1、你问我爱你值比值得，其实你应该知道，爱就是不问值不值得。
1. You ask if I love you, whether it’s worth it. In fact, you should know that love is about not questioning whether it’s worth it or not.

2、替别人做点事，又有点怨，活着才有意思，否则太空虚了。
2. Doing things for others and having a little resentment makes life interesting; otherwise, it’s too empty.

3、人因为心里不快乐，才浪费，是一种补偿作用。
3. People waste because they are unhappy in their hearts, as a form of compensation.

4、因为懂得，所以慈悲。
4. Because of understanding, there is compassion.

5、短的是生命，长的是磨难。
5. Life is short, but tribulations are long.

6、男人彻底懂得一个女人之后，是不会爱她的。
6. Once a man completely understands a woman, he will not love her.

7、小小的忧愁和困难可以养成严肃的人生观。
7. Slight worries and difficulties can cultivate a serious outlook on life.

8、无用的女人是最最厉害的女人。
8. A useless woman is the most formidable woman.

9、你年轻么？不要紧，过两年就老了。
9. Are you young? Don’t worry, you’ll be old in a couple of years.

10、深情是我担不起的重担，情话只是偶然兑现的谎言。
10. Deep love is a heavy burden I cannot bear, and sweet words are just occasional lies that come true.

11、笑，全世界便与你同声笑，哭，你便独自哭。
11. If you laugh, the whole world will laugh with you; if you cry, you will cry alone.

12、这世上没有一样感情不是千疮百孔的。
12. There is no relationship in this world that is not full of holes.

13、书是最好的朋友。唯一的缺点是使我近视加深，但还是值得的。
13. Books are the best friends. The only drawback is that they deepen my nearsightedness, but it’s still worth it.

14、要做的事情总找得出时间和机会；不要做的事情总找的出藉口。
14. If you want to do something, you can always find the time and opportunity; if you don’t want to do something, you can always find an excuse.

15、能够爱一个人爱到问他拿零用钱的程度，都是严格的考验。
15. Being able to love someone to the extent of asking for pocket money is a strict test.

16、爱情本来并不复杂，来来去去不过三个字，不是“我爱你，我恨你，”“便是算了吧，你好吗？对不起。
16. Love is not complicated; it comes and goes in just three words: “I love you, I hate you,” or “forget it, how are you? I’m sorry.”

17、对于不会说话的人，衣服是一种语言，随身带着的是袖珍戏剧。
17. For those who cannot speak, clothes are a language, carrying a miniature drama with them.

18、回忆永远是惆怅。愉快的使人觉得：可惜已经完了，不愉快的想起来还是伤心。
18. Memories are always melancholic. Pleasant memories make people feel regretful that they are over, while unpleasant ones still bring sadness when recalled.

19、回忆这东西若是有气味的话，那就是樟脑的香，甜而稳妥，像记得分明的块乐，甜而怅惘，像忘却了的忧愁。
19. If memories have a scent, it would be the fragrance of camphor, sweet and stable, like clearly remembered happiness, sweet and nostalgic, like forgotten sorrows.

20、一个知己就好象一面镜子，反映出我们天性中最优美的部分。
20. A confidant is like a mirror, reflecting the most beautiful parts of our nature.

21、我喜欢钱，因为我没吃过钱的苦，不知道钱的坏处，只知道钱的好处。
21. I like money because I have never suffered from it, and I don’t know its drawbacks; I only know its advantages.

22、我们再也回不去了！
22. We can never go back!

23、对于三十岁以后的人来说，十年八年不过是指缝间的事，而对于年轻人而言，三年五年就可以是一生一世。
23. For people over thirty, ten or eight years is just a matter of time; but for young people, three or five years can be a lifetime.

24、喜欢一个人，会卑微到尘埃里，然后开出花来。
24. Loving someone can make one humble to the point of dust, and then bloom like a flower.

25、生命是一袭华美的袍，爬满了蚤子。
25. Life is a magnificent robe, covered with lice.

26、人生最大的幸福，是发现自己爱的人正好也爱着自己。
26. The greatest happiness in life is to find that the person you love is also in love with you.

27、你死了，我的故事就结束了，而我死了，你的故事还长得很。
27. If you die, my story ends; but if I die, your story is still long.

28、我爱你，为了你的幸福，我愿意放弃一切—包括你。
28. I love you, and for your happiness, I am willing to give up everything - including you.

29、听到一些事，明明不相干的，也会在心中拐好几个弯想到你。
29. Hearing some things, even if they are unrelated, will still make me think of you in my heart after several turns.

30、但是，酒在肚子里，事在心里，中间总好象隔着一层，无论喝多少酒，都淹不到心上去。
30. But the wine in my stomach and the matter in my heart seem to be separated by a layer; no matter how much wine I drink, it cannot drown my heart.

31、善良的人永远是受苦的，那忧苦的重担似乎是与生俱来的，因此只有忍耐。
31. Kind people always suffer, and the burden of sorrow seems to be innate, so they can only endure.

32、女人……女人一辈子讲的是男人，念的是男人，怨的是男人，永远永远。
32. Women… women spend their lives talking about men, thinking about men, complaining about men, forever and ever.

33、对于三十岁以后的人来说，十年八年不过是指缝间的事；而对于年轻人而言，三年五年就可以是一生一世。
33. For people over thirty, ten or eight years is just a matter of time; but for young people, three or five years can be a lifetime.

34、硕达无比的自身和这腐烂而美丽的世界，两个尸首背对背栓在一起，你坠着我，我坠着你，往下沉。
34. The huge self and this rotten but beautiful world, two corpses tied back to back, you dragging me, me dragging you, sinking together.

35、我要你知道，在这个世界上总有一个人是等着你的，不管在什么时候，不管在什么地方，反正你知道，总有这么个人。
35. I want you to know that there is always someone in this world waiting for you, no matter when or where, but you know, there is always such a person.

36、女人还没得到自己的一份家业，自己的一份忧愁负担与喜乐，是常常有那种注意守侯的神情的。
36. Women, before they have their own property, their own burdens and joys, often have that vigilant and waiting look.

37、一个人在恋爱时最能表现出天性中崇高的品质。这就是为什么爱情小说永远受人欢迎——不论古今中外都一样。
37. A person can show the noblest qualities in their nature when they are in love. This is why romance novels are always popular - both ancient and modern, Chinese and foreign.

38、我要你知道，在这个世界上总有一个人是等着你的，不管在什么时候，不管在什么地方，反正你知道，总有这么个人。
38. I want you to know that there is always someone in this world waiting for you, no matter when or where, but you know, there is always such a person.

39、如果你不调戏女人，她说你不是一个男人；如果你调戏她，她说你不是一个上等人。
39. If you don’t flirt with a woman, she says you are not a man; if you flirt with her, she says you are not a gentleman.

40、他看着自己的皮肉，不像是自己在看，而像是自己之外的一个爱人，深深悲伤着，觉得他白糟蹋了自己。
40. He looked at his own flesh and blood, not as if he were looking at himself, but as if he were a lover outside of himself, deeply saddened, feeling that he had wasted himself.

41、如果情感和岁月也能轻轻撕碎，扔到海中，那么，我愿意从此就在海底沉默。你的言语，我爱听，却不懂得，我的沉默，你愿见，却不明白。
41. If emotions and years could be torn apart and thrown into the sea, then I would be willing to remain silent at the bottom of the ocean. I love listening to your words, but I don’t understand; your silence, you wish to see, but you don’t comprehend.

42、于千万人之中，遇见你要遇见的人。于千万年之中，时间无涯的荒野里，没有早一步，也没有迟一步，遇上了也只能轻轻地说一句：“哦，你也在这里吗？”
42. Among thousands of people, you meet the one you are destined to meet. In thousands of years, in the boundless wilderness of time, neither a step too early nor a step too late, and when you finally meet, you can only say softly, “Oh, are you here too?”

