1.当一个人选择成长的时候,往往也是选择不被人理解,因为你要走你选的路,不是他们认为你该选的路。
1. When a person chooses to grow, they often choose to be misunderstood, because you have to follow the path you’ve chosen, not the one others think you should take.

2.面对变化,接受无常,放过自己。
2. Face change, accept impermanence, and let go of yourself.

3.也许,现在所有的不快乐,都将是将来我快乐的源泉。
3. Perhaps, all the unhappiness now will become the source of my happiness in the future.

4.做一个安静细微的人,于角落里自在开放,默默悦人,却始终不引起过分热闹的关注,保有独立而随意的品格,这就很好。
4. Be a quiet and subtle person, blossoming in the corner, pleasing others silently, yet never drawing excessive attention, maintaining an independent and casual character, which is quite good.

5.心里放不过自己,是没有智慧;心里放不过别人,是没有慈悲。
5. If you can’t let go of yourself, it means you lack wisdom; if you can’t let go of others, it means you lack compassion.

6.别人想什么,我们控制不了;别人做什么,我们也强求不了。唯一可以做的,就是尽心尽力做好自己的事,走自己的路,按自己的原则,好好生活。即使有人亏待了你,时间也不会亏待你,人生更加不会亏待你!善待别人,就是善待自己。
6. We can’t control what others think or do. The only thing we can do is to do our best, follow our own path, and live according to our principles. Even if someone treats you unfairly, time and life will not treat you unfairly! Treat others well, and you treat yourself well.

7.读书的根本目的是为了让自己明白世界,看清自己,让自己在无所依靠或者无所事事的时候,有一种严肃的力量推动着你往前走。
7. The fundamental purpose of reading is to understand the world, see yourself clearly, and have a serious force pushing you forward when you have nothing to rely on or when you’re idle.

8.一个人生活中的失意乃至失败,在很大程度上来说,是心理的而不是现实的,是技术性的而不是宿命的。现实至多为失败者提供了解脱的借口,而对宿命的信仰最终无情地扑灭了成功的任何希望。
8. A person’s setbacks and failures in life are, to a large extent, psychological rather than realistic, technical rather than fatalistic. Reality provides excuses for the losers, while belief in fate ruthlessly extinguishes any hope of success.

9.我们都有能力去解决别人的问题,却没有自信面对自己的困难。
9. We all have the ability to solve other people’s problems, but we lack the confidence to face our own difficulties.

10.工作会有的,面包会有的,爱情会有的,家也是会有的,只是需要时间,只是需要耐心,可遇而不可求的东西就不要挣扎,你只需要踏踏实实地往前走。
10. There will be work, bread, love, and a home, but it just takes time and patience. Don’t struggle for things that can’t be sought; just move forward steadily.

11.生而为人,活着,活出风度,风采,风格。这些皆为外表,而气度则是内涵,是质地,是根本。
11. As human beings, live with style, elegance, and grace. These are appearances, while temperament is the essence, the quality, and the foundation.

12.梦想是一个幸福的念想,想着想着就快乐了,它执着地立在那里,是生活的一个界标,代表着活力与向上。
12. Dreams are a happy thought; thinking about them makes you happy. They stand there persistently, serving as a milestone in life, representing vitality and upward momentum.

13.相信自己,一路风景一路歌,人生之美,正在于此。
13. Believe in yourself; the beauty of life lies in the journey with its scenery and songs.

14.如果抱怨成习惯,心灵就像上了枷锁,没有一刻解脱。唯有放下抱怨,才能体会到生命的自在与幸福。
14. If complaining becomes a habit, the soul is like being shackled, never finding relief. Only by letting go of complaints can you experience the freedom and happiness of life.

15.修心当以净心为要,修道当以无我为基。过去事,过去心,不可记得;现在事,现在心,随缘即可;未来事,未来心,何必劳心。
15. Cultivate your mind with purity as the key, and practice the path with selflessness as the foundation. Past events, past mind, should not be remembered; present events, present mind, go with the flow; future events, future mind, why bother worrying?

16.人生四季,寒暑交替,静心体味生活的悲与喜,笑看起起落落。
16. Life has four seasons, with alternating cold and heat. Calmly savor the joys and sorrows of life, and smile at the ups and downs.

17.心若简单,生活就简单;心若复杂,生活就充满痛苦。
17. If the mind is simple, life is simple; if the mind is complex, life is full of pain.

18.聪明之人,一味向前看;智慧之人,事事向后看;聪明之人,是战胜别人的人;智慧之人,是战胜自己的人。
18. Clever people always look forward; wise people always look back. Clever people conquer others; wise people conquer themselves.

19.活着,一定要有气度,这不仅仅是涵养,也是一种标识。在与人交往中,为人所看中的第一要素即是气度。修炼人生,展示自己活着的气度,让生命更有意义。
19. To live, you must have temperament, which is not only a form of self-cultivation but also an identifier. In social interactions, the first thing people value is your temperament. Cultivate your life and display your living temperament to make your life more meaningful.

