1.每个人的性格中，都有某些无法让人接受的部分再美好的人也一样。所以不要苛求别人，不要埋怨自己。玫瑰有刺，才会是玫瑰。
1. In everyone’s personality, there are certain parts that are hard to accept, even for the most wonderful people. So don’t be demanding of others, and don’t blame yourself. A rose has thorns, and that’s what makes it a rose.

2.我们总是喜欢拿“顺其自然”来敷衍人生道路上的荆棘坎坷，很少承认，真正的顺其自然，其实是竭尽所能之后的不强求，而非两手一摊的不作为。
2. We always like to use “going with the flow” to gloss over the thorns and bumps on the road of life, rarely admitting that true going with the flow is actually not forcing things after doing our best, rather than simply giving up with a shrug.

3.生活的累，一半源于生存，一半来自攀比。很多时候我们不是为自己活着，而是为“面子”而活。人的烦恼，多数并非缺少什么而不满足，而是因为“别人比自己好”的不平衡。所以，我们要学会用知足的心态面对生活，明白每个人的幸福各不相同。
3. The tiredness of life comes half from survival and half from comparison. Many times, we don’t live for ourselves, but for “face”. Most of our troubles are not due to a lack of something, but because of the imbalance caused by “others being better than ourselves”. Therefore, we should learn to face life with a contented attitude, understanding that everyone’s happiness is different.

4.昨天越来越多，明天越来越少。走过的路长了，遇见的人多了，不经意间发现，人生最曼妙的风景是内心的淡定与从容，头脑的睿智与清醒。
4. The more yesterdays we have, the fewer tomorrows we have left. As the road we’ve walked becomes longer and the people we’ve met become more numerous, we inadvertently discover that the most beautiful scenery in life is the calmness and composure within our hearts, and the wisdom and clarity in our minds.

5.被人误解很正常，哪怕是你最亲的人。不要总盼着别人跟你想到一起，毕竟心不同，想法就不一样。出现矛盾时，不妨一笑而过，相信时间是最好的磨合剂。
5. It’s normal to be misunderstood, even by your closest ones. Don’t always expect others to think the same way as you do, after all, different hearts have different thoughts. When conflicts arise, it’s better to just smile and let it go, trusting that time is the best lubricant.

6.执着是一种负担，放弃是一种解脱。人没有完美，幸福没有一百分，不能拥有那么多，何必要求那么多。
6. Persistence is a burden, and giving up is a relief. No one is perfect, and happiness isn’t 100%; we can’t have it all, so why demand so much?

7.如果你没有尽力，你没有资格批评别人不小心。抱怨很容易，但是闭嘴和努力工作的人应该得到更多的尊重。
7. If you haven’t tried your best, you have no right to criticize others for being careless. Complaining is easy, but those who keep quiet and work hard deserve more respect.

8.人们天生就有坏习惯。他们总是喜欢与别人比较，看谁比自己好，谁比自己差。事实上，你的烦恼和悲伤的底部绝不是别人的痛苦和痛苦，而是你自己的态度。
8. People are born with bad habits. They always like to compare themselves with others, to see who is better or worse. In fact, the root of your troubles and sorrows is not the pain and suffering of others, but your own attitude.

9.不喜欢的就不要假装，不适合的就不要勉强，生活已经那么不容易了，何必再辛苦自己；不要因为寂寞，随便找一个人。为了这一时的陪伴，在以后的日子可能不只有寂寞，还有痛苦。
9. Don’t pretend to like things you don’t, and don’t force yourself into situations you’re not suited for. Life is already hard enough; why make it harder for yourself? Don’t just find someone to be with because of loneliness. For this momentary companionship, your future may hold not only loneliness, but also pain.

10.错爱，就像一双鞋。喜欢却不适合，穿了脚疼，扔了心疼，要是你，会继续穿，还是扔掉；遇见的人多了，你才会明白哪些人值得用生命去珍惜，而一些人只适合绕道而行。
10. Loving the wrong person is like a pair of shoes. You like them but they don’t fit; wearing them hurts your feet, but throwing them away hurts your heart. If you were in this situation, would you continue to wear them or just throw them away? As you meet more people, you’ll understand who is worth cherishing with your life, and who is better off avoided.

11.想你的时候，我强迫自我喝下一整瓶的酒，把自我放倒，让思维停止，让思念停止，可醒来后，想你的梦依旧在延续；如果一个人，就这样生活：可以孤单，但不许孤独。可以寂寞，但不许空虚。可以消沉，但不许堕落。可以失望，但不许放弃。记住，没有伞的孩子必须努力奔跑。
11. When I miss you, I force myself to drink an entire bottle of wine, to pass out, to stop thinking, to stop missing you, but when I wake up, the dream of missing you still continues. If you are alone, live like this: you can be lonely, but not alone. You can be bored, but not empty. You can be depressed, but not fall. You can be disappointed, but not give up. Remember, children without umbrellas must run hard.

