1.我们不需要考虑自己能够走多快，只要知道自己在不断努力向前就行。
1. We don’t need to think about how fast we can go, as long as we know we are constantly striving to move forward.
2.你不努力，永远不会有人对你公平，只有你努力了，有了资源，有了话语权以后，你才可能为自己争取公平的机会。——俞敏洪
2. If you don’t work hard, no one will ever treat you fairly. Only when you have made an effort, gained resources, and have a voice, can you possibly fight for a fair chance. — Yu Minhong
3.人需要有一种渴望，有一种梦想。没有渴望和梦想的日子使我们的生命失去活力和勇气。——俞敏洪
3. People need to have a desire and a dream. A life without desires and dreams robs us of vitality and courage. — Yu Minhong
4.我们倒是都自卑过，因为长相，因为穷！所以，不要认为你一无所有，当你一无所有的时候，是上帝帮你倒空了垃圾，让你装进去对你有用的东西。此时，你离那个人生腾飞点已经很近了！——俞敏洪
4. We have all been inferior, because of our appearance, because of our poverty! So, don’t think you have nothing. When you have nothing, it’s God helping you empty the trash so you can fill it with useful things. At this point, you are already very close to the turning point in your life! — Yu Minhong
5.一个人优秀并不是因为你上了北大你就优秀了，一个真正优秀人的特质来自于你的内心想要变的更加的优秀的那种强烈的渴望和对生命追求的火热的激情。——俞敏洪
5. Being excellent is not because you attended Peking University; the qualities of a truly excellent person come from your inner desire to become even better and your passionate pursuit of life. — Yu Minhong
6.只有你自己能够听见自己前进的脚步。——俞敏洪
6. Only you can hear the sound of your own footsteps as you move forward. — Yu Minhong
7.一个人走路，可能会走到很快，但不一定能走的很远，而一群人走路，不一定走的很快，但可能走的很远！
7. A person walking alone may walk quickly, but not necessarily far; while a group of people walking together may not walk quickly, but they may go far!
8.很多人希望自己成功，想选择一条别人没有走过的路，其实只要是路，就已经被人走过了，我们要做的，是应该在别人走过的路上，比别人走得更久，比别人走得更远，走得更久就能够走出别人没有走出的距离，走得更远就能够看到别人所没有看到的风景
8. Many people hope to succeed and want to choose a path that no one else has taken. In fact, if it’s a path, it has already been walked by others. What we should do is walk longer, farther, and more persistently on the paths others have taken. Walking longer allows you to cover distances others haven’t, and walking farther lets you see the scenery others haven’t seen.
9.要每天多努力一些，比别人多努力一个小时。
9. Strive a little more every day, putting in an extra hour of effort compared to others.
10.有一种能力，是持续不断的努力。
10. There is a kind of ability called continuous and relentless effort.
11.一个内心自卑的人，外在表现一般体现在两个方面，一是对别人的语言行为过分敏感，总觉得别人话中有话矛头指向自己。二是外在行为常常表现为过激反应，为一件小事或一句话大发雷霆，因为内心的虚弱需要用外表的强悍来保护。克服自卑最好的办法是某件事做到极好，赢得别人的赞美，这样胸怀自然就开朗了。
11. A person with inner inferiority usually manifests it in two ways: being overly sensitive to others’ words and actions, always feeling that they are targeting themselves; and reacting excessively to minor incidents or words, as their inner weakness requires them to appear strong on the outside. The best way to overcome inferiority is to excel in something and win praise from others, which naturally opens up one’s mind.
12.大学教育好像买一个火车月台票，只是给你有机会进月台，但是上哪班车，去哪个方向，到哪一站下车，那完全就要靠你自己。——《开讲啦》
12. University education is like buying a train station monthly pass; it only gives you the opportunity to enter the platform, but which train to take, in which direction to go, and at which station to get off depends entirely on you. — “Lecture Begins”
13.我一直坚持对待朋友的八字原则——真诚、关怀、倾听、谅解。——《在绝望中寻找希望》
13. I have always adhered to an eight-character principle in dealing with friends—sincerity, care, listening, and understanding. — “In Search of Hope in Desperation”
14.一个人优秀并不是因为你上了北大你就优秀了，一个真正优秀人的特质来自于你的内心想要变的更加的优秀的那种强烈的渴望和对生命追求的火热的激情。
14. Being excellent is not because you attended Peking University; the qualities of a truly excellent person come from your inner desire to become even better and your passionate pursuit of life. — Yu Minhong
15.能够到达金字塔顶端的只有两种动物，一是雄鹰，靠自己的天赋和翅膀飞了上去，有另外一种动物，也到了金字塔顶端，那就是蜗牛。我相信蜗牛绝对不会一帆风顺的爬上去，一定会掉下来，再爬，掉下来，再爬。但是，蜗牛只要爬上了金字塔顶端，它眼中所看到的世界，它收获的成就，跟雄鹰是一模一样的。所以生命的起点由不得自己选择，但是生命的终点是自己决定。——《平凡的日子与伟大的人生》
15. Only two animals can reach the top of the pyramid: one is the eagle, which relies on its innate talent and wings to fly up, and the other is the snail. I believe the snail will not climb up smoothly; it will fall down, climb again, fall down, and climb again. However, once the snail reaches the top of the pyramid, the world it sees and the achievements it gains are exactly the same as those of the eagle. So, the starting point of life is not up to us, but the end point is determined by ourselves. - “Ordinary Days and Great Life”
16.学生问追一个女孩总是追不上怎么办？我回答：女孩不是追来的，是吸引来的，你追的过程是吸引女孩的过程，如果女孩没有看上你，再追都是没有用的。也许用更多的时间丰富自己，让自己变得更有内涵，再出现在女孩面前，她就喜欢你了。另外，爱是有缘分的，哪怕再有内涵气质的人，也不能让所有女孩喜欢。
16. A student asked what to do if he can’t catch up with a girl he’s chasing. I replied: Girls are not caught, but attracted. The process of chasing is to attract the girl. If the girl doesn’t like you, chasing her is useless. Perhaps spend more time enriching yourself and becoming more profound, then reappear in front of the girl, and she might like you. In addition, love is about fate; even the most profound and charming person cannot make all girls like them.
17.一个男人，是需要孤独的，如果你忍受不了孤独，只能说明你内心还不够强大！很多男生认为能证明自己的魅力在于自己有多少朋友，有多么漂亮的女朋友，那么我只能说你真的还需要成长，一个真正的优秀男人一定是朴实无华，甚至是谨小慎微的，一定是一个孤独者，因为只有静才能生智，而不是急！
17. A man needs solitude. If you can’t bear loneliness, it only shows that your heart is not strong enough! Many guys think that their charm lies in the number of friends they have and how beautiful their girlfriends are. Then I can only say that you really need to grow up. A truly excellent man must be simple and unpretentious, even cautious, and must be a loner, because only in silence can wisdom be born, not in haste!
18.人不能自卑，自卑把自己看得太低，什么事都做不成； 人不能自傲，自傲把自己看太高，最后没有人能看得起你。人最重要的是别太关注别人的眼光，不断和自己比，和自己较劲，让自己成熟和进步，取得自己的天地。在别人眼中活自己，永远是别人眼光的附庸，在自己眼中活自己，就是自己的主人。
18. One should not feel inferior, as it makes you see yourself too low and prevents you from accomplishing anything. One should not feel arrogant, as it makes you see yourself too high, and eventually, no one will respect you. The most important thing is not to pay too much attention to others’ opinions, but to constantly compare and compete with yourself, to mature and progress, and to achieve your own world. Living for others’ opinions makes you a follower of their gaze, while living for your own makes you the master of your life.
19.我们倒是都自卑过，因为长相，因为穷！所以，不要认为你一无所有，当你一无所有的时候，是上帝帮你倒空了垃圾，让你装进去对你有用的东西。此时，你离那个人生腾飞点已经很近了！
19. We have all felt inferior because of our appearance or poverty! So, don’t think you have nothing. When you have nothing, it means God has emptied the trash for you, allowing you to fill it with useful things. At this point, you are very close to the turning point of your life!