20.一忧一喜皆心火,一荣一枯皆眼尘,静心看透炎凉事,千古不做梦里人。
20. One worry, one joy is the fire of the heart; one glory, one wither is the dust of the eyes. With a calm mind, see through the world’s cold and warm, and never be a dreamer in the annals of history.

21.活着的气度是昂首挺胸,独立寒冬,面对漫天大雪,而巍然不动的英雄豪情,是酷暑三伏,雷雨交加,坐于书房,面不改色,挥笔题书的那份悠然宁静。
21. The spirit of living is to hold one’s head high and stand firm in the cold winter, facing the snowstorm without flinching, embodying the heroic sentiment. It is to remain composed and focused on writing in the study during the hot summer days, amidst thunderstorms.

22.抱怨就像搬起石头砸自己的脚,于人无益,于己不利,于事无补。
22. Complaining is like lifting a stone only to drop it on one’s own foot, benefiting no one, harming oneself, and leaving matters unresolved.

23.给生活贴上梦想的标签,那些普通的日子就升华了,平淡的时光染上华丽的色彩,点石成金,就是这么回事。
23. Label life with the tag of dreams, and those ordinary days will be sublimated, plain times will be adorned with gorgeous colors, turning ordinary stones into gold – that’s how it works.

24.学会把自己的心态放低、放平,多看自己的缺点,多看别人的优点,让傲慢的心变得谦虚恭敬,这样您所处的环境自然就融洽了。
24. Learn to lower and level your attitude, focus more on your own shortcomings and others’ strengths, and let your arrogant heart become humble and respectful. In this way, the environment you are in will naturally become harmonious.

25.人,只要拥有微笑,就能够豁达乐观地活着;人,只要时刻保持微笑,就能够在漫漫人生道路上拥有一张永久的通行证。
25. As long as one possesses a smile, they can live with an open-minded and optimistic attitude; as long as one maintains a smile at all times, they will have a permanent pass on the long journey of life.

26.人与人之间的很多矛盾都是从傲慢中来的;都觉得自己比别人更高明,比别人更有见识,比别人更正确,于是相互轻视,矛盾也就逐渐生起了。
26. Many conflicts between people stem from arrogance; everyone thinks they are smarter, more knowledgeable, and more correct than others, leading to mutual disdain and the gradual emergence of contradictions.

27.幸福,不是收获的多,而是抱怨的少。于人不苛求,遇事不抱怨。只有善于驾驭自己情绪和心态的人,才能获得平静,感受到幸福的味道。
27. Happiness comes not from gaining more but from complaining less. Do not be demanding towards others, and do not complain about situations. Only those who are good at controlling their emotions and mindset can achieve peace and experience the taste of happiness.

28.活着的气度则是要刚柔并济,胸中有天地。要坚韧不拔,顽强不屈。要傲骨侠肠,正直勇敢。
28. The spirit of living involves being both strong and gentle, having a heart that contains the universe. It means being unyielding, resilient, and having a noble character with integrity and courage.

29.敞开心扉,宽容的对待别人你就会拥有全世界,记住,千万别为利来,为利往,笑看人生,你就是最幸福的人。
29. Open your heart and treat others with tolerance, and you will possess the whole world. Remember, do not chase after profits, and view life with a smile – in doing so, you will be the happiest person.

30.生活磨砺了人生,这一路走来,学会了接受。
30. Life has honed our character, and along this journey, we have learned to accept.

31.从明天起,做一个这样的人:率性而行,继之而悟,随遇而安。以最自然的姿态和意愿去生活,你会发现内心深处的快乐,将不可一世地蓬勃生长。
31. Starting tomorrow, be a person who acts naturally, reflects on their actions, and adapts to any situation. Live your life with the most natural posture and intentions, and you will find the happiness deep within you growing vigorously and uncontrollably.

32.人生,我有我的精彩,有我的美丽,不必仰望羡慕别人,给自己平添不必要的烦恼。“你站在桥上看风景,看风景的人在楼上看你”,你就是别人眼里最美的风景!我没有财富,只要我还有快乐,还有追求,也许不一定成功,但是努力过,也无怨无悔,失败也是人生财富。
32. In life, I have my own splendor and beauty; there is no need to look up to others and add unnecessary troubles to myself. “You stand on the bridge watching the scenery, while the person watching the scenery gazes at you from the building.” You are the most beautiful scenery in the eyes of others! I may not have wealth, but as long as I have happiness and pursuit, even if I don’t succeed, I have no regrets, for failure is also a form of wealth in life.