12.要真正快乐，人要变得既不聪明也不愚蠢。人们把这种介于聪明和傻之间的状态叫做生活的智慧。
12. To be truly happy, one must be neither too smart nor too foolish. People call this state between intelligence and foolishness the wisdom of life.

13.谁都有底线，但要懂得把握，大事重原则，小事有分寸，不讲情面难得别人支持，过分虚伪亦让人避而远之。
13. Everyone has a bottom line, but it’s important to know how to grasp it. Focus on principles for major issues and be measured for minor ones. Not showing mercy is hard to gain others’ support, and being overly hypocritical will drive people away.

14.合适的人生位置，既不靠近钱，也不靠近权，而是靠近灵魂；真正的幸福，既不是富贵，也不是凡事都对，而是问心无愧。
14. The right position in life is neither close to money nor power, but close to the soul. True happiness is neither wealth nor always being right, but having a clear conscience.

15.一个人的自愈的能力越强，才越有可能接近幸福。做一个寡万，却心有一片海的人，不伤人害己，于淡泊中，平和自在。
15. The stronger a person’s ability to heal themselves, the more likely they are to approach happiness. Be a person of few desires, yet with a vast inner world, causing no harm to others or yourself, and find peace and contentment in simplicity.

16.生活总是这样，不能叫人处处都满意。但我们还要热情地活下去。人活一生，值得爱的东西很多，不要因为一个不满意，就灰心。
16. Life is always like this, not satisfying everywhere. But we must still live passionately. There are many things worth loving in life; don’t lose heart just because of one dissatisfaction.

17.长大后才发现，有时你说了真话，你还得和人家道歉，因为你戳穿了事实。所以想要活得顺畅，请时刻带上脑子。
17. Only when you grow up do you realize that sometimes, even when you tell the truth, you have to apologize because you’ve exposed the facts. To live smoothly, always keep your wits about you.

18.缘分就得：该走走，该留留，今后一律不强求！生活就得：该吃吃，该喝喝，破事别往心里搁！人生就得：该丢丢，该捡捡，没有舍哪来的得！活着就得：该玩玩，该乐乐，怎么开心怎么过！
18. In matters of fate: let go when it’s time to let go, stay when it’s time to stay, and never force anything in the future! In life: eat when you should eat, drink when you should drink, and don’t dwell on trivial matters! In life: discard when you should discard, pick up when you should pick up, for without giving up, there’s no gain! To live: play when you should play, be happy when you should be happy, and live as happily as possible!

19.其实，没有什么东西是不能放手的。时日渐远，当你回望，你会发现，你曾经以为不可以放手东西，只是生命里的一块跳板，令你成长。
19. In fact, there’s nothing that cannot be let go. As time passes, when you look back, you’ll find that the things you once thought you couldn’t let go of were just stepping stones in life, helping you grow.

20.幸福的秘诀，不在于拥有多少必需的东西，而在于能从不需要的物件中获得多少自由。寻求幸福的方法就在我们心中。需要一个，就只拿一个。拿了两个，连最初拥有的感动也会失去。
20. The secret to happiness lies not in having many essential things, but in the freedom gained from unnecessary possessions. The method to seek happiness is within our hearts. If you need one, take only one. If you take two, even the initial joy of possessing it will be lost.

21.有些人看起来整天面带笑容，并不是因为他们事事顺利，只是他们比你敢于面对问题、善于遗忘不幸、勇于拥抱未来。
21. Some people seem to be smiling all day, not because everything is going well for them, but because they are braver in facing problems, better at forgetting misfortune, and more courageous in embracing the future.

22.当你还没强大到一定程度，没必要到处抱怨你的处境，默默做好你该做的事情，等你变得足够好，自然会有配得上你的人，拉你进更好的圈子，到那时，你会站在新的高度，拥抱更美的风景。
22. When you are not strong enough, there’s no need to complain about your situation everywhere. Just do your best quietly, and when you become good enough, you’ll naturally find people who deserve you and pull you into a better circle. At that time, you’ll stand at a new height and embrace a more beautiful view.

23.别试图去给年轻人讲经验，讲一万句不如你自己摔一跤，眼泪教你做人，后悔帮你成长，疼痛才是最好的老师，人生该走的弯路，其实一米都少不了。
23. Don’t try to teach young people experience; a thousand words are not as good as one fall. Tears teach you how to be a person, regret helps you grow, and pain is the best teacher. The detours in life must be taken, and not a single meter can be skipped.

24.后来才知道，和不同的人说不同的话，表现出不一样的态度，是一种非常可贵的能力，而不是虚伪。
24. Later, you’ll realize that speaking differently to different people and showing different attitudes is a very valuable ability, not hypocrisy.

25.别人恭维你时，偷偷高兴一下就可以了，但不可当真，因为那十有八九是哄你的；别人批评你時，稍稍不开心一下就可以了，但不可生气，因为那十有八九是真的。
25. When others flatter you, be secretly happy for a moment, but don’t take it seriously, because most of the time, it’s just to please you; when others criticize you, be slightly unhappy for a moment, but don’t get angry, because most of the time, it’s true.