43、一般的说来，活过半辈子的人，大都有一点真切的生活经验，一点独到的见解。他们从来没想到把它写下来，事过境迁，就此湮没了。
43. Generally speaking, people who have lived half their lives have some genuine life experience and unique insights. They never thought of writing them down, and as time goes by, these experiences are forgotten.

44、死生契阔——与子相悦，执子之手，与子偕老是一首最悲哀的诗……生与死与离别，都是大事，不由我们支配的。比起外界的力量，我们人是多么小，多么小！可是我们偏要说：“我永远和你在一起，我们一生一世都别离开”。——好象我们自己做得了主似的。
44. Life and death, parting and unity – to be delighted with you, to hold your hand, to grow old together is the saddest poem… Life and death, and separation, are all significant events, beyond our control. Compared to the forces of the outside world, we humans are so small, so insignificant! Yet we insist on saying, “I will always be with you, we shall never part for a lifetime” – as if we have any say in the matter.

45、也许每一个男子全都有过这样的两个女人，至少两个。娶了红玫瑰，久而久之，红的变了墙上的一抹蚊子血，白的还是“窗前明月光”;娶了白玫瑰，白的便是衣服上的一粒饭粘子，红的却是心口上的一颗朱砂痣。
45. Perhaps every man has had two such women, at least two. Marry the red rose, and over time, the red becomes a mosquito bloodstain on the wall, while the white remains the “moonlight in front of the window”; marry the white rose, and the white becomes a grain of rice stuck to your clothes, while the red turns into a mole on your chest.

46、男人做错事，但是女人远兜远转地计划怎样做错事。女人不大想到未来——同时也努力忘记她们的过去——所以天晓得她们到底有什么可想的！
46. Men make mistakes, but women plan how to make mistakes from afar. Women don’t think much about the future – they also try to forget their past – so who knows what they have to think about!

47、失望，有时候也是一种幸福，因为有所期待所以才会失望。因为有爱，才会有期待，所以纵使失望，也是一种幸福，虽然这种幸福有点痛
47. Disappointment, sometimes, is also a kind of happiness, because there is expectation, so there is disappointment. Because there is love, there is expectation, so even in disappointment, it is a kind of happiness, although this happiness is a bit painful.

48、要是真的自杀，死了倒也就完了，生命却是比死更可怕的，生命可以无限制地发展下去，变的更坏，更坏，比当初想象中最不堪的境界还要不堪。
48. If one truly commits suicide, death would be the end of it, but life is more terrifying than death. Life can go on indefinitely, getting worse and worse, beyond the worst imagined state.

49、如果我不爱你，我就不会思念你，我就不会妒忌你身边的异性，我也不会失去自信心和斗志，我更不会痛苦。如果我能够不爱你，那该多好。
49. If I didn’t love you, I wouldn’t miss you, I wouldn’t be jealous of the opposite sex around you, I wouldn’t lose my confidence and motivation, and I wouldn’t suffer. How wonderful it would be if I could stop loving you.

1．我有很多个梦想。每个梦想里都有你。
1. I have many dreams, and in each of them, there you are.

2．我都舍不得欺负的人，哪能让别人欺负？
2. I can’t bear to bully someone I cherish; how could I let others do the same?

3．我爱的人我要亲手给她幸福 、别人我不放心。
3. I want to give happiness to the one I love with my own hands; I can’t trust others to do it.

4．放弃你，下辈子吧！！
4. Give you up? Not in this life!

5．每天早上睁开眼睛，看到你和阳光都在，这就是我想要的未来。
5. Every morning when I open my eyes and see you and the sunlight, that’s the future I want.

6．有本事你就照顾好自己，不然就老老实实地让我来照顾你！
6. If you can take care of yourself, then do it; otherwise, let me take care of you honestly.

7．若我白发苍苍，容颜迟暮，你会不会，依旧如此，牵我双手，倾世温柔。
7. If my hair turns gray and my face ages, will you still hold my hands and shower me with world-shaking tenderness?

8．这世界上除了我谁都没资格陪在你身边。
8. In this world, no one but me is qualified to be by your side.

9．据说，每个人都有一个毛病，越是喜欢谁，越爱欺负谁。
9. It is said that everyone has a quirk: the more they like someone, the more they love to tease them.

10．什么时候想嫁（取）人了就告诉我,我（娶）你。
10. When you decide to get married (or be taken), let me know, and I will marry (take) you.

11．希望有一个人每天给我：一个问候，一句晚安。这就是我全部的贪婪了。
11. I hope there is someone who gives me a greeting and a goodnight every day. That’s all the greed I have.

12．第一次遇见的时候像个斯斯文文的人，熟了以后就不知道是哪个神经病院放出来的。亲爱的，这是你
12. The first time we met, you seemed like a gentle and refined person, but after getting to know you, it’s like you’ve escaped from some mental institution. My dear, this is you.

13．如果你依然单身，不要心急。上帝正望着你，说：“我要为这个女孩留一个特别的人。”
13. If you are still single, don’t worry. God is looking at you, saying, “I will keep a special person for this girl.”

14．你微微地笑着，不同我说什么话。而我觉得，为了这个，我已等待得久了。
14. You smiled at me slightly, without saying a word. Yet, I feel that I have been waiting for this moment for a long time.

15．认识你以后我才发现，原来世界上真有一种魔法，能让某些笑容如绚烂烟花般在我的心扉绽放，我知道，这种变化被称之为“爱”。
15. After getting to know you, I realized that there truly is a kind of magic in this world, a magic that can make certain smiles bloom in my heart like dazzling fireworks. I know this change is called “love.”

16．其实爱很简单，一旦手牵手，就代表了永远。其实爱很简单，只要你心里有个我，就再也不孤单。没有安全感的我，有了你的陪伴，从此不再害怕明天。爱的路上，有你，足矣。
16. In fact, love is simple. Once we hold hands, it represents forever. As long as you have me in your heart, you will never be lonely. I, who lack a sense of security, no longer fear the future with your company. On the journey of love, having you is enough.

17．天上有大太阳，地上有小太阳。阳光泻向葵花，葵花金光灿灿。阳光金光闪闪，葵花生机盎然。太阳一俯一仰，却是情深意长。好像你我相恋，固执忠贞不移。
17. There is a big sun in the sky and a little sun on earth. Sunlight pours onto the sunflower, making it shine brightly. The sun’s golden rays and the sunflower’s vitality are inseparable. Just like our love, stubborn and unwavering.

18．我要说的是：只要我们真正相爱，哪怕只有一天，一个小时，我们就不应该再有一刀两断的日子。也许你会在将来不爱我，也许你要离开我，但是我永远对你负有责任，就是你的一切苦难就永远是我的。我觉得我爱了你了，从此以后，不管什么时候我都不能对你无动于衷。
18. What I want to say is: as long as we truly love each other, even if it’s only for a day or an hour, we should never have a day of cutting ties. Maybe you will stop loving me in the future, maybe you will leave me, but I will always be responsible for you, and all your sufferings will always be mine. I feel that I have loved you, and from now on, I can never be indifferent to you, no matter when.

19．如果有一个人肯容忍你所有缺点；如果有一个人任你怎样任性，怎样蛮不讲理都对你不离不弃；如果有一个人在你有困难时能奋不顾身；如果有一个人听到你的哭泣会坐立不安；如果有一个人不管多远，你的一个电话就让他来到你身边；如果有一个人费劲心思博你一笑…如果你还没嫁，那么找个这样的好人嫁了吧！
19. If there is someone who is willing to tolerate all your shortcomings; if there is someone who will stay with you no matter how willful or unreasonable you are; if there is someone who can risk everything for you when you are in trouble; if there is someone who becomes restless when they hear your cry; if there is someone who will come to you no matter how far away they are just because of your call; if there is someone who tries every effort to make you smile… If you haven’t married yet, then marry such a good person!