33.人再豁达,也会有块心底的伤;心再冷漠,有时也会红了眼眶。走得再潇洒,途中也会有迷茫;活得再漂亮,背后也会有凄凉。不是你倦了,就会有温暖的巢穴;不是你渴了,就会有潺潺的山泉。每个人的内心,都有几处不为人知的暗伤。
33. No matter how open-minded one is, there will always be a hidden wound in the depths of their heart; no matter how indifferent one’s heart is, there will be moments when their eyes turn red. No matter how unrestrained one’s stride is, there will be confusion along the way; no matter how beautiful one’s life is, there will be desolation behind it. It’s not that when you’re tired, there will be a warm nest; it’s not that when you’re thirsty, there will be a babbling brook. In everyone’s heart, there are several unknown scars.

34.人生,有许多事情无法言说。有些快乐,别人未必能理解;有些悲伤,别人未必能感受。有些累,累在身上,累在心上;有些泪,挂在脸上,伤在心上;有些痛,无伤无痕,痛在心中。爱有天意,是否会眷顾自己;心有灵犀,为何总让人无语。
34. There are many things in life that cannot be expressed. Some joys may not be understood by others; some sorrows may not be felt by others. Some fatigue is physical, while some is mental; some tears are on the face, while some hurt the heart; some pain leaves no marks but exists in the heart. Love has its own destiny, but will it take care of me? The heart has a telepathic connection, so why does it always leave people speechless?

35.人生在世,其实我们都不需要太多,孤单时有人陪伴,无助时有人帮助,落泪时有人心疼,四季冷暖,有人叮咛你加衣,生活劳碌,有人嘱咐你休息,于心灵是一种温暖,于生命是一种感动,只要有人知冷知暖,足够,感情真正的定义就是,即使身在寒冬,心却会暖暖的。
35. In life, we don’t actually need much: someone to accompany us when we’re lonely, someone to help us when we’re helpless, someone to care for us when we shed tears, someone to remind us to wear more clothes in all seasons, and someone to tell us to rest when we’re busy with life. This brings warmth to the soul and a sense of touch to life. As long as someone knows our needs, it is enough. The true definition of affection is that even in the coldest winter, our hearts can still be warm.

36.生活不可能一帆风顺,总会有波折,总会有险阻,生活是个爱开玩笑的孩子,也许今天给你所有,明天又会让你一无所有,无需烦恼,该来的总会来,再黑的夜晚也会有黎明到来的那一刻,不管生活有多么曲折,只要拥有幸福的态度就能挺过漫漫长夜,就能迎来美好的明天。
36. Life cannot be smooth sailing; there will always be twists and obstacles. Life is like a mischievous child who may give you everything today and leave you with nothing tomorrow. Don’t worry, what’s meant to come will come. No matter how dark the night, dawn will always arrive. No matter how winding life gets, as long as you have a happy attitude, you can get through the long night and welcome a beautiful tomorrow.

37.认识一个人很难,理解一个人更难,有时候不是不想说话,而是有很多话说不出来,放在心里会安全点,闭上眼睛,过去的就让它过去吧,用心甘情愿的态度,过随遇而安的生活,人的一生知道爱别人很多,知道爱自己人很少。
37. It’s hard to get to know someone, and even harder to understand them. Sometimes it’s not that we don’t want to talk, but that there are many things we can’t say, and it’s safer to keep them in our hearts. Close your eyes and let the past go. Embrace a willing attitude and live a life of going with the flow. In one’s life, we know how to love many others, but few know how to love ourselves.

38.多少的包容,不是卑微廉价,而是放不下,深爱的人,总是不再坚持骄傲,容纳的心,总是不再执着个性。其实嘴上说没事的人,心里都有事,其实脸上逞强笑的人,心里都有痛。
38. How much tolerance is not about being humble and cheap, but about not being able to let go. People who love deeply no longer insist on pride, and those with a tolerant heart no longer cling to their personality. In fact, those who say “it’s okay” on the surface may have something hidden in their hearts. Those who force a smile on their faces may have pain inside.

39.有时候,我们活得很累,并非生活过于刻薄,而是我们太容易被外界的氛围所感染,被他人的情绪所左右。其实你是活给自己看的,没有多少人能够把你留在心上。——白岩松
39. Sometimes we feel tired, not because life is too harsh, but because we are too easily influenced by the atmosphere around us and swayed by the emotions of others. In fact, you live for yourself, and not many people can keep you in their hearts. - Bai Yansong

40.一见钟情这种事,浪漫但不一定长久。日久生情这种事,很难却更难分开。一见钟情永远和外貌有关,日久生情永远和习惯有关。越缓慢的爱上一个人,就爱的越长久。爱情可以有一瞬间,但真情却需时间浇灌。
40. Love at first sight is romantic but not necessarily long-lasting. Love that grows over time is difficult but even harder to separate. Love at first sight is always related to appearance, while love that grows over time is always related to habits. The slower you fall in love with someone, the longer the love lasts. Love can be an instant, but true love requires time to nurture.

