1.最快的脚步不是跨越，而是继续；最慢的步伐不是小步，而是徘徊。
1. The fastest pace is not a leap, but to continue; the slowest step is not a small one, but to hesitate.

2.微笑和沉默是两个有效的武器：微笑能解决很多问题，沉默能避免许多问题。
2. A smile and silence are two effective weapons: a smile can solve many problems, and silence can avoid many problems.

3.不要期待，不要假想，不要强求，顺其自然，如果注定，便一定会发生。心安，便是活着的最美好状态。
3. Don’t expect, don’t assume, don’t force; just let it be, if it’s meant to be, it will happen. Peace of mind is the most beautiful state of being alive.

4.不要忘掉别人生气时说的话，因为往往那才是真相；不要记恨说这话的人，因为这是他用另一种方式让你看清楚自己。
4. Don’t forget the words others say when they are angry, because that’s often the truth; don’t hold a grudge against the person who says it, because they are showing you another way to see yourself.

5.人生，犹如一杯白开水，平淡而无味。但却在白开水里放一颗糖，那么就会有淡淡的甜味。人生一杯水，拥有无数调味剂，只看你想放什么味道的调味，酸甜苦辣皆可，尝久了，发现纯净的白开水最有味。
5. Life is like a cup of plain boiled water, tasteless and bland. But if you put a piece of sugar in the water, it will have a faint sweetness. Life is a cup of water, with countless seasonings, and it’s up to you what flavor you want to add. After tasting for a long time, you’ll find that the pure water is the most flavorful.

6.做什么事、说什么话，都太在乎别人的感受，等于为别人活着，只要把自己做好，别自私、别自大就可以，不要把自己神话了，其实，你照顾不了所有人的感受，你只会让自己不好受。
6. If you care too much about others’ feelings in everything you do and say, you’re living for others. Just be yourself, don’t be selfish or arrogant, and don’t deify yourself. In fact, you can’t take care of everyone’s feelings; you’ll only make yourself unhappy.

7.每一个强大的人，都曾咬着牙度过一段没人帮忙，没人支持，没人嘘寒问暖的日子。过去了，这就是你的成人礼。
7. Every strong person has gone through a period of time with no help, support, or care. Once you’ve passed that, it becomes your coming-of-age ceremony.

8.如果你想拥有你从未有过的东西，那么你必须去做你从未做过的事情。努力，勤奋，共勉之！
8. If you want to have something you’ve never had before, you must do something you’ve never done. Strive, be diligent, and let’s encourage each other!

9.不要那么敏感，也不要那么心软，太敏感和太心软的人，肯定过得不快乐，别人随便的一句话，你都要胡思乱想一整天。
9. Don’t be too sensitive or too soft-hearted. People who are too sensitive and soft-hearted will definitely be unhappy. A casual word from others can make you ponder and worry all day long.

10.时间真的很神奇，你永远不知道它会如何改变你。换句话说：以前难吃的蔬菜、苦涩的啤酒、无聊的书籍，甚至讨厌的人，后来有一天，却又统统喜欢上了。
10. Time is truly magical; you never know how it will change you. In other words: once disliked vegetables, bitter beer, boring books, and even people you hated, one day you might suddenly like them all.

11.身边没撕破脸的人太多了，明明看透了很多人却不能轻易翻脸，对讨厌的人和事露出微笑是我们必须要学会的恶心。
11. There are too many people around us that we haven’t confronted, even though we’ve seen through them. Smiling at those we dislike is something we must learn to do.

12.我可以接受失败，但我不能接受从不去尝试。当你连尝试的勇气都没有，你就不配拥有幸福，也永远不会得到幸福，伤过，痛过，才知道有多深刻。
12. I can accept failure, but I can’t accept never trying. If you don’t even have the courage to try, you don’t deserve happiness, and you’ll never achieve it. Only after experiencing pain and sorrow can you truly understand its depth.

13.其实后来的我们，都没有再联系，我不知道你过得怎样，就算偶尔想起也只是用以前的记忆填补，我能做的是再怎么想念都不去打扰。因为你只是过去，并不是唯一。
13. In fact, we haven’t contacted each other since then. I don’t know how you’re doing, and even if I occasionally think of you, I just fill in the gaps with memories from the past. What I can do is to miss you as much as I want without disturbing you, because you’re just a part of the past, not the only one.

