1.从美丽的邂逅到痴痴的相恋，从一见钟情的浪漫到生死相许的约定，匆匆而过的天，让一对男女仿佛经历了几年的爱情蜕变。
1. From a beautiful encounter to a foolish love, from a romantic first sight to a promise of life and death, the fleeting days make a man and woman seem to have experienced years of love transformation.
2.单身是春天的种子，充满希望；单身是夏天的烈日，热情辉煌；单身是秋天的落叶，自由自在；单身是冬天的雪花，浪漫无限。
2. Being single is like a seed in spring, full of hope; being single is like the scorching sun in summer, passionate and brilliant; being single is like the falling leaves in autumn, free and easy; being single is like the snowflakes in winter, romantic and infinite.
3.风过花飞，斩不断的是对你无数的牵牵绊绊。没有人会知道，这种想念是如何的痛彻心肺，如何的将心彻底掏空，再无情的撕碎。你的身影总在心中飞，让我醉。
3. The wind blows and flowers fly, but the countless attachments to you cannot be cut off. No one will know how painful this kind of missing is, how it completely empties the heart, and then mercilessly tears it apart. Your figure always flies in my heart, making me intoxicated.
4.人一辈子也无法心心相印，他们孤独的只剩下肉体和金钱的交换了。所以，请等待那个对你生命有特殊意义的人。
4. People cannot be truly close in their whole lives, leaving them lonely with only the exchange of flesh and money. So, please wait for the person who has special significance in your life.
5.在我的世界里，你依旧纯洁，脏了的只是这个世界。
5. In my world, you remain pure, and it is the world that has become dirty.
6.爱情就像咖啡，苦涩而又香醇；爱情就像鸣曲，曲折而又动人；爱情就像酸梅，青色而又甘甜。
6. Love is like coffee, bitter yet fragrant; love is like a sonata, full of twists and turns yet touching; love is like a green plum, sour yet sweet.
7.她没有拒绝你，但也没有对你心动，说明她现在很寂寞，需要男人，需要爱，但是你还有很多缺点，并不能一下子令她十分接受与满意。
7. She didn’t reject you, but she didn’t fall for you either, which means she is lonely now, needing a man and love, but you still have many shortcomings that cannot make her fully accept and satisfied at once.
8.只有爱情没有婚姻会像泡沫一样容易破灭；只有婚姻没有爱情也会像白开水一样容易让人厌倦。
8. Only love without marriage is like a bubble, easily bursting; only marriage without love is like plain water, easily becoming boring.
9.婚前女人把男人看成果，可是婚后却总是这不满那不满的，觉得婚前的日子像无花果一样白过了。
9. Before marriage, women see men as fruits, but after marriage, they are always dissatisfied with this and that, feeling that the days before marriage were like figs without flowers, wasted.
10.女人要学会扮靓自己。不要拿朴素来当挡箭牌，不要拿家务做借口，不懂时尚，你就不是一个的好女人。
10. Women should learn to dress up. Don’t use simplicity as an excuse, and don’t use housework as an excuse. If you don’t understand fashion, you are not a good woman.
11.那些美丽的小鱼，它们睡觉的时候也睁着眼睛。不需要爱情，亦从不哭泣。它们是我的榜样。
11. Those beautiful little fish sleep with their eyes open. They don’t need love and never cry. They are my role models.
12.婚姻是键盘，太多秩序和规则；爱情是鼠标，一点就通。男人自比主机，内存最重要；女人好似显示器，一切都看得出来。
12. Marriage is like a keyboard, with too many rules and order; love is like a mouse, easy to connect. Men compare themselves to the mainframe, with memory being the most important; women are like monitors, where everything can be seen.
13.爱情是一场赌博，赌徒们把未来的岁月作为筹码，下注于远方幸福的时光。
13. Love is a gamble, where gamblers bet their future years on the happiness of the distant times.
14.幼稚的人和幼稚的人在一起没什么问题，成熟的人和成熟的人在一起也没什么问题。成熟的人和幼稚的人在一起问题就多了。
14. There is no problem when immature people are together, and there is no problem when mature people are together. However, when mature people and immature people are together, there will be many problems.
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15. If you agree with the above statements, please leave a comment. This way, more people can know these truths. If you have more to add, please leave a comment as well, as it can help others learn more. If you disagree, please leave a comment too, because you have a better reason. Rather than saying you love someone, it’s better to say you love the pain involved.
16.有些人会一直刻在记忆里的，即使忘记了他的声音，忘记了他的笑容，忘记了他的脸，但是每当想起他时的那种感受，是永远都不会改变的。
16. Some people will always be engraved in memory. Even if you forget their voice, their smile, and their face, the feeling when you think of them will never change.
17.感情有时候只是一个人的事情。和任何人无关。爱，或者不爱，只能自行了断。
17. Sometimes, emotions are just a personal matter. It has nothing to do with anyone. To love, or not to love, can only be decided by oneself.
