1、也许有些人很可恶,有些人很卑鄙。而当我设身为他想象的时候,我才知道:他比我还可怜。所以请原谅所有你见过的人,好人或者坏人。
1. Perhaps some people are hateful, and some are despicable. But when I put myself in their shoes, I realize: they are even more pitiful than I am. So please forgive everyone you have ever met, good or bad.

2、人生就像马拉松,获胜的关键不在于瞬间的爆发,而在于途中的坚持。你纵有千百个理由放弃,也要给自己找一个坚持下去的理由。很多时候,成功就是多坚持一分钟,这一分钟不放弃,下一分钟就会有希望。只是我们不知道,这一分钟会在什么时候出现。再苦再累,只要坚持走下去,属于你的风景终会出现。
2. Life is like a marathon; the key to winning lies not in the burst of an instant but in the persistence along the way. Even if you have a thousand reasons to give up, find one reason to keep going. Many times, success is just about holding on for one more minute. We just don’t know when that minute will come. No matter how hard and tired we are, as long as we keep moving forward, the scenery that belongs to us will eventually appear.

3、人生途中,最好的,或许不一定是最适合我们的。最合适的,才是真正最好的。有心能知,有情能爱,有缘能聚,有梦能圆。或许我们曾经喜欢过一个人,爱过一朵花。其实,在我们成长的过程中,只要爱过,喜欢过就是美丽的。
3. In the journey of life, the best may not necessarily be the most suitable for us. The most suitable is truly the best. With a heart that can understand, with emotions that can love, with fate that can bring us together, and with dreams that can come true. Perhaps we have once liked a person or loved a flower. In fact, as we grow, it is beautiful as long as we have loved and liked something.

4、人生就像骑自行车,想保持平衡就得往前走。人生总是在苦恼中循环往复,挣扎不出;得不到的想得到,得到了又怕失去,总觉得别人得到的比自己得到的多。我们每个人都在挣扎中撰写自己的人生。
4. Life is like riding a bicycle; to maintain balance, we must keep moving forward. Life is always a cycle of suffering and struggling, unable to break free; we want what we can’t have, and we fear losing what we have. We all write our own life stories in this struggle.

5、是的,走在生活的风雨旅程中,当你羡慕别人住着高楼大厦时,也许瑟缩在墙角的人,正羡慕你有一座可以遮风的草屋;当你羡慕别人坐在豪华车里,而失意于自己在地上行走时,也许躺在病床上的人,正羡慕你还可以自由行走……
5. Yes, on the journey of life, when you envy others for living in tall buildings, perhaps those huddled in the corners are envying your humble thatched cottage that shields you from the wind; when you envy others for riding in luxurious cars and feel disappointed about walking on foot, those lying on hospital beds may be envying your ability to walk freely…

6、一生辗转千万里,莫问成败重几许,得之坦然,失之淡然,与其在别人的辉煌里仰望,不如亲手点亮自己的心灯,扬帆远航,把握最真实的自己,才会更深刻地解读自己……
6. In a lifetime of wandering thousands of miles, don’t ask how much success or failure weighs. Embrace what you gain and let go of what you lose. Instead of looking up to others’ glory, it’s better to light your own inner lamp, set sail, and grasp the most authentic self. Only then can we profoundly understand ourselves…

7、看似重复的生活却有太多的不同,随着岁月流逝,自己慢慢成熟再慢慢变老、这就是生活啊、在这看似重复的日子里,记取美好的瞬间作回忆、 年华似水,在那些刻骨铭心记忆里,付出过,笑过,哭过。经历过就会懂得,那些经过或者正在经过的岁月,有的东西留下来了,有的东西注定永远消散。
7. Seemingly repetitive lives have so many differences. As the years pass, we slowly mature and grow old. This is life. In these seemingly repetitive days, cherish the beautiful moments as memories. Time flows like water, and in those unforgettable memories, we have given, laughed, and cried. We will understand that those years we have experienced or are experiencing have left some things behind, while others are destined to vanish forever.

8、人生是一次旅行,在旅程中遇到的每一个人、每一件事与每一个美丽景色,都有可能成为一生中难忘的风景。我们无法猜测即将迎接什么样的风景、目的地在哪儿,可是前进的脚步却始终不能停下,因为时间不允许我们在任何地方停留,只有在前进中学会选择,学会体会,学会欣赏。
8. Life is a journey. Each person, every event, and every beautiful scenery we encounter during the journey may become an unforgettable landscape in our lives. We cannot predict what kind of scenery we will greet or where our destination lies. However, we cannot stop our footsteps, as time does not allow us to stay in one place. We must learn to choose, experience, and appreciate while moving forward.

9、人生,没有永远的伤痛,没有过不去的坎。还是让我们学学杨柳,看似柔弱却坚韧,狂风吹不断;太刚强的树干,却在风中折枝。学会放弃,学会承受,学会坚强,学会微笑,那是一种别样的美丽!适当的放弃,是人生优雅的转身。
9. In life, there is no everlasting pain, no insurmountable obstacles. Let us learn from the willow, which appears fragile yet is resilient, unbroken by strong winds; while the rigid tree trunk may snap in the wind. Learn to let go, endure, be strong, and smile, for that is a different kind of beauty! Properly letting go is an elegant turn in life.

10、尤其爱你的家人。他们与你日夜生活在一起,而你给他们的关爱,甚至少于他人。微妙地表达你的心意,你将播种出最让他们无法忘怀的感动。一个家庭的和睦,正昭示着没有什么痛苦可以轻而易举地击败你们。
10. Cherish your family especially, for they live with you day and night. The love you give them may even be less than what you give to others. Express your feelings subtly, and you will sow the seeds of unforgettable moments for them. The harmony of a family signifies that no pain can easily defeat you.

11、人生的选择其实很简单:往自己心里感到踏实的地方走不会错。尽量不去对一些或有或无的事动心,静下心听自己的声音!
11. The choices in life are actually very simple: walking towards the place where your heart feels at ease will not be wrong. Try not to be tempted by things that may or may not exist, and calm down to listen to your own voice!

12、我们都在人生这个故事里,演绎着自己的精彩人生。 风景,不管是现在还是过去,都是远远地静静地看静静地想,那才是风景,如果闭上眼睛冥想自己在风景之中,又常常觉得煞了风景。
12. We are all in the story of life, performing our own wonderful lives. Scenery, whether it is now or in the past, should be quietly observed and thought about from a distance; that is what makes it scenery. If you close your eyes and meditate on being in the scenery, you often feel that it spoils the view.

13、把命运寄托在自己身上,这是这个世界上最美妙的心思。为此努力,拼搏,不舍昼夜。
13. Entrusting your destiny to yourself is the most wonderful thought in the world. Work hard, strive, and spare no effort day and night for this.