14.这么多年，我看错过很多人，承受过许多背叛，也曾经狼狈不堪。可是真的都没关系，只要死不了，我就还能站起来，别小看我，我没那么脆弱。
14. Over the years, I’ve misjudged many people, endured numerous betrayals, and been in a mess. But it’s really okay, as long as I’m not dead, I can still stand up. Don’t underestimate me; I’m not that fragile.

15.我们总是像智者一样去劝慰别人，却像傻子一样折磨自己，很多时候，跟自己过不去的是自己。
15. We always advise others like wise people, but we torture ourselves like fools. Many times, the one who can’t get past ourselves is ourselves.

16.如果有人在背后议论你，那只能说明你活的比他们精彩许多，冷嘲热讽是对你的赞赏，闲言碎语是为你的精彩鼓掌。他们不过是在为你歌唱胜利的赞歌。
16. If people are gossiping about you behind your back, it only means that you’re living a much more exciting life than they are. Sarcasm and ridicule are their way of praising you, and gossip is their applause for your brilliance. They’re just singing a victory anthem for you.

17.一些人，越看越陌生，一些事，越想越心痛。
17. The more you look at some people, the stranger they become; the more you think about some things, the more heartache you feel.

18.你不努力，怎么去得到你想要的。
18. If you don’t strive, how can you get what you want?

19.时间会淡化一个人的记忆，却永远没有办法消磨一个人的悲痛。
19. Time can fade one’s memory, but it can never erase one’s grief.

20.有时候，莫名的心情不好，不想和任何人说话，只想一个人静静的发呆。有时候，想一个人躲起来脆弱，不愿别人看到自己的伤口。有时候，走过熟悉的街角，看到熟悉的背影，突然想起一个人的脸。有时候，别人误解了自己有口无心的话，心里郁闷的发慌。有时候，发现自己一夜之间就长大了。
20. Sometimes, for no reason, I feel down and don’t want to talk to anyone. I just want to be alone and daydream quietly. Sometimes, I want to hide my vulnerability and not let others see my wounds. Sometimes, when passing a familiar street corner and seeing a familiar silhouette, I suddenly remember a person’s face. Sometimes, when others misunderstand my offhand remarks, I feel frustrated and anxious. Sometimes, I find that I’ve grown up overnight.

21.后来才发现，并不是所有的喜欢都会有结果。终究要明白，遇见就已经很难得，我会好好珍惜那段记忆，而不是再珍惜你，就算偶尔想起，也不会再联系。
21. Later, I realized that not all likes will have a result. Eventually, I understand that it’s already rare to meet, and I will cherish that memory instead of cherishing you. Even if I occasionally think of you, I won’t contact you anymore.

22.心中纵有万语千言想对你说，却找不到一个打扰你的理由，有千万次想关心你，却找不到一个合适的身份。
22. I have thousands of words I want to say to you, but I can’t find a reason to disturb you. I want to care for you countless times, but I can’t find a suitable identity.

23.有些话，适合藏在心里，有些痛苦，适合无声无息的忘记，有些回忆，只适合偶尔拿出来回味。
23. Some words are suitable to keep in the heart, some pain is suitable to be forgotten silently, and some memories are only suitable to be taken out and savored occasionally.

24.人生苦短，经得起悲欢，活的起内涵，来这一趟人间，虽然说无常，那么更是一场稀有，人生依然辛苦，再添些忧愁其实是一场无辜，生命是每个人活着的义务和热情，因为全面承受着因果，所以千万不要漫不经心。
24. Life is short and bitter, but we must endure sorrow and joy, and live with depth. Coming to this world is a rare opportunity, and life is still hard. Adding more sorrow is unnecessary, as we all bear the consequences of our actions. So never take life for granted.

25.耐得住寂寞才能守的住繁华，该奋斗的年龄不要选择了安逸。学历代表着过去，学习能力才能代表将来。
25. Only by enduring loneliness can we appreciate prosperity. At the age of struggle, don’t choose comfort. Education represents the past, while learning ability represents the future.

26.你眼见的不一定为实，你认为真实的也许是误会一场。看人事，要用时间、要用心去看，而不光是眼睛。
26. What you see is not necessarily the truth, and what you think is real might just be a misunderstanding. To understand people and things, we need time and heart, not just our eyes.