26.你生活在别人的眼神里，就迷失在自己的心路上。你永远无法满足所有人，不必为了取悦这个世界而扭曲自己。
26. If you live in the eyes of others, you’ll lose your way in your own heart. You can never satisfy everyone, so don’t twist yourself just to please the world.

27.别总因为迁就别人就委屈自己，这个世界没几个人值得你总弯腰。事情都有度，低调过度会被认为低能，好人过度会被认为贱人。
27. Don’t always compromise yourself just to accommodate others; there are few people in this world who deserve your constant bending. Everything has a limit; being too low-key can be seen as incompetence, and being too nice can be seen as worthlessness.

28.和聪明人交流，和靠谱的人恋爱，和积极的人共事，和幽默的人随行。人生若能如此，就是最大的幸福。
28. Communicate with smart people, fall in love with reliable people, work with positive people, and travel with humorous people. If life can be like this, it’s the greatest happiness.

29.多一点忍耐，就会少几次后悔。少几次翻脸，就多几个台阶。多几次听不见，就少几次庸人自扰。少撂几句狠话，就多一些余地。
29. A little more patience leads to fewer regrets. Fewer confrontations mean more opportunities. Listening less to others means fewer self-inflicted troubles. Not saying harsh words leaves more room for maneuver.

30.人越长大不一定越成熟，但一定会越固执。知人不评人，知理别争论。
30. Growing older doesn’t necessarily mean becoming more mature, but it does mean becoming more stubborn. Know people but don’t judge them; understand the truth but don’t argue.

31.前进的理由只要一个，后退的理由却有一百个。许多人整天找一百个理由证明他不是懦夫，却从不用一个理由去证明他是一勇士。
31. There’s only one reason to move forward, but a hundred reasons to back down. Many people spend their whole lives finding a hundred reasons to prove they are not cowards, but never use one reason to prove they are brave.

32.不管你过得怎么样，都不要一副悲哀的样子，不要逢人就诉说自己多可怜，过得好不好，始终是靠自己，没人会帮你，别人只是同情，连感同身受都难。
32. No matter how you’re doing, don’t look miserable and don’t tell everyone how pitiful you are. Whether you’re doing well or not, it’s always up to yourself. No one will help you; others can only sympathize, and even empathizing is difficult.

33.不经历风雨，哪会有彩虹。心态的不同，人生的境遇便会天差地别。只有修炼一颗淡泊宁静的心，人生才会风清月明。
33. Without going through storms, how can you see a rainbow? Different mindsets lead to vastly different life experiences. Only by cultivating a calm and indifferent heart can life be serene and bright.

34.买了就买了，不要去比价；吃了就吃了，不要去后悔；爱了就爱了，不要去猜疑；散了就散了，不要去诋毁。
34. Once you’ve bought something, don’t compare prices; once you’ve eaten, don’t regret it; once you’ve loved, don’t doubt it; once you’ve separated, don’t slander.

35.生活最沉重的负担不是工作，而是无聊。若不抽出时间，来创造自己想要的生活，你最终将不得不花费大量的时间，来应付自己不想要的生活。
35. The heaviest burden in life is not work, but boredom. If you don’t make time to create the life you want, you’ll eventually have to spend a lot of time dealing with the life you don’t want.

36.别人做得越绝，你反而越容易走得出去。所以很多时候，你应该感激那些毫不顾及你的人。哀莫大于心不死，幸莫过于死彻底。
36. The more ruthless others are, the easier it is for you to move on. So, many times, you should be grateful to those who don’t care about you at all. The greatest sorrow is an unbroken heart, and the greatest happiness is a completely dead one.

37.看别人不顺眼，其实是自已的修养不够。人生在世，顺少逆多，一辈子不容易，千万不要总是跟别人过不去，更不要跟自已过不去。人的一生，总有学不完的知识，总有领悟不透的真理，保持一种平和的心态，就会拥有整个世界。
37. If you don’t like others, it’s actually because you lack self-cultivation. Life is full of more adversities than smooth sailing, and it’s not easy to get through a lifetime. Never always be at odds with others or yourself. In one’s life, there is always knowledge to learn and truths to comprehend. Maintain a peaceful mindset, and you will possess the whole world.

38.如果你足够勇敢说再见，生活便会奖励你一个新的开始。如果找不到坚持下去的理由，那就找一个重新开始的理由，生活本来就这么简单。只需要一点点勇气，你就可依把你的生活转个身，重新开始。
38. If you are brave enough to say goodbye, life will reward you with a fresh start. If you can’t find a reason to persist, then find a reason to start over. Life is that simple. With just a little courage, you can turn your life around and start anew.