14、我不知道我现在做的哪些是对的,那些是错的,而当我终于老死的时候我才知道这些。所以我现在所能做的就是尽力做好每一件事,然后等待着老死。
14. I don’t know which of the things I’m doing now are right and which are wrong, and I will only know when I eventually die of old age. So all I can do now is try my best to do everything well and then wait to die of old age.

15、人生在世,短短几十朝,拼是一世,混也是一世,只是所经历的过程不同,则必然结果迥异。拼的过程中必然会有阻力,会有疲惫,也必然会有成功的喜悦,丰硕的成果。混的生活,则比较平淡,寻常日子,平坦的道路,却是没有激情,没有痛彻心扉的经历。
15. Life is short, just a few decades. Striving is a lifetime, and so is loafing, but the experiences are different, and the outcomes will inevitably be vastly different. The process of striving will inevitably have resistance, fatigue, but also the joy of success and fruitful results. A loafing life is more plain, ordinary days, flat roads, but without passion or heart-wrenching experiences.

16、人生如花,人与金钱的关系就等于是花的种子与土壤的关系。鲜花盛开需要足够的土壤,但前提是要让自己先发出芽来,社会会随着我们的成长进程把我们从小花盆移植到大花盆,如果我们是参天大树,还会把我们放置在野外的沃土中。人最值得炫耀的是自己开成的花、长成的树,而不只是下面的土壤有多肥沃。
16. Life is like a flower; the relationship between people and money is like the relationship between a flower seed and soil. Blooming flowers need enough soil, but the premise is to let yourself sprout first. Society will transplant us from small pots to larger pots as we grow. If we are towering trees, we will be placed in the fertile soil of the wild. The most admirable thing about a person is the flower they bloom and the tree they grow into, not just how fertile the soil is below.

17、把人生的得失成败看淡些,把纠缠的恩怨情仇看轻些,开心、轻松地度过每一天看似平淡的生活才是对自己生命最大的珍爱。不要过度地追求辉煌灿烂的人生,轰轰烈烈的传奇经历,多数的是发生在书中的故事,对于平凡的我们来说,平淡才是生活的主线。
17. Take life’s gains and losses lightly, and the entanglement of love and hatred lightly. To live a happy and relaxed life through seemingly ordinary days is the greatest treasure of your life. Don’t overly pursue a brilliant and legendary life. Most of these stories happen in books. For ordinary people like us, simplicity is the main thread of life.

18、人生的路很漫长,无论怎么选择,我们都要走向成熟的,都是朝着终点走去的。要学会不断地否定自己,世界是对的,错的是我们,慢慢地剔除年少的偏执轻狂;要学会体察他人,修炼包容大度的胸襟,其实对与错没有绝对,就看你心灵的境界有多宽广;要学会简单,你对世界简单了,世界也就不会太复杂。
18. Life’s journey is long. No matter how we choose, we all move towards maturity and head towards the end. We need to learn to constantly deny ourselves; the world is right, and we are wrong. Slowly eliminate the prejudices and arrogance of youth. Learn to empathize with others and cultivate a tolerant heart. In fact, there is no absolute right or wrong; it depends on how broad your mind is. Learn to be simple; if you are simple with the world, the world will not be too complicated.

19、人生有许多不能诠释的故事,一旦走进生命,就再也无法忘记。一路清唱,如素的心境,依稀年华里点点斑斑。寂寞影随,拂两袖清风天涯而去,轻携几许悠悠的淡然,将时光里每一刻痴然的回眸枯成水中的残月,一如纸絮飞花,轻盈地摇落心底的凡尘。思昨昔今昔,总有些感慨、怅惘、从不奢求什么,远远凝望,不是虚拟,是深远,却如梦,如幻。
19. There are many untellable stories in life that, once they enter our lives, can never be forgotten. Singing all the way, with a simple state of mind, we vaguely see the spots and blotsches in our fleeting years. The lonely shadow follows, brushing the sleeves of the breeze to the ends of the earth, gently carrying a sense of leisurely detachment, turning every moment of infatuated gaze in time into the residual moon in the water, just like paper dregs and flying flowers, gently shaking off the dust in our hearts. Thinking about the past and the present, there are always some feelings, melancholy, and never extravagant expectations. Gazing from afar is not virtual, but profound, yet like a dream, like an illusion.

20、人生是由许多不完美连缀成的完美曲线,不要为曾经的错失忿忿不平,无须为走远的风景扼腕叹息。我们要知道,完美的是想象,不完美的才是生活。过去就如一张封口照片,只可以借鉴和欣赏,却无法颠倒和重复。昨天是定型的一本书,今天是待绘的一张纸,我们不能让太多的过往挤压当下的空间。
20. Life is a perfect curve made up of many imperfections. Don’t be resentful for past mistakes, and don’t sigh for the distant scenery. We must understand that perfection is an illusion, and imperfection is life. The past is like a sealed photo, which can only be used for reference and appreciation, but cannot be reversed or repeated. Yesterday is a book set in stone, today is a blank sheet of paper, and we cannot let too much of the past squeeze the space of the present.

21、苦苦地挽留夕阳的,是傻子;久久地感伤春光的,是蠢人。什么也不愿放弃的人,常会失去更珍贵的东西。
21. Those who desperately try to hold onto the setting sun are fools; those who mourn the passing of spring for a long time are stupid. People who are unwilling to give up anything often lose more precious things.

22、人生的起跑处,我们都差不多,没有背景,没有世故,只有无边的梦想;我们要走的路很长,过程很艰辛,于是我们学会了圆滑,学会了逃避,很多人在仓皇奔跑之中,把梦想弄丢了,只捡到了平凡、平淡、平庸。梦想是不能丢的,你决心走哪条路,想成为哪种人,坚守的时间越长,你才能走得越远。
22. At the starting point of life, we are all more or less the same, with no background, no sophistication, only boundless dreams. The road ahead is long, and the process is arduous, so we learn to be smooth, to escape, and many people lose their dreams in the haste of running, only to find themselves ordinary, plain, and mediocre. Dreams must not be lost; the longer you stick to the path and the kind of person you want to be, the farther you will go.

23、人生就是一场未知的冒险,没有人会事先知道结局。别人只会尊重你的选择,而不会在意你的牺牲。没有人为你的选择负责,所以,不要怨天尤人,也不要和别人一起感伤你的不幸,而应当冷静面对目前的状况,用心并且负责地去解决你现在的问题。只要能对自己的现在负责,那么你的未来也会为你负责!
23. Life is an unknown adventure, and no one knows the outcome in advance. Others will only respect your choices, not your sacrifices. No one is responsible for your choices, so don’t complain about your misfortune or grieve with others. Instead, calmly face the current situation, and solve your problems with heart and responsibility. As long as you can be responsible for your present, your future will also be responsible for you!