27.早晚我们都会从不懂柴米油盐的毛孩子，变成人情世故的老掌柜。
27. Sooner or later, we will all grow from naive youngsters who don’t understand the basics of life to seasoned shopkeepers who know the ways of the world.

28.有一些人，不是不想忘，而是忘不了;总有一些情，不是不想放，而是放不下。
28. There are some people we can’t forget even if we want to, and there are some feelings we can’t let go of even if we want to.

29.如果我们都是孩子，就可以留在时光的原地，坐在一起一边听那些永不老去的故事一边慢慢皓首。
29. If we were all children, we could stay in the same place in time, sitting together and listening to those never-ending stories while slowly growing old.

30.我何其幸运，因为我不是气象学家，不用知道云彩如何形成或气流里有什么成分，但是我却可以用我的眼采集天边的流云，放在心里细品那份最抽象的唯美，那份心灵的愉悦。
30. How lucky I am, because I am not a meteorologist and don’t need to know how clouds form or what’s in the air currents. Yet, I can still use my eyes to capture the clouds on the horizon and savor their abstract beauty in my heart, enjoying the pleasure it brings to my soul.

31.我喜欢你，很久了，等你，也很久了，现在，我要离开，比很久很久还要久。
31. I have liked you for a long time, and I have waited for you for even longer. Now, I am going to leave, for a time longer than ever.

32.有的时候不愿意说话，不是担心对方听不懂，而是分享也无用。遇见挫折时，与其叽叽喳喳说个不停，不如做点喜欢的事分散一下注意力，出门逛个街，看场好电影，或者干脆倒头睡一觉，怎么都好。当你遇见问题不再慌张四处求救，而是气定神闲地继续自己的生活，才是真的长大了。管你风雨，我有自己。
32. Sometimes, I don’t want to talk, not because I’m worried that others won’t understand, but because sharing is useless. When facing setbacks, it’s better to do something you like to distract yourself, go for a walk, watch a good movie, or just sleep. It’s only when you no longer panic and ask for help, but calmly continue with your life, that you have truly grown up. No matter the storms, I have my own strength.

33.有时候，就是想大哭一场，因为心里憋屈。有时候，就是想疯癫一下，因为情绪低落。有时候，就是想破口大骂，因为心里不爽。有时候，就是想安安静静，因为真的我累了。
33. Sometimes, I just want to cry because I feel suffocated. Sometimes, I just want to go wild because I’m feeling down. Sometimes, I just want to curse because I’m upset. Sometimes, I just want to be quiet because I’m really tired.

34.我不炫耀，因为我不自卑。我不花心，因为难受的时候什么都不想说，而是特别渴望好好休息一下。也许明天还有很多麻烦的工作要做，也许明天依旧要解决一堆堆事情。可我们哪能面面俱到啊，哪能永远做一个坚不可摧的人呢。所以难受的时候就好好睡一觉吧，醒来该坚强该努力该奋斗的还是要继续，日子总不能一味矫情地过啊。
34. I don’t show off because I don’t feel inferior. I don’t play around because when I feel upset, I don’t want to say anything, but rather long for a good rest. Maybe there’s still a lot of troublesome work to do tomorrow, and maybe there’s still a pile of things to solve. But how can we take care of everything? How can we always be an invincible person? So when feeling upset, just have a good sleep. When you wake up, you still need to be strong, work hard, and continue to strive. Life can’t be spent on being overly sentimental.

35.有没有人和我一样，还在为了一个没有结果的结果执着。
35. Is there anyone like me, still persistent for a result without an outcome?

36.坚持做你自己，而不是被别人修改的面目全非。
36. Stick to being yourself, not being modified beyond recognition by others.

37.如果你还可以努力、可以付出，就不要轻言停止和放弃。
37. If you can still make an effort and give, don’t easily say stop or give up.

38.人真正的魅力：不是你给对方留下了美好的第一印象;而是对方认识你多年后，仍喜欢和你在一起。在历尽沧桑后，能由衷的说，能认识你真好。
38. A person’s true charm: it’s not about leaving a good first impression on the other person; it’s about them still enjoying being with you after knowing you for years. After going through many vicissitudes, they can sincerely say, “It’s great to know you.”

