1.小妞!给大爷笑一个!不笑啊?那大爷给你笑一个!——郭德纲
1. Girl! Make an old man laugh! Not laughing? Then let me make you laugh! — Guo Degang

2.走自己的路，想说谁说谁去吧！——郭德纲
2. Walk your own path, let others talk! — Guo Degang

3.我特别希望大家给我帮助，你们给我一份爱，我会还你们一夜情的。——郭德纲
3. I really hope everyone can help me. If you give me love, I will repay you with a romantic night. — Guo Degang

4.不要以为有纹身的都是流氓，岳飞还有纹身呢。——郭德纲
4. Don’t think that everyone with a tattoo is a hooligan; even Yue Fei had a tattoo. — Guo Degang

5.开心就笑，不开心就待会儿笑。——《过得刚好》
5. Smile when you’re happy, and wait a while before smiling when you’re not. — “Just Getting By”

6.一去残冬晓日红,三杯泪酒奠苍穹。鸡肠曲曲今何在？始信人间报应灵.——《我也不爱来》
6. A lingering winter’s dawn with the sun red, three cups of tears and wine to the sky. Where is the twisted chicken intestine now? I now believe in the power of karma on earth. — “I Don’t Love to Come”

7.金山竹影几千秋，云索高飞水自流， 万里长江飘玉带，一轮银月滚金球， 远自湖北三千里，近到江南十六州， 美景一时观不透，天缘有分画中游！——《定场诗》
7. The golden mountain and bamboo shadows have lasted for thousands of autumns, clouds and high flying waters flow freely. The ten-thousand-mile Yangtze River floats like a jade belt, a round silver moon rolls like a golden ball. From three thousand miles away in Hubei, to sixteen states in the Jiangnan area, the beautiful scenery cannot be fully appreciated in a moment, fate brings us to wander in the painting! — “Fixed Stage Poem”

8.你不能进了肯德基说要一个佛跳墙，给我炒十个菜，蒸点儿大闸蟹，那儿不会有的。你指着肯德基出佛跳墙，那是你的问题。——《过得正好》
8. You can’t go into KFC and order a Buddha Jumps Over the Wall; they won’t have it there. You ask for Buddha Jumps Over the Wall at KFC, that’s your problem. — “Just Getting By”

9.夏日炎炎，夜短天长。浓荫柳树，飘荡荡倒影入池塘。湖中水潺潺响，岸边上三五知己，看晚霞似锦映夕阳。熏风阵阵，荷莲吐芬芳，黄莺喧嚷，蝴蝶双飞过粉墙。压住尘嚣堪称风雅，真不真假不假，真与假且自乘凉。名利场中，游船来往。是非坑内，无限风光。忽听弄笙簧，三弦四胡琵琶音嘹亮，高低婉转好行腔。——郭德纲
9. In the hot summer days, nights are short and days are long. Dense shade of willow trees, swaying reflections into the pond. The lake water murmurs, and on the shore, three or five close friends watch the sunset like a splendid brocade. The warm breeze blows, lotus flowers release their fragrance, orioles chatter, and butterflies fly over the pink wall in pairs. Suppressing the dust and noise is truly elegant; real or fake, let’s enjoy the cool. In the world of fame and fortune, boats come and go. In the pit of right and wrong, there is infinite scenery. Suddenly, the sound of wind and string instruments, three-stringed, four-stringed, pipa, and erhu melodies resound, high and low, graceful and pleasing. — Guo Degang

10.登天难，求人更难。 黄连苦，没钱更苦。 江湖险，人心更险。 春冰薄，人情更薄——郭德纲
10. Climbing to the sky is hard, asking for help is harder. Bitter like coptis, even more bitter with no money. Dangerous as the rivers and lakes, human hearts are more dangerous. Thin as spring ice, human relationships are thinner. — Guo Degang

11.“反三俗”大会上我很感慨，看着好多同行激昂慷慨的样子，我特别想劝他们一句话，不要以勤工俭学的身份给我讲黑社会的故事。人与人之间要想诋毁对方最好的办法是从道德方面进攻。——《过得刚好》
11. At the “anti-vulgar” conference, I felt quite emotional. Watching many of my peers passionately telling stories, I especially wanted to advise them, “Don’t lecture me about the underworld with a hardworking and thrifty student identity.” The best way to discredit someone is to attack them morally.

12.半夜灯前当年事，一时风雨到心头。——《郭德纲微博》
12. In front of the midnight lamp, the events of the past year come to mind. A moment of wind and rain reaches my heart.

13.我不怕我自己没能耐，我怕我以为自己有能耐。——《微博》
13. I’m not afraid that I’m incapable; I’m afraid that I think I’m capable.

14.不惑但从今日始，韬光氍毹正当年。忍忍忍，难难难。身处池畔，自浊自清自安然。若不登高看，怎知海天蓝。人到用时仁义少，事无经过不知烦。静坐思过观花谢，三省吾身饮清泉。留得五湖明月在，不愁偷笑钓鱼船。——《过得刚好》
14. From today on, I will not be confused; hiding my light and guarding my brilliance is the right time. Endure, endure, endure; difficulty, difficulty, difficulty. Standing by the pool, I remain turbid and clear, and stay calm. If you don’t climb high to look, how can you know the blue of the sea and sky? When people are needed, there is little benevolence and righteousness; without experience, you don’t know the troubles. Sit quietly, reflect on the past, and watch the flowers wither. Examine myself three times and drink clear spring water. As long as the bright moon over the five lakes remains, there’s no need to worry about the sneering fishing boat.

15.花经夜雨香犹在，月被云遮光怎迷。先生浩气垂千古，南北山头猎猎旗。三尺土埋师徒义，两段情缘死不渝。冷观霄小空嘁嘁，羞与他人共典仪。——郭德纲
15. The fragrance of flowers still lingers after the night rain; the moon’s light remains unconfused even when covered by clouds. The gentleman’s great spirit will last for thousands of years, with the north and south mountain tops displaying their fluttering flags. Three feet of soil buries the loyalty between master and disciple, and the two love stories remain unchanging even in death. Coldly observing the trivial matters and gossip, I am ashamed to share rituals with others.

16.你欺负我，我退一步；你又欺负我，我再退一步；你还欺负我，我弄死你。——郭德纲
16. If you bully me, I’ll take a step back; if you bully me again, I’ll take another step back; if you still bully me, I’ll kill you.

17.功名富贵，人间惊见白首；诗酒琴书，世外喜逢青眼。巿争利朝争名，伶逐势恶逐威。——《过得刚好》
17. Fame and wealth are astonishingly seen by people as they turn white-haired; poetry, wine, and the zither and books are joyfully encountered beyond the mundane world. The market competes for profit, the court competes for fame, actors chase power, and the wicked chase might.

18.不与君子斗名，不与小人斗利，不与权贵斗势，不与天地斗巧。内不整，则外佞。没有瓦岗散将，哪来盛世兴唐？天大的事，忍一忍就过去了。金用火试，人用钱试。——郭德纲
18. Do not compete with gentlemen for fame, do not compete with petty people for profit, do not compete with the powerful for influence, and do not compete with the heavens and earth for cunning. If you are not disciplined inside, you will be deceitful outside. Without the scattered heroes of Wagang, how could there be a prosperous Tang Dynasty? For matters as big as the sky, endure them, and they will pass. Gold is tested by fire, and people are tested by money.

19.我争者人必争，极力争未必得。我让者人必让，极力让未必失。——《过得刚好》
19. What I fight for, others will surely fight for; striving hard may not necessarily be gained. What I give up, others will surely give up; giving up hard may not necessarily be lost.

20.泰坦尼克号沉了，对人类来说是一场巨大的灾难，但对船上餐厅里活着的海鲜来说就是生命的奇迹。——《过得刚好》
20. The sinking of the Titanic was a huge disaster for humanity, but for the seafood alive in the ship’s restaurant, it was a miracle of life.

21.真放肆不在饮酒放荡，假矜持偏要慷慨激昂。万事留一线，江湖好相见。——《过得刚好》、有人说我变了，其实我原来什么样现在还什么样，只不过原来在井里一身泥，有人在井边看我，觉得挺好玩。后来我上来了，洗干净换身衣服开车走了，井边这人说我膨胀了。其实不是我膨胀，是他失落了。我自己又何尝不是这样感觉他人，真的很惭愧。——《过得刚好》
21. True indulgence is not in drinking and debauchery, but in false modesty, one must be passionate and fervent. Leave a thread for everything, and it will be easier to meet again in the world. Some people say I’ve changed, but I’m still the same as before. It’s just that I used to be covered in mud in the well, and people watching me from the well edge thought it was fun. Later, I climbed out, cleaned up, changed clothes, and drove away. Those at the well edge said I had become arrogant. In fact, it’s not that I’ve become arrogant, but that they have lost. I also feel this way about others, and I’m really ashamed.

22.人在天涯，身不由己，风雨踏歌行。江湖子弟，拿得起来放得下。放不下，也得放。活一百岁的没几个人，开心就笑，不开心待会儿再笑。高高兴兴比什么都强，跟谁较劲都是跟自己较劲。一辈子，忍一忍也就过去了。——《过得刚好》
22. At the end of the world, one’s body is not their own; through wind and rain, singing and walking. Children of the rivers and lakes can pick up and put down. If you can’t put it down, you have to let go. Few people live to be a hundred years old; laugh when you’re happy, and wait a while if you’re not. Being happy is stronger than anything; competing with others is competing with yourself. In a lifetime, endure and it will pass.

24.穷人站在十字街头耍十把钢钩，钩不着亲人骨肉；有钱人在深山老林耍刀枪棍棒，打不散无义宾朋。英雄至此，未必英雄。大英雄手中枪翻江倒海，抵挡不住饥寒穷三个字。有钱男子汉，没钱汉子难，又何况一帮说相声的呢？一步一步地苦熬苦掖，终于我们也看见了花团锦簇，我们也知道了彩灯佳话。那一夜，我也曾梦见百万雄兵。——《过得刚好》
24. A poor man stands at the crossroads with ten steel hooks, unable to hook the flesh and blood of his relatives; a wealthy man in the deep mountains and forests wields swords, guns, and sticks, unable to scatter heartless friends. Even heroes may not be heroes here. A great hero can overturn rivers and seas with a single gunshot, but cannot withstand the three words “hunger, cold, and poverty.” A wealthy man is a man, but a poor man is difficult, let alone a group of crosstalk performers? Suffering and struggling step by step, we finally see the splendid flowers and learn about the colorful tales. That night, I also

25.什么叫草根？其实草根很便宜，人参、灵芝、冬虫夏草，都是这些不上档次的东西，我们比不了人家大棚里的香椿芽、韭黄。——《过得刚好》
25. What is a grassroots? In fact, grassroots are very cheap, such as ginseng, lingzhi, and cordyceps, which are all these low-grade things. We can’t compare to the asparagus shoots and chives grown in greenhouses. —— “Just Getting By”

26.品人情冷暖、世态炎凉，观荣辱纷争、死走逃亡，自浊自清自安然。台上笑传千万，台下苦闷凄惶。——《过得刚好》
26. Taste the ups and downs of human emotions, observe the struggles for glory and disgrace, and the fleeing from life and death. Remain clear and composed amidst the chaos. Laughter on stage spreads far and wide, while the pain and despair lurk beneath. —— “Just Getting By”

27.人心弯弯曲曲水，世路重重叠叠山。——《过得刚好》
27. The human heart is like a winding river, and the path of life is like a series of mountains. —— “Just Getting By”

28.人生在世，无非是让别人笑笑，偶尔，也笑笑别人。——郭德纲
28. Life is nothing more than letting others laugh at you, and occasionally, laughing at others. —— Guo Degang

29.能受苦乃为智士，肯吃亏不是痴人。敬君子方显有德，怕小人不算无能。——《新浪微博》
29. To endure hardship is the mark of a wise man, and to accept losses does not make one a fool. Respecting a gentleman shows virtue, and fearing a villain is not a sign of incompetence. —— Sina Weibo

30.半合半掩半纱窗，半倚半靠半外张。半拉金钩挂住半边青纱帐，半轮明月半阴半暗半照半边墙。左手端起多半杯少半杯半杯葡萄酒，右手掐下青半朵红半朵半朵蜜海棠。半张文书半张纸，半床锦被半张床。半股风吹树叶半枯半黄半落阶沿上，半夜里半梦半醒檐前铁马响叮当。躲在半边半思想，叹人生半口黄连半口糖。——郭德纲
30. Half open and half closed, half covered and half依靠, half gauze window; half leaning and half reclining, half supporting and half sprawling. A golden hook hangs on half of the green gauze curtain, and the half-moon shines on half of the wall, half bright and half dark. In the left hand, hold more than half a glass but less than a full glass of half red and half white wine; in the right hand, pick half a green and half a red half honeysuckle. Half a document on half a sheet of paper, half a brocade quilt on half a bed. Half a gust of wind blows the leaves, half withered and half yellow, half falling on the steps. In the middle of the night, half asleep and half awake, listening to the iron horse on the eaves ringing. Hide in the half and half thoughts, sighing that life is half bitter and half sweet. —— Guo Degang

31.不明白任何情况就劝你一定要大度的人，这种人你要离他远一点，因为雷劈他的时候会连累到你。——郭德纲
31. If someone advises you to be generous without understanding the situation, stay away from them, because when lightning strikes them, it may also affect you. —— Guo Degang

32.遇好晴天、好山水、好书、好字画、好花、好酒、好心情，须受用领略，方不虚度。人生苦短，一定要知恩、知足、知命、知道、知幸，心不贪荣身不辱。杨柳风、梧桐月、芭蕉雨、梅花雪、香椿芽、野菜根、茄子把、豆腐泥、俗与雅、素与荤，全能招呼，人生一乐也。——《过得刚好》
32. When encountering good weather, beautiful landscapes, good books, fine calligraphy and paintings, beautiful flowers, good wine, and a good mood, one must appreciate and enjoy them to make the most of life. Life is short, so be grateful, content, aware of your destiny, knowledge, and happiness. A greedy heart will not bring honor. Willow wind, parasol tree moon, banana rain, plum blossom snow, asparagus shoots, wild vegetable roots, eggplant stems, tofu paste, common and elegant, vegetarian and meat, all can be enjoyed. Life is a pleasure. —— “Just Getting By”

33.小人永远是小人，他不会因为你的客气而有所改变，世上的恶人都是被怂人给惯出来的，我所做的是伸张正义。——《访谈节目》
33. Villains will always be villains; they will not change because of your politeness. The evil people in the world are all惯出来的 by timid people. What I do is to uphold justice. —— Interview Program

34.忍忍忍，难难难。身处池畔，自浊自清自安然。若不登高看，怎知海天蓝。人到用时仁义少，事无经过不知烦。静坐思过观花谢，三省吾身饮清泉。留得五湖明月在，不愁偷笑钓鱼船。——郭德纲
34. Endure, endure, endure; difficulty, difficulty, difficulty. Standing by the pond, remain turbid and clear, and be composed. If you don’t look far from a high place, how can you know the blue of the sea and sky? Few people are kind when in need, and one does not know the trouble until experiencing it. Sit quietly, reflect, and watch the flowers wither. Drink clear spring water to cleanse the body and mind. Keep the bright moon over the five lakes, and don’t worry about the laughter of the fishing boat. —— Guo Degang

35.人们做了好事总想让鬼神知道，做了坏事总以为鬼神不知道，太让鬼神为难了！——郭德纲
35. People always want the gods to know when they do good deeds, and they think the gods don’t know when they do bad things. It’s really a dilemma for the gods! - Guo Degang

36.一弟子看娱乐新闻大怒，我笑着讲了个故事。孔夫子周游列国，途经齐鲁。一凶汉拦住大路，问圣人：一年有几季？孔夫子笑道：一年有三季，春夏秋。凶汉满意而退。孔门弟子颜回、子路不解，问师因何四季改三季？夫子曰：凶汉乃屎壳郎成精，每年冬季入粪堆，其一生只见三季。所以这种屎蛋变的，别跟它抬扛。——《过得刚好》
36. A disciple was furious after watching entertainment news, and I told a story with a smile. Confucius traveled through various states and passed through Qi and Lu. A fierce man blocked the road and asked the sage: How many seasons are there in a year? Confucius smiled and said: There are three seasons in a year, spring, summer, and autumn. The fierce man left satisfied. Confucius’ disciples Yan Hui and Zi Lu were puzzled and asked why the four seasons were changed to three. The Master said: The fierce man is a dung beetle that has become a spirit. He enters the dung pile every winter, and in his life, he has only seen three seasons. So don’t argue with such a dung beetle. - “Just in Time”

37.一入江湖深似海，从此节操是路人。有人夸你，别信。有人骂你，别听。——郭德纲
37. Once you enter the world, it’s like the deep sea; from then on, your integrity becomes a passerby. If someone praises you, don’t believe it. If someone scolds you, don’t listen. - Guo Degang

38.装三分痴呆防死，留七分正经谋生。——郭德纲
38. Pretend to be a little foolish to avoid death, and keep being serious to make a living. - Guo Degang

39.一个人三十岁之前不狂，没有出息；三十岁之后还狂，肯定没有出息。——郭德纲
39. If a person is not wild before the age of thirty, they have no prospects; if they are still wild after the age of thirty, they definitely have no prospects. - Guo Degang

40.书斋寂寞，听雨声淅沥，叹一场秋雨一场凉。残更隐隐，莲漏叮当。炉香欲尽，懒剔银缸。风吹竹摆，偏打蕉窗。海棠花红，鸡脚葵黄。蔷薇夜落，玫瑰飞香。石榴咧嘴，荷叶飘塘。池中水涟漪荡漾，檐前铁马响叮当，几许凄凉。一轮明月当空上，遍地似银妆。不求富与贵，唯愿海天长。无穷福禄，哪个死后又还阳？——郭德纲
40. The study is lonely, listening to the patter of rain, sighing that each autumn rain brings a chill. The night is faint, and the lotus leak tinkles. The incense in the stove is about to run out, and I’m too lazy to trim the silver tank. The wind blows the bamboo, hitting the banana window. The begonia flowers are red, and the chicken feet are yellow. Roses fall at night, and roses fly in fragrance. Pomegranates grin, and lotus leaves float in the pond. The ripples in the pool, the iron horse in front of the eaves rings, how desolate. The bright moon is in the sky, and the ground is like a silver dress. I don’t seek wealth and nobility, only wish for the sea and sky to be long. Infinite blessings and fortune, who has returned to life after death? - Guo Degang

41.只谈乾坤风月，莫论人间是非。——郭德纲
41. Only talk about the universe and the moon, don’t discuss the worldly right and wrong. - Guo Degang

42.奈何桥上奈何愁，奈何桥下浣溪流，奈何人人奈何泪，奈何奈何洗春秋。——《济公传》
42. Alas, the sorrow on the bridge of helplessness, the stream flows under the bridge of helplessness, everyone’s tears of helplessness, how to wash the spring and autumn of helplessness. - “The Legend of Ji Gong”

43.宁学桃园三结义，不学瓦岗一炉香。——郭德纲
43. I would rather learn from the three sworn brothers in the Peach Garden than learn from the incense burner at Wagon Hill. - Guo Degang

44.比如，人家这孩子打河北农村跑到这儿来，一个月挣八百块钱，苦熬苦奔的，本来就不容易，你再天天跟他大声喊，不合适。你跟他喊的目的，无非是张扬你的个性，表现你要如何如何，把你的快乐建立在别人的胆战心惊上。我是读书人，虽然说外界有些人把我传得跟土匪似的，但实际上我愿意是个文人，我不齿于这样做。——《过得正好》
44. For example, this kid from the rural areas of Hebei runs here, making eight hundred yuan a month, struggling hard, which is not easy. If you keep shouting at him every day, it’s not appropriate. The purpose of shouting at him is nothing more than showing off your personality and how you want to be, building your happiness on the fear of others. I am a scholar, although some people outside describe me like a bandit, but in fact, I would like to be a literati. I am ashamed to do such things. - “Just in Time”

45.心中有事天地小，心中无事一床宽；红尘闹市争热饭，何惧闲人语二三。要得富贵长生，天做主由不得我；要得钢骨正气，我做主由不得天。山阻石拦，大江必定东流去；雪辱霜欺，梅花依旧向阳开。——《过得刚好》
45. When you have something on your mind, the world seems small; when you have nothing on your mind, even a bed seems spacious. In the bustling world, people compete for a hot meal, why fear the gossip of a few idle people? To achieve wealth and longevity, it’s up to God, not me; to have a strong character and righteous spirit, I am the master, not God. Mountains and stones cannot stop the river from flowing east; snow and frost cannot defeat the plum blossoms that still face the sun. - “Just in Time”

46.万事留一线，江湖好相见。——《过得刚好》
46. Leave a thread for everything, so it’s easier to meet in the world. - “Just in Time”

47.好比说厨师炒菜，你可以发明新的菜，但最起码你要知道什么叫炒勺，哪个叫漏勺，你拿个痰桶炒菜说是革新，那谁敢吃啊？——《过得刚好》
47. Just like a chef cooking, you can invent new dishes, but at least you should know what a frying pan is and what a colander is. If you cook with a spittoon and call it innovation, who would dare to eat it? - “Just in Time”

48.您体格好啊，一看就知道一准儿活到死。——郭德纲
48. You have a good physique, and at first glance, I can tell you will definitely live until you die. - Guo Degang

49.数载浮游客燕京，遥望桑梓衣未荣。 苦海难寻慈悲岸，穷穴埋没大英雄。——《过得刚好》
49. For years, I have been wandering in the capital, gazing at my hometown, my clothes not yet glorious. It’s hard to find a compassionate shore in

50.功名富贵，人间惊见白首；诗酒琴书，世外喜逢青眼。巿争利朝争名，伶逐势恶逐威。且看沧海日、赤城霞、峨嵋雪、巫峡云、洞庭月、潇湘雨、彭蠡烟、广陵涛，奇观宇宙但赏何妨？我争者人必争，极力争未必得。我让者人必让，极力让未必失。真放肆不在饮酒放荡，假矜持偏要慷慨激昂。万事留一线，江湖好相见。——《过得刚好》
50. Fame and wealth may astonish people when they see a white-haired man; poetry, wine, qin music, and books bring joy to the world beyond. People compete for profit and fame, while actors chase trends and the wicked seek power. Why not appreciate the wonders of the universe, such as the sun over the sea, the rosy clouds of Chicheng, the snow on Emei Mountain, the clouds of the Wu Gorge, the moon over Dongting Lake, the rain in Xiaoxiang, the mist of Pengli, and the waves of Guangling? What’s wrong with enjoying these sights? What I fight for, others will fight for too; striving hard may not necessarily lead to success. What I yield, others will yield as well; giving way generously may not necessarily result in loss. True audacity is not about indulging in drinking and debauchery, while false modesty insists on being passionate and fervent. Leave some room for everything, and it will be easier to meet again in the world.——《Just in Time》

51.黄金非为贵，德重鬼神钦。钱财堪如粪，仁义价千金。尘埃方埋嗔，春雨润枯心。满城争议论，谁是最伤心？——郭德纲
51. Gold is not the most precious thing; virtue earns the admiration of gods and ghosts. Money is as worthless as dung, while benevolence and righteousness are priceless. Dust buries anger, and spring rain moistens a withered heart. Amidst the disputes in the city, who is the most heartbroken?——Gu Degang

52.三分能耐六分运气一分贵人扶持，给你一个平台，换张三就是张三，换李四就是李四，李四没成那就是因为没让他上，他上了可能比张三还好，所以说一个人，机遇，太重要了！——《我为喜剧狂》
52. Three points of ability, six points of luck, and one point of support from a noble person. Give someone a platform, and Zhang San will become Zhang San, while Li Si will become Li Si. If Li Si didn’t succeed, it’s because he wasn’t given the chance. He might have done even better than Zhang San. So, for a person, opportunity is extremely important!——《I’m Crazy for Comedy》

53.如果，这本书您没看懂。 那么，再买一本。——《过得刚好》
53. If you didn’t understand this book, then buy another one.——《Just in Time》

54.喜欢我的，请把左手举起来，喜欢于谦的，请把中指伸出来。——郭德纲
54. If you like me, please raise your left hand; if you like Yu Qian, please extend your middle finger.——Gu Degang

55.孩子在街上走，穿着打扮看出娘的手艺，说话办事显出爹的教养。——郭德纲
55. When a child walks on the street, their clothing reveals their mother’s skill, and their speech and actions show their father’s upbringing.——Gu Degang

56.文能提笔安天下，武能上马定乾坤。上炕认识媳妇，下炕认识鞋。——郭德纲
56. In literature, one can compose to bring peace to the world; in martial arts, one can ride to stabilize the realm. In bed, one recognizes their spouse; off the bed, one recognizes their shoes.——Gu Degang