18.以后你会不经意地想起我，请别忘记我曾那样深深地爱过你。
18. In the future, when you think of me inadvertently, please don’t forget that I once loved you so deeply.
19.恋爱中，男人的个性是多余的，女人的头脑是多余的。
19. In love, a man’s personality is unnecessary, and a woman’s mind is unnecessary.
20.女人在一次次的恋爱中知道男人是什么东西，男人在一次次的恋爱中知道女人要什么东西。
20. Women learn what men are through multiple relationships, and men learn what women want through multiple relationships.
21.对弈的人已走,谁还在意推敲红尘之外的一盘残棋？
21. The players have left, who still cares about a half-finished game beyond the world of mortals?
22.我颠倒了整个世界，只为摆正你的倒影。
22. I’ve turned the whole world upside down just to set your reflection right.
23.失恋的人虽各不相同，但仰望星空却是唯一的不约而同。
23. Although people who have lost love are different, gazing at the starry sky is the only thing they all do without an agreement.
24.如果一个人的感情得到了解脱，那么另一个人将走向可怕的地狱。
24. If one person’s emotions are liberated, then the other will head towards a terrifying hell.
25.时间是最公正的裁判；历史是最优秀的见证人。你终究会知道我如何爱你，但是，要给我一定的时间！
25. Time is the fairest judge; history is the best witness. You will eventually know how much I love you, but give me some time!
26.爱情本来应该是件快乐的事，爱人本来是个信任的伴侣，假如沦落成了一件勾心斗角的事一场保密与反保密犯错与抓错的战争，那么爱情有什么意思？
26. Love should originally be a happy thing, and a lover should be a trusted partner. If it degenerates into a scheming battle of secrets and a war of making mistakes and catching errors, what’s the point of love?
27.爱情本是个不等式，没有谁可以预见感情天平的哪一端会重些，哪一端又会轻些。但是爱情就是这样，如果你没有勇气去尝试，那就注定只有陪伴自己孤寂的灵魂。
27. Love is an inequality; no one can foresee which side of the emotional scale will be heavier and which will be lighter. But that’s how love is, if you don’t have the courage to try, then you are destined to only accompany your lonely soul.
28.如果你的婚姻不幸福，那就回来找我吧，哪怕我已经老得走不动了，我也会带你一起私奔的。
28. If your marriage is unhappy, come back to me, even if I’m too old to walk, I will elope with you.
29.当我们都老的时候，我希望还能吻着你的牙床，直到永远。
29. When we are old, I hope I can still kiss your gums until forever.
30.漂亮是女人的通行证——一句老话而已，也算颠扑不破的真理。明明是糖衣炮弹，最后也不见得赢得美人归，但就是死心塌地讨好她。而那些缺乏视觉效果的女子尽管有的明明是良药，因为苦口，男人常常下不了决心娶她。
30. Beauty is a woman’s pass - just an old saying, but also an unshakable truth. It’s like a sugar-coated shell, and in the end, it may not win the beauty’s heart, but men still wholeheartedly try to please her. And those women lacking visual effects, even if some are good medicine, because of their bitter taste, men often can’t make up their minds to marry them.
31.大龄未婚男女像是坐巴士坐过了站。有时是因为巴士上的座位太舒适了，简直不愿下车；有时是因为不认识自己该下的站台。终身不结婚的男女呢？他们是巴士司机。
31. Unmarried men and women over a certain age are like passengers who have missed their stop on the bus. Sometimes it’s because the seats on the bus are too comfortable, and they simply don’t want to get off; sometimes it’s because they don’t recognize the stop they should get off at. Men and women who never get married are the bus drivers.
32.我很忙——听到这句话时，父母担心的是孩子的身体健康；朋友心想这哥们儿事业有成；妻子马上觉得自己家务的担子重了；女朋友流泪了，她开始意识到自己在他心目中的位置不一定有他的事业重要，甚至简直就是一个分手的信号或借口。
32. I’m busy - when hearing this sentence, parents worry about their child’s health; friends think this guy’s career is successful; the wife immediately feels the burden of housework has increased; the girlfriend cries, realizing that her position in his heart may not be as important as his career, or even a signal or excuse for a breakup.
33.一群人在讨论现代做什么事最冒险？登山滑翔极限运动。。。说什么的都有。其实，感情才是最大的冒险，而且在任何时代都如此。因为种种冒险行为大不了一死，但感情的折磨却让人生不如死。
33. A group of people were discussing what is the most adventurous thing to do in modern times? Climbing, gliding, extreme sports… There were all kinds of opinions. In fact, emotions are the biggest adventure, and it has always been so in any era. Because all kinds of adventurous actions are at most a death, but the torment of emotions makes life worse than death.
34.有了自己的房子，未婚女子就像是凭空小了几岁，又有耐心慢慢地挑选爱人了。一男向一女征询意见：我们先租房子住，结了婚攒了钱再买房子吧？女答：那我还不如先租丈夫呢。
34. Having her own house, an unmarried woman seems to be several years younger overnight and has the patience to slowly choose a lover. A man asks a woman for advice: Shall we rent a house first and buy one after getting married and saving money? The woman replies: Then I might as well rent a husband first.