20．我，就把你的手给我，我会一直牵着你，直到生命的尽头；爱我，就把你的心给我，我会把它和我的心放在一起，直到我的心脏停止跳动；爱我，就把你的悲伤给我我会和你一起分担所有的忧愁，直到你不再伤悲；爱我，就把你的眼泪给我，我会用我的体温把它烘干,直到看到你的微笑,让你天天快乐。
20. Give me your hand, and I will hold it until the end of my life; love me, give me your heart, and I will keep it together with mine until my heart stops beating; love me, give me your sorrow, and I will share all your worries with you until you are no longer sad; love me, give me your tears, and I will dry them with my body temperature until I see your smile, making you happy every day.

1、当爱情来临，当然也是快乐的。但是，这种快乐是要付出的，也要学习去接受失望、伤痛和离别。从此，人生不再纯粹。
1. When love comes, it is, of course, joyful. However, this joy requires payment and learning to accept disappointment, pain, and separation. From then on, life is no longer pure.

2、爱一个人，可以是喃喃细语的倾诉，也可以是一刹那的柔软哽咽，文字里斑斓的色彩，是心灵真爱的色彩。
2. Loving someone can be a soft whisper, or a momentary choking sob. The colorful words in the text represent the true colors of love from the heart.

3、爱，就像一只鸟。让它走，如果它还回来，那么是你的；如果它没有回来，那么永远不是你的。
3. Love is like a bird. Let it go; if it comes back, it’s yours; if it doesn’t, it’s never been yours.

4、如果一个男人真的爱你，无论你们在一起多久，都会陪你一起爬山，看海，看星星，看日落，因为他知道你渴望这样的浪漫。
4. If a man truly loves you, no matter how long you’ve been together, he will accompany you to climb mountains, watch the sea, gaze at stars, and see sunsets because he knows you crave such romance.

5、只有在爱中，你才发现，无爱的灵魂，原来是那么孤独。也只有在爱中，你才发现，孤独的灵魂，多么需要另一个灵魂来守护和陪伴。
5. Only in love do you discover that a soul without love is so lonely. And only in love do you find that a lonely soul desperately needs another soul to protect and accompany it.

6、爱情，只是一瞬间的感觉。爱情不是奇遇，只是，当我们在奇遇中有了爱情，却早已注定了分离。适合走到最后的人，从一开始就是为了彼此而生的。
6. Love is just a fleeting feeling. Love is not a chance encounter, but when we find love in such encounters, separation is already predestined. The people who are meant to be together until the end are born for each other from the beginning.

7、爱一个人，很痛，今生爱他，也望来生可以再爱一次，走上轮回路上，舍不得，求不得，用自己的血把爱人名字写下来，为什么？就是想三生石起灵光，给自己爱人见到自己的心愿，就是想来生再爱一次，今生我们重遇，又有多少人可以记起前生人。
7. Loving someone can be painful, loving them in this life and hoping to love them again in the next, walking on the cycle of reincarnation, reluctant to let go, unable to obtain, using one’s own blood to write the name of their lover, why? It is to make the Three Lives Stone shine with spirit, to let their lover see their wish, to love them again in the next life. In this life, we meet again, but how many can remember their past lives?

8、一个人在你的一生中，遇见一个懂得用心爱你或是遇见一个值得你用心去爱的人，是幸福的。拥有的往往不是最好，因而也不会懂得珍惜。也许，这个时候，等待比拥有更好！
8. In one’s life, meeting someone who loves you wholeheartedly or meeting someone worth loving with all your heart is a blessing. What we possess is often not the best, and thus we fail to cherish it. Perhaps, at this moment, waiting is better than possessing!

9、真正的爱情，不是一个人的花香，而是两个人的浪漫，是两颗心灵久久激荡的共鸣，是两双眼眸在忽然的触碰里，寻找到的一份美好悸动的感觉。
9. True love is not the fragrance of a single flower, but the romance between two people, the long-lasting resonance of two souls, and the beautiful, thrilling feeling found in a sudden touch of two pairs of eyes.

10、这个世界，无论多么博大的心，在爱上，是自私的。越爱，就会越在乎越在乎，就会越不容他人。当一颗开阔的心，已变成了针眼大小，那这颗心，一定是沉浸并缱绻在了爱中，并为之百转千回。
10. In this world, no matter how vast a heart may be, it becomes selfish when it comes to love. The more you love, the more you care, and the less you can tolerate others. When an open heart has become as small as a needle’s eye, it must be immersed and entwined in love, going through countless twists and turns for it.

11、所谓爱情，应该是什么样子：轰轰烈烈，不顾一切，算不算爱情；相濡以沫，执手到老，算不算爱情；平淡如水，相敬如宾，算不算爱情。真正的爱情，应该是两个人，彼此理解，互相尊重，不缠绕，不牵绊，不占有，然后相伴，走过一段漫长的，旅程。
11. What should love be like: passionate, reckless, or算不算爱情; supporting each other, holding hands until old age, or算不算爱情; plain as water, treating each other with respect, or算不算爱情. True love should be between two people who understand each other, respect each other, do not cling, do not entangle, do not possess, and then accompany each other through a long journey.

12、爱一个人是幸福的，被一个人爱也是幸福的。幸福的感受是，你一下子突然闯入另一个生命之中，毫无预兆，又猝不及防，陌生而惊奇，羞涩而惊悸，慌乱而惊喜。
12. Loving someone is happiness, and being loved by someone is also happiness. The feeling of happiness is when you suddenly enter another person’s life without warning, catching them off guard, strange yet surprising, shy yet frightened, panicked yet delighted.

13、爱情的战争，不存在输赢。没有任何女人是不可取代的。你失去了这个，说不定会得到一个更好的、更适合你的女人。况且，爱情，只是个人情感的自然宣泄，和具体的哪个女人并没有关系，那个女人走了，你迟早会获得一段新的爱情。
13. There is no winning or losing in the war of love. No woman is irreplaceable. If you lose this one, you may find a better, more suitable woman. Besides, love is just a natural expression of personal emotions and has nothing to do with a specific woman. When that woman leaves, you will eventually find a new love.

14、爱到最后，所有的情还要从单纯的耳鬓厮磨、缠绵悱恻走出来，再聚拢到另一处，变成生命里不绝的心疼和牵挂。懂得心疼所爱的人，爱，才从激荡的情感回到了沉静的生命之中。
14. In the end, love must move beyond mere caresses and passionate emotions, gathering elsewhere to become an endless source of tenderness and concern in life. Only when we learn to cherish the one we love can love truly return to the depths of our being.

15、爱情是春天的雨。被爱情滋润过的地方总是显得生机勃发，每一丛杂草都娇艳欲滴，每一棵树苗都亭亭玉立。当春天来了，爱情的雨滴就像珍珠，总是串起又散落，当春天走了，爱情的小花不是结果就是凋落。
15. Love is the rain of spring. Where love has nourished, everything seems full of vitality, every weed is enchanting, and every sapling stands tall and graceful. When spring arrives, the raindrops of love are like pearls, always forming and scattering. When spring is gone, the flowers of love either bear fruit or wither.

16、深的话要浅浅地说，长长的路要挥霍的走。大大的世界要率真地感受，会痛的伤口要轻轻的揉。拥别的时候去勇敢的祝福，不被了解的时候，相信自己值得，永远心疼做过的梦，在乎的人要傻傻地爱，经历的事就慢慢地来。别忘了，要温柔；别忘了，要快乐。
16. Speak deeply with shallow words, walk a long road with extravagance, feel the big world with sincerity, gently touch a painful wound, bravely give blessings when parting, believe in yourself when misunderstood, always cherish the dreams you’ve made, love the people you care about foolishly, and take your time with the experiences you’ve had. Don’t forget to be gentle; don’t forget to be happy.

17、原来，爱情从来没有离开过，只是我记得，你忘了!——失去的东西失去了，伤害还是伤害，道歉并不能让时间倒转，也不能让发生的事情过去——有人牵着，去哪里都可以；有人回应着，说什么也可以；因为那是两个人的事情，就算再无聊，也会变得很幸福。
17. Originally, love never really left, only I remember, you forgot! What is lost is lost, the hurt is still hurt, and apologies cannot turn back time or make things that have happened go away——When someone holds your hand, you can go anywhere; when someone responds to you, you can say anything; because it is a matter for two people, even if it is boring, it will become very happy.