57.风前看月，雾后观灯。霜前菊冲，雪后梅丰。醉中论剑，梦里歌声。——郭德纲
57. Before the wind, observe the moon; after the fog, admire the lanterns. Before frost, chrysanthemums flourish; after snow, plum blossoms abound. While drunk, discuss swordsmanship; in dreams, sing songs.——Gu Degang

58.太多时候，我们不是因为失败而生气，而是因为我们没有为失败找到一个好理由。——郭德纲
58. Too often, we get angry not because of failure, but because we fail to find a good reason for it.——Gu Degang

59.山阻石拦，大江必定东流去； 雪辱霜欺，梅花依旧向阳开。——《过得刚好》
59. Despite mountains and boulders blocking the way, the great river must flow eastward; despite snow and frost, plum blossoms still face the sun.——《Just in Time》

60.人生在世，谁都会吃屎，但是别嚼。跟狗抢路，让狗先过，不丢人。——《过得刚好》
60. In life, everyone will experience hardships, but don’t dwell on them. Letting a dog pass by doesn’t make you inferior. - “Just Getting By”

61.高雅不是装出来的，孙子才是装出来的。——郭德纲
61. Elegance is not put on; only fools pretend to be. - Guo Degang

62.有些人涂着再高端的香水我都能闻出人渣的味。——郭德纲
62. No matter how high-end the perfume some people wear, I can still smell the scent of scum. - Guo Degang

63.我把棉裤一脱，春姑娘就来了——《我要反三俗》
63. As soon as I take off my cotton pants, Spring comes. - “I Want to Fight Against the Three Vulgarities”

64.笑骂由你，人活为嘴。你夸我夸成一朵花我该吃饭也要吃饭，你背地吐我口水吐累了也得吃饭。我心平气和不搭茬不还嘴不上当持杯品茶水，隔窗看你在雨中慷慨激昂装神扮鬼捶胸顿足咬牙切齿找不着北，你美我更美。——郭德纲
64. You can praise or criticize me, but I live for my own sake. Whether you praise me as a flower or gossip about me behind my back, I still need to eat. I remain calm, not engaging or retaliating, enjoying my tea. Watching you passionately act like a fool in the rain, lost and furious, I find my beauty in your chaos. - Guo Degang

65.大海波涛浅，小人方寸深。从来名利地，易起是非心。——郭德纲
65. The waves of the ocean may be shallow, but the hearts of petty people are deep. In the realm of fame and fortune, disputes easily arise. - Guo Degang

66.耳目宽而天地窄，是非少则日月长。五夜鸡鸣，唤起窗前明月。一觉睡醒，看破梦里当年。——郭德纲
66. With broad ears and eyes, the world seems narrow; with fewer disputes, days and months pass peacefully. The rooster crows at dawn, awakening the bright moon in front of my window. Upon waking, I see through the illusions of the past. - Guo Degang

67.为恶扬名，必逞其势；为贼鸣冤，必受其脏；为奸不平，必得其利；为犬声威，必为其朋。当某些人不明就里，只是从他的角度卖弄似的劝你大度时。记住，第一他不是你的自己人。第二要离他站的远些，因为打雷时会被连累。——郭德纲
67. When people promote evil, they must rely on their power; when they defend thieves, they must share their spoils; when they defend the treacherous, they must gain some benefit; when they support the dogs, they must be friends with them. When some people, not understanding the situation, advise you to be generous from their perspective, remember: first, they are not your own people; second, keep a distance from them, as they might be struck by lightning. - Guo Degang

68.能人背后有能人，能人背后有人弄。——郭德纲
68. Behind every capable person, there is another capable person; behind them, someone is scheming. - Guo Degang

69.大难不死，必有下回。——《笑傲江湖》
69. If you survive a great disaster, there will be more to come. - “The Smiling, Proud Wanderer”

70.一路走来，各种坎坷，各种不顺和阻碍，终于我也看到了花团锦簇，也看到了灯彩佳话。那一夜，我也曾梦见百万雄兵。——《过得刚好》
70. Through all the twists and turns, the setbacks and obstacles, I have finally seen the beauty and the joy. That night, I also dreamed of a million brave soldiers. - “Just Getting By”

71.想出名，先出书；想出书，先出事。——郭德纲
71. If you want to become famous, publish a book; if you want to publish a book, first create some trouble. - Guo Degang

72.今年我四十岁，我很希望一路走下去，到八九十岁我跟于老师还能站在舞台上说相声，这是多么快乐的事情。那时候我们都老了，我这头发估计也都掉没了，于谦老师也是一脑袋白头发，白头发烫成卷儿，跟喜羊羊似的。大幕拉开，两个老人相扶着走到台上来，那心情多好啊。——《过得刚好》
72. This year, I am 40 years old. I hope to continue this journey, and when I am 80 or 90, I can still stand on stage with Teacher Yu and perform crosstalk. That would be such a joy. By then, we will both be old; my hair will probably be gone, and Teacher Yu will have white, curly hair like Pleasant Goat. As the curtain rises, two elderly men help each other onto the stage; what a wonderful feeling that would be. - “Just Getting By”

73.静坐思过观花谢，三省吾身饮清泉。留得五湖明月在，不愁偷笑钓鱼船。——《过得刚好》
73. Sitting quietly, reflecting on my mistakes while watching flowers wither; examining myself three times a day, drinking clear spring water. With the bright moon over the five lakes, I don’t worry about the mocking fishing boat. - “Just Getting By”

74.门径萧萧长绿苔，一回临此一徘徊。 青牛莫讲函关去，白马休提印度来。 要分是非凭烈火，欲论真假筑高台。 眼前若有穷不怕，踏尽人间狗贱才。——《过得刚好》
74. The path is long and quiet, covered with green moss; every time I come here, I hesitate. Don’t talk about the departure of the green ox from Han Guan, or the white horse from India. To discern right from wrong, rely on fierce fire; to judge truth from falsehood, build a high platform. If you have nothing to fear, tread on the despicable dogs of the world. - “Just Getting By”

75.有话好好说我都能接受，您跟作死似的骂街，我还以为放生那鳖有微博呢。等黑名单够数了，在不破坏生态平衡状态下，我带诸位上河边放生去。——《微博》
75. If you have something to say, I can accept it if you speak nicely. When you curse and swear as if you’re dying, I think the released turtle has a Weibo account. When the blacklist is full, without disturbing the ecological balance, I will take you all to release creatures by the river. - “Weibo”

76.现如今，不仅是相声界，我们这个社会充斥的假的东西太多，抽假烟、喝假酒、看假球、听假唱、穿假名牌儿、戴一假头套，天底下就王八是真的，还叫甲鱼。——《过得刚好》
76. Nowadays, not only in the crosstalk industry, but also in our society, there is too much fake stuff: counterfeit cigarettes, fake alcohol, fake games, lip-syncing, fake designer clothes, and fake wigs. The only real thing in the world is the turtle, which is called soft-shelled turtle. - “Just Getting By”

77.为什么有时候他们很多人都恨我，就是因为我说对了。——郭德纲
77. Sometimes many people hate me because I speak the truth. - Guo Degang

78.日后倘有马高镫短水尽山穷，无人解难之时言语一声，都不管，我管你。——郭德纲
78. In the future, if you encounter any difficulties, just call out, and even if no one helps you, I will. - Guo Degang

79.我要了份鱼翅炒饭，用三双筷子愣没找着鱼翅，你能告诉我鱼翅在哪吗？厨师说，我叫鱼翅。——郭德纲
79. I ordered a shark fin fried rice, but I couldn’t find any shark fin with three pairs of chopsticks. Can you tell me where the shark fin is? The chef said, “I am the shark fin.” — Guo Degang

80.狐朋狗友的交情才是发自肺腑的纯洁。——郭德纲
80. The friendship of狐朋狗友 (fox friends and dog friends) is the purest and most heartfelt. — Guo Degang

81.穷人在十字街头耍十把钢钩，钩不着亲人骨肉；富人在深山老林，抡木棒打不散无义的宾朋，大将军手中枪，翻江倒海挡不住饥寒穷三个字，英雄至此未必英雄。——《郭德纲》
81. The poor man in the crossroads, with ten steel hooks, cannot hook the flesh and blood of relatives; the rich man in the deep mountains, swinging a wooden stick, cannot scatter the unrighteous friends. The great general’s gun, turning rivers and seas, cannot stop the three words of hunger, cold, and poverty. A hero may not necessarily be a hero here. — Guo Degang

82.之乎者也懒把红尘望，纵身无蟒顶无纱，无有那一路杏花马蹄忙，也敢比无冕状元郎。——郭德纲
82. As for me, I don’t care about the mundane world; even without a python hat or gauze cap, I dare to compare myself to an un-crowned scholar. — Guo Degang

83.别人看天我看天，他天我天不一般。他人看天天下走，我看苍天大如圈。——《过得刚好》
83. Others look at the sky, I look at the sky; their sky is not the same as mine. Others walk under the sky every day, I see the sky as big as a circle. — From “Just in Time”

84.完了，你也不理我了，我成狗不理了。——郭德纲
84. It’s over, you don’t care about me anymore, I’ve become Goubuli (不理). — Guo Degang

85.吾师一生，金车之富，侯门之贵；簪缨之华，紫藻之懋；雅流倜傥，王者之风。徒以潦倒之身等下之才，蒙先生青目，而得立雪侯门，荣幸之至。今高山犹在，流水无情，纸鸢断线，舶落惊涛，白云深处，黄鹤杳然。怒问苍天，何夺我良师，而存粗材于世？伏地泣血，心痛无声！徒郭德纲偕德云社顿首百拜——郭德纲
85. My master’s life was filled with gold and wealth, nobility and honor; elegance and grandeur, the style of a king. With my humble status and mediocre talent, I was fortunate to receive the master’s favor and stand in the noble gate. Today, the mountains are still high, but the water is merciless. Kites are broken, ships are lost in the waves, and the yellow crane is gone in the white clouds. I angrily ask the heavens, why did you take my great teacher and leave such coarse materials in the world? Crying and bleeding on the ground, my heartache is silent! Guo Degang and Deyun Society kowtow a hundred times. — Guo Degang

86.人的野心会随着位置的变化而不断变化！——《郭德纲语录》
86. A person’s ambition will constantly change with their position. — Guo Degang’s Quotations

87.纲丝:你爱喝茶还是咖啡？郭德纲:我爱喝鸭血粉丝汤。——郭德纲
87. Fan: Do you like tea or coffee? Guo Degang: I like to drink duck blood and vermicelli soup. — Guo Degang

88.天涯犹在，不诉薄凉。——郭德纲
88. The horizon is still there, but I won’t complain about the coldness. — Guo Degang

89.功名富贵，人间惊见白首；诗酒琴书，世外喜逢青眼。巿争利朝争名，伶逐势恶逐威。且看沧海日、赤城霞、峨嵋雪、巫峡云、洞庭月、潇湘雨、彭蠡烟、广陵涛，奇观宇宙但赏何妨？——《过得刚好》
89. Fame and wealth astonish people as they turn white-haired; poetry, wine, qin music, and books bring joy to the world beyond. People compete for profit and fame, while actors chase trends and the wicked seek power. Yet, why not appreciate the wonders of the universe, such as the sun over the sea, the rosy clouds of Chicheng, the snow on Emei Mountain, the clouds of the Wu Gorge, the moon over Dongting Lake, the rain in Xiaoxiang, the mist of Pengli, and the waves of Guangling? —— “Just Passing By”

90.我参与，你奉献，我快乐！——郭德纲
90. I participate, you contribute, I am happy! —— Guo Degang

91.如果你认为人人身上皆有善，那你还没有遇到所有人。——《过得刚好》
91. If you think everyone has goodness in them, you haven’t met everyone yet. —— “Just Passing By”

92.平生四恨：一恨鲫鱼多刺，二恨海棠无香，三恨人情如纸，四恨小人猖獗。——《过得刚好》
92. Four regrets in life: one regrets that crucian carp have too many bones, two regrets that begonias have no fragrance, three regrets that human relationships are as thin as paper, and four regrets that villains are rampant. —— “Just Passing By”

93.人和猪的区别就在于:猪一直是猪， 而人有时候却不是人。——郭德纲
93. The difference between humans and pigs is that pigs are always pigs, while sometimes humans are not human. —— Guo Degang

94.依山傍水房树间，行也安然，住也安然； 一条耕牛半顷田，收也凭天，荒也凭天； 雨过天晴驾小船，鱼在一边，酒在一边； 夜晚妻子话灯前，今也谈谈，古也谈谈； 日上三竿犹在眠，不是神仙，胜似神仙！——《定场诗》
94. Living by the mountains and waters, with houses and trees around, walking and dwelling in peace; a plow ox and half an acre of fields, harvests and wastelands depend on the heavens; after the rain, the sky clears, and I take a small boat, with fish on one side and wine on the other; at night, my wife and I chat by the lamplight, discussing the present and the past; even when the sun is high, I still sleep, not a fairy, but better than a fairy! —— “Settling Poem”

95.常有青年影视演员抱怨：早上四点化妆，在外景地待一天，晚上八点才拍上，活活累死人了。其实不必抱怨，挣的片酬有一半应该是候场的钱。相声演员也如此，挣的钱有一半是挨骂的钱。每张票，一半看玩意一半说闲话。别说读懂了风花雪月，别提走不出沧海桑田。人这辈子不是说别人就是被人说，乐呵乐呵得了。——《微博》
95. Young actors often complain: getting up at 4 am for makeup, waiting at the filming location all day, and only starting to shoot at 8 pm, it’s exhausting. In fact, there’s no need to complain, as half of the payment should be for waiting. The same goes for crosstalk performers, half of the money is for enduring criticism. Each ticket is for enjoying the show and listening to gossip. Don’t claim to understand the romantic side of life, and don’t mention being unable to escape the vicissitudes of time. In this life, we are either talking about others or being talked about by others, so just be happy. —— “Weibo”

96.其实我挺厌恶那种不明白任何情况，就劝你一定要大度的人，离他远一点，雷劈他的时候会连累到你。——郭德纲
96. I actually despise those who advise you to be generous without understanding the situation. Stay away from them, as they might get struck by lightning and involve you. —— Guo Degang

97.珠丸之珍，雀不祈弹。 金鼎之贵，鱼不求烹。 富贵长生，天作主由不得我。 钢骨正气，我作主由不得天。——郭德纲
97. The precious pearl is not sought by sparrows, and the valuable golden tripod is not sought by fish. Wealth and longevity are in the hands of heaven, not me. My steel-like backbone and righteous spirit are under my control, not heaven’s. —— Guo Degang

98.魑魅魍魉乱吼纷飞，恨雾凄凄催人泪垂。人做鬼，狗做贼，至这般又怨谁？满座的高朋移在哪里饮酒，骨肉的相知又在何处作陪？红粉佳人变成了残荷败蕊，三千食客也忙着去把墙推——《过得刚好》
98. Demons and goblins howl and fly about chaotically, and the hateful mist brings tears to people’s eyes. When people become ghosts and dogs become thieves, who should be blamed? Where have the high-ranking friends gone to drink, and where are the close relatives to accompany? The beautiful ladies have become withered lotus and fallen flowers, and the three thousand diners are busy pushing the walls down. —— “Just Passing By”

99.今日中元，地府清闲。刀山加盖，火海熄烟。望乡台霓虹灿灿，阴阳路锣鼓喧喧。红绸扎奈何桥畔，绿缎搭孽镜台前。孟婆亭今无迷魂散，轮回客请暂缓明天。生死薄封存不判，秦广辉把酒寻欢。丧门吊客祥和一片，牛头马面醉倒森罗殿。今日里为非作歹忘恩负义无情无耻皆由你，看明朝五鼓天明十八地狱放谁还！——《郭德纲微博》
99. Today is the Ghost Festival, the underworld is peaceful. The mountain of swords is covered, and the sea of fire is extinguished. The neon lights shine brightly on the望乡台, and the drums and gongs are noisy on the road of Yin and Yang. Red silk is tied beside the Naihe Bridge, and green satin is draped in front of the mirror of sins. The Meng Po Pavilion has no lost souls today, and the reincarnation guests are asked to wait until tomorrow. The Book of Life and Death is sealed and not judged, and Qin Guanghui seeks joy with wine. The land of the dead is peaceful, and the ox-headed and horse-faced spirits are drunk in the halls of the underworld. Today, those who commit evil deeds, forget gratitude, and are heartless and shameless are all up to you. See who will be released from the eighteen layers of hell tomorrow when the drums beat at dawn! —— Guo Degang’s Weibo

100.我当时就差400分就上北大了。——郭德纲
100. I was only 400 points away from Peking University at that time. —— Guo Degang
席慕容经典语录，席慕容名言大全
Xi Murong’s classic quotes, a collection of famous sayings by Xi Murong

1.遗忘是我们不可更改的宿命，所有的一切都像是没有对齐的图纸，从前的一切回不到过去，就这样慢慢延伸一点一点的错开来，也许错开了的东西，我们真的应该遗忘了。
1. Forgetting is our unchangeable destiny. Everything is like misaligned blueprints, the past cannot return to the past, and it slowly extends and gradually deviates. Perhaps the things that have deviated are what we should really forget.

2.青春的美丽与珍贵，就在于它的无邪与无瑕，在于它的可遇而不可求,在于它的永不重回。
2. The beauty and preciousness of youth lie in its innocence and flawlessness, in its unpredictability, and in the fact that it never returns.

3.当我猜到谜底，才发现，宴席已散，一切都已过去。当我猜到谜底，才发现，一切都已过去，岁月早己换了谜题。
3. When I guessed the answer, I realized that the banquet was over, and everything had passed. When I guessed the answer, I found that everything had passed, and the years had already changed the riddle.

4.记忆是相会的一种形式，健忘是自由的一种形式。
4. Memory is a form of meeting, and forgetfulness is a form of freedom.

5.老是在冗长的梦境里完成生命现实里不愿上演的别离和割舍。这样的梦境，是否太过冰冷与残忍。看世界多危险多灾。如反复无常的景象形象。没有舆图。我们一路走一路被辜负，一路点燃但愿一路寻找谜底。过去的畅想有多快乐，现世的遗憾就有多悠长。
5. Always in the lengthy dreams, we complete the separations and sacrifices that we are unwilling to perform in real life. Are such dreams too cold and cruel? The world is so dangerous and full of disasters. Like the unpredictable scenes. Without a map. We are disappointed along the way, ignited with hope along the way, and searching for the answer along the way. The happier the past imagination, the longer the regret in the present world.

6.她说爱你的时候，是无心之过，别等闲打动。
6. When she said she loved you, it was an unintentional mistake, don’t be casually touched.

7.是时候了。好好地做个常人。不和别人吵架。不需任何解释。不论是否爱过。不说脏话…一日三餐一个不能少。点之前睡觉…实在这些，我都做不到。
7. It’s time. Be a normal person. Don’t argue with others. No need for any explanation. Regardless of whether you have loved or not. No swearing… Three meals a day, not one less. Go to bed before ten o’clock… In fact, I can’t do all these things.

8.再夸姣也经不住遗忘，再悲伤也抵不外时间。
8. No matter how beautiful, it can’t withstand forgetting, and no matter how sad, it can’t withstand time.

9.幸好爱情不是一切，幸好一切都不是爱情。
9. Fortunately, love is not everything, and fortunately, everything is not love.

10.微微瞬间，你在一秒点穴。漫长永远，我用一生解穴。
10. In a brief moment, you have been touched in a second. In a long forever, I spend my whole life to unblock it.

11.让男人念念不忘的是感情，让女人念念不忘的是感觉。感情跟着时间沉淀，感觉跟着时间消失。终其是不同的物种，所以——谁又能明白谁的深爱，谁又能理解谁的离开。
11. What men can’t forget is feelings, and what women can’t forget is the sense. Feelings settle with time, and senses disappear with time. In the end, they are different species, so - who can understand whose deep love, and who can understand whose departure.

12.轻吟一句情话，执笔一副情画。绽放一地情花，笼盖一片青瓦。共饮一杯清茶，同研一碗青砂。挽起一面轻纱，看清天边月牙。爱像水墨青花，何惧刹那芳华。
12. Whisper a love phrase, hold a pen to draw a love painting. Bloom a field of love flowers, cover a piece of green tiles. Share a cup of tea, grind a bowl of green sand. Lift a veil of light gauze, see the crescent moon in the sky. Love is like ink and blue flowers, fearless of the fleeting moment.

13.记忆的丝线就像一种咒语，在每个日升月落将我缠紧，它提醒我，不能健忘爱过的你，我是记得啊，我记得，所以我和其他人在一起，一笑都觉得愧疚，所以我和别人并肩行走，牵手都觉得沉重，我要怎样，剪断丝线，再不作茧自缚。
13. The silk thread of memory is like a spell, tightening me with every sunrise and sunset, reminding me that I can’t forget you whom I have loved. I remember, I remember, so when I am with others, I feel guilty even when I laugh, and when I walk side by side with others, holding hands feels heavy. How can I cut the silk thread and no longer bind myself.

14.爱是一场催眠，醒来之后你被谁吸了灵。这就是为什么爱过之后，总觉得不仅失去她，也失去了一部门自己。被爱的人老是掌灵者，去爱的人反而失魂。在每段真心付出的感情中，总有一个人献祭了灵魂，收成了残忍。
14. Love is a form of hypnosis, and after waking up, you are sucked of your spirit by someone. This is why after being in love, we always feel not only losing her but also losing a part of ourselves. The loved one always holds the spirit, and the one who goes for love loses their soul. In every sincere relationship, there is always one person who sacrifices their soul and gains cruelty.

15.别再使用润饰音，唱最清澈的歌给我;别再揣测该说什么，用你透明的眼神看着我;别再撤退退却逃避什么，把你蜷缩的手指给我;别说你不再爱我，还给我爱过你的记忆给我。
15. Stop using embellishments and sing the purest song for me; stop guessing what to say and look at me with your transparent eyes; stop retreating and escaping from something, give me your curled fingers; don’t say you don’t love me anymore, return the memories of me loving you to me.

16.原来我只不外是只华丽的木偶，演尽了世间所有的繁华，才发现身后无数的金丝银线，牵动我的…哪怕，一举手，一投足。
16. It turns out that I am just a gorgeous puppet, performing all the prosperity in the world, only to find countless golden and silver threads behind me, controlling my every move, even the slightest gesture.

17.青春的锦绣与贵重，就在于它的天真与无瑕，在于它的可遇而不可求,在于它的永不重回。
17. The beauty and value of youth lie in its innocence and flawlessness, in its serendipity and unattainability, and in the fact that it never returns.

18.当我猜到答案，才发现，宴席已散，一切都已过去。当我猜到答案，才发现，一切都已过去，岁月早己换了谜题。
18. When I finally figured out the answer, I realized that the banquet was over, and everything had passed. When I figured out the answer, I found that everything had already passed, and time had already changed the riddle.

19.情谊和花香一样，仍是淡一点的比较好，越淡的香气越使人依恋，也越能持久。
19. Friendship is like fragrance, it’s better to be lighter; the lighter the scent, the more it makes people attached and the longer it lasts.

20.一生至少该有一次，为了某个人而忘了自己，不求有结果，不求同行，不求曾经拥有，甚至不求你爱我，只求在我最美的年华里，遇到你。
20. In one’s life, there should be at least one time when you forget yourself for someone, not seeking a result, not expecting to walk together, not asking for possession, not even asking for your love, but only asking to meet you in my most beautiful years.

21.许多往事在眼前一幕一幕，变的那麼模糊，曾经那麼坚信的，那麼执着的，一直相信著的，其实什麼都没有，什麼都不是……突然发现自己很傻，傻的不行。我发誓，我笑了，笑的眼泪都掉了。笑我们这麼傻，我们总在重复著一些伤害，没有一个可以躲藏不被痛找到。却还一直傻傻的期待，到失望,再期待，再失望……
21. Many past events appear before my eyes, becoming so vague; what I once believed in so strongly, what I was so persistent about, and what I always believed in, actually amounts to nothing, nothing at all… Suddenly, I find myself so foolish, foolish beyond measure. I swear, I laughed, my laughter brought tears to my eyes. We are so foolish, laughing at how we keep repeating the same hurts, with no place to hide from pain. Yet, we still foolishly expect, to be disappointed, to expect again, and to be disappointed again…

22.你说你不好的时候，我疼，疼的不知道该怎么安慰你，你说你醉的时候，我疼，疼的不能自制，思绪混乱。我的语言过于苍白，心却是因为你的每一句话而疼。太多不能，不如愿，想离开，离开这个让我疼痛的你。转而，移情别恋，却太难，只顾心疼，我忘记了离开，一次一次，已经习惯，习惯有你，习惯心疼你的一切。
22. When you say you’re not well, I ache, and I don’t know how to comfort you; when you say you’re drunk, I ache, and I can’t control myself, my thoughts are in chaos. My words are too pale, but my heart aches because of every word you say. There are too many things I can’t do, don’t wish for, want to leave, leave you who cause me pain. Then, I try to transfer my feelings, but it’s too hard; I only focus on the pain and forget to leave, time and time again, I’ve become accustomed to having you, to aching for everything about you.