35.友情，亲情……我们之间无所不有，却唯独没有爱情。
35. Friendship, family… We have everything between us, but the only thing missing is love.
36.每个女人都有两个版本：精装本和平装本，前者是在职场社交场合给别人看的，浓妆艳抹，光彩照人；后者是在家里给最爱的人看的，换上家常服睡衣，诉苦。婚姻中的丈夫往往只能看到妻子的平装本和别的女人的精装本。
36. Every woman has two versions: hardcover and paperback. The former is for others to see in the workplace and social场合, with heavy makeup and shining brightly; the latter is for the person they love at home, changing into casual clothes and pajamas, complaining. A husband in marriage often only sees his wife’s paperback version and other women’s hardcover version.
37.我一直在寻找那种感觉，那种在寒冷的日子里，牵起一双温暖的手，踏实地向前走的感觉。
37. I have been looking for that feeling, the feeling of holding a pair of warm hands on a cold day and walking forward steadily.
38.因为平淡，我们的爱情有时会游离原本温馨的港湾；因为好奇，我们的行程会在某个十字路口不经意的拐弯，就在你意欲转身的刹那，你会听见身后有爱情在低声地哭泣。
38. Because of plainness, our love sometimes drifts away from the originally warm harbor; because of curiosity, our journey may take an unintentional turn at a crossroads, and the moment you want to turn around, you will hear love crying softly behind you.
39.夜晚来了我还依然睁着眼睛，是因为我看见了你留在月光下的痕迹。
39. I still keep my eyes open when night comes because I see the traces you left in the moonlight.
40.傻是我的特长，痴是我的理想，当傻和痴交织在一起的时候，便是我梦境里最美的天堂！别笑我，我就这么痴心，我会傻傻地爱你痴痴地恋你，一直到老！
40. Foolishness is my specialty, and infatuation is my ideal. When foolishness and infatuation are intertwined, it becomes the most beautiful paradise in my dreams! Don’t laugh at me, I am so infatuated, and I will foolishly love you and infatuatedly be in love with you until we grow old!
41.以前只是一种经历与感觉，而不是证据，不需要为以前的喜欢付出现在或以后的责任。不要揪住以前的事情不放。现在的事实比以前的回忆更有实效性与说服力。
41. The past is just an experience and a feeling, not evidence. There is no need to be responsible for the past likes in the present or the future. Don’t dwell on past matters. The current reality is more effective and persuasive than past memories.
42.有时候女孩子的心理非常微妙。你在她身边痴心了若干年，她都不会爱你，但一旦你喜欢上了别人，她就忍受不了了，发现自己原来是喜欢你的。
42. Sometimes a girl’s psychology is very subtle. You may be devoted to her for several years without her loving you, but once you fall for someone else, she can’t stand it and realizes that she actually likes you.
43.生日是一个舞台，一次考验，一个机会。恋爱时，男人更会利用这一点；结婚后，女人更会利用这一点。
43. A birthday is a stage, a test, and an opportunity. When in love, men are more likely to take advantage of this; after marriage, women are more likely to take advantage of this.
44.女人能够忍受不幸的婚姻，不能忍受不幸的爱情；男人能够忍受不幸的爱情，不能忍受不幸的婚姻。
44. Women can endure an unhappy marriage but cannot tolerate an unhappy love; men can endure an unhappy love but cannot tolerate an unhappy marriage.
45.爱情永远都处在时差中，不是你早，就是我晚，反正永远不同步。
45. Love is always out of sync, either you are early or I am late, but never in sync.
46.爱情真的很短暂，象烟花是最美最真实的比喻，只是呼啸着冲上天空的一刹那，而后变成习惯，最后变成亲情，失恋后痛的感觉因为你不能改掉一个习惯，不能拒绝最原始的亲情。
46. Love is truly fleeting, like the most beautiful and true metaphor of fireworks, just the moment it soars into the sky, and then becomes a habit, eventually turning into a family bond. The pain of a breakup is because you cannot change a habit and cannot refuse the most primitive family bond.
47.喜欢一个人，就是两个人在一起很开心；而爱一个人，即使不开心也想和他在一起。
47. Liking someone means being very happy when you are together; loving someone means wanting to be with them even when you are not happy.
48.感情经不起比，一比比出寒碜；感情经不起推敲，一敲碎成片段。
48. Relationships cannot withstand comparison, as they show their shortcomings; relationships cannot withstand scrutiny, as they fall apart into fragments.
49.示爱者是动物，被爱者是植物。如果爱被拒绝，离开的当然是动物，因为植物是不会生出脚来跑路的。
49. The person who expresses love is an animal, and the one who is loved is a plant. If love is rejected, the one who leaves is the animal, because plants don’t have feet to run away.
50.一段感情能给你带来多大痛苦，就曾给你带来过多大快乐。
50. The greater the pain a relationship can bring you, the greater the happiness it once brought you.
51.给我一个支点，让我重新撬动你的心好吗？可令我难过的是，直到你离去，也始终不肯给我这个支点。
51. Give me a fulcrum, and let me pry your heart open again, okay? What makes me sad is that you never gave me this fulcrum until you left.