24、放弃并不代表你没本事,有时候正因为你足够强大,才能够放开曾经紧握的手。低调并不代表你没实力,有时候正因为你足够优秀,才不会去过多的张扬自我。忍让并不代表你没魄力,有时候正因为你足够自信,才不会去计较一时的得失。简单并不代表你没经历,有时候正因为你足够成熟,才不会让自己活得太沉重。
24. Giving up does not mean you are incapable; sometimes it is because you are strong enough to let go of what you once held tightly. Being low-key does not mean you lack ability; sometimes it is because you are excellent enough not to show off too much. Forbearance does not mean you lack courage; sometimes it is because you are confident enough not to care about temporary gains and losses. Simplicity does not mean you have no experience; sometimes it is because you are mature enough not to live too heavily.

25、观念比能力重要,策划比实施重要,行动比承诺重要,选择比努力重要,感知比告知重要,创造比证明重要,尊重生命比别人看法重要!
25. Concepts are more important than abilities, planning is more important than implementation, action is more important than commitment, choice is more important than effort, perception is more important than notification, creation is more important than proof, and respecting life is more important than others’ opinions!

26、你心中有过去一段美丽的经历,好好珍藏,但千万别拿出来跟现在比,比不出成熟,比不出幸福,也比不过时间。每个人心里都有一面放大镜,是把它对准消极的东西还是极积的东西,全由我们自己做主;多数时候我们都把它对准了消极的那一类,所以我们不成功,所以我们不快乐。
26. You have a beautiful experience in your heart; cherish it, but don’t compare it with the present. You can’t compare maturity, happiness, or time. Each of us has a magnifying glass in our hearts, and it’s up to us to decide whether to focus on negative or positive things. Most of the time, we focus on the negative, which is why we are not successful and not happy.

27、学会放弃吧!放弃失恋的痛楚;放弃屈辱留下的仇恨;放弃心中所有难言的负荷;放弃费尽精力的争吵;放弃对权力的角逐;放弃对虚名的争夺……凡是次要的,枝节的,多余的,该放弃的都要放弃。
27. Learn to let go! Let go of the pain from a broken relationship; let go of the hatred left by humiliation; let go of all the unspeakable burdens in your heart; let go of the energy-consuming arguments; let go of the pursuit of power; let go of the competition for empty fame… Anything secondary, trivial, or redundant should be abandoned.

28、人生就像走路,背负的东西越多,走起来就越累,只有学会放下,才会轻松前行,心灵的修行亦是如此,只有少装一些世俗杂念,专心做好自己的份内事,才会拥有一个轻松、宽敞、明朗的空间。
28. Life is like walking; the more you carry, the more tired you become. Only by learning to let go can you move forward with ease. The cultivation of the mind is the same; only by letting go of worldly distractions and focusing on your own duties can you have a relaxed, spacious, and bright space.

29、人生之难;最难提高的是素质;最难改变的是习惯;最难统一的是行动;最难做好的是细节;最难处理的是关系;最难把握的是机遇;最难实现的是理想;最难得到的是人心;最难分配的是利益。人活着的意义应当是在过程,而不是结论。所以一个人不应该以自己的经验和观点去影响另一个人,何况他不是你,你也不是他。每一个人成长的过程都不一样,人生的酸甜苦辣应当自己尝一尝,尝试才是人生。
29. The difficulties in life: the hardest thing to improve is quality; the hardest thing to change is habit; the hardest thing to unify is action; the hardest thing to do well is detail; the hardest thing to handle is relationships; the hardest thing to grasp is opportunity; the hardest thing to achieve is ideals; the hardest thing to gain is people’s hearts; the hardest thing to distribute is benefits. The meaning of life should be in the process, not the conclusion. Therefore, one should not influence another person with their own experiences and opinions, let alone that they are not you, and you are not them. Everyone’s growth process is different, and the ups and downs of life should be tasted by oneself. Only by trying can one experience life.

30、只有放得下,才能将该拿得起的东西更好地把握住,从而抓住最重要的东西。只有这样,你的人生才会更加精彩。
30. Only by letting go can you better grasp what you should hold on to, thus capturing the most important things. Only in this way will your life be more wonderful.

31、“名”能否放得下?高智商的人,一般都喜欢争强好胜,对其看得较重,甚至爱名如命,最终累得死去活来。若能放下,可称得上超脱的放下。
31. Can “fame” be let go? People with high IQ generally like to compete and attach great importance to fame, even loving it like their own life, eventually becoming exhausted. If one can let go, it can be considered a transcendent letting go.

32、“忧愁”能否放得下?现实生活中令人忧愁的事实在是太多了,有首诗说:才下眉头,却上心头。若能把忧愁放得下,可称得上幸福的放下,因为没有忧愁的确是一种幸福啊!
32. Can “sorrow” be let go? There are too many things in real life that cause sorrow, as a poem says: “Just off the brow, but on the heart.” If one can let go of sorrow, it can be considered a happy letting go, for being without sorrow is indeed a kind of happiness!

33、生活在这世界,最难做到的无疑就是放下。大多数自己喜爱的固然放不下,自己不喜爱的也放不下。因此,爱憎之念常常霸占住心房,这样哪里快乐自主呢?
33. Living in this world, the hardest thing to do is undoubtedly letting go. Most people can’t let go of what they love, nor can they let go of what they don’t love. Therefore, the thoughts of love and hatred often occupy the heart, so where can happiness and autonomy be found?

34、“情”能否放得下?人世间最说不清、道不明的字。凡是陷入感情纠葛,往往会丧失理智。若能放下,可称是理智的放下。
34. Can “emotions” be let go? The most unclear and inexplicable word in the world. Those who are entangled in emotional conflicts often lose their rationality. If one can let go, it can be considered a rational letting go.

35、在这个世界上,为什么有的人活得轻松,而有的人为什么活得沉重?前者是拿得起,放得下;而后者是拿得起,却放不下,所以沉重。
35. In this world, why do some people live lightly while others live heavily? The former can take up and let go, while the latter can take up but cannot let go, so they live heavily.

36、人生最大的选择就是拿得起,放得下。只有这样,你才活得轻松而幸福。
36. The biggest choice in life is to be able to take up and let go. Only in this way can you live a relaxed and happy life.

37、一个人在处世中,拿得起是一种勇气,放得下是一种肚量。对于人生道路上的鲜花、掌声,有处世经验的人大都能等闲视之,屡经风雨的人更有自知之明。但对于坎坷与泥泞,能以平常之心视之,就非常不容易。大的挫折与大的灾难,能不为之所动,能坦然承受,这则是一种胸襟和肚量。
37. In dealing with the world, being able to take up is a kind of courage, and being able to let go is a kind of magnanimity. Experienced people in life can usually take flowers and applause in stride, and those who have been through many hardships have more self-knowledge. However, it is very difficult to face setbacks and mud with an ordinary heart. To remain unmoved by great setbacks and disasters, and to bear them calmly, is a kind of mind and magnanimity.