39.少一点懒惰，多一点改变，在成为你希望的那种人之前，做好你可以做的事。
39. Be less lazy and make more changes. Before becoming the person you hope to be, do what you can do.

40.有时候握得越紧，失去得也越快。感情不是谁能主宰，却是自己能掌控。如果一生一世情，那么这世要等多久，要该多努力去握紧。
40. Sometimes, the tighter you hold on, the faster you lose. No one can dominate emotions, but you can control them. If it’s a lifelong love, how long do you have to wait and how hard do you have to try to hold on?

41.再烦，也别忘微笑；再急，也要注意语气；再苦，也别忘坚持；再累，也要爱自己。
41. No matter how annoyed, don’t forget to smile; no matter how urgent, pay attention to your tone; no matter how bitter, don’t forget to persevere; no matter how tired, love yourself.

42.期许一场花开的绚烂，静赏一场花落的淡然。
42. Look forward to the splendid blooming of flowers and quietly appreciate the calm falling of petals.

43.半生已过，走走停停，谁行谁不行？患难见真情！是蛇一身冷，是鱼一身腥；水深静无声，失利人无踪。
43. Half of life has passed, with stops and starts, who is reliable and who is not? True feelings are revealed in difficult times! A snake is cold, a fish is smelly; deep water is silent, and people disappear when they lose.

44.无论生活怎样，都不要忘记微笑。愿你成为自己的太阳，无需凭借谁的光。
44. No matter what life is like, don’t forget to smile. May you become your own sun, without relying on anyone else’s light.

45.每个人都想，苦了，有人疼。久了，有人忆。远了，有人牵。但现实告诉我们，生活，要自己忙。苦累，要自己扛。
45. Everyone wants someone to care for them when they’re suffering, to remember them after a long time, and to hold their hand when they’re far away. But reality tells us that we have to be busy with our own lives, bear our own hardships, and carry our own burdens.

46.一个人值不值得你穷极一生去喜欢不是看他能对你有多好，而是看他心情不好的时候能对你有多差。
46. Whether a person is worth liking for a lifetime is not about how good they can be to you, but how bad they can be when they’re in a bad mood.

47.世界上最糟糕的事情之一，是觉得自己配不上喜欢的那个人，就像彼此站在下雨的屋檐，你不能上前说一句“一起走吧”，因为你连伞都没有。
47. One of the worst things in the world is feeling unworthy of the person you like, like standing under a rain eave together, and you can’t step forward to say “let’s go together” because you don’t even have an umbrella.

48.不要对一个人太好，因为你终会发现，这样时间久了，那个人是会习惯的，然后把你做的一切看作是理所应当。其实你明明知道，最卑贱不过感情，最凉不过是人心。
48. Don’t be too good to someone because eventually, they will get used to it and take everything you do for granted. In fact, you know very well that the most humble thing is feelings, and the coldest thing is human hearts.

49.无论受了多少委屈，只有自己憋在心里。不是不想说，只是不知道该怎么说，能和谁说。
49. No matter how many grievances you suffer, you have to keep them to yourself. It’s not that you don’t want to talk, but you don’t know how to say it or who to talk to.

50.那个说永远不会离开我的人，早已离开了，那个说爱我的人，牵着的却是别人的手，那个说会等我的人，却跟另一个人走了。还有什么可以相信呢。
50. The person who said they would never leave me is already gone, the one who said they loved me is holding someone else’s hand, and the one who said they would wait for me has left with someone else. What else can I believe in?

51.人生如梦不是梦，因为太真实；生活如水不是水，因为有苦涩。在生命中，许多事情在于自己，很多感受在于个人，心大路则宽，心小事则难。做人需要下心，做事需要埋头。心胸需要拓宽，心态需要放平！
51. Life is like a dream but not a dream because it’s too real; life is like water but not water because it’s bitter. In life, many things depend on yourself, and many feelings depend on the individual. A broad mind leads to a wide path, while a narrow mind leads to difficulties. To be a good person, you need to put in effort, and to do things well, you need to work hard. You need to broaden your mind and level your attitude!

52.有事做，有人爱，有所期待，对生活保持热情和希望，充满向上的力量。这就是最好的生活状态。
52. Having things to do, having people to love, having expectations, and maintaining passion and hope for life with an upward force. This is the best state of life.