52.白天，有太阳的时候，我的那点阴暗的心思躲在绚烂的花盘后面，谁也看不见，他们以为我已经把你忘了，就像你忘了我一样。
52. During the day, when the sun is out, my dark thoughts hide behind the gorgeous flower petals, unseen by anyone. They think I have forgotten you, just as you have forgotten me.
53.爱情就是上辈子欠下的情债这辈子来还——我上辈子一定俗不可耐，搞得我今生无债可还！！
53. Love is the emotional debt owed in a previous life to be repaid in this one – I must have been so vulgar in my past life that I have no debts to repay in this life!
54.你是一朵百合，散发出沁人心脾的芳香，我只想伫立在你的身旁，看着你呵护着你，用爱滋润着你，让你开得更娇艳，因为我只愿作你一生的园丁！
54. You are a lily, emitting a refreshing fragrance. I just want to stand by your side, watching over you, nurturing you, and moistening you with love, making you bloom more beautifully, because I am willing to be your gardener for a lifetime!
55.在这城市里,我相信一定会有那麽一个人,想着同样的事情,怀着相似的频率,在某站寂寞的出口,安排好了与我相遇。
55. In this city, I believe there must be someone who thinks the same things, has a similar frequency, and is waiting for me at a lonely exit, arranged to meet me.
56.时间没有等我，是你忘了带我走，我们就这样迷散在陌生的风雨里，从此天各一方，两两相忘。
56. Time didn’t wait for me; you forgot to take me with you. We got lost in the unfamiliar wind and rain, and since then, we have been in different places, forgetting each other.
57.如果有来生，我愿做你的妹妹，即使我们无法步入婚姻的殿堂，我也可以做你永远无法割舍的亲人！
57. If there is an afterlife, I would like to be your sister, so even if we cannot enter the殿堂 of marriage, I can still be a family member you can never let go!
58.知道吗，男孩站在女孩的左边是因为那样可以离她的心更近一些。
58. Do you know that a boy stands on a girl’s left side because it brings him closer to her heart?
59.公交分钟一班，地铁分钟一班，我们的爱，一辈子只有这一班！
59. Buses come every minute, subways come every minute, our love only has this one bus in a lifetime!
60.为追求到我喜欢的人，我愿意放弃我所拥有的一切，可当我放弃这一切后，她还会接受我的爱吗？
60. To pursue the person I love, I am willing to give up everything I have, but when I give up everything, will she still accept my love?
61.生活，匀速的是爱，不匀速则变成一种伤害。
61. In life, love at a constant speed is a blessing, but uneven love becomes a kind of pain.
62.男人最大的秘密往往告诉红颜知己，不是同性家人或妻子。当红颜知己成了妻子，她的这部分权力马上被取消了。
62. Men often share their biggest secrets with their confidantes, not with family members or wives. When a confidante becomes a wife, her right to know those secrets is immediately revoked.
63.好女人是男人的学校。好女人却希望这个好学生永远不要毕业。
63. A good woman is a man’s school. However, a good woman wishes that this good student will never graduate.
64.老夫老妻越长越像。有人说因为他们相爱。但医生说，起因是朝夕相处，饮食结构相同作息规律同步。同一棵树上的树叶也是越长越像的。
64. Old couples grow more and more alike over time. Some say it’s because they are in love, but doctors say it’s due to living together day and night, having the same diet, and sharing the same daily routine. Just like the leaves on the same tree, they grow more and more similar.
65.爱情就像两个拉橡皮筋的人，受伤的总是不愿放手的那一个！
65. Love is like two people pulling on a rubber band; the one who gets hurt is always the one who refuses to let go.
66.婚姻是一把伞。有了它，风雨烈日时自然舒适无比，但更多平平淡淡的天气里，多了一把伞难免是累赘。
66. Marriage is like an umbrella. With it, one feels comfortable during storms and scorching sun, but on most ordinary days, an extra umbrella can be a burden.
67.用一转身离开，用一辈子去忘记。
67. It takes a turn to leave, and a lifetime to forget.
68.暗恋最伟大的行为，是成全。你不爱我，但是我成全你。真正的暗恋，是一生的事业，不因他远离你而放弃。没有这种情操，不要轻言暗恋。
68. The greatest act of unrequited love is to fulfill the other person’s happiness. If you don’t love me, I will still fulfill you. True unrequited love is a lifelong commitment, not giving up even if the person is far away. Without such dedication, don’t speak of unrequited love.
69.有时候女孩子的心理非常微妙。你在她身边痴心了若干年，她都不会爱你，但一旦你喜欢上了别人，她就忍受不了了，发现自己原来是喜欢你的。
69. Sometimes a girl’s feelings can be very subtle. You may be devoted to her for years without her loving you back, but once you fall for someone else, she can’t stand it and realizes she actually loves you.
70.沉溺于以前与回忆的人是一个很懦弱的人，因为她（他）不敢勇敢地正视现实。现实是什么？现实就是变化。没有不变的感情，没有不变的人。
70. People who indulge in the past and memories are cowardly because they dare not face reality bravely. What is reality? Reality is change. There are no constant feelings or people.