20.当你征服一座山峰时，它已经在你脚下了，你必须再找一座山峰去征服，否则，你只有下山，走下坡路了。
20. When you conquer a mountain, it is already beneath your feet. You must find another mountain to conquer, otherwise, you will only go downhill.
21.人需要有一种渴望，有一种梦想。没有渴望和梦想的日子使我们的生命失去活力和勇气。
21. People need to have a desire and a dream. A life without desires and dreams robs our lives of vitality and courage.
22.因为自卑所以你就会害怕，你害怕失败，你害怕别人的眼光，你会觉得周围的人全是抱着讽刺、打击、侮辱你的眼神在看你，因此你不敢去做，所以你用一个本来不应该贬低自己的因素在贬低自己，而当你失去了勇气的时候，这个世界上所有的门都被关上了。——《自卑比狂妄更糟糕》
22. Because of inferiority, you will be afraid. You are afraid of failure, you are afraid of others’ opinions, and you feel that everyone around you is looking at you with sarcasm,打击, and insult. As a result, you dare not do anything. So, you demean yourself with a factor that should not belittle you, and when you lose courage, all the doors in the world are closed. - “Inferiority is Worse Than Arrogance”
23.请成长起来，不要让自己只是变老。——俞敏洪
23. Please grow up and don’t just age. - Yu Minhong
24.如果有人与你一起坚持一个目标，一定要再拉一个人和你们一起坚持，因为群体干一件事情会比个体干一件事情坚持得更久。一个人走路可能会快，但是一群人走路往往会走得更远。——俞敏洪
24. If someone is sticking to a goal with you, be sure to bring another person to stick to it with you, because a group can persist longer in doing something than an individual. A person may walk faster, but a group often walks further. - Yu Minhong
25.后半生，不管老天给我多少时间，我会一直努力去爱值得爱的人，做值得做的事。云舒云卷，花开花落，伴季节一起悲喜，随岁月一起精彩。——俞敏洪
25. In the second half of my life, no matter how much time God gives me, I will always strive to love those who are worth loving and to do things that are worth doing. As clouds unfold and flowers bloom and wither, let us share the joys and sorrows of the seasons and the brilliance of the years. —— Yu Minhong
26.我们不需要考虑自己能够走多快，只要知道自己在不断努力向前就行。——俞敏洪
26. We don’t need to consider how fast we can go, as long as we know we are constantly striving to move forward. —— Yu Minhong
27.当你征服一座山峰时，它已经在你脚下了，你必须再找一座山峰去征服，否则，你只有下山，走下坡路了。——俞敏洪
27. When you conquer a mountain peak, it is already beneath your feet; you must find another peak to conquer, otherwise, you will only go downhill. —— Yu Minhong
28.一个人走路，可能会走到很快，但不一定能走的很远，而一群人走路，不一定走的很快，但可能走的很远！——俞敏洪
28. A person walking alone may walk fast, but not necessarily far; while a group of people walking together may not walk fast, but they may go far. —— Yu Minhong
29.有一种能力，是持续不断的努力。——俞敏洪
29. There is a kind of ability, which is continuous and unremitting efforts. —— Yu Minhong
30.要每天多努力一些，比别人多努力一个小时。——俞敏洪
30. Strive a little more every day, and work an hour more than others. —— Yu Minhong
31.大学教育好像买一个火车月台票，只是给你有机会进月台，但是上哪班车，去哪个方向，到哪一站下车，那完全就要靠你自己。——俞敏洪
31. University education is like buying a train station monthly pass; it only gives you the opportunity to enter the platform, but which train to take, in which direction to go, and at which station to get off, all depend entirely on you. —— Yu Minhong
32.我用望远镜找的不是对手，是榜样。——俞敏洪
32. I use a telescope not to find opponents, but to find role models. —— Yu Minhong
33.一个人最怕的就是到最后自己都不知道自己是什么人，为什么要活在这世上。——俞敏洪
33. The scariest thing for a person is to end up not knowing who they are and why they live in this world. —— Yu Minhong
34.运气永远不可能持续一辈子，能帮助你持续一辈子的东西只有你个人的能力。——俞敏洪
34. Luck can never last a lifetime; the only thing that can help you last a lifetime is your personal ability. —— Yu Minhong
35.只要生命在，路就没有尽头。——俞敏洪
35. As long as life exists, there is no end to the road. —— Yu Minhong
36.年轻人，去闯，去努力，去奋斗，去做自己最想做的事情。只要不做坏事，只要保持良心，剩下的什么事情都能做。——俞敏洪
36. Young people, go explore, strive, fight, and do what you want to do the most. As long as you don’t do evil and maintain your conscience, you can do anything. —— Yu Minhong
37.人的一生一定要有一段让你回想起来热泪盈眶的日子。——俞敏洪
37. There must be a period in one’s life that, when recalled, brings tears to one’s eyes. —— Yu Minhong
38.一个人想改变，通常是由环境引起的，如果在一个舒适的环境中生活，就不容易求变。很多人有一份稳定的工作，一个相对温馨的小家庭，一间不管多大面积的房子，一般改变的愿望就不大。——俞敏洪
38. A person usually wants to change due to environmental factors; if living in a comfortable environment, it is not easy to seek change. Many people have a stable job, a relatively warm small family, and a house of any size, and generally have little desire to change. —— Yu Minhong
39.让我们全心全意地收获生活的每一天，在平凡的日子里感受生命的美好，在耕耘里感受劳动的快乐和收获的期待。——俞敏洪
39. Let us wholeheartedly embrace every day of life, feel the beauty of life in ordinary days, and experience the joy of labor and the anticipation of harvest in our hard work. —— Yu Minhong
40.青春就是做梦和犯傻。——俞敏洪
40. Youth is about dreaming and making mistakes. —— Yu Minhong
41.一个人真正的优秀的特质来自于内心想要变得更加优秀的强烈的渴望，和追求成功的那种火热的激情。——俞敏洪
41. A person’s true excellence comes from the strong desire within to become better and the passionate pursuit of success. —— Yu Minhong
42.所以，我感谢我生命中发生的一切事情，我遇到的一切人和事都是对的。——俞敏洪
42. Therefore, I am grateful for everything that has happened in my life; all the people and events I have encountered are right. —— Yu Minhong
43.当全世界抛弃你或者你抛弃全世界时，唯一能够与你不离不弃的，就是你手头的那些书籍。——俞敏洪
43. When the whole world abandons you or you abandon the world, the only thing that will stay with you is the books in your hands. —— Yu Minhong
44.“因”是你自己选择的，“果”是你没有办法选择的。——俞敏洪
44. “Cause” is your own choice, while “effect” is something you cannot choose. —— Yu Minhong
45.无论你处于多么卑微的状态，只要你有梦想，就能过上有尊严的生活。——俞敏洪
45. No matter how humble your situation, as long as you have dreams, you can live a life of dignity. - Yu Minhong
46.人生是一场未有尽头的马拉松，不在于你是否先走，而在于你能走多远。——俞敏洪
46. Life is an endless marathon; it’s not about who starts first, but how far you can go. - Yu Minhong
47.当你一无所有的时候，是上帝帮你倒空了垃圾，让你装进去对你最有用的东西。此时，你离那个人生腾飞点已经很近了。——俞敏洪
47. When you have nothing, it’s God emptying your trash so you can fill it with the most useful things for you. At this point, you are already very close to the turning point of your life. - Yu Minhong
48.即使在现代到处都充斥着欺骗的社会，人们依然欣赏诚信、善良、乐于助人、开朗、有团队合作精神的人。——俞敏洪
48. Even in today’s society filled with deception, people still appreciate those who are honest, kind, helpful, cheerful, and have a team spirit. - Yu Minhong
49.我觉得最大的孤独是：行走在如此密集的人群中却没有一个人可以倾诉。——俞敏洪
49. I think the greatest loneliness is: walking in such a dense crowd of people and not having a single person to confide in. - Yu Minhong
50.狂妄的人也许还能抓到他生活中本来不是他的机会，但是自卑的人永远会失去本来就属于他的机会。——俞敏洪