38、人生祸福相依,笑泪交织,得到不必太喜,你拥有一些,必然会放弃另一些;失去的无须过悲,没有什么可以永久地停留。不要以事业的成败、收入的多寡来定义人生的幸福,它们只是一种附庸,与幸福的内涵没有必然的联系。只要凡事抱以平常心,不抱怨,不嫉恨,不懈怠,不冷漠,幸福才有所依附。
38. In life, fortune and misfortune go hand in hand, with laughter and tears intertwined. There is no need for excessive joy when you gain something, as possessing some will inevitably lead to giving up others; and there is no need for excessive sadness when you lose something, as nothing can stay forever. Do not define the happiness of life based on the success or failure of your career or the amount of income, as they are merely adjuncts and have no necessary connection to the essence of happiness. Only by maintaining a normal mindset in everything, without complaining, harboring hatred, being lazy, or being indifferent, can happiness find a place to rely on.

39、佛家以大肚能容天下之事为乐事,这便是一种极高的境界。既来之,则安之,便是一种超脱;但这种超脱,又需多年磨练才能养成。
39. Buddhism takes pleasure in the great capacity to accommodate all matters in the world, which is a very high state. To accept what comes and be at ease with it is a form of detachment; yet, this detachment requires years of cultivation to develop.

40、“财”能否放得下?李白有首诗道:天生我才必有用,千金散尽还复来。如能放下,那可称得上潇洒的放下。
40. Can “wealth” be let go? There is a poem by Li Bai that says: Heaven has made me useful, and a thousand gold coins will return even if spent. If one can let go, it can be considered a graceful release.

41、生活有时会逼迫你,不得不交出权力,不得不放走机遇,甚至不得不抛弃爱情。你不可能什么都得到,所以,在生活中应该学会放弃。
41. Sometimes life will force you to give up power, let go of opportunities, or even abandon love. You cannot have everything, so you should learn to let go in life.

42、而常常是,生活中不是拿不起来,而是放不下。我们手中的东西不想丢掉,却又要拿起更多的东西。
42. Often, it is not about not being able to pick up things in life, but rather not being able to let them go. We don’t want to discard what we hold in our hands, yet we want to pick up even more.

43、人生中有太多的过客,不管你有多么的不舍,过客始终都是过客,总有一天会离开的,你要学会放手,别等到变成一种伤害再去后悔。记住:是你的跑不了,不是你的再怎么挽留也没用。
43. There are too many passers-by in life. No matter how reluctant you are, they will always be passers-by and will leave one day. You need to learn to let go, instead of waiting for it to become a kind of hurt and then regretting it. Remember: what’s yours will not escape, and what’s not yours is useless to retain no matter how hard you try.

44、人生的旅途,总是蜿蜒曲折坎坷不平的,人的一生不可能平坦如意,走平坦人生之路的人,可能是平庸的。而一个有为的人,他的道路多半是曲折的,当恶运向你袭来的时候,最要紧的是
44. The journey of life is always full of twists, turns, and bumps. It is impossible for a person’s life to be smooth and carefree. Those who walk a smooth path in life may be mediocre. However, a successful person’s path is mostly winding. When misfortune strikes, the most important thing is
要有宽广的胸怀,远大的理想,顽强的意志和坚韧不拨的毅力,用笑脸去面对现实,用微笑去对待生活!
45. One should have a broad mind, lofty ideals, tenacious will, and unyielding perseverance. Face reality with a smile and treat life with a smile!

45、人生没有十全十美,你发现错了,重新再来,千万不要用一个错误去掩盖另一个错误。人活着的意义应当是在过程,而不是结论。所以一个人不应该以自己的经验和观点去影响另一个人,何况他不是你,你也不是他。每一个人成长的过程都不一样,人生的酸甜苦辣应当自己尝一尝,尝试才是人生。
Life is not perfect, and when you discover a mistake, start over instead of covering it up with another mistake. The meaning of life should lie in the process, not the conclusion. Therefore, one should not influence another person with their own experiences and opinions, especially since they are not you, and you are not them. Everyone’s growth process is different, and the joys and sorrows of life should be experienced personally. Only through trial can one truly experience life.

46、有些事,我们明知道是错的,也要去坚持,因为不甘心;有些人,我们明知道是爱的,也要去放弃,因为没结局;有时候,我们明知道没路了,却还在前行,因为习惯了。在这个世间,总有一些我们无法完成的事情,一些无法靠近的人,无法占有的感情,一些无法抵达的地方,无法修复的缺陷。
46. There are some things we know are wrong, but we still persist because we are unwilling to give in; there are some people we know we love, but we have to let go because there is no ending; sometimes, we know there is no way forward, yet we continue because we are accustomed to it. In this world, there are always things we cannot accomplish, people we cannot get close to, emotions we cannot possess, places we cannot reach, and flaws we cannot repair.

47、人生的很多时候,就如一场场战争,我们总是渴望胜利,但不要拒绝失败。输掉了感情,心情还在;破灭了理想,思想犹存;丧失了机遇,还有机缘。哪怕再痛苦的过去,也是我们活过的印记,我们无须忘记。伤口是不用给别人看的,刺的是别人的眼,痛的却是自己的心。要相信,只要坚持,我们就不可能完败。
47. In life, there are many moments like wars; we always long for victory, but do not reject failure. Even if we lose our emotions, our mood remains; even if our ideals are shattered, our thoughts still exist; even if we miss opportunities, there are still chances to come. No matter how painful the past, it is a mark of our existence, and we need not forget it. Wounds need not be shown to others; they may prick their eyes, but they hurt our own hearts. Believe that as long as we persist, we cannot be completely defeated.

48、我们时刻都在失去,失去时间,失去生命,失去财富,失去机会。我们努力的想去拥有更多的精彩,可惜只有两只手,所以必须学会选择,学会放弃。要清楚哪些是我们不需要的,如果心的欲望太大,什么都想抓,可能最后什么也抓不牢。只有学会放弃,才能更好地持有。
48. We are constantly losing: time, life, wealth, and opportunities. We strive to possess more wonderful things, but we only have two hands, so we must learn to choose and let go. We need to be clear about what we don’t need; if our desires are too great and we try to grasp everything, we may end up holding onto nothing. Only by learning to let go can we hold on better.

49、人生这条路,走着走着就不知所向,你以为的和你的身边都以为的目的地,却陡然急转直下,甚至与构想的完全不着边际,可是这就是人生,谁也不能确定的明天的明天。
49. Life is a journey, and as we walk, we sometimes lose our sense of direction. The destination you think of and what those around you think of may suddenly change, or even be completely different from what you imagined. But this is life, and no one can be certain about what lies ahead.

50、人生就是带雨伞时不下雨,下雨时却忘了带伞;人生就是勤奋工作时老板没看见,偷懒摸鱼时就被撞见;人生就是喜欢的人不喜欢我,不喜欢的人还是不喜欢我;人生就是当你开始思索人生是什么时,你已经什么都不是了。
50. Life is like carrying an umbrella when it doesn’t rain, and forgetting it when it does; working hard when the boss doesn’t notice, and getting caught slacking off; liking someone who doesn’t like you, and still being disliked by those you don’t like; when you start pondering what life is, you may find that you are already nothing.