18、我以为爱情可以克服一切，谁知道她有时毫无力量。我以为爱情可以填满人生的遗憾，然而，制造更多遗憾的，却偏偏是爱情。阴晴圆缺，在一段爱情中不断重演。换一个人，都不会天色常蓝。
18. I thought love could overcome everything, but who knew it could sometimes be powerless. I thought love could fill the regrets of life, yet it is love that creates more regrets. The ups and downs continue to replay in a relationship. Changing partners won’t make the sky always blue.

19、真正的爱情，只能是人生之中一场自然而优雅的等待；是百转千回萍水相逢时，四目相遇怦然心动的声音；是疲惫旅途中，不期然飘落在你手心的一叶脉脉相通的柔情。真正的爱情，要等！这是一件无奈而又非常自然的事情。也正是爱情之瑰丽神奇动人的所在。爱情灿若花朵，只有以最优雅的姿态，才能不惧岁月苍桑，等到彼此遇见时从容绽放的美丽。
19. True love can only be a natural and graceful waiting in life; it is the sound of heartbeats when four eyes meet by chance and suddenly flutter; it is the tender affection that falls into your palm unexpectedly during a weary journey. True love requires waiting! It is a helpless yet very natural thing, and it is also the beauty, magic, and appeal of love. Love is as brilliant as a flower, and only with the most graceful posture can it fearlessly face the vicissitudes of time and bloom beautifully when you meet each other.

20、爱情是秋天的风。当爱情走了的时候，就像风沙吹过原野，到处一片枯黄，留下的只有萧瑟和惨淡，还有满目的苍凉。秋风扫走的是已经枯黄的枝叶，留下的是坚强的生命枝芽。在下一个春天来临的时候，当春雨滴落，当春风拂过，世界便又重新苏醒，生命的嫩芽又将重新挂上绿色的枝梢。
20. Love is the wind of autumn. When love is gone, it is like the sand blowing across the fields, leaving everything withered and yellow, leaving only desolation and bleakness, and a world full of sorrow. The autumn wind sweeps away the withered branches and leaves, leaving the strong buds of life. When the next spring comes, when the spring rain falls and the spring breeze blows, the world will awaken again, and the buds of life will once again be adorned with green branches.

21、其实，爱情说穿了，普普通通，平平常常，就是男人和女人互相理解，互相尊重，互相关爱，互相取长补短。故事的场景，永远是家庭与社会；故事的情节，永远不外乎一个男人喜欢上了一个女人或一个女人喜欢上了一个男人；故事的结局，不是悲剧就是喜剧，永远没有中间的道路。
21. In fact, love, when stripped down, is ordinary and plain, just men and women understanding, respecting, caring for each other, and complementing each other’s strengths and weaknesses. The setting is always family and society; the plot is always about a man falling in love with a woman or a woman falling in love with a man; the ending is either tragic or comic, with no middle ground.

22、人生寂寞难捱，光荫如流似箭，外加世俗流言相迫，我们都不愿意一个人孤独地老去。但在你的爱情降临之前，请坚守阵地，不要随便搭了殷勤客的车。爱情终将穿透岁月风尘纷扰人群，朝你含笑而来，等待着相遇的一刻，为你幸福盛开！
22. Life is lonely and hard to bear, and time flies like an arrow. Coupled with the pressures of worldly gossip, we are unwilling to grow old alone. But before your love arrives, please hold your ground and don’t casually get into the car of a suitor. Love will eventually penetrate the years, the dust, and the crowd, coming towards you with a smile, waiting for the moment of meeting, and blooming for your happiness!

23、爱情是美好的，但是生活中爱情少一点，可能更为轻松和适意。毕竟，爱情本质上是一种自愿自觉的限制和束缚，既限制和束缚了自己，也限制和束缚了对方，时间久了，有一方终究会感到累、感到烦，试图摆脱，爱情迟早日久生变。但你却提前摆脱了爱情，面对今后的生活，你的选择余地更大，也会更为轻松和适意。
23. Love is beautiful, but life may be more relaxed and comfortable with less love. After all, love is essentially a voluntary and conscious restriction and bondage, limiting and binding both oneself and the other party. Over time, one party will eventually feel tired and annoyed, trying to break free, and love will sooner or later change. But you have already gotten rid of love, and facing the future life, you have more choices and will be more relaxed and comfortable.

24、真爱需要等待，但太长的等待，对爱情都是一种摧残。漫漫人生，滚滚红尘，年年岁岁花相似，岁岁年年人不同。今生等不了，就别再寄望来生。奈何桥一过，又成陌路。所以，珍惜相见，珍惜相爱，珍惜拥有，珍惜身边的人。毕竟，没有谁经得起时间的改变，也没有谁可以等到来世再爱。
24. True love requires waiting, but too long a wait is a kind of destruction for love. In the long journey of life, the rolling red dust, year after year, flowers are similar, but people change. If you can’t wait in this life, don’t pin your hopes on the next. Once you cross the Helan Bridge, you become strangers again. So, cherish the moments of meeting, cherish love, cherish possession, and cherish the people around you. After all, no one can withstand the changes of time, and no one can wait to love in the afterlife.

25、其实，爱情说穿了，是心灵的结合，感情上的一致，精神上的升华。就是男人和女人互相理解忠诚，互相尊重忠贞，互相搀扶透明，互相关爱默契，互相取长补短、安慰体贴知疼知热。爱是一本厚厚的杂志——女人是这本杂志赏心悦目的封面，男人是这本杂志深沉雄厚的封底。中间夹着厚厚的故事，一旦失去会被降价处理。
25. In fact, love, when stripped down, is the union of souls, the consistency in emotions, and the sublimation of spirits. It is the mutual understanding, loyalty, respect, and transparency between men and women, as well as the mutual support, care, tacit understanding, complementing each other, comforting, and knowing each other’s needs. Love is like a thick magazine – women are the pleasing cover of this magazine, while men are the deep and substantial back cover. In between, there are thick stories, and once lost, they will be sold at a discount.

27、爱情，蓝蓝的。有点泪水的咸味，有点海水的苦味。或许，自己不该这么执着，或许，自己试着彻底忘却，忘却爱情，忘却他。360度的结果，我们竟然又回到了原点。而自己会依旧以自己独特的方式活着，活出自己独特的风采，或在欢笑中，思索人生，或在独处中，享受人生。因为，无聊者自厌，寂寞者自怜，孤独者自足。而自己要始终保留自己的那份女子的魅力，豁达，达观，为了自己，好好地生活，因为，下一站依旧有美丽的风景。
27. Love is blue. It has the salty taste of tears and the bitter taste of seawater. Perhaps, I shouldn’t be so persistent; perhaps, I should try to completely forget love and him. After a 360-degree turn, we end up back at the starting point. Yet, I will continue to live in my unique way, displaying my unique charm, being open-minded and optimistic, and living well for myself, because the next stop still has beautiful scenery.

28、爱的心灵，是一道门，是一道永远敞开的门。无论白天黑夜，无论良宵黎明，无论严寒酷暑，无论风霜雪夜，无论春夏秋冬，永远敞开着；当你累了，苦了；你会随时进来，遮风避雨，取暖挡寒。打开心门，让爱的心灵进进出出，永远畅通。也是我们打开人们心扉的钥匙，抵挡仇恨之箭，与愤怒之矛的盾牌。
28. The loving heart is like a door, a door that is always open. No matter the time of day or night, whether it’s a beautiful night or dawn, or through cold and heat, snow and wind, spring and autumn, it remains open. When you are tired or suffering, you can come in at any time to take shelter from the wind and rain, and to keep warm. Open your heart and let love come and go freely; it is also the key to unlock the hearts of others and a shield against arrows of hatred and spears of anger.