41.世界上的诱惑太多了,所以你要时刻保持清醒的头脑,认清自己的路,坚持下去,你会看到一个不一样的明天。
41. There are too many temptations in the world, so you must always keep a clear mind, recognize your path, and persevere. You will see a different tomorrow.

42.不要害怕说“对不起”。对别人的真诚致歉,往往能赢得别人的尊重,磊落的胸怀是快乐人生的源泉。
42. Don’t be afraid to say “I’m sorry.” A sincere apology to others can often win their respect. An open and honest heart is the source of a happy life.

43.爱给予的只是它自己,取走的也只从它自己,爱不占有,也不能被占有。爱就在爱中满足。——纪伯伦
43. Love gives only itself and takes only from itself. Love does not possess, nor can it be possessed. Love is satisfied in love itself. - Kahlil Gibran

44.努力追求是修行,彻底放下也是修行;带着不要的心,做出最大的努力,能接受一无所有才能更勇敢热烈地追求,并在得到的那一刻感恩知足,即便再次失去亦是心满意足。——汪冰
44. Striving hard is a form of practice, and letting go completely is also a form of practice. With a heart that doesn’t want anything, make the greatest efforts, and only by accepting the possibility of having nothing can you pursue more bravely and passionately. Be grateful and content even if you lose it again. - Wang Bing

45.人生有时候需要勇敢一下,勇敢去爱,勇敢去恨,然后,勇敢忘记,勇敢向前。——伊北
45. Sometimes in life, you need to be brave: brave enough to love, brave enough to hate, and then, brave enough to forget and move forward. - Yi Bei

46.遇到一些事,能看清一些人。看清之后不一定就此绝交,只不过不会再像之前那么无条件付出自己了。年纪越大,越爱惜自己。自己不疼自己,谁来疼你!我们都从“奋不顾身”到“有所保留”,总有某人慢慢教会了我们爱自己。
46. Encountering certain things can help you see people more clearly. After seeing clearly, you may not necessarily cut ties, but you will no longer give yourself unconditionally as before. As we grow older, we learn to cherish ourselves more. If you don’t take care of yourself, who will! We all transition from “reckless” to “reserved,” and there’s always someone who slowly teaches us to love ourselves.

47.有人会因为你的缺点而讨厌你,但是,也会有人因为你的真实自然而喜欢你。
47. Some people may dislike you because of your flaws, but there will also be those who like you for your genuine and natural self.

48.决定放弃了的事,就请放弃得干干净净。那些决定再也不见面的人,就真的不要见面了。请不要让我再做背叛自己的事了。如果要爱别人,就请先好好爱自己。
48. If you decide to give up something, please let go completely. Those who have decided never to meet again should really not meet. Please don’t let me betray myself anymore. If you want to love someone, please love yourself first.

49.人生最困难的三件事:保守秘密,忘掉所受的创伤,充分利用余暇。
49. The three most difficult things in life: keeping secrets, forgetting the pain suffered, and making full use of leisure time.

50.不要因为你的环境不好,你就不敢放心去爱一个人。有一天你会发现,牺牲一切去爱一个人,是无比的幸福!
50. Don’t be afraid to love someone because of your poor environment. One day, you will find that sacrificing everything for someone you love is incredibly blissful!

51.真心见真情,真情见真人。
51. Sincerity reveals true feelings, and true feelings reveal real people.

52.但凡错过的或失去的,永远补不回来,越补越失望。不如接受现实,在内心彻底放下他们,反而能够得到新的。——韩三奇
52. Anything missed or lost can never be made up for, and the more you try to make up for them, the more disappointed you become. It’s better to accept reality, let go completely in your heart, and you may find new opportunities. - Han Sanqi

53.人面对的最大困难始终是自己,有时候是一根羽毛落下来就不行了,有时候泰山压下来都没问题。——廖一梅
53. The biggest difficulty people face is always themselves. Sometimes a feather falling can break them, while at other times they can withstand the pressure of Mount Tai. - Liao Yimei

54.我们可以不去做那些伟大的事情,但一定要去做那些充满伟大之爱的小事情。——特蕾萨修女
54. We don’t have to do great things, but we must do small things filled with great love. - Mother Teresa

55.生活,就是一首歌谣,用舒缓的旋律,低吟忧伤与温馨,生活,就是一首诗词,用精彩的文字,谱写快乐与悲伤,生活,就是零星琐碎生活,就是点滴温暖,生活,就是有一些小悲伤,人生,也会有许多小幸福。
55. Life is like a song, with a gentle melody, whispering sadness and warmth. Life is like a poem, with beautiful words, composing happiness and sorrow. Life is a series of trivial moments, a touch of warmth, a little sadness, and many small happinesses.

