and downs, give yourself a smile. There are no big deals, in the face of time, everything is trivial. Life is a one-way street, don’t let your fate be filled with regrets.

人生像是个碰碰车，碰对了方向，光彩一辈子；碰对了环境，舒坦一辈子；碰对了时运，顺当一辈子；碰对了爱好，充实一辈子；碰对了爱人，幸福一辈子；碰对了情人，相思一辈子；碰对了领导，宽松一辈子；碰对了朋友，快乐一辈子；把这个转给自己的朋友，你就会幸福一辈子。
6. Life is like a bumper car, bump in the right direction and shine for a lifetime; bump in the right environment, be comfortable for a lifetime; bump in the right fortune, be smooth for a lifetime; bump in the right hobby, be fulfilling for a lifetime; bump in the right lover, be happy for a lifetime; bump in the right friend, be joyful for a lifetime; share this with your friends, and you will be happy for a lifetime.

没有幸福的才晒幸福，真幸福的人哪有空出来晒。没钱的人才会炫富，真有钱的人都是装穷。缺爱的人才会天天秀恩爱，真爱的早就结婚生子了。内心虚弱的人才要经常夸自己善良，真善良的都是有口皆碑无需自吹。所以，缺啥才晒啥。好日子不是晒出来的，而是过出来的。
7. Those who lack happiness show off their happiness, but truly happy people have no time to do so. Those who have no money flaunt their wealth, but truly wealthy people pretend to be poor. Those who lack love show off their affection every day, but true love has already led to marriage and children. Those who are weak inside often praise their own kindness, but truly kind people have a good reputation without bragging. So, if you lack something, you show it off. Good days are not shown off, but lived.

我已经做好了要陪你一生的打算，爱情无望，就让友情来替我圆谎。
8. I have already made up my mind to accompany you for a lifetime, if love is hopeless, let friendship cover for me.

有些事，轻轻的放下，你未必也就不是轻松。有些小事，想多了也就变成大事。有些细节，想重了就变成惨剧。说来说去，全是幻想而已。所以说，人重累人，心重累心。做人要放轻松。
9. Some things, when gently put down, may not necessarily make you feel relaxed. Some small matters, when overthought, become big issues. Some details, when overemphasized, become tragedies. In the end, it’s all just fantasy. So, people who carry a heavy burden wear themselves out, and those who carry a heavy heart wear their heart out. Relax and be at ease.

人生苦短，不想计较太多，与其在纷扰中度日如年，不如让自己在舒适中耗尽余生。
10. Life is short and bitter, I don’t want to care too much. Instead of living day by day in turmoil, it’s better to let myself spend the rest of my life in comfort.

既然无处可逃，不如喜悦。既然没有净土，不如静心。既然没有如愿，不如释然。当你回归内心的安宁，不再计较得失，不再挑剔他人，便安住在圆满中，当下即是归处。人的幸福感是自己给的，内心满足即圆满；若内心不知足，就很难得到真正的幸福。所谓圆满不是没苦乐，而是苦乐随喜，悲喜随缘。
11. Since there’s nowhere to escape, it’s better to be joyful. Since there’s no pure land, it’s better to be at peace. Since things don’t go as wished, it’s better to let go. When you return to the peace within, no longer caring about gains and losses, no longer being critical of others, you will find contentment and be at home in the present moment. Happiness is something we give ourselves, and contentment brings completeness; if the heart is never satisfied, it’s hard to find true happiness. True contentment is not about being without sorrow or joy, but about embracing both and going with the flow.

人这一辈子，有些事是出乎意料的，人的心智成熟是一个逐渐剔除的过程，知道自己最重要的是什么，知道不重要的东西是什么。而后，做一个纯简的人。
12. In this life, some things are unexpected. The maturation of one’s mind is a gradual process of elimination, knowing what is most important and what is not. Then, be a simple and pure person.

你若安好，便是晴天。你若幸福，便是终点。你若盛开，清风自来。你若流泪，先湿我心。你若未央，安若暖城。你若微笑，日光倾城。你若回忆，半暖倾殇。你若离去，后会无期。你若回眸，一笑倾城。你若不离，我亦不弃！
13. If you are well, it’s a sunny day. If you are happy, it’s the destination. If you bloom, the breeze comes. If you shed tears, my heart is dampened first. If you are not gone, it’s a warm city. If you smile, the sunlight floods the city. If you reminisce, it’s half warm and half sorrowful. If you leave, there will be no more meetings. If you look back, your smile conquers the city. If you don’t leave, I will not abandon you!