50. Arrogant people may still seize opportunities that are not meant for them in their lives, but those with low self-esteem will always lose the opportunities that are meant for them. - Yu Minhong
51.生命不息，奋斗不止！拥有热情，人生才有无限可能。——俞敏洪
51. Life never stops; the struggle continues! With passion, life has infinite possibilities. - Yu Minhong
52.年轻是女人的通行证，沧桑是男人的信用卡。——俞敏洪
52. Youth is a woman’s pass, and vicissitudes are a man’s credit card. - Yu Minhong
53.人的一生不能只为物质而活，要有更大的格局和心胸。一个梦想改变世界的人，一定会勇于修正自己，一定比他人更有冲破黑暗的决心和毅力。我们的存在，应该一起让这个世界更为美好，不是吗？——俞敏洪
53. One’s life should not be lived only for material possessions; one must have a greater vision and broader mind. A person who dreams of changing the world will be brave in correcting themselves and have more determination and perseverance to break through the darkness. Our existence should make the world a better place together, right? - Yu Minhong
54.真正纯粹的爱情只有现在，只有当下，爱不因过去，不因未来。——俞敏洪
54. True pure love only exists in the present, only in the moment. Love is not because of the past, nor because of the future. - Yu Minhong
55.坚持不是因为坚强而坚持。——俞敏洪
55. Persistence is not about being strong, but about persisting. - Yu Minhong
56.生命的过程如黄河水，其中只有四分之一是泥沙，四分之三是幸福和快乐。摇晃一下，生命中充满浑浊，但把心静下来以后，泥沙沉淀下来，才能发现你生命中的四分之三是幸福和快乐。——俞敏洪
56. The process of life is like the water of the Yellow River, with only one quarter being silt and three quarters being happiness and joy. Shake it, and life becomes turbid, but when you calm your heart, the silt settles, and you can discover that three quarters of your life are happiness and joy. - Yu Minhong
57.每个人都自卑过，不论是自己的比较还是外界的压力，看看从前的自己和现在的模样，那是你奋斗和努力过的印记。向从前挥挥手，自卑过的你现在要大步地往前走了！——俞敏洪
57. Everyone has experienced low self-esteem, whether from self-comparison or external pressure. Look at your past self and your current appearance; that is the mark of your struggle and effort. Wave goodbye to the past, and now, with your low self-esteem, you must stride forward! - Yu Minhong
58.做事情的时候，要对周围的环境和人物进行充分的了解后再决定如何行动，这是成功的关键。——俞敏洪
58. When doing things, it is essential to fully understand the surrounding environment and people before deciding how to act. This is the key to success. - Yu Minhong
59.爱的最高境界就是把一瞬间的感觉变成永恒。——俞敏洪
59. The highest state of love is turning a momentary feeling into eternity. - Yu Minhong
60.使这个世界灿烂的不是阳光，而是你的微笑。——俞敏洪
60. What makes the world bright is not the sunlight, but your smile. - Yu Minhong
61.年纪大了，人们看重不再是外表，不是你帅不帅，而是看你的内心的魅力：你的气魄、气概。——俞敏洪
61. As people age, what matters is no longer appearance or good looks, but the charm of your inner self: your spirit and magnanimity. - Yu Minhong
62.真诚的微笑，是无形的资产。——俞敏洪
62. A sincere smile is an intangible asset. - Yu Minhong
63.在这个世界上，总有人需要你，就像你永远需要别人一样。——俞敏洪
63. In this world, there is always someone who needs you, just as you will always need others. - Yu Minhong
64.一个人老是得到的时候是不需要胸怀的，只有一个人失去的时候胸怀才体现出来。——俞敏洪
64. When a person is constantly receiving, there is no need for a broad mind; it is only when someone loses that their broad-mindedness is revealed. - Yu Minhong
65.我相信，一个人的心变了，他的世界就会变，那么他的命运也就随之改变了。——俞敏洪
65. I believe that when a person’s heart changes, his world will change, and so will his destiny. - Yu Minhong
66.梦想再大，不努力是不行的。——俞敏洪
66. No matter how big your dreams are, you can’t achieve them without hard work. - Yu Minhong
67.读书真是一种探险，随时可见群山巍峨，随时可与大师对话，欣喜时品茗读诗，安逸悠长。这样的喜悦，是金钱无法买到的。——俞敏洪
67. Reading is truly an adventure, where you can see majestic mountains at any time, engage in conversations with masters, enjoy poetry over tea when delighted, and experience a peaceful and lasting joy. Such happiness cannot be bought with money. - Yu Minhong
68.如果你要引人注目，就要使得自己成为一棵树，傲立于大地之间；而不是做一颗草，你见过谁踩了一棵草，还抱歉地对草说：对不起？
68. If you want to stand out, be a tree that stands tall on the earth; don’t be a blade of grass, have you ever seen anyone apologize to a blade of grass after stepping on it?
69.我用望远镜找的不是对手，是榜样。——《北大演讲》
69. I use a telescope not to find opponents, but role models. - “Peking University Speech”
70.当全世界抛弃你或者你抛弃全世界时，唯一能够与你不离不弃的，就是你手头的那些书籍。
70. When the whole world abandons you or you abandon the world, the only thing that will stay with you is the books in your hands.
毕淑敏经典语录，毕淑敏精选名句
Bi Shumin’s classic quotes, selected famous sayings
1.人生没有意义，但你要为之确立一个意义。——毕淑敏
1. Life has no meaning, but you must establish one for it. - Bi Shumin
2.希翼只要一萌生，除了实现它，你别无它法。——毕淑敏《在雪原与星空之间》
2. Once a desire is born, there is no other way but to fulfill it. - Bi Shumin, “Between the Snowfield and the Starry Sky”
3.人生总是有灾难。其实大多数人早已练就了对灾难的从容，我们只是还没有学会灾难间隙的快活。我们太多注重了自己警觉苦难，我们太忽视提醒幸福。请从此注意幸福！幸福也需要提醒吗？——毕淑敏《提醒幸福》
3. Life is always full of disasters. In fact, most people have already learned to face disasters calmly, but we have not yet learned to be happy during the intervals between disasters. We pay too much attention to being vigilant about suffering and neglect to remind ourselves of happiness. Please start paying attention to happiness! Does happiness also need a reminder? - Bi Shumin, “Reminding Happiness”
4.训练自己的荷尔蒙，让它不仅在旅游的时候高涨，也能在普通的日子里找到分泌的支点。也就是说，无论在窠臼以内还是窠臼以外，都有快乐幸福的理由。——毕淑敏《蓝色天堂》
4. Train your hormones to not only surge when traveling but also find a fulcrum for secretion in ordinary days. In other words, there are reasons for happiness and well-being both within and outside the rut. - Bi Shumin, “Blue Paradise”
5.纯净而有力量，是很高的境界。复杂常常使人望而生畏，很多种因素混合在一起，叫人摸不着底细，以混浊佯作高深。——毕淑敏《在雪原与星空之间》
5. Being pure and powerful is a high realm. Complexity often makes people feel intimidated, and many factors mixed together make it difficult to grasp the details, using turbidity to pretend to be profound. - Bi Shumin, “Between the Snowfield and the Starry Sky”
6.也许我们的身体坏了，每况愈下，但我们牵着爱人的手，慢慢老去，旅途就不再孤独。也许我们是平凡和微渺的，但我们竭尽力量做着喜欢的事，心中便充溢温暖和安宁。——毕淑敏《愿你与这世界温暖相拥》
6. Perhaps our bodies are deteriorating, but as we hold hands with our loved ones and grow old together, the journey is no longer lonely. Perhaps we are ordinary and insignificant, but as we do what we love with all our strength, our hearts are filled with warmth and peace. - Bi Shumin, “May You Embrace the World with Warmth”
7.我们可以不美丽,但我们健康。我们可以不伟大,但我们庄严。我们可以不完满,但我们努力。我们可以不永恒,但我们真诚。——毕淑敏《精神的三间小屋》