23.习惯，失眠，习惯寂静的夜，躺在床上望着天花板，想你淡蓝的衣衫。习惯，睡伴，习惯一个人在一个房间，抱着绒绒熊，独眠。习惯，吃咸，习惯伤口的那把盐，在我心里一点点蔓延。习惯，观天，习惯一个人坐在爱情的井里，念着关于你的诗篇。
23. I’m used to insomnia, used to the quiet night, lying in bed staring at the ceiling, thinking of your light blue shirt. I’m used to having a sleep companion, used to being alone in a room, hugging a plush bear, sleeping alone. I’m used to eating salty food, used to the salt in my wounds, slowly spreading in my heart. I’m used to watching the sky, used to sitting alone in the well of love, reciting poems about you.

24.、……一生再也不敢那么勇敢，为你……
24. …I dare not be so brave again in my life, for you…

25.一个人的漠然加上另一个人的苦衷，一个人的忠诚加上另一个人的欺骗，一个人的付出加上另一个人的掠夺，一个人的笃信加上另一个人的敷衍。爱情是一个人加上另一个人，可是，一加一却不等于二，就像你加上我，也并不等于我们。这种叫做爱的情啊……如果你忘了苏醒，那我宁愿先闭上双眼。
25. One person’s indifference plus another’s sorrow, one person’s loyalty plus another’s deception, one person’s dedication plus another’s plunder, one person’s firm belief plus another’s perfunctory attitude. Love is one person plus another, but one plus one does not equal two, just like you plus me does not equal us. This is the kind of love… If you forget to wake up, I’d rather close my eyes first.

26.谁的情感无法张扬，谁在陌生的房故作勇敢，谁在夜晚害怕腐烂，任呼吸突然变得野蛮，先爱吧把这一副肩膀挡掉一点遗憾，先爱吧看似一双翅膀躲啊躲已经黑暗，先爱吧人们不懂这样一旦欲求不满，先爱吧之后感伤之后再算，之后再算……
26. Whose emotions cannot be expressed, who pretends to be brave in a strange room, who fears rotting at night, as breathing suddenly becomes wild? Love first, to block some regrets with these shoulders; love first, like a pair of wings hiding in the dark; love first, people don’t understand such unfulfilled desires, love first, and then feel sad, and then calculate, and then calculate…

27.在一段时间我喜欢一段音乐，听一段音乐我怀念一段时光。坐在一段时光里怀念另一段时光的掌纹。那时听着那歌会是怎样的心情？那时的我们是否相遇？是相遇还是错过？还是，没有结局的邂逅？
27. I like a piece of music during a period of time, and I miss a period of time while listening to a piece of music. Sitting in a period of time, missing the palm prints of another period of time. What kind of mood would we have been in while listening to that song back then? Did we meet each other? Was it a meeting or a missed opportunity? Or, an encounter without an ending?

28.一个人的世界，很安静，安静的可以听到自己的呼吸声和心跳声。冷了，给自己加件外套;饿了，给自己买个面包;病了，给自己一份坚强;失败了，给自己一个目标;跌倒了，在伤痛中爬起并给自己一个宽容的微笑。是啊，我总是一个人，你从来不曾来过，我也从来不曾出现在你的世界。
28. A person’s world is very quiet, quiet enough to hear their own breathing and heartbeat. When it’s cold, I put on a coat for myself; when I’m hungry, I buy a piece of bread for myself; when I’m sick, I give myself strength; when I fail, I set a goal for myself; when I fall, I get up in pain and give myself a tolerant smile. Yes, I am always alone, you never came into my world, and I never appeared in yours.

29.或许可以爱很多个人，但只有一个人会让你笑的最灿烂，哭的最伤心。于我——应该都笑的灿烂，但我不明白给我最灿烂的是谁。哭，那是经常的吧。但是我不明白伤心，让我最伤心的是谁。只是心太痛，太痛……之后便不觉着痛了。也记不清楚那些班驳的光影。
29. Perhaps one can love many people, but only one person can make you laugh the brightest and cry the saddest. As for me - I should have laughed brightly, but I don’t understand who gave me the brightest smile. Crying is common, but I don’t understand sadness, who made me the saddest. The pain is just too much, too much… and then I no longer feel the pain. I can’t remember those mottled lights and shadows.

30.我习惯了等待，于是，在轮回中我无法抗拒的站回等待的原点。我不知道，这样我还要等多久才能看到一个答案;我不知道，如此我还能坚持的等待多久去等一个结果？思念，很无力，那是因为我看不到思念的结果。也许，思念不需结果，它只是证明在心里有个人曾存在过。是不是能给思念一份证书，证明曾经它曾存在过？
30. I am used to waiting, so in the cycle, I cannot help but stand back at the starting point of waiting. I don’t know how long I have to wait to see an answer; I don’t know how long I can keep waiting for a result. Missing is so powerless, because I cannot see the result of missing. Maybe, missing doesn’t need a result, it just proves that there was once a person in my heart. Can I give missing a certificate, proving that it once existed?

31.似乎习惯了等待，单纯的以为等待就会到来。但却在等待中错过了，那些可以幸福的幸福。在失去时后悔，为什么没有抓住。其实等待本身就是一种可笑的错误。明知道等待着一份不知能否到来的幸福……
31. It seems I am used to waiting, naively thinking that waiting will come. But in waiting, I missed the happiness that could have been. I regret not seizing it when it was lost. In fact, waiting itself is a ridiculous mistake. Knowing that I am waiting for a happiness that may never come…

32.我的世界太过安静，静得可以听见自己心跳的声音。心房的血液慢慢流回心室，如此这般的轮回。聪明的人，喜欢猜心，也许猜对了别人的心，却也失去了自己的。傻气的人，喜欢给心，也许会被人骗，却未必能得到别人的。你以为我刀枪不入，我以为你百毒不侵。
32. My world is too quiet, so quiet that I can hear the sound of my own heartbeat. The blood in the heart chamber slowly flows back to the ventricle, in such a cycle. Clever people like to guess hearts, perhaps guessing others’ hearts correctly, but losing their own. Foolish people like to give their hearts, maybe being deceived, but not necessarily getting others’. You think I am invulnerable, I think you are immune to all poisons.

33.你会不会忽然的出现，在街角的咖啡店，我会带着笑脸，和你寒暄，不去说从前，只是寒暄，对你说一句，只是说一句，好久不见……
33. Will you suddenly appear at the corner coffee shop? I will greet you with a smile, without mentioning the past, just chatting, saying to you, just saying one sentence, it’s been a long time…

34.立冬。小雪。大雪。冬至。小寒。大寒。在无法遇见第二个寂寞的人的寂寞冬天。独自行走独自唱歌独自逛街独自看着一整个世界狂欢。人们手牵手地逛着游乐园。他是她的独一。我是所有人的无二。世界充满了我们相遇的几率。我却始终无法遇见你。
34. Beginning of Winter. Light Snow. Heavy Snow. Winter Solstice. Minor Cold. Major Cold. In the lonely winter when I cannot meet another lonely person, I walk alone, sing alone, stroll alone, and watch the whole world revel. People walk hand in hand in the amusement park. He is her one and only. I am everyone’s unique. The world is full of the chances for us to meet, but I can never meet you.

35.旋转木马是最残忍的游戏，彼此追逐却有永恒的距离。
35. The carousel is the most cruel game, chasing each other but with an eternal distance.

36.记忆是相会的一种形式，忘记是自由的一种形式。
36. Memory is a form of meeting, forgetting is a form of freedom.

37.当一个人沉醉在一个幻想之中，他就会把这幻想成模糊的情味，当作真实的酒。你喝酒为的是求醉;我喝酒为的是要从别种的醉酒中清醒过来。
37. When a person is intoxicated in a fantasy, he will take the vague sentiment of this fantasy as real wine. You drink for the sake of getting drunk; I drink to sober up from another kind of drunkenness.

38.有些女人。会让人觉得，世界上无人舍得对她不好。然而，这个女人。就是得不到她一直盼望着的好。
38. Some women make people feel that no one in the world would bear to treat her poorly. However, this woman just can’t get the goodness she has been longing for.

39.面对，不一定最难过。孤独，不一定不快乐。得到，不一定能长久。失去，不一定不再拥有。不要因为寂寞而错爱，不要因為错爱而寂寞一生。
39. Facing something doesn’t necessarily make us the most upset. Being alone doesn’t necessarily mean we’re not happy. Gaining something doesn’t guarantee it will last. Losing something doesn’t mean we won’t possess it again. Don’t fall in love out of loneliness, and don’t be lonely for a lifetime because of a mislove.

40.贫穷不是羞耻，富贵也不是罪恶，粗茶淡饭与锦衣玉食并没有太大的差别，只要我们有爱，孩子们就会有笑脸。
40. Poverty is not a shame, and wealth is not a sin. There is not much difference between simple meals and luxurious feasts, as long as we have love, children will have smiling faces.

41.如何让你遇见我，在我最锦绣的时刻为这，我已在佛前求了五百年，求他让我们结一段尘缘。
41. How can I let you meet me at my most splendid moment? For this, I have prayed in front of Buddha for five hundred years, asking him to grant us a worldly bond.

42.你见，或者不见我，我就在那里，不悲不喜;你念，或者不念我，情就在那里，不来不去;你爱，或者不爱我，爱就在那里，不增不减;你跟，或者不跟我，我的手就在你手里，不舍不弃。
42. Whether you see me or not, I am there, neither sad nor happy; whether you miss me or not, my feelings are there, neither coming nor going; whether you love me or not, my love is there, neither increasing nor decreasing; whether you follow me or not, my hand is in yours, never letting go.

43.世界曾经颠倒黑白,如今回归绚丽色彩。世界曾经失去声响，如今有你们陪我唱歌。夜里黑暗覆盖着左手，左手覆盖着右手。曾经牵手的手指，夜里独自合十。风吹沙吹成沙漠，你等我，等成十年漫长的打坐。你是天下的传奇，你是世界的独一。你让我花掉一整幅青春，用来寻你。五、四、三、二、一、他和她的迷藏。开始……
43. The world once turned black and white upside down, but now it has returned to its splendid colors. The world once lost its sound, but now I have you to sing with me. In the darkness of the night, my left hand covers my right hand. The fingers that once held hands now press together alone in the night. The wind blows sand into deserts, and you wait for me, turning into a decade-long meditation. You are the legend of the world, the one and only. You made me spend an entire youth searching for you. Five, four, three, two, one, the hide-and-seek game between him and her begins…

44.青春,如统一场盛大而华丽的戏，我们有着不同的假面，扮演着不同的角色，演绎着不同的经历，却有着相同的悲哀。
44. Youth is like a grand and gorgeous play; we wear different masks, play different roles, and experience different stories, yet we all share the same sorrow.

45.不要因为也许会改变，就不肯说那句美丽的誓言，不要因为也许会分离，就不敢求一次倾心的相遇。
45. Don’t refuse to say that beautiful promise just because it might change; don’t dare to seek a heartfelt encounter just because it might separate.

46.我们害怕岁月，却不知道活着是多么的可喜。我们以为生存已经没意思，很多人却正在生死之间挣扎。甚么时候，我们才肯为自己拥有的一切满怀感谢打动？忘掉岁月，忘掉痛苦，忘掉你的坏。我们永不永不说再见。
46. We fear the passage of time, yet we don’t realize how delightful it is to be alive. We think life has lost its meaning, while many are struggling between life and death. When will we finally be grateful for everything we have? Forget the years, the pain, and your faults. We will never, ever say goodbye.

47.也许。这只是一个梦。一个破碎了的梦。花凋花谢。最后仍是一片凄楚。相知趣爱。最后仍是会无语而散。
47. Perhaps, this is just a dream. A broken dream. Flowers wither and fade, and in the end, there is still a trace of sorrow. Knowing and loving each other, we will still end up speechless and apart.

48.坚硬的城市里没有柔软的你。爱情,糊口，不是林黛玉,不会由于我的忧伤而风情万种。
48. In this rigid city, there is no softness like you. Love and life are not like Lin Daiyu; they won’t become charming because of my sorrow.

49.他的世界没有她，她的世界只有他。世界就是这样，从来没有公平可言。这是一场没有时限的角力战，谁在乎的越多，就输的越惨。
49. His world has no place for her, while her world is only filled with him. The world is like this, never fair. It’s an endless tug-of-war; the more you care, the worse you lose.

50.如果真相是种伤害，请选择谎言。如果谎言是一种伤害，请选择沈默。如果沈默是一种伤害，请选择离开。
50. If the truth is a kind of hurt, choose a lie. If a lie is a kind of hurt, choose silence. If silence is a kind of hurt, choose to leave.

51.少年的时候，我疯狂的喜欢，带我走这三个字。现在，我再也不会任性的让任何人带我走。我学会了，自己走。
51. When I was young, I was crazy about the words “take me away.” Now, I will never let anyone take me away on a whim. I have learned to walk on my own.

52.不要由于也许会改变，就不肯说那句锦绣的誓言，不要由于也许会分离，就不敢求一次倾心的相遇。
52. Don’t refuse to say that beautiful promise just because it might change; don’t dare to seek a heartfelt encounter just because it might separate.

53.我们认为一切的快乐和欣喜都是应该的，认为山的蓝和水的绿都不足为奇，认为，若是肯真心相爱，就永远不会分离。
53. We take all happiness and joy for granted, thinking the blue of mountains and the green of water are nothing special. We believe that if we truly love each other, we will never part.

54.在年青的时候，假如你爱上了一个人，请你，请你一定要温柔地对待他。无论你们相爱的时间有多长或多短，若你们能始终温柔地相待，那么，所有的时刻都将是一种无瑕的锦绣。若不得不分离，也要好好地说声再见，也要在心里存着感谢，感谢他给了你一份记忆。长大了以后，你才会知道，在蓦然回顾回头的刹那，没有怨恨的青春才会了无遗憾，如山冈上那轮悄悄的满月。
54. When you are young and fall in love with someone, please, please treat them gently. No matter how long or short the time you spend together, if you can always treat each other with tenderness, then all the moments will become a flawless tapestry. If you have to part ways, say goodbye properly and keep gratitude in your heart, thanking them for giving you a memory. When you grow up, you will know that in the moment of looking back, a youth without regrets is like the quiet full moon on the hill, leaving no trace of resentment.

56.这个世界好大啊！路这样长，生命这样短暂，浓雾又这样久久不肯散去，那么，要怎样才能告诉你，我已经来过了呢？
56. The world is so vast! The road is long, life is fleeting, and the fog lingers for so long. So, how can I tell you that I have been here?

57.真的，有良多事，是要发一点疯才能做出来的。
57. Truly, there are many things that can only be done when one is a little crazy.

58.我终于相信，每一条走上来的路，都有它不得不那样跋涉的理由。每一条要走下去的路，都有它不得不那样选择的方向！
58. I finally believe that every path we have taken has its reasons for being traversed that way. Every path we choose to walk has its direction that cannot be avoided.

59.所有的结局都已写好，所有的泪水也都已启程，却突然忘了，是怎麽样的一个开始。在那个古老的，不再归来的夏日，不管我如何地去追索，年青的你只如云影擦过。而你微笑的面容，极浅极淡，逐渐隐没在日落后的群岚。遂翻开那发黄的扉页，命运将它装订得极为拙劣。含着泪，我一读再读，却不得不承认，青春，是一本太仓促的书。
59. All the endings have been written, and all the tears have set off, but suddenly I forgot how it all began. In that ancient, never-returning summer day, no matter how hard I try to search, your youthful figure passes by like a cloud shadow. And your smiling face, so light and faint, gradually vanishes into the mountains after sunset. I turn to the yellowed pages, and fate has bound them so poorly. With tears in my eyes, I read them again and again, but I have to admit that youth is a book too hastily written.

60.明明知道总有一日，所有的悲欢都将离我而去，我仍旧竭力地搜集，搜集那些锦绣的纠缠。
60. Knowing clearly that one day, all joys and sorrows will leave me, I still try my best to collect those entanglements of beauty.

61.实在我盼望的，也不外就只是那一瞬，我也从没要求过，你给我你的一生。假如能在开满了栀子花的山坡上与你相遇，假如能深深地爱过一次再别离，那么，在长久的一生，不也就只是，就只是，回顾回头时，那短短的一瞬。
61. In fact, what I long for is just that moment. I have never asked for your whole life. If I could meet you on a hillside covered with gardenia flowers, if I could love deeply once and then part, then in the long life, isn’t it just, just that short moment when looking back?

62.走着走着，就散了，回忆都淡了;看着看着，就累了，星光也暗了;听着听着，就醒了，开始抱怨了;回头发现，你不见了，溘然我乱了。
62. Walking and walking, we scattered, and memories faded; watching and watching, I grew tired, and the stars dimmed; listening and listening, I woke up and began to complain; when I turned my head, you were gone, and suddenly I was in chaos.

63.我的世界太过安静，静得可以闻声自己心跳的声音。心房的血液慢慢流转意室，如斯这般的循环。智慧的人，喜欢猜心，也许猜对了别人的心，却也失去了自己的。傻气的人，喜欢给心，也许会被人骗，却未必能得到别人的。你认为我刀枪不入，我认为你百毒不侵。
63. My world is too quiet, so quiet that I can hear the sound of my own heartbeat. The blood in the heart chamber slowly flows into the ventricle, circulating like this. Wise people like to guess others’ hearts; they may guess right, but they also lose their own. Foolish people like to give their hearts; they may be deceived, but they may not necessarily get others’. You think I am invulnerable, and I think you are impervious to poison.

64.一生至少该有一次，为了某个人而忘了自己，不求有结果，不求同行，不求曾经拥有，甚至不求你爱我，只求在我最美的年华里，碰到你。
64. In one’s life, there should be at least once when you forget yourself for someone, not seeking a result, not walking together, not even owning once, not even asking you to love me, just hoping to meet you in my most beautiful years.

65.一个人的漠然加上另一个人的苦衷，一个人的忠诚加上另一个人的欺骗，一个人的付出加上另一个人的攫取，一个人的笃信加上另一个人的敷衍。爱情是一个人加上另一个人，可是，一加一却不即是二，就像你加上我，也并不即是我们。这种叫做爱的情啊•••假如你忘了过去，那我宁愿先闭上双眼。
65. One person’s indifference plus another’s bitterness, one person’s loyalty plus another’s deception, one person’s devotion plus another’s taking, one person’s faith plus another’s perfunctory attitude. Love is one person plus another, but one plus one does not equal two, just like you plus me does not equal us. This is called love. If you forget the past, I would rather close my eyes first.

66.你说你不好的时候，我疼，疼的不知道该怎么安慰你，你说你醉的时候，我疼，疼的不能自制，思绪混乱。我的语言过于苍白，心却是由于你的每一句话而疼。太多不能，不如愿，想离开，离开这个让我痛苦悲伤的你。转而，移情别恋，却太难，只顾心疼，我健忘了离开，一次一次，我已经习惯，习惯有你，习惯心疼你的一切。
66. When you say you’re not well, I ache, and I don’t know how to comfort you. When you say you’re drunk, I ache, and I can’t control myself, my thoughts are chaotic. My words are too pale, but my heart aches because of every word you say. There’s too much that cannot be, not as desired, I want to leave, leave you who make me suffer and sad. However, moving on is too hard, I just focus on the pain, and I’ve forgotten to leave, time and time again, I’ve become accustomed to it, accustomed to having you, accustomed to aching for everything about you.

67.很多旧事在面前一幕一幕，变的那麽恍惚，曾经那麽坚信的，那麽执着的，一直相信着的，实在什麽都没有，什麽都不是…溘然发现自己很傻，傻的不行。我发誓，我笑了，笑的眼泪都掉了。笑我们这麽傻，我们总在重复着一些伤害，没有一个可以隐藏不被痛找到。却还一直傻傻的期待，到绝望,再期待，再绝望……
67. Many old memories unfold before me, becoming so hazy, those that I once firmly believed in, so persistent about, and always believed in, are actually nothing, nothing at all… Suddenly, I find myself to be very foolish, foolish beyond measure. I swear, I laughed, laughing until tears fell. Laughing at how foolish we are, always repeating some injuries, none of which can be hidden from pain. Yet, we still foolishly expect, to despair, then hope again, then despair again…

68.习惯，失眠，习惯寂静的夜，躺在床上望着天花板，想你淡蓝的笑脸。习惯，睡伴，习惯一个人在一个房间，抱着你曾留下的气息，独眠。习惯，吃咸，习惯伤口的那把盐，在我心里一点点蔓延。习惯，观天，习惯一个人坐在爱情的井里，念着关于你的诗篇。
68. I am accustomed to being alone, accustomed to the silent nights, lying in bed, looking at the ceiling, thinking of your pale blue smile. I am accustomed to having a sleep companion, accustomed to being alone in a room, holding the breath you once left, sleeping alone. I am accustomed to eating salty, accustomed to the salt of the wound, slowly spreading in my heart. I am accustomed to watching the sky, accustomed to sitting alone in the well of love, reciting poems about you.

69.谁的情感无法张扬，谁在目生的房故作勇敢，谁在夜晚害怕腐烂，任呼吸溘然变得野蛮，先爱吧把这一副肩膀挡掉一点遗憾，先爱吧看似一双翅膀躲啊躲已经黑暗，先爱吧人们不懂这样一旦欲求不满，先爱吧之后感伤之后再算，之后再算……
69. Whose emotions cannot be expressed, who pretends to be brave in a strange room, who fears decay at night, letting their breathing suddenly become wild, love first to block a little regret with these shoulders, love first as if a pair of wings hiding from the darkness, love first, people don’t understand such unfulfilled desires, love first, feel the sadness afterwards, then calculate, then calculate…

70.我习惯了等待，于是，在循环中我无法抗拒的站回等待的原点。我不知道，这样我还要等多久才能看到一个谜底;我不知道，如斯我还能坚持的等待多久去等一个结果？思念，很无力，那是由于我看不到思念的结果。也许，思念不需结果，它只是证其实心里有个你曾存在过。是不是能给思念一份证书，证实曾经你曾存在过？
70. I am accustomed to waiting, so in the cycle, I cannot resist standing back at the starting point of waiting. I don’t know, how long do I have to wait to see an answer; I don’t know, how long can I keep waiting for a result like this? Missing is so powerless, it’s because I can’t see the result of missing. Perhaps, missing doesn’t need a result, it just proves that you once existed in my heart. Can I give a certificate to the missing, proving that you once existed?

71.一个人的世界，很安静，安静的可以听到自己的呼吸声和心跳声。冷了，给自己加件外套;饿了，给自己买个面包;病了，给自己一份坚强;失败了，给自己一个目标;跌倒了，在伤痛中爬起并给自己一个宽容的微笑。是啊，我老是一个人，你从来不曾来过，我也从来不曾泛起在你的世界。
71. In a world of one’s own, it’s very quiet, quiet enough to hear one’s own breathing and heartbeat. When it’s cold, I put on a jacket for myself; when I’m hungry, I buy a loaf of bread for myself; when I’m sick, I give myself strength; when I fail, I set a goal for myself; when I fall, I get up in the pain and give myself a tolerant smile. Yes, I am always alone, you never came, and I never appeared in your world.

72.好像习惯了等待，单纯的认为等待就会到来。但却在等待中错过了，那些可以幸福的幸福。在失去时后悔，为什么没有捉住。实在等待本身就是一种好笑的错误。明知道等待着一份不知能否到来的幸福……
72. It seems I am used to waiting, simply believing that waiting will bring results. But in waiting, I missed the happiness that could have been. Regretting when lost, why didn’t I seize it? In fact, waiting itself is a ridiculous mistake. Knowing full well that I’m waiting for a happiness that may never come…

73.或许可以爱良多个人，但只有一个人会让你笑的最辉煌，哭的最伤心。于是我——应该让自己都笑的辉煌，但我不明白曾经把最辉煌的笑给啦谁。哭，那是常常的吧——在心里。但是我不明白伤心，让我最伤心的是谁。只是心太痛，太痛……之后便不觉着痛了。也记不清晰是谁留下那些班驳的光影。
73. Perhaps one can love many people, but only one person can make you laugh the brightest and cry the saddest. So I - should let myself laugh brilliantly, but I don’t understand who I gave my brightest smile to. Crying, that’s often the case - in the heart. But I don’t understand sadness, who makes me the saddest. It’s just that the heart is too painful, too painful… and then it no longer feels the pain. I can’t clearly remember who left those mottled shadows.

74.在一段时间我喜欢一段音乐，听一段音乐我怀念一段时光。坐在一段时光里怀念另一段时光的掌纹。那时听着那歌会是怎样的心情？那时的我们是否相遇？是相遇仍是错过？仍是，没有结局的邂逅？
74. During a period of time, I like a piece of music, and listening to a piece of music makes me miss a period of time. Sitting in a period of time, missing the palm prints of another period of time. What kind of mood would we have been in when listening to that song back then? Did we meet each other at that time? Was it a meeting or a miss? Or, an encounter without an ending?