39.生活，总是在忙与闲中纠缠，更是舍与得的摇摆，根本没有什么老天注定，也是一场忠于人生的探索，而生命的美好，就在于经历生命的本身。以出世的心态做人，以入世的心态做事。
39. Life is always entangled between busyness and idleness, as well as the dilemma between sacrifice and gain. There is no such thing as fate; it is a journey of exploration dedicated to life. The beauty of life lies in experiencing it itself. Embrace a transcendent attitude in life and an engaged attitude in work.

40.高潮时享受成就，低潮时享受人生，有心思时干有意义的活，没心情时做有意思的事。
40. Enjoy your achievements during the highs, and enjoy life during the lows. When you’re in the mood, do meaningful work; when you’re not, do interesting things.

41.有钱，把事做好！没钱，把人做好！蛇不知道自己有毒，人不知道自己有错。你的好，对别人来说就像一颗糖，吃了就没了。而你的不好，就像一道伤疤，会永远存在。这就是人性！
41. If you have money, do things well! If you don’t, be a good person! A snake doesn’t know it’s poisonous, and people don’t know they’re wrong. Your kindness is like a candy to others, consumed once eaten. Your unkindness, however, is like a scar that will remain forever. This is human nature!

42.生活就像一杯白开水，你每天都在喝，不要羡慕别人喝的饮料有各种颜色，其实未必有你的白开水解渴，人生不是靠心情活着，而要靠心态去生活。调整心态看生活，处处都是阳光。
42. Life is like a cup of plain boiled water. You drink it every day, so don’t envy others for their colorful drinks. They may not be as refreshing as your plain water. Life is not about living according to your emotions but about maintaining a positive mindset. Adjust your mindset and see life in a positive light, and you’ll find sunshine everywhere.

43.如果你是对的，你没必要发脾气；如果你是错的，你没资格去发脾气。
43. If you’re right, you don’t need to lose your temper; if you’re wrong, you don’t have the right to lose your temper.

44.不懂别人就少说话，人最大的修养是知人不评人更不讽人，尊重人与人之间的不同。
44. If you don’t understand others, speak less. The greatest self-cultivation is to know people without judging or mocking them, and to respect the differences between individuals.

45.不乱于心，不困于情，不畏将来，不念过往。如此，安好。
45. Be not disturbed by your heart, not trapped by emotions, not afraid of the future, and not obsessed with the past. In this way, you will be at peace.

46.只有在你最落魄时，才会知道谁才是时刻担心你的笨蛋，谁是形同陌路的混蛋;放下你容易被诱惑的眼睛，听从自己的内心。
46. Only when you’re at your lowest point will you know who truly worries about you and who has become a stranger. Put aside your easily tempted eyes and listen to your heart.

47.成长就是每一次的痛苦，而这些第一次就像是预防针，能让你对这世界越来越有抵抗力。
47. Growth is the pain from every experience, and these first times are like vaccinations, making you increasingly resistant to the world.

48.有些路看起来近，走起来远。生不易，活不易，生活不容易，没有什么比好好活着更重要了。
48. Some paths may seem short, but they are long when walked. Life is not easy, and nothing is more important than living well.

49.不是你的东西，就是追一辈子也不是你的。对于一个不在意你的人，你付出十年的等待和十秒钟是没多少区别的。
49. If it’s not yours, chasing it for a lifetime won’t make it yours. For someone who doesn’t care about you, there’s little difference between waiting for ten years and ten seconds.

50.生命并不是你活了多少日子，而是你记住了多少日子，你要使你过的每一天，都值得记忆。
50. Life is not about how many days you’ve lived, but how many days you remember. Make every day of your life worth remembering.

51.所有的努力，不是为了让别人觉得你了不起，而是为了能让自己打心眼里看得起自己。
51. All efforts are not to make others think you’re amazing, but to be able to respect yourself from the bottom of your heart.

52.善良要有底线，大方要有原则。不分青红皂白，只知道对人好，那会辜负自己的一片好心。
52. Kindness should have a bottom line, and generosity should have principles. Without discrimination, knowing only how to be kind to others will lead to the waste of your own good intentions.

53.人生不能太过圆满，求而不得未必是遗憾;愿我们，都有能力爱自己，有余力爱别人。
53. Life should not be too perfect; not getting what you want may not be a regret. May we all have the ability to love ourselves and the strength to love others.

54.不攀不比，过好自己的生活，才是最重要的;当我们懂得珍惜平凡的幸福时，就已经成了人生的赢家。
54. Don’t compare yourself to others; live your own life, which is the most important thing. When we learn to cherish ordinary happiness, we have already become winners in life.

55.所谓白头到老，没什么秘诀。只是在相爱时，存下点感动，在冷战时，懂一些感恩。
55. The secret to growing old together lies not in anything special. It’s about storing some touching moments during love and understanding gratitude during cold wars.

56.长大是件很有意思的事，不经意间，我们都不再是原来的样子。
56. Growing up is an interesting process, and before we know it, we are no longer the same as before.