56.风雨人生,错错对对,不要计较太多。人生没有彩排,写好的剧本可以更改,人生无法从头再来。错的对的无法涂鸦,不如坦然面对,对了,就一笑而过,绝不张扬;错了,就吸取教训,学着长大。行走于尘世,要无愧于内心,活得坦坦荡汤,活的从从容容。
56. In the journey of life, there are ups and downs. Don’t worry too much. Life has no rehearsals, and written scripts can be changed, but life cannot start over. Right or wrong cannot be erased, so it’s better to face them calmly. If you’re right, just smile and let it go without showing off; if you’re wrong, learn from the experience and grow up. Walk in this world with an innocent heart, live calmly, and be at ease.

57.许多做人的经验表明,懂得体谅,懂得理解,懂得宽容,不但能使身边的人感受到你的温暖,让身边的人感到因为认识你而高兴,而且能使自己的日子倍感温馨,让自己的生活得到安宁。
57. Many life experiences have shown that understanding, empathy, and tolerance can not only make the people around you feel your warmth and happiness for knowing you, but also make your own life more peaceful and serene.

58.他以为我天性磊落。不不不不不。每一个女人,在她心爱的男人面前,都是最娇媚最柔弱的。我不爱他,所以冷静镇定,若无其事。
58. He thought I was naturally honest. No, no, no. Every woman is the most charming and delicate in front of the man she loves. I don’t love him, so I remain calm and composed, as if nothing happened.

59.在我心中,陪伴与懂得,比爱情更加重要。
59. In my heart, companionship and understanding are more important than love.

60.我们执着什么,往往就会被什么所骗;我们执着谁,常常就会被谁所伤害。所以我们要学会放下,凡事看淡一些,不牵挂,不计较,是是非非无所谓。
60. What we cling to often deceives us; whom we cling to often hurts us. So we must learn to let go, to look at things more lightly, not to worry or be concerned about right and wrong, and to be indifferent to the是非.

61.远在天边心却紧紧相连的知己,是深锁心中最为笃真却相隔最远的爱恋。
61. A confidant far away in the horizon, yet closely connected in heart, is the most sincere love locked deep within but separated by the greatest distance.

62.不管全世界所有人怎么说,我都认为自己的感受才是正确的。无论别人怎么看,我绝不打乱自己的节奏。喜欢的事自然可以坚持,不喜欢的怎么也长久不了。
62. No matter what everyone in the world says, I believe my own feelings are the most accurate. No matter how others view it, I will never disrupt my own pace. Things I like can be persisted in naturally, while things I don’t like can never last long.

63.如果你向上天寻求帮助,说明你相信老天的能力。而如果上天不帮你,则意味着他也相信你的能力。
63. If you seek help from heaven, it means you believe in its power. If heaven doesn’t help you, it means it believes in your abilities.

64.人生如潮,有得意也总有失意,花开花落,涨退更迭,人生苦短,何必怨天,多想想身边的人对自己的帮助,多记得身边的人对自己的好,用感恩的心去面对帮过你的人,用欣赏的眼光去发现身边每一个人的优点,少去评价他人的不足,人生处处是胜境,全在心境的不同。
64. Life is like the tide, with both gains and losses, flowers bloom and wither, and the ebb and flow continue to alternate. Life is short, so why complain about fate when you can think more about the people around you who have helped you and remember their kindness. Face those who have helped you with a grateful heart, and discover the strengths of everyone around you with an appreciative eye. Focus less on the shortcomings of others, and you will find beauty everywhere in life, all depending on your state of mind.

65.每一个人来到这个世界,本没任何人欠你的,你也没欠任何人,大家相安无事,懂得报答父母的养育之恩,懂得报答身边的每一个人,那些兄弟手足相残,夫妻离异对簿公堂,情人间以刀枪相见,凡此种种,都是与我们来到这个世界的终极目标格格不入,最终都将为自己的不洁行为付出代价。
65. When each person comes to this world, no one owes you anything, and you don’t owe anyone either. We should live in peace and be grateful to our parents for raising us and to everyone around us. Those who fight against each other, divorce, or resort to violence in relationships are all going against the ultimate goal of our existence, and they will eventually pay the price for their impure actions.

66.生活的真谛在于创新,生活的理想在于远大,生活的艺术在于选择,生活的步履在于踏实,生活的乐趣在于追求,生活的安乐在于平淡,人生有时就是一场戏,有高潮,有低谷,每个人在这场戏中的角色是不同的,有的人是主角,有的人是配角,并不是主角就一定有好戏,配角也有出彩的时候,与人相处,追求和谐,就如水一样,无形却能演变五彩缤纷,无味却能演绎万味俱佳。
66. The essence of life lies in innovation, the ideal in ambition, the art in choices, the pace in steadiness, the joy in pursuit, and the peace in simplicity. Sometimes life is like a play, with ups and downs, and each person plays a different role. Some are protagonists, while others are supporting characters. It’s not always the case that the protagonist has the best role, and the supporting character can also shine. In our interactions with others, we should seek harmony, just like water, which is formless yet can create a colorful world, and tasteless yet able to bring forth a myriad of flavors.