71.我不觉得人的心智成熟是越来越宽容涵盖，什么都可以接受。相反，我觉得那应该是一个逐渐剔除的过程，知道自己最重要的是什么，知道不重要的东西是什么。
71. I don’t think that maturity means becoming more and more tolerant, accepting everything. On the contrary, I believe it’s a process of elimination, knowing what’s important and what’s not.
72.你在做什么？我在仰望天空。度的仰望是什么？是我想念她的角度。为什么要把头抬到度？为了不让我的眼泪掉下来。
72. What are you doing? I am looking up at the sky. What does a 45-degree gaze mean? It’s the angle at which I miss her. Why do I have to raise my head to 45 degrees? To keep my tears from falling.
73.能让男人轻松的女人是好女人，能让女人满足的男人是好男人。
73. A good woman is one who makes a man feel at ease, and a good man is one who satisfies a woman.
74.晚上，那点疼就出来了，先是失神片刻，然后五脏六腑的神经才一齐苏醒过来，万箭穿心。
74. At night, the pain comes, first a moment of distraction, then the nerves in the internal organs all wake up together, feeling like a thousand arrows piercing through the heart.
75.只能指望黑夜快点过去，等到白天，我那点没有希望的挂念就可以蜷缩在心底不为人知的角落，可以暂时不痛，我的那点爱情是怕光的。爱，不受时间的限制。真不忍心，提起苦涩的过去，尽管婆娑的夜晚一如从前美丽，但我的心却失去了平衡。到现在也想不通，我曾那样深深的恋着你，你却非要和我分离？记忆啊，你为什么不和时光一块流去？
75. I can only hope that the night passes quickly, and when the day comes, my hopeless longing can curl up in an unknown corner of my heart, temporarily painless. My love is afraid of light. Love is not limited by time. I really can’t bear to mention the bitter past, even though the night is as beautiful as before, my heart has lost its balance. To this day, I still can’t understand why you insisted on separating from me when I loved you so deeply? Memories, why don’t you flow away with time?
76.最痛苦的就是分手以后。之所以痛苦，就是因为我曾深深地爱过你。多少年以后，仍深深地记起你，你的笑靥起伏难平。思念是一首不老的歌，不能忘记的是那只黄雀，还是那场冷雨？品味一下当年在高粱地里那些天真的游戏，不觉哈哈大笑，其实，分手又未尝不是一种的记忆？
76. The most painful thing is after a breakup. The reason for the pain is because I once loved you deeply. Even after many years, I still remember you deeply, the undulating smile on your face. Longing is an everlasting song, can’t forget that little yellow sparrow or the cold rain? Savor those innocent games in the sorghum fields back then, and you can’t help but laugh. Actually, a breakup is also a kind of memory, isn’t it?
77.人啊，在不能够爱，没有权利爱的时候，在不经意间碰撞出的“爱”的火花，是最纯洁，最难忘的。尽管这种“爱”只能深藏在心底，从一开始就注定了没有结局，但却是人生极有魅力的一种温馨和苦涩，也正因为没有结局，这种宝贵的感情才能在你记忆中，永远保持着一份。你只听到托尔斯泰对于爱情一相情愿的纯真，还没有听说过钱钟书对于平凡爱情的无奈：它是一座城堡，城外的人想竭力冲进去，而城内的人又想竭力挤出来。
77. People, when they cannot love or do not have the right to love, the sparks of “love” that are inadvertently generated are the purest and most unforgettable. Although this kind of “love” can only be hidden deep in the heart and is destined to have no ending from the beginning, it is a charming and bittersweet part of life. It is precisely because there is no ending that this precious feeling can be forever preserved in your memory. You have only heard Tolstoy’s one-sided innocence about love, but you have not yet heard Qian Zhongshu’s helplessness about ordinary love: It is a castle, people outside the city want to try their best to rush in, and people inside the city want to try their best to squeeze out.
78.他纵有千个优点，但他不爱你，这是一个你永远无法说服自己去接受的缺点。一个人最大的缺点不是自私多情野蛮任性，而是偏执地爱一个不爱自己的人。暗恋是一种自毁，是一种伟大的牺牲。暗恋，甚至不需要对象，我们不过站在河边，看着自己的倒影自怜，却以为自己正爱着别人。
78. He may have a thousand advantages, but if he doesn’t love you, that is a flaw you can never persuade yourself to accept. The biggest flaw in a person is not selfishness, fickle emotions, barbarism, or willfulness, but being stubbornly in love with someone who doesn’t love you. Unrequited love is a form of self-destruction, a great sacrifice. Unrequited love doesn’t even need an object; we just stand by the river, looking at our own reflection in the water, pitifully thinking we are in love with someone else.
79.一个萝卜一个坑，说的是婚姻情况。事实上对于爱情来说，是不成立的。优秀的人，不管男女都会是一个萝卜好几个坑，所以这个世界天天上演悲欢离合的故事。
79. One radish for one坑 (a Chinese term for a suitable match), that’s the situation for marriage. In fact, it doesn’t hold true for love. Outstanding people, regardless of gender, will be one radish with several pits, so the world is full of stories of joy and sorrow, separations and reunions every day.