51、人生其实很短暂,不要等到失去了以后,才知道后悔,才想要珍惜,那样就太晚了,世界上没有后悔药,老天也不会给你第二次的机会,所以请好好把握自己想要的东西和想要珍惜的人。
51. Life is actually very short; don’t wait until you’ve lost something to regret and want to cherish it, as it will be too late. There is no such thing as a后悔药(后悔药), and the heavens won’t give you a second chance. So please seize what you want and cherish the people you care about.

52、人生有伤,有痛,有甜更有苦。每一种创伤都是一种成熟,它使人思索,使人坚强,使人更懂珍惜。如果一个人没有品过苦,就难以知道甜的滋味。勇敢的面对苦难,乐观的克服苦难,也是一种修行。没有永恒的夜晚,没有永恒的冬天,苦难终会过去,而阳光总在风雨后!
52. Life has its wounds, pain, sweetness, and bitterness. Each trauma is a form of maturity, making us think, making us strong, and teaching us to cherish. If one has never tasted bitterness, it is difficult to know the taste of sweetness. Facing hardships bravely and overcoming them optimistically is also a kind of practice. There is no eternal night or winter; hardships will pass, and the sun always comes after the storm!

53、人生有许多机会,关键是看我们能不能抓住。机会来时,不是一下子就能看明白,它是戴着面纱的,也不是谁都可以看得清,那得需要有足够的洞察力和识别能力的,不然,再好的机遇也会和我们檫肩而过的。很多人就是等机会过去了才看到了它的真面目,可是机会也和我们无缘了。
53. Life offers many opportunities, but the key is whether we can seize them. When opportunities come, they are not always clear at first; they wear a veil and are not visible to everyone. We need sufficient insight and discernment to recognize them; otherwise, even the best opportunities will pass us by. Many people only see the true face of an opportunity after it has passed, but by then, it is already out of reach.

54、人生没有如果,只有后果和结果。过去的不会再回来,即使回来也不再完美。生活有进退,输什么也不能输心情。生活最大的幸福就是,坚信有人爱着我。对于过去不可忘记,但要放下。因为有明天,今天永远只是起跑线。生活简单就迷人,人心简单就幸福;学会简单其实就不简单。
54. There are no “ifs” in life, only consequences and results. The past will not come back, and even if it does, it will no longer be perfect. Life has its ups and downs, but one should never lose their mood. The greatest happiness in life is to firmly believe that someone loves you. The past should not be forgotten, but let go. Because there is a tomorrow, today is always just the starting line. Life is charming when it is simple, and people are happy when they are simple; learning to be simple is actually not simple.

55、人生路上,拈朵微笑的花,有风轻轻吹过,花香摇曳,风轻云淡。花开葱茏, 叶落从容,一路行走,一路感动,一路怀念,一路拥有。光阴逝水,岁月留痕。一年,就这样薄薄淡淡的翻过。
55. On the journey of life, pick a smiling flower, with a gentle breeze blowing by, the fragrance swaying, light clouds and wind. Flowers bloom lush, leaves fall calmly, walking all the way, feeling all the way, reminiscing all the way, and possessing all the way. Time flies, leaving traces of years. A year, just like this, has turned over thin and light.

56、人生中,许多的成败与得失,并不是我们都能预料到的,很多的事情也并不是我们都能够承担得起的,但,只要我们努力去做,求得一份付出后的坦然,其实得到的也是一种快乐。
56. In life, many successes and failures, gains and losses are unpredictable, and many things are beyond our ability to bear. However, as long as we work hard and seek a sense of calm after giving our best, what we gain is also a kind of happiness.

57、人生的路上,我们都在奔跑,我们总在赶超一些人,也总在被一些人超越。人生的要义,一是欣赏沿途的风景,二是抵达遥远的终点;人生的秘诀,寻找一种最适合自己的速度,莫因疾进而不堪重荷,莫因迟缓而空耗生命;人生的快乐,走自己的路,看自己的景,超越他人不得意,他人超越不失志。
57. On the road of life, we are all running, always catching up with some people and being surpassed by others. The essence of life is, first, to appreciate the scenery along the way, and second, to reach the distant destination; the secret of life is to find a pace that suits you best, don’t push yourself too hard, nor waste your life by being too slow; the joy of life is to go your own way, see your own scenery, not to be complacent when surpassing others, and not to lose heart when被别人超越.

58、世间复杂,但总有一处安放灵魂的地方,不必寻找,只要让心安静,无所思而有所思,在最高的心之山顶眺望,俯视众生,看而不言,拈花之间莲绽放。
58. The world is complex, but there is always a place for the soul. No need to search, just let the heart be still, think without thinking, and look down at all living beings from the highest peak of the heart, watching without speaking, and lotus blooms between the fingers.

59、方向比速度重要,智慧比吃苦重要,学习比学历重要,机遇比关系重要,要什么比做什么重要!
59. Direction is more important than speed, wisdom is more important than hard work, learning is more important than education, opportunity is more important than relationships, what you want is more important than what you do!

60、人之所以容易摔跤,是因为失去了平衡。道理浅显却容易被忽视。思想失去了平衡,就会往歪处想;身体失去了平衡,必然会倾斜;做事失去了平衡,难免不周全;做人失去了平衡,容易走岔道。平衡,不是水平,而是力量的制衡。只想得到,会失去更多。拒绝痛苦,痛苦势必更甚。害怕失败,成功就无法到来。
60. People tend to stumble because they lose balance. The truth is simple but easy to be overlooked. When thoughts lose balance, they tend to go astray; when the body loses balance, it will inevitably tilt; when doing things loses balance, it is hard to be thorough; when being a person loses balance, it is easy to go astray. Balance is not a level, but a balance of forces. Just wanting to gain will lead to greater loss. Refusing pain will make the pain worse. Fear of failure will prevent success from coming.

61、落后是观念落后,贫穷是脑袋贫穷。许多人,不是没有好机会,而是没有好观念。不是不接受新观念,而是不愿抛弃旧观念!
61. Being behind is due to outdated concepts, and poverty is due to a poor mind. Many people don’t lack good opportunities, but rather good concepts. It’s not about not accepting new concepts, but unwillingness to abandon old ones!

62、婴儿:什么都明白就是说不出。幼儿:什么都想说就是不明白。童年:什么都要问不管该问不该问。少年:什么都很烦,不知到底烦什么。青年:智商和情商互殴,梦想与现实错乱。中年:什么都是问题,就是不知问题到底是什么。老年:看得惯的不多,想得起的更少,只要活着就是美好。
62. Baby: understanding everything but unable to speak. Toddler: wanting to say everything but not understanding. Childhood: asking everything, regardless of whether it’s appropriate or not. Adolescence: everything is annoying, not knowing what exactly is annoying. Youth: IQ and EQ fighting each other, dreams and reality in chaos. Middle age: everything is a problem, but not knowing what the problem is. Old age: not much is acceptable, even fewer things can be remembered, as long as alive, it is beautiful.

