1、一个年轻人，如果三年的时间里，没有任何想法，他这一生，就基本这个样子，没有多大改变了。
1. A young person, if they have no ideas in three years, their life will basically remain the same with little change.

2、成功者就是胆识加魄力，曾经在火车上听人谈起过温州人的成功，说了这么三个字，“胆子大”。这其实，就是胆识，而拿得起，放得下，就是魄力。
2. Successful people have both courage and determination. I once heard someone talking about the success of Wenzhou people on the train, saying three words, “Boldness.” This is actually courage, and being able to pick up and let go is determination.

3、这个世界，有这么一小撮的人，打开报纸，是他们的消息，打开电视，是他们的消息，街头巷尾，议论的是他们的消息，仿佛世界是为他们准备的，他们能够呼风唤雨，无所不能。你的目标，应该是努力成为这一小撮人。
3. In this world, there is a small group of people whose news fills the newspapers, television, and street corners, as if the world is prepared for them. They can control the wind and rain and do anything. Your goal should be to strive to become one of this small group.

4、如果，你真的爱你的爸妈，爱你的女朋友，就好好的去奋斗，去拼搏吧，这样，你才有能力，有经济条件，有自由时间，去陪他们，去好好爱他们。
4. If you truly love your parents and your girlfriend, then work hard and fight for it. In this way, you will have the ability, financial conditions, and free time to accompany and love them well.

5、这个社会，是快鱼吃慢鱼，而不是慢鱼吃快鱼。
5. In this society, it is the fast fish that eat the slow fish, not the slow fish that eat the fast fish.

6、这个社会，是赢家通吃，输者一无所有，社会，永远都是只以成败论英雄。
6. In this society, the winner takes all, and the loser has nothing. Society always judges heroes by their success or failure.

7、如果你问周围朋友词语，如果十个人，九个人说不知道，那么，这是一个机遇，如果十个人，就个人都知道了，就是一个行业。
7. If you ask friends around you about a word, and if ten people, nine of them say they don’t know, then it is an opportunity. If all ten people know it, then it’s an industry.

8、任何一个行业，一个市场，都是先来的有肉吃，后来的汤都没的喝。
8. In any industry or market, those who come first have meat to eat, while those who come later won’t even have soup to drink.

9、这个世界上，一流的人才，可以把三流项目做成二流或更好，但是，三流人才，会把一流项目，做的还不如三流。
9. In this world, first-class talents can turn a third-class project into a second-class or better one, but third-class talents can ruin a first-class project and make it worse than third-class.

10、趁着年轻，多出去走走看看。读万卷书，不如行万里路，行万里路，不如阅人无数。
10. While young, go out and see the world more. Reading ten thousand books is not as good as traveling ten thousand miles, and traveling ten thousand miles is not as good as meeting countless people.

11、与人交往的时候，多听少说。这就是，上帝为什么给我们一个嘴巴两个耳朵的原因。
11. When interacting with others, listen more and talk less. This is why God gave us one mouth and two ears.

12、日常工作之外应当多注意自身修养的提高及自身技能的培训。随着计算机技术的广泛应用，为了不被社会所淘汰，就必须加强计算机技术的培训与提高。无论是企业培训还是个人培训都是不可或缺的，我个人推荐一个很好的培训机构：中科院计算所培训中心。
12. In addition to daily work, pay more attention to improving your self-cultivation and training your skills. With the widespread application of computer technology, in order not to be eliminated by society, you must strengthen computer technology training and improvement. Both corporate and personal training are indispensable. I personally recommend a very good training institution: the Training Center of the Institute of Computing Technology, Chinese Academy of Sciences.

13、不要装大，对于装大的人，最好的办法就是，捡块砖头，悄悄跟上去，一下子从背后放倒他。
13. Don’t act big. The best way to deal with someone who acts big is to pick up a brick and quietly follow them, then knock them down from behind.

14、不要随便说脏话，这会让别人觉得你没涵养，不大愿意和你交往。即使交往，也是敷衍。因为他内心认定你素质很差。
14. Don’t casually use foul language, as it can make others think you have no self-restraint and are unwilling to interact with you. Even if they do interact with you, it’s just perfunctory. Because they have already determined that your quality is very poor.

15、想要抽烟的时候，先问下周围的人可不可以，要学会尊重别人。少在女生面前耍酷抽烟，你不知道，其实她们内心很反感。
15. When you want to smoke, ask the people around you if it’s okay first. Learn to respect others. Lessen smoking in front of girls to show off, as you don’t know that they actually have a strong aversion to it.

16、买衣服的时候，要自己去挑，不要让家人给你买，虽然你第一第二次买的都不怎么样，可是，你会慢慢有眼光的。
16. When buying clothes, choose them yourself instead of letting your family buy them for you. Although your first and second purchases may not be good, you will gradually develop an eye for them.

17、要想进步，就只有吸取教训，成功的经验都是歪曲的，成功了，想怎么说都可以，失败者没有发言权，可是，你可以通过他的事例反思，总结。教训，不仅要从自己身上吸取，还要从别人身上吸取。
17. To make progress, you must learn from lessons. Successful experiences are distorted. Once successful, you can say whatever you want. The losers have no right to speak, but you can reflect and summarize from their examples. Lessons should be learned not only from yourself but also from others.