少关心别人的逸闻私事，多留意别人的思路观点。
14. Pay less attention to other people’s gossip and more attention to their ideas and perspectives.

一辈子虽然漫长，但过去了也就是弹指一挥。你会不断的遇见一些人，也会不停的和一些人说再见，从陌生到熟悉，从熟悉再回陌生，从臭味相投到分道扬镳，从相见恨晚到不如不见……不是每个人都会是你的伙伴，也不是每个朋友都能肝胆相见，无烦或恼，缘到，报之以大笑，缘散，报之以不厌。
1. Although life is long, the past is just a flick of the wrist. You will constantly meet some people and keep saying goodbye to some, from strangers to acquaintances, from familiarity back to strangers, from like-minded to parting ways, from regretting not meeting earlier to wishing not to meet at all… Not everyone will be your companion, and not every friend can be trusted with your heart, without annoyance or irritation, when fate comes, respond with laughter, when fate disperses, respond without complaint.

以前总认为坚持会让我们变强大，但是长大后发现，让我们强大的，是放下。
2. In the past, I always thought persistence would make us strong, but as I grew up, I found that what makes us strong is letting go.

你身边真正的朋友，跟你美丑没多大关系，跟你有钱没钱没多大关系，可一定跟你是否善良，是否幽默有关系。朋友不是有难就一定帮得了你的那个人，但一定是那个不会笑话你的人。
3. The true friends around you have little to do with your appearance or wealth, but they are definitely related to whether you are kind and humorous. A friend is not necessarily the one who can help you in times of difficulty, but they are definitely the one who won’t mock you.

有些事，不说的话自己又觉得憋屈，说了的话又怕被人说矫情，其实这就是内心不够强大的表现，所以无法做到将坏情绪自我消化，也无法做到心无旁骛不畏人言。只愿你我都能早日拥有一颗强大的内心，好抵御未来那些未知的风雨。
4. Some things, if not said, feel suffocating, but if said,又怕 being called melodramatic. This is actually a manifestation of not having a strong enough inner self, so it is impossible to digest bad emotions by oneself, nor to be undisturbed and unafraid of others’ words. May you and I both possess a strong inner self as soon as possible to withstand the unknown storms in the future.

世界上最厉害的本领是什么？是以愉悦的心情老去，是在想工作的时候能选择休息，是在想说话的时候保持沉默，是在失望的时候又燃起希望。
5. What is the most powerful skill in the world? It is to age with a pleasant mood, to be able to choose rest when you want to work, to remain silent when you want to speak, and to rekindle hope when disappointed.

我觉得人跟人沟通有时候没有用，讲出来就跟你心里想的不一样，别人听到耳朵里又变成另外一种味道，讲来讲去反而造成误会。人最懂的还是自己，有时候人的情愫其实是自己没有办法消化的表现。幸运的能找到一个人开解你，不幸运的可能只是给别人多了一个谈资，让自己更加糊涂。
6. I think sometimes communication between people is useless, as what you say is different from what you think, and what others hear becomes another meaning, causing misunderstandings. People understand themselves the best, and sometimes emotions are just manifestations that one cannot digest. Fortunately, you can find someone to help you, but unfortunately, you may just provide more gossip for others and become more confused yourself.

你只能折腾到在乎你的人，对于不在乎你的人，忘记了你的人，你的所作所为根本起不了任何作用。
7. You can only affect those who care about you; for those who don’t care about you or have forgotten you, your actions have no effect at all.

读一些无用的书，做一些无用的事，花一些无用的时间，都是为了在一切已知之外，保留一个超越自己的机会。人生中一些很了不起的变化，就是来自这种时刻。
8. Read some useless books, do some useless things, spend some useless time, all in order to preserve an opportunity to surpass yourself beyond everything known. Some remarkable changes in life come from such moments.

一个人至少拥有一个梦想，有一个理由去坚强。心若没有栖息的地方，到哪里都是在流浪。
9. A person should at least have one dream and a reason to be strong. If the heart has no place to rest, being anywhere is like wandering.

心存感激地生活吧。我们来自偶然，生命是最宝贵的礼物。爱你所爱的人，温柔地对待一切，不要因不幸而怨恨和悲戚。无论前途怎样凶险，都要微笑着站定，因为有爱，我们不该恐惧。
10. Live with gratitude. We come from chance, and life is the most precious gift. Love the people you love, treat everything gently, and don’t resent or grieve due to misfortune. No matter how dangerous the future is, stand firm with a smile, because with love, we should not fear.