57.如果你真的了解我，应该知道，像我这么乐观的人，越沉默情绪越汹涌。
57. If you really understand me, you should know that as an optimistic person, the more silent I am, the more turbulent my emotions become.

58.一个人起码要在感情上失恋一次，在事业上失败一次，在选择上失误一次，才能真正地长大。
58. A person must experience heartbreak in love, failure in career, and mistakes in choices to truly grow up.

59.有些烦恼是我们凭空虚构的，而我们却把它当成真实去承受。
59. Some troubles are fabricated by ourselves, yet we bear them as if they were real.

60.时间它是个好东西，验证了人心，见证了人性，懂得了真的，明白了假的。
60. Time is a great thing; it tests people’s hearts, witnesses human nature, helps us understand what’s real and what’s fake.

61.谁的人生不是一路披荆斩棘前行呢?想要成为那个别人无法企及的人，就不要畏惧前行路上的荆棘坎坷，付出别人无法企及的努力。趁年轻拼一把!
61. Whose life is not about forging ahead through hardships? To become someone others cannot reach, don’t be afraid of the thorns and setbacks on the road. Make efforts beyond others’ reach. Take advantage of your youth and give it a shot!

62.很多时候，成功就是多坚持一分钟，这一分钟不放弃，下一分钟就会有希望。只是我们不知道，这一分钟会在什么时候出现。所以，再苦再累只要坚持走下去，属于你的风景终会出现。
62. Often, success is about persevering for one more minute. If you don’t give up in this minute, there will be hope in the next. We just don’t know when that minute will come. So, no matter how hard and tired it gets, keep going, and the scenery that belongs to you will eventually appear.

63.人活着一定不要都是为了自己，也不可能只为了自己。要做好人，想要得到别人尊重，就必须不断学习、不断修身、不断做好事，需一生不懈的努力。我们要尽自己的努力，去创造更好的社会。
63. We cannot and should not live only for ourselves. To be a good person and gain respect from others, we must keep learning, cultivating ourselves, and doing good deeds with tireless efforts throughout our lives. We should do our best to create a better society.

64.以前睡不着是单纯的睡多了，现在睡不着是因为环境，因为人，因为事，因为烦恼。
64. In the past, I couldn’t sleep because I slept too much. Now, I can’t sleep due to the environment, people, events, and troubles.

65.我们真正需要的，其实很简单，或许就是一缕清风，几片白云，数处风景，唯有淡，才能找到我们生命的本真。人生百味，浓缩到最后，就是一个淡字。奋斗是盐，少了它，再好的人生佳肴，皆是食而寡味。
65. What we truly need is actually very simple: perhaps just a breath of fresh air, a few white clouds, several scenic spots. Only by being indifferent can we find the essence of our lives. The hundred flavors of life can be condensed into one word: indifference. Struggle is the salt; without it, even the best dishes in life would taste bland.

66.自暴自弃便是命运的奴隶，自强不息是生命的天使;不要用别人的汗水浇灌自己的心灵，不要用别人的棉袄，来温暖自己的躯体。堂堂正正的做人，光明磊落做事，该记得的不能遗忘，该遗忘的不要存放。
66. Abandoning yourself to despair makes you a slave to fate; continuous self-improvement is the angel of life. Don’t water your soul with other people’s sweat, and don’t warm your body with other people’s cotton jackets. Be upright in life, act with integrity, remember what should be remembered, and forget what should be forgotten.

67.如果你要做一件事，请不要炫耀，也不要宣扬，只管安安静静的去做。因为那是你自己的事，别人不知道你的情况，也不可能帮你实现梦想。千万不要因为虚荣心而炫耀，也不要因为别人的一句评价而放弃自己的梦想。其实最好的状态，是坚持自己的梦想，听听前辈的建议，少错几步。值不值，时间是最好的证明。
67. If you want to do something, don’t show off or publicize it. Just do it quietly. It’s your own business, and others don’t know your situation or how to help you achieve your dreams. Never flaunt because of vanity, nor give up your dreams because of someone else’s comment. The best state is to stick to your dreams, listen to the advice of predecessors, and make fewer mistakes. Whether it’s worth it or not, time will be the best proof.

68.要战胜恐惧，而不是退缩。失败者任其失败，成功者创造成功。胜利，是属于最坚韧的人。我自信，故我成功;我行，我一定能行。一百次心动不如一次行动。只要你不认输，就有机会。相信所有的汗水与眼泪，最后会化成一篇山花烂漫。晚安。
68. To conquer fear, not shrink back. The losers let their failures be, while the winners create success. Victory belongs to the most tenacious. I am confident, so I succeed; I act, and I can definitely make it. A hundred moments of hesitation are not as good as one action. As long as you don’t give up, there is a chance. Believe that all the sweat and tears will eventually turn into a beautiful mountain blossom. Good night.