80.吝啬是男人的大忌，就算穷也不要做出一副穷样，男人抱怨女人只爱男人的钱，其实也并不一定就是这样，有的女人喜欢男人为她花钱，有时候也是为了证实自己在男人心目中的位置。男人如果喜欢一个女人，一定愿意为她花钱。
80. Stinginess is a big taboo for men. Even if you are poor, don’t act like it. Men complain that women only love men’s money, but it’s not necessarily the case. Some women like men to spend money on them, sometimes just to confirm their position in the man’s heart. If a man likes a woman, he will definitely be willing to spend money on her.
81.在爱的世界里，没有谁对不起谁，只有谁不懂得珍惜谁。
81. In the world of love, there is no one who is sorry for whom, only those who don’t know how to cherish each other.
82.守一颗心，别像守一只猫。它冷了，来偎依你；它饿了，来叫你；它痒了，来摩你；它厌了，便偷偷地走掉。守一颗心，多么希望像守一只狗，不是你守它，而是它守你！
82. Guard a heart, don’t be like guarding a cat. It comes to snuggle with you when it’s cold; it comes to call you when it’s hungry; it comes to rub against you when it’s itchy; and when it’s bored, it will sneak away. Guarding a heart, how I wish it could be like guarding a dog, not you guarding it, but it guarding you!
83.诺言的“诺”字和誓言的“誓”字都是有口无心的。
83. The “promise” in a promise and the “swear” in a vow both have mouths but no hearts.
84.爱，从来就是一件千回百转的事。不曾被离弃，不曾受伤害，怎懂得爱人？爱，原来是一种经历，但愿人长久。
84. Love has always been a matter of twists and turns. Without having been abandoned or hurt, how can one understand how to love others? Love is, in fact, an experience. May people last long.
85.总有一天我会从你身边默默地走开，不带任何声响。我错过了狠多，我总是一个人难过。
85. One day, I will silently walk away from you without any sound. I have missed so much, and I am always sad alone.
86.痴情的人永远都抱着这样的想法：连我自己都被自己感动，她有什么理由不被我打动呢？但坚持不懈的追求只能证明你是一个坚持不懈的人，仅此而已。
86. Persistent people always hold this belief: I am moved by my own devotion, so how could she not be touched? But persistent pursuit can only prove that you are a persistent person, nothing more.
87.婚姻是不可捉摸在于：一个乐观的男人加上一个乐观的女人，有时等于两个悲观主义者。
87. The unpredictability of marriage lies in this: an optimistic man plus an optimistic woman sometimes equals two pessimists.
88.男人要是爱上一个女人，不管她如何待他，他都爱。温顺也是好，泼辣也是好，不爱了，一切都是错。
88. If a man falls in love with a woman, he will love her no matter how she treats him. Meekness is good, fiery temper is also good. If there is no love, everything is wrong.
89.如果丈夫或妻子总想做对方的警察，那么左看右看对方都有点像小偷。
89. If a husband or wife always wants to act as the police for each other, then no matter how you look at each other, you both seem like thieves.
90.有人说爱情就像在捡石头，总想捡到一个适合自己的，但是你又如何知道什么时候能够捡到呢？她适合你那你又适合她吗？其实，爱情就像磨石子一样，或许刚捡到的时候，你不是那么的满意，但是记住人是有弹性的，很多事情是可以改变的。只要你有心有勇气，与其到处去捡未知的石头，还不如好好的将自己已经拥有的石头磨亮磨光。你开始磨了吗？
90. Some say that love is like picking up stones, always wanting to find one that suits you, but how can you know when you’ll find it? Does she suit you, and do you suit her? In fact, love is like polishing stones. Perhaps when you first find it, you are not so satisfied, but remember that people are flexible and many things can be changed. As long as you have the heart and courage, it’s better to polish the stone you already have instead of looking for unknown stones everywhere. Have you started polishing?
91.两个人热恋时，感情已经热烈得就要把彼此都燃烧了，还需要什么经营，但是时间一长了，冷却的爱情需要彼此都真诚地去维系与经营，爱情才不会变质。
91. When two people are in love, their feelings are already so passionate that they seem to burn each other. There is no need for any management, but as time goes by, a cooled love requires both parties to sincerely maintain and manage it so that love won’t spoil.
92.那些美丽的小鱼，它们睡觉的时候也睁着眼睛。不需要爱情，亦从不哭泣。它们是我的榜样。
92. Those beautiful little fish, they keep their eyes open even when they sleep. They don’t need love and never cry. They are my role models.
93.如果有一天我白发苍苍不再美丽，你是否还会轻抚我的脸颊，说陪我走到海角天涯？如果天真的老了，海真的枯了，我只愿能与你相守千千万万个轮回。
93. If one day I am old and gray, no longer beautiful, will you still gently touch my cheek and say you’ll accompany me to the ends of the earth? If the sky truly grows old and the sea truly dries up, I only wish to be with you through thousands of reincarnations.
94.如果你们之间只是一种精神恋爱，你离开的时候可能还不会这么痛苦，但是如果你把身体也纠缠进去，那么你离开的时候，会是身心疲惫。
94. If your relationship is only a spiritual love, you might not feel as much pain when you leave, but if you involve your body as well, you will be physically and mentally exhausted when you leave.