1.爱一个人就是拨通电话时忽然不知道要说什么，才知道原来只是想听听她那熟悉的声音，原来真正想拨通的，只是自己心底的一根弦。
1. Loving someone means that when you make a phone call, you suddenly realize you don’t know what to say, only to find out that you just want to hear her familiar voice. What you truly wanted to connect was a string in your heart.

2.爱一个人就是在她迟归时想上一千种坏的可能，在想像中经历万般劫难，发誓等她回来要好好罚她，一旦见面却什麽都忘了。
2. Loving someone is worrying about a thousand bad possibilities when she’s late, going through all sorts of disasters in your imagination, vowing to punish her when she comes back, but forgetting everything once you see her.

3.你在孤独悲伤的日子，请悄悄地念一念我的名字，并且说：这世上有人在怀念我，我活在一个人的心里。（普希金）
3. On the days when you are lonely and sad, please whisper my name quietly and say: someone in this world misses me, and I live in a person’s heart. (Pushkin)

4.你若爱她，让你的爱像阳光一样包围她，并且给她自由。—-泰戈尔
4. If you love her, let your love surround her like sunlight and give her freedom. - Tagore

5.如果你爱她（他），就对她（他）说吧，不要让她（他）错过，因为你可能因为放弃了这次机会，那么机会就有可能永远不会再来了。
5. If you love her (him), tell her (him), don’t let her (him) miss out, because you might give up this opportunity and it may never come again.

6.我会永远记得一个人，会和我一起蹲在路边等外卖；我会永远记得一个人，会在快迟到时拉着我在人群中飞奔；我会永远记得一个人，会在房间的转角吓得我尖叫。
6. I will always remember someone who would wait with me by the roadside for takeout; I will always remember someone who would run with me through the crowd when we were about to be late; I will always remember someone who would scare me to scream at the corner of the room.

7.最难打开的是心门，最难走的路是心路，最难过的桥是心桥，最难调整的是心态。世界上最难干的工程是改造人的内心世界！手指脏了，大可不必把手指砍掉；帽子小了，大可不必把头削掉。当你抓住一件东西总不放时，或许你永远只会拥有这件东西，如果肯放手，便获得了其它选择机会。
7. The hardest thing to open is the door to the heart, the hardest path is the road of the heart, the most difficult bridge is the bridge of the heart, and the hardest thing to adjust is the mindset. The most challenging project in the world is to transform a person’s inner world! If your finger is dirty, there is no need to cut it off; if your hat is too small, there is no need to shave your head. When you hold onto something and never let go, you may only have that one thing, but if you are willing to let go, you will gain other opportunities.

8.爱是亘古长明的灯塔，它定晴望着风暴却兀不为动，爱就是充实了的生命，正如盛满了酒的酒杯。——泰戈尔
8. Love is an eternal lighthouse, gazing steadily at the storm yet remaining unmoved. Love is a life fulfilled, just as a wine glass is filled with wine. - Tagore

9.爱情只有当它是自由自在时，才会叶茂花繁。认为爱情是某种义务的思想只能置爱情于死地。只消一句话：你应当爱某个人，就足以使你对这个人恨之入骨。
9. Love only flourishes when it is free; the idea that love is some kind of obligation can only lead to its death. Just one sentence: you should love someone, is enough to make you hate that person.

10.爱情不会因为理智而变得淡漠，也不会因为雄心壮志而丧失殆尽。它是第二生命；它渗入灵魂，温暖着每一条血管，跳动在每一次脉搏之中。
10. Love does not become indifferent due to reason, nor does it disappear completely because of ambition. It is a second life; it seeps into the soul, warming every vein and beating in every pulse.

11.只有一个男子的专恋能够适应一个少女的初恋要求；也只有少女的初恋能够满足一个男子的末恋的欲望。——海克尔
11. Only a man’s exclusive love can meet a girl’s first love requirements; only a girl’s first love can satisfy a man’s last love desires. - Hekel

12.如果一个人把生活兴趣全部建立在爱情那样暴风雨般的感情冲动上，那是会令人失望的。——居里夫人
12. If a person bases all their interests in life on the stormy emotional impulses of love, they will be disappointed. - Madame Curie

13.假如你记不住你为了爱情而做出来的一件最傻的是，你就不算真正恋爱过；假如你不曾絮絮地讲你恋人的好处，使听的人不耐烦，你就不算真正恋爱过。——罗兰
13. If you can’t remember the silliest thing you’ve done for love, you haven’t truly been in love; if you haven’t talked endlessly about your lover’s virtues, making listeners impatient, you haven’t truly been in love. - Romain Rolland

14.爱情就像银行里存一笔钱，能欣赏对方的优点，就像补充收入；容忍对方缺点，这是节制支出。所谓永恒的爱，是从红颜爱到白发，从花开爱到花残。——培根
14. Love is like having money in a bank; appreciating the other person’s strengths is like increasing income; tolerating their flaws is like controlling expenses. So-called eternal love is from youthful beauty to white hair, from blooming flowers to withered ones. - Bacon

15.如果你爱一个人，先要使自己现在或将来百分之百的值得他爱，至于他爱不爱你，那是他的事，你可以如此希望，但不必勉强去追求。——罗兰
15. If you love someone, first make sure you are 100% worthy of their love now or in the future. As for whether they love you or not, that’s their business; you can hope for it, but you don’t have to force yourself to pursue it. - Romain Rolland

16.爱不需要解释，却又可以解释一切。虽然爱情只是众多情感中的一类，但它远比其它来得深刻，来得无奈。
16. Love needs no explanation, yet it can explain everything. Although love is just one of many emotions, it is far deeper and more helpless than the others.

17.当爱情要完结时，你不想画上句号也不行，当你怀疑是否主动画上句号时，那表示你根本就拾不得，也没办法画上这个句号。每一段情始终会有句号，句号要来时，你想挡都挡不住。
17. When love is about to end, you can’t avoid putting a period at the end; when you doubt whether to take the initiative to put a period at the end, it means you can’t bear to let go and can’t draw that period. Every relationship will eventually have a period, and when it comes, you can’t stop it.

18.爱情一旦成为了习惯，就会一辈子也摆脱不了的。
18. Once love becomes a habit, it will be impossible to get rid of for a lifetime.

19.爱一个意味什么呢？这意味着为他的幸福而高兴，为使他能够更幸福而去做需要做的一切，并从这当中得到快乐。——车尔尼雪夫斯基
19. What does it mean to love someone? It means being happy for their happiness, doing everything needed to make them happier, and finding joy in it. - Chernyshevsky

20.和一个生活习惯有很多差异的人恋爱不要紧，结婚要慎重，想想你是否可以长久忍受彼此的不同。
20. It doesn’t matter to fall in love with someone who has many different living habits, but you should be cautious when it comes to marriage, and think about whether you can tolerate each other’s differences for a long time.

21.持久的爱情源于彼此发自内心的真爱，建立在平等的基础之上。任何只顾疯狂爱人而不顾自己有否被爱，或是只顾享受被爱而不知真心爱人的人都不会有好的结局。
21. Lasting love comes from true love from the heart and is based on equality. Anyone who only loves crazily without considering whether they are loved in return, or only enjoys being loved without sincerely loving others, will not have a good ending.

22.我爱你不是因为你是谁，而是我在你面前可以是谁。
22. I love you not because of who you are, but because of who I can be in front of you.