75.立冬。小雪。大雪。冬至。小寒。大寒。在无法遇见第二个寂寞的人的寂寞冬天。独自行走独自唱歌独自逛街独自看着一整个世界狂欢。人们手牵手地逛着游乐园。她是他的唯一。我是所有人的无二。世界布满了我们相遇的几率。我却始终无法遇见你。
75. Beginning of Winter. Light Snow. Heavy Snow. Winter Solstice. Minor Cold. Major Cold. In the lonely winter when I cannot meet a second lonely person, I walk alone, sing alone, shop alone, and watch the whole world reveling. People walk hand in hand in the amusement park. She is his only one. I am the unique one for everyone. The world is full of the chances for us to meet, but I can never meet you.

76.我们以为一切的快乐和欣喜都是应该的，以为山的蓝和水的绿都不足为奇，以为，若是肯真心相爱，就永远不会分离。
76. We thought that all happiness and joy were supposed to be, thought that the blue of the mountains and the green of the water were not surprising, thought that if we truly loved each other, we would never be separated.

77.世界曾经倒置黑白,如今回归绚丽色彩。世界曾经失去声响，如今又有谁愿意陪我歌唱。夜里黑暗笼盖着左手，左手笼盖着右手。曾经牵手的手指，夜里独自合十。风吹沙吹成沙漠，你等我，等成十年漫长的打坐。你是天下的传奇，你是世界的唯一。你让我花掉一整幅青春，用来寻你。五.四.三.二.一.她和他的迷藏。开始……
77. The world once reversed black and white, now it returns to brilliant colors. The world once lost its sound, and now who is willing to sing with me? At night, the darkness covers my left hand, and my left hand covers my right hand. The fingers that once held hands are clasped alone in the night. The wind blows sand into a desert, and you wait for me, turning into a ten-year-long meditation. You are the legend of the world, you are the only one in the world. You let me spend an entire piece of youth searching for you. Five, four, three, two, one. The hide-and-seek between her and him. Begins…

78.当一个人沉浸在一个幻想之中，他就会把这幻想成恍惚的情味，当作真实的酒。你饮酒为的是求醉;我饮酒为的是要从别种的醉酒中清醒过来。
78. When a person is immersed in a fantasy, he will regard this fantasy as a faint sentiment, as real wine. You drink for the sake of getting drunk; I drink to sober up from another kind of drunkenness.

79.有些人。会让人觉得，世界上无人舍得对她不好。然而，这个人。就是得不到她一直盼望着的好。
79. Some people. Will make others feel that no one in the world would bear to treat her badly. However, this person. Just can’t get the good she has been longing for.

80.面临，不一定最难过。孤傲，不一定不快乐。得到，不一定能长久。失去，不一定不再拥有。不要由于寂寞而错爱，不要由于错爱而寂寞一生。
80. Facing, not necessarily the most painful. Pride, not necessarily unhappy. Gaining, not necessarily lasting. Losing, not necessarily never possessing again. Don’t love the wrong person because of loneliness, don’t be lonely for a lifetime because of the wrong love.

81.耳。没有喧闹。眼。没有缤纷。嘴。沉默沉静不语。
81. Ear. No noise. Eye. No colors. Mouth. Silent and calm.

82.她的世界没有他，他的世界只有她。世界就是这样，从来没有公平可言。这是一场没有时限的角力战，谁在乎的越多，就输的越惨。
82. Her world has no him, his world only has her. The world is like this, there has never been any fairness. This is an unlimited tug-of-war, the more one cares, the worse one loses.

83.你会不会突然的泛起，在街角的咖啡店，我会带着笑容，和你寒暄，不去说从前，只是寒暄，对你说一句，只是说一句，好久不见……
83. Will you suddenly appear, at the corner coffee shop, I will be smiling and chatting with you, not talking about the past, just chatting, saying a word to you, just saying a word, long time no see…

84.友谊和花香一样，还是淡一点的比较好，越淡的香气越使人依恋，也越能持久。
84. Friendship is like fragrance, it’s better to be lighter. The lighter the fragrance, the more it makes people attached to it, and the longer it lasts.

85.谁的眼角触得了谁的眉;谁的笑脸抵得了谁的泪;谁的心脏载得住谁的循环;谁的掌纹赎得回谁的罪。
85. Whose eyes can touch whose eyebrows; whose smile can match whose tears; whose heart can carry whose circulation; whose palm print can redeem whose sin.

86.不喜欢说话却天天说最多的话，我不喜欢笑却总笑个不停，身边的每个人都说我的糊口好快乐，于是我也就以为自己真的快乐……可是为什么我会在一大群朋友中溘然地就沉默沉静，为什么在人群中看到相似的背影就难过，看见秋天树木疯狂地掉叶子我就健忘了说话，看见气候渐晚路上暖黄色的灯火，就健忘了自己原来的方向。
86. I don’t like talking but I speak the most every day. I don’t like laughing but I always laugh. Everyone around me says my life is happy, so I thought I was truly happy too… But why do I suddenly fall silent among a group of friends, why do I feel sad when I see a similar silhouette in the crowd, why do I forget how to speak when I see the trees shedding their leaves in autumn, and why do I lose my original direction when I see the warm yellow lights on the road as the night falls?

87.假如一开始，你就不要泛起在我的眼前，那么，我也许就不会知道幸福的滋味……你何其残忍，把所有的爱满满地那么卒不及防地都给了我，告诉我，你永远喜欢我，永远不会离开我。让我错认为，我可以幸福得象个被宠溺的孩子，让我错认为，只要抱住你，就可以拥有整个世界。
87. If you hadn’t appeared in front of me from the beginning, perhaps I wouldn’t have known the taste of happiness… How cruel you are, giving me all the love so unexpectedly and telling me that you will always like me and never leave me. You made me mistakenly believe that I could be as happy as a spoiled child, and that by holding onto you, I could possess the whole world.

88.永远不要欺骗爱你的人，由于我们一眼就能看穿。你知道男人和女人，说谎的最大差别在哪里吗。女人说谎是要让自己觉得好过，而男人说谎呢是要让对方好过，我们选择欺骗，是由于不想伤害深爱的人，我们不是故意的，只是没有伤害对方的勇气，所以才躲藏真正的谜底。
88. Never deceive the one who loves you, because we can see through lies in an instant. Do you know the biggest difference between men and women when it comes to lying? Women lie to make themselves feel better, while men lie to make the other person feel better. We choose deception because we don’t want to hurt the ones we love deeply. We don’t do it on purpose, but simply lack the courage to hurt them, so we hide the real truth.

89.我们离回忆太近，离自由太远。有时候念念不忘，只是爱上回忆。一次犹豫，一次背叛，一次意外，足以让它枯萎。摆脱一切，烟消云散。
89. We are too close to memories and too far from freedom. Sometimes, we just can’t let go of the past, and it’s enough to make it wither away. Free ourselves, and let everything vanish like smoke.

90.谁都认为自己会是例外——在后悔之外。谁都认为拥有的感情也是例外——在变淡之外。谁都认为恋爱的对象刚巧也是例外——在改变之外。然而终极发现——除了变化，无一例外。
90. Everyone thinks they will be the exception - beyond regret. Everyone believes their love is the exception - beyond fading. Everyone thinks their romantic partner is the exception - beyond change. However, in the end, we find out that nothing is an exception except for change.

91.浮华一生，淡忘一季。空有回忆，打乱缠绵。笑脸不见，落寞万千。弦，思华年。那些年华，恍然如梦。亦如，流水，一去不返。不泣告别，不诉终殇。
91. A lifetime of vanity, forgotten in a season. Empty memories, disrupting entanglement. The smiling face disappears, leaving behind countless sorrows. The string, reflecting on the years. Those years, like a dream. Just like flowing water, gone forever. No tears for farewell, no complaints about the end.

92.谁在春日艳阳的午后，轻抚你穿过飘扬秀发。谁在无数个黯然的白夜，带走独斟酌饮的酒，把浓郁的温度，狠狠的烧进胸口。谁把一季又一季的绿色原野，揉碎成土壤中湿润的腐朽。谁捧起你如花的脸庞，让岁月美的黯然神伤。
92. Who is it that gently touches your fluttering hair on a sunny spring afternoon? Who takes away the wine from countless bleak nights, burning the rich warmth deep into their chest? Who crumbles the green fields season after season into damp decay in the soil? Who holds your flower-like face, making the beauty of the years fade away in sorrow?

93.贫穷不是羞耻，富贵也不是罪恶，粗茶淡饭与锦衣玉食并没有太大的差别，只要我们有爱，孩子们就会有笑容。
93. Poverty is not a shame, and wealth is not a sin. There is not much difference between plain food and fine dining, as long as we have love, children will have smiles.

94.如何让你遇见我，在我最美丽的时刻为这，我已在佛前求了五百年，求他让我们结一段尘缘。
94. How can I make you meet me at my most beautiful moment? For this, I have prayed in front of the Buddha for five hundred years, asking him to grant us a worldly bond.

95.几年后，发现无数的感情不撕自碎，原本都不完整，就不需要撕碎。现在，我开始怀念，那个撕碎你信和照片的雨夜。我羡慕那时的自己，还有完整的幸福可以撕碎。
95. A few years later, I found that countless emotions crumble on their own, originally incomplete, and there is no need to tear them apart. Now, I start to miss the rainy night when I tore up your letters and photos. I envy my past self, who still had complete happiness to tear apart.

96.年少时，我们因谁因爱或是只因寂寞而同场起舞;沧桑后，我们何因何故寂寞如初却宁愿形同陌路？
96. In our youth, why did we dance together because of someone, love, or just loneliness? After going through the vicissitudes of life, why do we still feel lonely as before but prefer to be strangers?

97.相爱时，我们明明两个人，却为何感觉只是独自一人？分开后，明明只是独自一人，却为何依然解脱不了两个人？感情的寂寞，大概在于：爱和解脱——都无法彻底。
97. When we are in love, why do we feel like we are alone even though we are two people? After breaking up, why can’t we still break free from the two people even though we are alone? The loneliness of emotions probably lies in the fact that neither love nor release can be thorough.

98.时间能够证实爱情，也能够把爱推翻。没有一种悲伤是不能被时间减轻的。假如时间不可以令你健忘那些不该记住的人，我们失去的岁月又有什么意义？假如所有的悲哀、痛苦、失败都是假的，那该多好？可惜，世上有良多假情假义，自己的伤心欲绝、痛苦难过、悲哀惆怅、歇斯底里，等等。却偏偏老是真的。
98. Time can prove love, but it can also overturn it. There is no sadness that cannot be alleviated by time. If time cannot make you forget those who should not be remembered, what is the meaning of the years we have lost? If all the sadness, pain, and failure were fake, wouldn’t that be great? Unfortunately, there is a lot of false love and false loyalty in the world, while our heartbreak, pain, sorrow, and hysteria are always real.

99.你走的太急，我开始怀疑，曾经你是否来过。假如只是幻觉，那为何情节如斯清楚？走了离开~没有肉痛，只是遗憾。我徐徐明白，挽留没有用。于是我给能给你的自由，于是我……就变成了你的无所谓。
99. You left too quickly, and I began to doubt if you had ever been here. If it was just an illusion, why are the details so clear? You’re gone, left, without any pain, just regret. I slowly realized that it’s useless to hold on. So I give you the freedom I can offer, and I… become your indifference.

100.人生像攀登一座山，而找山寻路，却是一种学习的过程，应当在这过程中，学习笃定、冷静，学习如何从慌乱中找到生机。
100. Life is like climbing a mountain, and finding the mountain and the path is a learning process. We should learn determination and calmness in this process, and learn how to find hope in chaos.

101.有时候,很迷茫的去看前方,明明知道那片海没有你在,却还要固执的踏上火车去追逐那个有你不了解的爱,害怕老是真实的存在,出色的孤单老是陪伴着我们终究该明白,不能再在原地徘徊,不能再固执的守着不会归来的,不能再挣扎着看着你的不出色。
101. Sometimes, when I look ahead in confusion, I know that the sea is not there for you, but I still stubbornly take the train to chase the love you don’t understand. Fear is always real, and brilliant loneliness always accompanies us. We should finally understand that we can’t linger in the same place, can’t stubbornly wait for what will never return, and can’t struggle to watch your mediocrity.

102.假如真相是种伤害，请选择假话。假如假话是一种伤害，请选择沈默。假如沈默是一种伤害，请选择离开。
102. If the truth is a kind of hurt, choose a lie. If a lie is a kind of hurt, choose silence. If silence is a kind of hurt, choose to leave.

103.少年的时候，我疯狂的喜欢，带你走这三个字。现在，你再也不会率性的让任何人带你走。由于我与你学会了，自己走。
103. When I was young, I was crazy about the words “take you away.” Now, you will never let anyone take you away casually. Because I have learned with you, to go on your own.

104.旋转木马是最残忍的游戏，彼此追逐却有永恒的间隔。
104. The carousel is the most cruel game, chasing each other but with an eternal gap.

106.邂逅的瞬间，我站在你的眼前，只是个目生人。是浮华的化妆舞会，散场以后，一个落寞而黯淡的我，是烟花一样虚空的锦绣。喜欢这样的文字，把自己沉在一个最卑微的姿态里，不需要任何人的理会，独自一个人在角落里笑着哭泣，不需要谁再来打搅属于我的宁静糊口。
106. At the moment of our encounter, I stood in front of you, just a stranger. It was a flashy masquerade ball, and after it was over, I was a lonely and dim person, like a fireworks show, empty and beautiful. I like such words, immersing myself in the most humble posture, not needing anyone’s attention, laughing and crying alone in the corner, without anyone disturbing my peaceful life.

107.夕阳西下,是我最想念的时候,对着你在的那个城市,说了一声:我想你,不知道,你是否听得到……
107. As the sun sets, it is the time when I miss you the most. Facing the city where you are, I say: “I miss you.” I don’t know if you can hear it…

108.那个她打电话来问：”你好么？”你稀松寻常的回答：”我很好。”实在你还爱着她，你一点也不好。男人伪装坚强，只是害怕女人会发现他软弱。女人伪装幸福，只是害怕男人发现她伤心。
108. She called and asked, “Are you okay?” You casually answered, “I’m fine.” In fact, you still love her, and you are not fine at all. Men pretend to be strong, just afraid that women will find their weakness. Women pretend to be happy, just afraid that men will find their sadness.

109.男人什么时候最帅？在他说不爱你的时候，这份魅力，最具毒性，小心为是！
109. When are men the most handsome? When they say they don’t love you, this charm is the most toxic, be careful!

110.这个微笑，用尽我痛苦悲伤的力气;这回释然，用尽我铭记的场地;这场离别，用尽我去爱你的勇气;这次我真的会哭泣，用尽我爱你的表情;由于这——是最后一次爱你。
110. This smile, using up all my pain and sadness; this relief, using up all the places I remember; this farewell, using up all the courage to love you; this time, I will really cry, using up all the expressions of my love for you; because this - is the last time I will love you.
张小娴经典爱情语录，张小娴经典语句
Zhang Xiaoxian’s classic love quotes, Zhang Xiaoxian’s classic sentences

1.喜欢一个人和不喜欢一个人，都可以是因为同一些理由。——张小娴《雪地里的蜗牛奄列》
1. Liking or not liking someone can be for the same reasons. - Zhang Xiaoxian, “The Snail in the Snow”

2.无论你有多好，总会有不珍惜你的人；幸好，到了最后，所有不珍惜的人，都会成为过去。——张小娴
2. No matter how good you are, there will always be people who don’t cherish you; fortunately, in the end, all those who don’t cherish will become the past. - Zhang Xiaoxian

3.狗不会瘦，因爲它不会思念。人会瘦，因爲他思念着别人。人总是被思念折磨，在思念里做一头可怜的流浪狗。——张小娴
3. Dogs do not become thin because they do not miss anyone. People become thin because they miss others. People are always tormented by missing, and in missing, they become a pitiful stray dog. —— Zhang Xiaoxian

4.同一个人，是没法给你相同的痛苦的。当他重复地伤害你，那个伤口已经习惯了，感觉已经麻木了，无论在给他伤害多少次，也远远不如第一次受的伤那麽痛了。——张小娴
4. The same person cannot give you the same pain. When he repeatedly hurts you, the wound has already become accustomed to it, and the feeling has become numb. No matter how many times he hurts you again, it is far from as painful as the first time. —— Zhang Xiaoxian

5.情话是偶然兑现的谎言。——张小娴《面包树上的女人》
5. Love words are lies that happen to come true occasionally. —— Zhang Xiaoxian, “Women on the Bread Tree”

6.终有一天，我们会接受人生所有的无常聚散，就像我们终于接受自己老去的事实。——张小娴
6. One day, we will accept all the impermanence and gatherings in life, just as we finally accept the fact that we grow old. —— Zhang Xiaoxian

7.别太把自己当回事儿，其实没多少人在意你怎么样，我们都是一些笑话，有时丰富了别人的人生，有时别人丰富了我们的人生。——张小娴
7. Don’t take yourself too seriously, not many people care about how you are. We are all some jokes, sometimes enriching other people’s lives, sometimes others enrich our lives. —— Zhang Xiaoxian

8.爱情，有时候，是一件令人沉沦的事情，所谓理智和决心，不过是可笑的自我安慰的说话。爱情从来都是一种束缚，追求爱情并不等于追求自由。自由可贵，我们用这最宝贵的东西换取爱情。因为爱一个人，明知会失去自由，也甘愿作出承诺。——张小娴
8. Love, sometimes, is a matter of indulgence. So-called reason and determination are just ridiculous self-consoling words. Love has always been a kind of bondage. Pursuing love does not mean pursuing freedom. Freedom is precious, and we exchange this most valuable thing for love. Because loving someone, knowing that freedom will be lost, we are still willing to make promises. —— Zhang Xiaoxian

9.你的心是我的海角和天涯，我不能去得更远，我们此生共赴天涯海角，不是游走半个地球，而是人间相伴。——张小娴
9. Your heart is my cape and horizon; I cannot go any further. In this life, we go to the cape and horizon together, not wandering around the world, but accompanying each other in the world. —— Zhang Xiaoxian

10.当你十八岁的时候，这一切都很美好；当你二十岁，你仍然相信我们那些共同的梦想会实现的；当你二十四岁，你才知道，人生还有很多可能。——张小娴《雪地里的蜗牛奄列》
10. When you are 18, everything is beautiful; when you are 20, you still believe that our shared dreams will come true; when you are 24, you realize that there are many possibilities in life. —— Zhang Xiaoxian, “The Snail in the Snow”

11.孤独绝对是一种修行，而爱情却未必。——张小娴
11. Loneliness is definitely a kind of practice, while love may not be. —— Zhang Xiaoxian

12.有些思念，怎么也放不下；有些爱，怎么也断不了；有些再遇，怎么也潇洒不来。人生的各种羁绊，不都是这样吗？斩断旧的，又有新的。——张小娴
12. Some missing, no matter how hard you try, cannot be let go; some love, no matter how hard you try, cannot be broken; some reunions, no matter how hard you try, cannot be carefree. Aren’t all the fetters in life like this? Cutting off the old ones, and new ones emerge. —— Zhang Xiaoxian

13.不要挥霍爱情，爱是会耗尽的。——张小娴《那年的梦想》
13. Do not squander love, for love can be exhausted. —— Zhang Xiaoxian, “The Dreams of That Year”

14.要想忘记一段感情，方法永远只有一个，那就是：时间和新欢——张小娴
14. To forget a relationship, there is always only one way, and that is: time and new love. —— Zhang Xiaoxian

15.爱情从来就不是把两颗心赤裸裸地放在天平上称重量，你爱的人也爱你，就是公平。你爱的人没你爱他那么爱你，这也是公平，因为是你自己的选择——张小娴
15. Love has never been about placing two naked hearts on a scale to weigh their weight. If the person you love loves you back, that is fair. If the person you love doesn’t love you as much as you love them, that is also fair, because it is your own choice. —— Zhang Xiaoxian

16.有了感情，便有负担——张小娴《永不永不说再见》
16. With feelings, there are burdens. —— Zhang Xiaoxian, “Never Say Goodbye”

17.女人喜欢把自己的贞操当做礼物送给男人。——张小娴《面包树上的女人》
17. Women like to give their chastity as a gift to men. —— Zhang Xiaoxian, “Women on the Bread Tree”

18.创伤比爱刻骨铭心。——张小娴《面包树上的女人》
18. Trauma is more unforgettable than love. —— Zhang Xiaoxian, “Women on the Bread Tree”

19.不管你爱过多少人，不管你爱得多么痛苦或快乐，最后你不是学会了怎样恋爱，而是学会了怎样去爱自己！——张小娴
19. No matter how many people you have loved, no matter how painful or happy your love is, in the end, you don’t learn how to love, but how to love yourself! —— Zhang Xiaoxian

20.只有一天寿命的爱情从来没有机会变坏。——张小娴《面包树上的女人》
20. A love with only one day of life never has the chance to go bad. —— Zhang Xiaoxian, “Women on the Bread Tree”

21.人总害怕所有的热爱终究会归于平静；可是，平静不好吗？轰烈容易，平静难得。诚然，登泰山而小天下，然而，登上绝顶，不也是为了静静地守候那一轮初昇的旭日吗？从波澜壮阔的激情到相濡以沫的平静，要走过多少的路？又有多少人可以安然过渡？能够与你一起归于平静，始终相守，是多么的幸福？——张小娴
21. People always fear that all passions will eventually return to calm; but is calmness not good? It’s easy to be passionate, yet hard to be calm. Indeed, standing on Mount Tai makes one feel small in the face of the world; however, isn’t reaching the summit also for the sake of quietly waiting for the rising sun? How much distance must one travel from the magnificent passion to the peaceful companionship? And how many people can transition peacefully? To be able to return to calmness with you and stay together forever is such a blessing. - Zhang Xiaoxian

22.张小娴经典语录，我只爱爱我的人，不爱我的人我不知道怎么去爱他——张小娴
22. Zhang Xiaoxian’s classic quote: I only love those who love me; I don’t know how to love those who don’t love me. - Zhang Xiaoxian

23.就在某个瞬间，爱过的人、恨过的人、感动的时刻、那些细碎的悲伤、汹涌的泪水与欢笑，一一重回心头，往事如昨，突然明白了时间的匆忙，好想有一个人，朋友或者恋人，他一直都在，如你般沧桑，你也就可以跟他说：”你看！我们都老起来了。”——张小娴
23. In a moment, the people we’ve loved, the people we’ve hated, the touching moments, those tiny sorrows, the surging tears and laughter, all come back to our minds. The past seems like yesterday, and suddenly we understand the haste of time. How nice it would be to have someone, a friend or a lover, who has always been there, as沧桑 (weather-beaten) as you, so you could say to them, “Look! We’ve all grown old together.” - Zhang Xiaoxian

25.爱一个人的时候，是没有理智可言的，也只能对其他人无情。——张小娴《那年的梦想》
25. When you love someone, there is no rationality to speak of, and one can only be ruthless to others. - Zhang Xiaoxian, “The Dreams of That Year”

26.大部分的东西都有期限。而所谓无限，也只能到某种程度。为一个人受苦，只能受苦到某种程度。然后，你会醒悟，不再蹉跎岁月。思念一个人，只能思念到某种程度。当思念长久地落空，你早晚会绝望。无论多么爱一个人，也只能爱到某种程度。——张小娴《某种程度》
26. Most things have an expiration date. And what is called infinity can only go to a certain extent. Suffering for someone can only go to a certain extent. Then, you will awaken and no longer waste time. Missing someone can only go to a certain extent. When your longing falls empty for a long time, you will eventually despair. No matter how much you love someone, you can only love them to a certain extent. - Zhang Xiaoxian, “To a Certain Extent”

27.寂寞最霸道，可以成为伤害任何人的借口。——张小娴《面包树上的女人》
27. Loneliness is the most domineering, as it can become an excuse to hurt anyone. - Zhang Xiaoxian, “The Woman on the Bread Tree”

28.张小娴经典语录，爱情是一百年的孤独，直到遇上那个矢志不渝的守护你的人，那一刻，所有苦涩的孤独，都有了归途。——张小娴《我终究是爱你的》
28. Zhang Xiaoxian’s classic quote: Love is a hundred years of solitude until you meet the one who is determined to protect you forever. At that moment, all the bitter loneliness has a destination. - Zhang Xiaoxian, “I Still Love You After All”

29.女人敢走，是看准了男人会回头。男人头也不回，是看准了女人不敢走。——张小娴《拥抱》
29. Women dare to leave because they are sure men will come back. Men walk away without looking back because they are sure women dare not leave. - Zhang Xiaoxian, “Embrace”

30.想要忘记一段感情，方法永远只有一个：时间和新欢。要是时间和新欢也不能让你忘记一段感情，原因只有一个：时间不够长，新欢不够好。——张小娴
30. To forget a relationship, there is only one method: time and a new love. If time and a new love cannot help you forget a relationship, there is only one reason: the time is not long enough, and the new love is not good enough. - Zhang Xiaoxian