95.你以为不可失去的人，原来并非不可失去，你流干了眼泪，自有另一个人逗你欢笑，你伤心欲绝，然后发现不爱你的人，根本不值得你为之伤心，今天回首，何尝不是一个喜剧？情尽时，自有另一番新境界，所有的悲哀也不过是历史。
95. The person you thought you couldn’t lose turns out to be not irreplaceable. After you’ve dried your tears, someone else will make you laugh. When you’re heartbroken, you’ll realize that the person who doesn’t love you is not worth your sadness. Looking back today, it’s a comedy after all. When love ends, there is a new realm, and all the sorrows are just history.
96.爱情总是想象比现实美丽，相逢如是，告别亦如是。我们以为爱得很深很深，来日岁月，会让你知道，它不过很浅很浅。最深最重的爱，必须和时日一起。因为爱情的缘故，两个陌生人可以突然熟络到睡在同一张床上。然而，相同的两个人，在分手时却说，我觉得你越来越陌生。爱情将两个人由陌生变成熟悉，又由熟悉变成陌生。爱情正是一个将一对陌生人变成情侣，又将一对情侣变成陌生人的游戏。
96. Love is always more beautiful in imagination than in reality, both in meeting and parting. We think we love very deeply, but as time goes by, you’ll find out that it’s only shallow. The deepest and heaviest love must grow together with time. Because of love, two strangers can suddenly become familiar enough to sleep in the same bed. However, the same two people say that they feel increasingly unfamiliar when they break up. Love turns strangers into lovers and then turns lovers back into strangers.
97.你可以去爱一个女人，但是不要把自己的全部都赔进去。没有女人值得你用生命去讨好。你若不爱自己，怎么能让别人爱你？
97. You can love a woman, but don’t risk everything for her. No woman is worth pleasing at the cost of your life. If you don’t love yourself, how can you expect others to love you?
98.也许是错过了一次车，也许是在美景前多停留了一秒，最终我们真的相遇了。不得不承认，这是中注定的缘分。也许我们只是匆匆的过客，也许离别后永不相逢，但能够认识你，却使我欣喜万分。吧，最想忘却的将是最深的记忆。
98. Perhaps it was missing a bus, or maybe lingering for an extra second in front of a beautiful scene, but eventually, we did meet. We have to admit that it was destined fate. Maybe we were just passing by, or maybe we’ll never meet again after parting, but knowing you has brought me immense joy. Perhaps, the one thing we want to forget the most will become the deepest memory.
99.我生命里的温暖就那么多，我全部给了你，但是你离开了我，你叫我以后怎么再对别人笑。
99. I have only so much warmth in my life, and I gave it all to you, but you left me. How can I smile at others in the future?
100.如果在情敌出现的时候，一个劲地把情人往自己怀里拉，反而会把情人往对方怀里推。过分紧张不是一件好事。轻松一点，这样两方都不会累得慌。
100. If you cling to your lover too tightly when a rival appears, you may push your lover into the rival’s arms. Being overly anxious is not a good thing. Relax a bit, so neither side will feel exhausted.
100句生活说说很现实的说说
100 Realistic Quotes About Life
1.不是某人使你烦恼，而是你拿某人的言行来烦恼自己。
1. It’s not someone who bothers you, but you take their words and actions to bother yourself.
2.很多时候，我们都以为替你买药的那个人最爱你，其实那个逼你吃药的，才是最爱你的人。
2. Many times, we think the person who buys medicine for you loves you the most. In fact, the one who forces you to take the medicine is the one who loves you the most.
3.你早晚会明白，清晨的粥比深夜的酒好喝，骗你的人比爱你的人会说。
3. You will eventually understand that porridge in the morning is better than wine at night, and those who deceive you are better at talking than those who love you.
4.懂我的人不需要我解释，不懂我的人我不需要解释。
4. People who understand me don’t need an explanation, and those who don’t understand me don’t need one either.
5.人都是只有喜欢的东西才会特别上心，所以一个人爱不爱你是很明显的。
5. People only pay special attention to what they like, so it’s obvious whether someone loves you or not.
6.生活不止是眼下的吃喝，还有远方的路费和住宿费。
6. Life is not just about eating and drinking, but also about the travel expenses and accommodation in the distance.
7.清晨想到的第一个人，和夜晚想到的最后一个人，不是让你幸福的人，就是让你痛苦的人。
7. The first person you think of in the morning and the last person you think of at night is either the one who makes you happy or the one who causes you pain.
8.与其你故作成熟地斤斤计较，不如我假装幼稚地没心没肺。生活说说很现实的说说。
8. Instead of pretending to be mature and haggling, it’s better for me to pretend to be naive and carefree. Realistic quotes about life.
9.世界上最可笑的事情是，我知道了真相，你却还在说谎，还说的那么真，那么深。
9. The most ridiculous thing in the world is that I know the truth, but you’re still lying, and you do it so convincingly and deeply.