上帝的建议是，不要强调自己多么重要，受了多少委屈，也不要一心想着去改变个人的屈辱，我们应该努力去理解并且欣赏自己本质上的微不足道。
11. God’s advice is not to emphasize how important you are, how much injustice you have suffered, nor to focus on changing personal humiliation. We should strive to understand and appreciate our own essential insignificance.

如果有人伤害了你，可以原谅他，但不要再轻易相信他。原谅是放过自己，而盲目信任却只会给他再伤害你的机会。
12. If someone hurts you, you can forgive them, but don’t trust them easily again. Forgiveness is letting go of yourself, while blind trust only gives them another chance to hurt you.

你从不欠别人一段恋爱，也不欠任何人一个孩子，你只欠自己一个幸福的模样。
13. You don’t owe anyone a relationship or a child; you only owe yourself a happy appearance.

每过一段时间，都要将过去“清零”，让自己重新开始。不要让过去成为现在的包袱，轻装上阵才能走得更远。人的心灵就像一个容器，时间长了里面难免会有沉渣。时时清空心灵的沉渣，该放手时就放手，该忘记的要忘记。扔掉过去的包袱，时时刷新自己，这样必能收获满意人生。
1. Every once in a while, we need to “reset” the past and allow ourselves to start anew. 2. Don’t let the past become a burden for the present; only by traveling light can we go further. 3. The human soul is like a container, and over time, it inevitably accumulates sediment. 4. Constantly empty the sediment from the soul, let go when it’s time to let go, and forget when it’s time to forget. 5. Discard the burdens of the past, refresh yourself constantly, and you will surely reap a satisfying life.

你不必逞强，不必说谎，懂你的人，自然会知道你原本的模样。
1. You don’t have to pretend to be strong, nor lie; those who understand you will naturally know your true self.

不后悔，莫过于做好三件事：一是知道如何选择；二是明白如何坚持；三是懂得如何珍惜。
2. No regrets can be summed up in three things: knowing how to choose, understanding how to persist, and learning how to cherish.

鱼刺卡过喉咙你却还是喜欢吃鱼，被狗咬过被猫抓过你却还是热爱动物，满口蛀牙你却还是嗜甜如命。他弃你于千里之外，你却还愿为见他走遍千山万水，道理是相同的。你喜欢，就甘愿。
3. You still love fish even though a bone got stuck in your throat; you still love animals even though a dog bit you and a cat scratched you; you still have a sweet tooth despite having cavities. He abandoned you, yet you’re willing to travel thousands of miles to see him. The principle is the same. If you like it, you’re willing.

对你突然发火的人，你不知道他在心里忍了你多少次；看起来决绝果断的人，你不知道他在心里下定了多少次决心，才能真正做到不回头；闪闪发光如同信仰存在的人，你不知道他背后付出的代价和努力，让他看起来毫不费力。别怪他们太冷漠，别羡慕他们很果断，别说他们不付出，只是你不知道而已。
4. Don’t blame those who suddenly get angry at you; you don’t know how many times they’ve tolerated you in their hearts. Don’t envy those who seem resolute and decisive; you don’t know how many times they’ve made up their minds in order to truly not look back. Don’t say they don’t put in effort; you just don’t know about the sacrifices and hard work they’ve made to make it look effortless.

对自己好，就要用心；对别人好，就要关心。看别人，烦恼起；看自己，智慧生。体谅别人，就会做人；清楚自己，就会做事。人经不起考验，故不要轻易考验于人。
5. Be kind to yourself, and you’ll be wise; be considerate of others, and you’ll be mature. Understanding others leads to good relationships; knowing yourself leads to success. People can’t withstand tests, so don’t test others easily.

做人，人品为先，才能为次；做事，明理为先，勤奋为次。
6. In life, character comes first, followed by talent; in work, understanding comes first, followed by diligence.

念着彼岸，却注定此岸绽放。花开有时，竟已是千年。
7. Longing for the other shore, yet destined to bloom on this shore. The flowers bloom sometimes, and it turns out to have been a thousand years.

原来让一个人变强大的最好方式，就是拥有一个想要保护的人。
8. The best way to make someone strong is to have someone they want to protect.

我觉得世界上所有事情都在你没有准备好的时候，就开始；在你准备好的时候，就结束了。
9. I think everything in the world starts when you’re not ready and ends when you are.