69.有的人，每天和你争吵，却不曾怪罪你。有的人，连争吵都没有，却已经消失在人海，原来，冷漠比争吵更可怕。当我们搬开别人架下的绊脚石时，也许恰恰是在为自己铺路。
69. Some people argue with you every day but never blame you. Some people disappear into the crowd without even arguing, and it turns out that indifference is scarier than arguing. When we remove the stumbling blocks set by others, we may be paving the way for ourselves.

70.苦难是一笔财富，它会锤炼人的意志，使人获得生活的真谛。中国有句成语说，苦尽甘来。另一句又说，吃得苦中苦，方为人上人。这些都是鼓励人要经受住苦难的考验，在面对苦难的时候要忍耐，要有希望，只有保持这样一种心态，才会走向人生的辉煌。
70. Suffering is a kind of wealth, which tempers one’s will and helps one grasp the essence of life. As a Chinese saying goes, “sweetness comes after bitterness.” Another saying goes, “only by enduring the greatest hardships can one become superior.” These all encourage people to withstand the test of suffering, to be patient and hopeful when facing it. Only by maintaining such a mindset can one achieve a brilliant life.

71.要想改变我们的人生，第一步就是要改变我们的心态。只要心态是正确的，我们的世界就会的光明的。
71. To change our lives, the first step is to change our mindset. As long as the mindset is correct, our world will be bright.

72.凡事要靠自己，改变命运更要靠自己。凡事需坚持、凡事需忍耐、凡事需付出、凡事需尽力。世上没有天生的强者，强者是磨练出来的。一个人若要有所作为，就必须同对手竞争并超越对手。与弱者竞争，胜算当然大，但很难成为强者。只有与强者竞争，才能不断拓展生存的空间，才能成为真正的强者。
72. Everything depends on oneself, and changing one’s destiny even more so. One must persist, be patient, make sacrifices, and do their best in everything. There are no innately strong people; the strong are forged through trials. If one wants to achieve something, they must compete with and surpass their rivals. Competing with the weak may have a higher chance of winning, but it’s hard to become strong. Only by competing with the strong can one continuously expand their living space and become a true strong person.

73.人为什么会莫名的不开心呢?更多的是太在乎别人的话语，所以要顺从自己的内心而活，才是最好的生活。人生，谁也不能确定的明天的明天。
73. Why do people feel inexplicably unhappy? It’s often because they care too much about others’ opinions. So, living according to one’s own heart is the best way to live. In life, no one can be sure about tomorrow.

74.希望以后和你的生活，温柔，有趣，不必太激烈，三餐，四季，不必太匆忙，毕竟我有一生的时间要和你浪费；人在落魄时，才知道谁的手最暖；情在吵架时，才明白谁的心最软。那个只懂流血却为你流了泪的人，是肝胆相照的朋友；那个只知流泪却为你流了血的人，是相濡以沫的爱人……。
74. I hope that our life together will be gentle, interesting, and not too intense. We don’t need to rush through our days, as I have a lifetime to spend with you. When one is down and out, they know whose hand is the warmest. When arguing, they understand whose heart is the softest. The person who knows only how to fight but sheds tears for you is a loyal friend; the one who knows only how to cry but sheds blood for you is a devoted lover…

75.那些看起来不合群的人，只是很早就知道自己想要什么；从容不迫的举止，比起咄咄逼人的态度，更能令人心折。
75. Those who seem not to fit in just know what they want early on; a calm demeanor is more impressive than an aggressive attitude.

76.如果我不得不离开你，我也想用尽最后的力气拥紧你的眼泪。你让我学会了拥有，却教会了我放弃；年轻的时候，以为伤心会是一辈子的，但是慢慢地发现，伤心的长短，原来控制在自己的手上。
76. If I had to leave you, I would use all my remaining strength to hold you and your tears tight. You taught me how to possess, but also how to let go; when I was young, I thought sadness would last a lifetime, but gradually I found that the length of sadness is actually controlled by myself.

77.再好的东西都有失去的一天。 再深的记忆也有淡忘的一天。再爱的人，也有远走的一天。再美的梦，也有苏醒的一天；每个人的性格中，都会有无法让人接受的部分，再美好的人也一样。所以不要苛求别人，不要埋怨自己。玫瑰有刺，才会是玫瑰。
77. Even the best things will eventually be lost one day. Even the deepest memories will eventually fade away one day. Even the person you love the most will eventually leave one day. Even the most beautiful dreams will eventually wake up one day; everyone has parts of their character that are hard to accept, even the most wonderful people. So don’t be demanding of others, and don’t blame yourself. Roses have thorns, and that’s what makes them roses.

78.喜欢跟爱是不一样的，喜欢是荡秋千，可以自得其乐，不需别人的回应；爱是跷跷板，需要一个人坐在对面与你互动，贴近你内心的感觉；有的过错是短暂的遗憾，有的错过却是值得的。你喜欢的人，不能让你更好，反而更丧，那他一定配不上你的喜欢。
78. Liking and loving are different. Liking is like swinging, where you can enjoy yourself without needing a response from others; love is like a seesaw, where you need someone to sit across from you and interact with you, getting close to your inner feelings. Some mistakes are fleeting regrets, while some missed opportunities are worth it. If the person you like doesn’t make you better but instead makes you more miserable, then they are not worthy of your affection.