7. We may not be beautiful, but we are healthy. We may not be great, but we are solemn. We may not be perfect, but we strive. We may not be eternal, but we are sincere. - Bi Shumin, “The Three Spiritual Huts”
8.有时候猛烈地指责别人说谎，其实是太渴望那消息真实。——毕淑敏《在雪原与星空之间》
8. Sometimes vehemently accusing others of lying is actually a strong desire for the news to be true. - Bi Shumin, “Between the Snowfield and the Starry Sky”
9.人生并没有一个和蔼的老者或者中年人，发给我们第一颗糖。也不曾许诺在遥远或是不遥远的将来，一定会有第二颗糖，披着彩衣款款而来。生活充满了未知数，却并不都是甜蜜。——毕淑敏《星光下的灵魂》
9. There is no kind old man or middle-aged person in life who gives us the first candy. Nor has anyone promised that there will be a second candy, dressed in colorful clothes, coming in the near or distant future. Life is full of unknowns, but not all of them are sweet. - Bi Shumin, “The Soul Under the Starlight”
10.只有内心的坚定，才能把岁月留下的伤痕，化作成长的书签。微笑，虽饱经创伤，仍动人心扉；美丽，虽历经磨难，仍毫发无损；慈祥，虽万般摧残，仍春风拂面。——毕淑敏
10. Only inner strength can turn the scars left by time into bookmarks for growth. Smile, though traumatized, still touches people’s hearts; beauty, though experienced hardships, remains unscathed; kindness, though饱受摧残, still gentle as the spring breeze. - Bi Shumin
11.那一瞬间，我好孤独，有一种独闯虎穴的忐忑。——毕淑敏《在雪原与星空之间》
11. At that moment, I felt so lonely, with a lingering fear of venturing into the tiger’s den alone. - Bi Shumin, “Between the Snowfield and the Starry Sky”
12.岁月是流淌在血液里面的经历，是藏在心灵树洞里的故事。然而它也会轻易地从你的生活姿态里流露出来，并获得回应。只要你不再自卑，万物为之静好。——毕淑敏
12. Time is the experience flowing in our blood, and the stories hidden in the tree hollows of our souls. However, it can also easily reveal itself in your life attitude and receive a response. As long as you are no longer inferior, all things will be peaceful. ——Bi Shumin
13.我会在没有人的暗夜深深检讨自己的缺憾。但我不愿在众目睽睽之下，把自己像次品一般展览。——毕淑敏《关于人生的沉思》
13. I will deeply review my shortcomings in the dark night when no one is around. But I do not wish to display myself like a substandard product in front of everyone. ——Bi Shumin “Contemplation on Life”
14.“等着别人来爱你，不如自己努力爱自己。”——毕淑敏《愿你与这世界温暖相拥》
14. “Waiting for others to love you,不如自己努力爱自己。” ——Bi Shumin “May You Embrace the World with Warmth”
15.你不能要求拥有一个没有风暴的人生海洋，因为痛苦和磨难是人生的一部分。一个没有风暴的海洋，那不是海，是泥塘。——毕淑敏《心灵密码》
15. You cannot demand a life ocean without storms, for pain and tribulation are a part of life. An ocean without storms is not a sea, but a mud pond. ——Bi Shumin “Soul Code”
16.我知道了什么叫做崇高。它其实是一种发源于恐惧的感情，是一种战胜了恐惧之后的豪迈。——毕淑敏《关于人生的沉思》
16. I have learned what nobility is. It is actually a feeling originating from fear, a kind of magnanimity after conquering fear. ——Bi Shumin “Contemplation on Life”
17.人生第一要素不是「善」而是「真」。——毕淑敏《愿你与这世界温暖相拥》
17. The first element of life is not “goodness” but “truth.” ——Bi Shumin “May You Embrace the World with Warmth”
18.痛则大哭，喜则大笑，只要是从心底流露出的对世界的真情感，都是生命之壁的摩崖石刻，经得起岁月风雨的推敲，值得我们久久真爱。——毕淑敏《愿你与这世界温暖相拥》
18. Cry when in pain, laugh when happy; as long as it is a true emotion from the bottom of your heart towards the world, it is like a cliff carving on the wall of life, withstands the test of time and weather, and is worth our long-lasting love. ——Bi Shumin “May You Embrace the World with Warmth”
19.睡着你的秘密，醒着你的自由。它的篱笆结实而疏朗，有清风徐徐穿过。——毕淑敏《心灵处方》
19. Sleep with your secrets, wake up with your freedom. Its fence is sturdy yet sparse, with a gentle breeze passing through. ——Bi Shumin “Soul Prescription”
20.幸福盲如同色盲，把绚烂的世界还原成模糊的黑白照片。拭亮你幸福的瞳孔吧，就会看到被潜藏被遮掩被蒙昧被溷淆的幸福，就如美人鱼一般从深海中升起，哺育着我们。——毕淑敏《幸福盲》
20. Happiness blindness is like color blindness, turning the colorful world into a blurry black and white photo. Polish your happy pupils, and you will see the hidden, covered, and confused happiness, just like a mermaid rising from the deep sea, nourishing us. ——Bi Shumin “Happiness Blindness”
21.、为了踏遍世界每个角落。、有时候是不为了什么，就是想去走一走。、旅行是一种学习。、旅游是为了梦中的橄榄树。、旅行就是从自己活腻的了地方到别人活腻了的地方去。、迁徙乃人之本能。、旅游是为了获取吹嘘的资本。、旅游是为了购买各国各地的特产送人。、死在远方。——毕淑敏《蓝色天堂》
21. In order to travel every corner of the world. Sometimes not for anything, just want to go for a walk. Travel is a kind of learning. Tourism is for the dream of olive trees. Travel is to go from the place you are tired of living to the place others are tired of living. Migration is human instinct. Tourism is for gaining bragging rights. Tourism is for buying and giving gifts from various countries and places. To die in a distant land. ——Bi Shumin “Blue Paradise”
22.看着我们周围。每一棵树、每一叶草、每一朵花，都不化妆，面对骄阳、面对暴雨、面对风雪，它们都本色而自然。它们会衰老和凋零，但衰老和凋零也是一种真实。作为万物灵长的人类，为何要将自己隐藏在脂粉和油彩的后面？——毕淑敏《素面朝天》
22. Look around us. Every tree, every blade of grass, and every flower does not wear makeup, facing the scorching sun, heavy rain, and snow, they are all natural and true. They will age and wither, but aging and withering are also a kind of truth. As the most intelligent beings in the world, why should humans hide themselves behind makeup and paint? ——Bi Shumin “Face the Sky with a Bare Face”
23.记忆的冰川在岁月的侵蚀下，渐渐崩塌消融。保持着最初的晶莹的往事，已经越来越稀少。——毕淑敏《在雪原与星空之间》
23. The glaciers of memory gradually collapse and melt under the erosion of time. The events that maintain their original crystal clearness are becoming increasingly scarce. ——Bi Shumin “Between the Snowfield and the Starry Sky”
24.人们总是终身困顿在自己茧里,这是他们自己的选择,当生命快要终结的时候,人们也许会恍然发觉,:世界原本就是一张巨大的茧,而我们从未真正的生活过.——毕淑敏《心灵的力量》
24. People are always trapped in their own cocoons for life, which is their own choice. When life is about to end, people may suddenly realize that the world is originally a huge cocoon, and we have never truly lived. ——Bi Shumin “The Power of the Soul”
25.凡是自然的东西都是缓慢的。太阳一点点升起，一点点落下。花一朵朵开，一瓣瓣地落下，稻谷成熟，都慢得很。那些急骤发生的自然变化，多是灾难。如火山喷发、飓风和暴雨。一个孩子要长大是很慢的。一个人睡觉，也是很慢的，从日落到日出，人才能休息过来。——毕淑敏《星光下的灵魂》
25. Everything in nature is slow. The sun rises bit by bit, sets bit by bit. Flowers bloom one by one, petals fall one by one, rice ripens, all very slowly. Those sudden natural changes are mostly disasters, such as volcanic eruptions, hurricanes, and heavy rains. It takes a long time for a child to grow up. A person’s sleep is also slow, from sunset to sunrise, people can rest. - Bi Shumin “Soul Under the Starlight”
26.有一颗大心，才盛得下喜怒，输得出力量。——毕淑敏《愿你与这世界温暖相拥》
26. Only with a big heart can one hold joy and anger, and give out strength. - Bi Shumin “May You Embrace the World Warmly”
28.我怎么才能始终保有一颗善于发现美的眼睛？怎么才能让自己的心灵敏清晰？这真是一个极好的问题，答案就是在熟悉的地方也能发现美和惊喜。——毕淑敏《蓝色天堂》