31.一个人最大的缺点，不是自私、多情、野蛮、任性，而是偏执地爱一个不爱自己的人。——张小娴《不如你送我一场春雨》
31. A person’s biggest flaw is not selfishness, promiscuity, barbarism, or willfulness, but being stubbornly in love with someone who does not love them. - Zhang Xiaoxian, “Why Don’t You Give Me a Spring Rain”

32.张小娴经典语录，男人对女人的伤害，不一定是他爱上了别人，而是他在她有所期待的时候让她失望，在她脆弱的时候没有扶她一把。——张小娴
32. Zhang Xiaoxian’s classic quote: A man’s hurt to a woman is not necessarily because he has fallen in love with someone else, but because he disappoints her when she has expectations and fails to support her when she is vulnerable. - Zhang Xiaoxian

33.当你想念一个人的时候，尽情去想念吧，也许有一天，你再也不会如此想念他了。到了那一天，你会想念曾经那么想念一个人的滋味。当你爱一个人的时候，尽情去爱吧，也让他知道你是如此爱他。也许有一天，当你长大了，受过太多的伤，失望太多，思虑也多了，你再也不会那么炽烈地爱一个人。——张小娴
33. When you miss someone, miss them wholeheartedly; maybe one day, you will no longer miss them like this. On that day, you will miss the feeling of missing someone so much. When you love someone, love them wholeheartedly and let them know how much you love them. Maybe one day, when you have grown up, been hurt too many times, and have too many disappointments and thoughts, you will no longer be able to love someone so passionately. - Zhang Xiaoxian

34.我从来不知道我是怎么样的一个女子，我也不见得想知道。人为什么要那么了解自己啊？——张小娴《想念》
34. I never knew what kind of woman I was, and I don’t necessarily want to know. Why do people need to understand themselves so much? - Zhang Xiaoxian, “Missing”

35.在对的时间，遇见对的人，是一种幸福，在对的时间，遇见错的人，是一种悲伤，在错的时间，遇见对的人，是一声叹息，在错的时间，遇见错的人，是一种无奈。——张小娴
35. Meeting the right person at the right time is a happiness; meeting the wrong person at the right time is a sorrow; meeting the right person at the wrong time is a sigh; meeting the wrong person at the wrong time is helplessness. —— Zhang Xiaoxian

36.我把青春投资在他身上，他成功了，也许会爱上另一个女人。他失败了，我一无所有。爱情太不可靠了，只有事业才是一份耕耘一份收获的，我想有自己的事业。——张小娴《面包树上的女人》
36. I invested my youth in him, and if he succeeds, he might fall in love with another woman. If he fails, I have nothing. Love is too unreliable; only career is a reward for hard work. I want to have my own career. —— Zhang Xiaoxian, “The Woman on the Bread Tree”

37.张小娴经典语录，每一条路的尽头，都有好景致。如果觉得不够好，那只是还没有走到终点。对待生活，别太急躁，答案总会在某一刻揭晓。在此之前能做的，就只有“等待”。我们需要给时间，一点宣布答案的时间。——张小娴
37. Zhang Xiaoxian’s classic quotes: At the end of every road, there is a beautiful scenery. If it’s not good enough, it’s just that we haven’t reached the end yet. Treat life with patience; the answer will be revealed at some moment. What we can do before that is just “wait.” We need to give time a chance to announce the answer. —— Zhang Xiaoxian

38.光阴把曾经的苦涩化作日后的笑谈，岁月也抚平了青春的躁动。也许会有一个老是跟你过不去你却很想跟他过下去的人；但是，幸好，没有过不去的事情。——张小娴
38. Time turns the bitterness of the past into laughter in the future, and the years have smoothed the restlessness of youth. Maybe there is someone who always has a problem with you, but you still want to be with him; fortunately, there are no insurmountable things. —— Zhang Xiaoxian

39.小时候，大人为什么要让我们相信世上有魔法呢？你知道吗，后来当我们发现这一切都不是真的，我们多么的失望？这些谎言影响了我们一辈子。终其一生，当我们遭遇不如意时，我们仍然期待神仙带着奇迹降临，虽然我们明知道不可能。——张小娴《永不永不说再见》
39. When we were young, why did adults make us believe there was magic in the world? You know, when we later discovered that it was all untrue, how disappointed we were? These lies affected us for a lifetime. Throughout our lives, when we encounter setbacks, we still expect miracles from the gods, even though we know it’s impossible. —— Zhang Xiaoxian, “Never Say Goodbye”

40.纵使分离，此后各有怀抱。但终究曾是那个陪我横渡时间之河的人。他在我心中，翻起过波澜，永不会流逝。——张小娴《我爱过，所以我活过》
40. Even if we are separated and have different lives, he will always be the one who accompanied me across the river of time. He has stirred up waves in my heart, and will never fade away. —— Zhang Xiaoxian, “I Lived Because I Loved”

41.最好的丈夫，是让妻子享尽荣华富贵的丈夫。最好的情人是随传随到，而且每天令我有惊喜。——张小娴
41. The best husband is one who provides his wife with wealth and honor. The best lover is the one who is always available and brings surprises every day. —— Zhang Xiaoxian

42.一个是无法触摸的男人，一个脚踏实地。一个被你伤害，为你受苦，另一个让你伤心。一个只适宜作情人，另一个却可以长相厮守。一个是火，燃烧生命，一个是水，滋养生命。女人可以没有火，却不能没有水。——张小娴《三月里的幸福饼》
42. One is an untouchable man, the other is down-to-earth. One is hurt by you and suffers for you, while the other makes you sad. One is suitable for a lover, the other can be together for a long time. One is fire, burning life; the other is water, nourishing life. A woman can do without fire, but not without water. —— Zhang Xiaoxian, “Happiness in March”

43.你本来很爱一个人，可是，当所有的失望累积到了一个临界点，连爱也再提不起劲了——张小娴
43. You used to love someone very much, but when all the disappointments accumulate to a critical point, even love can no longer be mustered. —— Zhang Xiaoxian

44.我爱过，所以我活过。——张小娴《我爱过，所以我活过》
44. I have loved, so I have lived. —— Zhang Xiaoxian, “I Lived Because I Loved”

45.相遇和相爱之前，我们都要经历一个过程。时间也是觉醒。曾经解不开的奥秘，曾经想不通的事情，曾经不懂的心，后来有一天，终于明白了。——张小娴《谢谢你离开我》
45. Before meeting and falling in love, we all have to go through a process. Time is also an awakening. The mysteries that once couldn’t be solved, the things we couldn’t understand, the hearts we didn’t comprehend, one day, finally become clear. —— Zhang Xiaoxian, “Thank You for Leaving Me”

46.和所爱的人一起终老，一同凋零，就是天荒地老。爱情无法经营，我们只能经营自己。爱来的时候，好好珍惜，就是最好的”经营”。——张小娴
46. Growing old together with the one we love, withering together, is the end of time. Love cannot be managed; we can only manage ourselves. Cherish love when it comes, which is the best “management.” —— Zhang Xiaoxian

47.爱情，就是彼此永不止息的思念，是永远放不下的牵挂，是心甘情愿的牵绊。——张小娴《想念》
47. Love is the endless longing for each other, the constant concern that can never be put down, and the willingness to be tied down. —— Zhang Xiaoxian, “Missing”

48.这一片良辰美景，总会有尽头。——张小娴《我的爱如此麻辣》
48. This beautiful time and scenery will eventually come to an end. —— Zhang Xiaoxian, “My Love is So Spicy”

49.时间使人忘记梦想、原则和朋友，偏偏有些事情我们又记得很清楚，我们记得自己曾经有梦想、有原则和有朋友。——张小娴
49. Time makes people forget their dreams, principles, and friends, yet there are some things we remember very clearly, like the fact that we once had dreams, principles, and friends. —— Zhang Xiaoxian

50.这个世界上，一个人和另一个人相遇，已是一场难求的机遇。遇到了的，不一定相爱。相爱了的，不一定能相守。所以，既然爱了，就好好爱吧。若是年轻，就大胆地爱吧。——张小娴
50. In this world, for one person to meet another is already a rare opportunity. Those who meet may not fall in love. Those who fall in love may not be able to stay together. So, if you love, love well. If you are young, love boldly. —— Zhang Xiaoxian

51.有的幸福会荒芜，有的幸福始终温暖。人生不就是这样吗？有的人你会一直喜欢，有的人你渐渐不再喜欢了。有的爱始终相守，有的爱无法善终。一切一切，都在告诉你尘世间的无常变幻与不可把握。——张小娴
51. Some happiness withers away, while some remains warm forever. Isn’t that what life is like? Some people you will always like, while others you gradually stop liking. Some love remains steadfast, while some cannot end well. Everything is telling you about the impermanence and unpredictability of the world. —— Zhang Xiaoxian

52.”有些爱，当时无论如何放不开，然后有一天，它终究消逝了。回头再看，已经说不清当时是放不开还是因为捨不得，是不甘心，还是那时候到底太年轻了。有多少爱，而今只道是寻常，当时却爱得死去活来。——张小娴”
52. “Some love, no matter how hard it was to let go at the time, will eventually disappear one day. Looking back, it’s hard to say whether it was because we couldn’t let go, or because we were unwilling to give up, or because we were too young at the time. How much love, now seems ordinary, was once a matter of life and death.” —— Zhang Xiaoxian

53.思念一个人，只能思念到某种程度。当思念长久地落空，你早晚会绝望。无论多么爱一个人，也只能爱到某种程度。——张小娴《某种程度》
53. Missing someone can only go to a certain extent. When the longing is unfulfilled for a long time, you will eventually despair. No matter how much you love someone, you can only love them to a certain extent. —— Zhang Xiaoxian “To a Certain Extent”

54.在情爱的世界里，从来没有相同的痛苦和相同的快乐。上帝既仁慈也残忍。痛苦和快乐，都会随着岁月变得愈来愈轻盈，不像从前那么重要了。——张小娴《永不永不说再见》
54. In the world of love, there are never the same pains and joys. God is both merciful and cruel. Pain and happiness will become lighter with time, not as important as they once were. —— Zhang Xiaoxian “Never Say Goodbye”

55.如果我不爱你，我就不会思念你，我就不会妒忌你身边的异性，我也不会失去自信心和斗志，我更不会痛苦。如果我能够不爱你，那该多好。——张小娴
55. If I didn’t love you, I wouldn’t miss you, I wouldn’t be jealous of the opposite sex around you, I wouldn’t lose my confidence and motivation, and I wouldn’t suffer. How great it would be if I could not love you. —— Zhang Xiaoxian

56.没有回忆的人生，未免苍白了一点。——张小娴《我们都是丑小鸭》
56. A life without memories is a little too pale. —— Zhang Xiaoxian “We Are All Ugly Ducks”

57.曾经以为，伤心是会流很多眼泪的，原来，真正的伤心，是流不出一滴眼泪。什么事情都会过去，我们是这样活过来的。——张小娴
57. I once thought that being sad meant shedding many tears, but it turns out that true sadness is when not a single tear can be shed. Everything will pass, and that’s how we survive. —— Zhang Xiaoxian

58.假如没有遇上你，我会不会有另一种人生？不管有没有结果，我还是宁愿与你相逢。——张小娴
58. If I hadn’t met you, would I have a different life? Regardless of the outcome, I would still prefer to have met you. —— Zhang Xiaoxian

59.宁愿高傲地发霉，也不要委屈地恋爱。——张小娴《流浪的面包树》
59. I would rather be arrogantly moldy than be in a grievance-filled love. —— Zhang Xiaoxian “The Wandering Breadfruit Tree”

60.人所有的卑微、寒碜、烦恼和痛苦，所有的委屈和眼泪，是不是都因为有求？——张小娴
60. Are all the humiliation, embarrassment, troubles, and pain in life, all the grievances and tears, due to our desires? —— Zhang Xiaoxian

61.情之所钟有可能是独具慧眼也有可能是瞎了眼。——张小娴
61. Love can be a matter of keen insight or blind eyes. —— Zhang Xiaoxian

62.极端的人，还是比较快乐的，他们才没有那么多的心理挣扎。——张小娴《一个人的两个朋友》
62. Extreme people are relatively happier, for they don’t have so many inner struggles. —— Zhang Xiaoxian “Two Friends of One Person”

63.张小娴经典语录，谈一场不分手的恋爱，说好了不分手就不分手，一直谈到地老天荒，那该多好啊！可是，有些爱情，终究败给了时间，无所依归。——张小娴
63. Zhang Xiaoxian’s classic quote: To be in a relationship that never breaks up, to promise not to part and never do, to talk about love until the end of time, how wonderful that would be! However, some love stories eventually lose to time and have nowhere to return. —— Zhang Xiaoxian

64.爱情里的所有爱与恨，都让我们更认识自己和了解自己，然后，终有一天，我们或许就能看淡那些曾经纠结的爱恨，学会珍惜身边的一份深情，希望与这份深情永不永不说再见。——张小娴
64. All the love and hate in love help us understand ourselves better, and then, one day, we may be able to let go of those once entangled emotions, learn to cherish the deep love around us, and hope to never ever say goodbye to it. —— Zhang Xiaoxian

65.我突然感到莫名的愤怒，我无法再勉强自己，也无力为爱情做些什么。我会在某一分钟内很爱一个女人，但这种感觉未必会持续。-原来被人思念比思念别人快乐。朝夕相对，多么绚烂的爱情也会变得平淡。每天晚上等男人回来，却不知道他会不会回来的女人。两年来，我所付出的爱，仍然无法满足他，他并不需要象我这样一个女人。——张小娴《面包树上的女人》
65. I suddenly felt an inexplicable anger. I could no longer force myself or do anything for love. I could love a woman deeply in a minute, but that feeling might not last. - It turns out that being missed by someone is happier than missing someone else. Facing each other day and night, how brilliant a love story can become plain and ordinary. The woman who waits for her man to come back every night, not knowing if he will return or not. For two years, the love I’ve given has not been enough for him; he doesn’t need a woman like me. - Zhang Xiaoxian “The Woman on the Bread Tree”

66.爱情本来就是虚妄的，它曾经有多热烈，也就有多寂寞。(张小娴)——张小娴
66. Love is inherently illusory; it was once passionate, and now it is just as lonely. (Zhang Xiaoxian) - Zhang Xiaoxian

67.他们只是在人生的某段时光里相遇，如同一抹油彩留在画布上，那只是一张画布的其中一片色彩罢了。——张小娴《那年的梦想》
67. They met during a certain period of their lives, like a smear of paint left on a canvas, just one of the many colors on the canvas. - Zhang Xiaoxian “The Dream of That Year”

68.所有的深情，原来是由许多细碎的时光一一串成的，就像一串亮着迷蒙微光的小灯泡，静静地俯伏在脚边，照亮着我们彼此相依相伴的身影。——张小娴《谢谢你离开我》
68. All the deep emotions are originally made up of many small moments, like a string of dimly glowing light bulbs, quietly lying at our feet, illuminating our intertwined and accompanying figures. - Zhang Xiaoxian “Thank You for Leaving Me”

69.叶散的时候，明白欢聚；花谢的时候，明白青春。——张小娴《三月里的幸福饼》
69. When the leaves scatter, we understand the joy of gathering; when the flowers wither, we understand youth. - Zhang Xiaoxian “The Happiness Cake in March”

70.由始至终，我们所期待的爱情，并不是一起默默过日子，直至面目模糊；而是像流转的四季，每一个微妙的变化都充满喜悦。——张小娴
70. From beginning to end, the love we expect is not to live together silently until our faces become blurred; instead, it is like the changing seasons, where every subtle change is filled with joy. - Zhang Xiaoxian

71.伤心难过的夜晚，你拨通他的电话，不用解释，只说：我很难受，我很想哭。然后对着话筒大哭。他不说话，静静地听着你哭。等你哭累了，只要说一声：我去睡了哦。明天醒来，你忘了给他电话，他不会生你的气，只会担心你，想知道你今天过得好不好。但愿你也有一个这样的好朋友，陪你笑也陪你哭。——张小娴
71. On a sad and painful night, you call him, without explanation, just say: I feel very bad, I want to cry. Then cry into the microphone. He doesn’t speak, just listens quietly to your crying. When you’re tired of crying, just say: I’m going to sleep now. When you wake up tomorrow, if you forget to call him, he won’t be angry with you, only worried about you and wanting to know how your day went. I hope you have such a good friend who accompanies you through laughter and tears. - Zhang Xiaoxian

72.他毫无方寸地思念着她——张小娴《流波上的舞》
72. He misses her without any restraint. - Zhang Xiaoxian “The Dance on the Flowing Waves”

73.当爱情缺席的时候，你要努力些，努力工作，努力让自己进步。男人有了事业，便有女人。女人有了事业，即便没有爱情，至少还有钱。——张小娴
73. When love is absent, you must work harder, work hard, and strive to make progress. When a man has a career, he will have a woman. When a woman has a career, even if there is no love, at least she still has money. - Zhang Xiaoxian

74.谈一场不分手的恋爱，说好了不分手就不分手，一直谈到地老天荒，那该多好啊！可是，有些爱情。终究败给了时间，无所依归。原来爱情不是去爱一个完美的人，而是去接受他和我一样，是个不完美的人。我们都不完美，都有太多的缺点；然而，也正是这些不完美使我心怀感激，伸出手去抚爱那个看到我所有缺点却依然如此爱我、甘愿和我相依相伴的人。——张小娴
74. To have a relationship that never breaks up, to promise not to break up and never do so, to talk about love until the end of time, that would be wonderful! However, some love stories ultimately lose to time and have nowhere to return. It turns out that love is not about loving a perfect person, but accepting that he and I are both imperfect. We are all flawed, with too many shortcomings; yet, it is these imperfections that make me grateful, reaching out to touch and love the person who sees all my flaws but still loves me so much, willing to accompany me through thick and thin. - Zhang Xiaoxian

75.我像想念一碗美味的云吞面那样想念你。为了心中那最美好的滋味，我宁愿得不到，也不愿将就，随便吃一碗不够水平的云吞面。我像想念一个烧鱼头那样想念你。烧鱼头是那么容易做的一道菜，三十分钟的等待，是多么幸福的时光？就像等待你的出现。我像想念一碗热汤那样想你念你。什么也不想吃，只想得到一碗汤的拥抱。能在最想念的时候喝到一口汤，就是很简单的幸福。——张小娴《拥抱》
75. I miss you like I miss a bowl of delicious wonton noodles. For the best taste in my heart, I would rather not have it than settle for a subpar wonton noodles. I miss you like I miss a braised fish head. Braised fish head is such an easy dish to make, and the 30 minutes of waiting is such a happy time? Just like waiting for your appearance. I miss you like I miss a bowl of hot soup. I don’t want to eat anything else, just want the embrace of a bowl of soup. Being able to drink a sip of soup when I miss it the most is such a simple happiness. - Zhang Xiaoxian, “Embrace”

76.爱情，有时候，是一件令人沉沦的事，所谓的理智和决心，不过是可笑的自我安慰的话——张小娴《三个ACUP的女人》
76. Love, sometimes, is a matter that makes people sink, and so-called reason and determination are just ridiculous self-consoling words. - Zhang Xiaoxian, “Three ACUP Women”

77.想念，在时光中穿梭，一丝丝地把心抽紧……原来，想念是糖，甜而忧伤。——张小娴《想念》
77. Missing, shuttling through time, tightens the heart bit by bit… It turns out that missing is sugar, sweet and melancholic. - Zhang Xiaoxian, “Missing”

78.我们只是喜欢一个深情的自己。我可以这么爱一个人，我是多么深情。分手时，我们伤心，不是为一段感情伤心，而是怜悯自己。——张小娴
78. We just like a passionate ourselves. I can love someone so much, how passionate I am. When breaking up, we are sad, not for a relationship, but for pitying ourselves. - Zhang Xiaoxian

79.爱情不是阳光、空气和水。它不是必需品。然而，它就像夜空上绚烂的烟花。烟花不是必需品，每个人却都想看一回烟花。一天，当一个人看过了够多的烟花，也已经看出了烟花的绚烂只是一瞬间，然后就散落，甚至是虚幻的、骗人的，他幽幽地转过身去，把那片寂寞的天空遗落在背后，从此不再那么想看烟花了，但他心中的那片天空毕竟是点亮过的。他邂逅过烟花。——张小娴《谢谢你离开我》
79. Love is not sunlight, air, and water. It is not a necessity. However, it is like the gorgeous fireworks in the night sky. Fireworks are not necessities, but everyone wants to see them once. One day, when someone has seen enough fireworks and realized that their splendor is just an instant, and then they scatter, even illusory and deceptive, he quietly turns away, leaving that lonely sky behind, and no longer wants to see fireworks. But the sky in his heart has been lit up. He has encountered fireworks. - Zhang Xiaoxian, “Thank You for Leaving Me”

80.我喜欢他的时候，他是骄傲的，所以，他可以对你差劲——张小娴
80. When I liked him, he was proud, so he could treat you poorly. - Zhang Xiaoxian

81.爱情是一场瘟疫，把他杀个片甲不留。——张小娴《离别曲》
81. Love is a plague that leaves him with no armor. - Zhang Xiaoxian, “Farewell Song”

82.每个女人心中，大抵都有一个被压抑了的自我，等待释放。她惟在夜间释放自己。无法释放的，是她对一个男人无边无际的爱慕。——张小娴《离别曲》
82. In every woman’s heart, there is probably a suppressed self, waiting to be released. She only releases herself at night. What cannot be released is her boundless admiration for a man. - Zhang Xiaoxian, “Farewell Song”

83.本来就没有，原本也不是属于我的……这么想的时候，放下，就容易得多了。如此这般并非自欺，而是觉悟，世间一切相本来就是如此，你执着只是因为你还不懂。——张小娴
83. When you think that there was nothing originally and it did not belong to me… it becomes much easier to let go. This is not self-deception, but enlightenment. All worldly appearances are like this; you cling to them only because you don’t understand yet. - Zhang Xiaoxian

84.被爱的人，才有资格懒惰。——张小娴《想念》
84. Only those who are loved have the qualification to be lazy. - Zhang Xiaoxian, “Missing”

85.爱，从来就是一件千回百转的事。——张小娴《我们都是丑小鸭》
85. Love has always been a matter of twists and turns. - Zhang Xiaoxian, “We Are All Ugly Ducks”

86.如果没法忘记他，就不要忘记就好了。真正的忘记，是不需要努力的。——张小娴
86. If you can’t forget him, just don’t forget. True forgetting doesn’t require effort. - Zhang Xiaoxian

87.一个人的生命，一定比他的痛苦长久些——张小娴《雪地里的蜗牛奄列》
87. A person’s life must be longer than his pain. - Zhang Xiaoxian, “The Snail in the Snow”

88.”人若能够耐得住寂寞，就能够少受许多痛苦和少出许多洋相。许多人的痛苦，都是因为不甘寂寞。——张小娴”
88. “If one can endure loneliness, they can avoid much pain and embarrassment. Many people’s pain is due to their unwillingness to be lonely.” - Zhang Xiaoxian

89.有些人是注定要等待别人的，有些人确实注定要被别人等待的。——张小娴《雪地里的蜗牛奄列》
89. Some people are destined to wait for others, while some are destined to be waited for by others. - Zhang Xiaoxian, “The Snail in the Snow”

90.人都爱说平常心，平常心並不是无所谓，而是没有预设的心、没有期待的心。对于爱、幸福、名利、一切美好圆满的东西，不要有期待的心，这样的悟性与智慧，多难啊！虽然期待落空的时候总会失望，期待有时却是多么美好的事情？于是只得承认我世俗了，对你的爱、对那些使我感到幸福的东西，我无法平常心。——张小娴
90. People often talk about having a normal mind, but a normal mind is not about being indifferent; it’s about having no preconceived notions or expectations. For love, happiness, fame, and all the beautiful and fulfilling things in life, don’t have an expecting mind. Such understanding and wisdom are truly difficult to achieve! Although we may feel disappointed when our expectations are not met, sometimes expectations can be such a wonderful thing. So, I must admit that I am worldly, and I cannot have a normal mind for the love I have for you and for those things that make me feel happy.