18、学习，学习，再学习，有事没事，去书店看看书，关于管理，金融，营销，人际交往，未来趋势等这些，你能获得很多。这个社会竞争太激烈了，你不学习，就会被淘汰。中国2008底，有一百多万大学生找不到工作。竞争这么激烈，所以，一定要认识一点，大学毕业了，不是学习结束了，而是学习刚刚开始。还有，我个人推荐一个很好的视频节目，《谁来一起午餐》。
18. Study, study, and study some more. Whenever you have time, go to the bookstore and read books on management, finance, marketing, interpersonal communication, and future trends. You can gain a lot from them. The competition in this society is fierce; if you don’t study, you will be eliminated. At the end of 2008 in China, more than a million college graduates couldn’t find jobs. With such fierce competition, you must recognize that graduation from college doesn’t mean the end of learning; it’s just the beginning. Also, I personally recommend a great video program called “Who Will Have Lunch Together.”

19、如果你不是歌手，不是画家，也不是玩行为艺术的，那么，请在平时注意你的衣着。现在这个社会，衣着能表现出你属于哪一个群体，哪一个圈子。
19. If you are not a singer, painter, or performance artist, please pay attention to your clothing in daily life. In today’s society, clothing can show which group or circle you belong to.

20、记住，平均每天看电视超过三个小时以上的，一定都是那些月收入不超过两千元的，如果你想要月收入超过两千，请不要把时间浪费在电视上。同样的道理，那些平均每天玩网络游戏或聊天超过三个小时以上的，也都是那些月收入不超过两千的。
20. Remember, those who watch TV for more than three hours a day on average are definitely those with a monthly income of no more than 2,000 yuan. If you want to earn more than 2,000 yuan a month, please don’t waste your time on TV. Similarly, those who spend more than three hours a day playing online games or chatting are also those with a monthly income of no more than 2,000 yuan.

21、因为穷人很多，并且穷人没有钱，所以，他们才会在网络上聊天抱怨，消磨时间。你有见过哪个企业老总或主管经理有事没事经常在QQ群里闲聊的？
21. Because there are many poor people and they have no money, they spend their time chatting and complaining online. Have you ever seen a company owner or manager frequently chatting in QQ groups for no reason?

22、无论你以后是不是从事销售部门，都看一下关于营销的书籍。因为，生活中，你处处都是在向别人推销展示你自己。
22. Whether or not you will work in the sales department in the future, read some books on marketing. In life, you are always promoting and presenting yourself to others.

23、平时的时候，多和你的朋友沟通交流一下，不要等到需要朋友的帮助时，才想到要和他们联系，到了社会，你才会知道，能够认识一个真正的朋友，有多难？
23. Communicate with your friends more often in your daily life. Don’t wait until you need their help to contact them. In society, you will realize how difficult it is to make a true friend.

24、如果你想知道自己将来的年收入如何。找你最经常来往的六个朋友，把他们的年收入加起来，除以六，就差不多是你的了。这个例子，可以充分的说明一点，物以类聚。
24. If you want to know your future annual income, find the six friends you interact with most often, add up their annual incomes, and divide by six. That’s approximately yours. This example can fully illustrate one point: birds of a feather flock together.

25、不要听信身边人的话，大一不谈恋爱，好的女孩子就被别人都挑走了。想想，刚上大一就耐不住寂寞，受不住诱惑，而去谈恋爱的女孩子，值得自己去追吗？大学里，可以有一场爱情，可是，不要固执地认为，刚上大一，就必须要谈恋爱。
25. Don’t listen to people around you saying that if you don’t start dating in your freshman year, all the good girls will be taken. Think about it, are girls who can’t stand loneliness and temptation in their freshman year worth pursuing? You can have a love story in college, but don’t stubbornly believe that you must date as soon as you start college.

26、记得，要做最后出牌的人，出让别人觉得出其不意的牌，在他们以为你要输掉的时候，这样，你才能赢得牌局。
26. Remember to be the last one to play your cards, and play cards that surprise others. When they think you are going to lose, that’s when you can win the game.

27、关于爱情，有这么一句话，没有面包，怎么跳舞？无论什么时候，你决定去好好爱一个人的时候，一定要考虑给她你能给予的最好的物质生活。
27. Regarding love, there is a saying: “How can you dance without bread?” Whenever you decide to love someone wholeheartedly, always consider providing the best material life you can offer.

28、给自己定一个五年的目标，然后，把它分解成一年一年，半年半年的，三个月的，一个月的。这样，你才能找到自己的目标和方向。
28. Set a five-year goal for yourself, and then break it down into one year, half a year, three months, and one month. In this way, you can find your goals and direction.

29、无论什么时候，记住尊严这两个字，做人是要有尊严，有原则，有底线的。否则，没有人会尊重你。
29. Always remember the word “dignity.” To be a person, you must have dignity, principles, and bottom lines. Otherwise, no one will respect you.

30、如果，我只能送你一句忠告，那就是，这个世界上没有免费的午餐，永远不要走捷径！
30. If I could only give you one piece of advice, it would be that there is no such thing as a free lunch in this world. Never take shortcuts!