28. How can I always have eyes that are good at discovering beauty? How can I make my soul clear and sensitive? This is a great question, and the answer is to find beauty and surprises even in familiar places. - Bi Shumin “Blue Paradise”
29.我不相信命运，我只相信我的手。因为它不属于冥冥之中任何未知的力量，而只属于我的心。我可以支配它，去干我想干的任何一件事情。——毕淑敏《愿你与这世界温暖相拥》
29. I don’t believe in fate, I only believe in my hands. Because they do not belong to any unknown force in the dark, but only belong to my heart. I can control them to do anything I want. - Bi Shumin “May You Embrace the World Warmly”
31.染的颜色再好看，天长地久终会褪色。唯有天生的颜色，永不会改变。——毕淑敏《在雪原与星空之间》
31. No matter how beautiful the dyed color is, it will fade over time. Only the natural color will never change. - Bi Shumin “Between the Snowfield and the Starry Sky”
32.我喜欢爱读书的女人。书不是胭脂，却会使女人心颜常驻。书不是棍棒，却会使女人铿锵有力。书不是羽毛，却会使女人飞翔。书不是万能的，却会使女人千变万化。——毕淑敏《我所喜欢的女子》
32. I like women who love to read. Books are not rouge, but they make women’s faces and hearts last. Books are not sticks, but they make women strong and powerful. Books are not feathers, but they make women fly. Books are not omnipotent, but they make women ever-changing. - Bi Shumin “The Women I Like”
33.是的。我很重要。我们每一个人都应该有勇气这样说。我们的地位可能很卑微，我们的身份可能很渺小，但这丝毫不意味着我们不重要。重要并不是伟大的同义词，它是心灵对生命的允诺。——毕淑敏《我很重要》
33. Yes. I am important. Each of us should have the courage to say this. Our status may be humble, our identity may be insignificant, but this does not mean we are unimportant. Importance is not a synonym for greatness, it is the soul’s promise to life. - Bi Shumin “I Am Important”
34.我不相信手掌的纹路，但我相信手掌加上手指的力量。——毕淑敏
34. I don’t believe in the lines of the palm, but I believe in the power of the palm and fingers combined. - Bi Shumin
35.是的，我并不美丽。但素面朝天并不是美丽女人的专利，而是所有女人都可以选择的一种生活方式。——毕淑敏《素面朝天》
35. Yes, I am not beautiful. But plain face is not the patent of beautiful women, it is a way of life that all women can choose. - Bi Shumin “Plain Face to the Sky”
36.一个人可以受过教育，但他依然是没有教养的。就像一个人可以不停地吃东西，但他的肠胃不吸收，竹篮打水一场空，还是骨瘦如柴。——毕淑敏《教养的证据》
36. A person can be educated, but he may still be uncultured. Just like a person can keep eating, but if his stomach and intestines do not absorb, it’s all in vain, still as thin as a bamboo stick. - Bi Shumin “Evidence of Cultivation”
37.没有人是一座孤岛。——毕淑敏
37. No one is an island. - Bi Shumin
38.在生和死之间，是孤独的人生旅程。保有一份真爱，就是照耀人生得以温暖的灯。——毕淑敏《爱怕什么》
38. Between life and death is a lonely journey of life. Having a true love is the lamp that illuminates the warmth of life. - Bi Shumin “What is Love Afraid of”
39.每个人都是多棱的，即使是一个高尚的人，灵魂中也潜伏着卑微。——毕淑敏《关于思想和灵魂的感悟》
39. Everyone is multifaceted, even a noble person has humility lurking in the soul. - Bi Shumin “Perception of Thoughts and Souls”
40.优等的心，不必华丽，但必须坚固。——毕淑敏《造心》
40. A superior heart does not need to be gorgeous, but it must be strong. - Bi Shumin “Building a Heart”
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42.我喜欢深存感恩之心又独自远行的女人。知道谢父母，却不盲从。知道谢天地，却不畏惧。知道谢自己，却不自恋。知道谢朋友，却不依赖。知道谢每一粒种子每一缕清风，也知道要早起播种和御风而行。——毕淑敏《我所喜爱的女人》
42. I like women who have a deep heart of gratitude and travel alone. They know how to thank their parents, but not blindly. They know how to thank heaven and earth, but not fear. They know how to thank themselves, but not be narcissistic. They know how to thank every seed and every wisp of breeze, and they also know to get up early to sow and ride the wind. - Bi Shumin “The Women I Like”
43.我不相信手掌的纹路，但我相信手掌加上手指的力量。如果你不能确定你往哪里走，那么此处就是你的葬身之地。——毕淑敏《心灵七游戏》
43. I don’t believe in the lines on the palm of my hand, but I believe in the strength of my hand and fingers. If you can’t determine where you’re going, then this place will be your grave. - Bi Shumin “Seven Games of the Soul”
44.要么共赴深渊，要么同挽狂澜。——毕淑敏《在雪原与星空之间》
44. Either face the abyss together, or jointly save the raging tide. - Bi Shumin “Between the Snowfield and the Starry Sky”
46.人生有无数的岔道，在分歧的路口，多半摆着诱惑。我们常常被物质的光怪陆离耀花了眼睛。需要在漆黑的静夜想一想，想想我们与生俱来的理想，想想我们将要迈步的台阶，距我们最终的目标是近还是远？眼睛当然是有用的。但有时闭上眼睛的时候，我们才能更好地倾听心灵的回答。——毕淑敏
46. Life has countless forks in the road, and at the crossroads, temptations are often laid out. We are often dazzled by the materialistic wonders. We need to think in the dark silence of the night, about the ideals we were born with, about the steps we are about to take, whether they are closer or further from our ultimate goal. Eyes are certainly useful. But sometimes, when we close our eyes, we can better listen to the answers from our souls. - Bi Shumin
47.幸福不喜欢喧嚣浮华，常常在暗淡中降临，贫困是相濡以沫的一个糕饼，患难中的心心相映的一个眼神。——毕淑敏
47. Happiness dislikes noise and extravagance, often arriving in the dimness. Poverty is a cake shared in mutual support, a glance exchanged in adversity. - Bi Shumin
48.你必得一个人和日月星辰对话，和江河湖海晤谈，和每一棵树握手，和每一株草耳鬓厮磨，你才会顿悟宇宙之大、生命之微、时间之贵、死亡之近。——毕淑敏《在雪原与星空之间》
48. You must dialogue with the sun, moon, and stars, converse with rivers, lakes, and seas, shake hands with every tree, and caress every blade of grass. Only then will you suddenly realize the vastness of the universe, the insignificance of life, the value of time, and the nearness of death. - Bi Shumin “Between the Snowfield and the Starry Sky”
49.如果你愤怒，你就呐喊；如果你哀伤，你就哭泣；如果你热爱，你就表达；如果你喜欢，你就追求。不自我贬低，不自怨自艾，走出去，勇敢做自己。——毕淑敏《心灵的力量》
49. If you are angry, shout; if you are sad, cry; if you love, express it; if you like something, pursue it. Don’t belittle yourself, don’t wallow in self-pity, go out, and bravely be yourself. - Bi Shumin “The Power of the Soul”
50.旅行是一种学习，它给你用一双婴儿的眼睛去看世界，去看不同的社会，让你变得更宽容，让你理解不同的价值观，让你更好地懂得去爱、去珍惜。旅行让你以另外一种身份开始一种新的生活，进行新的尝试，让你重新发现自己。——毕淑敏《蓝色天堂》
50. Travel is a kind of learning. It allows you to see the world with the eyes of a baby, to observe different societies, making you more tolerant, helping you understand different values, and teaching you to love and cherish better. Travel lets you start a new life with another identity, make new attempts, and rediscover yourself. - Bi Shumin “Blue Paradise”
51.当生命结束的时候，他们也许会恍然发觉，世界只是一个茧，而自己未曾真正地活过。——毕淑敏《蝉是被自己的丝裹住的》
51. When life comes to an end, they may suddenly realize that the world is just a cocoon, and they have never truly lived. - Bi Shumin “The Cicada is Wrapped in Its Own Silk”
52.用返朴归真的方式，重新调动起生命的激情。——毕淑敏《蓝色天堂》