91.令女人老去的，是男人和爱情。——张小娴《卖海豚的女孩》
91. It is men and love that make women grow old. - Zhang Xiaoxian, “The Girl Who Sold Dolphins”

92.爱情到底是吞噬还是回吐呢？有时候，我想把你吐出来，永不分离。有时候，我却想把你吐出来，还你自由，也还我自由。我不也是曾经想过要把自己心爱的人藏在子宫里，长留在身上吗？爱情，原来是凄美的吞噬。爱情本来就是寻找自己失落的一部份，重新结合，从而找到了完整和填满。爱对方多一点还是被对方爱多一点，从来不是我们选择的。我们所嚮往的爱情和我们所得到的爱情，往往是两回事。——张小娴《面包树上的女人》
92. Is love about devouring or regurgitating? Sometimes, I want to regurgitate you, so we never have to be apart. Other times, I want to regurgitate you, to give you freedom and return it to myself as well. Haven’t I once wanted to keep my beloved in my womb, to keep them close to me forever? Love is, after all, a bittersweet devouring. Love is about finding the lost part of oneself, reuniting, and thus becoming whole and fulfilled. Loving someone more or being loved more by someone is never a choice we make. The love we long for and the love we receive are often two different things. - Zhang Xiaoxian, “The Woman on the Bread Tree”

93.一个男人，会成为一个女人的须眉知己，必然是对她存有一点幻想、一份怜惜，甚至爱情。而女人，最好在知道与不知道之间。——张小娴《禁果之味》
93. A man who becomes a confidant to a woman must have some fantasies, compassion, and even love for her. For a woman, it is best to be somewhere between knowing and not knowing. - Zhang Xiaoxian, “The Taste of Forbidden Fruit”

94.只是希望能有个人，在我说没事的时候，知道我不是真的没事；能有个人，在我强颜欢笑的时候，知道我不是真的开心。——张小娴
94. I just hope there’s someone who knows I’m not really okay when I say I’m fine, and who knows I’m not truly happy when I force a smile. - Zhang Xiaoxian

95.某天起，好像跟你没那么好了，见面少了，电话也少了；孤单的时候，忍住没找你。我亲爱的朋友，并不是你做了什么，而是我的故事变复杂了，有些话不知道从何说起，不如不说；有些秘密只能藏在心底，独自承担。不想对你说谎，更害怕你痛心的责备，于是只好假装忘了你。其实，你一直在我心里——张小娴
95. One day, it seemed like we weren’t as close as before. We met less often, and our phone calls became fewer. When I was lonely, I held back from contacting you. My dear friend, it’s not that you did anything wrong; it’s just that my life has become more complicated, and some words are hard to start; some secrets can only be kept in my heart, to be borne alone. I don’t want to lie to you, and I’m even more afraid of your heartbreaking reproach, so I have to pretend I’ve forgotten you. But in fact, you’ve always been in my heart. - Zhang Xiaoxian

96.一个人自以为刻骨铭心的回忆。别人也许早已经忘记了。——张小娴《流波上的舞》
96. A memory that one person thinks is unforgettable may have already been forgotten by others. - Zhang Xiaoxian, “Dance on the Waves”

97.有一些人，这辈子都不会在一起，但是有一种感觉却可以藏在心里，守一辈子。——张小娴
97. There are some people who will never be together in this life, but there is a feeling that can be hidden in the heart and guarded for a lifetime. - Zhang Xiaoxian

98.如果一个女人无法在一个男人失意的时候留在他身边，她的爱情还值多少分？——张小娴《面包树上的女人》
98. If a woman cannot stay by a man’s side when he is down on his luck, how valuable is her love? - Zhang Xiaoxian, “The Woman on the Bread Tree”

99.爱情太严肃了就不是爱情。——张小娴
99. Love is not love if it is too serious. - Zhang Xiaoxian

100.我喜欢被目送着离开。虽然我还是要孤身上路，但是，请不要把我关在屋外。我来了，而且要走，何不惜取别离时？——张小娴《谢谢你离开我》
100. I like being watched as I leave. Although I still have to go on my own, please don’t lock me out of the house. I came, and I have to go; why not cherish the moment of parting? - Zhang Xiaoxian, “Thank You for Leaving Me”
亦舒经典语录
Yi Shu’s Classic Quotes

1.凡事想别人感激，那是必然要失望的。——亦舒
1. Expecting gratitude from others is bound to lead to disappointment. - Yi Shu

2.对下一辈的生活没有贡献而又企图干涉下一代的生活，是老年人最容易犯的错误。——亦舒
2. Interfering in the lives of the younger generation without contributing to them is the most common mistake made by the elderly. - Yi Shu

3.命运的安排密不透风。——亦舒
3. The arrangements of fate are airtight. - Yi Shu

4.生命从来不是公平的，得到多少，便要靠那个多少做到最好，努力的生活下去。——亦舒
4. Life is never fair; we must make the best of what we have and strive to live on. - Yi Shu

5.甲之蜜糖，乙之砒霜。——亦舒
5. One person’s honey is another person’s poison. - Yi Shu

6.埋头苦干，不理闲事，是一种骄傲，并非退缩。——亦舒
6. Diligent work and ignoring trivial matters is a form of pride, not retreat. ——Yi Shu

7.做人凡事要静；静静地来，静静地去，静静努力，静静收获，切忌喧哗。——亦舒
7. In life, one should always be calm; come quietly, go quietly, work hard quietly, and harvest quietly. Avoid making a fuss. ——Yi Shu

8.失去的东西，其实从来未曾真正地属于你，也不必惋惜。——亦舒
8. What you lose never truly belonged to you in the first place, so there’s no need to feel regretful. ——Yi Shu

9.何必向不值得的人证明什么，生活得更好，乃是为你自己。——亦舒
9. There’s no need to prove anything to those unworthy; living a better life is for yourself. ——Yi Shu

10.好家庭的孩子多数天真得离谱的。——亦舒
10. Children from good families are often incredibly naive. ——Yi Shu

11.如花美眷，也敌不过似水流年。——亦舒
11. Beautiful companions cannot withstand the passage of time. ——Yi Shu

12.不要把丢脸的事放在嘴里咀嚼出味道来，老皮老肉的女人是最最可怕的女人。——亦舒
12. Don’t chew on embarrassing matters; women who dwell on the past are the most terrible. ——Yi Shu

13.失望是不是，不过不要怕，生命中原充满失望。——亦舒
13. Disappointment is inevitable, but don’t be afraid, as life is filled with disappointments. ——Yi Shu

14.不错，是不够的，有人做得更好，略差的便遭淘汰，理所当然。——亦舒
14. Being good is not enough; someone will always do better, and those who are slightly worse will be eliminated, as it should be. ——Yi Shu

15.一个人的眼睛永远出卖他的心事，除非那个人的灵魂已经老得呆滞，生不如死。——亦舒
15. A person’s eyes will always reveal their thoughts, unless their soul has aged to the point of stagnation, making life not worth living. ——Yi Shu

16.建立一个家，总得十年八年，破坏一个家，三五天也就足够。——亦舒
16. Building a family takes eight to ten years, but destroying one takes only three to five days. ——Yi Shu

17.人生忽如寄，抱紧眼前人。——亦舒
17. Life is fleeting; hold tight to those around you. ——Yi Shu

18.物是人非，环境转变太大，唯一相同的是，仍不知，明天的我，何去何从。——亦舒
18. Things change, and people change; the only constant is that we still don’t know where we will go tomorrow. ——Yi Shu

19.最佳的报复不是仇恨，而是打心底发出的冷淡，干嘛花力气去恨一个不相干的人。——亦舒
19. The best revenge is not hatred, but indifference; why waste energy hating someone irrelevant? ——Yi Shu

20.住在五光十色的城市里，没理由沾不上一点缤纷。——亦舒
20. Living in a colorful city, there’s no reason not to be a little more vibrant. ——Yi Shu

21.女孩子若对你宽宏大量，落落大方，那就是表示喜欢得你不够。——亦舒
21. If a girl is magnanimous and generous towards you, it means she doesn’t like you enough. ——Yi Shu

22.世上最奇怪的一种人叫朋友，略得些名利，朋友全来了；略咳嗽一声，朋友又全部散开，宜随缘，不宜花太多精力追求。人贵自立。——亦舒
22. The strangest kind of people in the world are friends; they all come when you gain some fame and fortune, but scatter when you cough. It’s better to let things take their course and not spend too much energy pursuing them. Self-reliance is valuable. ——Yi Shu

23.爱一个人，老觉得他笨，非得处处照顾他不可，而不喜欢一个人的时候，肯定他是聪明伶俐，占尽便宜，不劳任何人操心。——亦舒
23. When you love someone, you always think they are clumsy and need your care everywhere, but when you don’t like someone, you’ll believe they are smart and resourceful, taking advantage of everything without worrying others. ——Yi Shu

24.快乐是要去寻找的，很少有天生幸福的人。——亦舒
24. Happiness needs to be sought; few people are born happy. ——Yi Shu

25.人生就像一座桥，我们从彼处来，往那边去，一边走一边不住叹息，因恨事太多。——亦舒
25. Life is like a bridge; we come from one side and go to the other, sighing as we walk, for there are too many regrets. ——Yi Shu

26.知人知面不知心，每个人都有一张假面，欺骗别人的谎容。——亦舒
26. Knowing a person’s face but not their heart, everyone has a false mask, a deceptive countenance. — Yishu

27.人一定要受过伤才会沉默专注，无论是心灵或肉体上的创伤，对成长都有益处。——亦舒
27. One must experience pain and silence to focus, for both mental and physical wounds are beneficial to growth. — Yishu

28.一个人必须学习与自己不同类型的人相处，不然生活何其孤苦。——亦舒
28. One must learn to get along with people different from themselves, otherwise, life would be so lonely. — Yishu

29.自爱，沉稳，而后爱人。——亦舒
29. Love yourself, be composed, and then love others. — Yishu

30.骗一个人，要费好大的劲，不在乎她又如何肯骗她，所以将来有人苦苦蒙骗你，千万不要拆穿他。——亦舒
30. Deceiving someone takes a lot of effort; if one doesn’t care about her, how could they be willing to deceive her? So, if someone goes to great lengths to deceive you in the future, never expose them. — Yishu

31.一个女子没有经济能力，才会万劫不复，记住，勤奋工作，努力节蓄。——亦舒
31. A woman without financial capability is doomed to suffer; remember, work hard and save diligently. — Yishu

32.女孩们，得快乐时尽快乐，因为这只是刹那芳华，一朝春尽红颜老却。——亦舒
32. Girls, enjoy happiness when you have it, for it’s only fleeting; once spring ends, beauty fades. — Yishu

33.珍惜目前所有的人与事，时光飞逝，抓紧今日，得不到的东西不要去想它。——亦舒
33. Cherish the people and things you have now; time flies, seize the day, and don’t think about what you can’t get. — Yishu

34.你的自尊心受损，我可以了解，气激难受，是，我明白，但发泄过后，请继续生活，我们哪有浪费时间的奢侈。——亦舒
34. I understand that your self-esteem is hurt, and it’s hard to bear the anger, yes, I know, but after venting, please continue living; we can’t afford the luxury of wasting time. — Yishu

35.缘份一至，水到渠成，凡有些微勉强，不如稍候。——亦舒
35. When fate arrives, things will fall into place; if there’s the slightest coercion, it’s better to wait. — Yishu

36.生命只要好，不要长。——亦舒
36. Life should be good, not long. — Yishu

37.爱一个人就是这样，什么都包涵，什么都原谅，老觉对方可爱、长不大、稚气，什么都是可怜的，总是舍不得。——亦舒
37. Loving someone means tolerating everything, forgiving everything, always finding the other person lovable, immature, pitiful, and never wanting to let go. — Yishu

38.我不知道是好气还是好笑，最后还是决定笑了。——亦舒
38. I don’t know whether to be angry or amused, but in the end, I decided to laugh. — Yishu

39.恋人关系不会长久，哪种关系会长久，夫妻关系？朋友关系？竞争关系？不管哪种关系都要不断地激励自己，新鲜自己。——亦舒
39. Romantic relationships don’t last long; which relationships last? Marriage? Friendship? Competition? No matter the relationship, one must constantly motivate and refresh oneself. — Yishu

40.这便是人生，有聚有散，聚散均无因。——亦舒
40. This is life, with gatherings and partings, both without reason. — Yishu

41.让你做一份工作不是让你赚多少钱，而是让你赚一份尊严。——亦舒
41. Doing a job is not about how much money you make, but about earning dignity. — Yishu

42.珍惜今日，努力将来，过去种种，且忘记它，午夜梦回，如有记忆浮沉，转个身，再睡。——亦舒
42. Cherish today, strive for the future, forget the past; if memories surface in the middle of the night, turn over and go back to sleep. — Yishu

43.人的天性便是这般凉薄，只要拿更好的来换，一定舍得。——亦舒
43. Human nature is so fickle; as long as something better is offered, one will definitely let go. — Yishu

44.真正有气质的淑女，从不炫耀她所拥有的一切，她不告诉人她读过什么书，去过什么地方，有多少件衣服，买过什么珠宝，因为她没有自卑感。——亦舒
44. A truly elegant lady never shows off what she has, never telling others what books she’s read, where she’s been, how many clothes she has, or what jewelry she’s bought, for she has no sense of inferiority. — Yishu

45.也许一个人在真正无可奈何的时候，除了微笑，也只好微笑了。——亦舒
45. Perhaps when one is truly helpless, all they can do is smile. — Yishu

46.无论怎么样，一个人借故堕落总是不值得原谅的，越是没有人爱，越要爱自己。——亦舒
46. No matter what, a person who degenerates on the pretext is never worth forgiving. The less love one receives, the more they should love themselves. — Yishu

47.如此情深，却难以启齿。原来你若真爱一个人，内心酸涩，反而会说不出话来，甜言蜜语，多数说给不相干的人听。——亦舒
47. Such deep emotions, yet so hard to speak. It turns out that if you truly love someone, your heart aches, and you become speechless. Sweet words are mostly said to those who are not involved. — Yishu

48.当一个男人不再爱他的女人，她哭闹是错，静默也是错，活着呼吸是错，死了都是错。——亦舒
48. When a man no longer loves a woman, her crying is wrong, her silence is wrong, her breathing is wrong, and even her death is wrong. — Yishu

49.一个成熟的人往往发觉可以责怪的人越来越少，人人都有他的难处。——亦舒
49. A mature person often finds fewer and fewer people to blame, as everyone has their own difficulties. — Yishu

50.人们日常所犯最大的错误，是对陌生人太客气，而对亲密的人太苛刻，把这个坏习惯改过来，天下太平。——亦舒 、在寂寞当儿想念一个人，不算什么，但如果在热闹的时候想念，又不同了。——亦舒
50. The biggest mistake people make in their daily lives is being too polite to strangers and too demanding of those close to them. If we can change this bad habit, the world will be at peace. — Yishu

51.无论做什么，记得为自己而做，那就毫无怨言。——亦舒
51. No matter what you do, remember to do it for yourself, and there will be no complaints. — Yishu

52.能够哭就好，哭是开始痊愈的象征。——亦舒
52. Being able to cry is good, as crying is a symbol of healing. — Yishu

53.如果有人用钞票扔你，跪下来，一张张拾起，不要紧，与你温饱有关的时候，一点点自尊不算什么。——亦舒
53. If someone throws money at you, kneel down and pick up each bill. It’s okay, when it comes to your livelihood, a little self-esteem is nothing. — Yishu

54.命运旅途中，每个人演出的时间是规定的，冥冥中注定，该离场的时候，多不舍得，也得离开。——亦舒
54. In the journey of fate, the time each person performs is predetermined. In the unseen world, when it’s time to leave, no matter how reluctant, you must go. — Yishu

55.我大好的一个人，凭什么跑到别人的生命里去当插曲。——亦舒
55. I am a great person; why should I go into someone else’s life as a插曲 (interlude)? — Yishu

56.人生短短数十载，最要紧的是满足自己，不是讨好他人。——亦舒
56. Life is short, and the most important thing is to satisfy oneself, not to please others. — Yishu

57.人真的要自己争气。一做出成绩来，全世界和颜悦色。——亦舒
57. People really need to strive for themselves. Once you achieve something, the whole world will treat you with a smile. — Yishu

58.情绪这种东西，非得严加控制不可，一味纵容地自悲自怜，便越来越消沉。——亦舒
58. Emotions must be strictly controlled; indulging in self-pity will only make you more depressed. — Yishu

59.你是个最最聪明与最最笨的女人，聪明在什么都知道，笨在什么都要说出来，心里藏少量的奸也不打紧，你记住了。——亦舒
59. You are the most intelligent and the most foolish woman. You are intelligent because you know everything, and foolish because you speak everything out. It’s okay to hide a little cunning in your heart; remember this. — Yishu

60.我们不快乐的原因，是不知如何安静地呆在房间里心平气和地和自己相处。——亦舒
60. The reason we are unhappy is that we don’t know how to stay quietly in a room and peacefully coexist with ourselves. — Yishu

61.结婚与恋爱毫无关系，人们老以为恋爱成熟后便自然而然的结婚，却不知结婚只是一种生活方式，人人可以结婚，简单得很。而爱情完全是另外一回事。——亦舒
61. Marriage has nothing to do with love. People always think that when love matures, it naturally leads to marriage, but they don’t know that marriage is just a way of life, and everyone can get married, which is very simple. Love, on the other hand, is a completely different matter. — Yishu

62.生活上依赖别人，又希望得到别人尊重，那是没有可能的事。——亦舒
62. It is impossible to depend on others in life and still expect their respect. — Yishu

63.读那么多书干什么呢？就是在要紧关头，可以凭意志维持一点自尊：人家不爱我们，我们站起来就走，无谓纠缠。——亦舒
63. What’s the purpose of reading so many books? It’s to maintain a little self-esteem in critical moments: when people don’t love us, we stand up and leave, without unnecessary entanglement. — Yishu

64.一个人在心灰意冷到极点的时候，往往会变得积极起来。——亦舒
64. When a person is extremely disheartened, they often become proactive. — Yishu

65.人是犯贱的，不失去一样东西，不知道那件东西之可贵。——亦舒
65. People are masochistic; they don’t know the value of something until they lose it. — Yishu

66.过了十八岁，谁还会为一朵云一阵风一枝玫瑰一句絮语而笑。都是牙膏筒里的假笑，适当的时候挤一些出来应用。——亦舒
66. After turning eighteen, who would still smile at a cloud, a gust of wind, a rose, or a whisper? They are all fake smiles from a toothpaste tube, squeezed out for appropriate occasions. ——Yi Shu

67.最下流的男人，才说女人是非。——亦舒
67. The lowest of men are the ones who gossip about women. ——Yi Shu

68.人肯给你一个漂亮的名目，你就接受，何必苦苦追究真相，说穿了，哪里有什么好听的话。——亦舒
68. If people are willing to give you a beautiful title, just accept it. Why bother to pursue the truth? In the end, where are the pleasant words? ——Yi Shu

69.我的确应该伤感，但是我没有时间。——亦舒
69. I should indeed feel sentimental, but I don’t have the time. ——Yi Shu

70.不必对全世界失望，百步之内，必有芳草。——亦舒
70. There is no need to be disappointed with the whole world; within a hundred steps, there must be fragrant grass. ——Yi Shu

71.男人真正值钱的，还是风度与学问。——亦舒
71. What truly matters for a man is his demeanor and knowledge. ——Yi Shu

72.那么喜欢，又被你得到，你管它是真是假？——亦舒
72. If you like it so much and have already obtained it, who cares whether it’s true or false? ——Yi Shu

73.做朋友便是做朋友那么简单，最恨别人去打听我的私隐，如果你认为值得付出友谊，让我们握手言欢，如果不，那么去找别人，但别试图探听我的秘密。我的秘密，属于黑暗。——亦舒
73. Being friends is as simple as being friends. I hate it when people try to find out my secrets. If you think it’s worth being friends, let’s shake hands and rejoice. If not, go find someone else, but don’t try to probe into my secrets. My secrets belong to the darkness. ——Yi Shu

74.世上芸芸众生，有几个人是叫人一见倾心，又有几个人，会得出人头地。其实做普通人最开心。没有侈望，顺其自然，尽其本步而游于自得之场。——亦舒
74. Among the countless people in the world, how many can make you fall in love at first sight, and how many can stand out from the rest? In fact, being an ordinary person is the happiest. With no extravagant hopes, just go with the flow and enjoy the journey. ——Yi Shu

75.算了，有期望，就活该失望。——亦舒
75. Forget it, if you have expectations, you deserve disappointment. ——Yi Shu

76.一个人在家看电视并不算寂寞，苍白地坐在话不投机人群之中，才真正凄清。——亦舒
76. Watching TV at home alone is not lonely; sitting in a group of people with nothing in common is truly desolate. ——Yi Shu

77.和时间比赛，我们永远都是输家，只有多做点事情，虽败犹荣。——亦舒
77. In a race against time, we will always be the losers. The only way to achieve honor in defeat is to do more things. ——Yi Shu

78.越是运气不好，越要沉住气默默振作，静静熬过去，切勿扰攘，制造笑柄，留下后患。——亦舒
78. The worse your luck is, the more you need to stay calm, cheer up silently, and endure it quietly. Don’t make a fuss, create laughingstocks, or leave troubles for the future. ——Yi Shu

79.风景这么好，我们的生命还有很长一截，路的确是弯曲一点，但有什么关系？我们终于会到达罗马。——亦舒
79. The scenery is so beautiful, and we still have a long way to go in life. Although the road is indeed a bit winding, what does it matter? We will eventually reach Rome. ——Yi Shu

80.一个人走不开，不过因为他不想走开；一个人失约，乃因他不想赴约，一切借口均属废话，都是用以掩饰不愿牺牲。——亦舒
80. If a person can’t leave, it’s because they don’t want to; if they break an appointment, it’s because they don’t want to attend. All excuses are nonsense, used only to cover up the unwillingness to sacrifice. ——Yi Shu

81.每个人的喜怒哀乐完全一样，只是涵养功夫有别。——亦舒
81. Everyone’s emotions are the same, but their self-cultivation varies. ——Yi Shu

82.在金钱与爱情面前卖弄自尊，是最愚蠢的事。——亦舒
82. Flaunting one’s pride in front of money and love is the most foolish thing. ——Yi Shu

83.我不介意出卖我的青春。青春不卖也是会过的。——亦舒
83. I don’t mind selling my youth. It will pass by anyway, even if not sold. ——Yi Shu

84.不骄，不矜，勤工，好学，才是好女子。——亦舒
84. Be humble, unpretentious, hardworking, and studious to be a good woman. ——Yi Shu

85.做一个女人要做得像一幅画，不要做一件衣裳，被男人试完了又试，却没人买，试残了旧了，五折抛售还有困难。——亦舒
85. A woman should be like a painting, not a piece of clothing, tried on by men again and again, yet no one buys it. When it becomes worn and old, even a 50% discount sale is difficult. ——Yi Shu

86.心甘情愿，则虽苦犹乐。——亦舒
86. If you are willing, even suffering can be enjoyable. ——Yi Shu

87.真的，只要舍得放手，就可换回自由。——亦舒
87. Truly, if you are willing to let go, you can regain freedom. ——Yi Shu

88.女孩子最好的嫁妆是一张名校文凭，千万别靠它吃饭，否则也还是苦死。带着它嫁人，夫家不敢欺负有学历的媳妇。——亦舒
88. The best dowry for a girl is a diploma from a prestigious school. Don’t rely on it for a living, or you will still suffer. Bring it with you when you get married, and your in-laws won’t dare to bully a well-educated daughter-in-law. ——Yi Shu

89.医生说，世上有两种病人，一种想痊愈，另一种不想，努力想好起来的不一定成功，但放弃的必然能够得偿所愿。——亦舒
89. Doctors say there are two types of patients in the world: one wants to recover, and the other doesn’t. Those who strive to get better may not succeed, but those who give up will surely get what they wish for. ——Yi Shu

90.男人的通病是翻脸不认人，所以长情的男人特别可爱。——亦舒
90. The common fault of men is to turn their backs on people, so men who are long-term in love are especially lovely. ——Yi Shu

91.这个世界，白痴才说钱没用。——亦舒
91. In this world, only fools say that money is useless. ——Yi Shu

92.犯不着吃回头草，往前面走一定会碰到新的。——亦舒
92. There’s no need to look back; moving forward will definitely bring new encounters. ——Yi Shu

93.成功之士，通常心高而气不傲； 有识之士，则努力摆脱心高气傲； 只有无知之人，才以为心高气傲是什么特殊气质。——亦舒
93. Successful people usually have high aspirations but not arrogance; knowledgeable people strive to get rid of arrogance; only the ignorant think that arrogance is a special quality. ——Yi Shu

94.无情之人多数生活得很好。——亦舒
94. Most heartless people live well. ——Yi Shu

95.应付任何事的最佳办法，便是装作听不见，对不起，我时运高，不听鬼叫。——亦舒
95. The best way to deal with anything is to pretend not to hear it. Sorry, I’m lucky and don’t listen to ghosts. ——Yi Shu

96.以前谈恋爱，电话就搁床头，半夜迷迷朦朦接了电话说的都是真心话，因为说谎需要高度精神集中。——亦舒
96. When I was in love before, the phone was by the bedside. In the middle of the night, when I answered the phone in a daze, I spoke the truth because lying requires a high level of concentration. ——Yi Shu

97.要生活得漂亮，需要付出极大忍耐。 一不抱怨，二不解释，绝对是个人才。——亦舒
97. To live beautifully, one must endure a great deal. If you don’t complain and don’t explain, you are definitely a talent. ——Yi Shu