67.人生有许多东西需要放下,只有放下那些无谓的负担,我们才能一路潇洒前行,你每天的所得所失,如果你的心是快乐的,那么,你在哪里都是快乐的,如果你的心是喜悦的,那么,你做什么都是喜悦的,有时候决定我们心情的,不是别人,而是自己。
67. There are many things in life that we need to let go of. Only by releasing these unnecessary burdens can we move forward with ease. Your happiness depends on your mindset, not on what you gain or lose each day. Sometimes, it’s not others who determine our mood, but ourselves.

68.路过风和雨,才知道不弃的是深爱,经历荣与衰,才懂得不变的是真情,走过一段路,经历一些事,才能真正看清一些人,患难时,读懂了人情冷暖,平淡中,体会到缘分善变,时间,会沉淀真挚的情感,风雨,会历练值得珍惜的情缘。
68. Only after experiencing wind and rain do we realize what true love is, and only after going through ups and downs do we understand the value of genuine emotions. By walking a certain path and experiencing things, we can truly see people for who they are. In difficult times, we learn about the warmth and coldness of human emotions, and in ordinary life, we appreciate the ever-changing nature of fate. Time will reveal sincere feelings, and trials will test the relationships worth cherishing.

69.没有不能在一起的两个人,只有靠不拢的两颗心,没有不能相守的两份情,只有不懂珍惜的两个人,错过里的再见,你有理由放不下,但当下里的真意,你没理由拿不起,陪伴你的人,永远别去离弃,离弃你的人,永远别去陪伴。
69. There are no two people who cannot be together, only two hearts that cannot come closer. There are no two emotions that cannot be sustained, only two people who fail to cherish each other. You may have reasons to hold on to the past, but you have no excuses not to embrace the present. Never abandon those who accompany you, and never seek the company of those who have left you.

70.命,是一趟旅途,每个人都在途中,路过的都是景,擦肩的都是客,遇到的都是缘,回忆的都是念,时光如淡烟,我们抓不住,美好一瞬间,不能长久拥有,学会从过去中转身,幸福才会招待你。
70. Destiny is a journey, and everyone is on this path. What we pass by are scenes, those we brush shoulders with are strangers, those we meet are connections, and what we remember are cherished memories. Time is like a wisp of smoke, something we cannot grasp. We cannot hold on to beautiful moments forever, but by learning to let go of the past, happiness will welcome you.

71.不要以自己的判断去评论一个人,不要让自己的情绪波及其他人。每一个都是一个独立的个体,应尊重他人的选择。人不能霸道,霸道无友;心不能自私,自私则困。心中有爱有情谊,眼中能容有世界。路,不在他人的行里,而在自我修为里。
71. Do not judge others based on your own opinions, and do not let your emotions affect others. Each person is an independent individual and should be respected for their choices. People cannot be domineering, as it leads to no friends; hearts cannot be selfish, as it leads to confinement. When your heart is filled with love and friendship, your eyes can embrace the world. The path you walk is not determined by others, but by your own cultivation.

72.人生的每个抉择都像是一个赌局,输赢都是自己的。不同的是赌注的大小,选择了就没有反悔的机会。
72. Every choice in life is like a gamble, with wins and losses being your own. The difference lies in the size of the stakes. Once you make a choice, there is no turning back.

73.人生其实也就是选择,有所放弃才能在有限的生命里活得充实、饱满、旺盛。没有果敢的放弃,就没有辉煌的选择。放弃是一种灵性的觉醒,是一种慧根的显现,一如放鸟返林、放鱼入水。学会放弃,才会有所收获。当一切尘埃落定,当一切归于平静,我们才会真正懂得放弃其实也是另一种美丽的收获。
73. Life is essentially a series of choices. Only by giving up can we live a fulfilling, rich, and thriving life within our limited time. Without courageous abandonment, there can be no brilliant choices. Giving up is a spiritual awakening, a manifestation of wisdom, just like releasing a bird to the forest or a fish to the water. Only by learning to give up can we gain something. When all the dust settles and everything returns to calm, we will truly understand that giving up is also another form of beautiful gain.

74.人生百年,没有太多的时间可以挥霍,都说幸福如饮水,冷暖自知,有些人,每天都在追逐幸福的路上,却从来也没有感觉到幸福的存在;有些人,懂得收集点滴的温暖和感动,便会与快乐同行。
74. In a century of life, there is not much time to waste. Happiness is like drinking water; its warmth and coldness are known only to oneself. Some people chase happiness every day but never feel its existence, while others collect every bit of warmth and touch, walking alongside happiness.