52. Rekindle the passion of life by returning to simplicity. - Bi Shumin “Blue Paradise”
53.爱怕沉默。太多的人，以为爱到深处是无言。其实，爱是很难描述的一种情感，需要详尽的表达和传递。——毕淑敏《爱怕什么》
53. Love fears silence. Too many people think that love is speechless when it is deep. In fact, love is a difficult-to-describe emotion that requires detailed expression and transmission. - Bi Shumin “What Fears Love”
54.只要你自己不倒，别人可以把你按倒在地上，却不能阻止你满面灰尘遍体伤痕地站起来。——毕淑敏
54. As long as you don’t fall, others can push you to the ground, but they can’t stop you from getting up, covered in dust and bruises. - Bi Shumin
55.忧郁是一只近在咫尺的洋葱，散发着独特而辛辣的味道，剥开它紧密黏黏的鳞片时，我们会泪流满面。——毕淑敏《心灵处方》
55. Melancholy is an onion close at hand, emitting a unique and pungent aroma. As we peel its tightly bound scales, we will be moved to tears. - Bi Shumin “Prescription for the Soul”
56.即使是一块苦胆泡过的黄连，长久的咀嚼，也会使它的苦涩慢慢淡下去。——毕淑敏
56. Even a piece of bitter yellow连 (a traditional Chinese medicine) soaked in gallbladder juice, when chewed for a long time, will gradually lose its bitterness. - Bi Shumin
57.一些事情，当我们年轻的时候，无法懂得。当我们懂得的时候，已不再年轻。世上有些东西可以弥补，有些东西永无弥补。——毕淑敏《孝心无价》
57. Some things cannot be understood when we are young. When we finally understand them, we are no longer young. Some things in the world can be compensated for, while others can never be made up for. - Bi Shumin “The Invaluable Filial Piety”
58.如果只能在陌生的地方摘下面具，你的一生是否总是在桎梏中，不得解放？——毕淑敏《蓝色天堂》
58. If you can only take off your mask in unfamiliar places, is your life always in shackles, never to be liberated? - Bi Shumin “Blue Paradise”
59.美丽的女人经得起时间的推敲。时间不是美丽的敌人，而只是美丽的代理人。它让美丽在不同的时刻呈现出不同的状态，从单纯走向深邃。——毕淑敏《愿你与这世界温暖相拥》
59. Beautiful women can withstand the test of time. Time is not the enemy of beauty, but rather its agent. It allows beauty to present itself in different states at different moments, evolving from simplicity to depth. ——Bi Shumin “May You Embrace the World with Warmth”
60.到更远的地方，更艰险的地方，更人迹罕至的地方去“超凡脱俗”，不过，终有一天你会厌倦这种逃避。其实，凡俗自有凡俗的魅力。——毕淑敏《蓝色天堂》
60. Going to farther, more dangerous, and more remote places to “transcend the ordinary” is fine, but one day you will tire of this escape. In fact, the mundane has its own charm. ——Bi Shumin “Blue Paradise”
61.冰碎了，入了土，化为水，遇到热，变为汽，碰了山，凝为雨，落下来，复为冰雪又冰雪。——毕淑敏《西藏，面冰十年》
61. The ice melts, enters the soil, turns into water, encounters heat, becomes vapor, meets mountains, condenses into rain, falls down, and once again becomes ice and snow. ——Bi Shumin “Tibet, Facing the Ice for Ten Years”
62.大惊若静，大喜若傻，大苦无语，大悦反怯。——毕淑敏《花冠病毒》
62. Great alarm appears calm, great joy seems foolish, great suffering is speechless, and great pleasure turns timid. ——Bi Shumin “Flower Crown Virus”
63.有些东西，并不是越浓越好，要恰到好处。深深的话我们浅浅地说，长长的路我们慢慢地走。——毕淑敏《恰到好处的幸福》
63. Some things are not better the stronger they are, but rather just right. Let’s speak our deep words gently and walk our long roads slowly. ——Bi Shumin “Just the Right Amount of Happiness”
64.注视的目光应该是宁静而安然的，好像是我们在睛朗的天气，眺望远处的青山。——毕淑敏《愿你与这世界温暖相拥》
64. The gaze should be peaceful and composed, as if we are looking at the distant green mountains on a clear day. ——Bi Shumin “May You Embrace the World with Warmth”
65.磨砺内心比油饰外表要难得多，犹如水晶与玻璃的区别。——毕淑敏《素面朝天》
65. Polishing the inner self is much more difficult than adorning the exterior, just as the difference between crystal and glass. ——Bi Shumin “Facing the World with a Bare Face”
66.淑女必书女。——毕淑敏《愿你与这世界温暖相拥》
66. A lady must be a well-read woman. ——Bi Shumin “May You Embrace the World with Warmth”
67.在春天的日子里，扎上一条红纱巾，到野外的绿草地上，静静地晒太阳，听蚂蚁在石子上行走的声音。——毕淑敏《心灵处方》
67. In the days of spring, tie on a red scarf and go to the green grassland outside, bask quietly in the sun, and listen to the sound of ants walking on stones. ——Bi Shumin “Prescription for the Soul”
68.人生终要有一场触及灵魂的旅行。——毕淑敏《人生终要有一场触及灵魂的旅行》
68. Life must have a soul-touching journey. ——Bi Shumin “Life Must Have a Soul-Touching Journey”
70.生活中就像没有无缘无故的爱一样，也没有无缘无故的幸运。对于女人，无端的幸运更像一场阴谋一个陷阱的开始。——毕淑敏《愿你与这世界温暖相拥》
70. Just as there is no love without reason, there is no luck without reason. For women, unwarranted luck is more like the beginning of a conspiracy or a trap. ——Bi Shumin “May You Embrace the World with Warmth”
71.难过并不是因为死亡，我们可以接受死亡，难过的只是再也看不到自己的亲人了。因为分离而难过，并不是把死亡看得多么恐怖。——毕淑敏《愿你与这世界温暖相拥》
71. Sadness is not because of death; we can accept death. The sadness comes from the fact that we can no longer see our loved ones. The grief is due to separation, not because we view death as terrifying. ——Bi Shumin “May You Embrace the World with Warmth”
72.没有一个决定没有痛苦，你以为不做决定就没有痛苦了吗？错。那就更痛苦。要不就等到别人来为你作决定，那就不仅仅是痛苦，而且也是丧失了自由。为了自由，你必须做出决定。人生没有绝对的安全。只有绝对的不安全。——毕淑敏《女心理师》
72. No decision is without pain; do you think not making a decision eliminates pain? Wrong. It’s even more painful. Either wait for someone else to make the decision for you, which is not only painful but also a loss of freedom. For freedom, you must make a decision. Life has no absolute safety. There is only absolute insecurity. ——Bi Shumin “Female Psychologist”
73.人们常常在旅途中，猛地想起湮灭许久的往事，忆起许多故人的音容笑貌。好像旅行是一种溶剂，融化了尘封的盖子，如烟的温情就升腾出来了。——毕淑敏《愿你与这世界温暖相拥》
73. People often recall long-forgotten memories during their journeys, remembering the voices and smiles of many old friends. It seems that travel is a solvent that melts the sealed lid, allowing the warm smoke of nostalgia to rise. ——Bi Shumin “May You Embrace the World with Warmth”
74.旅行使人性中温暖的那些因子，弥散开来。旅途也有困厄和风雨，艰难和险恶。但是，这不会阻止真正的旅行者的脚步。旅行正是以一种充满未知的魅力，激起人们不倦的向往。——毕淑敏《愿你与这世界温暖相拥》
74. Travel spreads the warm elements of human nature. Although there are difficulties and storms, hardships and dangers on the journey, this will not stop the true traveler’s footsteps. Travel is precisely a charm full of the unknown, arousing people’s tireless yearning. ——Bi Shumin “May You Embrace the World with Warmth”
75.什么是好日子和坏日子的界线呢？我猜，是爱吧？——毕淑敏《愿你与这世界温暖相拥》
75. What is the boundary between good days and bad days? I guess it’s love. ——Bi Shumin “May You Embrace the World with Warmth”
76.怎样度过人生的低潮期？安静的等待；好好睡觉；锻炼身体，无论何时好的体魄都用得着；和知心的朋友谈天，基本上不发牢骚，主要是回忆快乐的时光；多读书，看一些传记，增长知识，顺带还可瞧瞧别人倒霉的时候是怎么挺过去的；趁机做家务，把平时忙碌顾不上的活儿都干完。——毕淑敏