53.每天给自己一个希望，努力做好自己，不为明天烦恼，不为昨天叹息。当梦想还在，告诉自己：努力，就总能遇见更好的自己！
53. Give yourself a hope every day, strive to be the best you can be, don’t worry about tomorrow, and don’t sigh for yesterday. When dreams are still there, tell yourself: if you work hard, you will always meet a better version of yourself!

54.得不到的就顺其自然好了，不是所有的努力都会有结果，也不是所有的过程都没有意义，你不需要为不值得的人难过，更不需要为不爱你的人委屈。
54. If you can’t get something, just let it be. Not all efforts will have results, and not all processes are meaningless. You don’t need to be sad for unworthy people, nor feel wronged for those who don’t love you.

55.谁都没有比谁生活地容易。只是有的人呼天抢地，痛不欲生。而有的人，却默默地咬牙，逼自己学会坚强。
55. No one’s life is easier than others. Some people cry out loud and feel unbearable pain, while others silently grit their teeth and force themselves to be strong.

56.生活如果不宠你，更要自己善待自己。这一生，风雨兼程，就是为了遇见最好的自己，如此而已。
56. If life doesn’t pamper you, treat yourself kindly. This life is a journey to meet the best version of yourself, and that’s all.

57.情殇，落寞了谁的年华。那年的你，在我的心中。此时的你，在我的梦里。时光荏苒，一季又一季，淡然度过。
57. The sorrow of love has faded who’s youth. You from that year are in my heart, and you from this moment are in my dreams. Time flies, season after season, passing by indifferently.

58.时光无言，却年年有痕。我们总是习惯带着记忆，走现在的路，然后在不经意的某个瞬间，想起过去的点点滴滴，突然泪流满面。或许，有些缘分真的像极了那一场落花，是我们无法挽留的忧伤。
58. Time is silent, but it leaves marks year after year. We always walk the path of the present with memories, and then in an unintentional moment, we recall the past bit by bit and suddenly burst into tears. Perhaps, some fates are really like that falling petals, which are our unretained sorrows.

59.风筝，有线，才飞得高远；浮萍，无根，只能漂泊不定。
59. A kite can fly high and far because it has a string; a duckweed can only drift aimlessly without roots.

60.生活可以很复杂，也可以很简单。生活是一场演出，角色由你自己挑选。你可以扮黑脸，也可以扮红脸，当然也可以一会儿扮黑脸，一会儿扮红脸，你可以扮演几个角色，喜怒哀乐，完全看你自己，结局也是你自己设定的。
60. Life can be complicated or simple. Life is a performance, and the role is chosen by you. You can play the villain or the hero, or switch between them, and you can play multiple roles. Joy, anger, sorrow, and happiness are all up to you, and the ending is also set by you.

61.爱情本是个不等式，没有谁可以预见感情天平的哪一端会重些，哪一端又会轻些。但是爱情就是这样，如果你没有勇气去尝试，那就注定只有陪伴自己孤寂的灵魂。
61. Love is an inequality, and no one can predict which side of the emotional scale will be heavier and which will be lighter. But that’s how love is; if you don’t have the courage to try, you are doomed to only accompany your lonely soul.

62.生活中，有些事，有些人，看的太重，便成了累赘。人生，总需要继续，继续轻装前行。心若放宽，天高云淡路好走；事若看淡，心胸坦荡也安然。
62. In life, some things and some people become burdens when we take them too seriously. Life always needs to go on, and we need to continue to move forward lightly. If our hearts are open, the sky is high, and the road is easy to walk; if we see things in a lighter way, our hearts are open and at ease.

63.人世间，我们来来往往，分分合合，笑笑哭哭，尝尽人间酸甜苦辣。其实，很多时候，我们只是在为他人而活，结果到头来却受伤最深。我们能够做好三点，人生便会更加有趣，更有意义。那就是：别爱太满，别睡太晚，别管太多。
63. In this world, we come and go, separate and reunite, laugh and cry, tasting the joys and sorrows of life. In fact, many times, we live for others, but in the end, we get hurt the most. If we can do three things well, life will be more interesting and meaningful: don’t love too much, don’t sleep too late, and don’t interfere too much.

64.要么忍，要么残忍，做人要狠，在这肮脏的社会才能站得稳。
64. Either endure or be ruthless; to stand firm in this dirty society, one must be tough.