你不可能要求一个没有风暴的海洋。那不是海，是泥潭。
10. You can’t demand an ocean without storms. That’s not an ocean, it’s a swamp.

没必要刻意遇见谁，也不急于拥有谁，更不勉强留住谁。一切顺其自然，最好的自己留给最后的人。
11. There’s no need to deliberately meet someone, nor rush to possess them, nor try hard to keep them. Let things take their course, and save the best of yourself for the last person.

有一种关系叫脆弱，我只要关掉电脑关掉手机，可能你这辈子都不会联系到我了。
12. There’s a relationship called fragility; if I turn off my computer and phone, you might never contact me in your lifetime.

这个世界上，总有那么一个人让你束手无策，即使他一无是处，即使他劣迹斑斑，你却仍然非他不可。这就是感情的圆周率，无限不循环。
13. In this world, there’s always someone who leaves you helpless, even if they have no redeeming qualities or have a terrible past, you still can’t help but love them. This is the irrationality of emotions, an infinite non-repeating decimal.

我没有更多的祝福给你，只希望你那边天气适宜，有茶可以喝，有人关心你，不会失眠，不会被骗。
14. I don’t have more blessings for you, just hope that the weather is suitable where you are, there’s tea to drink, people who care about you, no insomnia, and no deception.

一件事无论太晚或者太早，都不会阻拦你成为你想成为的那个人，这个过程没有时间的期限，只要你想，随时都可以开始。
15. No matter how late or early it is, it won’t stop you from becoming the person you want to be. There’s no time limit for this process; whenever you want, you can start.

世界那么大，爱一个人容易，被一个人爱也容易，唯独找到一个具有相同频率彼此相爱的人却那么难，当自己最爱的人和最爱自己的人是同一个人的时候，那么你就是世界上最幸福的人，念念不忘，必有回响，不忘初心，方得始终。
16. The world is so big, it’s easy to love someone and be loved by someone, but it’s so hard to find someone with the same frequency to love each other. When the person you love the most and the one who loves you the most is the same person, then you are the happiest person in the world. Remembering always brings an echo, and staying true to your original heart will lead you to the end.

如果那里天气晴朗，你就留在那里；如果那里风雨凄凉，请赶快回到我身旁。
17. If the weather is fine there, stay there; if it’s miserable, come back to me as soon as possible.

你问我多喜欢你我说不出来，但我心里明白，我宁愿和你吵架，也不愿意去爱别人。
18. You ask me how much I like you, I can’t say it, but I know in my heart that I’d rather argue with you than love someone else.

曾经发脾气，三天三夜哄不好，如今生个气，转眼就觉没必要。时间让人慢慢长成了好脾气，所以，看一个人成熟的程度，要看他平息怒火需要多长时间。
19. Once, I had a temper tantrum that lasted for three days and three nights, and no amount of coaxing could calm me down. Now, I get angry and instantly feel it’s unnecessary. Time has gradually made me a better person, so to measure someone’s maturity, you have to see how long it takes for them to calm down their anger.

愿再次相见，你我都已褪去青涩不安，都能独当一面。
1. May we meet again, both of us having shed our youthful insecurities and being able to stand on our own.

当你放下面子对老婆好的的时候，说明你已经成为一个真正的男人了。当你给足老婆面子的时候，说明你已经成功了。当你老婆什么时候都会给你面子的时候，说明你已经是人物了。当你还停留在那里自私、耍横，啥也给不了老婆，只知道以自我为中心的时候，说明你这辈子也就这样了。
2. When you can put aside your pride to treat your wife well, it means you have become a real man. When you give your wife enough face, it means you have succeeded. When your wife always gives you face, it means you are a person of importance. When you still stay there being selfish, domineering, unable to give anything to your wife, only knowing to be self-centered, it means that’s all you will ever be in this life.

你是我温暖的手套，冰冷的啤酒，带着阳光味道的衬衫，日复一日的梦想。
3. You are my warm gloves, cold beer, shirts with the scent of sunshine, and dreams day after day.

当你可以直面自己身体里与生俱来的笨拙与孤独，你便能够彻底谅解过去的自己。大多数人都像我们这样活着，虽不聪明，但诚恳；虽会犯错，但坦然。
4. When you can face the innate clumsiness and loneliness within yourself, you will be able to completely forgive your past self. Most people live like us, not very smart but sincere; they make mistakes but are honest.