98.情愿被人憎，不可被人嫌。——亦舒
98. I would rather be hated than despised. ——Yi Shu

99.只有不愁衣食的人才有资格用时间来埋怨命运。——亦舒 、人际关系这一门科学永远没有学成毕业的一日，每天都似投身于砂石中，缓缓磨动，皮破血流之余所积得的宝贵经验便是一般人口中的圆滑。——亦舒
99. Only those who don’t worry about food and clothing have the qualifications to complain about fate. The science of interpersonal relationships never has a day of graduation. Every day is like being thrown into sand and stone, slowly grinding, and the valuable experience gained from the pain and blood is the smoothness people usually talk about. ——Yi Shu

100.这样的爱拖一天是错一天，爱一遍叫人老了几十年。——亦舒
100. Such love, dragging on for one more day is a mistake, and loving once makes one feel decades older. ——Yi Shu

101.世事往往如此，想回头也已经来不及，即使你肯沦为劣马，也不一定有回头草在等着你。——亦舒
101. Things often turn out this way; it’s too late to look back. Even if you are willing to become a劣马, there may not be any回头草 waiting for you. ——Yi Shu

102.一个人，只要能够欢喜过几年，也已经算是造化，世上哪有不散的筵席，永远的基业，千秋万载，让你一直开心。——亦舒
102. A person, as long as they can be happy for a few years, has already been blessed. Where in the world can there be an everlasting feast, a perpetual legacy, for thousands of years, allowing you to be happy all the time? ——Yi Shu

103.人贵自知，否则，知心难觅。——亦舒
103. It is valuable to know oneself; otherwise, it is difficult to find a confidant. ——Yi Shu

104.我所有的，我所有的，他们都可以看得到，我所没有的，他们不知道。——亦舒
104. All that I have, they can see; what I don’t have, they don’t know. ——Yi Shu

105.道歉，人们为所欲为，以为一声对不起可抵消一切。——亦舒
105. Apologizing, people do as they please, thinking that a “sorry” can offset everything. ——Yi Shu

106.许久之前，我喜欢观察人的心意，但现在，人家说什么，我愿意听什么。——亦舒
106. A long time ago, I liked to observe people’s intentions, but now, I’m willing to listen to whatever they say. —— Yishu

107.不用因迁就而遗失自我，亦不必为维持自我而得罪任何人，一个人有一个人好。——亦舒
107. You don’t have to lose yourself to accommodate others, nor do you have to offend anyone to maintain your own identity. It’s good to be a person on your own. —— Yishu

108.人人总有为难之处，许多事何必深究。——亦舒
108. Everyone has their own difficulties; there’s no need to delve into many things. —— Yishu

109.两个人在一起生活，岂是一项艺术，简直是修万里长城，艰苦的工程。——亦舒
109. Living together with someone is not just an art; it’s like building the Great Wall, a difficult project. —— Yishu

110.他们越为我的存在恐慌，我的地位越巩固。——亦舒
110. The more they panic about my existence, the more secure my position becomes. —— Yishu

111.物必自腐而后虫生，你真相信天底下有破镜重圆这件事？——亦舒
111. Things must decay first before insects can breed; do you really believe in the existence of mended broken mirrors? —— Yishu

112.经济如果不能独立，则啥子都不用谈，衣食住行全靠他人施舍，却口口声声不愿做附属品，哀莫大焉。——亦舒
112. If you can’t be financially independent, there’s no point in discussing anything. Relying on others for food, clothing, housing, and transportation, yet claiming not to want to be an accessory; it’s truly a sorrowful situation. —— Yishu

113.幸运者做猪不幸者做人，我是个幸运的不幸者，起码我睡的像猪。——亦舒
113. Lucky people become pigs, and unlucky people become humans. I’m a lucky unlucky person; at least I sleep like a pig. —— Yishu

114.一个人要超越他的环境及出身，进步是不够的，非要进化不可，那样大业，岂能人人做到。——亦舒
114. To surpass one’s environment and background, progress is not enough; one must evolve. Such a great task cannot be achieved by everyone. —— Yishu

115.弱者永远有一肚子的正义与自卑，这是他们应付强者最有力的武器。——亦舒
115. The weak always have a belly full of justice and inferiority, which is their most powerful weapon against the strong. —— Yishu

116.不必道歉，穷人受嫌疑是很应该的。——亦舒
116. No need to apologize; it’s only natural for the poor to be suspected. —— Yishu

117.自嘲是保护自己最佳方法之一。——亦舒
117. Self-mockery is one of the best ways to protect oneself. —— Yishu

118.不知谁说的，欺侮人的人，从来不记得，被欺侮的那个，却永志在心。——亦舒
118. I don’t know who said it, but those who bully others never remember, while the bullied ones never forget. —— Yishu

119.世界沉沦而无能力救亡，是否应笑着下地狱？——亦舒
119. Should we laugh our way to hell when the world is collapsing and we’re powerless to save it? —— Yishu

120.现今还有谁会照顾谁一辈子，那是多沉重的一个包袱。所以非自立不可。——亦舒
120. Nowadays, who would take care of someone for a lifetime? It’s such a heavy burden. Therefore, one must be independent. —— Yishu

121.人为感情烦恼永远是不值得原谅的，感情是奢侈品，有些人一辈子也没有恋爱过。恋爱与瓶花一样，不能保持永久生命。——亦舒
121. It’s never worth forgiving someone for being troubled by emotions; emotions are a luxury, and some people never experience love in their lives. Love is like a vase of flowers, unable to maintain eternal life. —— Yishu

122.多么讨厌的繁文缛节，多么希望仍然是个孩子，随便什么都可以抢着要。——亦舒
122. How annoying the formalities are; how I wish to be a child again, grabbing at anything I want. —— Yishu

123.年轻的时候总要证明这个证明那个，左证右证，永远的结论便是人家错自己对。人家上进，那是因为他爬得似条狗，人家略为逸乐，那是腐败堕落，终是沾沾自喜了。——亦舒
123. When young, one always wants to prove this and that, left and right, and the eternal conclusion is that others are wrong and oneself is right. If someone is ambitious, it’s because they climb like a dog; if someone is a bit indulgent, it’s corruption and decadence, and in the end, they’re just smug. —— Yishu

124.别给自己讨价还价的机会，不然后患无穷。——亦舒
124. Don’t give yourself a chance to bargain; otherwise, there will be endless trouble. —— Yishu

125.一个人的时间用在什么地方是看得见的。——亦舒
125. Where a person spends their time is visible. —— Yishu

126.当大人像小孩的时候，小孩只得迅速长大。——亦舒
126. When adults act like children, children have to grow up quickly. —— Yishu

127.我没有兴趣做戏给不相干的人看。——亦舒
127. I have no interest in putting on a show for people who are irrelevant. —— Yishu

128.做任何一个行业，都得在岗位上有所表现，既红、不骄、不迟到、不早退、敬业乐业、有衣食，那才是高手。——亦舒
128. In any profession, one must perform well on the job, be popular, not be arrogant, not be late, not leave early, be dedicated and happy in their work, and have food and clothing; that is the true master. —— Yishu

129.世事往往如此，越是刻意经营，越是失望。——亦舒
129. That’s often the case in life, the more you try to manage things deliberately, the more disappointed you get. —— Yishu

130.做艺术成功的人，举手投足都有一股邪气，俗称魅力。——亦舒
130. Successful artists have an uncanny charm in their every gesture, commonly known as charisma. —— Yishu

131.爱情是一场不幸的瘟疫，终身不遇方值得庆幸。——亦舒
131. Love is an unfortunate plague, and it is fortunate never to encounter it in one’s lifetime. —— Yishu

132.做任何事，一旦认真，就不会好玩。——亦舒
132. Once you take anything seriously, it becomes no longer fun. —— Yishu

133.年轻的时候老认为得不到的才是最好的，现在却认为得到的才是最好的。——亦舒
133. When I was young, I always thought that what I couldn’t get was the best, but now I believe that what I have is the best. —— Yishu

134.商场上不是你死，就是我亡，每天都多少人倒下来，只能怪学艺不精，有勇气的从头来过，没胆色的请退出江湖。——亦舒
134. In the business world, it’s either you die or I die; every day, many people fall, and it’s all because they didn’t learn their craft well enough. Those with courage can start over, while the timid should leave the arena. —— Yishu

135.受伤的野兽找个隐蔽处用舌头舔伤口，过一阵子也就挨过去了，倘有个真心人来殷勤关注，硬是要看你有救没救，心一酸一软，若一口真气提不上来，真的就此息劳归主也是有的。——亦舒
135. An injured wild animal finds a hidden place to lick its wounds, and after a while, it will get through it. But if a sincere person comes to pay close attention and care, and if their heart softens and they can’t catch their breath, they might really give up and succumb to their fate. —— Yishu

136.我令憎我的人失望了，因为我活的这样好。——亦舒
136. I have disappointed those who hate me, because I live so well. —— Yishu

137.人们爱的是一些人，与之结婚生子的，又是另外一些人。——亦舒
137. People love some people, but marry and have children with others. —— Yishu

138.什么山盟海誓，什么天长地久，如果得不到鼓励，谁又会免费爱谁一辈子？——亦舒
138. What of all those promises of eternal love and commitment? If there’s no encouragement, who would love someone for free for a lifetime? —— Yishu

139.明白人就是明白人，不用解释也明白，不明白的人就是不愿意明白，说破嘴皮也不管用。——亦舒
139. Those who understand don’t need explanations, while those who don’t understand are unwilling to do so; talking until your mouth is sore won’t help. —— Yishu

140.穷是一种心态，你若一辈子坚持自己是穷人，拥有大量金钱也救不了你。——亦舒
140. Poverty is a state of mind; if you insist on seeing yourself as poor for a lifetime, even having a lot of money won’t save you. —— Yishu

141.事不关己，己不劳心。——亦舒
141. If it doesn’t concern you, don’t bother your mind with it. —— Yishu

142.但人总喜欢把过错推在别人身上，我也不例外。——亦舒
142. But people always like to blame others for their mistakes; I am no exception. —— Yishu

143.有不满，克服它；暂时做不到？避开它，另起炉灶，不发牢骚，不谩骂，不眼红人家。——亦舒
143. If you have dissatisfaction, overcome it; can’t do it for now? Avoid it, start anew, without complaining, cursing, or envying others. —— Yishu

144.真正的才华如火焰般难以收藏，总会燎原。——亦舒
144. True talent is like a flame, difficult to hide, and will eventually spread. —— Yishu

145.有能力的人影响别人，没能力的人受人影响。——亦舒
145. Capable people influence others, while incapable people are influenced by others. —— Yishu

146.人有权变心，但变了的心也应体谅到对方的心情与处境。——亦舒
146. People have the right to change their minds, but those who have changed should also consider the feelings and situations of the other party. ——Yi Shu

147.大部分漂亮富足的女孩子喜欢找一个条件比她略差的女伴，加借衬托起她的矜贵。——亦舒
147. Most beautiful and wealthy girls like to find a companion with slightly inferior conditions to set off their own preciousness. ——Yi Shu

148.无论什么事，鞠躬尽瘁，均有限度，只能做到这样，如果还不够好，也只得作罢，怎可任人搓圆揉扁，尊严荡然无存。量力而为最好。——亦舒 、不是没有遗憾，不是不惆怅，而是只能如此。——亦舒
148. No matter what, one should do their best within limits. If it’s not good enough, one must let it go; how can one let others manipulate them and lose their dignity? It’s best to do things within one’s capacity. ——Yi Shu, There are regrets, there is melancholy, but that’s all there is to it. ——Yi Shu

149.我们都渴望被照顾、被爱，在这个关键上，人人都脆弱 。——亦舒
149. We all long to be taken care of and loved, and in this regard, everyone is vulnerable. ——Yi Shu

150.只有不愁生活的女人才可以自由选择丈夫。——亦舒
150. Only women who do not worry about their livelihood can freely choose their husbands. ——Yi Shu

151.要事业先得搞好学问，没有学问哪来修养智慧，怎么办得了大事，你若真想做出点成绩来，从现在开始，痛下二十年功夫还有希望。——亦舒
151. To have a career, one must first acquire knowledge. Without knowledge, there is no cultivation of wisdom. How can one accomplish great things? If you really want to achieve something, start now and put in 20 years of hard work, and there is still hope. ——Yi Shu

152.芸芸众生中遇见了意中人，他喜欢她，她居然也有同样感觉，这是万中无一的幸运机遇，持续多久已不重要。——亦舒
152. Among the countless people, meeting the right person, he likes her, and she surprisingly feels the same way, is a one-in-a-million lucky opportunity. How long it lasts is no longer important. ——Yi Shu

153.人其实很难真正自由，锁住人的，往往是那人自己。不知不觉，我们不是做了感情的奴隶，就是事业的婢仆。——亦舒
153. In fact, it is difficult for people to be truly free. What locks a person is often themselves. Unconsciously, we become slaves to emotions or servants to our careers. ——Yi Shu

154.我觉得人生十分充实，种瓜得瓜，种豆得豆，种苦瓜得苦瓜。——亦舒
154. I feel that life is very fulfilling: as you sow, so shall you reap. ——Yi Shu

155.我弯起嘴角也讽刺地笑，真是的，可怜我年少不更事，被玩弄在股掌之上。人总是慢慢学乖，逐步建造起铜墙铁壁保护自己。——亦舒
155. I curled the corners of my mouth and laughed sarcastically. Really, it’s a pity that I was young and inexperienced, being manipulated by others. People always learn to be wiser and gradually build a fortress to protect themselves. ——Yi Shu

156.我自给自足，又不是谁的负累，上帝让我活多久我都受之无愧。——亦舒
156. I am self-sufficient and not a burden to anyone. I deserve to live as long as God allows me to. ——Yi Shu

157.世间不是没有情深似海的男人，而是你没本事遇到。——亦舒
157. There are men with deep emotions in this world, but you may not have the ability to meet them. ——Yi Shu

158.能人所不能者，地方才能稳固。——亦舒
158. Only by being able to do what others cannot can one’s position be secure. ——Yi Shu

159.从今以后我再不要做一个顺眼的人，有谁看不顺眼可以去死。——亦舒
159. From now on, I will no longer be a pleasing person; whoever has a problem with me can just die. ——Yi Shu

160.爱一个人决不潇洒，为自己留了后步的，也就不是爱��。——亦舒
160. Loving someone is never elegant; if you leave a way out for yourself, it’s not love. ——Yi Shu

161.我也很积极，积极不进取。——亦舒
161. I am also very positive, but not aggressive. ——Yi Shu

162.当一个男人喜欢一个女人的时候，他可以为她做一切事。——亦舒
162. When a man likes a woman, he can do anything for her. ——Yi Shu

163.女人长得好，到迟暮特别凄惶，彷佛除了留不住的美丽之外，一无所有，故此急急要挽回什么，尽力修饰。——亦舒
163. Beautiful women, when they grow old, become particularly desolate, as if they have nothing but their fading beauty, and thus they desperately try to make up for it and修饰. ——Yi Shu

164.有本事的男人真叫人钦佩，好比一棵大树，咱们妇孺在他的阴蔽下，乘凉的乘凉，游戏的游戏，什么也不担心，多么开心。——亦舒
164. Capable men are truly admirable, like a big tree under which we, women and children, can find shelter, enjoy the cool shade, and play games without worrying about anything. How happy it is! ——Yi Shu

165.别再分析我，请尽量爱我。——亦舒
165. Stop analyzing me, please just love me as I am. ——Yi Shu

166.这是一个高度竞争的社会，没有资格走的人最好不要走，否则要回头这个位置已经被人占去，再也没有空隙，闲时闹意气，一点用处也没有。——亦舒
166. This is a highly competitive society. Those who are not qualified to leave should not leave, otherwise, when they want to return, their position has already been taken by someone else, and there is no room left. Arguing when idle is of no use at all. — Yishu

167.每天只准诉苦十分钟，你不能沉缅在痛苦的海洋中，当作一种享受。——亦舒
167. You are only allowed to complain for ten minutes a day. You cannot indulge in the ocean of pain as if it were a kind of enjoyment. — Yishu

168.据说深爱是相当痛苦的一件事，单是视对方一举一动一言为大事，已经是严重失误，导致心思不属，有碍发展正经事务。故此现代人越来越发现不相爱有不相爱的好处。——亦舒
168. It is said that being deeply in love is quite painful. Just by taking the other person’s every move, word, and deed as a big deal is already a serious mistake, causing distractions and hindering the development of proper affairs. That is why modern people increasingly discover the benefits of not being in love. — Yishu

169.蛋糕非常香，咖啡十分甜，这里又没有地震，活着真正好。——亦舒
169. The cake is very fragrant, the coffee is very sweet, and there are no earthquakes here. Life is truly wonderful. — Yishu

170.记得积蓄，那样有一日失去任何人的欢心，都可以不愁衣食地伤春悲秋，缅怀过去。——亦舒
170. Remember to save money, so that one day, if you lose someone’s favor, you can still afford to live comfortably and reminisce about the past without worry. — Yishu

171.何必勉强与道不同者做朋友，阳关道，独木桥，陌路相逢，客客气气已经足够。——亦舒
171. There is no need to force friendships with those who have different paths. The sunny road, the narrow bridge, when meeting by chance, being polite is enough. — Yishu

172.不要在晚上做出任何决定，晚上的意志力太过薄弱，阴与阳只一线之隔，天亮仍觉是对的，即使错，也甘心。——亦舒
172. Do not make any decisions at night, as your willpower is too weak at night. The difference between yin and yang is just a thin line. Even if you still think it’s right when the sun rises, even if it’s wrong, you will accept it. — Yishu

173.你天生乐观，最叫我羡慕。——亦舒
173. Your natural optimism is what I admire the most. — Yishu

174.不怨天，不尤人，运气不好，摔了一跤重的，不怕。跌倒爬起，从头来过，谁不犯错呢，不过，切记同样的过失不可错两次。——亦舒
174. Do not blame heaven or others. If you have bad luck and take a heavy fall, don’t be afraid. Get up after falling, start over, and who doesn’t make mistakes? However, remember not to make the same mistake twice. — Yishu

175.一些事，无能为力， 爱莫能助，也只得装无知，免得七嘴八舌，更添烦恼。——亦舒
175. For some things, we are powerless and unable to help. It’s better to pretend to be ignorant to avoid gossip and more troubles. — Yishu

176.男人总喜欢女人留长头发，一种原始，毫无意识的喜爱，因为长发牵绊，不利于女人，使女人看上去柔弱，他们高兴了。——亦舒
176. Men always like women with long hair, a primitive and unconscious preference, because long hair can entangle and hinder women, making them look weak, which pleases the men. — Yishu

177.世上最好的东西其实不是不贵就是免费。——亦舒
177. The best things in the world are either inexpensive or free. — Yishu

178.富足是一种心理状况，最富有的是满足的人，富有与金钱并无大的联系。——亦舒
178. Wealth is a state of mind. The richest people are those who are satisfied. Wealth has little to do with money. — Yishu

179.大笑百分之九十的用途是用来遮丑。——亦舒
179. Ninety percent of the time, laughter is used to cover up shame. — Yishu

180.话实在是不能多说，酒不能多喝。但既然已经酒后失言，也不妨开怀大饮。——亦舒
180. One should not talk too much or drink too much alcohol. But since you have already spoken out of turn after drinking, you might as well drink heartily. — Yishu

181.迷汤人人欣赏，假话人人爱听。——亦舒
181. Everyone appreciates flattery, and everyone loves to hear lies. — Yishu

182.有没有空百份百是人为的，天下没有匀不出的时间，只有不想出席的约会。——亦舒
182. Availability is 100% up to the individual. There is no such thing as not having enough time; there are only events one does not want to attend. — Yishu

183.能够爱人与被爱真是太幸福。——亦舒
183. To be able to love and be loved is truly blissful. — Yishu

184.只有暴发户才来不及的刻薄下人。——亦舒
184. Only the newly rich are unkind to others in a hurry. — Yishu

185.悲欢合，天下无不散之宴席，有生活经验的人都知道如何处理失意事，只忍耐。——亦舒
185. Joy and sorrow come together; there is no banquet that does not end. People with life experience know how to deal with disappointments, and they just endure. — Yishu

186.有什么是意外的呢？太阳底下无新事，什么样的人做什么样的事。——亦舒
186. What is unexpected? There is nothing new under the sun; people tend to do what kind of person they are. —— Yishu

187.现在我也没有原则可言，性格弹性很强，能屈能伸，只要不触犯到我的自尊，一切可以商量。——亦舒
187. Now I don’t have any principles to speak of, my character is highly flexible, able to adapt to situations. As long as it doesn’t hurt my self-esteem, everything is negotiable. —— Yishu

188.社会只爱健康的聪明的，肯拼命的人，谁耐心跟谁婆婆妈妈，生活中一切都变成公事，互相利用，至于世态炎凉，人情淡薄，统统是正常的。——亦舒
188. Society only loves those who are healthy, smart, and willing to work hard. Who has the patience to be fussy and nagging? In life, everything becomes a matter of business, and people use each other. As for the coldness of the world and the thinness of human feelings, they are all normal. —— Yishu

189.不相爱有不相爱的好处，什么话都可以说。——亦舒
189. There are advantages to not being in love, you can say anything. —— Yishu

190.事无大小，若非当事人本身，永远没法子明了真相。——亦舒
190. No matter how big or small the matter is, unless one is the party involved, they can never truly understand the truth. —— Yishu

191.一个人不必名成功就才能光宗耀祖，身体健康已算孝顺父母。——亦舒
191. One doesn’t have to be successful or famous to bring honor to their ancestors; being healthy is already a way of showing filial piety to one’s parents. —— Yishu

192.有什么事是无需牺牲的？吃只鸡蛋还可能导致胆固醇过高。——亦舒
192. What can be achieved without any sacrifice? Even eating an egg might lead to high cholesterol. —— Yishu

193.一个人有本事便是最大的财富。——亦舒
193. A person’s ability is their greatest wealth. —— Yishu

194.凡事都要自愿，同一件事，心甘情愿，即系享受，如不，便是虐待。——亦舒
194. Everything should be done voluntarily; the same thing, when done willingly, is enjoyable, but if not, it becomes abuse. —— Yishu

195.我不认为把人来作比较是公道的事，总而言之，如果他的优点较为适合我，我就喜欢他。——亦舒
195. I don’t think comparing people is fair. In any case, if someone’s strengths suit me better, I will like them. —— Yishu

196.疯子与恋爱中人均不可理喻。——亦舒
196. Both madmen and those in love are unreasonable. —— Yishu

197.冷静，不发泄不指责，他们就永远欠你。——亦舒 、真不该把话说死，什么事都有发生的机会。——亦舒
197. Stay calm, don’t vent or blame, and they will always owe you. —— Yishu, It’s really a mistake to say things absolutely, as there’s always a chance for everything to happen. —— Yishu

198.我最恨人们永远买大一号的衣服来纵容自己发胖。我是一个有纪律的人——亦舒
198. I hate it when people always buy clothes one size larger to indulge themselves in gaining weight. I am a disciplined person. —— Yishu

199.一颗心胀鼓鼓地荡来荡去，不安其位，又充满激奋，把遭遇告诉每一个人。——亦舒
199. A heart swells and sways restlessly, filled with excitement, and tells everyone about its experiences. —— Yishu

200.你若惹我，不要忘记，每个女人的血液里都一样藏有阿修罗。——亦舒
200. If you provoke me, don’t forget that every woman has an Asura hidden in her blood. —— Yishu
马云经典精彩语录
Jack Ma’s Classic and Exciting Quotes

1.今天很残酷，明天更残酷，后天会很美好，但绝大多数人都死在明天晚上，却见不到后天的太阳。所以我们干什么都要坚持！
1. Today is cruel, tomorrow will be more cruel, and the day after tomorrow will be beautiful, but most people die on the night of tomorrow and never see the sun of the day after tomorrow. That’s why we must persevere in everything we do!

2.诚信，这是人类共同拥有的价值观，谁违背谁承担责任。
2. Integrity is a value shared by all humanity; whoever violates it shall bear the responsibility.

3.建立自我，追求忘我。
3. Establish yourself and pursue selflessness.

4.管理需要学问，领导力是门艺术！
4. Management requires knowledge, and leadership is an art!

5.营销最佳的语言是自己的语言，而不是套用别人的话。
5. The best language for marketing is your own, not someone else’s words.

6.记住，因为创业者都是靠自己的毅力走下去，你如果觉得有人送你，你基本上就不会成功了。
6. Remember, entrepreneurs rely on their own perseverance to move forward; if you think someone will carry you, you are unlikely to succeed.

7.我是说阿里巴巴发现了金矿，那我们绝对不自己去挖，我们希望别人去挖，他挖了金矿给我一块就可以了。
7. I’m saying that Alibaba found a gold mine; we definitely won’t mine it ourselves. We hope others will do the mining and give us a share.

8.钱是社会资源要更有效率利用。
8. Money is a social resource that should be used more efficiently.