65.善待自己，不被别人左右，也不去左右别人，自信优雅。如果做一粒尘埃，就用飞舞诠释生命的内涵；如果是一滴雨，就倾尽温柔滋润大地。人生多磨难，要为自己鼓掌，别让犹豫阻滞了脚步，别让忧伤苍白了心灵。
65. Treat yourself kindly, not influenced by others, and don’t try to control others. Be confident and elegant. If you are a speck of dust, interpret the essence of life with your dance; if you are a drop of rain, pour your tenderness into the earth. Life is full of hardships, so applaud yourself and don’t let hesitation hold you back or sadness pale your soul.

66.再烦，也别忘微笑;再急，也要注意语气;再苦，也别忘坚持;再累，也要爱自己。
66. No matter how annoyed, don’t forget to smile; no matter how urgent, pay attention to your tone; no matter how bitter, don’t forget to persevere; no matter how tired, love yourself.

67.世界上，唯独骗不了的，是自己的心，它总在你最没提防时，暴露你的欢喜忧愁。
67. In this world, the only thing we can’t deceive is our own heart. It always exposes our joys and sorrows when we least expect it.

68.终于明白，有些路，只能一个人走。那些邀约好同行的人，一起相伴雨季，走过年华，但有一天终究会在某个渡口离散。红尘陌上，独自行走，绿萝拂衣襟，青云打湿诺言。山和水可两两相忘，日与月可以毫无瓜葛。那时候，只一个人的浮世清欢，一个人的细水长流。
68. Finally understand, some roads can only be walked alone. Those who agreed to walk together, accompanied each other through the rainy season, and walked through the years, but one day they will eventually part at some ferry. On the dusty road, walking alone, green vines brush the clothes, and blue clouds dampen promises. Mountains and waters can forget each other, and the sun and moon can have no connection. At that time, only the floating world’s joy belongs to one person, and the gentle stream of life belongs to one person.

69.成功的花儿，人们只惊羡它现实的美丽，当初它的芽渗透了奋斗的泪水，洒遍了牺牲的细雨。
69. People only admire the beauty of the successful flower, but its bud was soaked with the tears of struggle and the rain of sacrifice.

70.光阴只方寸，却演绎着各种离奇的故事。人生就如沙漏，撒完了都回去不了。哭也好，乐也好，过去的不在重提，追忆过去，只能徒增伤悲，当你掩面叹息的时候，时光已逝，幸福也从你的指缝悄悄地溜走。
70. Time is only an inch, yet it plays out all kinds of bizarre stories. Life is like an hourglass, once the sand has passed, it cannot go back. Whether crying or laughing, the past is not to be mentioned again. Recalling the past only adds to the sadness. When you sigh with your hands covering your face, time has passed, and happiness has slipped away through your fingers.

71.最深的爱、最痛的恨、最甜蜜的希望、最苍凉的失望，从来不是对别人，而是自己对自己的。我们与之周旋一生的，原来是自己。
71. The deepest love, the most painful hatred, the sweetest hope, and the most desolate disappointment are never directed at others, but rather at ourselves. The one we deal with for our entire life turns out to be ourselves.

72.无数个瞬间我都在想，你在就好了。结果还是我一个人熬过了所有这些时刻，后来，你在不在都无所谓了。
72. Countless moments I thought, if only you were here. But in the end, I got through all these moments alone, and later, it didn’t matter whether you were here or not.

73.养好受伤的心，保持百斤左右体重，照顾好挑剔的胃，交一个能一路废话的朋友；给自己疲惫的生活找一个温柔的梦想，然后彻彻底底跟过去的悲伤道别。这就是你接下来要做的事。
73. Heal your wounded heart, maintain a weight of around 100 pounds, take care of your picky stomach, make a friend who can chat with you all the way; find a gentle dream for your weary life, and then say goodbye to the past sorrow completely. This is what you need to do next.

74.有些事，你把它藏在心里也许更好，等时间长了，回过头去看它，也就变成了故事。
74. Some things may be better left unsaid, kept in your heart. As time goes by, when you look back, they become stories.