79.不是世界选择了你，是你选择了这个世界。既然无处可逃，不如喜悦。既然没有净土，不如静心。既然没有如愿，不如释然；所有的种子，破土而出的时候，不会去想，遇到的是风雨还是阳光。做任何事不要去设想结局，干了才会知道下一步是什么！重点是迈出第一步。
79. It’s not the world that chose you; it’s you who chose this world. Since there’s nowhere to escape, it’s better to be joyful. Since there’s no pure land, it’s better to calm your heart. Since things don’t always go as you wish, it’s better to let go. All seeds, when breaking through the soil, don’t think about whether they will encounter wind and rain or sunshine. Don’t imagine the outcome when doing anything; only by doing it will you know what the next step is! The key is to take the first step.

80.有些人只做两件事，他们定下目标并为之奋斗，所以越好越好，他们就越成功。而有些人也只做两件事，等待，后悔，所以更糟糕的是悲惨。人们不忍心去思考自己，看看他们是什么样的人。如果你做得不好，当你做出改变自己的痛苦决定时，未来就会改变。
80. Some people only do two things: they set goals and strive for them, so the better they get, the more successful they become. Others also only do two things: waiting and regretting, so the worse things get, the more miserable they become. People are reluctant to reflect on themselves and see what kind of person they are. If you don’t do well, when you make the painful decision to change yourself, the future will change.

81.我越来越深知，当你真正花费大量时间做好工作时，生活自然会给你相应的回报。如果没有，这意味着努力不够，时间不对。
81. I have come to realize more and more that when you truly spend a lot of time doing something well, life will naturally give you the corresponding rewards. If not, it means that the effort is not enough, or the timing is not right.

82.称职的人不关心他的情感，而是关心他的工作。不称职的人不关心他的工作，而是关心他的情感。
82. Competent people don’t care about their emotions; they care about their work. Incompetent people don’t care about their work; they care about their emotions.

83.你想的越多，你就越担心它。你越担心它，你遇到的困难就越多。无论你赚多少钱，赢得多少名气，如果你没有平静的心，你终不会满意。外面无尽的风景都是面子。最重要的是，你是平静，开放，安静和远方，这是男人的最高境界。
83. The more you think about something, the more worried you become. The more worried you are, the more difficulties you encounter. No matter how much money you make or how much fame you gain, if you don’t have a peaceful heart, you will never be satisfied. The endless scenery outside is all about face. The most important thing is to be peaceful, open, quiet, and distant, which is the highest state for a man.

84.不要耽搁尴尬的事情太久。纠缠很久，你会感到疲倦，疼痛，会厌，疲惫，悲伤，心碎。事实上，最终，你不能与事物相处，而是与自己相处。不管你有多尴尬，你必须学会退缩。
84. Don’t dwell on embarrassing things for too long. If you entangle yourself in them for a long time, you will feel tired, hurt, bored, exhausted, sad, and heartbroken. In fact, in the end, you can’t get along with things; it’s yourself you need to get along with. No matter how embarrassed you are, you must learn to step back.

85.你舍弃的东西，终将以你希望的样子回来；旅行吧，出去走一走，看看山，望望云，这个世界远比你的生活圈更美好。
85. What you give up will eventually come back to you in the way you hope; travel, go out for a walk, look at the mountains, gaze at the clouds, the world is far more beautiful than your circle of life.

86.半夜上完厕所后手脚冰凉地钻回被窝，有个人意识朦胧中死命把你往他怀里拉，那种温暖真的富可敌国；如果有一天，你怪我没有好好爱着你，你要记得是你没有好好珍惜过我。谢谢你的无情，锻炼了我的绝望。
86. After getting up in the middle of the night to use the bathroom, with cold hands and feet, crawling back into the warm bed, and having someone, half-asleep, desperately pull you into their arms, that warmth is truly invaluable. If one day, you blame me for not loving you well enough, you should remember that you didn’t cherish me either. Thank you for your ruthlessness, which has tempered my despair.

87.心情不好时，要经常问自己，你有什么而不是没有什么，世界很大，机会很多，人生很短，不要蜷缩在一小块阴影里。
87. When you’re in a bad mood, often ask yourself what you have instead of what you don’t have. The world is vast, opportunities are abundant, and life is short. Don’t curl up in a small corner of darkness.

88.简单地做人，踏实务实，不沉溺幻想，不庸人自扰。要快乐，要开朗，要坚韧，要温暖，要真诚。要诚恳，要坦然，要慷慨，要宽容，要有平常心。对生活永远充满希望，微笑的面对困境与磨难。多看书看好书。少吃点吃好点。多一些体育锻炼。要有梦想，即使遥远。
88. Be simple in life, down-to-earth, not indulging in fantasies, and not worrying about trivial matters. Be happy, cheerful, resilient, warm, and sincere. Be honest, calm, generous, tolerant, and maintain a normal mindset. Always be hopeful about life and face difficulties and hardships with a smile. Read more books and good books. Eat less but eat better. Engage in more physical exercise. Have dreams, even if they are distant.