75.做事,进有招退有术;做人,心无边行有度。看淡纷扰,看轻得失,来了、去了,随缘随喜。功名利禄皆为过眼云烟,不是自己的不要强求。真正的君子是,明知有机可投却不为所动。做人不求问心无愧,只求无愧于心。
75. In doing things, there should be strategies for both advancing and retreating; in being a person, the mind should be boundless, but actions should be measured. Look down on disturbances and gains and losses, and let things come and go with fate and joy. Fame and fortune are all fleeting, and one should not force what is not meant to be. A true gentleman knows when there is an opportunity to take but remains unmoved. In life, one should not seek to be blameless in the eyes of others, but rather be blameless in one’s own heart.

76.人生在世最大的勇气不是不怕死亡,而是坚强的活着,勇敢的面对生活带给的压力和考验!
76. The greatest courage in life is not the fearlessness of death, but living strong and facing the pressures and tests that life brings!

77.有些人生来是为了赶路的…完成学业事业结婚生子,一切有条不紊按部就班,匆匆忙忙在前三十年生命里就完成了大部分任务,再用剩下的时间去修补与忍耐,并学着苦中作乐。而有些人的人生任务可能只完成了一半,但他们却看了别人几辈子才能看到的风景,你不能说任何一种选择是错。真的,自己开心就好。
77. Some people are born to hurry through life… completing their education, career, marriage, and children, everything in an orderly and systematic manner. They rush to finish most of their tasks in the first thirty years of life, then spend the remaining time repairing, enduring, and learning to find joy in hardship. Others may only complete half of their life tasks, but they see sights that others can only dream of in several lifetimes. You cannot say that either choice is wrong. Truly, as long as you are happy, that is all that matters.

78.真正能治愈自己的,只有你自己。要想活得快乐,要学会清醒地做事,糊涂地去做人。
78. The only one who can truly heal yourself is you. To live happily, you must learn to be clear-headed in your actions and muddle-headed in your relationships.

79.人生,哪能事事如意,生活,哪能样样顺心,很多人,都不被我们认同;很多事,都不由我们做主。不和小人较真,因为不值得;不和社会较真,因为较不起;不和自己较真,因为不快乐;不和亲人较真,因为伤和气;不和往事较真,因为没价值。
79. In life, we cannot always have everything we want, and in life, we cannot always have everything go our way. Many people are not recognized by us; many things are beyond our control. Do not take petty people seriously, because it is not worth it; do not take society seriously, because we cannot afford it; do not take ourselves too seriously, because it brings unhappiness; do not take our loved ones too seriously, because it hurts harmony; do not take the past too seriously, because it has no value.

80.你总会遇到一个人,吼着五音不全的嗓子唱歌给你听,陪你在大雨的夜里狂奔,在你黑白的人生中拿着颜料盘画来画去,听得懂你的胡言乱语,看得清你没有微笑的表情,穿越拥挤的人潮走向你,拥抱你。
80. You will always meet someone who sings to you with a tone-deaf voice, runs with you in the rainy night, paints your black-and-white life with colors, understands your nonsense, sees your unsmiling expressions, and walks through the crowded crowd to embrace you.

81.人生难免要受些委屈和伤害,与其耿耿于怀郁郁寡欢,倒不如坦坦荡荡泰然处之。只有经受住狂风暴雨的洗礼,才能练就波澜不惊的淡定。
81. Life inevitably involves some grievances and injuries. Instead of dwelling on them and being unhappy, it is better to face them with a calm and open mind. Only by withstanding the trials of storms can we develop a calm and unshaken demeanor.

82.当你能看懂一件事情的时候,说明你长大了;当你能看清一件事情的时候,说明你开窍了;当你能看破一件事情的时候,说明你理性了;当你能看透一件事情的时候,说明你成熟了;当你能看淡一件事情的时候,说明你放下了。
82. When you can understand a matter, it means you have grown up; when you can see through a matter, it means you have become enlightened; when you can see through a matter, it means you are rational; when you can see through a matter, it means you are mature; when you can look down on a matter, it means you have let go.

83.一生要走多远的路程,经过多少年才能走到终点。梦想需要多少时间才能慢慢实现。只要肯期待希望就不会幻灭。
83. How far one must travel in a lifetime and how many years it takes to reach the end. Dreams take time to slowly come true. As long as there is hope, illusions will not vanish.

84.真正的爱,是给予彼此一些特别的东西。不是谁都有能力给予你最好的一切,但至少可以用一些与众不同的东西,证明在彼此心里的价值。如此就深刻理解了那句话:“如果你给我的和给别人的一样,那我也就不要了。”
84. True love is about giving each other something special. Not everyone has the ability to give you the best of everything, but at least one can offer something unique to prove their worth in each other’s hearts. In this way, we can deeply understand the saying, “If what you give me is the same as what you give to others, then I don’t want it either.”