75.有些情，没了就没了，终归无法再继续；有些人，远了就远了，其实原本就不属于自己。这个世界上，谁也不是谁的永远。
75. Some feelings, once gone, are gone for good and cannot be continued; some people, once distant, were never truly yours to begin with. In this world, no one is anyone’s forever.

76.人，到了一定年龄，都是带着点心事，带着点难言的痛，每天笑嘻嘻地生活下去的。
76. At a certain age, people carry some worries and unspeakable pain, and live on with a smiling face every day.

77.总有一天你恍然大悟，父母是你花心思，花时间最少，却最爱你的人。
77. One day, you will suddenly realize that your parents are the ones you spend the least time and effort on, yet they love you the most.

78.不要害怕做错什么，即使错了，也不必懊恼，人生就是对对错错。何况有许多事，回头看来，对错已经无所谓了。
78. Don’t be afraid of making mistakes; even if you do, there’s no need to regret it. Life is full of right and wrong. Moreover, many things, when looked back upon, no longer matter whether they were right or wrong.

79.人生遇到的每个人，出场顺序真的很重要，很多人如果换一个时间认识，就会有不同的结局。
79. The order in which you meet people in life is really important. If many people were met at a different time, the outcome would be different.

80.年轻时我们总是在开始时毫无所谓，在结束时痛彻心扉。而长大后成熟的我们可能避免了幼稚的伤害，却也错过了开始的勇气。
80. When we were young, we didn’t care at the beginning, but felt heartbroken at the end. As we grow up and mature, we may avoid naive injuries but also miss the courage to start.

81.人生最遗憾的，莫过于，轻易地放弃了不该放弃的，固执地坚持了不该坚持的。
81. The most regrettable thing in life is to give up easily on what should not be given up, and stubbornly persist in what should not be persisted in.

82.其实很多事我都介意，只是习惯笑着说没关系。
82. In fact, I mind many things, but I’m used to saying it doesn’t matter with a smile.

83.生活的常态就是，有些事你尽%的努力，也可能不完美，有些人你用尽全力去爱，最终也会分道扬镳。当你开始接受和适应这些的时候，你就长大了。
83. The norm of life is that even if you give 100% effort, some things may not be perfect, and some people you love with all your strength will eventually part ways. When you start to accept and adapt to this, you have grown up.

84.淡然于心，从容于表，优雅自在地生活。追求，就会有失望；活着，就会有烦恼。不要把什么都看得那么真、那么重。人生最怕什么都计较，最后都是两手空空如也。
84. Be indifferent at heart, calm on the surface, and live gracefully and leisurely. There will be disappointment in pursuit, and there will be worries in life. Don’t take everything so seriously or heavily. The most fearful thing in life is to keep calculating everything, and in the end, you’ll end up with nothing.

85.坚持做你自己，而不是被别人修改的面目全非。
85. Stick to being yourself, instead of being modified beyond recognition by others.

86.心幸福，日子才轻松；人自在，一生才值得！想的太多，容易烦恼；在乎太多，容易困扰；追求太多，容易累倒。好好珍惜身边的人，因为没有下辈子的相识！好好感受生活的乐，因为转瞬就即逝！好好体会生命的每一天，因为只有今生，没有来世。
86. Happiness in the heart makes life relaxed; being at ease makes life worthwhile. Overthinking leads to troubles; caring too much leads to confusion; pursuing too much leads to exhaustion. Cherish the people around you, for there is no next life to meet again. Enjoy the happiness of life, as it is fleeting. Experience every day of life, for there is only this life, no afterlife.

87.来不及叹息，已纷纷散落在旧苑荒台上，斑驳了久藏的春梦，在春暖花开时，惊扰那隔世的孤影。
87. Before sighing, they have already scattered on the old desolate platform, mottling the long-hidden spring dreams. In the warm spring, they disturb the lonely shadows of the past.

88.得不到回应的热情，要懂得适可而止。不亏待每一份热情，不讨好任何的冷漠。当别人不需要你的时候你要学会自己走开，多一点自知之明，少一点自作多情。
88. If your enthusiasm is not reciprocated, know when to stop. Don’t take advantage of every enthusiasm, and don’t please any indifference. When others don’t need you, learn to walk away. Have more self-knowledge and less self-love.