89.允许别人和自己不一样，允许自己和别人不一样。理解了前半句，就能做到包容。理解了后半句，就敢活出自我。
89. Allow others to be different from yourself, and allow yourself to be different from others. Understanding the first half of the sentence enables you to be tolerant. Understanding the second half of the sentence gives you the courage to be true to yourself.

90.如果你现在赖在床上，你可能会完成一个梦。如果你现在起来做事，你可能会完成一个梦想。
90. If you stay in bed now, you may complete a dream. If you get up and do something now, you may achieve a dream.

91.一个人丢掉什么，也不能丢掉真心;一个人没了什么，也不能没了良心。顶天立地做人，无愧于己;光明磊落做事，无悔于人。
91. One can lose anything, but not sincerity; one can lack anything, but not conscience. Stand tall and upright in life, with no regrets to oneself; act with integrity and have no regrets towards others.

92.善于发现，善于思考，懂得接受失败的人，就是懂得人生真谛的人，只有懂得接受自己的失败，才能更好的去发挥自身优势。
92. Those who are good at discovering, thinking, and accepting failure are the ones who understand the true meaning of life. Only by accepting one’s own failures can one better utilize their strengths.

93.不要让未来的你，讨厌现在的自己。我正在努力变成自己喜欢的那个自己。与其祈求生活平淡点，还不如自己强大点。不要将你自以为是的好意，成了他人的负担。
93. Don’t let your future self dislike your current self. I am working hard to become the person I like. Instead of praying for a peaceful life, it’s better to become stronger. Don’t turn your self-righteous kindness into a burden for others.

94.宽容，才有宁静。人心如江河，窄处水花四溅，宽时水波不兴。世间太大，一颗心承载不起。什么都想占尽先机，会输了起码的幸福。众人的路众人走，磕磕碰碰在所难免。生活的最高境界，一是痛而不言，二是笑而不语。无论有多少委屈，一笑泯恩仇。
94. Tolerance brings tranquility. The human heart is like a river; when it’s narrow, the water splashes, but when it’s wide, the waves are calm. The world is too big for one heart to bear. Trying to seize every opportunity will cost you basic happiness. Many people walk the same path, and bumps and scrapes are inevitable. The highest state of life is: first, to endure pain without complaint; second, to smile without speaking. No matter how many grievances there are, a smile can dissolve enmity.

95.好运不是天生的，背运也不是一天两天形成的。所谓的一鸣惊人，都有十足的努力和付出来支撑。不幸的人或许各有不同，好运的人，却有千篇一律的上进心和执行力。
95. Good fortune is not innate, and bad luck is not formed in just one or two days. The so-called overnight success is supported by tremendous effort and dedication. Unfortunate people may have different reasons for their misfortune, but fortunate people all share the same上进心 (upward ambition) and execution.

96.当人太多时，请保持闭嘴。更多的话，更多的错误，更多的是非，在人们小的时候要求麻烦，要小心。妄想，妄想，痛苦，自我烦恼。
96. When there are too many people around, keep quiet. The more you speak, the more mistakes you make, and the more conflicts arise. Be careful and avoid troubles when you are young. Delusions, delusions, pain, and self-inflicted troubles.

97.到了一定年龄，便要学会寡言，每一句话都要有用，有重量。喜怒不形于色，大事淡然，有自己的底线。
97. At a certain age, you should learn to be reserved in speech, making every word useful and weighty. Keep your emotions in check, remain calm in the face of important matters, and have your own bottom line.

98.真正的善良不是软弱更不是退让，而是从不去主动伤害别人，不会纠缠不休，懂得适可而止。为人处世以诚相待，不欺骗，不撒谎。以诚恳善良的心去面对所有的人。
98. True kindness is not weakness or concession, but never taking the initiative to hurt others, not being persistent, and knowing when to stop. Treat others with sincerity and honesty, without deception or lies. Face everyone with a sincere and kind heart.

99.人生不会太圆满，我们要摆正心态面对酸甜苦辣。曾经拥有的不要忘记，已经得到的更加珍惜，属于自己的不要放弃，已经失去的留作回忆。
99. Life will not be perfect, so we must face the ups and downs with the right mindset. Don’t forget what you once had, cherish what you have now, don’t give up on what belongs to you, and leave what you’ve lost as memories.

100.成熟的最大好处是：以前得不到的，现在不想要了。成熟的标志不是会说大道理，而是你开始去理解，身边的小事情。
100. The greatest benefit of maturity is that you no longer desire what you couldn’t have before. The sign of maturity is not talking about grand principles, but starting to understand the small things around you.