10.花时间去认识一两个知心朋友，比谈几场没有结果的恋爱要划算的多。
10. It’s more worthwhile to spend time getting to know one or two close friends than to have several love affairs with no results.
11.没人在乎你怎样在深夜痛哭，也没人在乎你辗转反侧的要熬几个秋。外人只看结果，自己独撑过程。等我们都明白了这个道理，便不会再在人前矫情，四处诉说以求宽慰。
11. No one cares how you cry in the middle of the night, nor do they care how many autumns you struggle through. Outsiders only look at the results, while you bear the process alone. Once we all understand this truth, we will no longer be melodramatic in public, seeking comfort everywhere.
12.放不下的时候，多想想对方是怎么放下你的。
12. When you can’t let go, think more about how the other person let go of you.
13.上了年纪就没有暗恋了，就算是关心谁，如果对方冷漠，便会立刻收心。
13. As you get older, there’s no such thing as unrequited love. Even if you care about someone, if they are indifferent, you will immediately withdraw your feelings.
14.爱一个人从来都是这样，明明想要月亮，但是却只能得到月光。
14. Loving someone is always like this: you clearly want the moon, but you can only get the moonlight.
15.很多人暗地里都对我有非议，说我圆滑，说我世故，可是我只知道一件事，如果我自己不保护自己，这个世界上就没有人会保护我。
15. Many people secretly criticize me, saying I’m cunning and worldly. But I only know one thing: if I don’t protect myself, no one in this world will protect me.
16.诗人只有在没吻到姑娘的时候歌颂爱情，在得到之后都歌颂自由。
16. Poets only praise love when they haven’t kissed a girl, and after they get it, they praise freedom.
17.你之所以觉得时间一年比一年过得快，是因为时间对你一年比一年重要。
17. The reason you feel time is passing faster and faster every year is that time becomes more important to you with each passing year.
18.满载空欢喜朝你奔去后摔一跤途增悲喜。
18. Full of joy, I run towards you only to fall and add sorrow to the journey.
19.细节会告诉你谁是真心对你好。
19. Details will tell you who genuinely cares for you.
20.没精力经营感情 经营出来的感情就一定长久了？
20. Even if you put in the effort to maintain a relationship, is it guaranteed to last?
21.总有一天你会发现我有多好可我不会等你到老。
21. One day, you will realize how great I am, but I won’t wait for you forever.
22.你的眼睛中，我看到的尽是虚伪。
22. In your eyes, all I see is hypocrisy.
23.我一直想问，究竟是谁TM设计的方便面分量，一包吃不饱，两包吃不完！
23. I’ve always wanted to ask, who the hell designed the serving size of instant noodles? One pack is not enough, but two packs are too much!
24.我爱你我会努力的飞奔去你的未来，你要等，等我去你的未来。
24. I love you and will strive to run towards our future. Wait for me, as I make my way to your future.
25.人需要理想，但是需要人的符合自然的理想，而不是超自然的理想。
25. People need ideals, but they need ideals that are in line with nature, not supernatural ones.
26.人生不易，生活很难，家家都有难念的经，人人都有辛酸的泪，没人知道，痛苦会在哪个时段出现，也没人清楚，烦恼会在哪个地方出现。我们能做的，就是做好自己，珍惜拥有。
26. Life is not easy, and everyone has their own struggles and tears. No one knows when pain will strike or where worries will appear. All we can do is be true to ourselves and cherish what we have.
27.有时阳光很好，有时阳光很暗，这就是生活。
27. Sometimes the sun is bright, sometimes it’s dim; that’s life.
28.房产证写你的名字，我妈会游泳，难产保大人，余生请多指教。
28. The property deed is in your name, my mom can swim, save the mother in case of difficult labor, and please guide me for the rest of our lives.
29.别带着前任的感情和我恋爱。
29. Don’t bring your ex’s emotions into our relationship.
30.你若离去，后会无期。
30. If you leave, there will be no reunion.
31.别让过去的烦恼成为现在的包袱。
31. Don’t let past troubles become the burden of the present.
32.我们始终都在练习微笑，到最后忘了怎么哭。
32. We keep practicing how to smile, and in the end, we forget how to cry.
33.如果每次聊天一定要是我先开口的话我会觉得你没有认真 会让我很累。
33. If I always have to initiate conversations, I’ll feel like you’re not serious, and it will make me tired.
34.让适合的人走进你的生活吧，让旧梦逝去吧，让不合适的那个离开吧。
34. Let the right people enter your life, let old dreams fade, and let the wrong ones leave.
35.一些该拿起的要拿起，一些该舍弃的要舍弃。让该结束的结束，该开始的才能开始。
35. Pick up what should be picked up, and let go of what should be let go. Only by ending the past can we begin the future.
36.不属于自己的浪漫，就象绑在线上的风筝，不管飞多高，总会有跌落的时候；不属于自己的感情，就象握在手里的沙子，不管握多紧，都会有流逝的风险；不属于自己的心动，就象上了发条的钟表，不管走多久，终会有停摆的一天！
36. Romance not meant for you is like a kite tied to a string, no matter how high it flies, it will eventually fall; emotions not meant for you are like sand in your hand, no matter how tight you
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