63、通常,我们往往对他人充满了怨恨,那可能是你的上级,也可能是你的合作伙伴,站在你的立场上,你无法了解他人,但你稍微站在那人立场上,世界便会不同起来。天地更宽,所以孔子说:己所不欲,勿施于人。
63. Usually, we tend to be filled with resentment towards others, who may be your superior or your partner. From your standpoint, you cannot understand others, but if you stand in their shoes a little, the world will become different. The world becomes wider, so Confucius said: Do not do unto others what you do not want done to yourself.

64、当你说累的时候,或许是心累了,或许是人累了,便很想安静,试着除去一天的浮躁,找一块安静的净土,给心灵放一个假,来静静地聆听净化心灵的音乐。
64. When you say you are tired, it may be mental fatigue or physical exhaustion, and you will want to seek quietness. Try to remove the day’s restlessness and find a peaceful haven to give your soul a vacation, and quietly listen to music that purifies the soul.

65、佛家说,净化心灵,贵在自我。只有敞开心扉,才能看见污垢,有效地清理污垢。若总是用双手遮住自己的心灵深处,那么,污垢是永远也洗涤不净的。
65. Buddhists say that the key to purifying the soul lies within oneself. Only by opening one’s heart can we see the dirt and effectively clean it. If we always cover the depths of our souls with our hands, the dirt will never be washed away.

66、生活中很多事情是无法经营的,时间不能经营,总会在我们的珍惜、漠视、浪费中慢慢走远。幸福不能经营,利益会让情感褪色,让情愫枯萎;微笑不能经营,它是不求回报的天使,是根植在我们心中的春天。我们唯一可以做的,是好好地经营自己,经营好自己的心灵空间,不要让爱在我们的淡漠中渐渐荒芜。
66. Many things in life cannot be managed. Time cannot be managed, and it will slowly slip away amidst our cherishing, neglecting, and wasting. Happiness cannot be managed, as interests can fade emotions and wither feelings; smiles cannot be managed, as they are selfless angels and the spring rooted in our hearts. The only thing we can do is to manage ourselves and our spiritual space well, and not let love become barren in our indifference.

67、人生的路途上,便是不断地相送与相别;于是,在人生的客栈里,永远扮演一位匆匆的过客,来不及留恋和回味,就像来不及在流星消失前许一个愿。
67. On the journey of life, there is continuous parting and farewell; thus, in the inn of life, we always play the role of a hurried passerby, with no time to linger or savor, just like we cannot make a wish before a meteor disappears.

68、有眼界才有境界,有实力才有魅力,有思路才有出路,有作为才有地位。政从正来,智从知来,财从才来,位从为来!
68. Having a horizon brings a realm, having strength brings charm, having ideas brings ways out, and having achievements brings status. Politics come from righteousness, wisdom comes from knowledge, wealth comes from talent, and position comes from actions!

69、爱情总是有得有失的,你得到忠诚,就会失去魅力。你得到富贵,就会失去体贴。你得到浪漫,就会失去长久。你得到外貌,就会失去安全感。所以,别指望能样样俱全,既然你是个普通人,那就去追求普通的爱情吧。人一生的幸运不是遇见最好的人,而是能遇见陪你到老的人。
69. Love always involves gains and losses. If you gain loyalty, you will lose charm. If you gain wealth, you will lose consideration. If you gain romance, you will lose longevity. If you gain appearance, you will lose a sense of security. So, don’t expect to have everything. Since you are an ordinary person, pursue an ordinary love. The luck of a person’s life is not about meeting the best person, but about finding someone to accompany you until old age.

70、人生如车,或长途,或短途;人生如戏,或喜,或悲。很多事,过去了,就注定成为故事;很多人,离开了,就注定成为故人。生命中的故人,积攒的故事,这些都是历练。人就是在历练中慢慢成熟的。一些事,闯进生活,高兴的,痛苦的,时间终将其消磨变淡。经历的多了,心就坚强了,路就踏实了。
70. Life is like a journey, either long or short; life is like a play, with joy or sorrow. Many things, once past, are destined to become stories; many people, once gone, are destined to become old acquaintances. The old acquaintances and accumulated stories in life are all experiences. It is through these experiences that people mature slowly. Many things that enter our lives, whether happy or painful, will eventually be worn away by time. As we experience more, our hearts become stronger, and our paths become more solid.

71、人生就像一束花,只有仔细观赏,才能发现它的美丽。人生像一杯清茶,只有慢慢斟酌,才能品出香醇的味道。人生就像一座山,重要的不是它的高低,而在于它的灵秀。人生就像一场雨,重要的不是它的大小,而在于它的及时。
71. Life is like a bouquet of flowers; only by carefully appreciating it can we discover its beauty. Life is like a cup of tea; only by sipping it slowly can we taste its rich flavor. Life is like a mountain; what matters is not its height but its elegance. Life is like a rain; what matters is not its magnitude but its timeliness.

72、现实生活中,每个人都不是一座孤岛,每个人的命运都同所有人连在一起,每个人都需要友善和帮助。很多时候,我们帮助别人,实际上也帮助了自己。人的一生,不可能不遇到困难,也不可能不需要别人的帮助,但陌生人的帮助更令人肃然起敬,因为这是一种善的启迪、延续和传播。
72. In real life, no one is an isolated island. Everyone’s fate is connected to everyone else, and everyone needs kindness and help. Many times, when we help others, we are actually helping ourselves. It is impossible for a person to go through life without encountering difficulties or needing help from others. However, the help from strangers is even more admirable, as it is an inspiration, continuation, and spread of kindness.

73、如果事情无法改变,那就改变自己;如果无法说服他人,那就想法说服自己。如果山过不来,那人就过去!
73. If things cannot be changed, then change yourself; if you cannot persuade others, try to persuade yourself. If the mountain will not come to you, then go to the mountain!

74、智力比知识重要,素质比智力重要,觉悟比素质重要。方向大于方法,动力大于能力,做人大于做事!
74. Intelligence is more important than knowledge, quality is more important than intelligence, and awareness is more important than quality. Direction is greater than method, motivation is greater than ability, and being a person is greater than doing things!

75、思路清晰远比卖力苦干重要,心态正确远比现实表现重要,选对方向远比努力做事重要,做对的事情远比把事情做对重要。成长的痛苦远比后悔的痛苦好,胜利的喜悦远比失败的安慰好!
75. Clarity of thought is more important than hard work, having the right mindset is more important than performance, choosing the right direction is more important than working hard, and doing the right things is more important than getting things done. The pain of growth is better than the pain of regret, and the joy of victory is better than the comfort of failure!