89.年龄越大，越学会了顺其自然，不想再挽留什么，相信该在的不会走。得之坦然，失之淡然，争取必然，顺其自然。
89. The older you get, the more you learn to let things go, not wanting to hold onto anything. Believe that what should stay will not leave. Accept what you gain calmly, let go of what you lose indifferently, strive for what is inevitable, and let nature take its course.

90.不要为了任何人任何事折磨自己。比如不吃饭、哭泣、自闭、抑郁，这些都是傻瓜才做的事。如果你都不心疼自己，还有谁来心疼你呢？
90. Don’t torture yourself for anyone or anything. For example, not eating, crying, being closed off, or being depressed – these are things only fools do. If you don’t care for yourself, who will?

91.一句无心的话，却得罪了一个有心的人；一次全力以赴，却落得万劫不复。不是你想得太多，是经历让你学会了不语沉默；不是你变得太假，是世事让你懂得了自我保护。
91. A careless word can offend a person with a sensitive heart; giving your all can lead to disaster. It’s not that you think too much, it’s your experiences that have taught you to keep silent; it’s not that you’ve become fake, it’s the world that has taught you self-protection.

92.当一个人能够影响你心情的时候，说明你在乎了。当一个人能赚到你眼泪的时候，说明你投入了。当一个人能驾驭你情绪的时候，说明你沦陷了。
92. When a person can affect your mood, it means you care. When a person can make you cry, it means you’re invested. When a person can control your emotions, it means you’re trapped.

93.善良和爱都是免费的，但不是廉价的，你的善良，需要带点锋芒，你的爱，需要带些理智，带眼识人，毕竟不是所有人都配拥有它们。
93. Kindness and love are free, but not cheap. Your kindness should have some edge, and your love should have some reason. Be discerning, as not everyone deserves them.

94.好好珍惜对你好的人，别等心碎了拿歉意拼凑，弄丢了，上哪也找不回来。离开了，互联网也联系不上。别等人都不在了，才知道对方的好，有个令人尴尬的词，叫做“为时已晚”。
94. Cherish those who are good to you, don’t wait until your heart is broken to piece it back with apologies. Once lost, you can never find it again. Once gone, the internet won’t connect you. Don’t wait until people are gone to realize their worth; there’s an embarrassing word called “too late.”

95.你可能在一个人面前一文不值，却在另一个人面前是无价之宝。谨记自己的价值所在，这就是人挪活的道理所在。
95. You may be worthless in front of one person, but priceless in front of another. Remember where your value lies, and that’s the reason for people’s mobility.

96.其实，没有什么东西是不能放手的。时日渐远，当你回望，你会发现，你曾经以为不可以放手东西，只是生命里的一块跳板，令你成长。
96. In fact, there is nothing that cannot be let go. As time passes, when you look back, you will find that what you once thought you couldn’t let go of was just a stepping stone in life, helping you grow.

97.决定你穿什么衣裳的，不是你的钱包，而是你的身材。决定你的脾气的，不是你的性格，而是你的位置。决定你的品位的，不是你的学历，而是你的阅历。
97. What decides what you wear is not your wallet, but your figure. What decides your temper is not your personality, but your position. What decides your taste is not your education, but your experience.

98.有时侯明白人的一生当中，深刻的思念是维系自我与记忆的纽带。它维系着所有的过往。悲喜。亦指引我们深入茫茫命途。这是我们宿命的背负。但我始终甘之如饴地承受它的沉沉重量，用以平衡轻浮的生。
98. Sometimes I understand that in one’s life, deep longing is the bond that maintains self and memory. It holds all the past, joys and sorrows, and guides us into the vast journey of life. This is our destined burden. But I always bear its heavy weight gladly, using it to balance the frivolity of life.

99.做好自己，世界就美丽了。保持内心的安静与善良，不要因为诱惑和欲望，而扭曲自己的心灵和本性。让灵魂拥有一种自由，不去患得患失，不去小心翼翼，更不要活得战战兢兢。
99. Be yourself, and the world will be beautiful. Maintain inner peace and kindness, don’t twist your soul and nature because of temptation and desire. Let your soul have freedom, not to worry about gains and losses, not to be cautious, and not to live in fear.

100.不是每一次努力都会有收获。但是，每一次收获都必须努力，这是一个不公平的不可逆转的命题。
1. 100. Not every effort will yield results. 2. However, every gain requires effort. 3. This is an unfair and irreversible proposition.