23.爱一个人意味着什么呢？这意味着为他的幸福而高兴，为使他能更幸福而去做需要做的一切，并从中得到快乐。——车尔尼雪夫斯基
23. What does it mean to love someone? It means being happy for their happiness, doing everything needed to make them happier, and finding joy in it. - Chernyshevsky

24.爱情和婚姻是两股道上跑的车。——蒙台涅
24. Love and marriage are two cars running on different tracks. - Montaigne

25.人的一生中最要紧的发现自己，而在婚姻中则是被人所发现。——冉拉尔
25. The most important thing in a person’s life is to discover themselves, and in marriage, it is to be discovered by others. - Raral

26.爱情需要薄薄的一层忧伤，需要一点点嫉妒疑虑戏剧性的游戏。——瓦西列夫
26. Love needs a thin layer of sadness, a little jealousy, and dramatic games of doubt. - Vasilyev

27.轻率的玩弄恋爱正如玩火一样，随时有自焚的危险。如果说恋爱是甜美的酒浆，但随便乱喝，也会变成烈性的毒汁。——丁玲
27. Playing with love recklessly is like playing with fire, with the danger of self-immolation at any time. If love is a sweet nectar, drinking it carelessly can also turn it into a potent poison. - Ding Ling

28.彼此恋爱，却不要做爱的系链。——纪伯伦
28. Love each other, but do not bind yourselves in love. ——Kahlil Gibran

29.打算讨老婆的男人，应有如下的觉悟：权利将减半，义务将倍增。——汤川秀树
29. A man who intends to marry should have the following awareness: his rights will be halved, and his obligations will be doubled. ——Hideki Yukawa

30.青年人无法无天，玩弄爱情；中年人食髓知味，追求爱情；老年人寂寞无聊，回忆爱情。——秋田雨雀
30. The young are lawless and play with love; the middle-aged savor the taste and pursue love; the elderly, lonely and bored, reminisce about love. ——Akitsubaki

31.为了失恋而耽误前途是一生的损失。——荷海
31. It is a lifelong loss to jeopardize one’s future for the sake of a broken heart. ——Hai

32.假如你记不住你为了爱情而做出来的一件最傻的事，你就不算真正恋爱过；假如你不曾絮絮地讲你恋人的好处，使听的人不耐烦，你就不算真正恋爱过。
32. If you can’t remember the silliest thing you’ve done for love, you haven’t truly been in love; if you’ve never talked endlessly about your lover’s virtues, making listeners impatient, you haven’t truly been in love.

33.获得爱情你可以随便用什么办法，而保持爱情却需要智慧。
33. You can obtain love by any means, but maintaining love requires wisdom.

34.爱情应当山盟海誓，只有专一的忠贞不渝的爱情，才是真正的爱情。
34. Love should be bound by oaths and promises; only a love that is exclusively loyal and unswerving is true love.

35.爱情有吸引力，婚姻有约束力。想要逃离两者只会白费力。
35. Love has the power of attraction, and marriage has the power of restraint. Trying to escape both is futile.

36.你曾经不被人所爱，你才会珍惜将来那个爱你的人。
36. If you have never been loved by someone, you will cherish the one who loves you in the future.

37.不能见面的时候，他们互相思念。可是一旦能够见面，一旦再走在一起，他们又会互相折磨。
37. When they cannot meet, they miss each other. But once they can meet and walk together again, they will torment each other.

38.只想找一个在我失意时可以承受我的眼泪，在我快乐时，可以让我咬一口的肩膊。
38. I just want to find someone who can bear my tears when I am down and let me bite their shoulder when I am happy.

39.童稚之爱的原则是：“因为我爱，所以我爱。”成熟之爱的原则是：“因为我爱，所以我被爱。”——（美）弗罗
39. The principle of childish love is: “I love, therefore I love.” The principle of mature love is: “I love, therefore I am loved.” ——Floyd Dell

40.曾经沧海难为水，除却巫山不是云。可是如果我还没经沧海或是刚到沧海打了个转就回来，而且也没到过巫山就一头钻进了围城怎么办啊。
40. It used to be hard to find water after crossing the sea and hard to find clouds without the Wushan Mountains. But what if I haven’t even crossed the sea or just returned after a brief visit, and I haven’t reached the Wushan Mountains but have already entered the besieged city?

41.浪漫是什么？是送花？雨中漫步？楼前伫立不去？如果两人彼此倾心相爱，什么事都不做，静静相对都会感觉是浪漫的。否则，即使两人坐到月亮上拍拖，也是感觉不到浪漫的。
41. What is romance? Is it sending flowers? Strolling in the rain? Standing in front of a building without leaving? If two people truly love each other, even doing nothing and just quietly facing each other can feel romantic. Otherwise, even if they sit on the moon together, they won’t feel romance.

42.是否门当户对不要紧，最重要应该是兴当趣对，不然没有共同语言，即使在一起，仍然会感觉到孤独。
42. Whether you come from a well-matched family or not doesn’t matter; the most important thing is to have common interests, otherwise, even if you are together, you will still feel lonely.

43.不要为了寂寞去恋爱，时间是个魔鬼，天长日久，如果你是个多情的人，即使不爱对方，到时候也会产生感情，最后你怎么办？
43. Don’t fall in love just because of loneliness. Time is a demon. As time goes by, if you are a sentimental person, even if you don’t love the other person, you will eventually develop feelings for them. What will you do then?

44.不要为了负责而去结婚。要知道，不爱对方却和对方结婚是最不负责的。即使当时让对方很伤心，但是总比让他几年甚至一辈子伤心强。
44. Don’t get married just for the sake of responsibility. Remember, marrying someone you don’t love is the most irresponsible thing. Even though it may hurt them at the time, it’s better than causing them years or even a lifetime of sadness.

45.不管多大多老，不管家人朋友怎么催，都不要随便对待婚姻，婚姻不是打牌，重新洗牌要付出巨大代价。
45. No matter how old you are or how much your family and friends urge you, don’t take marriage lightly. Marriage is not like playing cards; reshuffling the deck comes at a great cost.

46.成熟的爱情，敬意忠心并不轻易表现出来，它的声音是低的，它是谦逊的退让的潜伏的，等待了又等待。——（英）狄更斯
46. Mature love, respect, and loyalty are not easily displayed. Its voice is low, it is humble, yielding, hidden, waiting and waiting. ——Charles Dickens

47.爱，原来是没有名字的，在相遇之前等待的，就是它的名字。——席慕容
47. Love, originally, had no name. What we wait for before meeting is its name. ——Xu Murong

48.有的女人恋爱时让男友宠着自己，结婚后仍然要老公百般宠着自己，却忘记做为一个女人应该做的份内之事。这样的女人是不懂得爱情的。
48. Some women let their boyfriends pamper them during courtship and expect the same pampering from their husbands after marriage, forgetting their own responsibilities as women. Such women do not truly understand love.

49.世界上没有人值得你为他流眼泪，因为值得你流泪的人，永远不会让你流泪！
49. No one in the world is worth your tears, because the person who is worth your tears will never make you cry!

50.有人说恋爱要找自己喜欢的人，结婚要找喜欢自己的人，都是片面的。恋人不喜欢自己有什么可恋的？老婆自己不喜欢怎么过一辈子？
50. Some say that one should find someone they like when dating, and someone who likes them when getting married, but this is one-sided. What’s the point of being in a relationship if the other person doesn’t like you? How can you spend a lifetime with a wife you don’t like?

51.恋爱的时间能长尽量长。这最少有两点好处：一，充分，尽可能长的享受恋爱的愉悦，婚姻和恋爱的感觉是很不同的。二，两人相处时间越长，越能检验彼此是否真心，越能看出两人性格是否合得来。这样婚后的感情就会牢固得多。
51. The longer the dating period, the better. This has at least two advantages: First, you can fully enjoy the pleasure of love for as long as possible, as the feelings of marriage and love are very different. Second, the longer the couple spends time together, the more they can test each other’s sincerity and compatibility. This will make the emotional bond after marriage much stronger.

52.男人不坏，女人不爱，这坏不是指心肠狠毒，自私无情什么的。而是指油嘴滑舌，花言巧语。一般的好男人以为说情话是油嘴滑舌，轻浮肉麻的表现，所以不愿去做。对别人这样说是不对，可是对自己老婆，就要油嘴滑舌一点。为什么不能做个心好嘴滑的男人呢？
52. Men are not bad, women don’t love; this “bad” does not refer to being cruel or selfish. It refers to being smooth-talking and using sweet words. Good men generally think that speaking sweetly is smooth-talking and cheesy, so they are unwilling to do it. It may be wrong to say such things to others, but one should be more smooth-talking with their own wife. Why not be a man with a good heart and a smooth tongue?