76、拥有远见比拥有资产重要,拥有能力比拥有知识重要,拥有人才比拥有机器重要,拥有健康比拥有金钱重要!
76. Having foresight is more important than possessing assets, having abilities is more important than having knowledge, having talented people is more important than having machines, and having health is more important than having money!

77、思路决定出路,观念决定方向,性格决定命运,生活方式决定健康!
77. Thoughts determine the way out, concepts determine direction, character determines destiny, and lifestyle determines health!

78、人生在世,总是有难以避免忧伤无助的时候。强求不属于我们的,强留渐行渐远的,强追赶不上的,我们总是在为难自己。看不开,放不下,想不通。我们不快乐,因为我们迷失了心,找不到方向。
78. In life, there are always times when we cannot avoid sadness and helplessness. We demand what is not ours, cling to what is gradually fading away, and chase what we cannot catch up with. We always make things difficult for ourselves. Unable to let go, unable to put down, unable to understand. We are unhappy because we have lost our way and cannot find direction.

79、人生中,我们有许多转念的机会,每个转念都有着我们生活经历的感悟和积累,以及对生命价值的自省。顿悟人生的机会不多,但是,只要有机会顿悟,每次刹那间的感受都将是前所未有的财富。——精神满足与心灵成长虽然抽象,但却是我们身上最具体地存在,能切实感受到它们存在的人,便是世界上最富有的人。
79. In life, we have many opportunities to change our minds. Each change of mind has our life experiences, accumulation, and introspection of the value of life. Opportunities for sudden enlightenment are rare, but as long as there is a chance for enlightenment, every momentary feeling will be an unprecedented treasure. Spiritual satisfaction and spiritual growth may be abstract, but they are the most concrete existence in us. Those who can truly feel their presence are the richest people in the world.

80、拿得起,实为可贵;放得下,才是人生处世之真谛。
80. It is precious to take responsibility, but the true essence of life lies in letting go.

81、心态倾斜的时候,可以去几个地方看看:孤儿院,远离了亲人的温暖,是人生最大的不幸;边远山区,贫穷没什么,唯有正视现实,生存才是硬道理;医院,生命最值得珍爱,其它皆是浮云;墓地,你拥有得再多,最终亦是殊途同归,适当降低物欲的追逐,心态平衡了,你救赎的也正是你自己。
81. When your mindset is skewed, you can visit several places to gain perspective: orphanages, where the absence of family warmth is the greatest misfortune in life; remote mountainous areas, where poverty is nothing, and survival is the only reality; hospitals, where life is the most precious thing, and everything else is just passing clouds; cemeteries, where no matter how much you possess, the final destination is the same. By reducing the pursuit of material desires and achieving a balanced mindset, you redeem yourself.

82、最执着的东西对自己伤害最大,心放平了,一切都会风平浪静;心放正了,一切都会一帆风顺;心放下了,快乐与幸福也就随之而来。如果我们不执著于快乐,快乐自然而然就来了;如果我们不逃避痛苦,痛苦自然而然就远离了。放下不是放弃,轻松不是懈怠,自在不是放逸,随缘不是随便,不执著不是不认真。
82. The most persistent things can hurt us the most. When our hearts are at peace, everything will be calm; when our hearts are upright, everything will go smoothly; when our hearts let go, happiness and well-being will follow. If we do not cling to happiness, it will come naturally; if we do not run away from pain, it will fade away. Letting go is not giving up, being relaxed is not being lazy, being at ease is not indulgence, going with the flow is not being careless, and not being persistent is not being irresponsible.

83、你全心全意爱一个人,可对方不一定在意你。反倒曾伤害他的人,却总被心心念念。所以对人好并不会令爱情长久。你对人好的同时,有没有人对你一样好,这才是重点。当你爱一个人超过爱自己,这是真爱却不是好生活。其实相爱就是,你真心对他,他真心待你,谁也不辜负谁。
83. You may wholeheartedly love someone, but they may not care about you. On the contrary, those who have hurt them are always remembered. So being kind to others does not guarantee lasting love. The key is whether someone treats you as well as you treat them, and no one lets each other down. When you love someone more than yourself, it is true love but not a good life. In fact, love is about sincerely treating each other and being genuinely treated in return, without betraying each other.

84、生命是一种过程,事情的结果尽管重要,但是做事情的过程更加重要,因为结果好了我们会更加快乐,但过程使我们的生命充实。以眼看世界,世界是很小的;以心看世界,世界是很大的。有些人,有些事,只有用心去体味,才能了解得更真实。
84. Life is a process, and although the outcome of things is important, the process is even more important because a good result makes us happier, but the process enriches our lives. The world is small when seen with the eyes, but it is vast when seen with the heart. Some people, some things, can only be truly understood by experiencing them with the heart.

85、这个世界上最不开心的人,是那些最在意别人看法的人。等待愈是长久,得来时便愈是珍惜,任何值得拥有的东西,一定是值得等待的。永远不要向任何人解释你自己,因为喜欢你的人不需要,而不喜欢你的人不会相信。如果你被批评,请记住,那是因为批评你会给他一种重要感,也说明你是有成就,引人注意的,很多人凭借指责比自己更有成就的人得到满足感。
85. The unhappiest people in the world are those who care the most about others’ opinions. The longer the wait, the more cherished the reward, for anything truly worth having is worth waiting for. Never explain yourself to anyone, because those who like you don’t need to, and those who don’t won’t believe you. If you are criticized, remember that it’s because criticizing you gives them a sense of importance and shows that you have achieved something and attracted attention. Many people gain satisfaction by accusing those who have accomplished more than themselves.

86、表面上缺的是金钱,本质上缺的是观念,命运里缺的是选择,骨子里缺的是勇气,肚子里缺的是知识,事业上缺的是毅力,行动上缺的是改变!
86. On the surface, it may seem like a lack of money, but at the core, it’s a lack of concepts. In fate, there’s a lack of choices; in character, a lack of courage; in the mind, a lack of knowledge; in career, a lack of perseverance; in action, a lack of change.

87、了解自己、认识他人,真的很重要。金钱可以取之有道,但不能巧取豪夺;时间可以争分夺秒,但不能挥霍浪费;生命可以精彩丰富,但不能枯燥乏味;人生可以跌宕起伏,但不能重新来过。望朋友们珍惜光阴,真爱生命,把握现在,开创美好未来。所以,只有淡然才能处得幸福,尝试才是丰富的人生!
87. Understanding yourself and recognizing others is truly important. Money can be earned legitimately but not by deceitful means; time can be seized, but not wasted; life can be enriched, but not dull; life can have ups and downs, but it cannot be restarted. I hope friends cherish time, love life, seize the present, and create a better future. Therefore, only by being indifferent can one achieve happiness, and trying is what makes life fulfilling.

88、你要清楚地知道你到底是谁,要去哪里。要成为一个什么样的人,很多人浑浑噩噩,得过且过。你能清楚地意识到,或者梦想去到达彼岸,有时候,人生境遇就是如此,轻而易举滴到达你的彼岸。
88. You must clearly know who you are and where you want to go. What kind of person you want to become, many people muddle through life. When you become aware or dream of reaching the other shore, sometimes life’s circumstances are just like that, easily reaching your destination.