85.平凡的工作要用不平凡的态度来完成,简单的问题要用全面的思考来决策,当今的事情要用将来的目光来审视,遥远的理想要靠现实的努力来实现。
85. Ordinary work should be accomplished with an extraordinary attitude; simple problems should be decided with comprehensive thinking; current matters should be examined with a future perspective; and distant ideals should be realized through practical efforts.

86.在人之初,别拿人当幼欺;在人之暮,别拿人当弱辱;在人之前,别拿己当众扬;在人之后,别拿人当猴谤;在人之上,别拿人不当人;在人之下,别拿己不当人。
86. In the beginning of life, don’t treat others as young and vulnerable; in the twilight years, don’t treat others as weak and despised; in the presence of others, don’t boast about oneself; behind others’ backs, don’t slander them; above others, don’t treat them as less than human; below others, don’t undervalue oneself.

87.生活=信念+奋斗,健康=(好)习惯+锻炼,乐趣=追寻+浪漫,满足=淡泊+体验,创业=执着+开拓。
87. Life = belief + struggle; health = (good) habits + exercise; pleasure = pursuit + romance; satisfaction = detachment + experience; entrepreneurship = persistence + exploration.

88.观念比能力重要,策划比实施重要,行动比承诺重要,选择比努力重要,感知比告知重要,创造比证明重要,尊重生命比别人看法重要!
88. Concepts are more important than abilities; planning is more important than implementation; action is more important than commitment; choice is more important than effort; perception is more important than notification; creation is more important than proof; respecting life is more important than others’ opinions!

89.成功不会向我们走来,我们必须走向胜利;智慧不会向我们走来,我们必须勤奋思索;快乐不会向我们走来,我们必须用心体验。
89. Success will not come to us; we must walk towards victory; wisdom will not come to us; we must think diligently; happiness will not come to us; we must experience it wholeheartedly.

90.两个人在一起多久并不重要,重要的是你有没有在这个人心里待过。有些人哪怕在一起一天,却在心里待了一辈子;有些人即使在一起一辈子,却没有在心里待过一天。
90. The length of time spent together is not important; what matters is whether you have ever truly been in someone’s heart. Some people may be together for only a day but remain in each other’s hearts for a lifetime; others may be together for a lifetime yet never truly dwell in each other’s hearts.

91.你可以在金钱上贫穷,但绝不能在精神上贫乏。
91. You can be poor in wealth, but never in spirit.

92.人不要坐等明天,因为没有人知道自己有没有明天。
92. Don’t wait for tomorrow, as no one knows if they will have one.

93.人越是得意的事情,越爱隐藏,越是痛苦的事情越爱小题大作。
93. The more proud one is of something, the more they hide it; the more painful something is, the more they exaggerate it.

94.生命本无所谓有,无所谓无,有的人活着其实早已死去,如那些除了钱一无所有的富翁,整天在酒吧舞厅里消磨沉。有的人虽然死了但依然活着,如雷锋、任长霞等人,为公而献出了自己的宝贵的一生。虽死犹活,活在十几亿的炎黄子孙的心中。所以,当你生活得有意义时,生命便有;当你对生活绝望时,生命便无……
94. Life itself has no inherent meaning or lack thereof. Some people are alive but have already died, like those wealthy individuals who have nothing but money and spend their days in bars and nightclubs. Others may be dead but still alive in spirit, like Lei Feng and Ren Changxia, who dedicated their precious lives to public service. Though dead, they live on in the hearts of millions. Thus, life exists when you live meaningfully; life disappears when you despair.

95.爱情无需刻意去把握,越是想抓牢自己的爱情,反而容易失去自我。
95. Love should not be deliberately grasped; the more one tries to hold onto their love, the more likely they are to lose themselves.

96.欲望就是这样的东西:你越得到它就越感到不足,你越失去它就越感到知足。
96. Desire is such a thing: the more you get, the more unsatisfied you feel; the more you lose, the more content you become.

97.生活的“生”字由“牛”和“一”组成,寓意牛辛勤耕耘一生一世。所以,我们要一如既往,如牛那样勤勉终生。
97. The character for “life” consists of “cow” and “one,” symbolizing a cow’s hard work throughout its life. Therefore, we should remain steadfast and diligent like a cow throughout our lives.

98.做工作的有心人,老板的贴心人,同事的关心人。
98. Be a conscientious worker, a caring assistant to your boss, and a considerate colleague.

99.要用行动控制情绪,不要让情绪控制行动;要让心灵启迪智慧,不能让耳朵支配心灵。人与人之间的差别,主要差在两耳之间的那块地方!
99. Control emotions with actions, not the other way around; let the mind inspire wisdom, not let the ears dominate the mind. The difference between people lies mainly in the space between their ears!

100.爱,当你拥有的时候不觉得什么,一旦失去,却仿佛失去了所有的一切。
100. Love is something you don’t appreciate when you have it, but once lost, it feels as if you’ve lost everything.