53.真爱一个人，就要尽量让他开心，他开心了你就会开心，那么双方就有激情了。
53. If you truly love someone, try to make them happy. When they are happy, you will be happy, and then both of you will have passion.

54.不要因为自己长相不如对方而放弃追求的打算，长相只是一时的印象，真正决定能否结合主要取决于双方的性格。我见过的帅哥配丑女，丑女配帅哥的太多了。
54. Don’t give up on pursuing someone just because you think you’re not as good-looking as them. Appearance is only a temporary impression; the real key to whether two people can be together depends mainly on their personalities. I’ve seen too many couples where a handsome man is with an unattractive woman, and vice versa.

55.女人要学会扮靓自己，不要拿朴素来做挡箭牌，不要拿家务做借口，不懂时尚，你就不是一个完整的女人。
55. Women should learn to dress up and not use simplicity as an excuse or use housework as an excuse. If you don’t understand fashion, you are not a complete woman.

56.幼稚的人和幼稚的人在一起没什么问题，成熟的人和成熟的人在一起也没什么问题，成熟的人和幼稚的人在一起问题就多了。
56. There is no problem when immature people are together with other immature people, and there is no problem when mature people are together with other mature people. However, when a mature person is with an immature person, there will be many problems.

57.并不是要达到了怎样的目的，爱才成为爱。无论怎样的爱都是一份美好，一份结果。而刻在心底的爱，因为无私无欲，因为淡泊忧伤，才会是真正的永恒。
57. Love does not become love only when a certain goal is achieved. Any kind of love is beautiful and has a result. The love engraved in the heart, because it is selfless and desire-free, and because it is indifferent and melancholic, will be truly eternal.

58.当你真心爱一个人时，那人除了有崇高的才能外，他还有一些可爱的弱点这也是你爱他的重要关键。——（法）摩路瓦
58. When you truly love someone, apart from their noble talents, they also have some lovable weaknesses, which are also an important key to your love for them. —— (French) Maurois

59.毫无经验的初恋是迷人的，但经得起考验的爱情是无价的。——马尔林斯基
59. Inexperienced first love is charming, but love that withstands the test is priceless. —— Malinowski

60.我承认天底下再没有比爱情的责罚更痛苦的，也没有比服侍它更快乐的事了。——莎士比亚
60. I admit that there is no punishment more painful than love in the world, nor anything happier than serving it. —— Shakespeare

61.其实就像打计程车。第一，不像公共汽车，只需等待就会自动来到你的面前，而需要你先向它招手才停；第二，如果你碰到的是空车，那就是你的幸运，但往往车上已经有人了；第三，走了多少距离就要付出多少代价。
61. It’s like taking a taxi. First, unlike a bus, it won’t come to you automatically; you need to wave at it first. Second, if you happen to find an empty taxi, that’s your luck, but often there’s already someone in the car. Third, the more distance you travel, the more you have to pay.

62.真正打动人的感情总是朴实无华的，它不出声，不张扬，埋得很深。——周国平
62. The emotions that truly touch people are always simple and unpretentious; they are silent, unassuming, and hidden deep within. —— Zhou Guoping

63.女生常说：“男人没有一个是好东西。”所以当一个女生对你说：“你是个好人”时，你基本上就死了，因为你在她心目中已经正式退出了男人的行列，从而失去了进一步发展的可能。只有当一个女生对你说：“你这个死鬼”时，你才真是个好人……
63. Girls often say, “No man is a good thing.” So when a girl tells you, “You’re a good person,” you’re basically dead, because in her mind, you’ve officially exited the ranks of men and lost the possibility of further development. Only when a girl says to you, “You devil,” are you truly a good person…

64.因为有思念，才会让人写出伤感动人的句子，因为丰富的情感，才会让人在内心发疯想要去找寻。因为有忧伤的一瞥，才会让人思念至今。因为有擦肩而过，才会让人如此伤感，因为你永远不知道，才会努力想让你记住背影。选择自己所爱的，爱自己所选择的。
64. It is because of longing that people can write sad and touching sentences, and it is because of rich emotions that people go crazy inside wanting to search for something. It is because of a glimpse of sadness that people miss to this day. It is because of a brush with fate that people feel so sentimental, because you never know, and you try hard to make them remember your silhouette. Choose what you love and love what you choose.

65.如果你们已经在一起了，就要去努力的相信对方，不要因为一件小事就去胡乱猜疑，那样一点好处都没有，也是你对你自己不自信的一种表，反而会让对方对你逐渐失去信心。
65. If you are already together, make an effort to trust each other and don’t let a small matter lead to wild suspicions, as it has no benefits and shows a lack of confidence in yourself, which may cause the other person to lose faith in you gradually.

66.如果她（他）爱你，你也爱她（他），那你千万不要骗她，即使善意的欺骗最好也不要有，因为她（他）毕竟是你最爱的人。
66. If she (he) loves you and you love her (him), then never deceive her (him), even if it’s a well-intentioned lie. After all, she (he) is the person you love the most.

67.一只鸡蛋可以画无数次，一场爱情能吗？——达芬奇
67. A single egg can be drawn countless times, but can a love affair?

68.现在在一起，可能在一起，即将不在一起的，记住我这句话：错过了，就有可能永远不会再来了。
68. Those who are together now, might be together, or will soon be apart, remember my words: once missed, it may never come again.

69.思念总是有不得不收藏起来的时刻，而生命里最舍不得，藏得总是最深，且不让人知道。
69. There are moments when longing has to be hidden away, and the things we cherish the most in life are always hidden the deepest and kept secret from others.

70.一个人受到感情的伤害，原本是可以慢慢淡忘的，但如果心里一直念念不忘，就会使其所受的伤害，永远难以痊愈。
70. Emotional pain can be gradually forgotten, but if one keeps thinking about it, the wound will never heal.

71.女人的体力本来就柔弱，所以，通常她们都喜欢手臂大的壮汉。
71. Women are naturally physically weaker, so they usually prefer strong men with big arms.

72.没有什么比辩才更能引起女人的兴趣了。可怜的女人，她们完全不明白一个能听话的男友比一个能说话的男友，不知要强多少倍。
72. Nothing can arouse a woman’s interest more than eloquence. Poor women, they don’t understand that a boyfriend who listens is much better than one who talks.

73.女人是男人前程上的一大障碍。爱上一个女人，想再做什么事情就不容易了。要便利地爱上一个女人，不受她的一点妨碍，那只有一个办法—就是结婚。
73. Women are a major obstacle in a man’s career. Falling in love with a woman makes it difficult to do anything else. To love a woman conveniently and not be hindered by her, there is only one way - get married.

74.如果你想被别人爱，你首先必须使自己值得爱，不是一天，一个星期，而是永远。
74. If you want to be loved by others, you must first make yourself worthy of love, not just for a day or a week, but forever.

75.人并不是美丽才可爱，而是因为可爱才美丽。
75. People are not beautiful because they are lovely, but they become lovely because they are beautiful.

76.一个姑娘爱上一个男子的时候，决不会看出他的缺点来。
76. When a girl falls in love with a man, she will never see his flaws.

77.爱，原来是没有名字的，在相遇之前等待的，就是它的名字。
77. Love, originally had no name, and what we wait for before meeting is its name.

78.我要你知道，这世界上有一个人是永远等着你的，不管是在什么时候，不管你是在什么地方，反正你知道，总有这样一个人。——张爱玲
78. I want you to know that there is someone in this world who will always be waiting for you, no matter when or where you are, but you should know that there is always such a person. - Eileen Chang

79.所有的结局都已写好，所有的泪水也都已启程，却忽然忘了，是怎麽样的一个开始。在那个古老的，不再回来的夏日，无论我如何地去追索，年轻的你只如云影掠过。而你微笑的面容，极浅极淡，逐渐隐没在日落后的群岚。遂翻开那发黄的扉页，命运将它装订得极为拙劣。含著泪，我一读再读，却不得不承认，青春，是一本太仓促的书。
79. All endings have been written, and all tears have set off, but suddenly I forgot how it all began. In that ancient, never-returning summer, no matter how hard I searched, your youthful figure passed by like a cloud shadow. And your smiling face, extremely light and faint, gradually disappeared behind the mountains at sunset. So I opened the yellowing title page, and fate bound it so poorly. With tears, I read it again and again, but I had to admit that youth is a book too hastily written.