89、在人生的低谷,人们才会发现谁陪在身边,不离不弃,突然会发现那些不曾发现在意的感动,是这样温暖着自己的心。于是明白简单也复杂的道理:上帝为你关了一扇门,总会为你打开一扇窗。是的,不会总是透不过气。
89. In the valleys of life, people will discover who stays by their side, never leaving. Suddenly, they find those unnoticed and cared-for moments that warm their hearts. They come to understand the simple yet complex truth: When God closes a door for you, He will always open a window. Yes, it won’t always be suffocating.

90、心态决定看世界的眼光,行动决定生存的状态。要想活出尊严,展现不凡,只有改变观念,敢于和命运抗争!
90. Your mindset determines how you see the world, and your actions determine your state of existence. To live with dignity and distinction, you must change your concepts and dare to struggle with fate!

91、人生中都会遇到不顺心的事,都会碰到不顺眼的人,如果你不学会原谅,就会活得痛苦,活得累。原谅是一种风度,是一种情怀,原谅是一种溶剂,一种相互理解的润滑油。原谅自己并不意味着对自己的放纵,原谅别人并不代表着丢弃原则,原谅生活并不是不热爱生活。
91. In life, you will encounter frustrating things and people. If you don’t learn to forgive, you will live in pain and exhaustion. Forgiveness is an attitude, an emotion, a solvent, and a lubricant for mutual understanding. Forgiving yourself does not mean indulging yourself, forgiving others does not mean abandoning principles, and forgiving life does not mean not loving life.

92、人生这本书,你愿意也好,不愿意也好,都要非写不可,非读不可,而且是非要写好,读好不可的。人生有一个地方,有一个人,在这个人面前,可以不必有出息,可以不必有形象,可以全身是弱点,这是知己。
92. This book of life, whether you like it or not, you must write it and read it, and you must write it well and read it well. There is a place in life, a person, in front of whom you don’t need to be successful, you don’t need an image, and you can be full of weaknesses. This is a confidant.

93、人生的快乐,走自己的路,看自己的景,超越他人不得意,他人超越不失志。
93. The joy of life lies in walking your own path, seeing your own scenery, not being complacent when surpassing others, and not losing ambition when others surpass you.

94、人生是一列单向行驶的火车,中途会有许多大大小小的站点停靠,但是永远不售返程车票。在这列火车上,有些事情可以做,有些事情必须做,有些事情可做可不做,有些事情坚决不能做,做与不做的选择,决定了人生的方向;做多做少的差别,决定了人生的高度;做好做坏的结果,决定了人生的质量。
94. Life is a one-way train, with many stops along the way, big and small, but there are no return tickets for sale. On this train, there are things you can do, things you must do, things you can do or not do, and things you must never do. The choice of doing or not doing determines the direction of life; the difference between doing more or less determines the height of life; the result of doing well or poorly determines the quality of life.

95、禅,是一种心境而已。走过的故事,明白了就可以了、 其实, 文字的疏远未必不是坏事,就像自己,不愿意纠缠于岁月,也不愿意周旋于感慨、  话,有时候说出来像刀。但是,现实如此,如此而已吧。柔软还有,只是更深了。流年似水,看不透的是红尘中镜花水月;往事如烟,挥不去的是岁月荏苒一过往;待得繁华落尽,只余回忆。
95. Zen is just a state of mind. The stories we have experienced, understanding them is enough. In fact, the detachment of words is not necessarily a bad thing, just like ourselves, unwilling to entangle in the years, nor willing to maneuver in emotions. Sometimes, words can be like a knife when spoken. But reality is just like this, that’s all. Softness still exists, but it’s deeper. Time flows like water, and what we can’t see through is the illusory world of mortals; the past is like smoke, and what we can’t disperse is the passing of time. When the prosperity fades, only memories remain.

96、流年似水, 在纷繁的嚣尘,总有诸多的烦忧,但是,在如水的清音里灵魂总会自在地飞翔,没有忧愁,没有忧伤,有的只是淡淡的绝尘,安然,淡然,悠然。
96. Time flows like water. Amidst the hustle and bustle, there are many worries. However, in the clear sound of water, the soul will always fly freely, without sorrow or sadness. There is only a faint detachment, peace, indifference, and leisure.

97、人生最重要的并不是努力,而是方向。压力不是有人比你努力,而是比你牛叉几倍的人依然比你努力。即使看不到未来,即使看不到希望,也依然相信:自己错不了,自己选的人错不了,自己选的人生错不了。
97. The most important thing in life is not effort, but direction. Pressure is not that someone is working harder than you, but that someone who is much better than you is still working harder than you. Even if we can’t see the future, even if we can’t see hope, we still believe: we can’t be wrong, the people we choose can’t be wrong, and the life we choose can’t be wrong.

98、人生的路上,我们都在奔跑,我们总在赶超一些人,也总在被一些人超越。人生的要义,一是欣赏沿途的风景,二是抵达遥远的终点;人生的秘诀,寻找一种最适合自己的速度,莫因疾进而不堪重荷,莫因迟缓而空耗生命;人生的快乐,走自己的路,看自己的景,超越他人不得意,他人超越不失志。
98. On the journey of life, we are all running, always surpassing some people, and always being surpassed by others. The essence of life is, first, to appreciate the scenery along the way, and second, to reach the distant destination. The secret of life is to find a pace that suits us best, not to be overwhelmed by haste, nor to waste life by being too slow. The joy of life is to walk your own path, see your own scenery, not to be complacent when surpassing others, and not to lose heart when others surpass you.

99、人生最悲哀的,并不是昨天失去的太多,而是沉浸于昨天的悲哀之中。不要过份在意一些人,如果有人问起,就说忘了。不解释,不悲伤。
99. The saddest thing in life is not losing too much yesterday, but being immersed in the sadness of yesterday. Don’t care too much about some people, if asked, just say you’ve forgotten. No explanation, no sadness.

100、人生如棋,黑与白的交错,生与死的交融;人生如棋,所以有了“闲敲棋子落花灯”的闲适,“长人只消一棋局”的洒脱;人生如棋,这是一种竞争,亦是一种调和,漫漫人生,变换不定,令人也难免举棋不定。棋势无定,棋局难料,以不变应万变,胸有成竹,等闲应对看春秋。
100. Life is like a game of chess, with the interweaving of black and white, life and death; life is like a game of chess, hence the leisure of “knocking chess pieces and falling flower lamps,” the detachment of “a long person only needs one chess game”; life is like a game of chess, it is a competition and a harmony, the long journey of life is changeable and unpredictable, making it hard for us not to hesitate when making a move. The situation of the chess game is uncertain, and the outcome is hard to predict. Adapt to changes with constancy, be confident and take it easy through the seasons.