76. How to get through the low points in life? Wait quietly; sleep well; exercise regularly, as a good physique is always useful; talk with close friends, mainly reminiscing about happy times rather than complaining; read more books, especially biographies, to gain knowledge and see how others have overcome difficulties; take the opportunity to do housework and finish tasks that were neglected due to busy schedules. —— Bi Shumin
77.我对赞同我的人，感悟的是他的善意。我对反对我的人，考察的是他的智慧。如果在赞同者那里看到的是逢迎，在反对者那里感觉的是愚昧，那么这两种人的意见我都不屑再听。——毕淑敏《关于人生的沉思》
77. For those who agree with me, I appreciate their kindness. For those who oppose me, I examine their wisdom. If I see flattery in the supporters and愚昧 in the opponents, I would not bother to listen to either group’s opinions. —— Bi Shumin, “Contemplations on Life”
79.我喜欢会做饭的女人，这是从远古传下来的手艺。博物馆描述猿人生活的图画，都绘着腰间绑着兽皮的女人，低垂着乳房，拨弄篝火，准备食物。可见烹饪对于女子，先于时装和一切其他行业。汤不一定鲜美，却要热。饼不一定酥软，却要圆。无论从爱自己还是爱他人的角度想，“食”都是一件大事。——毕淑敏《愿你与这世界温暖相拥》
79. I like women who can cook, as it is an ancient craft. In museum paintings depicting the lives of primitive people, women are shown with animal skins around their waists, sagging breasts, and tending to the campfire, preparing food. It is evident that cooking is more important for women than fashion and other industries. The soup may not be delicious, but it should be hot. The pancake may not be soft, but it should be round. From the perspective of loving oneself or others, “food” is a significant matter. —— Bi Shumin, “May You Embrace the World with Warmth”
80.年少时，没有力量和耐心，缓缓等待爱与被爱。期待一触即发呼天抢地的邂逅，喜欢山崩地裂九死一生的曲折。一旦失去，捶胸顿足。年龄大了才知道，那种经验多和灾难相连。——毕淑敏《花冠病毒》
80. When young, we lack the strength and patience to wait for love and being loved. We expect passionate encounters and dramatic, life-threatening twists. Once lost, we would be devastated. As we grow older, we realize that such experiences are often connected to disasters. —— Bi Shumin, “Corona Virus”
81.生命是为自己而存在。它是一种朴素而自然的事情，不是在众人之前的杂耍。——毕淑敏《关于人生的沉思》
81. Life exists for oneself. It is a simple and natural thing, not a performance before a crowd. —— Bi Shumin, “Contemplations on Life”
82.好心情并不来源于一帆风顺，而是生长于一种从容和坚定的勇气中。——毕淑敏《幸福的七种颜色》
82. A good mood does not come from smooth sailing but grows from a sense of calm and steadfast courage. —— Bi Shumin, “The Seven Colors of Happiness”
83.你不知道我不知道，我们永远都不需要知道。不要把错误想得那么分明。不要去讨论那个过程，把它像标本一样在记忆中固定。有些事情不值得总结，忘记它的最好方法就是绝不回头。也许那件事情很严重，但最大的改正是永不重复。——毕淑敏《西藏，面冰十年》
83. You don’t know, I don’t know, and we don’t need to know. Don’t think about mistakes so clearly. Don’t discuss the process; just fix it in memory like a specimen. Some things are not worth summarizing, and the best way to forget them is never to look back. Perhaps the matter is serious, but the greatest correction is to never repeat it. —— Bi Shumin, “Ten Years of Facing the Ice in Tibet”
84.到一个和现实的生活有很大反差的地方去旅游，在大自然的暴虐威力下，会真的开始珍惜自己的生命。——毕淑敏《蓝色天堂》
84. Travel to a place with a great contrast to your real life, and under the tyranny of nature, you will truly begin to cherish your life. —— Bi Shumin, “Blue Paradise”
85.有些中国人入了外国籍以后，标榜自己是个”香蕉人”，意思是自己除了外皮是黄色的，内心已变得雪白。而我是一个”芒果人”。——毕淑敏《芒果女人》
85. Some Chinese people who have acquired foreign citizenship boast about being “banana people,” meaning that they are yellow on the outside but have become white inside. I, however, am a “mango person.” —— Bi Shumin, “Mango Woman”
86.我羡慕流云的飞逝，嫉恨飞鸟的自由！——毕淑敏
86. I envy the fleeting clouds and resent the freedom of birds! —— Bi Shumin
87.所有的动力都来自内心的沸腾。如果你做不到一件事，无论是搞好关系，还是寻找爱人，还是减肥，都是因为你还没有真正想做。——毕淑敏《愿你与这世界温暖相拥》
87. All motivation comes from the boiling within. If you cannot do something, whether it is maintaining relationships, finding a lover, or losing weight, it is because you have not truly wanted to do it. —— Bi Shumin, “May You Embrace the World with Warmth”
88.如果在家里走来走去找不到家，你地老天荒地寻觅也是白搭。如果你的家不像家，唯一的方法是把它建设成家。——毕淑敏《蓝色天堂》
88. If you cannot find home while walking around your house, your endless search will be in vain. If your home does not feel like home, the only solution is to build it into one. —— Bi Shumin, “Blue Paradise”
89.我不喜欢任何关于征服高山的言论，以为那是人的菲薄和短视。真正的高山不可能被征服，它只是在某一个瞬间，宽容地接纳了登山者，让你在他头顶歇息片刻，给你一窥真颜的恩赐。如同一只鸟在树梢啼叫，它敢说自己把大树征服了吗？山的存在，让我们永葆谦逊和恭敬的姿态，知道在这个世界上，有一些事情必须仰视。——毕淑敏《愿你与这世界温暖相拥》
89. I don’t like any words about conquering high mountains, as it reflects the insignificance and short-sightedness of humans. A true mountain cannot be conquered; it’s just that at a certain moment, it generously accepts the climber, allowing you to rest on its summit for a moment and granting you a glimpse of its true face. Like a bird singing on a tree branch, does it dare to say it has conquered the tree? The existence of mountains reminds us to maintain a humble and respectful posture, knowing that in this world, there are things we must look up to. ——Bi Shumin “May You Embrace the World Warmly”
90.贫困不仅仅意味着没有金钱，还要看丧失了多少时间。——毕淑敏《愿你与这世界温暖相拥》
90. Poverty is not only about having no money, but also about how much time has been lost. ——Bi Shumin “May You Embrace the World Warmly”
91.佛说，前世的次回眸，才换来今生的擦肩而过。顿生气馁，这辈子是没的指望了，和谁路遇和谁接踵，和谁相亲和谁反目，都是命定，挣扎不出。——毕淑敏
91. Buddha said that it takes countless glances in past lives to earn a single encounter in this life. Feeling disheartened, it seems there is no hope for this life. Who we meet, who we walk side by side with, who we become close to, and who we become enemies with, are all predestined and cannot be struggled out of. ——Bi Shumin
92.我们要学会微笑，它是体内所有脏器的柔漫的舞蹈。——毕淑敏
92. We must learn to smile, for it is the gentle dance of all the organs in our body. ——Bi Shumin
93.赶快为你的父母尽一份孝心。也许是一处豪宅，也许是一片砖瓦。也许是大洋彼岸的一只鸿雁，也许是近在咫尺的一个口信。也许是一顶纯黑的博士帽，也许是作业簿上的一个红五分。也许是一桌山珍海味，也许是一只野果一朵小花。也许是花团锦簇的盛世华衣，也许是一双洁净的旧鞋。也许是数以万计的金钱，也许只是含着体温的一枚硬币……但“孝”的天平上，它们等值。——毕淑敏《孝心无价》
93. Hurry up and show filial piety to your parents. It could be a luxurious mansion, or a simple tile. It could be a message from the other side of the ocean, or a message close at hand. It could be a pure black doctoral cap, or a red five-point grade in a homework book. It could be a table of delicacies from the sea and the mountains, or a wild fruit or a small flower. It could be a splendid and gorgeous garment, or a pair of clean old shoes. It could be tens of thousands of dollars, or just a coin with body temperature… On the scale of filial piety, they are all equal. ——Bi Shumin “The Priceless Filial Piety”