80.以沉默来表示爱时，其所表示的爱最多。——加尼特
80. When expressing love through silence, the love expressed is the most profound. - Garnet

81.从前有一个男孩和一个女孩，男孩对女孩说如果我有一晚粥，我会把其中一半给你。女孩长大后，嫁了人，但她总是想起男孩的话，她觉得才是她一生中的最爱。
81. Once there was a boy and a girl. The boy said to the girl, “If I have a bowl of porridge, I would share half of it with you.” When the girl grew up and got married, she always remembered the boy’s words and felt that he was the love of her life.

82.如果我不爱你，我就不会思念你，我就不会妒忌你身边的异性，我也不会失去自信心和斗志，我更不会痛苦。如果我能够不爱你，那该多好。
82. If I didn’t love you, I wouldn’t miss you, I wouldn’t be jealous of the opposite sex around you, I wouldn’t lose my confidence and motivation, and I wouldn’t suffer. How wonderful it would be if I could not love you.

83.爱火，还是不应该重燃的，重燃了，从前那些美丽的回忆也会化为乌有。如果我们没有重聚，也许我僣带着他深深的思念洽着，直到肉体衰朽；可是，这一刻，我却恨他。所有的美好日子，已经远远一去不回了。
83. The fire of love should not be rekindled, for if it is, all the beautiful memories from before will vanish. If we hadn’t reunited, perhaps I would still cherish his deep longing until my body withers away; but at this moment, I hate him. All the good days have gone forever.

84.追求和渴望，才有快乐，也有沮丧和失望。经过了沮丧和失望，我们才学会珍惜。你曾经不被人所爱，你才会珍惜将来那个爱你的人。
84. It is through pursuit and desire that we find happiness, as well as frustration and disappointment. It is through frustration and disappointment that we learn to cherish. If you have never been loved, you will cherish the one who loves you in the future.

85.你是我猜不到的不知所措，我是你想不到的无关痛痒。
85. You are the uncertainty I cannot guess, and I am the triviality you cannot imagine.

86.放弃一个很爱你的人，并不痛苦。放弃一个你很爱的人，那才痛苦。爱上一个不爱你的人，那是更痛苦。
86. Giving up someone who loves you deeply is not painful. Giving up someone you love deeply is painful. Falling in love with someone who doesn’t love you is even more painful.

87.别因为寂寞而错爱，别因为错爱而寂寞一生。
87. Don’t fall in love out of loneliness, and don’t let a wrong love last a lifetime.

88.别等到错过后才去后悔，别等到失去后才想挽回。
88. Don’t wait until it’s too late to regret, and don’t wait until you’ve lost to try to make amends.

89.或许只有在离得最远的时候，才能把曾经走过的那段日子，看的最真确最清楚。
89. Perhaps only when we are far apart can we see the days we’ve spent together most clearly and truly.

90.若是有缘，时间空间都不是距离。若是无缘，终日相聚也无法会意。凡事不必太在意，更不需去强求，就让一切随缘吧！
90. If it is destined, time and space are no distance. If not destined, even being together all day long won’t bring understanding. Don’t worry too much about things, nor try to force them; just let everything go with the flow.

91.所谓最难忘的，就是从来不曾想起，却永远无法忘记。
91. The most unforgettable is the one that is never thought of, yet can never be forgotten.

92.不要让那个喜欢你的人，撕心裂肺地为你哭那么一次。因为，你能把她伤害到那个样子的机会，只有一次。那一次以后，你就从，不可或缺的人，变成，可有可无的人了。即使，她还爱你，可是，总有一些，真的东西改变了。
92. Don’t let the person who likes you cry their heart out for you just once. Because, you only have one chance to hurt them like that. After that, you will go from being indispensable to being dispensable. Even if she still loves you, something real will have changed.

93.一个女人最终想要寻觅的，只不过是一个宽容的怀抱，有着自己在里面任性蛮缠。失恋，是令女人迅速自我成长的唯一途径。等到哪天，不再痴缠，不再耍赖，不再喜怒无常，那也就不再爱了。有些人，明明知道爱上会受伤，偏偏要爱。我们一直如此，一边深情，一边残忍。那些风月，仅仅只是风月，如此而已。
93. In the end, what a woman seeks is just a tolerant embrace, where she can act willfully and stubbornly. Heartbreak is the only way for a woman to grow up quickly. When the day comes that she no longer clings, no longer acts spoiled, and no longer has mood swings, she will no longer be in love. Some people, knowing they will get hurt, still choose to love. We have always been like this, full of deep affection and cruelty. Those romantic affairs are just romantic affairs, nothing more.

94.上帝创造了男人是为了使他孤独，而创造女人是为了让他更孤独。
94. God created man to make him lonely, and created woman to make him even lonelier.

95.有一只小猴子，肚肚被树枝划伤了，流了很多血。它见到一个猴子朋友就扒开伤口说，你看我的伤口，好痛。每个看见它伤口的猴子都安慰它，同情它，告诉它不同的治疗方法，它继续给朋友们看伤口。继续听取意见，后来它感染死掉了。一个老猴子说，它是因自己而死的。痛，说一次就复习一次。
95. There was a little monkey whose belly was scratched by a tree branch, and it bled a lot. Whenever it saw a monkey friend, it would show its wound and say, “Look at my wound, it hurts.” Every monkey who saw its wound comforted it, sympathized with it, and told it different ways to treat it. It continued to show its wound to friends and listen to their opinions, but later it died of infection. An old monkey said, “It died because of itself. Pain, talking about it once is to review it once.”

96.不是什么你死我活。而是习惯，一个女人习惯了一个男人的鼾声，从不适应到习惯再到没有他的鼾声就睡不着觉，这就是爱；一个男人习惯了一个女人的任性撒娇，甚至无理取闹无事生非，这就是爱；一个人会为了另一个人去写微博去关注他，这就是爱。
96. It’s not about life or death, but about habits. A woman getting used to a man’s snoring, from not being able to adapt to it, to getting used to it, and finally not being able to sleep without his snoring, that’s love; a man getting used to a woman’s willfulness and coquetry, even her unreasonableness and making trouble for no reason, that’s love; a person writing Weibo and following another person for the sake of someone else, that’s love.

97.当女人不再对你撒娇，她已经对你没热情了；当女人不再深夜催你回家，她已经对你失望了；当女人不再向你解释她的行为和想法，她已经对你厌烦了。
97. When a woman no longer coddles you, she has lost her passion for you; when a woman no longer calls you late at night to come home, she is already disappointed in you; when a woman no longer explains her actions and thoughts to you, she is already tired of you.

98.爱情不是奇遇，可是当我们在这样的奇遇中有了爱情，却早已注定了分离。适合走到最后的人，从一开始就是为了彼此而生的。我相信这一点，相信冥冥中注定的相遇和分离。有心的人，再远也会记挂对方；无心的人，近在咫尺却远在天涯。
98. Love is not a chance encounter, but when we have love in such encounters, separation is already predestined. People who are suitable to be together until the end are born for each other from the beginning. I believe in this, in the predestined encounters and separations that are beyond our control. Those who care, no matter how far apart, will always remember each other; those who don’t care, even if they are right next to each other, are still far away.

99.想你的时候有些幸福，幸福得有些难过。
99. Missing you brings a little happiness, a happiness that is a bit sad.

100.要是有人追求，世界上没有一个女人不是飘飘然的。正因为这样，女人才会那么迷死人。
100. If someone pursues her, there is no woman in the world who won’t feel elated. It is precisely because of this that women can be so enchanting.