9.公关是个副产品，由于你解决了以后会逐渐传出去，这才是最好的公关。
9. Public relations is a byproduct; as you solve problems, the news will gradually spread, and that’s the best PR.

10.今天很残酷、明天更残酷，后天很美好。但很多人死在明天晚上、而看不到后天的太阳。
10. Today is brutal, tomorrow is even more brutal, and the day after tomorrow is beautiful. But many people die on the night of tomorrow, never seeing the sun of the day after tomorrow.

11.永远要相信边上的人比你聪明。
11. Always believe that the people around you are smarter than you.

12.如果马云能成功，百分之八十的年轻人都能成功。
12. If Jack Ma can succeed, 80% of young people can succeed.

13.你穷，是因为你没有野心。
13. You are poor because you have no ambition.

14.曾有人问马云，阿里巴巴最大的对手是谁，马云不假思索地表示：是沃尔玛。
14. Someone once asked Jack Ma who Alibaba’s biggest competitor was, and without hesitation, he replied: Walmart.

15.蚂蚁走的好，大象也搞不死他。
15. If the ant walks well, the elephant can’t kill him.

16.今天到北大演讲心里特别激动。我一直把北大的学子当做我的偶像，一直考却考不进，所以我想如果有一天我一定要到北大当老师。
16. I am particularly excited to give a speech at Peking University today. I have always regarded the students of Peking University as my idols, but I could never get in, so I wanted to become a teacher at Peking University one day.

17.经济学家是对昨天感兴趣，企业家是对明天感兴趣，让一个对昨天感兴趣的人去判断明天，这是悲哀！
17. Economists are interested in yesterday, entrepreneurs are interested in tomorrow. It’s a tragedy to let someone who is interested in yesterday judge tomorrow.

18.很多人失败的原因不是钱太少，而是钱太多。
18. Many people fail not because they have too little money, but because they have too much.

19.认为如果你要想有真正的朋友，必须不要被别人左右。
19. I believe that if you want to have true friends, you must not be influenced by others.

20.不做电子商务，五年后你会后悔。十年后，你要是再不做电子商务的话，那么你将无商可务。
20. If you don’t do e-commerce, you will regret it in five years. In ten years, if you still don’t do e-commerce, you will have no business to conduct.

21.我认为，员工第一，客户第二。没有员工，就没有这个网站。也只有他们开心了，我们的客户才会开心。而客户们那些鼓励的言语，又会让他们像发疯一样去工作，这也使得我们的网站不断地发展。
21. I believe that employees come first, and customers come second. Without employees, there would be no website. Only when they are happy will our customers be happy. And the encouraging words from our customers will make them work like crazy, which in turn promotes the continuous development of our website.

22.现在你需要踏踏实实，实实在在跟你一起干的人。
22. Now you need to be down-to-earth and work with people who are truly dedicated.

23.创业者光有激情和创新是不够的，它需要很好的体系制度团队以及良好的盈利模式。
23. Entrepreneurs need more than just passion and innovation; they need a good system, team, and a solid profit model.

24.我自己不愿意聘用一个经常在竞争者之间跳跃的人。
24. I am not willing to hire someone who frequently jumps between competitors.

25.一个一流的创意，三流的执行，我宁可喜欢一个一流的执行，三流的创意。
25. I prefer a first-class execution with a third-class idea over a first-class idea with a third-class execution.

26.公司大了，责任就应该大，责任大了期望值一定高，期望值高了，批评指责失望自然就大，这是规律，我们要承认和接受这样的规律。
26. As a company grows, its responsibilities should grow, and with greater responsibilities come higher expectations. With higher expectations, criticism and disappointment naturally increase. This is the rule, and we must acknowledge and accept it.

27.我们花了两年的时间打地基，我们要盖什么样的楼，图纸没有公布过，但有些人已经在评论我们的房子怎么不好。有些公司的房子很好看，但地基不稳，一有大风就倒了。
27. We spent two years laying the foundation, and although we never announced what kind of building we would construct, some people have already started criticizing our house. Some companies have impressive buildings, but with unstable foundations, they collapse at the first sign of a strong wind.

28.人家问我你喜欢能干的员工还是听话的员工，我说Yes，就是既要听话又要能干，因为我不相信能干和听话是矛盾的，能干的人一定不听话，听话的人一定不能干，这种人要来干什么，不听话本身就不能干，对不对？
28. When asked if I prefer capable employees or obedient employees, I say yes, meaning I want employees who are both obedient and capable. I don’t believe that being capable and obedient are contradictory. If a capable person is disobedient, they are essentially incapable. Similarly, an obedient person who is incapable serves no purpose. Right?

29.过了头的创意会让团队伤心。
29. Over-the-top creativity can break the team’s spirit.

30.如果你不喜欢现在的工作，要么辞职不干，要么就闭嘴不言。看透的时候，勇于放弃。
30. If you don’t like your current job, either quit or keep quiet. When you see through it, be brave enough to let go.

31.世界上最不可靠的就是关系。
31. Relationships are the most unreliable thing in the world.

32.冬天寒冷的时候，我们提出的口号是：“坚持到底就是胜利”。只要我们活着，不死就有希望。
32. In the cold winter, our slogan was: “Perseverance leads to victory.” As long as we are alive and not dead, there is hope.

33.做回自己才能给自己，给别人更好更多的交代。
33. Being true to yourself allows you to give a better and more accountable explanation to yourself and others.

34.战略不能落实到结果和目标上面，都是空话。
34. A strategy that cannot be implemented to achieve results and goals is just empty talk.

35.让每一个人的才华真正地发挥作用的道理就像拉车，如果有的人往这儿拉，有的人往那儿拉，互相之间先乱掉了。我在公司的作用就像水泥，把许多优秀的人才聚合起来，使他们力气往一个地方使。
35. The principle of allowing everyone’s talents to shine is like pulling a cart; if some people pull in one direction and others pull in another, chaos ensues. My role in the company is like cement, bringing together many outstanding talents and uniting their efforts towards a single goal.

36.陈帅佛的话说互联网上失败一定是自己造成的，要不就是脑子发热，要不就是脑子不热，太冷了。
36. Chen Shifu said that failures on the internet are always self-inflicted, either due to impulsiveness or being too cold and unenthusiastic.

37.任何一个失败的人是最容易找借口的，人类总是为失败找借口，不为成功找方向。
37. People who fail always find excuses, as humans tend to make excuses for failure rather than seeking directions for success.

38.上当不是别人太狡猾，而是自己太贪，是因为自己才会上当。
38. Being deceived is not because others are too cunning, but because of one’s own greed, which leads to falling for scams.

39.琴棋书画；琴是乐，乐是开心，乐是跟天堂相通的；棋是舍得；书是定力；画是想象力。
39. The four arts: music, chess, calligraphy, and painting. Music represents joy, which is connected to happiness and heaven; chess symbolizes the spirit of sacrifice; calligraphy represents concentration; painting embodies imagination.

40.大势好未必你好，大势不好未必你不好。
40. A favorable overall situation does not guarantee your success, and an unfavorable situation does not mean your failure.

41.我永远相信只要永不放弃，我们还是有机会的。最后，我们还是坚信一点，这世界上只要有梦想，只要不断努力，只要不断学习，不管你长得如何，不管是这样，还是那样，男人的长相往往和他的的才华成反比。今天很残酷，明天更残酷，后天很美好，但绝对大部分是死在明天晚上，所以每个人不要放弃今天。
41. I firmly believe that as long as we never give up, we still have a chance. In the end, we must hold on to the belief that as long as there are dreams, continuous efforts, and learning, no matter how you look, success is possible. Often, a man’s appearance is inversely proportional to his talents. Today is cruel, tomorrow will be even more cruel, but most people will die tomorrow night, so don’t give up today.

42.互联网是影响人类未来生活年的米长跑，你必须跑得像兔子一样快，又要像乌龟一样耐跑。
42. The internet is a long race affecting human life in the coming years. You must run as fast as a rabbit and as patiently as a turtle.

43.注重自己的名声，努力工作与人为善遵守诺言，这样对你们的事业非常有帮助。
43. Pay attention to your reputation, work hard, be kind to others, and keep your promises, as this will be very helpful for your career.

44.概念到今天这个时代已经不能卖钱了。
44. In today’s era, concepts can no longer be sold for money.

45.别人怎么说没办法的事，你自己要明白，我要去哪里，我能对社会创造什么样的价值。创业的时候我的同事可能流过泪，我的朋友可能流过泪，但我没有，因为流泪没有用啊，创业者没有退路，最大的失败就是放弃。
45. No matter what others say about things that cannot be changed, you must understand for yourself where you want to go and what kind of value you can create for society. When I was starting my business, my colleagues may have shed tears, and my friends may have shed tears, but I didn’t, because crying is useless. Entrepreneurs have no way back; the biggest failure is giving up.

46.这世界每个人做好自己那份工作，做好自己感兴趣的那份工作，已经很了不起，我们一起努力除了工作以外，完善中国的环境，让水清澈，让天空湛蓝，让粮食安全，我拜托大家！
46. In this world, if everyone does their job well and focuses on their interests, it’s already remarkable. Let’s work together to improve China’s environment, make the water clear, the sky blue, and ensure food safety. I ask everyone to join in this effort!

47.要做三独立的女人：思想独立、能力独立、经济独立！
47. Be a woman with three kinds of independence: independent in thought, ability, and finances!

48.男人的胸怀是委屈撑大的。
48. A man’s broad-mindedness is expanded by enduring grievances.

49.“营销”这两个字强调既要追求结果，也要注重过程，既要“销”，更要“营”。
49. The word “marketing” emphasizes the pursuit of results as well as the importance of the process, focusing on both “selling” and “cultivating.”

50.人要有专注的东西，人一辈子走下去挑战会更多，你天天换，我就怕了你。
50. People should have a focus, as life will present more challenges. If you change your focus every day, I would be worried about you.

51.要少开店开好店，店不在于多，而在于精。
51. It’s better to open fewer stores and focus on quality rather than quantity.

52.所有的创业者应该多花点时间，去学习别人是怎么失败的。
52. All entrepreneurs should spend more time learning from others’ failures.

53.我觉得网络公司一定会犯错误，而且必须犯错误，网络公司最大的错误就是停在原地不动，最大的错误就是不犯错误。关键在于总结我们反思各种各样的错误，为明天跑的更好，错误还得犯，关键是不要犯同样的错误*我们是教人钓鱼，而不是给人鱼。
53. I believe that internet companies must make mistakes, and they must make mistakes. The biggest mistake for an internet company is to stand still, and the biggest mistake is not making mistakes. The key lies in summarizing and reflecting on various mistakes, so as to run better tomorrow. Mistakes will still be made, but the key is not to make the same mistakes. *We teach people to fish, not to give them fish.

54.多花点时间在你的其他员工身上。
54. Spend more time with your other employees.

55.道家讲究和谐，儒家讲究规矩，佛家讲究包容。我从太极中悟到：事情并没有好与坏，关键是看你怎么看。
55. Taoism emphasizes harmony, Confucianism emphasizes rules, and Buddhism emphasizes tolerance. From Tai Chi, I have realized that there is no good or bad in things; the key is how you perceive them.

56.我深信不疑我们的模式会赚钱的，亚马逊是世界上最长的河，是世界上最高的山，阿里巴巴是世界上最富有的宝藏。一个好的企业靠输血是活不久的，关键是自己造血。
56. I firmly believe that our model will make money. The Amazon is the longest river in the world, and the highest mountain is Mount Everest. Alibaba is the richest treasure in the world. A good company cannot survive for long by relying on external support; the key is to generate its own blood.

57.我们说上市就像我们的加油站，不要到了加油站，就停下来不走，还得走，继续走。
57. We say that going public is like our gas station. Don’t stop at the gas station; keep going and continue moving forward.

58.做企业有钱的人千万不要想有权，当政府有权的人千万不要想自己有钱，这两个东西就像火药一样，你死的时候都不知道怎么死的。
58. Wealthy entrepreneurs should never crave political power, just as those in governance should never covet personal wealth; these two elements, akin to gunpowder, can end you without your knowing how.

59.商业计划绝对不是一个销售计划，里面有无数细节，无数人才的运营。
59. A business plan is far from a mere sales strategy—it encompasses myriad details and the orchestration of countless talents.

60.这么多年我们的使命没变，还是让天下没有难做的生意。
60. Over the years, our mission has remained unchanged: to ensure that there’s no such thing as a difficult business to run.

61.我不知道该怎么样定义成功，但我知道怎么样定义失败，那就是放弃，如果你放弃了，你就失败了，如果你有梦想，你不放弃，你永远有希望和机会；人生是一种经历，成功是在于你克服了多少，经历了多少灾难，而不是取得了多少结果。
61. I don’t know how to define success, but I know how to define failure. It’s giving up. If you give up, you have failed. If you have a dream and you don’t give up, you always have hope and opportunity. Life is an experience, and success lies in how much you have overcome and how many disasters you have gone through, not how many results you have achieved.

62.玩硬件中国人不行，玩软件玩脑袋，中国人绝不比美国人差。
62. When it comes to hardware, Chinese people may not be as good, but when it comes to software and using our brains, Chinese people are definitely not inferior to Americans.

63.%的人永远不可能相信你。不要让你的同事为你干活，而让我们的同事为我们的目标干活，共同努力，团结在一个共同的目标下面，就要比团结在你一个企业家底下容易的多。所以首先要说服大家认同共同的理想，而不是让大家来为你干活。
63. A majority of people, 63%, will never truly believe in you. Instead of having your colleagues work for you, it is much easier to unite them under a common goal. Therefore, the first step is to persuade everyone to embrace a shared vision, rather than having them work solely for you as an entrepreneur.

64.六人当中有人杰，七人当中有混蛋。
64. Among every six people, there is a杰出 individual; among every seven people, there is a troublemaker.

65.我认为，成功的人，一定要有敬畏。
65. I believe that successful people must have a sense of reverence.

66.战略不等于结果，战略制定了以后，结果还很遥远，还有很长的路要走。
66. Strategy does not equal results. After the strategy is formulated, the results are still far away, and there is still a long way to go.

67.人家问我你喜欢能干的员工还是听话的员工，我说Yes，就是既要听话又要能干，因为我不相信能干和听话是矛盾的，能干的人一定不听话，听话的人一定不能干，这种人要来干什么，不听话本身就不能干，对不对？
67. When people ask me if I prefer capable employees or obedient employees, I say yes, both obedient and capable, because I don’t believe that being capable and obedient are contradictory. Capable people must not be obedient, and obedient people must not be capable. What’s the point of having such people? Disobedience itself means incompetence, right?

68.收购雅虎中国之后，整合问题又摆在马云面前。这次马云非常果断，“什么都可以谈，只有价值观不能谈判”，这是马云收购雅虎中国时的核心原则。
68. After acquiring Yahoo China, the integration issue was once again in front of Jack Ma. This time, Jack Ma was very decisive, “Everything can be discussed, only values cannot be negotiated,” which was the core principle when Jack Ma acquired Yahoo China.

69.永远要把对手想得非常强大，哪怕非常弱小，你也要把他想得非常强大。
69. Always think of your opponents as very powerful, even if they are very weak, you should still think of them as very powerful.

70.蒙牛不是策划出来的，而是踏踏实实的产品、服务和体系做出来的。
70. Mengniu was not planned, but was created through solid products, services, and systems.

71.什么是团队呢？团队就是不要让另外一个人失败，不要让团队任何一个人失败。
71. What is a team? A team is about not letting another person fail, not letting any member of the team fail.

72.明白自己有什么，明白自己要什么，明白自己放弃什么。
72. Understand what you have, understand what you want, and understand what you give up.

73.名声让我忧心，我见过太多飞上天空然后摔下的人了。
73. Fame makes me worried, as I have seen too many people who flew high and then fell.

74.看见只兔子，你到底抓哪一只？有些人一会儿抓这个兔子，一会儿抓那个兔子，最后可能一只也抓不住。CEO的主要任务不是寻找机会而是对机会说NO。机会太多，只能抓一个。我只能抓一只兔子，抓多了，什么都会丢掉。
74. Seeing a rabbit, which one do you catch? Some people catch one rabbit and then another, and in the end, they may not catch any. The main task of a CEO is not to seek opportunities but to say NO to opportunities. There are too many opportunities, and you can only catch one rabbit. I can only catch one rabbit; catching too many will cause you to lose everything.

75.对所有创业者来说，永远告诉自己一句话：从创业得第一天起，你每天要面对的是困难和失败，而不是成功。我最困难的时候还没有到，但有一天一定会到。困难不是不能躲避，不能让别人替你去扛。九年创业的经验告诉我，任何困难都必须你自己去面对。创业者就是面对困难。
75. For all entrepreneurs, always tell yourself one thing: from the first day of starting a business, you will face difficulties and failures every day, not success. My most difficult time has not yet arrived, but it will come one day. Difficulties cannot be avoided, and you cannot let others bear them for you. Nine years of entrepreneurial experience have taught me that any difficulty must be faced by yourself. Entrepreneurs are about facing difficulties.

76.我深信不疑我们的模式会赚钱的，亚马逊是世界上最长的河，是世界上最高的山，阿里巴巴是世界上最富有的宝藏。一个好的企业靠输血是活不久的，关键是自己造血。
76. I firmly believe that our model will make money. The Amazon River is the longest river in the world, Mount Everest is the highest mountain in the world, and Alibaba is the richest treasure in the world. A good company cannot survive for long by relying on blood transfusions; the key is to generate its own blood.

77.人永远不要忘记自己第一天的梦想，你的梦想是世界上最伟大的事情，就是帮助别人成功。
77. Never forget your dreams on the first day, for your dreams are the greatest things in the world, which is to help others succeed.

78.最大的挑战和突破在于用人，而用人最大的突破在于信任人。
78. The biggest challenge and breakthrough lies in using people, and the biggest breakthrough in using people lies in trusting them.

79.书读得不多没关系，就怕不再社会上读书。
79. It’s okay not to read many books, but be afraid of not learning in society.

80.做了销售你会发现，最先相信你的是陌生人。最先屏蔽你的是好朋友。最先删除你的是酒肉朋友。最看不起你的是同学和亲人。
80. After doing sales, you will find that the first to believe in you are strangers. The first to block you are good friends. The first to delete you are your drinking buddies. The ones who look down on you the most are your classmates and relatives.

81.一个成功的创业者，三个因素，眼光、胸怀和实力。
81. A successful entrepreneur has three factors: vision, mind, and strength.

82.互联网上失败一定是自己造成的，要不就是脑子发热，要不就是脑子不热，太冷了。
82. Failure on the Internet is always self-inflicted, either due to a feverish mind or a mind that is too cold.

83.淘宝网的主业决不该放在与对手的竞争上，而是把眼睛盯在提升客户体验上。
83. The main business of Taobao should never be focused on competing with rivals, but rather on improving customer experience.

84.如果你要靠别人的鼓励才能发光，你最多算个电灯泡。我们必须成为发动机，去影响他人发光，你自然就是核心！
84. If you rely on others’ encouragement to shine, you are at best a light bulb. We must become the engine, influencing others to shine, and you will naturally become the core!

85.当抱怨成了习惯，就如喝海水，喝的越多渴的越厉害。最后发现走在成功路上的都是些不抱怨的“傻孩子”没有人是完美的，社会也不可能是完美的，因为社会是由所有不完美的人组在一起的。你的职责就是比别人多勤奋一点多努力一点多一点理想，世界才会好起来！
85. When complaining becomes a habit, it is like drinking seawater; the more you drink, the thirstier you become. In the end, you will find that those who walk on the road to success are those “foolish” people who do not complain. No one is perfect, and society cannot be perfect either, because society is made up of all imperfect people. Your responsibility is to be more diligent, more hardworking, and have more ideals than others, so that the world will become a better place!

86.建一个公司的时候要考虑有好的价值才卖。如果一开始想到卖，你的路可能就走偏掉。
86. When building a company, consider having a good value before selling. If you think about selling from the beginning, your path may go astray.

87.我们选择雅虎，是因为雅虎有世界最强大的技术，雅虎在中国年的经验，无论犯的错误还是取得的进步，都是我们发展的资本。
87. We chose Yahoo because Yahoo has the world’s most powerful technology and Yahoo’s experience in China for years, both the mistakes made and the progress achieved, are our capital for development.

88.我觉得网络公司一定会犯错误，而且必须犯错误，网络公司最大的错误就是停在原地不动，最大的错误就是不犯错误。关键在于总结我们反思各种各样的错误，为明天跑的更好，错误还得犯，关键是不要犯同样的错误。我们是教人钓鱼，而不是给人鱼。
88. I think Internet companies will definitely make mistakes, and they must make mistakes. The biggest mistake for an Internet company is to stand still and not make any progress. The key is to summarize and reflect on all kinds of mistakes, so as to run better for tomorrow. Mistakes will still be made, but the key is not to make the same mistakes. We teach people to fish, not to give them fish.

89.暴躁在某种程度上讲是因为有不安全感，或者是自己没有开放的心态。
89. Impatience, to some extent, is due to a sense of insecurity or not having an open mindset.

90.花时间去学习别人失败的经验。
90. Spend time learning from other people’s failures.

91.创业时期千万不要找明星团队，千万不要找已经成功过的人。创业要找最适合的人，不要找最好的人。
91. During the startup period, never look for a star team or people who have already succeeded. Find the most suitable people, not the best people.

92.如何把每一个人的才华真正地发挥作用，我们这就像拉车，如果有的人往这儿拉，有的人往那儿拉，互相之间自己给自己先乱掉了。引用我朋友陈帅佛的话说当你有一个傻瓜时，很傻的，你很会很痛苦；你有个傻瓜是最幸福的，吃饭、睡觉、上厕所排着队去的；你有一个聪明人时很带劲，你有个聪明人实际上是最痛苦的，谁都不服谁。我在公司里的作用就象水泥，把许多优秀的人才粘合起来，使他们力气往一个地方使。
92. How to truly bring out everyone’s talents? It’s like pulling a cart; if some people pull in one direction and others pull in another, they will create chaos for themselves. In the words of my friend Chen Shuaifo, when you have one fool, it’s very painful; when you have a fool, it’s the happiest thing, as they line up to eat, sleep, and go to the toilet; when you have a smart person, it’s very exciting, but having a smart person is actually the most painful, as no one respects anyone else. My role in the company is like cement, binding many outstanding talents together and making their efforts go in one direction.

93.女人一成不变，男人一定会变！因为男人挣钱女人花，太太不舍得花，一定会有别的女人替你花！千万别做男人不喜欢的三心女人：留在家里放心，想起来伤心，看着恶心。世界上没有丑女人，只有懒女人！
93. If a woman remains unchanged, a man will definitely change! Because men earn money and women spend it; if the wife is unwilling to spend it, there will definitely be another woman to spend it for you! Never be the three-hearted woman that men don’t like: one that is safe to leave at home, one that makes you feel sad when you think of her, and one that makes you feel nauseous when you look at her. There are no ugly women in the world, only lazy women!

94.绝大部分创业者从微观推向宏观，通过发现一部分人的需求，然后向一群人推起来。
94. Most entrepreneurs start from the micro to the macro, by discovering the needs of a group of people and then promoting it to a larger group.

95.客户第一，员工第二，股东第三！
95. Customers first, employees second, shareholders third!

96.陈帅佛说今天要在网上发财，概率并不是很大，但今天的网络，可以为大家省下很多成本。这个世界没有人能替你发财，只有你自己才能替你发财，你需要的是投资和投入，把自己的时间投资在网络上面，网络一定会给大家省钱，但不一定今天就能赚多少钱，赚钱是明天的事，省钱，你今天就看得到。
96. Chen Shuaifo said that making a fortune online today is not very likely, but today’s Internet can save everyone a lot of costs. No one in this world can make you rich; only you can make yourself rich. What you need is investment and dedication, investing your time in the Internet. The Internet will definitely save everyone money, but it may not make much money today. Making money is a matter for tomorrow, but saving money is something you can see today.

97.聪明是智慧者的天敌，傻瓜用嘴讲话，聪明的人用脑袋讲话，智慧的人用心讲话。所以永远记住，不要把自己当成最聪明的，最聪明的人相信总有别人比自己更聪明。
97. Cleverness is the enemy of the wise. Fools speak with their mouths, clever people speak with their heads, and wise people speak with their hearts. Always remember, never consider yourself the smartest; the smartest people believe there is always someone smarter than themselves.

98.中国互联网缺少独立精神。
98. China’s Internet lacks an independent spirit.

99.年轻人如果心存对未来的崇敬，对今天的认真踏实，对昨天的感恩，就会有机会。
99. If young people hold a sense of reverence for the future, a serious and down-to-earth attitude towards today, and gratitude for yesterday, they will have opportunities.

100.不想当将军的士兵不是好士兵，但是一个当不好士兵的将军一定不是好将军。
100. A soldier who does not want to be a general is not a good soldier, but a general who cannot be a good soldier is definitely not a good general.