94.人最脆弱的地方，原来就是“舍不得”。因为舍不得，才会“念念不忘，不求回响”，因为舍不得，才会在梦里相见；也是因为舍不得，稍微有点消息那颗心就会“澎湃如昨”……也是因为舍不得，在克罗地亚萨格勒布才有了“失恋博物馆”。——毕淑敏《人最脆弱的地方是舍不得》
94. The most vulnerable part of a person is actually “reluctance to let go.” Because of this reluctance, we “never forget, without seeking a response.” Because of this reluctance, we meet in dreams; also because of this reluctance, even a little news can make our hearts “surge as if it were yesterday”… Also because of this reluctance, there is a “Museum of Broken Relationships” in Zagreb, Croatia. ——Bi Shumin “The Most Vulnerable Part of a Person Is Reluctance to Let Go”
95.有些事情不值得总结，忘记它的最好方法就是绝不回头。也许那事情很严重，但最大的改正是永不重复。——毕淑敏《公主日记》
95. There are some things not worth summarizing; the best way to forget them is to never look back. Perhaps the matter is very serious, but the greatest correction is to never repeat it. ——Bi Shumin “Princess Diary”
96.佛说，前世的次回眸，才换来今生的擦肩而过。顿生气馁，这辈子是没的指望了，和谁路遇和谁接踵，和谁相亲和谁反目，都是命定，挣扎不出。——毕淑敏
96. Buddha said that it takes countless glances in past lives to earn a single encounter in this life. Feeling disheartened, it seems there is no hope for this life. Who we meet, who we walk side by side with, who we become close to, and who we become enemies with, are all predestined and cannot be struggled out of. ——Bi Shumin
97.人生有很多机会遭遇死亡。但不必害怕，属于我自己的只有一次，肯定不会重复。无论你怎样辗转腾挪，死神总会收网。……你就悄然驶过尘世，灵魂离开肉体，赶赴下一个早已达成的约定。那里有我的父母，我的祖先。所以，我不害怕，一点也不。——毕淑敏《蓝色天堂》
97. Life offers many opportunities to face death. But there is no need to be afraid, as I will only have one death that belongs to me, and it will never be repeated. No matter how I twist and turn, death will eventually close its net… You will quietly sail through the world, your soul leaving your body, and head to the next prearranged destination. There, my parents and ancestors await. So, I am not afraid, not at all. ——Bi Shumin “Blue Heaven”
98.素面朝天不是美丽女人的特有的专利，而是每个女人都可以选择的生存方式——毕淑敏
98. Having a plain face towards the sky is not the exclusive privilege of beautiful women; it is a way of life that every woman can choose. ——Bi Shumin
99.相信惟一，你就注定在茫茫人海东跌西撞寻寻觅觅，如同一叶扁舟，想捕获一匹不知潜在何处的鳟鱼，等待你的是无数焦渴的黎明和失眠的月夜。¬——毕淑敏《成千上万的丈夫》
99. Believing in the only one will doom you to wander and search in the vast sea of people, like a small boat trying to catch a salmon that may be hidden somewhere, waiting for countless thirsty dawns and sleepless moonlit nights. ——Bi Shumin “Thousands of Husbands”
100.真正的坚守，是没有人给予你任何承诺的，流逝的只是岁月，孑存的只是信念。一种苍凉中的无望守候，维系意志的只有心的一往无前——毕淑敏《星光下的灵魂》
100. True perseverance is when no one gives you any promises; what passes by is time, and what remains is faith. A desolate and hopeless waiting, maintaining one’s will with only the determination to move forward - Bi Shumin “Soul Under the Starlight”
101.崇高的侧面可以是平凡，但绝不是卑微！——毕淑敏《人生的沉思》
101. The noble side of greatness can be ordinary, but never humble! - Bi Shumin “Contemplation of Life”
102.趁阳光正好，趁微风不噪。趁繁花还未开至荼蘼，趁现在还年轻。还可以走很长很长的路，还能诉说很深很深的思念。去寻找那些曾出现在梦境中的路径、山峦与田野吧。——毕淑敏《人生终要有一场触及灵魂的旅行》
102. Seize the day while the sun is shining and the breeze is gentle. Before the flowers have bloomed to their fullest, while you are still young. You can still walk a long, long way and express deep, deep thoughts. Go in search of the paths, mountains, and fields that once appeared in your dreams. - Bi Shumin “A Journey That Touches the Soul of Life”
103.你表面的不屑，是因为你骨子里的不敢。——毕淑敏
103. Your apparent disdain is because of your inherent fear. - Bi Shumin
104.人生所有的问题，都是关系的问题。在所有的关系之中，你和你自己的关系最为重要。它是关系的总脐带。如果你处理不好和自我的关系，你的一生就不得安宁和幸福。你可以成功，但没有快乐。你可以有家庭，但缺乏温暖。你可以姹紫嫣红宾朋满座，但却不曾有高山流水患难之交。——毕淑敏《鱼在波涛下微笑》
104. All the problems in life are about relationships. Among all the relationships, the one with yourself is the most important. It is the central cord of relationships. If you cannot handle your relationship with yourself, your life will never be peaceful and happy. You may succeed, but without joy. You may have a family, but lack warmth. You may have a colorful life with many friends, but never a true confidant. - Bi Shumin “Fish Smile Under the Waves”
105.我们的生命，不是因为讨别人喜欢而存在的，我们是自在之物，我们不必讨任何人的喜欢，就可以欢天喜地地背负大地，面朝青天。只要你认定了这一点，枷锁就被打开，你就可以自由地呼吸了。——毕淑敏
105. Our lives exist not to please others, but as our own beings. We don’t need to please anyone to be joyful and embrace the earth, facing the blue sky. Once you accept this, the shackles will be released, and you can breathe freely. - Bi Shumin
106.我喜欢用干净的手段，抵达一个光明的理想。一个人活着，要使自己的幸福最大化，而且要让别人因为你的存在，幸福多一些。——毕淑敏
106. I like to use clean methods to reach a bright ideal. A person should maximize their own happiness and make others happier because of your existence. - Bi Shumin
107.也许世上的友谊万万千，装傻就是其中最简单好贵的一种——毕淑敏《鲜花手术》
107. Perhaps there are countless types of friendships in the world, but being naive is the simplest and most precious one among them. - Bi Shumin “Flower Surgery”
108.尴尬其实是人生经常遭遇到的一种状态，它有个小小的规律，你越是害怕它，它就越张牙舞爪，让你不知所措。如果你坦然处之，心想人非完人，谁都有出糗的时候，它也就泄了气。——毕淑敏
108. Awkwardness is actually a state that we often encounter in life. It has a small pattern: the more you fear it, the more it shows its teeth and claws, leaving you at a loss. If you face it calmly, thinking that no one is perfect and everyone has embarrassing moments, it will lose its power. - Bi Shumin
109.你的悲伤不是全世界都要知道，要学会一个人担当。——毕淑敏
109. Your sorrow does not need to be known to the whole world; learn to bear it alone. - Bi Shumin
110.我喜欢爱读书的女人。书不是胭脂，却会使女人心颜常驻；书不是棍棒，却会使女人铿锵有力；书不是羽毛，却会使女人飞翔；书不是万能的，却会使女人千变万化。不读书的女人，无论她怎样冰雪聪明，只有一世才情，可书中收藏着百代精华。——毕淑敏
110. I like women who love reading. Books are not makeup, but they keep a woman’s heart and face youthful; books are not weapons, but they make women strong and powerful; books are not feathers, but they enable women to fly; books are not omnipotent, but they make women ever-changing. A woman who doesn’t read, no matter how intelligent, only has one lifetime of talent, while books contain the essence of generations. - Bi Shumin
111.世间总会有些事情不像我们想的那样，生活在一个简单粗暴的世界，内心要保持地柔软安宁。这本书里不讲大道理，没有教条指南，只是与你分享一些心灵平和的主张、与世界相处的态度和拥有幸福的提醒，让你成为更好的自己——毕淑敏《愿你与这世界温暖相拥》
111. There will always be things in the world that are not as we imagine. Living in a simpl
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